Social Media Advice - 11.28.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, So Steve, this is from Karen and Kenner.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
KARENN says, my husband picked me up for lunch, and
when I got back to work, I couldn't find my phone.
I asked my male coworker to call my phone to
see if it was somewhere in my office. No luck,
my husband said my phone wasn't in his car. As
I was leaving work, coworker rushed over to me to
tell me that my husband called him back and asked

(00:24):
how he knows me, and he asked if we were
having an affair. I'm so irritated that my husband kept
my phone and called my co worker. I wish my
co worker had told him the truth that we are
having an affair.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
Should I tell my husband the truth? Or does he
even deserve that?

Speaker 3 (00:43):
Wow? Lady, what? Wow? Lady?

Speaker 4 (00:46):
Lady took him off to where this thing came from,
out of know where like this. But let me give
you some real advice. Your husband took your phone because
he suspected something. You stupid for having him call your
phone because how would he know your number? So now

(01:11):
your husband that call this man back and said, are
you having an affair with my wife? He did the
smart thing and said, no, you're mad talking about he
should have told him the truth and said we are
should I tell him we, lady, for what what do
you want?

Speaker 3 (01:29):
Why don't y'all just get the divorce? Why don't y'all
just get the divorce?

Speaker 4 (01:34):
He don't trust you, You can't be trusted, and you've
done some untrustworthy activity.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Now that's the cat's out the bag. But go on
and get a divorce.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
But you walking in, When you walk in and tell
that man, that's that's what happened, that's gonna be there's
gonna be a trickle down effect. I don't think you understand.
I don't think you understand. There's gonna be some problems
for you. And that dude that called that, he called
your husband on the phone. Be very careful, Yeah, be
very careful.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yep, great advice. Sorry, we have time for another one, Steve.
This one's from Tiffany and Saint Louis. Tiffany said, I
told my ex husband he could stay with us a
couple of days around Christmas to spend time with our
two children. It's what my children requested, so I want
to make them happy. But I made those plans before
I started dating this new guy two months ago. My

(02:26):
new guy said it would be a deal breaker and
he won't commit to me if I like playing house
with my ex.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Why is this such a big deal to him?

Speaker 4 (02:36):
Because he don't want no woman that's still playing house
with her ex, because it's gonna be a problem that
he gonna have to deal with that he don't have
in his life right now. Why would you invite a
problem in that's a problem. That's a problem. If you've
told your ex husband that he can spend the night
at y'all's house for Christmas because that's what the keys want,
then go on and have that relationship the new guy.

(02:58):
He ain't buying into that, because that ain't nothing but
a problem. That is a deal breaker, because if y'all
still spending the night together, y'all still playing family. Y'all
need just gonna be a family. They gonna do. Yeah,
ain't nobody signing up for that mess? Man, That ain't
none of that whipping in the in the waiting. That's
all that is. Now your man. He can't come over

(03:19):
there during the holidays and see his girl because you're
sitting to have been in the house with your ex husband.
So now his holiday plans is gone. So now where
him and his girl at for the holidays? Can't go
over to the house. Now you got to go pick
up stay in the car. She come out like like
her daddy in the house? Man, anybody doing that with you?

Speaker 1 (03:38):
So is he gonna be in the house acting like
he's king of the castle and all that?

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Well, yeah, because that's what the kids want in his draw.

Speaker 4 (03:49):
Knocking boots, walking around like walking and change nothing.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yes, So what should she do? Tell the ex husband
that he can't come now?

Speaker 4 (04:03):
No, she ain't finna do that because she didne already
promise the kids. She ain't gonna hurt the kids. She
didn't promise the kids. But you're not finna be able
to move on. You can't drive your car looking in
the rear view mirror. You keep doing what you're doing,
been doing. You're gonna keep getting what you've been getting.
While all these sayings apply, all the over and over
and over and over and over.

Speaker 3 (04:23):
You ain't going nowhere.

Speaker 4 (04:24):
You ain't finna get nobody new because you still stuck
on who you had that was old, and you letting
this food keep wedding his way in your life.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
And he happy now because you sitting up at the
house you need him.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
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