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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, So Steve, here's a question for you. Since
you're the CLO, the chief Love Officer. All right, how
long do you think it takes before couples, you know,
have the talk about how to label their relationship? And
I'm asking you that because a new study. This is
according to a new study, it says that it takes
on average six weeks to have what you know, what
(00:24):
we are talk and to label the relationship. Well, you
know when you have to talk about your relationship and
putting labels on where are we going? Where? You know,
what are we doing? You know what?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
We should have it at a restaurant?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
No no, no, no no, I said, you know, like
when when in the what time in the relationship should
we have it?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I think ninety days?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, I think for a roman's sake, I think a
woman has to get a determination, get some type of
idea of where this is going, okay, and when.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
She finds ou out just give it up because that's
ninety days.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Well, you know you don't have to do you said,
that's a guy. Don't mean give it up, but go ahead, Steve, what.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
But you know, ninety days you should have an idea
what it's going you have every right to know and
ask man.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
What is his head?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay? Another question, Steve, how should they bring it up?
How should you broach that subject?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
The text messages, that's for sure. You know.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
If a woman is curious about what the relationship is,
she got to bring it up.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
If a man wants to define it, he needs to
bring it up.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
And how should they do that? That was my original.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Hey, where we're going?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Just right out with it?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I said, if where we're going? What is all this?
What were doing in that tone?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
No, but that's the man, because that can't be the woman. Well, hello,
you surely don't rush past that. Wait, baby, man, Yola,
it could be I'm just asking to Steve.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Don't you think that.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
For women sometimes they might feel it's kind of awkward
or they don't know how to do that to just
come right out with it and say, hey, where we
going with this question?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
What are we?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Yeah? That you just saying come right on out with it?
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Well, I mean you know you could try like round about.
So can I ask you a question? Yeah, my girlfriends
are starting to ask me what type of relationship is this?
Speaker 2 (02:23):
What should I say? Okay, you know that's what should
I be saying to people? And let him give you.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Another Yeah, that's what that's now, that's what I wanted
to know. Yeah, how that's what I figured you're meant.
But that's good, clo, that's good. So wait like ninety
days to even bring up the talk and kind of
ease into it. You're saying, kind of ease into it, right.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Ninety days, ladies, you have every right to be able
to say, okay, so what do we have? Especially if
ninety days you start passing out that cookie. There's no
reason for you to pass out to cookie and not
understand what it is. Okay, you know, if we if
we're a committee, really you should know that.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I'd want to know that before I passed out the cookie. Yeah, right?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Is this a monogamous relationship? Are we committed exclusive? Are
we exclusive?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
What is it? I need to know? Okay? You know
that makes sense?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Don't Oh? Yes, yes, yes? And then you say when
you want to bring the subject up, you kind of
ease into it.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
You know, just slide it to him, you know what
I mean? Hey, look, you know we've been dating for
a while and my girlfriends and co workers are starting
to ask me, what is this we have, so I mean,
how would you like for me to address you or
describe you what I'm talking to other people, you.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Know, kind of put it on them a.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Little Yeah, what and what should the woman say if
the man asked her? Or will a man ask her
that question?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, of course the dudes that want
to know?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
And what should the woman say?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
You know? The truth?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I mean, you know, God could say, hey, maybe look,
we've been at this for a little while. Are we
exclusive or no? And then if it's exclusive, you got
to tell him yes. And if it's not, then you
just got to said, hey, no, it's not really do
something seeing some other people. Okay, all right, we thank
you your name exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Thank you, c l O. We'll be back with more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
It is Steve Harvey more on the show. Man ain't
nobody playing with y'all.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
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my hand.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
I had a new bride, just trying to meet all.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Man and then I sitting in the food caught.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Bad goals my Jesus. Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
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