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Why is a man being patient before having sex called lame or suspect?  Is it a new generation thing?  A cookout in Memphis gets loud and an uninvited neighbor calls the police resulting in a noise complaint fine.  Who is wrong here?

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, guys, this is from Shahied in Tallahassee. Shahid said,
if I'm a gentleman and I tell a female I
don't want to have sex with her before I get
to really know her, why am I called lame or suspect?
This newer generation of females have too much sexual energy.
The last girl that I dated was too wild and
the sex was raunchy, so it was a turn off.

(00:24):
She used to kiss me on the forehead and get
her own towel afterwards. I'm forty two. I need to
find an older woman.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Now, Oh my god, Hey man, nothing wrong with you
being classy about what you want and how you want
to do it. Don't let nobody rush you into this man.
And yeah, the raunchy is a big turn off, brother,
So I understand. Now, do you want an older woman?
They might be a little bit more classy. I don't know,
but I think you can. All you got to do
is keep looking, don't don't don't, don't give up. There's

(00:54):
somebody your age that you will find that's gonna have
the same classiness an approach to it the way that
you have it. Don't don't get caught up in at
rochet is they gonna turn your hot out that nice?
It's fun sometoime, though, I just can't.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Tell you don't turn your nose all the way up.
I mean, like all that sexual energy. A gentleman. Yeah,
kind of old school and his you know, beliefs. Kind
of classic in his beliefs, so you know he can
feel how he wants to feel for sure. Forty two. Yeah,

(01:28):
he wants to slow it all the way down. Yeah, yeah,
keep it classic. Yeah, all right, we have time for
another one. This one's from Vicky and Memphis. Vicky says,
my husband and I were out of town and our
teenage daughters had a cookout while we were gone. We
found out when my neighbor's daughter called the police with
a noise complaint. The neighbor's daughter fell out with my

(01:50):
daughter's last year, and she was upset that she wasn't invited.
You know that we now have to pay a fine
for the noise, and my husband is angry. Our teenagers
were out of line, but the neighbor's daughter is just
as wrong. We've disciplined our girls, but how do we
make peace with the neighbor's devilish daughter? Wow?

Speaker 2 (02:12):
You listen here this, y'all gotta be careful noting this Memphis,
y'all gona mess around. Be on first four to eight.
Behind that inviting this lady to this party, y'all should
have just invited just lac. This can get rough in Memphis.
They can can it can go, It can go a
hard left on you. I'm telling you so be patient,
be careful, and start apologizing because you don't want to
wind up on TV. I'm just telling you, okay, that

(02:37):
that that that detectivelated with them nails, she's gonna show up.
Somebody gonna be mad.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
I know this is a teenage girl. The teenager.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Everybody was wrong in this.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Case and the mother. Everyone recognize.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Somebody gonna be an interrogation room saying that, Okay, you
wasn't invited to the party. You wasn't invited to the party.
That's when you got mad. Ain't it when you got
I ain't got all day. I gotta get my nails
downe at Pie, come on, talk to me. That good.
But you invited to the part. They didn't invite you
to the party. They didn't want you over.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
That didn't didn't you was a hater, so you was hating.
When you hate, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
You was hating. And what you did, you called on them,
didn't That's what started all that. I know your mama
and them, you know, I know your mom and them.
You know I know your mama. Nem was gone. I
know that. I knew when they left, and I knew
you was over here by yourself. You're not We're not
finna do it not. Come on and confess to me.
Come fast, I gotta get my hand done in my nest.
I'm going I told you I'm going to flight. I'm
going to flight. I'm having done that flight. Don't do

(03:37):
this to me right now.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Nobody died. Don't say that. Yeah, this girl is a teenager,
she could be checked.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
And you know, I know you're a teenager. And I
know your momaym was gone. I know that, I know that.
But what do I do know with this right here?
You the one started this mess. Then you started. You
saw them people partying in that backyard and cooking all
that food without you. That's what you saw, didn't Didn't
you look at me when I'm talking to you, and
I'm gonna go here and talk. I'm I'm gonna go
next door to this next room, I'm and talk to
your cousin. We've fenna get the real do you know, cousin?

(04:08):
You know I'm f in to find out. You know,
I'm f in to find out exactly what happened on you.
I'm not playing with you today. I'm not playing. I'm tired.
I dealt with four people just like you today. I'm tired.
I am tired. Think of my nails. They chipped. My
nails is chipped right here. I gotta get this one
field in that one phield, and I'm gonna be playing
with you. Come on, tell me what you did. Tell
me what you did.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
I told you, I told you, all right, I think
we get it. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,
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