Social Media Advice - 05.09.25

Steve Harvey Has Advice for...

• Diva in Savannah: "I wash and fold my boyfriend’s clothes and take them to his house weekly. I also have dinner ready for him most evenings or I meet him out for dinner. We’re either at his house or mine after dinner and we either go for a walk, have wine, watch a movie or just sit and talk. Sex isn’t a big thing to him so sometimes we only have sex once a week. No matter what, every night around 11pm, he gets up to go home. If I’m at his house, he starts hinting that it’s getting late and time for him to go to bed. He will follow me all the way home and then go back to his house. This has been going on for almost a year. Am I supposed to go along with this and pretend to like it?"
• Ashley in Chicago: "My husband and his former best friend had a nasty argument and it almost turned into a fist fight, all because of me. Apparently, they all planned to rent an Airbnb and have dancers come over for a bachelor party for one of their friends. My husband said he wasn’t going and they called him soft and henpecked. My husband made his own decision. Why are grown men still behaving like children?"

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right.

Speaker 2 (00:00):
See this is from Diva and Savannah. Diva says, I
wash and fold my boyfriend's clothes and take them to
his house weekly. I also have dinner ready for him
most evenings, or I meet him out for dinner. We're
either at his house or mine after dinner, and we
either go for a walk, have wine, watch a movie,
or just sit and talk. Sex isn't a big thing

(00:21):
to him, so sometimes we only have sex once a week,
no matter what. Every night, around eleven PM, he gets
up to go home. If I'm at his house, he
starts hinting that it's getting late and time for him
to go to bed. He will follow me all the
way home and then go back to his house. This
has been going on for almost a year. Am I

(00:42):
supposed to go along with this and pretend to like it?
That's what Diva wants to know.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Well, there's eleven o'clock. He's level cloth Huh the dot
leve level. It's level. You see what's happening? It's leven?

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Why are you asking me about this right now? It
ain't It always been eleven. Either I got to go
either I got to go home, or you got to
go home. But it's leven.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
What's happening at the left?

Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:16):
What do you mean the wife comes home?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
No? Yeah, yeah, no, she.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
Don't come home because you can't hide a woman been
at your house for the day. You cannot hide a
woman been at your house for a year, not from
no woman.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
That's cutting it close.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
What is just dip in this couch over on this side?
For what?

Speaker 3 (01:42):
You always sit on that side over there? And why
the dips small because it ain't my butt print. My
buttprint don't even fit in here. Well, what had you
been in here doing?

Speaker 1 (01:54):
So the eleven.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
O'clock, I think is he turns into what he's not married,
but he could be seen someone else.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
And she got hours too. Everybody got ours.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
It's a shift and you got you got the afternoon
shift before to eleven.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Those the sex once a week kind of give you
a here.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, yeah, Andy, And if you can, if you know
the day that you're getting it home, do you want
the schedule.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Every Tuesday?

Speaker 1 (02:35):
Wednesday? Yeah, that's it. It's just Wednesday. Yeah, that's it.
Ain't ain't nothing you can do back?

Speaker 2 (02:44):
All right, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.
This is from Ashley in Chicago. Ashley says, my husband
and his former best friend had a nasty argument and
it almost turned into a fistfight, all because of me.
They all planned to rent an airbnb and have dancers
come over for a bachelor party for one of their friends.

(03:06):
My husband said he wasn't going, and they called him
soft and soft and impact. My husband made his own decision.
Why are grown men still behaving like children?

Speaker 1 (03:17):
See, this ain't your business.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Your husband ain't telling you the whole story. They ain't
get in no almost fist fight because he ain't coming.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Oh what was the fight about?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Well, see they all was supposed to split this.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
A strip for money and making it rain money.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Naw, he done came out talking about he ain't going,
and everybody had their two hundred. Now since he out,
now everybody got put here five fifty. That finn'd be
a problem.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
But you wouldn't be mad if someone called you soft
or a impact. That wouldn't make me mad.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
That ain't.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
That ain't why they That ain't what's it's. There is
a gap in this story that the lady don't know about.
Trust me, they real good friends. They're not fighting over that.
It's some other words in there that you don't know
about it. It's a deal got cut that you are
unaware of, and he ain't gonna keep up his ends

(04:12):
of the deal. Then they started arguing out, Oh he
got called soft and everything, but he's way more to
the story than that lady, way more.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
We ain't gonna fall out, but it I ain't coming
to the stripples. That ain't why we fighting. Yeah, just
go to break show.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
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