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October 11, 2021 16 mins

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was dating Mr. Right for almost one year and we got a condo together and looked at rings together. He is a physician and his practice is about an hour from where our condo is. We dated publicly and I met all his friends and his sister. He never gave me any reason to suspect that he was married. He is an avid golfer in his spare time and he usually stays at the resort where he golfs on the weekend.................

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.
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(00:21):
that right now, it could be yours. You never know,
You never know these letters. All right, ladies and Gentlemen's
time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friends. Shirley Strawsberry.
All right, thank you, junior in for Tommy subject. He
left the restaurant with his wife. Okay, dear Stephen, Shirley,
I was dating mister Wright for almost one year, and

(00:44):
we got a condo together and looked at rings together.
He's a physician and his practice is about an hour
from where our condo is. We dated publicly, and I
met all his friends and his sister. He never gave
me any reason to suspect that he was married. He
is an avid golfer in his spare time, and he
usually stays at the resort where he golfs on the weekend. Again,

(01:08):
I had no idea that he was married, since he
spends most nights with me and a few nights in
the city where his medical practice is. Two weeks ago,
he decided we'd go to the wharf and have a
nice dinner with another couple. I got excited because I
thought he might be ready to propose. We'd never been
to this restaurant before. But when we got there, all

(01:29):
the waiters and staff there greeted him and called him
by name. We sat in a private room, and my
stomach was in not the whole time, because I thought
tonight was the night. As we got to dessert and
had a few cocktails, the door opened and a woman
walked in wearing sweats and a bonnet. She said thanks

(01:54):
to the waiter, and she walked toward us. She came
to our table and asked my man to get up
and come with her. My man smiled at me and
squeezed my hand under the table. Before he got up,
he asked the other guy to handle the check and
make sure I got home safely. I jumped up and
asked what was going on. The woman advised me to

(02:17):
sit back down and enjoy the rest of my evening.
My man didn't even look my way, I sat down
and the woman at the table told me that that
was Jim's wife. Well, Jim and I have created a
life together and he hasn't reached out to me in
almost two weeks. What do I do now? Okay, I

(02:38):
think you already know the answer to this. You don't
have many choices here, you really don't. But the one
thing you have to do is pick up the pieces
and try to get your life back on track. You
got to move on, you have to. I mean, this
man is married, plain and simple. His friends know it, obviously,
the waiters at the restaurant knows it, know it. He

(03:00):
knows it. He just didn't tell you. You were the
only one in the dark. And for almost a year
he was able to keep this going. How did you
guys get a condo together without you knowing this? You
looked at rings. He didn't buy your ring, but you
looked at rings together. You know obviously has money, he's
a doctor. So what he's doing is staying with you.

(03:21):
And you know, some of those nights when he stays
with you, but the other nights he's with his wife. Obviously,
I guess they're still together, because she certainly thought they
did they were. All the waiters knew her as well.
So what do you do now? Like I said, pick
up those pieces, start to move on with your life.
This man has not reached out to you in almost

(03:42):
two weeks. The last thing you heard from him is
when he squeezed your hand under the table and told
his friend to make sure you got home safely. Well,
his friend did that. It's no use in trying to
chase after this guy. It really isn't. He's got a wife.
You don't need. All that you need to figure out
about the situation with this condo. Is his name on it?

(04:03):
Is your name on it? Can you stay there? Can
you sell it and get something else? That's what you
need to be concentrating on right now, Steve. All right, lord,
Lord Lord, this main right here now, y'all. What I'm
about to share with y'all. I know exactly what happened.
To listen. I know all the inside. I know what

(04:28):
he said, I know he said how he said it
up I play go, I know I know how he
designed this whole thing. What I'm going to reveal to you,
I ain't gonna do it right now. When we come back.
I just want to set y'all up now, I want
to apologize to the men this listening. Oh all right,

(04:50):
because I'm going to expose the intricacies of how this
is all set up, turning my mic go because this
is a set up, and I know every move in here.
I don't see Shirley, you you don't understand. No, see

(05:12):
you thinking he's a liar and a Cheaterah, but you
don't know how the setup has happened because in his mind,
his friend's mind, and her mind, all this is going
down based on the setup. See it's the setup you
keep from getting Remember that when we get to the

(05:34):
part where they were in a private room at a
restaurant where they knew his name, there's a reason for that.
And the reason his friends were there with other women
is because they know, because they're all liars and cheaters.

(05:55):
You don't know why did the woman so calmly say
to her that's Jim's wife. Because the women are in
on it too, right, I get that the chief. No, No,
they're in on the setup. See you y'all keep looking

(06:17):
at this too. Damn basic, more complicated than not? Is
it really through it? Surely? Okay? You don't know the
game Okay, but when we come back, I know a liar.
I'm gonna tell it to you now. Of your response

(06:39):
coming up, you're gonna one of my response. This is
a mess. Subject left the restaurant with his wife. We'll
get back into it right after this. You're listening to
the Steven Show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap
today's strawberry letter. The subject he left the restaurant with

(07:01):
his wife. He left the restaurant with his wife? Yeah,
who else he posted to a restaurant with We read
this letter. Now, let me tell you why did Stephen Shirley.
I was dating mister Wright for almost a year. We
got a condo together and look for rings together. The

(07:23):
reason you got a condo together is the following line.
He's a physician and his practice is about an hour
from where our condo is. So now his practice is
also in the same area that his wife and family
lives in. He got the condo because he's telling you

(07:51):
it's an hour away from his practice, which you've never
been to, by the way, which may not really be
an hour away. See you've never been there. Now, he's
a physician, he's practiced about an hour away from what
our conduits. We dated publicly and I met all of

(08:13):
his friends and sister. The reason you dated publicly is
because he has told his friends and his family that
he and his wife are having difficulties. They are struggling,
and he told him that that's why his friends and

(08:34):
sisters has been looped in. He never gave me any
reason to suspect that he was married. Now, he didn't
tell you he was married because he was planning on
it all going away eventually. He is an avid golfer
in his spare time, and he usually stays at the

(08:56):
resort where he golfs on the weekend. What boy, let
me tell you some First of all, you get a
golf membership within the city confines of where you stay.
So if you're a doctor within the city confines of
where you say, you can get to your practice and
you can get to your love of golf by just
driving from your house. Don't nobody stay at the damn

(09:20):
golf resort while they play golf. No, And once again,
you've never been to the golf resort because he focuses
on his game, because he's an advoct golfer, he is
not at the golf course spending the night he is
at home with the wife that he's having trouble with.

(09:40):
So now again I had no idea. Again, I had
no idea that he was married. Since he spends most
nights with me. He spends the night with you because
he told his wife that he gets calls in the
middle of the night and he'd rather be closer to

(10:01):
the hospital than to be at home. And since they
have in trouble, they're okay with that. She knows about
another place. She just don't know you in it. See
y'all listen to my setup, ladies. Two weeks ago, we
decided to go to the war the wharf. Didn't have
a nice dinner with another couple, another couple, just one.

(10:23):
I got excited because I thought he might be ready
to propose. We've never been to this restaurant before. But
when we got there, all the way that's in staff
there greeted him and called him by name. You know,
doctors got stuff like that, you know. Famously, we set
in the private room and my stomach was in knots
the whole time. Yeah, because you don't know what health
and happen. Your stomach was in knoch because what you

(10:45):
thought was gonna happen. Your stay and your stomach were
really a nas in a minute, though, because I thought
tonight was a night. As we got deserted and had
had a few cocktails, the door opened and a woman
walked in wearing sweats and a bonnet. She said thanks
to the waiter, and she walked towards us. She came

(11:08):
to our table. Now you're in a private room now
obviously no non private room. All this is exciting for you.
She came to our table and asked my man to
get up and come with her. My man smiled at me,

(11:30):
squeezed my hand under the table. Before he got up.
He asked the other guy to handle the check, which
is his boy, who knows what the deal is. Had
to make sure I got home safe because he doctored
a position. They're gonna make no food out their self
in here now. The wife ain't gonna have a restaurant
up because she's she They know them now, they come

(11:55):
that off, but she got a bonnet on. She just
came up out of the house. The monique monique the
comedians and told her about coming out like that, and
told y'all don't be coming up here like this hill.
But that's just a fly not to handle this business.
Said it with love. But now when you come out

(12:17):
to dope man, you're gonna go. Now you forgot what
Monique said. Well, anyway, he is got a bonnet on
and attract suit and the bottom don't match the top.
She got dressed right quick. My man smiled at me,
squeezed my hand on the table. Before he got up.
He asked the other guy to handle the check man
a check for man, shou get home, I'm saying. I

(12:40):
jumped up and asked what was going on. The woman
advised me to sit back down. See this is a
physician's wife. Hey, to your ass, back down. She didn't
advise you, she said, sit down. Oh you get put
down all right. We'll be back with part three of

(13:03):
the Strawberry Letter for time he left the restaurant with
his wife? What is he's a liar? He's a cheater? Yes,
it's simple. We'll be back with more of the Steve
Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
Morning Show. Here we go with part three of today's

(13:24):
Strawberry Letter. The subject is he left the restaurant with
his wife. It really should just be he's a liar
and a cheater. Steve, I don't get it to set up.
Man left an important piece of information out of this setup,
and I will show you why the whole fiasco has
crumbled around him because of one gaping mistake. He got

(13:45):
a condo with this woman because he didn't told his
wife he needs to be closer to the hospital. His wife,
and now they've been aging, having some troubles. They do
have some problems in the marriage, but that's common a
lot of marriages do. That's no reason to cheat and
get another place. But he got the placement, decided to
get the place with a girl, so he got the
place where the girl. Never told his wife where it
was just a closer and then they dated publicly met

(14:10):
all his friends and his sister. Because he didn't told
family and friends. They on the outs. He's tired of her,
she's demanding. There on the outs, he's looking. He wants
to be happy. So all of them is okay because
he's the physician. He's been providing for the family for
a number of years. So they find the dog him
out and then his friends just believe whatever he's saying
or to his boy he's an avid golfer in his

(14:32):
spare time, and he usually stays at the resort where
he golfs on the weekend. That's not true. No one
gets a golf membership in the town way away from
where they staying, or they got gonna spend the night.
You go play golf, your drinks at the nineteenth Hold
with your buddys, and you take your hands home. So
every weekend he's at home with his wife because she
knows he doesn't have practice doing the weekend. So now

(14:53):
his wife thinks he's just coming home and doing the
week when he's spend the night at his condole's going
to be closer to the hospital. I had no idea
he was married, since he spent most of the nights
where he's in the medical practice. Is two weeks ago,
he decided to go to the wharf and I have
a nice dinner with another couple. Got excited because he
thought he was gonna married. They're sitting there having dinner.

(15:14):
A woman walks in with a bonnet and the track
suit tells him to get up and come with her.
He squeezed her hand under the table, smiles at her
tailor due hey man, make sure she get home safe
and pay the check. I got up and saying, hey,
what's going on? She advised me to sit back down.
She said, if you don't sit your black ass back down,
you ain't gonna see tomorrow. Garden two. That's what she said.

(15:39):
I sat back down, and a woman at the table
told me that was Jim's wife. Well, Jim and I
have created life together and he hasn't reached out to
me in almost two weeks. What do I do now?
The roost is over, The fiasco has fallen apart, and
the only reason it fell apart that night was called
the dumb ass physician took you to a restaurant that
he frequents often, and everybody know him and know his wife,

(16:04):
and one of the waiters and the waitresses called his
wife and said, your damn husband down him with another woman.
She got dressed right quick, came down now, and you're
lucky she didn't whoop your day. The only reason you
like this letters because it's about golf too. We'll be
back with more of than Steve Harvey Morning Show at

(16:26):
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to the Steve Harvey Morning Show
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