October 2, 2024 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a man that was married. When I met him, he was going through a hard divorce, so I allowed him to vent and even cry sometimes because he was going through it. I loved how he never said anything negative about his ex wife. I felt like she had to be an evil person because of how bad the divorce was. I finally talked to her for the first time, and she's far from evil. But first, let me tell you what happened. Two weekends ago. I went to Dallas for the day and I drove back home that same night. My boyfriend said he was out watching the game. He sent me a text that said he wanted to see me before I left, and another one that said please, please please.....................................
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEYFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Right now. Buckle up and hold on time. We got it.
Tol you here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Thank you nephew. Subject he risked it all for one
night with her. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm dating a man
that was married. When I met him, he was going
through a hard divorce, so I allowed him to vent
and even cry sometimes because he was going through it.
I loved how he never said anything negative about his
ex wife. I felt like she had to be an
(00:45):
evil person because of how bad the divorce was. I
finally talked to her for the first time, and she's
far from evil. But first, let me tell you what happened.
Two weekends ago. I went to Dallas for the day
and I drove back home that same night. My boyfriend
said he was out watching the game. He sent me
a text that said he wanted to see me before
(01:06):
I left, and another woe that said please, please please.
I was back home by then, so I texted him
and told him I was home in bed, and I
asked him to come over. He didn't respond. Never in
my wildest dreams would I have thought that his texts
were not for me. Supposedly he was trying to text
his ex wife, not me. Now fast forward to yesterday,
(01:29):
when his ex wife called me. She said she got
my number from my boyfriend's phone. She was very pleasant
and complimentary, and she said she follows me on Instagram.
She said she got married two weeks ago in Virginia
and my boyfriend called her millions of times before she
left town for her wedding. She said he begged to
(01:50):
make love to her one more time, and she sent
me the text thread to prove it. His text said
that he'd risk it all just to have one more
night with her. Said they did have sex that night,
and she felt that I should know, so I can
only assume that he's still in love with her. My
boyfriend denied everything, even the texts. For the first time ever.
(02:12):
He said he hates her. Should I believe his ex
or not? I don't know who you should believe. I
really don't. I mean, she has absolutely no reason to
call you with this story. And then again, if it's true,
your boyfriend had every reason to lie to you, I
mean he got caught, so then he had to lie,
like Steve always says, because he could now lose you.
(02:35):
But this, I don't know. This sounds crazy to me.
It sounds kind of like revenge or something, because for
what reason. I just can't think of a reason why
she would waste her time running back to you and snitching.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
The ex wife.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Did not have to tell you this. She's with her
new husband now they're married. So what difference does it
make for you? Know, if she's honest with you, she
doesn't even know you. Is she trying to do you
a solid or something? You know, by letting you know
what kind of man you're with. Why can't she just
go on be happy with her new husband. I just
again say, she didn't have to tell you that she
(03:09):
slept with her ex. You're a man. She said she
got your number from her ex's phone, so she had
his phone. She could have sent the text messages herself.
I don't know. My question is why does she have
to sting you and her ex on the way out.
She was risking it all too. I mean, she had
a lot to lose. You guys could have gone back
and told her it just reeks. I don't know of
her trying to get back at her ex one last
(03:32):
dig on the way out. I don't know, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Shirley, Shirley shite, Yes, girl, girl, girl. See the problem,
Shirley is you keep trying to give people the benefit
of the doubt. You being a kind hearted person, try
to find it in everybody. I, on the other hand, no,
(03:59):
most people ain't sugar honey iced tea. And I just
go on and get to the point. Why we playing
around right here? Because I see what's happening in this letter.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Charlie. You almost saw it.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
You almost saw it, But the good person in you
j just won't let.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
You believe it.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Well, see, there's a side of me that I do
believe that fat meat is greasy. That's the difference. I'm
dating to marry a man that was married when I
met him. He's going through a hard divorce. So I
lied him. Event even cry sometime. Then, she said, and
this is key. I loved how he never said anything
(04:41):
negative about his wife.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Keep that in mind. That's number one.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Then she said I felt like she had to be
an evil because be an evil person.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Let's keep that in mind. That statement number two.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
And then she said, I finally talked for the first time,
and she's far from evil. Oh how many times have
you talked to somebody you thought was wonderful only to
find out later that they wouldn't first time you talk
to most people, they cool. It's them other conversations where
you stay. It's the discovery part of it. So let
(05:20):
me tell you what happened. Two weeks ago, I went
to Dallas for the day. I drove back home that
same night. My boyfriend said he was out watching the game.
He sent me a text that said he wanted to
see me before I left, and one that said please
please please not. Let's keep that in mind. The text
that said he wanted to see me before I left,
(05:43):
that's statement number three. Another one that said please please
please please please please please please do go baby.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I love your soul.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
So now we beg I was back home by then,
so I told him the text him. I was home
in bed, asked him to come over. He didn't respond.
Never in my wildest dreams would I've thought that his
texts were not for me? Well, why would you say
that was not for you? Supposedly he was trying to
text his ex wife, not me. Now fast forward to
yesterday when his ex wife called me. She said she
(06:20):
got my number from my boyfriend's phone. You said in
your letter, I finally talked to her for the first time,
and she's far from evil. But that was right after
you said like she has to be an evil person.
Now here come to evil ass person. Hang on, she
called me yesterday.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
You all right, we'll have part two of Steve's response
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's
Strawberry letter, subject he risted all for one night with her.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's
recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is he risted all
(07:00):
for one night with her?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Yes, she did, and Shirley said she doesn't. One of
the things you said in the letter Shirley was and
you almost said it. You said, she doesn't have a
reason to do this, she doesn't have a reason to
do this. But then you later on tried to correct
to that. Yeah, but listen to this though. See see
(07:25):
here's the statements in the letter. The man was going
through divorce. It was hard when he was crying and everything.
But the lady said, I loved how he never said
anything negative about his ex wife.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And then the lady said, who wrote this letter?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I felt like she had to be an evil person
because of how the divorce was. That's a good sign.
You find out the true nature of person when it
comes to money and division. But then when I talked
to her for the first time, she was far from evil.
What happened, Well, let me tell you what happened. Two
weeks ago. I drove back home from Dallas. That same night,
(07:58):
my boyfriend said he was out watching the game. He
sent me a text and said he wanted to see
me before I left. That's a direct text to her.
She's got a draw back to her other city. He said,
I want to see you before you leave. That's a
direct text to her. And another one that said please,
please please. Well, I got back home by the time
(08:19):
he texted me, and I told him I was in
bed to ask him to come over. Then he didn't respond.
Never in my wildless dreams, what I ever thought that
his text were not for me? Those texts them text
was for you. Now fast forward to yesterday when his
ex wife called me, Oh, you're talking about the person
that ain't evil? Then you said, after you talked to her,
she's far from evil. Now did she called you out
(08:41):
the blue? And guess what she called you? She said,
she got my number from my boyfriend's phone. What she
doing in his phone? That don't sound evil? And she
was very pleasant and complimentary and said, she follows me
on Instagram. You know how many times people sugarcoat the truth,
kind and cobbling.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I'll follow you on Instagram? Why why are you following me?
What's up with you? You stalking? Yeah? She following you because
guess why? She said?
Speaker 3 (09:09):
She got married two weeks ago in Virginia and my
boyfriend called her millions of time before she left town
for her wedd She said he begged to make love
to her one more time, and she sent me the
text thread.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
To prove it.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
But listen to me, though that text thread don't say
is from him, because all you can do is screenshot
the text. You can't the phone number ain't on that
just days and times. So now listen to this game
right here. Said he begged her to make love there
one more time. She sent me the text it. His
text said that he'd risk it all just to have
(09:45):
one more night with her. He ain't the only person
that to say nothing like that, she said. Then she
said they did have sex that night. Hold ain't you
just not getting married?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
Exactly?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
And then you did have sex with him?
Speaker 3 (10:03):
And you think she's a kind, good person, And she
got your number out of her boyfriend's per phone. And
Shirley said she has no reason to do it. But
listen to me, she has a reason to do it
because she did it. Never when a person does something,
never say they have no reason to do it because
(10:25):
they done done it.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
See once you do it, it ain't no need to you're
talking about it. I ain't have no reason. I just did.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
No, no, no, you had a reason. His text said
he risk at all just having one She said she
didn't have She said they did have sex that night,
and she felt that I should know why.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Why? Because she stink? She evil, that's what she is.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Scally wagg And then gonna sit up and call you
and just I felt like you should know. Wait a minute,
why you didn't feel like you shouldn't do it. Why
you didn't feel like you should be loyal to your
fiance who you was fitting to marry in a week.
Why you didn't feel like man, let me spare her this,
Why you didn't feel none of that goodness stuff you
(11:13):
talking about now all of a sudden, you're a Christian.
I felt like you should know. That's what's crazy to me, man.
So I can only assume that he's still in love
with her. She's married, she's gone. My boyfriend didn't hit
on my man right here, right here, come on, come through, now,
you'll go the whole letter for me. My boyfriend denied everything,
(11:34):
even the text. For the first time ever, he said
he hates her. Should I believe his ex or not?
First of all, you needed what was the ex's purpose
for letting you know any of this? She felt that
(11:54):
you should know. Wait a minute, why what happened? What
was the breakup about? What was the divorce because obviously
he was hurt about the divorce, crying and stuff, because
he didn't want to lose her for some reason. But
maybe it was something she did. This person you thought
was not evil, who I think is nothing but pure evil.
(12:14):
So I think what happened is she called you since
her marriage was messed up because she'd the violated her
or fiance and her wed in vials by sleeping with
your husband after he begged her, and then thought she'd
call you out the goodness of her heart where it
was all this goodness when it was time to make
the decision not to sleep with him. So, lady, I
(12:36):
wouldn't believe the ex if I wish you because she
had every reason to do that. She's got a bunch
of reasons, and she's evil, and who does that? If
your boyfriend was still in love with her? She been
married in Virginia for two weeks ago, and she called
you after that to tell you that she slept with
(12:59):
this do but she married?
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Who do that?
Speaker 3 (13:03):
Yeah, that's an evil, vindictive person that's not happy and
don't want to see nobody else happy.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter as Steve Harvey FM,
and check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast. We
got Junior and Sports Talk right after this.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I never seen these text before.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEYFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Right now. Buckle up and hold on time. We got it.
Tol you here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Thank you nephew. Subject he risked it all for one
night with her. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm dating a man
that was married. When I met him, he was going
through a hard divorce, so I allowed him to vent
and even cry sometimes because he was going through it.
I loved how he never said anything negative about his
ex wife. I felt like she had to be an
(00:45):
evil person because of how bad the divorce was. I
finally talked to her for the first time, and she's
far from evil. But first, let me tell you what happened.
Two weekends ago. I went to Dallas for the day
and I drove back home that same night. My boyfriend
said he was out watching the game. He sent me
a text that said he wanted to see me before
(01:06):
I left, and another woe that said please, please please.
I was back home by then, so I texted him
and told him I was home in bed, and I
asked him to come over. He didn't respond. Never in
my wildest dreams would I have thought that his texts
were not for me. Supposedly he was trying to text
his ex wife, not me. Now fast forward to yesterday,
(01:29):
when his ex wife called me. She said she got
my number from my boyfriend's phone. She was very pleasant
and complimentary, and she said she follows me on Instagram.
She said she got married two weeks ago in Virginia
and my boyfriend called her millions of times before she
left town for her wedding. She said he begged to
(01:50):
make love to her one more time, and she sent
me the text thread to prove it. His text said
that he'd risk it all just to have one more
night with her. Said they did have sex that night,
and she felt that I should know, so I can
only assume that he's still in love with her. My
boyfriend denied everything, even the texts. For the first time ever.
(02:12):
He said he hates her. Should I believe his ex
or not? I don't know who you should believe. I
really don't. I mean, she has absolutely no reason to
call you with this story. And then again, if it's true,
your boyfriend had every reason to lie to you, I
mean he got caught, so then he had to lie,
like Steve always says, because he could now lose you.
(02:35):
But this, I don't know. This sounds crazy to me.
It sounds kind of like revenge or something, because for
what reason. I just can't think of a reason why
she would waste her time running back to you and snitching.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
The ex wife.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Did not have to tell you this. She's with her
new husband now they're married. So what difference does it
make for you? Know, if she's honest with you, she
doesn't even know you. Is she trying to do you
a solid or something? You know, by letting you know
what kind of man you're with. Why can't she just
go on be happy with her new husband. I just
again say, she didn't have to tell you that she
(03:09):
slept with her ex. You're a man. She said she
got your number from her ex's phone, so she had
his phone. She could have sent the text messages herself.
I don't know. My question is why does she have
to sting you and her ex on the way out.
She was risking it all too. I mean, she had
a lot to lose. You guys could have gone back
and told her it just reeks. I don't know of
her trying to get back at her ex one last
(03:32):
dig on the way out. I don't know, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Shirley, Shirley shite, Yes, girl, girl, girl. See the problem,
Shirley is you keep trying to give people the benefit
of the doubt. You being a kind hearted person, try
to find it in everybody. I, on the other hand, no,
(03:59):
most people ain't sugar honey iced tea. And I just
go on and get to the point. Why we playing
around right here? Because I see what's happening in this letter.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Charlie. You almost saw it.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
You almost saw it, But the good person in you
j just won't let.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
You believe it.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Well, see, there's a side of me that I do
believe that fat meat is greasy. That's the difference. I'm
dating to marry a man that was married when I
met him. He's going through a hard divorce. So I
lied him. Event even cry sometime. Then, she said, and
this is key. I loved how he never said anything
(04:41):
negative about his wife.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Keep that in mind. That's number one.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Then she said I felt like she had to be
an evil because be an evil person.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Let's keep that in mind. That statement number two.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
And then she said, I finally talked for the first time,
and she's far from evil. Oh how many times have
you talked to somebody you thought was wonderful only to
find out later that they wouldn't first time you talk
to most people, they cool. It's them other conversations where
you stay. It's the discovery part of it. So let
(05:20):
me tell you what happened. Two weeks ago, I went
to Dallas for the day. I drove back home that
same night. My boyfriend said he was out watching the game.
He sent me a text that said he wanted to
see me before I left, and one that said please
please please not. Let's keep that in mind. The text
that said he wanted to see me before I left,
(05:43):
that's statement number three. Another one that said please please
please please please please please please do go baby.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I love your soul.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
So now we beg I was back home by then,
so I told him the text him. I was home
in bed, asked him to come over. He didn't respond.
Never in my wildest dreams would I've thought that his
texts were not for me? Well, why would you say
that was not for you? Supposedly he was trying to
text his ex wife, not me. Now fast forward to
yesterday when his ex wife called me. She said she
(06:20):
got my number from my boyfriend's phone. You said in
your letter, I finally talked to her for the first time,
and she's far from evil. But that was right after
you said like she has to be an evil person.
Now here come to evil ass person. Hang on, she
called me yesterday.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
You all right, we'll have part two of Steve's response
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's
Strawberry letter, subject he risted all for one night with her.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's
recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is he risted all
(07:00):
for one night with her?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Yes, she did, and Shirley said she doesn't. One of
the things you said in the letter Shirley was and
you almost said it. You said, she doesn't have a
reason to do this, she doesn't have a reason to
do this. But then you later on tried to correct
to that. Yeah, but listen to this though. See see
(07:25):
here's the statements in the letter. The man was going
through divorce. It was hard when he was crying and everything.
But the lady said, I loved how he never said
anything negative about his ex wife.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And then the lady said, who wrote this letter?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I felt like she had to be an evil person
because of how the divorce was. That's a good sign.
You find out the true nature of person when it
comes to money and division. But then when I talked
to her for the first time, she was far from evil.
What happened, Well, let me tell you what happened. Two
weeks ago. I drove back home from Dallas. That same night,
(07:58):
my boyfriend said he was out watching the game. He
sent me a text and said he wanted to see
me before I left. That's a direct text to her.
She's got a draw back to her other city. He said,
I want to see you before you leave. That's a
direct text to her. And another one that said please,
please please. Well, I got back home by the time
(08:19):
he texted me, and I told him I was in
bed to ask him to come over. Then he didn't respond.
Never in my wildless dreams, what I ever thought that
his text were not for me? Those texts them text
was for you. Now fast forward to yesterday when his
ex wife called me, Oh, you're talking about the person
that ain't evil? Then you said, after you talked to her,
she's far from evil. Now did she called you out
(08:41):
the blue? And guess what she called you? She said,
she got my number from my boyfriend's phone. What she
doing in his phone? That don't sound evil? And she
was very pleasant and complimentary and said, she follows me
on Instagram. You know how many times people sugarcoat the truth,
kind and cobbling.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I'll follow you on Instagram? Why why are you following me?
What's up with you? You stalking? Yeah? She following you because
guess why? She said?
Speaker 3 (09:09):
She got married two weeks ago in Virginia and my
boyfriend called her millions of time before she left town
for her wedd She said he begged to make love
to her one more time, and she sent me the
text thread.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
To prove it.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
But listen to me, though that text thread don't say
is from him, because all you can do is screenshot
the text. You can't the phone number ain't on that
just days and times. So now listen to this game
right here. Said he begged her to make love there
one more time. She sent me the text it. His
text said that he'd risk it all just to have
(09:45):
one more night with her. He ain't the only person
that to say nothing like that, she said. Then she
said they did have sex that night. Hold ain't you
just not getting married?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
Exactly?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
And then you did have sex with him?
Speaker 3 (10:03):
And you think she's a kind, good person, And she
got your number out of her boyfriend's per phone. And
Shirley said she has no reason to do it. But
listen to me, she has a reason to do it
because she did it. Never when a person does something,
never say they have no reason to do it because
(10:25):
they done done it.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
See once you do it, it ain't no need to you're
talking about it. I ain't have no reason. I just did.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
No, no, no, you had a reason. His text said
he risk at all just having one She said she
didn't have She said they did have sex that night,
and she felt that I should know why.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Why? Because she stink? She evil, that's what she is.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Scally wagg And then gonna sit up and call you
and just I felt like you should know. Wait a minute,
why you didn't feel like you shouldn't do it. Why
you didn't feel like you should be loyal to your
fiance who you was fitting to marry in a week.
Why you didn't feel like man, let me spare her this,
Why you didn't feel none of that goodness stuff you
(11:13):
talking about now all of a sudden, you're a Christian.
I felt like you should know. That's what's crazy to me, man.
So I can only assume that he's still in love
with her. She's married, she's gone. My boyfriend didn't hit
on my man right here, right here, come on, come through, now,
you'll go the whole letter for me. My boyfriend denied everything,
(11:34):
even the text. For the first time ever, he said
he hates her. Should I believe his ex or not?
First of all, you needed what was the ex's purpose
for letting you know any of this? She felt that
(11:54):
you should know. Wait a minute, why what happened? What
was the breakup about? What was the divorce because obviously
he was hurt about the divorce, crying and stuff, because
he didn't want to lose her for some reason. But
maybe it was something she did. This person you thought
was not evil, who I think is nothing but pure evil.
(12:14):
So I think what happened is she called you since
her marriage was messed up because she'd the violated her
or fiance and her wed in vials by sleeping with
your husband after he begged her, and then thought she'd
call you out the goodness of her heart where it
was all this goodness when it was time to make
the decision not to sleep with him. So, lady, I
(12:36):
wouldn't believe the ex if I wish you because she
had every reason to do that. She's got a bunch
of reasons, and she's evil, and who does that? If
your boyfriend was still in love with her? She been
married in Virginia for two weeks ago, and she called
you after that to tell you that she slept with
(12:59):
this do but she married?
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Who do that?
Speaker 3 (13:03):
Yeah, that's an evil, vindictive person that's not happy and
don't want to see nobody else happy.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter as Steve Harvey FM,
and check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast. We
got Junior and Sports Talk right after this.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I never seen these text before.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
Popular Podcasts
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
24/7 News: The Latest
The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.