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What do you do when you are put into the friend zone in the middle of a date?  Steve's answer is pretty insightful.

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, So Steve, this is from Devon On Steve
Harvey FM, Devin says, what do you do when you
find out you're just friends in the middle of a
date that you're on? So over the weekend, I was
out on a fourth date with a girl that I'm
really into. While we were out, she ran into a
few of her friends. At first, it was odd that
she didn't go out of her way to introduce me.

(00:24):
Then it appeared that she was making it a point
to tell them that we are quote, just friends. Considering
that at the end of the first three dates there
was some increasingly serious making out going on. I'm curious
how I got publicly friend zoned, but a totally different
story in private. What's the best way to handle this, bruh?

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Just keep on the full court press. Hey, dog, At
the end of the three dates, there is some serious
romance going on. You ain't had a second yet, but
y'all making out, you good, feeling, y'all still friends?

Speaker 3 (00:57):
What's wrong?

Speaker 2 (00:59):
No, you got friends on. Keep showing up, Keep doing
what you do.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Dog.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
She just making it clear, y'all, just frish. She testing
the water. You know how you you know a dog?
You gotta pass the test, pimp. That's all it is.
Now you're lucky, you know, you know, I mean it
ain't finna go no fast? Now this the speed she
wanted to take it that you you push it if
you want to. Now at least she's still on dates.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, no dog.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
Now she trying to figure out if she can stand
this or not. Look in the mirror, you probably ain't
that attracted.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
Is that why she friends? Pretty much?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
It She done told all her friends, no, no, hey,
we just friend. But she knows, she knows, she knows
he a little hard on the eyes. So you know,
she told her friends, now you got to overprove yourself
now because you're not attractive.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
Keep Is she embarrassed by him?

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Is that what you're saying, because it's not a little
bit bit you know, you know, just because on site,
you know, she looking over there at her friends talking
about Carol who that are we just friends? We're just
going out okay girl who? Because I was been in
the same.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Like a hot best that's what the girls are saying.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah, because she gotta figure out if she can change
outfits and you knowed you to get the right line,
and you know, you know, you know, get you to
the right ball. But she's trying to see, you know,
she could deal with that tooth, like the side that's missing.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
You know, when you're gonna get you know, that same
tooth gone.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
You gotta see if she can talk you into that
folk she make a commitment. That's how women do. You
gotta see if you know, you gotta be open for change.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Oh okay, now I like that. I do like that.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Yeah, you know because women, like I say, all men
will change, but there's and all men can change, but
the only one woman would change for So she gonna
see if she can work with you on a couple
of things.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
You know, will you use this lotion my ass? She yeah,
you know, it's just little stuff like that. Will you
get that cat put on that tooth?

Speaker 2 (03:15):
She smile sideways and she looking up at sea food
in your mouth when you sideways.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
That ain't ain't nobody finna do that on the dates.
But she'd have kissed you a couple of times.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
That's why it ain't went fast kissing, because she hadne
kissed you a couple of times, and her tongue to
slid in that little.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Hole and made her made her a little bit uncomfortable.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah, he said he's really into her.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Yeah, yeah, that's a problem. Yeah, yeah, it's all right
that she's still going out with you. She just trying
to figure out if she's gonna be able to get
you to make these changes looking at me, Adough, you
know what if this ain't the first time, let's stop
all this surprise.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
Say this was so much confidence.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
I don't know. I know, I know I've been under
where he is. Know it. In my life.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
The only thing helped me out with money. See you,
you got to understand what that is now. And you
got to kill him with kind This dog, I've been
doing that my whole life.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
That's how not know? This stone looking the meal dog
is all good.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Don't worry about it. You ain't got to be the cure.
Nobody never said, oh he cute. I ain't never walked
in the room. Oh my god, he's cute. I ain't
never heard that ever. You ain't never heard that, And
I know they never heard that.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
But he don't know it. Who is he talking to?
I wish we had more time.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
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