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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Steve, this is from Arlene and Philly. Arlene says,
I let my friend house sit for me while I
was gone to visit my son for a month. She
has the most irresponsible sixty four year old that I know.
She had a party in my backyard on a weeknight
and the neighbors call the cops after she wouldn't turn
the music down. I got fined because it's my house.

(00:22):
My friend refuses to pay the fine, so I'm holding
all of her raggedy clothes and her liquor that she
left at my house. She says she's not responsible for
the fine. How do we resolve this mess?

Speaker 2 (00:37):
I don't know how much to fine is, but if
them clothes is raggedy, it ain't worth much. And I
don't know how much liquor people leave at party. Doesn't
them got to be a couple of coners in some bottles,
but it ain't no fool of bottles left.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
Why do you have a sixty four year old friends
that throw backyard.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
Polished on a weeknight at old house a week thank
music glassing. I love it.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Too, that John sleep, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
But you know what though, here's the deal. Sometimes and
I have had to learn this myself. You have to
buy some people out your life. Yeah, and this is
a good time to pay the fine.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
For her raggedy clothes.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Thank her, because if she don't see that she should
pay the fine off. Something she did in calls and
you weren't even there. That's not a friend or a
quality person that you need to be involved with. So
I would write off, I pay the fine and give
her her raggedy clothes. I'll keep the liquor and then
just tell her go on about her business. Well, I

(01:47):
got some look over there. Don't worry about that liquor.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, she already says she's the most irresponsible sixty four year.

Speaker 4 (01:53):
Old that she knows. It's like dealing with the kids. Steve.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
Yeah, well you know.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
But see here's the thing with friends, you pick them.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, all right, we have time for another one. This
is from Jarvis in New Orleans.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Now.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Jarvis says, my girlfriend lives with me, and I came
home the other day and her male cousin was walking
around my house barefoot. I didn't like it one bit,
so I told him that I don't know him and
he was too comfy in my home. He said that
it's his cousin's house just as much as it's my house.

(02:32):
I beg to differ. What do you think does my
girlfriend have the right to bring men into my home
without telling me first?

Speaker 3 (02:39):
This is your girlfriend?

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Yeah? Yeah, they lived together. He and his girlfriend lived together.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
And I'm trying to figure out how you and him
wasn't fighting. That's a part I'm trying to see. You're
so stupid. You have the audacity to tell me, as
the owner that this is her house too, Na, homie.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
No, I'm the man.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
I got rules. I don't know you. You're too comfortable
in my house. Well it's her house too, slap.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
But it's family. That doesn't make a difference. It's family.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
No.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
See, you know, I guess I'm old school. Once we're
in my house, yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
It's my way. There's no exceptions to.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
The rule period.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
But you got the audacity. See, but he comfortable enough.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
It's these new school cats that think they can talk
back and all this here.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
I'd have had something for you, though.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
I don't get that because it's it's her family.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
It's her cousin, his girlfriend, yeah, her cousin.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
No, No, you ain't the wife.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
I'm telling you it's levels to this, y'all missing it.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
It's levels to this.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Since my girlfriend, who are you were not related in
any way? I mean the girl ain't even related.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Now would it matter if it was a female cousin?

Speaker 4 (03:54):
Would you care?

Speaker 3 (03:54):
It would have mattered? No?

Speaker 2 (03:56):
No, I mean it would have been easier. But it's
a man and another man's house that he don't know.
Men are territorial. We don't do that. You can't go
in another man's house and not honor his rules. You
know that, you're supposed to know that as a listener.

Speaker 4 (04:13):
Just walk in barefoot, Like Junior can't come over here
and take his shoes.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
Though he couldn't do that.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
Why in the world that's your friend?

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Why not he's been for him. He can't come over
here and take his shoes. That's too.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
That.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
I wouldn't do that. All right?

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
more on the Steve Harvey Territorial Morning Show.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
Right after this.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Wow, clicking your toes together, rubbing

Speaker 1 (04:42):
Your feet, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.