Social Media Advice - 09.29.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, this is from Lamandi in Arlington. Lamandi says,
I went to a singles mixer and I met a
man that was married. We dated for a few months
before I found out his wife tried to publicly humiliate
me in our social media circle. So I had to
expose him for being at a mixer for singles. That
backfired on me too. How does he get a pass

(00:22):
for being a cheater? He knew he was married, but
I didn't. Will I ever get past this or will
I forever be considered as a home wrecker?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Ooh, you got the bad end of the deal, didn't you.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Yeah? Good, not good?

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah he didn't know.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah you know.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Sometimes you know, if it's out there like then his
wife had to go that way, maybe you gotta maybe
you gotta fight back, get on social media and explain
exactly what happened so people can see your side of
the story, because right now you look like the person
that's a quote unquote home wrecord. I would put it
on since they got it out there, will put it
all the way out there. But she did. Was that

(01:03):
a singles mixer?

Speaker 1 (01:05):
He married?

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Don't nobody know it? All right? I'm thinking everybody in
the room single, So what I do wrong? Show me
where I'm wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Yeah, she she did expose him for being at a
mixer for singles, but it backfired on her too. That's
the double standard. Blaming a woman, always blaming a woman,
always blaming the woman.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
She didn't even know.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
So it's like, yeah, she didn't know, Junior.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, well, this is like a pure case of just
mind your own business. Why why do you he don't
want to be married? The most sound like to me
he had to sing that he don't want his wife.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
No more clearly.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
If I didn't want my wife, I'll be in a
singles mixer. I don't see the problem here. Matter of fact,
don't ask why I'm married. I'm in here because I'm
looking for somebody else.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
I mean, you'd be quiet.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
When is the next mix?

Speaker 1 (02:02):
We could just go and see.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
And see, go see, just like buy a new car,
you gotta go shop around.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
All right, guys, we have time for another one. We're
just gonna left that to stay right there. This is
from Shaye and Little Rock. She says, my boyfriend and
I enjoy threesomes. He wants to get married, So I've
asked him if we should stop the threesomes. He said,
he does not think our marriage will survive without them.

(02:32):
It was just a phase we were going through. Am
I not enough for this man?

Speaker 2 (02:38):
For life? It's for life. Do you know? What I've
heard is once you once you start, it is what
it is. It does not stop. So however you start,
that's really how it's going. That's how a relationship. Don't
carry out that.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
He doesn't think the marriage will survive. We're not going
to put it.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
He's going to put it in the biouse, sir.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, well, how is that gonna go? What is that
shall have?

Speaker 2 (03:05):
That shall have.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
In sickness and in health for Richard before us? Wow,
that is crazy. He said, the marriage won't survive without threesome.
You're going into it with a problem if you don't
want it anymore, I know. And she needs to run,

(03:31):
she needs to run. Yeah, you guys, all right, that's
why we like honesty. See there.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah, if you don't pick up Tiffany on your way home,
I'm telling you, I know it's the problem.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
I know one of these two people is ugly because
they need another third person.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
Somebody, are you speaking as a former ugly person?

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yeah, I'm six now tell me, let me in. When
you got to have three people, you need somebody else,
somebody validation. Now, wow, yeah, somebody's unattracted because is she
more than enough? I think it's her if is you
more than enough? Clearly not because it's got to be

(04:18):
a threesome.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
But you know what, these got to be young people.
They got to be thinking like that. You want two people,
I ain't no way I can have another person in
my house. I'm sorry, I can't.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
One well do that? Yeah, yeah, you need to leave him.
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