Social Media Advice - 10.09.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, this is some BJ on Steve HARVFM. BJ says,
I've been dating a woman for about four months and
she still lives with her ex. She swears they're completely done,
but she, she says, neither of them can't afford to
move out yet. What bothers me is that she hasn't.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Told him about me.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
She says she just doesn't want to make things any
more awkward than they already are. He says, I've even
thought about asking her to move in with me, but
my friend and says she's using me and that they're
probably not really over. I want to believe her, but
am I being naive?

Speaker 2 (00:40):
Look?

Speaker 3 (00:41):
Bro, if your girlfriend still lives with her ex, yeah,
that's y'all's girlfriend. Yeah yeah, that that's not your girlfriend.
That's y'all girl. They're sharing the fact that she has

(01:04):
not told.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Him about you.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
It's how I know it's still that's y'all's girl, because
if he don't know about you, you're trying to tell
me he ain't sleeping with her. We in here, we
in here, we've been sleeping together. Now all of a sudden,
we ain't. Why why now you think about asking her

(01:34):
to move in with you?

Speaker 2 (01:35):
That you can't do nothing. No dumber than that, don't
do it? Man, Hey, bro, why don't.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
You go get a woman that don't live with another man? Wow,
that's crazy, And it's a lot of them out there,
and they're wonderful women. It's some incredible women that's available
that could be yours. You ain't got to get another

(02:03):
You don't have to get another man's woman because there's
so many women out there wishing they could be wifey
material or have a monogamous relationship. You in a you
what they what they call.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you kneel.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
Yeah, but it's just y'all, y'all, yeah you.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Yep, brouh bru. Just go pet you somebody that's yours.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah, they've been dating for four months.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
Due man, we too date. Yeah, and he don't know it.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
He gonna roll up somewhere and follow her car and
you're gonna have a problem part. Oh yeah, how you're
dating a woman?

Speaker 2 (02:56):
You can't go over her house?

Speaker 1 (02:58):
But I don't know a mud.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah this is she said, Okay, neither one of them move, so.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
They can't afford it yet, and she pops.

Speaker 4 (03:12):
Okay, this man will say anything anything.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
That is a but but listen to me, that is
an entirely poor mentality. You break up with a man,
you still live there, you're dating another man, you sleeping
with you telling this man you ain't gonna tell your
old boyfriend about him, because it'll make it even more complicated.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
Yeah, he gonna have something to say.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Yeah, see that's a pole mindset.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
But instead he wants her to move in with him.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
That's stupid though.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Really so when she's packing up to leave, what is
she going to take? And the dude, no, she ain't
got the money to go. Where you going? I've been
to move? What with my new man? What new man?
How long you been living for four months? He don't care.

Speaker 3 (04:24):
Come on over here, come on, come over here and
see what he got for you.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah, yeah, bro, you finished this shot. Get out here.
That's how you get shot. That's how you get shot.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
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