Social Media Advice - 05.27.25

Steve Harvey has advice for a woman who is questioning recently breaking up with her boyfriend. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Steve.

Speaker 2 (00:00):
This is from Dasia on Steve Harvey FM. Daja says,
I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he
was too emotionally immature for a serious relationship. But the
way he handled the breakup completely threw me off. He
said he didn't want it to end, but that he
respected my decision and he'd always care about me. No guilt, trip,

(00:22):
no drama, just kindness and grace. It was a most
mature reaction I've ever gotten from anyone. Now I can't
stop wondering if I was wrong about him, or is
this just breakup guilt playing tricks on me.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Well, I don't know what breakup guilt is, but I
do know this though. You know, maybe you had the
wrong expectations. You know, sometimes you have maybe your partner
don't know exactly what you.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
Want, okay, and not able to give it to you.

Speaker 3 (00:55):
So then now all of a sudden, but you may
have realized, you know, but there's a lot of people
give up with good people. Yeah, people do it all
the time. They just give up good people. And you
may have done that.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Just now.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
Now you finna be by yourself, you know, And and
that and that man with them problems that you think
is emostly immature. Gonna go find somebody else that's gonna
think he's just right, and then you're gonna be looking
crazy again.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
So there you have it. That's your answer.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Could be another great decision you made. Ain't the last
time you've been by yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
Well, she's thinking about did she do the wrong thing or.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Messed it up?

Speaker 1 (01:39):
You don't think broke up the guy?

Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah, that's what it is. Yes, she's thinking she did
the wrong thing. So now what you want me to do?
It's the most maturest thing you do. Maybe he was
waiting on the breakup to act mature. Maybe he was
acting immature, so you could break up. We don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
We don't, but we do know she broke up with him,
and she's having that. We know how to make you
leave us? Hello?

Speaker 3 (02:03):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Oh good? Is that a bad time? Hello? Really? I
don't know about this response to guys.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
You guys are too emotionally immature to handle this, this one.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
I see. We're going to move on.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Terry on Steve HARVEYFM says, it seems like it seems
that after a month of watching YouTube videos and television,
my nineteen year old son has decided that one year
of college is enough and that his future lies in
house flipping. He's calling it, quote, easy money, and is
now suggesting that I take the money I was going

(02:41):
to use for his tuition and instead give it to
him now. So huh, yeah, instead give it to him
now so he can go in with a friend and
finance their first fixer upper project that he can flip
and be on their way to millions. I know it's
not that easy, and I don't want to ever crush

(03:02):
someone's dreams, but those dreams have to have some basis
in reality.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
What should I do?

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Yeah, he wants to leave college and start flipping houses
and make millions.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Well, you know, whip out.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yep. But the part that scares me is he says
easy money. Right, that's the part that threw you easy money, brod.
There's no such thing. All the ease, all the casts
I know that made some easy money, they imprison everlast,
if you don't want to go to college, I understand

(03:39):
that if you want to start flipping houses, I got that.
But let me ask you just a basic question.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
To flip the house, you got to own the house.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
To own the house, you got to buy the house
now when you drop out of college. I don't knowing
where you got the down payment on your first house from.
I don't know you got it through some Now let
me just show you how this ain't easy. Okay, flipping
houses means plural?

Speaker 1 (04:11):
How's this? How long is it going to.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Take you to flip the first one?

Speaker 1 (04:17):
But I need you to flip out my house for gus?
You flipping? That's it, thank you.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
Son's no easy money.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
Go ahead. He thinks he wants to be on his
way to millions.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Yeah, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.