Social Media Advice - 04.29.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right. See this is from Nicole and Steve HARBFM.
Nicole says, my ex and I broke up nearly a
year ago, but because we share the same friend group,
he's still a regular part of my life. Recently told
me he started seeing someone new, and while he was
really respectful about how he shared it, it still hit
me like a punch in the gut. I don't want

(00:21):
to get back together with him, and I genuinely wish
him well, but I wasn't prepared for how hard it
would be to see him with someone else. He even
asked me for advice on date spots and gift ideas,
which feels painful. I don't want to make it awkward
for everyone else to lose my place in the group,
but I'm struggling emotionally. How do I keep things civil

(00:43):
when my heart still feels like a mess.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
Yeah, we'll just send him a text, you know what,
saying what. Don't ask me nothing else because personally, I
hope you die for me.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
I love you as.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
I asked me nothing else about this female dog. Don't
ask me nothing else about this female dog and what
she want. I don't give it. What you buy her?

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Wow? Yeah, okay, and get out the friend What do
you think clear? I mean, you know, start dating new friends?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yes, yeah, see see what we do to get over you,
we get another u immediately that evening.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
That even the rules.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
Be the same.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
If she starts dating and bring how man around the
group the friend group.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
He gonna he gonna wanna throw up too. See we
all be out there together throwing up, is what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yes, how about just a new friend group period? New
friends moving on that too.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
But see that's they are. They college people. They do
that the young They knew each other in college. So
they little friend group. Our sons got that.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
They look group.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
They look they little group too. Tell all right, so
you know what they specialize in? What faking? Like they
got money? That's their specialty. Facing like they got money?

Speaker 1 (02:17):
What was what they drive? How they faking because you
got money?

Speaker 2 (02:22):
How they faking your kid there in that group? They
be faking too.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
But how they have money? You got money?

Speaker 2 (02:30):
No? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, they don't know
they're don't. Yeah no I have money.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Yeah so they really affiliated with Yeah you affiliated?

Speaker 2 (02:41):
But I have that? Do you have to know that?
Do they know that already? They do you have money?
They don't do they know they you're asking them.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Your kids.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
You're gonna ask any one of my kids. They tell you,
he don't give us nothing.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
No, no, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.
This is from Jordan on Steve HARVEFM. Jordan says, I
found an air tag hidden in my car. Then I
found another one in the pocket of a jacket I
always wear. I asked my girlfriend about it, and she's
been tracking me for a couple of months and she's
really happy that I've been honest with her about where

(03:18):
I say I'm going when we're not together. I guess
it was some kind of BS loyalty test. How much
of a red flag is this?

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Well, you finding air tags?

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah, she's trying.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
She tracking you, don iman, I think it may not
be for you. It made probably some baggage she has.
She's been cheated on before and that's her, that's her way,
So she has, like surely just saying some trust issues.
So yeah, there is a red flag or she has to.
You know, if she's not gonna trust you, that's not

(03:52):
gonna work. Even if you're not doing nothing, because if
I know you checking on me, and I ain't doing nothing,
then I'm gonna have to give you a reason you.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Can do something.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
I don't want to. It's not right for you to
be checking for nothing.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
I don't want to let you down. That's what they say.
When you're looking, you usually find some kind of stuff.
So this is a red flag for him, you're saying.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
I mean it is man. Because she's got to work
through some things. She may never fully trust you. That's
sad because the relationship is built on trust.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
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