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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Come on. Ah huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man, Yeah,
I do.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Man, God been good to me. Man, he been so
good to me. Wow. And and you know why I
say it like that.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
What makes it amazing is because it's been in spite
of myself.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I mean, you know what I mean by that. I
mean I mean that he's been good to me.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
In spite of all the craziness I've done, all the
foolishness I've gotten myself involved with, and not only got,
but knowingly got myself involved with, all of the stupid
decisions I've made. Put all that to the side, and
he's still been good to me. Bring it all and
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put it on the plate, and he's still being good
to me.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
That's amazing, man. And I'm sure there's a lot of
people that can say the exact same thing. I mean,
come on, man, I got you, ain't famous, I got
ain't nobody, got no microphone in your face, I got nobody,
ain't got no spotlight on you. I got nobody, ain't
got no camera in your face. I got nobody probably
ain't nobody blogging about you. But let me tell you something.
If you break it down and be real about it,
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Oh you done done something outside the box. You done
done something, ladies included, you've done something out the box.
You woke up and went what did I do that for?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
We've all done it. So with all that said and done,
God still loves you, man, God still loves you, still
wants the best for you, still considers you his child,
and its willing. It's willing man to show you your future.
He is willing to show you your life. He is
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willing to let you take a peek at the blueprint.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Man.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
That's an amazing God right there. Because I know I
couldn't do it. I couldn't do it. I'm glad it's him,
you know. Today, Man, I want to encourage brothers out there.
And when I say brothers, I'm talking to everybody that's
of the male species. I don't care about your color,
I really really don't. I don't even have time for
that in my day. Matter of fact, sometimes when you
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get to discuss and race and I just get tired
of it. Sometimes I just wish, you know, some days
I just want to wake up just do me. You know,
I got what the skin tone is.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
I got that.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
But I just want to wake up some days and
just going by my business and do me. I don't
want to have to deal with somebody. I get tired
of talking about the issues. Ain't gonna make them go away,
but sometimes I get tired. So to day, I'm talking
to brothers, all the brothers of the male species. I'm
talking about men today. Man, if you ain't doing it all,
if you're feeling empty, man, start today completing your process
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and your journey. And you know what I'm saying by that,
if there's a part of you to missing as a man,
and now, man, i'm talking to you, so you know.
Some ladies listening, but you know what I'm talking about.
It's some part of you that's missing as a man.
If you ain't really been in touch with your kids
like you're supposed to now for whatever the reason is.
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And please know, I do understand how sometimes women can
use children as pawns. It happens all the time. I've
been through it. I've been through it, man, I know
what it feels like, man to wanna do something, but
because you ain't got this, or you ain't doing this,
then I ain't gonna let you have this. You gotta
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fight through, fellas. You got to fight through. You got
to fulfill your end of the deal. And I got
how difficult they making it. I got how man, it's
gonna come with some drama, but you gotta fight through it, because, man,
we need fathers to be fathers. That's really what we need.
If you're a man out there and you are a
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father of a child, we need you do your job.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Our community, our situation, us as a people, all of us.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
We need you to be a father.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Period. Hey man, I ain't coming down on you. I'm
just your boy. I'm your man. And I've been in
the same predicament, in the same hole myself, where I
couldn't get to them, where they were used as pawns,
where they were told things about me that wasn't even true.
I've been through it. You can't see them, you don't
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come up, okay, Okay, I got all that. You ain't
sent this. You ain't okay, Hey got all that. If
you can call them sometimes, tell them you thinking about them,
tell them you love them. If you can get a
letter to them, if you can get a message to
your children through one of your relatives. Start the process today.
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Be a father. It's your job now. Because you ignoring him,
or you acting like they ain't over there, or you
thee backed them out of your mind because the situation
got too difficult. I got that. I got that. But
you got to step up and be fathers. You got
to write a letter. You gotta send the money if
she talking about it. If you don't send all the money,
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you ain't gonna see him. Send what you got if
she if taking it over there is too much drama,
send it through a relative, Give it to a mama,
Give it to her sister, ask her to take it
over there and do something for the baby. Because okay, okay,
you can't deal with the drama. I got that, and
I know it's much to pay when you have to
deal with that, because clearly I know hell have no
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fury like a woman's going Please know. I know that,
Please know, And that's a real statement. That ain't no saying.
Steve got that's the truth. But do what you gotta do.
Sometimes you have to apologize. Sometimes an apology goes a
long way to your children. Just say, look, because I've
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made this apology before. Hey, man, look, I'm sorry I
wasn't there for you. I was out grinding and hustling,
and I wasn't paying attention to you, and I should
have been. And I apologize now. I imagine, man, there's
days where you was telling people I was your father
up at the school and they wasn't believing you. I
apologize for sending you through that. But now, ma'am, I
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tell you what. I made some mistakes, and I got
it together. I want me and you to move forward
as father and son. I want me and you to
move forward as father and daughter. I want to be
in your life now. I ain't got a lot, but
guess what, I know a lot, because if you a
man and you a father, please know you know something
that child don't know. You have information, you have experience.
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That's all they need sometimes to have somebody to talk to.
That daughter yours just needs to know from her daddy.
How should a man treat me?
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Dad? What should I look for in a man?
Speaker 1 (06:59):
See, they'll take that information from you because they know
it's coming from the right place. And then you know
that your son needs you because you know how difficult
it is if you're trying to be a man without
your daddy. You already know how funky that is, right there.
So come on, man and meet your mistakes and move forward.
Call your kids, write a letter, get a phone number
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on them, send a text, drop a message, send a
note up to the school.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Do something. Man.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
If those of us that are fathers would just be fathers,
I could shut the minering camp down.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Now.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I will say I apologize because I don't want you
to think I'm coming down on you. But I've been
through this myself. I ain't really coming down. I'm just
reminding you. This is our job. These are our children,
this is our responsibility. We are men. There is no excuses.
You don't get you don't get. Cut a brake on
that one.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Sorry. Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show