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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, here we are our last break of
the day on this Tuesday, and it is time Steve
for your closing remarks. But before we get to that,
we have a listener named Velaura that left a message
for you.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Take a listen.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Hi, Steve, my name is Vilaura. I heard you this
morning when you were talking about people are still talking
about you. Don't worry about the haters. If you don't
have life experiences, there's no way you can tell me
or anybody else. And we've all made mistakes. That's what
makes us the beautiful people that we are to say,
including you and Marjorie. So don't worry about what the
(00:36):
haters say. When they stop talking about you, that's when
you need to start worrying, because all they're doing is hating.
You're trying to make a difference. You've learned from your
past experience, good or bad. So just do what you
do because I love you, and a whole lot of
other people love you, and when people start talking about you,
I'll check them. So don't worry about it. You've got
(00:57):
plenty of people that have you back, and we love
you and we class that you had a desire when
you were a kid to be on TV and radio
because I don't know what I would do with doctor
sometime because he really helps me. And I just want
you to know that I have a dotty love for
you and I appreciate you. Hey, let the haters keep hating.
(01:19):
That's what they do best. You just live on and
do what you got to do, and don't worry about
what people say. It's not what they call you. What
you answered that last time I heard your name is
mister Steve Harvey. Hey, there you have it. Have a
great day.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Damn may needed that great message. Great message, you know,
so true. You know, I try to do exactly what
she says that I fall victim and pray to being
human sometimes because I don't care who you are. Sometimes
you just want to be Lebron. You just want to
walk up to Steve and they at the half court
and pull your sleeve up and say, hey man, say
(01:54):
something else. You know, you just want to have that moment.
You just do because you're human, like Steven A. I mean,
like Lebron could have just let it go, but he
just on one of them days. I try not to
have as many of those days anymore. Like I'm really
trying to work through one man. This is one person
(02:14):
who it's two people that I have to forgive. But
I'm really really struggling with I long talk with about
a friend of mine, shout out to my boy. Kevin
came and surprised me down at my ranch yesterday. Marjorie
told him who I was and everything, so he surprised me.
Great trip. But this is when you know he's a
friend because he came from Africa to surprise me. He
(02:37):
heard I had surgery and he just wanted to see me.
Say hey, man, I just need to check on my boy.
You're doing all right. Yeah, So that was like really
really cool. We were talking yesterday and it's two people
in my life. I'm just being honest. I'm really really
struggling with forgiving. And I already know this too. I
already know that forgiveness is not for them, it's for me.
(03:00):
Forgiveness is so that when they name come up, it
don't have an effect on me. When I see them
out somewhere, I see them, it don't have an effect
on me. When they walk by me and don't speak
to me, it don't have an effect on me because
I've forgiven them that's really what it is. Forgiveness is
not for the other person, It's for you. Like Bishop
(03:22):
Jake said, you keep drinking the poison, waiting on them
to die. And I know this, and I've said this
on the show, but man, I am so human. I
am such an imperfect soldier for Christ. Man I am.
(03:47):
It's like the Strawberry Letter today. The Strawberry Letter today
was about a couple and they got married and before
they got married they used to do threeesooms and go
to strip clubs together and all this. And after they
got married they got saved. But then the husband decided
his friends was talking about going to the strip club
(04:07):
and being with more than one woman and he still
got chills. And people go, I thought you were saved.
Because you saved, don't mean you sin free. That's not
what being saved is. Saved means you have a real
immediate help as not a person that's living saved or unsaved.
(04:29):
It's not gonna have to deal with temptation in their life.
That's never going to go away. Sorry, And there's a
lot of stuff you deal with as a person that's saved.
That's a person that has a faith, that person that
claims to be a Christian or whatever your faith is,
whatever you claim to be that member, but and every
now and then you struggle with aspects of it as
(04:49):
do I. So, like the lady said in the close
of remarks before I played, before they played this called
this lady named Laura, great message telling me to keep
my head up. Never mind what people are saying about me.
They just hate us. All that's true. I even said
on the show earlier. I quit worrying about people's opinion
to me that don't have my cell phone number because
(05:11):
I don't know you. I don't know you, and obviously
you not close enough to me for your opinion to
even matter to me. Now I've been able to do that.
But I'm working on forgiveness and I actually prayed about it,
and for the first time, I've even told my wife,
(05:31):
I'm gonna be able to forgive them. And you know,
me and Marjorie talk about everything, and I said, this person,
I'm gonna be able to forgive them. She said, Steve,
you should because it's for you. But she know how
I am. And so I've been working on it. Did
(05:53):
I just suck my teeth just now?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I just I just praying about it, so maybe Yeah,
it's gonna take a minute. Yeah, yeah, I just got
through praying about it. I can't seem today. I can't
run up into him today. It ain't ready yet. Hey,
(06:21):
thank you Valau for the email. It was a great email.
And I'm trying to do better. Y'all do better too.
But if you need help, talk to God about it,
because he would absolutely love to hear from you. Have
a great day, God willing, We'll see y'all tomorrow. We'll
do it all over again. Holler.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
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All right, guys, here we are our last break of
the day on this Tuesday, and it is time Steve
for your closing remarks. But before we get to that,
we have a listener named Velaura that left a message
for you.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Take a listen.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Hi, Steve, my name is Vilaura. I heard you this
morning when you were talking about people are still talking
about you. Don't worry about the haters. If you don't
have life experiences, there's no way you can tell me
or anybody else. And we've all made mistakes. That's what
makes us the beautiful people that we are to say,
including you and Marjorie. So don't worry about what the
(00:36):
haters say. When they stop talking about you, that's when
you need to start worrying, because all they're doing is hating.
You're trying to make a difference. You've learned from your
past experience, good or bad. So just do what you
do because I love you, and a whole lot of
other people love you, and when people start talking about you,
I'll check them. So don't worry about it. You've got
(00:57):
plenty of people that have you back, and we love
you and we class that you had a desire when
you were a kid to be on TV and radio
because I don't know what I would do with doctor
sometime because he really helps me. And I just want
you to know that I have a dotty love for
you and I appreciate you. Hey, let the haters keep hating.
(01:19):
That's what they do best. You just live on and
do what you got to do, and don't worry about
what people say. It's not what they call you. What
you answered that last time I heard your name is
mister Steve Harvey. Hey, there you have it. Have a
great day.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Damn may needed that great message. Great message, you know,
so true. You know, I try to do exactly what
she says that I fall victim and pray to being
human sometimes because I don't care who you are. Sometimes
you just want to be Lebron. You just want to
walk up to Steve and they at the half court
and pull your sleeve up and say, hey man, say
(01:54):
something else. You know, you just want to have that moment.
You just do because you're human, like Steven A. I mean,
like Lebron could have just let it go, but he
just on one of them days. I try not to
have as many of those days anymore. Like I'm really
trying to work through one man. This is one person
(02:14):
who it's two people that I have to forgive. But
I'm really really struggling with I long talk with about
a friend of mine, shout out to my boy. Kevin
came and surprised me down at my ranch yesterday. Marjorie
told him who I was and everything, so he surprised me.
Great trip. But this is when you know he's a
friend because he came from Africa to surprise me. He
(02:37):
heard I had surgery and he just wanted to see me.
Say hey, man, I just need to check on my boy.
You're doing all right. Yeah, So that was like really
really cool. We were talking yesterday and it's two people
in my life. I'm just being honest. I'm really really
struggling with forgiving. And I already know this too. I
already know that forgiveness is not for them, it's for me.
(03:00):
Forgiveness is so that when they name come up, it
don't have an effect on me. When I see them
out somewhere, I see them, it don't have an effect
on me. When they walk by me and don't speak
to me, it don't have an effect on me because
I've forgiven them that's really what it is. Forgiveness is
not for the other person, It's for you. Like Bishop
(03:22):
Jake said, you keep drinking the poison, waiting on them
to die. And I know this, and I've said this
on the show, but man, I am so human. I
am such an imperfect soldier for Christ. Man I am.
(03:47):
It's like the Strawberry Letter today. The Strawberry Letter today
was about a couple and they got married and before
they got married they used to do threeesooms and go
to strip clubs together and all this. And after they
got married they got saved. But then the husband decided
his friends was talking about going to the strip club
(04:07):
and being with more than one woman and he still
got chills. And people go, I thought you were saved.
Because you saved, don't mean you sin free. That's not
what being saved is. Saved means you have a real
immediate help as not a person that's living saved or unsaved.
(04:29):
It's not gonna have to deal with temptation in their life.
That's never going to go away. Sorry, And there's a
lot of stuff you deal with as a person that's saved.
That's a person that has a faith, that person that
claims to be a Christian or whatever your faith is,
whatever you claim to be that member, but and every
now and then you struggle with aspects of it as
(04:49):
do I. So, like the lady said in the close
of remarks before I played, before they played this called
this lady named Laura, great message telling me to keep
my head up. Never mind what people are saying about me.
They just hate us. All that's true. I even said
on the show earlier. I quit worrying about people's opinion
to me that don't have my cell phone number because
(05:11):
I don't know you. I don't know you, and obviously
you not close enough to me for your opinion to
even matter to me. Now I've been able to do that.
But I'm working on forgiveness and I actually prayed about it,
and for the first time, I've even told my wife,
(05:31):
I'm gonna be able to forgive them. And you know,
me and Marjorie talk about everything, and I said, this person,
I'm gonna be able to forgive them. She said, Steve,
you should because it's for you. But she know how
I am. And so I've been working on it. Did
(05:53):
I just suck my teeth just now?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I just I just praying about it, so maybe Yeah,
it's gonna take a minute. Yeah, yeah, I just got
through praying about it. I can't seem today. I can't
run up into him today. It ain't ready yet. Hey,
(06:21):
thank you Valau for the email. It was a great email.
And I'm trying to do better. Y'all do better too.
But if you need help, talk to God about it,
because he would absolutely love to hear from you. Have
a great day, God willing, We'll see y'all tomorrow. We'll
do it all over again. Holler.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
For all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, void we're prohibited.
Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old,
unless otherwise stated. For a complete contest rules, visit Steve
Harvey fm dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show
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