June 30, 2023 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman and I’ve been having bad luck on the dating scene. Finally, I met someone and thought he was great. Emotionally, he fulfilled my needs and he planned the best dates. We formed a bond over the fact that we were both tired of dating and being disappointed. After dating for 2 months, we decided to take things to the next level and we had sex..........................
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.
If you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting
and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
going to read this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for you.
Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Thank you for your subject. He jumped in feet first.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty eight year old woman
and I've been having bad luck on the dating scene.
Finally I met someone and I thought he was great emotionally.
He fulfilled my need and he planned the best date.
We formed a bond over the fact that we were
(00:44):
both tired of dating and being disappointed. After dating for
a couple of months, we decided to take things to
the next level and we had sex. It was amazing
at first. Then he stopped right in the middle of
the act and asked me to put my stiletto heels
back on. I did it and thought it was something
(01:06):
new and fun. But as we continue to do the
do he focused more on my feet and my shoes
than he did on other essential parts of my body.
The next time we were intimate, he asked me to
take off my socks, and then he grabbed my foot
and interlocked his fingers between my toes. The third time
(01:28):
we were intimate, he grabbed my foot and smacked himself
across the face with it. Now that freaked me out,
and I've never been so mortified, but I didn't say anything.
I decided to take a break from us having sex,
and it was fine with him because I soon figured
(01:48):
out it was my feet that got him aroused, not me. Recently,
we were chilling and watching TV and he took off
my He took my socks off and started licking the
bottom of my I tried to pull away, but he
had a vice grip hold, and I could see that
he was very aroused. It was time to have the
(02:09):
conversation about his foot fetish. He admitted that he was
very attractive to me when we first met, primarily because
of my feet and the white toenail polish. I told
him he was weird, and he said he'd get back
in counseling if I promised not to break up with him.
(02:30):
Boots should I give him a chance to change or
break up with him. I don't know about this guy.
You said it it's weird, and it is a foot fetish,
and I guess the foot fetish is like the most
common of all the fetishes out there. What he's doing
(02:53):
does sound freaky and a little bit crazy, especially the
part about him having a vice grip on your toe
and you're not being able to get away. That was,
you know, kind of weird. But I guess it all
depends on what you're used to, or in this case,
what you're not used to, And guess what it is
okay to feel the way you feel. If you don't
(03:15):
like something or if something is uncomfortable for you and
to you, then you got to tell him. I mean,
you got to let him know what you don't like
and that you don't like this and to stop it
immediately because it's freaking you out. That's how you explained
it to us in the letter. And I'm sure he's
heard this before because you said he's been in counseling,
(03:36):
So it was no surprise to him that that, you know,
he it was a bit much for you. It was
no surprise he would he would get back into counseling
if you promise not to break up with him. So,
you know, you got to decide is this too much
for you? Is this too freaky for you? It sounds
like it is. It doesn't sound like you like it
very much, and it does sound like he's locked in
(03:58):
on your feet, and.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
It doesn't sound.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Like you're interested in that. So if you need to
break up with him, I mean, that's what you gotta do,
because it can only get worse from this point. I mean,
there's no telling what might happen the next time. You know,
you guys are intimate, So maybe you need to stop
while you're behind, while you're head, because you never know
what what might happen with this freaky guy. Steve Well.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
To me, it seems like this is a progressive thing. Yeah,
and I'll tell you what I mean by this. You know,
you're twenty eight. Finally met a man. Both y'all said,
y'all was tired of dating and wanted to find something real.
After y'all dated for two months, everything was going to
y'all decided to go to the next level. Okay, now
(04:46):
here way we change.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
We had sex.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
It was amazing at first, Then he stopped right in
the middle of the asked me to put on my
STERI letto put my stiletto heels back on.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I did it. Thought it was something new, infirm. I
ain't got no problem with that.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I likes to let him. I like toe pointing. I
like all that heels up. Ain'tka holding all that.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
All that. It's just progressive. Now you're stands see you know,
I'm just working through some things with y'all. So you
put the heels back on. It was good. I wouldn't
have let you take them off. Let's just start right there.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
You would have had to go get them back on
because I would have stopped you from taking them off.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
That's I'm just saying. It's levels to this.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
And then he focused more on your feet and your
shoes than the rest of your body. Okay, that's what
you said. The next time we was intermitting that. This
one he asked me to take off my socks. He
grabbed my foot, he interlocked his fingers between my toes.
Wait a damn minute, now, if you jam your big
(05:55):
ass hands down between each one of my toes, let
us play something to you. My toes has never been
apart before. Ever, However, they friends. They are package. My
toes are always touching at all times. A lady grabbed
my big toe one time giving me a pedicure and
put her hand, her whole hand on my big toe
(06:18):
and separated it from the other folk. Couldn't I was hyperventilating.
I couldn't even breathe off. So push you in and
lock your fingers in between my damn toe, and you
got big ass heads.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Were gonna break up about this, Steve? Hold up, Okay,
you're in your fingers between my damn toe. Whill have
for two?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Seem's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
hour of the subject. He jumped in feet first. We'll
get back into it right after this. You're listening hardy
morning show. Hi, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry
Letters subject. He jumped then feet first.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Well, this lady to met this man. They finally started dating.
They both decided they needed something real. He was amazing,
amazing dates and everything. After two months, they decided to
go to the next level and they're having sex, and
in the middle of it, he stopped and asked her
to put these the lettos on once again. Nobody got
no problem with that. That's fun, you know, like all
that too, you know. So anyway they get on and that,
(07:23):
but she noticed she started paying more attention to the
shoes and her feet than the rest of her body. Parted,
there ain't no problem. So they went on and had
sex again. Because sex was amazing, she said him. Then
they did it again. She thought it was new and fun,
and then he here.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
The next time we were intermit, he asked me to
take off my sock.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Now why he had to ask you take your damn
socks off is beyond me. Don't nobody want to make
love with your socks on you? That ain't cute? Okay,
So now he got to ask you to take your
socks off. Don't beat country, Now take your damn socks.
Y'all ain't in the bard, no where, y'all ain't own
in the field. She didn't want get into the house,
(08:00):
take your damn socks off.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
She was scared.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
But when she did take them socks off, this damn
food grabbed her foot and interlocked his fingers between her toes.
What exactly, pot, do you know what the hell would
have happened if you do that to me?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Because, like I said, my feet is a buddy package.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
They friends. They've never really been separated. They've been in
gatas before. They even my sandals. My feet still touched.
It's no point where I don't care if I'm jumping
where all my toes spread out looked like a hand.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
My feet always looked like feet. They don't ever open up.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
They don't have the ability to grab stuff, pick up
quarters and stuff off the ground. These ain't monkey feet.
I can't hang from a tree by my foot, none
of that. I can't write with my foot. You know
people can write with their feet. I can't do that,
all right, And that kind of hurts you. The third
time we was into me. Now here's another one. That's
(09:00):
a little shock. And he grabbed my foot and he
smacked himself across the face with it. That freaked me out.
Oh that would have freaked me out too. But I
bet he wouldn't grab it no more. I'd have kicked
his ass so hard with my foot in his face,
I would have dislocated his damn jaw.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I bet you won't grab my bigger. I wasn't thirteen.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
If you slap myself, if you slap yourself with this foot,
I got you're gonna knock your mothery ass out, cause
take this big ass thirteen and run across your face.
I'm gonna put your ass to sleep. That's what you
should have done. You should have if you got tired
of it and freaked you out, you should have said, oh,
and y'all, pump just kicked it dead in the jaw,
(09:44):
and you've never been so mortified. But I didn't say anything.
I decided to take a break from having sex with
this guy because I figured that was my feet.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
I was more arousement. Well, they was chilling and watching TV.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
He took my socks off and started licking the bottom
of my feet. I have seen some fine with it
the money. I've never met nobody, so damn fine, Well
I'm just licking the bottom. You have walked in there
(10:16):
to the bathroom and came back in here. I'll be
damn if I sit up here and run the risk
of getting pine salt.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
And locks all all over. I got a little tidy
bowl on the bottom of your foot, so now I'm tripping.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Then you tried to pull away, but he had a
vice grip hold.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
And I could see that he was very aroused. Now
this is crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Now he'd have grabbed your foot so hard you couldn't
jerk away from it. Oh, this dude got damn problem
and he aroused. Now he's standing down with your foot
in his hand. It's just a lot going on.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Stay away from that sea.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Yes, it was time we had a conversation about this
foot feather. He admitted that he was very attracted to
me when we first met, primarily because of my feet
and white toenail polish.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
You need to switch that to black immediately.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
I told him, what, I'm gonna switch that white polish
to black immediately.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Feel like, yeah, maybe it might have a different reaction
or something. Right here. You got to get that white
off immediately, because you look at the bottom of your
toes and everything.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Y'all. Y'all, I know you thought that the French American
kill was cute, but you got to kill that. You
got jesup ail red or something you got.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
I don't know what you're gonna do, but you gotta
try something. You gotta get this white off.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I told him he was weird, and he said he'd
get back in counseling if I promise not to break whoa,
You're gonna get back. So now you ain't gonna asked
and ben the council because just ha been a problem before.
You have scared one of them winner so bad she
didn't have your ass committee, so.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
You already been to counselor. Lady, listen to me.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
If he can go to counseling and fix this problem,
you might have a good relationship. But I don't know
what you need to do, he said, I don't know
what if you need to remove your toenails, I don't.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Know what you're gonna have to do.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
I don't know what you got to do to make him.
Start making them look like they hate feet or something,
you know, make them look like some rings on your
toes like a hand.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Put some change around your foot. What what? What's some
change around your foot and make it look like a neck.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
You got to throw his ass off some kind of
we because you see them feet the rabbit as.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Mine ignorant show.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
You're listening to The Day Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
H
All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.
If you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting
and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
going to read this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for you.
Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Thank you for your subject. He jumped in feet first.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty eight year old woman
and I've been having bad luck on the dating scene.
Finally I met someone and I thought he was great emotionally.
He fulfilled my need and he planned the best date.
We formed a bond over the fact that we were
(00:44):
both tired of dating and being disappointed. After dating for
a couple of months, we decided to take things to
the next level and we had sex. It was amazing
at first. Then he stopped right in the middle of
the act and asked me to put my stiletto heels
back on. I did it and thought it was something
(01:06):
new and fun. But as we continue to do the
do he focused more on my feet and my shoes
than he did on other essential parts of my body.
The next time we were intimate, he asked me to
take off my socks, and then he grabbed my foot
and interlocked his fingers between my toes. The third time
(01:28):
we were intimate, he grabbed my foot and smacked himself
across the face with it. Now that freaked me out,
and I've never been so mortified, but I didn't say anything.
I decided to take a break from us having sex,
and it was fine with him because I soon figured
(01:48):
out it was my feet that got him aroused, not me. Recently,
we were chilling and watching TV and he took off
my He took my socks off and started licking the
bottom of my I tried to pull away, but he
had a vice grip hold, and I could see that
he was very aroused. It was time to have the
(02:09):
conversation about his foot fetish. He admitted that he was
very attractive to me when we first met, primarily because
of my feet and the white toenail polish. I told
him he was weird, and he said he'd get back
in counseling if I promised not to break up with him.
(02:30):
Boots should I give him a chance to change or
break up with him. I don't know about this guy.
You said it it's weird, and it is a foot fetish,
and I guess the foot fetish is like the most
common of all the fetishes out there. What he's doing
(02:53):
does sound freaky and a little bit crazy, especially the
part about him having a vice grip on your toe
and you're not being able to get away. That was,
you know, kind of weird. But I guess it all
depends on what you're used to, or in this case,
what you're not used to, And guess what it is
okay to feel the way you feel. If you don't
(03:15):
like something or if something is uncomfortable for you and
to you, then you got to tell him. I mean,
you got to let him know what you don't like
and that you don't like this and to stop it
immediately because it's freaking you out. That's how you explained
it to us in the letter. And I'm sure he's
heard this before because you said he's been in counseling,
(03:36):
So it was no surprise to him that that, you know,
he it was a bit much for you. It was
no surprise he would he would get back into counseling
if you promise not to break up with him. So,
you know, you got to decide is this too much
for you? Is this too freaky for you? It sounds
like it is. It doesn't sound like you like it
very much, and it does sound like he's locked in
(03:58):
on your feet, and.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
It doesn't sound.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Like you're interested in that. So if you need to
break up with him, I mean, that's what you gotta do,
because it can only get worse from this point. I mean,
there's no telling what might happen the next time. You know,
you guys are intimate, So maybe you need to stop
while you're behind, while you're head, because you never know
what what might happen with this freaky guy. Steve Well.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
To me, it seems like this is a progressive thing. Yeah,
and I'll tell you what I mean by this. You know,
you're twenty eight. Finally met a man. Both y'all said,
y'all was tired of dating and wanted to find something real.
After y'all dated for two months, everything was going to
y'all decided to go to the next level. Okay, now
(04:46):
here way we change.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
We had sex.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
It was amazing at first, Then he stopped right in
the middle of the asked me to put on my
STERI letto put my stiletto heels back on.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I did it. Thought it was something new, infirm. I
ain't got no problem with that.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I likes to let him. I like toe pointing. I
like all that heels up. Ain'tka holding all that.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
All that. It's just progressive. Now you're stands see you know,
I'm just working through some things with y'all. So you
put the heels back on. It was good. I wouldn't
have let you take them off. Let's just start right there.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
You would have had to go get them back on
because I would have stopped you from taking them off.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
That's I'm just saying. It's levels to this.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
And then he focused more on your feet and your
shoes than the rest of your body. Okay, that's what
you said. The next time we was intermitting that. This
one he asked me to take off my socks. He
grabbed my foot, he interlocked his fingers between my toes.
Wait a damn minute, now, if you jam your big
(05:55):
ass hands down between each one of my toes, let
us play something to you. My toes has never been
apart before. Ever, However, they friends. They are package. My
toes are always touching at all times. A lady grabbed
my big toe one time giving me a pedicure and
put her hand, her whole hand on my big toe
(06:18):
and separated it from the other folk. Couldn't I was hyperventilating.
I couldn't even breathe off. So push you in and
lock your fingers in between my damn toe, and you
got big ass heads.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Were gonna break up about this, Steve? Hold up, Okay,
you're in your fingers between my damn toe. Whill have
for two?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Seem's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
hour of the subject. He jumped in feet first. We'll
get back into it right after this. You're listening hardy
morning show. Hi, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry
Letters subject. He jumped then feet first.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Well, this lady to met this man. They finally started dating.
They both decided they needed something real. He was amazing,
amazing dates and everything. After two months, they decided to
go to the next level and they're having sex, and
in the middle of it, he stopped and asked her
to put these the lettos on once again. Nobody got
no problem with that. That's fun, you know, like all
that too, you know. So anyway they get on and that,
(07:23):
but she noticed she started paying more attention to the
shoes and her feet than the rest of her body. Parted,
there ain't no problem. So they went on and had
sex again. Because sex was amazing, she said him. Then
they did it again. She thought it was new and fun,
and then he here.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
The next time we were intermit, he asked me to
take off my sock.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Now why he had to ask you take your damn
socks off is beyond me. Don't nobody want to make
love with your socks on you? That ain't cute? Okay,
So now he got to ask you to take your
socks off. Don't beat country, Now take your damn socks.
Y'all ain't in the bard, no where, y'all ain't own
in the field. She didn't want get into the house,
(08:00):
take your damn socks off.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
She was scared.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
But when she did take them socks off, this damn
food grabbed her foot and interlocked his fingers between her toes.
What exactly, pot, do you know what the hell would
have happened if you do that to me?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Because, like I said, my feet is a buddy package.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
They friends. They've never really been separated. They've been in
gatas before. They even my sandals. My feet still touched.
It's no point where I don't care if I'm jumping
where all my toes spread out looked like a hand.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
My feet always looked like feet. They don't ever open up.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
They don't have the ability to grab stuff, pick up
quarters and stuff off the ground. These ain't monkey feet.
I can't hang from a tree by my foot, none
of that. I can't write with my foot. You know
people can write with their feet. I can't do that,
all right, And that kind of hurts you. The third
time we was into me. Now here's another one. That's
(09:00):
a little shock. And he grabbed my foot and he
smacked himself across the face with it. That freaked me out.
Oh that would have freaked me out too. But I
bet he wouldn't grab it no more. I'd have kicked
his ass so hard with my foot in his face,
I would have dislocated his damn jaw.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I bet you won't grab my bigger. I wasn't thirteen.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
If you slap myself, if you slap yourself with this foot,
I got you're gonna knock your mothery ass out, cause
take this big ass thirteen and run across your face.
I'm gonna put your ass to sleep. That's what you
should have done. You should have if you got tired
of it and freaked you out, you should have said, oh,
and y'all, pump just kicked it dead in the jaw,
(09:44):
and you've never been so mortified. But I didn't say anything.
I decided to take a break from having sex with
this guy because I figured that was my feet.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
I was more arousement. Well, they was chilling and watching TV.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
He took my socks off and started licking the bottom
of my feet. I have seen some fine with it
the money. I've never met nobody, so damn fine, Well
I'm just licking the bottom. You have walked in there
(10:16):
to the bathroom and came back in here. I'll be
damn if I sit up here and run the risk
of getting pine salt.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
And locks all all over. I got a little tidy
bowl on the bottom of your foot, so now I'm tripping.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Then you tried to pull away, but he had a
vice grip hold.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
And I could see that he was very aroused. Now
this is crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Now he'd have grabbed your foot so hard you couldn't
jerk away from it. Oh, this dude got damn problem
and he aroused. Now he's standing down with your foot
in his hand. It's just a lot going on.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Stay away from that sea.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
Yes, it was time we had a conversation about this
foot feather. He admitted that he was very attracted to
me when we first met, primarily because of my feet
and white toenail polish.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
You need to switch that to black immediately.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
I told him, what, I'm gonna switch that white polish
to black immediately.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Feel like, yeah, maybe it might have a different reaction
or something. Right here. You got to get that white
off immediately, because you look at the bottom of your
toes and everything.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Y'all. Y'all, I know you thought that the French American
kill was cute, but you got to kill that. You
got jesup ail red or something you got.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
I don't know what you're gonna do, but you gotta
try something. You gotta get this white off.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I told him he was weird, and he said he'd
get back in counseling if I promise not to break whoa,
You're gonna get back. So now you ain't gonna asked
and ben the council because just ha been a problem before.
You have scared one of them winner so bad she
didn't have your ass committee, so.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
You already been to counselor. Lady, listen to me.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
If he can go to counseling and fix this problem,
you might have a good relationship. But I don't know
what you need to do, he said, I don't know
what if you need to remove your toenails, I don't.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Know what you're gonna have to do.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
I don't know what you got to do to make him.
Start making them look like they hate feet or something,
you know, make them look like some rings on your
toes like a hand.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Put some change around your foot. What what? What's some
change around your foot and make it look like a neck.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
You got to throw his ass off some kind of
we because you see them feet the rabbit as.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Mine ignorant show.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
You're listening to The Day Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
H
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