Social Media Advice - 07.10.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Michael on Steve HARVEYFM writes, I really love my girlfriend.
She's smart, loyal, and one of the kindest people I've
ever known, But she has major trust issues and always
assumes the worst. She constantly thinks I'm cheating. I'm not,
that I think something's wrong with her. I don't, or
that I'm about to leave. I have no plans to. Ironically,

(00:22):
the only real problem in our relationship is her believing
there are problems that don't exist. How do I here's
this question, how do I help her feel secure without
feeling like I'm constantly being cross examined?

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Well, she gonna have to go to therapy. Yeah, this
is not cred because brouh. I don't know if there's
nothing you can do right. See, you can't change anything
that you haven't done. You it's hard to it's hard
to change something you're being accused of that you're not doing.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
What right? What other action can you possibly take?

Speaker 2 (01:03):
She has to go and talk to somebody about her
trust issues, about the baggage that she's bringing from previous
relationships obviously, and talk about how the hurt she's carried
it into the next relationship, which causes a bunch of
anxiety in her and you.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
And what is anxiety? Loss of control of two things.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Worry about the past and the future, and you have
nothing to do with either one of those. And once
you put the burden of considering everything that's happened to
you and everything that could happen to you tomorrow, you
finished suffer from anxiety.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
She need therapy.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
Answer right there?

Speaker 3 (01:50):
I did, I was, I did radio just now, I
did radio.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
All right, let's see how long this lasts, all right?
Ava Steve Harve FM says, I'm twenty five and I
still haven't found a job that feels like a good fit.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
I got tired.

Speaker 1 (02:08):
I got fired from my first job out of college,
which wrecked my confidence, and the two jobs since then
just felt wrong from the start. Either the culture was
toxic or the work didn't challenge me. I'm living at
home with my and my parents have been supportive, but
I'm starting to feel like their patience is running out,
and honestly, so is mine. How do I keep my

(02:29):
head up when it feels like nothing I try is working.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Well, here's the major problem. You're not living in your gift.
You're trying to fit into a job, and you're not
having any requirements of anything fitting into you. Stop taking
jobs just for the pay, because going to work every day,

(02:55):
I don't care who you.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Are is hard.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
And there are people who have just managed somehow to
make a life of it anyway. But it's very, very
challenging to go to work every day, down to a
place that you don't like or enjoy. It's hard, and
there are millions of people who exist that way. I
strongly suggest that you find out what your gift is

(03:18):
and live in that. You're never going to be happy
doing something just to be doing it.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
This younger generation they quit if they don't like the job,
they'll just quit.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
We never, We couldn't. We didn't have that.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
Luxury growing up. If we didn't like the job, we
just had to work at it until we found something else.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
You know.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
We couldn't use to.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
The top of the food yeah right away, right, we
could not just quit? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Like that?

Speaker 2 (03:44):
All you can do what I finally learned how to do.
You can have your job sponsor your dreams.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
You know, what do you mean?

Speaker 2 (03:52):
Go to a job that you don't really care for.
It's okay to be uncomfortable sometimes it's okay.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yes, that's how you have to.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
You have to get that way. Sometimes you're gonna have
to do some stuff you're uncomfortable doing. That's called growth.
Convenience is built through inconvenience. You got to do some
inconvenient stuff to eventually become convenient. So take a job
that you don't care for, that you don't really like
that you're struggling with, get yourself some money and have

(04:20):
that money finance your dreams. What is it you would
really like to do, Save your money to open your
business or your company.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
Because you sound like you hard to work with.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yeah, all right, I wasn't expecting that we'll have more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up where you
had one.

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Job and got fired. You ain't good.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.