February 21, 2023 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, a while back I met a man on a dating app and it was supposed to be just a one-night stand. He came over and we had the most explosive sex! After that, we talked all night. He lives out of town and when he got back home, we talked daily and spent hours getting to know each other. He came back to visit me because he was dying to have sex with me..............
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.
If you need advice on sex, on dating, relationships, work, parenting,
and more, please submit.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
We could, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
We could read your letter like we're going to do
that one today would be you.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Okay, buggle up and hold on tight. We got it
for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Nephew's subject he stole my heart and a few other things.
Dear Stephen Shirley. A while back, I met a man
on a dating app and it was supposed to be
just a one night's stand. He came over and we
had the most explosive sex.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
After that, we talked all night.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
He lives out of town, and when he got back home,
we talked daily and spent hours getting to know each other.
He came back to visit me because he was dying
to have sex with me. We admitted that we were
catching feelings. After he left, I noticed that he changed.
If I missed his call, he called me back to
(01:08):
beck until I answered. It was so sweet, but I
kept reassuring him that I wasn't cheating. He came to
visit again, and this time he brought some of his
clothes and a few personal things to leave at my house.
This made me so happy because it meant we were
an official couple. Whenever we got into arguments, he'd jokingly say,
(01:31):
don't make me pop up to see what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I never thought he would do it, but he did.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
One Saturday, I volunteered to feed the homeless, and I
couldn't use my phone while I was serving due to
the COVID nineteen guidelines. At the place, I went for
four hours without answering my man's.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Calls and he lost it.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
When I got home, he had kicked my door in
and he left me a note. I discovered that he
took all of his clothes, and he also took my
forty two inch TV, two lamps, some of my shoes,
some frozen steaks, and the microwave. It was so random,
since he has never bought me anything. I called to
(02:16):
beg him to come back, but he said it's over
and he never wants to see me again. How can
I get this man to see that I would never
cheat on him? How can I fix this?
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Hmm?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Okay, I'm gonna read your words back to you and
see if this sparks anything in your brain. You say,
when I got home, he had kicked my door in.
He'd left me a note.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I discovered.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
He took all of my clothes, and he also took
my forty two inch TV to lamb, some of my shoes,
some frozen steaks, and the microwave. Okay, does that sound
crazy to you? I mean, doesn't that sound a little crazy?
It does to me. I'm sure it does to Steve
and to everyone else listening. So why why would you
(02:59):
want this ignorant man back in your life? I mean, honestly,
it sounds scary. I mean, who does this? He sounds
like some kind of psychopath to me, I just say,
consider yourself blessed that that's all.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
He took the TV.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
And a microwave and some shoes, And I really don't
get the stakes part anyway. He sounds violent, he sounds controlling,
he sounds possessive. To me, I'm so glad. I'm really
glad you weren't in the house because I think he
would have put his hands on you. I really do,
And it's really a shame. I think that I have
to tell you this. It really pains me, honestly, because
(03:37):
you gotta know, you need to know this, that you
shouldn't be so desperate that you would think that you
would have to beg this man to come back to
you to do what I mean, Let him go, please, girl,
you gotta let him go, and don't ever invite him
back to your house.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I mean, he tried to destroy your house. He kicked
the door in. Come on, he's a thief. Remember that.
Please don't forget that. Let's be clear. This man sounds
very unstable.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I think you need to run and run quickly and
get away from him.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Steve Well, good letter, Shirley. I see a little something
else in here that I probably need to go over
and cover. Yes, oh met this man on his day. Now,
this way this went wrong. It was supposed to be
(04:29):
a one night stand, just a hit it, quit it,
sock it, knock it, throw it, catch it. He came
over and we had, in your words, the most explosive sex. Now,
(04:51):
let me show you what happens after you have explosive sex.
Y'all talk daily, spent hours getting to know each other.
Came back to visit because he was dying to have
sex with me again. You know why, because it was explosive.
(05:13):
We admitted we was catching feelings. He left and I
noticed he changed if I missed his cause he would
call me back to back to back. You know why,
because y'all had explosive sex. Explosive sex will make you
(05:34):
call back to back to back to back. Damn it,
answer me. If you'd have just had regular sex, none
of this would be having me to you. Yeah, you
thought it was so sweet, didn't you. I kept ensuring
him I wasn't cheating. He came to visit again, and
(05:56):
this time he bought some clothes with him and a
few personal things leaving my house. You know why, cause
y'all was down there having exploding six, just blowing spool,
just blown up store, snatching pins out of the knees,
dropping it on the side of the bed. This made
me happy. It made you think you was an official couple.
(06:18):
Whenever we got in the arguments, he jokingly say, don't
make me pop up, see what you're doing. You know why, man,
just pop.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Up, because y'all had explosive six. Explosive This your whole.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Damn problem, that all right? Hold on, Jean, explosive six.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Hold on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response
coming up twenty three minutes after the hour of today's subject,
he stole my heart and a few other things.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject,
he stole.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
My hearts and a few other things.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Met a man on the day map, hooked up with him.
Supposed to be a one night stand, ended up having
the most explosive sex ever. He called every day because
you was having explosive sex. He came back because he
missed you so much, because y'all was having explosive sex.
He admitted that he wanted you. Y'all had sex. I
missed his call. He called back to back to back
(07:23):
because y'all was having explosive sex. You thought it was sweet.
And then he came to visit. He bought some clothes
and left some personal things at the house so he
can just have a shirt over there, because you know,
after you have explosive sex, you need to have a
change of clothes. You have explosive sex and put them
(07:44):
same draws on you explosive sex. You gotta change your side.
See explosive sex is different. Okay, your belt probably don't
fasten no more. You need a set of clothes, shoestrings,
and came all out your shoes. Because y'all have an
(08:05):
explosive sex. You open the doors. He diving crossed the porch.
Then when y'all have arguments, he say, don't make me
pop up and see what you're doing. I never thought
he'd do it, but he did. You down there trying
to feed the homeless, you volunteer to feed him, and
you can't use your phone while you're serving because you're
(08:27):
dipping food due to the COVID guidelines. You went four
hours without answering your man's call, and Doug Gunner he
lost it. You know why he lost it.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Because he was looking. But that explosive sex, and it was.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Not on the phone every time. When I got home,
he didne kicked your dough in and left you a note.
But you discovered he took all his clothes, took your
forty two inch TV two lamps, some of your shoes,
some frozen stakes, and the microwave. Now, after he did
(09:06):
all that, this is what you said. It was so
random since he never bought me anything. He didn't buy
me no shoes, a no microwave, and he hadn't nothing,
just taking TV down off the wall. I don't understand
he didn't buy none of that stuff. That was your
statement after that. Then right after that, you said I
called to beg him back. Let's park this letter for
(09:28):
a minute.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
What is wrong with you?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
See? Maybe this explosive sex wasn't just having him do
ignorant mess. It's got you doing ignorant mess too. So
a man kick your dough in, leave you a note,
took his clothes, your forty two inch TV, two lamps,
some of your shoes, some frozen stakes, and the microwave,
and you begged him to come back. What did he miss? Someone?
(09:58):
Maybe you got to come back. I can't believe you
left all this chicken in this freezer. How can I
get this man to see that I would never cheat
on him? Wait a minute, surely had this right? What
are you talking about? Why are you concerned with getting
him back and trying to prove to this man that
you didn't cheat. He kicked your dough in?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Yes, come on, crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
He took a flash screen. You know how hard he is.
Take a forty two inch TV off a wall, put
it in your car with your shoes. A damn microwave.
How did he get that microwave out that wall?
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Can I ask you something?
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Huh?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Why did he take frozen steaks?
Speaker 3 (10:38):
What does that soda? Cause he had to drive home?
They keep better?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Oh, oh okay, See you don't take nothing out refrigerator
cause he'd be small as hot.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Oh he put him in the trunk back then that engine,
that engine kicking off heat off that muffler. Oh okay,
and it'll be small by the time he get home.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Okay, I didn't get it.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Okay, And then you know he probably stay out of
town because they met on the app.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yeah, he does.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
He spent and they talked daily, and he came back
to visit. See, he came back to visit me from
out of town. He didn't come over. He came back
to visit. He stay out of town. So you steal
frozen steaks because they keep on the highway back.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
You know what I'm not. I'm just I'm just trying
to help you. Yeah, I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
So you got to think this thing out. You know,
when you finish go back home. You gotta drive a while.
You don't take nothing out. Defrigerate him, that's fashion. You
get it frozen so it can last. I don't know
why I would not want to see him again, all
having all this exploding sex, and he's stilling stuff and
he didn't explode. It's so good. I don't even know
(11:49):
he's still in stuff to kick the whole damn though.
And you ain't got a lock no more. You in
there trying to go to bed tonight. You didn't lean
some card, but it up, get your dough.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
That's crazy?
Speaker 3 (12:05):
How can I fix this? What did you do wrong?
Because I'm looking in the letter, I'm trying to figure
out what you did wrong? Lady, lady? What's wrong with you?
Don't you? You are what's called frum. Don't get on
this explosive set and get yourself hurt. Something wrong with him?
You don't answer the phone. He kicked a door in
and starts stealing, and she just met him. But the
(12:27):
whole damn dough. When you kick a dough in dog,
you know how hard he is kick a door in.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Man.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Everybody can't do it?
Speaker 2 (12:47):
All right? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Steve post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve
Harvey f M, on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't
forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
Coming up more of The Steve Harvey Morning Show right
after this.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.
If you need advice on sex, on dating, relationships, work, parenting,
and more, please submit.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
We could, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
We could read your letter like we're going to do
that one today would be you.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Okay, buggle up and hold on tight. We got it
for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Nephew's subject he stole my heart and a few other things.
Dear Stephen Shirley. A while back, I met a man
on a dating app and it was supposed to be
just a one night's stand. He came over and we
had the most explosive sex.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
After that, we talked all night.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
He lives out of town, and when he got back home,
we talked daily and spent hours getting to know each other.
He came back to visit me because he was dying
to have sex with me. We admitted that we were
catching feelings. After he left, I noticed that he changed.
If I missed his call, he called me back to
(01:08):
beck until I answered. It was so sweet, but I
kept reassuring him that I wasn't cheating. He came to
visit again, and this time he brought some of his
clothes and a few personal things to leave at my house.
This made me so happy because it meant we were
an official couple. Whenever we got into arguments, he'd jokingly say,
(01:31):
don't make me pop up to see what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I never thought he would do it, but he did.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
One Saturday, I volunteered to feed the homeless, and I
couldn't use my phone while I was serving due to
the COVID nineteen guidelines. At the place, I went for
four hours without answering my man's.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Calls and he lost it.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
When I got home, he had kicked my door in
and he left me a note. I discovered that he
took all of his clothes, and he also took my
forty two inch TV, two lamps, some of my shoes,
some frozen steaks, and the microwave. It was so random,
since he has never bought me anything. I called to
(02:16):
beg him to come back, but he said it's over
and he never wants to see me again. How can
I get this man to see that I would never
cheat on him? How can I fix this?
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Hmm?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Okay, I'm gonna read your words back to you and
see if this sparks anything in your brain. You say,
when I got home, he had kicked my door in.
He'd left me a note.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I discovered.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
He took all of my clothes, and he also took
my forty two inch TV to lamb, some of my shoes,
some frozen steaks, and the microwave. Okay, does that sound
crazy to you? I mean, doesn't that sound a little crazy?
It does to me. I'm sure it does to Steve
and to everyone else listening. So why why would you
(02:59):
want this ignorant man back in your life? I mean, honestly,
it sounds scary. I mean, who does this? He sounds
like some kind of psychopath to me, I just say,
consider yourself blessed that that's all.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
He took the TV.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
And a microwave and some shoes, And I really don't
get the stakes part anyway. He sounds violent, he sounds controlling,
he sounds possessive. To me, I'm so glad. I'm really
glad you weren't in the house because I think he
would have put his hands on you. I really do,
And it's really a shame. I think that I have
to tell you this. It really pains me, honestly, because
(03:37):
you gotta know, you need to know this, that you
shouldn't be so desperate that you would think that you
would have to beg this man to come back to
you to do what I mean, Let him go, please, girl,
you gotta let him go, and don't ever invite him
back to your house.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I mean, he tried to destroy your house. He kicked
the door in. Come on, he's a thief. Remember that.
Please don't forget that. Let's be clear. This man sounds
very unstable.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I think you need to run and run quickly and
get away from him.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Steve Well, good letter, Shirley. I see a little something
else in here that I probably need to go over
and cover. Yes, oh met this man on his day. Now,
this way this went wrong. It was supposed to be
(04:29):
a one night stand, just a hit it, quit it,
sock it, knock it, throw it, catch it. He came
over and we had, in your words, the most explosive sex. Now,
(04:51):
let me show you what happens after you have explosive sex.
Y'all talk daily, spent hours getting to know each other.
Came back to visit because he was dying to have
sex with me again. You know why, because it was explosive.
(05:13):
We admitted we was catching feelings. He left and I
noticed he changed if I missed his cause he would
call me back to back to back. You know why,
because y'all had explosive sex. Explosive sex will make you
(05:34):
call back to back to back to back. Damn it,
answer me. If you'd have just had regular sex, none
of this would be having me to you. Yeah, you
thought it was so sweet, didn't you. I kept ensuring
him I wasn't cheating. He came to visit again, and
(05:56):
this time he bought some clothes with him and a
few personal things leaving my house. You know why, cause
y'all was down there having exploding six, just blowing spool,
just blown up store, snatching pins out of the knees,
dropping it on the side of the bed. This made
me happy. It made you think you was an official couple.
(06:18):
Whenever we got in the arguments, he jokingly say, don't
make me pop up, see what you're doing. You know why, man,
just pop.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Up, because y'all had explosive six. Explosive This your whole.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Damn problem, that all right? Hold on, Jean, explosive six.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Hold on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response
coming up twenty three minutes after the hour of today's subject,
he stole my heart and a few other things.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject,
he stole.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
My hearts and a few other things.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Met a man on the day map, hooked up with him.
Supposed to be a one night stand, ended up having
the most explosive sex ever. He called every day because
you was having explosive sex. He came back because he
missed you so much, because y'all was having explosive sex.
He admitted that he wanted you. Y'all had sex. I
missed his call. He called back to back to back
(07:23):
because y'all was having explosive sex. You thought it was sweet.
And then he came to visit. He bought some clothes
and left some personal things at the house so he
can just have a shirt over there, because you know,
after you have explosive sex, you need to have a
change of clothes. You have explosive sex and put them
(07:44):
same draws on you explosive sex. You gotta change your side.
See explosive sex is different. Okay, your belt probably don't
fasten no more. You need a set of clothes, shoestrings,
and came all out your shoes. Because y'all have an
(08:05):
explosive sex. You open the doors. He diving crossed the porch.
Then when y'all have arguments, he say, don't make me
pop up and see what you're doing. I never thought
he'd do it, but he did. You down there trying
to feed the homeless, you volunteer to feed him, and
you can't use your phone while you're serving because you're
(08:27):
dipping food due to the COVID guidelines. You went four
hours without answering your man's call, and Doug Gunner he
lost it. You know why he lost it.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Because he was looking. But that explosive sex, and it was.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Not on the phone every time. When I got home,
he didne kicked your dough in and left you a note.
But you discovered he took all his clothes, took your
forty two inch TV two lamps, some of your shoes,
some frozen stakes, and the microwave. Now, after he did
(09:06):
all that, this is what you said. It was so
random since he never bought me anything. He didn't buy
me no shoes, a no microwave, and he hadn't nothing,
just taking TV down off the wall. I don't understand
he didn't buy none of that stuff. That was your
statement after that. Then right after that, you said I
called to beg him back. Let's park this letter for
(09:28):
a minute.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
What is wrong with you?
Speaker 3 (09:32):
See? Maybe this explosive sex wasn't just having him do
ignorant mess. It's got you doing ignorant mess too. So
a man kick your dough in, leave you a note,
took his clothes, your forty two inch TV, two lamps,
some of your shoes, some frozen stakes, and the microwave,
and you begged him to come back. What did he miss? Someone?
(09:58):
Maybe you got to come back. I can't believe you
left all this chicken in this freezer. How can I
get this man to see that I would never cheat
on him? Wait a minute, surely had this right? What
are you talking about? Why are you concerned with getting
him back and trying to prove to this man that
you didn't cheat. He kicked your dough in?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Yes, come on, crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
He took a flash screen. You know how hard he is.
Take a forty two inch TV off a wall, put
it in your car with your shoes. A damn microwave.
How did he get that microwave out that wall?
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Can I ask you something?
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Huh?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Why did he take frozen steaks?
Speaker 3 (10:38):
What does that soda? Cause he had to drive home?
They keep better?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Oh, oh okay, See you don't take nothing out refrigerator
cause he'd be small as hot.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Oh he put him in the trunk back then that engine,
that engine kicking off heat off that muffler. Oh okay,
and it'll be small by the time he get home.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Okay, I didn't get it.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Okay, And then you know he probably stay out of
town because they met on the app.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yeah, he does.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
He spent and they talked daily, and he came back
to visit. See, he came back to visit me from
out of town. He didn't come over. He came back
to visit. He stay out of town. So you steal
frozen steaks because they keep on the highway back.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
You know what I'm not. I'm just I'm just trying
to help you. Yeah, I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
So you got to think this thing out. You know,
when you finish go back home. You gotta drive a while.
You don't take nothing out. Defrigerate him, that's fashion. You
get it frozen so it can last. I don't know
why I would not want to see him again, all
having all this exploding sex, and he's stilling stuff and
he didn't explode. It's so good. I don't even know
(11:49):
he's still in stuff to kick the whole damn though.
And you ain't got a lock no more. You in
there trying to go to bed tonight. You didn't lean
some card, but it up, get your dough.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
That's crazy?
Speaker 3 (12:05):
How can I fix this? What did you do wrong?
Because I'm looking in the letter, I'm trying to figure
out what you did wrong? Lady, lady? What's wrong with you?
Don't you? You are what's called frum. Don't get on
this explosive set and get yourself hurt. Something wrong with him?
You don't answer the phone. He kicked a door in
and starts stealing, and she just met him. But the
(12:27):
whole damn dough. When you kick a dough in dog,
you know how hard he is kick a door in.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Man.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Everybody can't do it?
Speaker 2 (12:47):
All right? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Steve post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve
Harvey f M, on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't
forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
Coming up more of The Steve Harvey Morning Show right
after this.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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