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That's right, Thank you, my good friend Junior. Subject to little.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Pooh what he is?
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Subject a lout pooh ran off my boo. Dear Stephen Shirley.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
I'm a thirty three year old single female and I
was dating a thirty five year old man that ghosted me.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
We met and it was like no one else existed
in our lives.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
We went on a trip two weeks after we started dating,
and he spoiled me and I spoiled him. He was
at my house or I was at his house every night.
He was the best lover and that deepened our connections.
This went on for four months and I was thinking
he's the one.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Then I got food.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Poisoning and had to be hospitalized for two days. I
had been going to the bathroom and throwing up before
I drove myself to the hospital. My man rushed to
the hospital to see me, and he told me he'd
go to my house to get a few toiletries and
get a change of.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Clothes for me.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
He came back to the hospital with a small bag
for me, and then he ghosted me. I called and
called and started worrying that something happened to him. I
saw that he posted a picture on Instagram and that
was odd to me. Then he blocked my number, and
he blocked me on IG. So I wanted some answers.
(02:01):
I went by his job and waited for him to
come out for lunch. He walked past me and said
he's glad I was better, and he dismissed me just
like that. I had met one of his coworkers before,
so I messaged him on IG to see if he
knew what was up with my boyfriend. He responded right
(02:21):
away and said that my boyfriend couldn't handle how messy
my house was, and the way I left the bathroom
was not ladylike at all. I told his coworker that
I was very sick and I did not think about
cleaning up the toilet before I went to the hospital.
He said, A nasty woman is a turn off. How
can my boyfriend be so shallow? Is that a son
(02:44):
that he is not the man for me? Or should
I keep trying to reconnect with him? No, don't try
to keep connecting with him. Don't try to reconnect with him.
It's over at this point. It's over. He came and
saw something he didn't need to see, and and that's it.
It's done. I mean, you know, the question is is
(03:05):
your house normally a mess? And I'm going to say no,
because you already said in the letter you guys spent
time over each other's house every night, so obviously it
was clean.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Then I mean, if he.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Doesn't understand that you were very sick and you did
the best you could do before driving yourself to the hospital,
then he No, he's not the one for you. I
don't know what kind of condition you left the house in.
It sounds like you didn't flush, and it was just
a mess in there. But whatever you left in there,
it was too much for his week's stomach to handle.
(03:37):
So you got to leave him alone. Please leave him alone.
I mean his cowork His coworker was right. Men don't
like nasty women, just like women don't like nasty men.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
And the point is you're.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Not a nasty woman, or he wouldn't have been with
you for four whole months. The problem is he can't
unseat that bathroom whatever was going on in there. He
cannot unsee that you were very, very sick. And I
don't know what he doesn't get about that. Food poisoning
is serious business. You can't even control what's going on
(04:11):
with your body and what's coming in and going out.
You know, you can't control that. Your case sounds like
it was very, very severe. It landed you in the hospital.
So all I got to say, if he doesn't understand that,
let him go. He is shallow, and it sounds like
he's moved on anyway, So whatever with him by Steve
(04:31):
Wow that bathroom.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Though, I want to share something with his young lady
in this letter just thirty three year old as dating
it's thirty five year old First.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Of all, he's looking for something.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
He's at that age where he trying to work through
it and he looking at something. When y'all met, you
all were in separate. It's like the only two existed
in this world were on trips.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Two weeks after you started dating. He spoiled me and
God spoiled him.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
He was at my house or I was at his
house every night. He was the best lover, and that
deepened our connection. This went on for foremost and I
was thinking, he's the one. Here we go, here we go, keyword.
I was thinking he's the one. He did not tell
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you you were the one. Ain't nobody in his letter
said we fell deeply in love. Ain't nobody talking about
a commitment. I will tell you for a fact, it
wasn't that deep for him yet, because he was still.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Trying to assess everything. I know you all wover each
other's house every night.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
But the thing of it is you knew when he
was coming, and he knew when he was coming, so
you had time to make your place presentable, as did he.
But then it came along. Everything is going good, and
you got food poisoning and had to be hospitalized for
(06:06):
two days that's a severe case. Yeah. I'd been going
to the bathroom and throwing up before I drove myself
to the hospital. My man rushed to the hospital to
see me and told me he go to my house,
pick up a few taller trees and change the clothes
for me. When he came back to the hospital with
a small bag, he ghosted.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Me hold on right there. In fact, Yeah, what.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
The hell was in that bathroom? I knew it.
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All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is a little pood ran off my boo.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
Yeah, we don't have all the cast members here to
hit this thing that I've decided to share with you.
Thirty three year old woman taking this thirty five year
old man that goes to me. They met, there was
nobody else existed in their lives that went on trip.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Two weeks later they dated. They was either at one
house or the other house. Every time.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
He was the best love of that deep in the
connection and on for four months. She said, I was
thinking he's the one, ladies. A lot of times, I
was thinking he's the one, and it's nothing wrong with
you thinking that. But he didn't share that with you.
I don't think it was that deep for him yet.
I think he was still in the decision making process.
(08:20):
Then I got food poisoned and had to go to
the hospital for two days. That's some strong food poisoning
that girl, you was going through it.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I'd been going to the.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Bathroom and throwing up before I drove myself to the hospital,
raised since to go ahead. Gun. My man rushed to
the hospital to see me and told me he go
to my house and get a few taller trees and
change your clothes from me. He came back to the
hospital with a small bag and then he gohosted. I
called and called and called, and I started wearing that
(08:51):
something had happened. And then I saw that he posted
a picture on Instagram and it was kind of odd
to me, and then he blocked me on IG. So
I wanted some answers, so she decided to go to
his job and wait for him to come out for lunch.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
He walked right past me.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
He said, I'm glad I was better, and he dismissed
me just like that. I had met one of the coworkers,
so I messaged him on ig to see if he
knew what was up with my boy We're in the
social media world, you could do this. He responded right away,
and he said that my boyfriend could not handle how
(09:35):
messy my house was and the way I left the
bathroom was not lady like at all.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I told his coworker that I.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
Was very sick, and I didn't think about cleaning up
the toilet before I went to the hospital. He said,
A nasty woman is a turnoff. How can my boyfriend
be sociell. It's just a sign that he's not the
man for mere. Should I keep trying to be connected? Well,
(10:04):
I don't know if he's a man for you, Shirley
says not.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
So I'm kind of leaning.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
Towards Shirley's response that if he ghosted, you called it this,
this is that. So I gotta tell you something, come come,
something in that bathroom.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
That he ran into.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
Girl, that boy ran in that house, you know, and
tried to bring you some tarle tries. And you probably
didn't just throw up in the bathroom. Throw up might
(10:51):
have happened somewhere else. I don't know if you made
it all the way to the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
But let me tell you something. A lot of SSEs.
What's going on that he ran into that.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
He wasn't suppose Now you say, can he beat his shallow?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Shallow starts with an S too, And.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
Everything he ran into started with an s O one.
He wasn't supposed to see none of it. That's what starts, okay,
And the reason he ain't fooling with you is because
of something he has seen.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Now let's talk about what the hell was in his ground?
Were wrong?
Speaker 5 (11:44):
Let's go with another s word. It had to be
strong in them. I'm talking about some time over the toe.
It was just strong man, God though, what hell go?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
What died in him?
Speaker 5 (12:00):
And then when he realized what was strong, it was sank.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
In and he tried to look and now he opened
the door.
Speaker 5 (12:11):
And ah, all hell broke, lud. Maybe you don't even
know how to be sick. Sicky, feel when you stick,
don't feel moving around because now slashing and the other
hands coming to break.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Now it smeary, not you.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
I'm just telling you what he saw in his bathroom, y'all.
He can't look at her no more. She made him stick.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
I'm sick and it was real, sugar honey ice t T?
Why in here we know that it was sugar honey
ice t T? Why here he get past it?
Speaker 5 (13:03):
Every time he look at you and tump of man
when I don't come over here, this what's going on?
I can't do this, and I think he's gone, But
Sureley said it best.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
He can't get that bathroom out of his head. Bathroom
all right.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
That's another s all right, another s all right right.
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