Social Media Advice - 04.21.25

Social Media Advice today starts off with a woman who is concerned that her husband is becomming distant as she goes through "the change".

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
This one is from Erica and Newark.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Erica says, I am fifty and going through menopause. I
am afraid that my husband is not getting his needs
met and will cheat on me. I haven't been in
the mood for intimacy in a while. He told me
he's fine and he supports me during this time. But
he's coming home later, and he's been out on Saturdays
with his friends more than normal. I feel like he

(00:25):
is being more distant. Should I ask him if he's
got someone else?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
Well, you can ask, but I can assure you he
gonna say no.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Well, yeah, so.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
I don't know what y'all hoping to get. But his
only response is absolutely not.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
Yeah, I support you.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
Now, I don't know what menopause is. I don't really
understand this, so I'm staying off that subject.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
But obviously it got you feel in some kind of
way out yourself.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
So let's just lead at at that.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
And I don't want to start nothing on this show,
so let's just leave that right there. Here we go,
because I ain't said nothing, but I will say this,
There has been a lot of fan and on this
show before.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
We fans.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, all right, so she can ask him but she's
not going to get the truth, is what you're.

Speaker 4 (01:24):
Saying, Lady.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
Ain't the way in the world. He's gonna tell you that. Yeah,
and he may not be so no.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Yeah, well, hopefully she can get some meds to deal
with her menopause.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
And how said not be.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
I said that?

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah, I certainly said it.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
I didn't say that.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Yeah, it's okay. If you said it, it's okay.

Speaker 4 (01:47):
No, it's not it would be okay. Well, let me
just say this. If there is some.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Meds there is there are there is, I would.

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Buy them and have them on me at all.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
Time as a man for when and when.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
You started tripping. I take it.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
Y'all need something too, uh huh, hell yeah to deal
with y'all.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Oh no, anyway, No, all right, we have time for
another one, Steve. This one's from Destiny in Colombia. Destiny says,
my boyfriend is nine years older than I am. He's
divorced and brings his two children on a lot of
our dates. He has them two weekends a month, and
when he's not with the kids, he wants to go clubbing,

(02:30):
So I only get to hang out with him when
he's got the kids. He has left them. He has
left them with me a few times and they don't
even know me. Am I his girlfriend or a convenient
babysitter when he's got his kids.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
Yeah, you just feeling you, just feeling the void because
when he ain't with him, he go club.

Speaker 4 (02:48):
And if that.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Ain't with you, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
Girl, you need to know your role. Bye.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
He had found somebody to take care of the kids
and leave them with you while he go do something else.
And when he don't have the weekends with the kids,
he go club and without you.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Come on, Destiny, girl, what's.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
The matter with you? You don't see that. We saw it
in this little moment right here. We just heard it.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah, yep, come on, Destiny, you could do better. Seriously.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Yeah, it'll be.

Speaker 4 (03:22):
A rap though soon as you hear you ain't my mama?

Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah? Who are you?

Speaker 4 (03:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:27):
She said they don't even know her. She said, the
kids don't even know.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
I've had I've had it. I've had a child say that.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
To me before, not one of your.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
No, no, no, why well where are that though?

Speaker 2 (03:44):
I'm here?

Speaker 4 (03:45):
Yeah, this little boy was six years old. You ain't
my daddy? Well where at.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
Because according to your mama, you ain't never met him before.
So oh, little mouth hanging over. I tried to sting it.
You gonna wait to let mama go in the kitchen,
come talking about you ain't my daddy?

Speaker 2 (04:07):
What?

Speaker 4 (04:07):
What the hell is it according to.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
You, mamma, you ain't never met him, So I might
be your daddy and you don't even know it.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
So off to therapy for you.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
That's so crazy. Yeah, so Destiny please, you are a
convenient babysitter. You answered your own question in your own question. Yeah,
for sure.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
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