Social Media Advice - 08.13.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right. See this is from Wanda in Shreveport. Wanda says,
I have a niece that my husband and I raised.
Her mom is my sister, and my sister needs to
borrow some money from us to get an apartment. My
husband told her that we've done all we can do.
I pleaded with him, and he said that we helped
my sister's child, and now that she has grown, we're done.

(00:22):
If it was his sister, he would gladly get it
to her. Would I be wrong to give my sister
the money she needs?

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Well, here we go again.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
If the money that your sister needs has to come
out of you and your husband's joint money, then you're
gonna have to have a discussion.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
With your husband.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
He already couldn't know that.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
He said no, And that's because they don't have the
faux bank accounts I've told people to get. Now, if
you had your own money, your separate allowance, you could
do with it what you want. And if he had
his own separate he can help his sister, his brother
without referring to you. But once you have to go
into the joint account, you're gonna have to have this discussion.
And this is what you're having a problem because you

(01:04):
say yes and he say no. So now, if you're
going to do it anyway, you're gonna create a ripple
in your house. Yeah, and that's just all to it.
So if the ripple is worth it, then go ahead.
I don't do ripples no more.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Your ripple free.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Like.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
So, you're saying that your husband would gladly do it
for his sister, but we're not talking about that case
right now. We're talking about your sister. And y'all haven
already raised her child. Now, if you continue to enable
your sister, what is your sister gonna do for herself?

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, that's what she want got up money for an
apartment she wants to get.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Well, I understand that. Then you know, I personally would
help my sister. But yeah, it's gonna create a problem though. Yeah,
just know that going in next question.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
All right, all right, we have time for another one.
This is from Christian and Decatur. Christian says, it's been
twenty years since I saw my ex girlfriend and she's married. Now,
that didn't stop us from having sex. I was cool
with having sex with her while she was in town
for the weekend. Yeah, that's what it says, but it
was heavy on her conscience. When she got back home,

(02:19):
she opened up to her husband and told her about
our fling. He has called me several times. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
he has called me several times saying he wants to
talk about what happened. I did not sign up for that.
Do I have to talk to this man about what
I did? Wow, he ain't gonna talk to you.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
No, this is not gonna be about time he gonna
do something to you.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Well, she was feeling guilty, so she get her conscience. Yeah, well,
she was feeling guilty. Well, Sureley, I'm with Steve and
Tommy some you got take tea green all right, greedy
as Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
I ain't ever felt no guilt like that.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Okay, really well, she was feeling guilty so much so
that she confessed to her husband.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
Oh that's too much. You got another conversation. You got
to talk to people and know that they're gonna do
that kind of stuff. You gotta you gotta, you gotta
know what people.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
You need to run that by your free in the
something first, for you go in that confessing. Before you confess,
run it by somebody.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
You haven't you ever done something Steve, You guys, that
has been weighing heavily on your mind. You know, haven't
you ever done something like that? I wanted to get
it off you. You wanted to get it off you guilt? Yeah, yeah,
that's what she's That's.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
What she did. Got me when I took a shower,
I get it off.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
For real, refreshed, we through, we through mind clear, all
minds clear an clip. But she couldn't do that. She
could not do that. She couldn't live with that guilt
on her conscience.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
So you go tell your husband you cheat it.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Yeah, tell your husband you cheat it. And not only
do you put yourself in jeopardy, but you put the
person you cheat it with in jeopardy. I mean, it
was just a fling to him. Well, oh my goodness, right,
you're gonna do it is Shut up. She broke all

(04:32):
the cheating rules on me.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
Listen to me, it'll go away.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
All right.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
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