Social Media Advice - 06.02.25

Love & Life Advice from the one and only, Steve Harvey.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
This one is from Charles and Arlington Steve. He says,
I've been with my side chick for about five years,
and she surprised me by telling me she's getting married.
I've invested a lot into her, and she knows if
I could be with her, I would. I thought she
would have at least told me she was dating someone
on the side. I really do love her, I just
needed more time. Am I being selfish to be? This upsets.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Well? Yeah, dog, because when you say she's.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
Your side chick, that means you have a wife or
fiance or somebody you live with. She'd have made a move.
She saw no future in it, you know, dog, you can't. Hey, man, Look,
once a woman learns the rules and starts applying the rules.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Why you mad.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
You wanted her to stay number two when she had
an opportunity to be number one?

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Boy, man, come on for five years? It's a town.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
No, no, hey, don't go go live your life, Go
go do something now.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, she didn't want to be there, No, right, she
had a man. All right, We do have time for
another one, Steve. This is from Brie and Tampa. Brie says,
my kids spent the weekend with their dad, and I
had company come in town. Their dad had a work
emergency and had to go out of town, so I
told him to take the kids to his parents' house.

(01:27):
He didn't want to do that, and he insisted that
I take the kids. I have them full time. So
why can't he be a parent when it's his weekend?
Was I wrong for not allowing the kids to come
back home while I had a visitor?

Speaker 4 (01:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:43):
You Jewels, his turn. It was his turn. You know,
you got him full time. It was his turn. Let
him take the parents over there, him, had the parents
come pick up the kids. Do something, y'all work it out.
Is your weekd a dog? You got to work emergency?

Speaker 2 (02:02):
That them kids going to see something? Yeah? No, mama,
who is this your new daddy? Be quiet?

Speaker 1 (02:15):
You ain't my daddy?

Speaker 2 (02:17):
I am this weekend?

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Wow, she had company come in town?

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Okay, all right? Kids are? How bad these kids?

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Is?

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Then when the father won't come back and get them.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Or the grandparents.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
They don't want to be bothered? Yeah? Yeah, I can't
let the new friends he this.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah, so Steve, what are you saying? He's defaulting on
his dad duty? By nuts?

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Look, man, it's your weekend. Now you want to bring
them back? She got planned. Everybody need a break, man, Yeah,
these mothers has got full custy kids. When it's your weekend,
it's your weekend rush. Everybody need a break.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
On the air.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Really, Tommy, he's done it done worse? Is he jealous?
Stevie think that she had company?

Speaker 3 (03:20):
Well he doesn't know why that she's not telling him why.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
It's just no, he had a work emergency. Everybody got
work emergency. Work it out. We all got them. Tell
your job.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
Hey, look, I got to drop my kids off at
my parents house.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
I'll be there right away. Yeah, that's all. It ain't
that big emergency down at your job. You ain't the police.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Now.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
If you're a homicide, you gotta get out there because
you got to get all this as much as information
as you can before forty eight hours, because.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
Is less chances, just lesson solving your crime.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
If you don't get a lead in the first forty
eight hours, y'all need to notice that.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Could you have been a police police officer, Steve? You
think so in another life?

Speaker 4 (04:12):
Oh no, because I don't care what Yeah, I don't
care enough first forty eight hours. Hey, it's all I
do is learn how many ways you can get busted.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
So when I'm intring my kids, I know what I'm
talking about.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
No, oh, it's research for you, just purely research. You're
listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.