Social Media Advice - 11.15.24

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, Steve, this is from Sylvester in Lexington. Sylvester says, I.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
First of all, let me say this what what? I
don't know? How old Sylvester is? Whatever? He finna ask me?
He ought to know by now what.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Life experience?

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Come on, Sylvester, don't come on all right?

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Yeah? Out of Lexington, Kentucky. He says, I'm in a
long distance relationship, and my side piece knows it. She
got too comfortable with pump popping up at my house,
so I have stopped her from coming over. I go
to her house whenever we're together. She thinks I'm messing
with someone else, but she knows when I am not
with her, I'm visiting my girlfriend. It's starting to feel

(00:43):
like a relationship. She's special to me. So how do
I stop the nagging?

Speaker 2 (00:49):
I can't stop see you sleeping with her? He got
a girlfriend?

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Oh okay, but now you sleeping with a woman and
she can't say nothing to you.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
I'm well, I heard got a girl friend though.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, he got a girlfriend. But she long distance? Yeah
she is.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
What the side piece is trying to do is replace her.
She trying to move her out. She she got a
competition going on and now you peeling back talking about
you can't come over here no more. I'm just gonna
come over there. Now she's see the difference. Now she nagging?
How do I stop her from nagging? Stop seeing her?

Speaker 2 (01:36):
That didn't work at it. Yeah, he can't bring down
a lesson. All right? So, like I said, Sylvester, according
to the name, he.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Finished life experience.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Come on, Sylvester.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
Last person you knew name Sylvester was that cat on
that car too?

Speaker 1 (01:59):
All right, we have for another one, Steve. This one
is from Katina and Dayton. Katina says, I've been with
my boyfriend for two years and we have a newborn son.
I started the marriage conversation and I found out that
we don't have the same values. He does not believe
in having joint bank accounts. If we got married, and
he said I'd be responsible for the housework and taking

(02:20):
care of the baby. He told me that I can
hire somebody to help, but I would have to pay
for that. I told him, he sounds crazy. He said,
I have a choice, and if I can't get with
his conditions, then we don't need to think about getting married.
Do you think I could ever convince him to change
the way he thinks.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
No.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
See, first of all, listen to me.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
I guess you already realized, young sister, that you've done
this thing a little bit out of order because now
you've created a family. But now he don't want a family,
and so now he knows he got the upper hand.
So he's laying down some preconditions and you need to
accept this or rejected. And now he got you thinking

(03:02):
this up to you. It's his way or the highway. Yeah,
but see, that's what happens when you when you when you,
when you get it out of order. And I'm not
judging you, because the life happens to the best of us,
you know, so I'm not judging you for getting it
out of order. But this is the problem that happens
when it goes out of order, and it's kind of

(03:22):
hard to get it adjusted back.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Around ever get him to change.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
You're dealing with a man that don't understand manhood, and
so how are you going to teach it to him
when you're not a man? See what didn't happen to
these young cats now is I don't know where they
got off the bandwagon at, but they are off the wagon,
are taking care of a.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Woman when that is your job.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
See, look, man, this woman did something that he does
not have the ability to do. She made another hilp.
Now that is a major item to bring to the table.
So now she she's made another youth. You don't have
enough gumption, gall in manhood in you to take care
of her and the other youth when that is your obligation.

(04:12):
You know where was you at with all these pre
rules when you was up there doing your thing with it.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Right? Correct?

Speaker 3 (04:20):
I feel sorry for women who get themselves in this position.
Many just an inadequate dude coming in here with that.
You got to pay for all. If we ain't gonna
have no joint bank accounting, man, why would you go
to marry this fool?

Speaker 2 (04:35):
Anyway?

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Anyway, Yeah, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.