November 4, 2025 • 4 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
See This is from Derek on Steve Harvey FM. He says,
I'm the oldest of four and the executor of my
late mother's estate. My younger brother was disinherited and kicked
out of the family more than a decade ago after
some bad choices, and I'm the only one who stayed
in touch with him. My mother's will gives me the
discretion to decide how to divide the cash portion of
(00:24):
her estate among the siblings. Everyone else is doing fine financially,
but my little brother is barely scraping by. I want
to give him a share, but I know my sisters
will be furious. They think he deserves nothing. Should I
tell them what I plan to do and risk upsetting them,
or quietly give him something and live with the fallout
(00:44):
if they ever find.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Out, Well, you're the executor of the wheel. Yeah, hum,
Your mamma nem puts you in charge. I would pull
a little baby broad to the side and sit him down.
Maybe he needs some help, Maybe this could be the shot.
Maybe the fact that Mama gone could be the thing
to straighten him out. I'm not in the throw people
(01:06):
away business. He is your brother. He made some bad choices.
But who ain't I made some in my life? Lord, Lord,
I made some money. I'm so grateful that God is
in the forgiving business, boy, and the mercy business and
the grace business. I don't know what to do, so
(01:28):
I say, show a little bit of grace, sit your
brother down and say, hey, man, let's work a plan.
And then what I I was you, I would keep
the money and just issue out the money if it
goes according to plan. And then the moment he don't
do the plan no more, then you stop the money,
but don't give it to him at all at once.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Let's put the money.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Hold his share aside for a plan and until us
the big brother here plan and watch him an active plan.
Then don't give it to him because he gonna smoke
it up.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Okay, yeah, great he on drugs. Oh wow, all right,
we have time. So you stole something from the sisters
in the mama's house.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Oh okay, that's why I was put out?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yeah. This is from EJ on Steve Harvey FM. EJ says,
my girlfriend and I have been together for ten years
and we've always spent Thanksgiving together. We both have kids
from previous relationships and our families live far apart, so
we've alternated which side we visit each year. I just
found out she's planning to spend this Thanksgiving with her family,
(02:34):
and her kids are going, but she never invited me
or my daughter. I'm not sure what is going on.
I'm surprised she didn't even talk to me about it first.
Should I tell her how much this hurts me?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Or let it go? Yeah? Go on and tell her
how much it hurts you.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
And then because you fit to hear how much it
has hurt her to be your girlfriend for ten years
without being married. Oh see, that's what didn't happen though,
that's fed up. Yeah, this is a consequence call. Yeah,
this is a car. It's ten years of boyfriend and girlfriend.
Y'all been doing all the family stuff except being a family.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
She fed up.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
She said, Wow, I got to keep asking him where
I'm going, and he won't marry me. She has asked
you for a ring before. Now you're finna eat by yourself.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
You and your baby.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Yeah, and she probably tied a hand her mama and
them asked uhh, whoa lord?
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, what what is y'all doing?
Speaker 4 (03:39):
That?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Aggressively steeking?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
So so so so so so so, what is all
this fault?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Man?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Is that? So you're just gonna keep on sleeping with him?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Uhuh? My mom or grandmother? Is that mom?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
That's mom and auntie, grandmama, the grandmama ruthless?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
What does she say?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
So you're just.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Gonna be the car to keep getting milk. Ain't nobody,
ain't nobody got to buy you oning?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Huh? You just keep being the car to keep getting milk.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I'm all, yes, hurts hurt.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
I wanted to hurt.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Can we just eat? Do we have to keep talking
about my love life? And let's move on somebody else?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
That's the turkey?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
All right?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
There you have it. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.
See This is from Derek on Steve Harvey FM. He says,
I'm the oldest of four and the executor of my
late mother's estate. My younger brother was disinherited and kicked
out of the family more than a decade ago after
some bad choices, and I'm the only one who stayed
in touch with him. My mother's will gives me the
discretion to decide how to divide the cash portion of
(00:24):
her estate among the siblings. Everyone else is doing fine financially,
but my little brother is barely scraping by. I want
to give him a share, but I know my sisters
will be furious. They think he deserves nothing. Should I
tell them what I plan to do and risk upsetting them,
or quietly give him something and live with the fallout
(00:44):
if they ever find.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Out, Well, you're the executor of the wheel. Yeah, hum,
Your mamma nem puts you in charge. I would pull
a little baby broad to the side and sit him down.
Maybe he needs some help, Maybe this could be the shot.
Maybe the fact that Mama gone could be the thing
to straighten him out. I'm not in the throw people
(01:06):
away business. He is your brother. He made some bad choices.
But who ain't I made some in my life? Lord, Lord,
I made some money. I'm so grateful that God is
in the forgiving business, boy, and the mercy business and
the grace business. I don't know what to do, so
(01:28):
I say, show a little bit of grace, sit your
brother down and say, hey, man, let's work a plan.
And then what I I was you, I would keep
the money and just issue out the money if it
goes according to plan. And then the moment he don't
do the plan no more, then you stop the money,
but don't give it to him at all at once.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Let's put the money.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Hold his share aside for a plan and until us
the big brother here plan and watch him an active plan.
Then don't give it to him because he gonna smoke
it up.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Okay, yeah, great he on drugs. Oh wow, all right,
we have time. So you stole something from the sisters
in the mama's house.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Oh okay, that's why I was put out?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yeah. This is from EJ on Steve Harvey FM. EJ says,
my girlfriend and I have been together for ten years
and we've always spent Thanksgiving together. We both have kids
from previous relationships and our families live far apart, so
we've alternated which side we visit each year. I just
found out she's planning to spend this Thanksgiving with her family,
(02:34):
and her kids are going, but she never invited me
or my daughter. I'm not sure what is going on.
I'm surprised she didn't even talk to me about it first.
Should I tell her how much this hurts me?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Or let it go? Yeah? Go on and tell her
how much it hurts you.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
And then because you fit to hear how much it
has hurt her to be your girlfriend for ten years
without being married. Oh see, that's what didn't happen though,
that's fed up. Yeah, this is a consequence call. Yeah,
this is a car. It's ten years of boyfriend and girlfriend.
Y'all been doing all the family stuff except being a family.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
She fed up.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
She said, Wow, I got to keep asking him where
I'm going, and he won't marry me. She has asked
you for a ring before. Now you're finna eat by yourself.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
You and your baby.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Yeah, and she probably tied a hand her mama and
them asked uhh, whoa lord?
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, what what is y'all doing?
Speaker 4 (03:39):
That?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Aggressively steeking?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
So so so so so so so, what is all
this fault?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Man?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Is that? So you're just gonna keep on sleeping with him?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Uhuh? My mom or grandmother? Is that mom?
Speaker 3 (03:58):
That's mom and auntie, grandmama, the grandmama ruthless?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
What does she say?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
So you're just.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Gonna be the car to keep getting milk. Ain't nobody,
ain't nobody got to buy you oning?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Huh? You just keep being the car to keep getting milk.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I'm all, yes, hurts hurt.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
I wanted to hurt.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Can we just eat? Do we have to keep talking
about my love life? And let's move on somebody else?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
That's the turkey?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
All right?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
There you have it. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.
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