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FWB or friendly?  What is it really?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, So Steve, this is from Dasia in Columbus.
Dasha says, I've had a friends with benefits relationship with
a married man for three years. I started dating another
man and my married guy said he doesn't like to share.
He said, if I start sleeping with a guy i'm dating,
he will cut me off. I value our friendship, so

(00:24):
I hate we started sleeping together. Is it possible to
just be friends after crossing the line?

Speaker 2 (00:30):
None benefit, non benefit? Nope. The whole time y'all talking friendly,
he won't be more friendly.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
So then are they friends or not? No?

Speaker 2 (00:43):
No, they ain't no been friends. I see why she
thanks you. She's dating a married man. What do he
need a friend for? He got a wife. You're not
there for friendship. That's what she thought. Every time y'all
was being friendly, talking and laughing. How did he end up? Ni?

(01:06):
So no, little girl, little girl, But then you you
and you see you're not that smart. A married man
told you he don't like to share, but he's being shared,
but he'll tell you he don't like to share. Okay, cool,
And now you're trying to work it out. That don't
make no sense, little girl, Go do your life yeah,
he ain't gonna leave his wife, So go do you?

(01:28):
I got you being that thing. That ain't no problem.
I don't care about that. I ain't being judgmental, But
go do you?

Speaker 1 (01:33):
Stop?

Speaker 2 (01:34):
Quit telling him everything? Just go see the other dude?

Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yea?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Why are you telling him? You know? Because if he
was your friend, if he was truly your friend, he
would want the best for.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
You, exactly, exactly move on.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
But he don't. He want the best for him. He's
not your f his nakedness.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This
is from Ramanda in The Bronx. She says, I had
a silly crush on a man for years, and my
husband knew it and teach me about him all the time.
It's been years since I've seen the man, but my
husband and I ran into him at a concert. I
was so happy to see him, and I guess I
brought it up too many times to my husband because

(02:21):
he told me he didn't want to hear about the
guy anymore. I think it's because the man is still
in shape and handsome and my husband has some health issues.
Why did he switch it up on me like that?
Has he lost his sense of humor in his old age.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Now he's just sick as hell. You just said he
has some healthy sick ass people don't laugh. Now you
have noticed that she said.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
He has some health issues. She didn't say, well she's
sick as hell.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
You know what health well, what is a health issue?
If you healthy, you ain't sick? You see healthy? Health
issues is create sadness. You'd be trying to laugh. You'd
be going that what happened when you try to laugh
when you got health issues? Or you started laughing, start

(03:09):
gasping for f But sheldy. You know if you saw
me when I had health issues, when you was at
the house talking about my fat as, was going up
to them steps wheezing. See, then that's when I knew
I had health issue. But I would motivated me. Look
at me now, I'm sixteen percent body fact thanks to sharing,
because I didn't know my fight ass was wheezing until

(03:32):
I heard her say it. Yes, I was going up
to say, Steve, what's wrong? I just ate a whole hand,
that's what you know.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
What do you tell this woman Ramanda in the Bronx?
Why did he switch it up on her like that?
He has he lost his sense of humor in his
old age.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
He had he ain't healthy no more, ain't nothing funny
when you hard to laugh, wheezing and hard to laugh
when you know, got high blood pressure, you know.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Laugh when you got high blood you start people have blood.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
I had high blood You got start start laughed, your
head start feeling like it fit to pop. You can't
laught real hard. I tell you right now he had
started throbbing. And if I had high blood pressure, I'll
tell you what I know. God, Yeah, yeah, he'dne lost
his sense of humor because because the boy you got
to crush on, he steal in shape you and you

(04:32):
want to You looking at your little fast, sick ass husband,
you're going, damn, I could have had of you.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
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