All Episodes

February 6, 2025 13 mins

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mark as Played
Transcript

Episode Transcript

Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
And it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
All right, thank you, nephew. Subject.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
I can't believe she likes it like that. Dear Stephen Shirley.
I'm a thirty three year old man and my girlfriend
is twenty five years old. Initially, I was concerned about
her age difference. I didn't ask her her age when
we met, and she didn't know my age. She is
very mature and very elegant. She's in an executive position

(00:50):
at her job already, and she supervises for other people.
All of this was very attractive to me. When I
found out her age, I was floored, but I was
already into her, so I kept pursuing a relationship. She
had me wait five months before we had sex and
I was okay with that because I thought I had
found my future wife. I was ready to give her

(01:12):
the world. But then we were intimate for the first time,
and I'm not sure I can keep up with her
out the gate. She was aggressive in the bedroom, and
I thought it was because we waited so long to
actually do it. But that's not it at all. She
loves it rough and it gets rougher each time we
do it. I'm a seasoned lover and I like it

(01:34):
all kinds of ways, but being rough is hard for me.
Why would I want to snatch her wig off and
bite her during during sex. I'm not with that, So
I had to tell her I caught a cramp one
night just so we could stop having sex. Everything about
this woman is top tier. I have seen her do

(01:54):
a seminar for other salespeople on her team, and she's
well spoken, poised and well respect At home, she's a
beast and can tear that sheets off the bed within
five seconds or less. I have not had the chance
to make love to her to see if she can
be as poised in the bedroom as she is in public.
Besides this one thing she's perfect, is it because of

(02:17):
her age? How do I persuade her to turn it down,
so you're not with all the while and she's doing okay,
you prefer a more demure woman, all right, You've just
got to tell her that. You've got to tell her
that I don't know what the it is that she's
doing to you, but you don't like the fact that

(02:38):
she's too rough.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
You don't like it.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
You got to remember that women who are used to
taking charge and running things at work sometimes they have
a hard time turning that aggression off, that assertiveness off
when they get home. It could take a minute for
them to calm down and woosaw on all that. So listen,
that's where you're seasoning, you say, and your skill and
your patients come in. One thing struck me in this letter,

(03:01):
and that's the fact that you said you are a
seasoned lover. Well, that says to me you know your
way around the bedroom. You know how to please a woman, right,
So you need to work here mask.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Talk to her.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
You got to see her and guide her in a different,
maybe less rough direction. If you're not feeling that, make
her feel secure, make her feel loved. Where she won't
you know, where she'll want to slow down and relax
and not be so wild according to you. In other words,
put your so called seasoned skills to work and show
her what you prefer. Now, she might not like it
like that. Okay, you got to understand that she might

(03:38):
like what she like, so be prepared to get cut
off and maybe break up.

Speaker 4 (03:43):
Steve, Well, I'm a little torn with this letter right here,
because you know, I feel your dog. But then I
don't know what you complain about.

Speaker 5 (03:52):
Case.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
We're gonna have to work through some things right here,
cause she perfect, see as what's gotten a little concerns
you perfect.

Speaker 5 (04:00):
But I knew this letter was doomed in the beginning.

Speaker 4 (04:03):
I'm a thirty three year old man and my girlfriend
is twenty five.

Speaker 5 (04:07):
Brain't but an eight year difference.

Speaker 4 (04:10):
Initially I was concerned about her age difference. I didn't
ask her age when we met, and she didn't know
my age. Now it's an eight year difference. Women mature
faster than men most times. Anyway, eight years that ain't nothing.

Speaker 5 (04:23):
I don't even know.

Speaker 4 (04:24):
Why you talking about some damn age difer. Hey like
you eighty and she's twenty four or something like that.
They ain't even be concerned anyway, She's very mature and
very elegant.

Speaker 5 (04:34):
She's an executive position down at a job.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
When I found out her age, I was floored, but
I was already into it.

Speaker 5 (04:41):
See, I think you kind of bushy.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
I think this brother is kind of bushy, because you
know the age difference, and you know, judging the woman
on what she do, and you know all this here
and just you know.

Speaker 5 (04:58):
Supervised for other people. All this was very attractive to me.
He bushy, y'all, this.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
Little dude is bullshit. Well I don't think she that. Wow, See,
I just think he bushy. Watch what I tell you.
In anyway, when I found out her age, I was floyd.
I don't even so I kept pursuing a relationship. She
had me wait for five months before we had such
and I was okay with that because I thought I
had found my future wife. Because that's who we're talking about.

(05:27):
His boogie ass I bet he do. He's square as
a box. I'm telling you right here. I was ready
to give her the world. But when we were intimate
for the first time, I'm not sure I can keep
up with her. Oh well, what's the matter now, mister

(05:49):
busy executive?

Speaker 5 (05:52):
Yeah, I think gate she was aggressive in the bedroom.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
Well, okay, I thought it was because we had waited
so long. But that's not it at all. She loves
it rough, and it gets rough each time she hang you.
She hurts you heed the executive.

Speaker 5 (06:09):
Boy, you don't get it. She was rough. I'm a
I'm a seasoned lover. Are your ass old?

Speaker 3 (06:15):
Had you turn it?

Speaker 5 (06:16):
Three? He thirty three? What are you talking about? I'm
a seasoned lover.

Speaker 4 (06:22):
Oh man, your old bougie executive asked, and ran up
into this girl and then come up from down the way.

Speaker 5 (06:29):
And now she didn't hear them snatch her wig off
of bite home.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
Hold on, hold on, hold on.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up to
take your wig off.

Speaker 5 (06:43):
Twiet round your head like a.

Speaker 3 (06:45):
Helicopter, today's strumberry leather subject. I can't believe she likes
it like that. We'll get right back to it right
after this.

Speaker 5 (06:55):
Hey, look, you can't.

Speaker 4 (06:56):
Let the urge to sing your favorite songs while you're
driving distract you from that truck drifting toward your lane
or that lane splitting biker creeping up beside you. Fortunately,
every Hundai offers advanced safety features that can alert you
to potential dangers around you.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the
road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have won over one
hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thousand
and six to twenty twenty.

Speaker 5 (07:23):
Four as of December twenty twenty four.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
All right, come on, see, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject I can't believe she likes it like that.

Speaker 4 (07:33):
I believe this thirty three year old man who's dating
this girlfriend is twenty five. He think he's bushy. I
think with this whole letter has got a lot to
do with him bushy. Now, I'll admit she might be
a bit much, but I think a lot of this
is because he's bullshy. I was concerned about her age difference.
I didn't ask her when we met.

Speaker 5 (07:52):
She didn't know my.

Speaker 4 (07:53):
Age at all, you know, not eight years boy. That
ain't no bigger ans difference. And she's very much true
and very elegant. She's an executive position down at her job,
and she supervises four other people.

Speaker 5 (08:06):
All of this was quite attractive to me. Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
Anyway, when I found out her age, I was absolutely floored.
Why but I was already into her, so I kept
pursuing the relationship. She had me wait for five entire
months before we had sex. I was okay with that
because I thought I had found my future wife. My

(08:34):
mom loves her, and everyone in the family of course,
because she's absolutely elegant.

Speaker 5 (08:42):
One of her dollar house.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
Too much.

Speaker 5 (08:48):
Now, I was ready to give her a while.

Speaker 4 (08:50):
But then we were into that for the first time,
and oh my god, all hell broke littles.

Speaker 5 (08:56):
She was wrong. I was saying, oh God, what are
you doing?

Speaker 4 (09:00):
Hell? I thought it was because we had waited so long,
But that wasn't isn't it. That wasn't it at all.
She likes a rough and it has only gotten rough out.
I'm a seasoned lover. I've been making love all of
ten years thirty three. According to Steve, I don't know

(09:22):
half of what I'm going to know, but I swell
I'm a seasoned lover.

Speaker 5 (09:27):
No, you ain't.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
You're a busy young ass dude. You don't really know
what you know. But then she like it rough, but
I like it all kinds of ways. But being rough
it's hard for me. Why would I want to snatch
her wig off or bite her doing sick because she
asked you to do if you want your wig snatched off,

(09:49):
I snatched you wig off of You got your wig off,
twist it, ride your head like a helicopter.

Speaker 5 (09:58):
Man, I be tying your ankles up with your wig?

Speaker 4 (10:00):
All?

Speaker 5 (10:01):
What else you want to do?

Speaker 3 (10:04):
White my neck?

Speaker 4 (10:06):
I'm mob al, but come on, God, it's so hard
for me. Why would I want to snatch your wig
off or bite her doing? Say? I'm not with that?
So I had to tell her I caught a cramp
one night. That's cause you asked, did you ain't tell
her you caught a cramp? Your old ass caught a cramp.
Everybody catch a cramp. Oh, sees and levers catch crams.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
Hood boys catch cram. Dope, deal is catch crams. The
police catch cramp. Everybody catch a cramp. Let me tell you.

Speaker 4 (10:41):
I had to act like I called a cram so
we could stop having sex. Oh now you skin? Oh
little bushy boys skiing? You want to get wild?

Speaker 5 (10:52):
See what you gotta do? Dog? You gotta out?

Speaker 4 (10:54):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Oh that's the answer. Okay, like what you gotta do?

Speaker 5 (11:00):
Stuff?

Speaker 4 (11:00):
She ain't ready like y'all in there in the bed
getting it on. Just get up on your knees and
lean over and spit on the float. Just do stuff like.

Speaker 5 (11:08):
That that wireless. Hell, ain't nobody looking for that? Did
he just get up on his knees and spit on
the damn floor? What is it?

Speaker 3 (11:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (11:20):
You can wipe you my real hard hell man, that's
how you do it. You gotta you gotta do that.
Bring a bring a garden whole student window in the bedroom,
Cut it up on.

Speaker 5 (11:32):
High with a nozzle and spray her hands. You won't
get while we wild? How why are you won't it?
Go outside? Take a piece of chain leak fish measure
the bed.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
Yeah, cut a piece of chain leak linked fish, same size,
that's the mattress.

Speaker 5 (11:50):
Lay it on that. Then y'all make love on that.
How rough you wont it? Wow?

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (11:56):
Look you wild up in here.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
So outwhile her. That's your suggestions?

Speaker 5 (12:03):
Okay, hell yeah, now let's go.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
Okay, all right, I'm out saying yes, yeah, yeah, that's
out wid Yeah.

Speaker 5 (12:16):
That'll slow it down.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
I'm not sure slow it down. Chain link fence, though,
that was pretty wild too.

Speaker 4 (12:24):
At home, she's a beast and can tear the sheets
off the bed within five seconds or less, or if.

Speaker 5 (12:31):
You're scared of her.

Speaker 4 (12:34):
I have not had the chance to make love to her,
to see if she can be poised in the bedroom
and she is in public. She ain't is wild wild
thing besides this one thing she's perfect? Is it because
of her age?

Speaker 5 (12:51):
Hell? It's cause she different. She like it rough and
she like it wow. And you ain't either one, mister Bush.

Speaker 4 (13:01):
So unless you're gonna match the wildness and roughness, tell
your punk ass.

Speaker 3 (13:06):
Yeah, let her go? All right, Thank you, Dave, Because.

Speaker 4 (13:09):
It's some boys out there, it's fall is your post.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
You're coming, baby, Steve Harvey. F them on Instagram and
Facebook and check out this where you wanted it on
the free iHeartRadio app. Free Never sounded so good. You
can download it today now coming up at forty six
minutes after the hour, it's Junior with Sports Talk.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
Right after this.

Speaker 5 (13:35):
What's going on?

Speaker 3 (13:36):
Greetings inside you textions everybody.

Speaker 5 (13:37):
This is Neil Gos's people. This is Kirk Franklin.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
Hey, this is second Come. What's going on? This is
your boy Kevin hart Less.

Speaker 4 (13:43):
Up, It's DJ Caglin and you're listening to Steve Harvey
Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Advertise With Us

Host

Shirley Strawberry

Shirley Strawberry

Popular Podcasts

Cold Case Files: Miami

Cold Case Files: Miami

Joyce Sapp, 76; Bryan Herrera, 16; and Laurance Webb, 32—three Miami residents whose lives were stolen in brutal, unsolved homicides.  Cold Case Files: Miami follows award‑winning radio host and City of Miami Police reserve officer  Enrique Santos as he partners with the department’s Cold Case Homicide Unit, determined family members, and the advocates who spend their lives fighting for justice for the victims who can no longer fight for themselves.

Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

Stuff You Should Know

Stuff You Should Know

If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.