June 4, 2025 • 4 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Steve.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
This one is from Selena and Tyler. Selena says, my
oldest son is ten, and his dad and I got
divorced after he was born. We do a great job
at co parenting. I have a four year old boy
by the last guy that I was engaged to. He
died when my son was only a year old. My
ex husband allows my four year old to spend weekends
(00:22):
at his house so he won't feel left out. I
get emotional when my ex picks up both of my
boys because it's such a sweet thing to do. I've
considered asking my ex husband to adopt my four year
old son so he can have a daddy too. Would
that be too much to ask for?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
You think, well, I mean that really depends on how
the man feels about your son. It's not a far
out request. I think you would have to go at
it with the mindset of would you ever consider this?
Just say ever and just put it in his head
that way first. If I'll start the conversation with you
(01:01):
know what, I really get emotional when I see you
pick up my son and I know he isn't yours.
And we've had a cool relationship since our divorce. And
you love our son so much, and I really thank
you for not making his little brother feel badly. And
he just loves you so much. And I just want
(01:24):
you to think about this, if you would ever consider,
just ever consider adopting him so he could have a
dad too. I think that would mean the world to
him and to me. But there's no pressure. I just
want you to think about it, because he just loves
being around you, and you know his brother so and
(01:45):
I would put it to him like that.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It's not a bad request. Oh, he's a hell of
a dude.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
And what makes it easier is your fiance after y'all
had baby, guy, that makes it easier.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
You had to say that we know that we want
to do. I just want to throw the obviously you
live and you can't go in there with that.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Too far an inch too far, but said Shirley, And
I know he just up like, what right? You drop
the mic? Yeah, profile, Yeah, we have time for another one, sir.
This one's from Yvette. Yvette in Oklahoma City says, how
(02:36):
soon it's too soon to get comfortable and let my
guard down with the guy I'm dating. We've been together
for almost five months and I got my hair done
more often. I put on makeup every day to impress him.
I even sleep in it. I'm also tired of wearing
thongs to bed for him. I want to go back
to sleeping in boxers. Okay, I don't get much sleep
(02:57):
because I'm trying to sleep cute. How much longer do
I have to pretend that I'm somebody that I'm not.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Please advise? Yes, yes she is. Take off the mask,
my bonnet.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Yeah, come on, Steve.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
How much longer, she says, does she have to pretend?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Just a little bit longer?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
She locks them in.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
You have to hear these words.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
I love you really changed my life. This is what
you need here.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Man.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
You've made my life so much better. I can't see
living without you. Man, you everything. You're the one. A
lot of women break down too quick. It's not time.
He can't see you yet.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
She can't take a wig off nothing.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
You can't take your wig off, And to be on
that little white pham makeup on.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Wet, well, no, you gotta see her, but not now.
To be quiet. You stay out of this.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
It's been five months. Some of y'all breaking down too
fast in the shock factor. You ain't let the love
sit in whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
We he love you, He'll stick around, all right, don't
do that.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
So I hope you got that he bet. I hope
you got that evet in Oklahoma City.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
You can start sleeping neck that you won't have that
throng problem.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
All right, Steve.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
This one is from Selena and Tyler. Selena says, my
oldest son is ten, and his dad and I got
divorced after he was born. We do a great job
at co parenting. I have a four year old boy
by the last guy that I was engaged to. He
died when my son was only a year old. My
ex husband allows my four year old to spend weekends
(00:22):
at his house so he won't feel left out. I
get emotional when my ex picks up both of my
boys because it's such a sweet thing to do. I've
considered asking my ex husband to adopt my four year
old son so he can have a daddy too. Would
that be too much to ask for?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
You think, well, I mean that really depends on how
the man feels about your son. It's not a far
out request. I think you would have to go at
it with the mindset of would you ever consider this?
Just say ever and just put it in his head
that way first. If I'll start the conversation with you
(01:01):
know what, I really get emotional when I see you
pick up my son and I know he isn't yours.
And we've had a cool relationship since our divorce. And
you love our son so much, and I really thank
you for not making his little brother feel badly. And
he just loves you so much. And I just want
(01:24):
you to think about this, if you would ever consider,
just ever consider adopting him so he could have a
dad too. I think that would mean the world to
him and to me. But there's no pressure. I just
want you to think about it, because he just loves
being around you, and you know his brother so and
(01:45):
I would put it to him like that.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It's not a bad request. Oh, he's a hell of
a dude.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
And what makes it easier is your fiance after y'all
had baby, guy, that makes it easier.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
You had to say that we know that we want
to do. I just want to throw the obviously you
live and you can't go in there with that.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Too far an inch too far, but said Shirley, And
I know he just up like, what right? You drop
the mic? Yeah, profile, Yeah, we have time for another one, sir.
This one's from Yvette. Yvette in Oklahoma City says, how
(02:36):
soon it's too soon to get comfortable and let my
guard down with the guy I'm dating. We've been together
for almost five months and I got my hair done
more often. I put on makeup every day to impress him.
I even sleep in it. I'm also tired of wearing
thongs to bed for him. I want to go back
to sleeping in boxers. Okay, I don't get much sleep
(02:57):
because I'm trying to sleep cute. How much longer do
I have to pretend that I'm somebody that I'm not.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Please advise? Yes, yes she is. Take off the mask,
my bonnet.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Yeah, come on, Steve.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
How much longer, she says, does she have to pretend?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Just a little bit longer?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
She locks them in.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
You have to hear these words.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
I love you really changed my life. This is what
you need here.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Man.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
You've made my life so much better. I can't see
living without you. Man, you everything. You're the one. A
lot of women break down too quick. It's not time.
He can't see you yet.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
She can't take a wig off nothing.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
You can't take your wig off, And to be on
that little white pham makeup on.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Wet, well, no, you gotta see her, but not now.
To be quiet. You stay out of this.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
It's been five months. Some of y'all breaking down too
fast in the shock factor. You ain't let the love
sit in whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
We he love you, He'll stick around, all right, don't
do that.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
So I hope you got that he bet. I hope
you got that evet in Oklahoma City.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
You can start sleeping neck that you won't have that
throng problem.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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