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Let me tell you know.
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Some people, it's that test. It's that test.
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It's time for the Strawberry Letter. My good friend, Sharlie Strawberry.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Thank you, my good friend Junior subject. He's a totally
different man at night. He's a totally different man at night.
The letter reads, Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty two
year old female and I'm dating a sixty year old
young man. We clicked instantly and we've been together for
two months. I may have been too forward with him
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after the first few dates because I wanted to rub
and feel on him to see what he was working with.
I hugged him tightly one day and it felt like
he was wearing a back brace. I decided not to
ask him about it right then. He also wouldn't let
me touch his face or play in his hair. I
learned to keep my hands to myself. A few nights ago,
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I asked him to stay over, and he was caught
off guard, but I insisted.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
We started to get ready for bed.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
And I noticed he was wearing a spanks type of
girdle under his shirt. I've never seen one on a man,
so I asked if it was a back brace, and
he said no, it was awkward. I've then noticed there
were makeup wipes in my garbage. I asked him about them,
and he said he needed it to wipe off his
tenant moisturizer. I was a bit irritated because he went
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through my things shut and shocked because he wears tenant moisturizer.
After I took my shower, he was lying in my
bed in his underwear and I had to make him
go take a shower. It was the quickest shower I'd
ever seen, and when he got up, his hair dyed
or whatever he had in his hair was all over
the pillowcase. After he showered, he came out naked and
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his man boobs were swinging freely. They were as big
as mine. I had to visualize sex with my ex
to get in the mood. The sex was pretty good
after I finally got into it. I enjoyed this man's company,
but I am not sexually attracted to him.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Now.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
I'm not perfect, and I wear wigs and push up broths.
But he turned into a whole different man right in
front of me. Shouldn't he have told me about this beforehand?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
What do I do? All right?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
This is one thing I can tell you. When you
rush a situation to get what you want, then you
get what you get.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
This you get what you get.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
I mean clearly he wasn't ready. But you said after
a few dates you wanted to rub and feel on
him to see what he was working with. I think
it was a bit too much, too fast. He also
did want you to touch his hair. He didn't want
you to touch his face. Later you learned he dyes
his hair and wears Tenant facial moisturizer. I know they
make moisturizer for men Tenant Moisturizer and SPANKX, but.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I don't know any men who wear them.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
You were shocked by that, but again, I don't think
this man was ready for it. He said that he
just wasn't ready. You were taking him fast. His ego
got involved that at that time, because you know, he
had to give you what you wanted.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Okay, ready or not?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Here I come. And that's basically what it is. I mean,
no need to being shocked or irritated. Now you woke
the man all the way up, he had to perform.
Then afterwards you said the sex was pretty good, but
you're not sexually attracted to him. Now you mentioned about
his man boobs and all that, but you also said
you do enjoy his company. Well why not do just
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that right now? Enjoy his company? I think you're Russia things.
I mean, what do you want Steve and I to do?
What do you want us to say now? Because I
can tell you. If you just want sex, then leave
him alone, you know, just leave him alone because you're
not sexually attracted to him.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Just go your separate ways.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
If you want companionship, because you say you do like
his company, then you could give a relationship a chance.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
If you choose.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
It's only been two months that you've been dating this guy.
Take it a bit slower, you know, so you guys
can get to know each other.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I think you should go on more dates.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I mean, you know, really though, don't most people look
better in their clothes then they do naked. I mean,
when you get down to it, I mean, I bet
you look different without your wig and your push up broad.
You know, you change to a different person too if
you take that out. I think, if he's a good man,
eventually you can work out together, you can eat healthier
foods and so on. I mean, I do know a
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couple of guys who wear just for men hair color,
and you know, I happen to like gray hair on men.
If he wants to stop that, but you know, don't
go trying to change him and doing all that right now,
there are worse things in life.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I think you should pick your battles and.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Get to know this man, you know, before you make
any rash decisions.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Steve, Yeah, Well, we got a difference of opinion on
this letter.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Great response, Shirley, wonderful. I think it was a.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Very politically correct way for you to approach this letter.
I commend you because your advice was really really well done.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
And I will say that as.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
A Christian, I thought your answer was wonderful and trying
to make the relationship work between the two people.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Well, if you know it can, it can?
Speaker 4 (05:44):
It could absolutely. And I agree with you. I agree
with everything you said. I just don't see it this.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
And let's see what you're gonna say.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Good, let's go.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
I'm a fifty two year old female and I'm dating
a sixty year young man.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
All so you think, oh, you see.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
You trying to fluff fuss with the sixty year young man. Oh,
we find to find out why you think he's sixty
years young? Okay, you know you wanted to go forward
with him, so you started feeling on rub and see
what he was working with. I hugged him one day
and it felt like he was wearing a back breathe.
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You thought he worked at home depot, didn't you? But oh,
oh no, we gonna find out in this letter that
that back braced feeling was male spinks for the stomach.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Hang on.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Part two of Steve's responses, coming up at twenty three
minutes after the hour today, Strawberry letters subject, He's a
totally different man.
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At night. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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let's recap today's Strawberry letter. He's a totally different man
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at night is the subject.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
First of all, I want to say, once again how
much I agree with Shirley Strawberry's response. I thought it
was perfect if you was trying to keep people together.
I thought it was a wonderful view to take. I'm
not here for that today. I'm not here to keep
you together. I'm here to talk about it because you try.
I had to tell us that you fifty two and
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he a sixty year young man. Where we about to
find out why you think he's so young? It started
when you started rubbing on him, trying to see what
he was working with, and you hugged him real tight,
and it felt like he was wearing a back break.
You at then taught it was for work, because you
thought maybe he was loading boxes at ups all down
at home depots. We were later to find out that
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he had on male spanks. We'll get to that in
a minute. I decided not to ask him about it
right then. But he wouldn't let me touch his face
all play in his hair. Oh, didn't you just say
he was sixty year young man? You just said that,
didn't where we about to find out why? I asked
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him to stay over one day. She couldn't play in
his face and hair. He would go.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Now I learned to keep my hands to myself.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
A few nights ago I asked him to stay over,
and he was caught off.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
God.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
He wasn't ready stay over here. I ain't got my stuff,
So now he was caught off God, but I insisted
we started getting ready for bed. I noticed he was
wearing a sphinx type of girdle under his shirt.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
When we were in Atlanta at the office.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
That was a lady that came in there that had
a company she wanted me to invest in. I tried
on one of these spank shirts for men.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
I had to go in the kitchen and cut it off.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
I couldn't get it back over my head. Yeah, I
didn't have enough dexterity. See you know how I normally
pull a T shirt over your head with both hands,
grabbed a bottom. I couldn't get that thing up. I
got the sweating in it, and it was struck to me,
so I had to cut it out. I've never seen
one on the man. Well, they out there, they called
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male spinks and then to reduce the look of your
stomach and chess area. So I asked if it was
a back brace. He said, no, ain't no back brace.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
She knew that.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Yeah, I did notice that was makeup wipes in my garbage.
I asked him about them, and he said he needed
to wipe off his tinted moistarized. Oh he ain't who
you thought he was. Okay, so now he laying him
in there, he had to wipe off his tinted moistarize.
I'm assuming that's the moisturizer with a colored yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Yeah men, yes, so now he trying.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
To look ten and glowy. That's why he looked sixty
years young, because then that morsturizer. Guy is looking like
he actually alive because he know he wiped it off.
He looked like death, looked like a caught He's pale,
but you know that darkness cover a lot of stuff.
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That's why black is so beautiful, the black of the berry,
the sweet of the juice.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Black don't crack for pale do.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
I was a bit irritated because he went through my
things and shocked because he wears tennant marsh rods. Well
you made him stay. He wasn't ready you cut him off. God,
he ain't got his marshal rods. He ain't got his
makeup white with it. Now, he didn't have to go
through your things and find some makeup white. After I
took my shower, he was laying in the bed in
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his underwear.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
I had to make him go take a shower.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Well, he still had that back brace on, slash girdle,
slash man's fains. It was a quickie shower i've ever seen.
And when he got up, his hand dyed or whatever
he had in his hair was all over the pillar cakes.
That's that Beijing. That's that Beijing. And that half color
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that's a spray. You can spray beds on dudes, no
all that. Yeah, he need a woman in his life.
Somebody can tighten him up. After he shouted, he came
out neked and his man boobs was swinging freely. Just
a chess full of breasts.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
That's what that.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Top was for. It's a what a chest?
Speaker 4 (12:15):
What chess full of breass? I won't even say the
T word, but we on radio.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Uh huh.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
They got out there and there wasn't any bitty either.
They were as big as mine. I had to visualize
having sex with my ex to getting the move. So
now let's go over there. Okay, he got breast, he
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got on springs, he got to wear Tenant Marshall rides.
He used your wet wife, you man, because he went
to your stuff to find him. You insisted sail that
and he got the wrong die. He ought to get
some jests from men and colored his hat. But if
he had a woman, a woman could tell him some
of these tricks that he don't know. He just using
temperary stuff because he trying to pull it together and.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Look sixty years young.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
Actually, when he took off all that stuff, he looked
if you're an eighty two.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Yeah, so you fifty two.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
You take the man that look eighty two trying to
fool you and make you think he's sick. I wear
wigs and push your brawls, and you should. It's okay
for a woman to wear a wig and to push
up braw but him, though, he got too much going on.
Should I have told you about this beforehand? Hell now,
I shouldn't told you. He didn't know if it was
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gonna go that far, all right, unless he gonna put
all that stuff back on the mall.
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