Social Media Advice - 08.29.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, this is from Tatiana Steve in Kansas City.
Tatiana says, I've been married for seven years and my
mother in law has become a third wheel since her divorce.
She's always had a key to our house, but lately
she's been overbearing. She has her pajamas and toilet trees
at our house, and she's spent a lot of nights

(00:22):
in our guest room. Every Sunday she cooks dinner at
our house, and last week she invited her new male
friend over to eat. My husband is not bothered by it,
but I am. Do I let it go to keep
my husband and his mom happy? Or should I start
setting boundaries with her?

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (00:40):
Well, you know it is your house. Is she supposed
to be there visiting or has she moved in?

Speaker 2 (00:45):
Well, it's like she's kind of back and forth. You know,
she has things you got to have.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
You gotta set rules up as your house. Your son,
I'm gonna have to understand they can't let your mama
come in there. Look, you marry your wife. Your wife
is the queen of the castle. Ain't be too queen
your mama. Don't get to be queen at your wife's house.
Solid it's not how it works. You're out of order, now, dog.
You gotta let your wife have a say so of

(01:10):
what's happening in her house. So you have to set
some boundaries if you don't want to hold dude over
the house, and you're gonna she's gonna have to quit
cooking din over there, go home and cook because we
don't want to make it.

Speaker 4 (01:22):
Well, we don't want to know.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Pretty much.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
How does she say that though, you know, without offending
or hurting feelings.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah, she gon'na hurt her feeling. You know, she's gonna
she ain't gonna like you no more, that's right.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
And then her husband's gonna have a problem, right, Well,
you know the husband say something, mama, you got.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
Well the husband, he ain't gonna say nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
He's not bothered by it.

Speaker 4 (01:53):
The husband, well, he's not gonna say nothing. It's his mama. Yeah,
cause you don't know, this might be a mama's boy
and all.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Here.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
You can't spend the night here, But I don't have
any laws like that. They come and stay, they go home,
you know, then I don't have that problem, not at all.
So I can't relate.

Speaker 5 (02:14):
I don't want my mama hem he holling and can
on like I'll be doing.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
I don't want and all that.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
That's too much.

Speaker 4 (02:22):
But it's okay for your kids, is well?

Speaker 5 (02:24):
They you know they are welcome to leave. I have
said that, all of them. I have said that to
all of them. They go, Where.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Are they gonna stay? Where are they gonna.

Speaker 5 (02:40):
All?

Speaker 1 (02:41):
Right, we have another one, Steve. This is from Jeremy,
Jeremy and Woodbridge. Jeremy says, my brother and I fell
out years ago. When we got back cool again last year,
he told me about the love of his life. She
happens to be a woman that was my side, and
it looks like she was having sex with my brother

(03:03):
and I at the same time. I do not want
this to ruin our relationship again, So do I keep
my mouth shut?

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Does act like it ain't happened though, that's all bringing
it up gonna bring a whole lot to come with it.

Speaker 4 (03:19):
I just shut up.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, he should be.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Well, what's the scenario anyway, Shirley, Am I fully understanding it?

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Well? Yeah, okay, he and his brother is a guy
wrote it. He and his brother fell out. Now they
fell out years ago. Now they're cool again. But now
he just found out that the brother is dating and
he calls her the love of his life, a woman
that was his side chick. And he thinks that the

(03:46):
woman was sleeping with the brothers at the same time. God, okay,
now that's the reaction we need.

Speaker 4 (03:53):
You know, she real find you know that she got
to know that they brothers.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Yeah, slow down, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (04:01):
No, this woman used to be his side.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Chick, and that's why he doesn't want to say anything
because they just got back cool again and he just,
let me tell you, he doesn't want to ruin their relationship.

Speaker 5 (04:15):
A man to whoop you behind his side piece. I'm
just trying to tell you so this doesn't go crazy.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
And what if his wife asked, what are you guys
fighting about?

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Why is you in this this week? Me and my brother?

Speaker 1 (04:33):
All right, coming, you know, coming up in twenty minutes
after we'll have more of the Steve Hardy Ignorance Show.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.