Social Media Advice - 05.21.25

• Veda in Raleigh: "Over 20 years ago, my sister had sex with my boyfriend. I ran into the guy at our class reunion recently and he told me what happened. He said that my sister came on to him because I had told her that he was good in bed. He said she teased him about being scared to have sex with someone older than him, so he did it to prove her wrong. I believe him. How could my sister do that? She has kept this secret for years. I want to confront her, but is it worth it?"

 

 

• Duane in Monroe: "I walked in on my girlfriend talking to another guy. She was asking if he was okay and if he needed anything. She said she was going to bring food by because he needed to eat something. I asked her if the guy had a death in the family and she said he was sad over a breakup. I think it’s inappropriate for my girl to be consoling her grown co-worker after a breakup. I told her that he’s setting her up to see how nice she can be. Am I wrong for how I feel about this?"

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Steve, this is from Vita and Raleigh.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Vita says, over twenty years ago, my sister had sex
with my boyfriend. I ran into the guy at our
class reunion recently and he told me what happened. He
said that my sister came on to him because I
had told her that he.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Was good in dead.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
He said she teased him about being scared to have
sex with someone older than him, so he did it
to prove her wrong. I believe him. How could my
sister do that? She has kept this secret for years.
I want to confront her, but is it worth it.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
This is Vita, twenty years ago. I don't know if
it was worth it. I don't know. Now, let me
ask you this question, Shirley, because I think I'm over lost.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Huh how did she find out about it? To do?
Just volunteered the information?

Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, yeah, she ran into him at their class reunion
and he told her what happened.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
Oh, they not seeing each other.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
She just ran into him class reuning. This happened over
twenty years ago, Stee, and he brought that up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's a real nothing dude, man, exactly, that's.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
A real nothing dude. And if I were you, I
would not allow him to ruregue in your sister's relationship
like that, because you had a where did this devil
come from? From? Under this rock? We had twenty year reunion,
and that he been the whole time he been thinking
of telling.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
You this.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Dude, man, Yeah, what is he looking like after twenty years? Anyway?
What he the same he had?

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Which is really what's throwing up exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
That's what come on, That's what I want to get through.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Yeah, because I've seen some people from my past. I've
had a woman say you remember.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Me, uh huh, and and you said.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
All I remembered wasn't the voice. Have you noticed that
when you get older, your face and head gets bigger?

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Is that true? Boy?

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Look at your old pictures.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, your face and head is bigger than it was
in college.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Yeah. The face gets a little wider, Yeah, the face, Yeah,
and some.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
Of them get wider than normal. I was talking to
that girl. It looked like her whole face was shut.
Was shut everything that comes to your mind?

Speaker 1 (02:40):
Can you open your face?

Speaker 2 (02:42):
One?

Speaker 3 (02:44):
We can talk all right, your face in the box.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
We're moving on. We have time for another one, Steve.
This one is from Dwayne in Monroe. Uh, Dwayne says,
I walked in on my girlfriend and talking to another guy.
She was asking if he was okay and if he
needed anything. She said she was going to bring some
food by because he needed to eat something. I asked
her if the guy had a death in the family,

(03:11):
and she said he was sad over a breakup. I
think it's inappropriate for my girl to be counseling her
grown coworker after a breakup. I told her that he's
setting her up to see how nice she can be.
Am I wrong for how I feel about this?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Am I wrong? No, you ain't wrong. You ain't got wrong.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
But your problem is how your girl don't see no
wrong in what she doing. See. You can't disrespect your man.
I'm just telling you that right now. And you can't
have your man thinking for one moment that there's another
man in front of him. No more than a woman
can feel like there's another woman in front of her.

(03:54):
That ain't gonna make that ain't gonna make no sense
to nobody in a relation.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
Bringing all of ose and their food on over here.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Oh yeah, you ain't taking nobody nothing he ain't got
nobody can take him some soup and how you just
concerned about his happiness exactly.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
And he doesn't have a cold. What is she taking
food over there for?

Speaker 3 (04:19):
I don't know what he's saying to get that.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yeah, soup and stuff.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
That's a cure for a breakup, all right, all right,
thanks Steve, coming up in twenty minutes after. We'll have
more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
Soup and pennies. Now that's another one I could get
him too. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.