Social Media Advice - 08.21.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Steve, here we go TJ on Steve BARBIFM says,
one of my girlfriend's friends told me that my girlfriend
is expecting me to propose soon. I don't know where
that came from, because it's not something I've ever said
or that we've discussed. It really got me thinking about
the relationship and where it's going. Honestly, I love her
and we've had a great time, but I've never wanted

(00:23):
to get married. Now that I know that she really
wants to get married, I'm wondering if it's fair to
appear to be stringing her along, but I don't want
to break up. What's the right way to handle this.
I guess I should find out if it's even true first, right.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
Oh, it's true. I can tell you that right now.
It's true. A lot of women want to be married
when they think they have the right guy. And you
do love this girl, and you really having a wonderful time,
and she's thinking, man, this could be it. I hope
he asked me to marry him now. The fact that
you don't want to get married is a conversation you

(01:01):
need to have. But see now, if you want to
snow her, then keep acting like it's a consideration of yours,
knowing full well you don't want to get married. I
think you should have a conversation with this young lady
in all fairness, And let me tell you something, young man.
I don't know how old you are, but don't you

(01:22):
mess up and let a good one get away and
then two years later you decide you want to get married,
and now you got to go find another her and
it might not happen, Homie, what she get through because
a lot of them think that.

Speaker 1 (01:38):
What about it?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Why she wont to get married? Why why wouldn't she
want to get married and have it.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
I understand she wants to get married. Why is it
in your head that you think he's about to propose?
And y'all ain't even because it at all, Because, Tommy,
when a woman is sitting in the room herself, her
mind free to go wherever she want, this is what
she won't.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
And she told our girlfriend that.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
She told her girlfriend, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
This is what she said. This is what I think
he want to do. I think I think he's gonna
propose to me. So she'd have worked that up in
her head and she giddy about it. Tommy, the girlfriend
went to hear the girlfriend.

Speaker 4 (02:22):
What hell she get that from?

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah? Exactly, That's exactly what he says, Steve.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
Where'd she get there from? Say that.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
And tell me you're married? So I don't even know
why you're mad about this? All right, let's move on.
We have time for another one, Steve. This is CEC
on Steve Harvey FM. CEC says, I recently found out
that my boyfriend has a second phone. While he was
in the shower, his phone was on the dresser, but
then I heard ringing coming from his pants on the floor.

(02:55):
I pulled another Yeah, I pulled out another phone from
his pants with a miss skull from an unknown number.
At first I convinced myself it was either someone else's
phone or maybe a work phone, so I didn't say anything.
But now my mind won't stop going to the worst
place that he's hiding a whole secret life. That was
about three weeks ago. Should I say something or is

(03:18):
it too late?

Speaker 2 (03:19):
She said, this is her boyfriend?

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, her boyfriend has a second phone.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, well you got two?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah yeah? So she wants to know what's going.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
In l A and you work with me every morning?
How many phones did.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
I have maybe three. It was a lot.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
I had three phones.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Back, yeah, three three phones, yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Three phones. One was for business, one was for personal,
and one was for the wife.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Wait wait, wait, and the wife should be one that
should be one that should be wait personal phone, you
personally and your wife should be the same, falling bone, right,
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
She wasn't personal. She was my wife.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Okay. And the difference is because you're not making any
sense right.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
Now, makes sense to make sense your nerves with this
lot of sense.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
Sorry, we gotta leave this.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
No about to ask me nothing about what happens.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
I'm sorry. This on the table. We'll get more of
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