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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:17):
You never know it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Hey, before I started the letter, Shirley, can I say something? Sure?
Remember when ile be Fraser I do?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
That's what Kamala did last night. Yes, I'm sorry, I'm
remember when may Well be poking out, y'allmer That's what
Kamala did last night.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
She thought last night she did?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
She did. Oh, I ain't last night. We're better than
the damn super Bowl. I'm sorry, it was it was.
I'm sorry. It's up there. It's up there with the
super Bowl. It is all right.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
Buckle up and hold on time. We got it for
you here it is Strawberry letter.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
All right, new for you, Thank you. Subject. I figured
it out.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
But he's still lying, Dear Stephen, Shirley, My husband's office
is near the airport, so he usually leaves his car
at his office when he travels. He travels at least
once a month, and he started ghosting me when he's
on a trip. I became suspicious and hid out in
the parking lot of his job to see if anyone
was getting in the lift with him to go to
the airport. I didn't catch him doing anything that day,
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but the last trip he went on has me thinking
that he's seeing someone that lives one hundred miles from
his office. Here's what I discovered. The morning of his trip,
I checked the odometer on his car. He left home
and said he was leaving his car at the office.
I drove all the way out to his office, but
his car was not there, so I drove home. He
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called me an hour later and said he had landed
and he was about to check into the hotel. Luckily
for him, he uses his corporate card, so I couldn't
check the credit card bill. Later that night, I sent
my husband a picture of me covered in SuDS in
the bathtub. I didn't get a reply from him. A
few hours later, I texted him good night and he
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didn't reply. I woke up at two thirty am and
called him and he didn't answer. I sent him a
text telling him that I thought I heard something in
our addict and I was afraid. He didn't answer. The
next morning, he called around seven am and said he
was grabbing an iced coffee before his meeting. He said
he was dog tired and missed my text and my
(02:29):
phone calls. Two days later, he came home with two
hundred and forty seven more miles on his car. I
think he's seeing someone that lives close by and he
drove to see her.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
He said, none of that is true, and I am
losing it. Was he lying?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Noo? Come on, you don't even have to ask, and
here he comes with the gas lighting. Is it true?
It is true, and you are not losing it. Don't
let him do that to you. You saw the car,
wasn't at the office feel like it normally is when
he goes on a trip and you saw the odometer
with the increased mileage. He was being dismissive to you,
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and he's lying to your face, and he'll never tell
you the truth about it. It's always a red flag
when they don't answer the phone.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Always.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It's funny how they think they shouldn't answer the phone
when they call.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
When you call, right.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Side, chick is just gonna have to understand that when
wife he calls, you answer period. Okay, not answering makes
you look suspicious. Husband. Don't change your behavior. Husband, it's
a dead giveaway. But your husband didn't answer Diddy, and
now you're feeling some kind of way and he's calling
(03:41):
you crazy. You're not losing it. He is if he
thinks you believe his lies. You are not stupid. Tommy,
ive girl right.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
Here, listen, tom just gonna be real. Which relationship is over? Okay,
that's oh, well you didn't figure that out. You already
know what's going on. That's oh, but that's not that's
not that's that's not what I'm impressed about. The relationship
is over. But you have a future as a private detective.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
You got it.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
You got everything to take. Baby girl, you know what
you're doing. You need to open up your own business.
I don't even know your name, but let's just say
law and All to Lisa. You see what I'm saying,
lawd ll the Lisa I can I can see it.
I can see it on the marquet. Not law and
all the Lisa are CSI. Connie, you see what I'm saying.
You are ready, You are ready. You can have your
own business where ladies can come to you. They can
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let you know what their problem is going on with
their spouse, their boyfriend. And guess what, guess what, sharp
eyes shine for you gonna handle it because that's what
you do.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
You're gonna be in handling. Baby.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
You are ready to be a detective. And guess what,
there are women out there who need a woman like
you who know how to Everybody don't know how to
no abdometer, Oh no, damn car, don't nobody not do that.
I don't even know what what what man was on
last I don't know how to do all that. You
know what you're doing. You know how to you know
how to go put your hand on the hood. It's hot,
it's hot. See he just got here. You already knew how.
(05:13):
You know how to do this kind of stuff. You
know how you already take your credit card and jimmy
into the door and break on in. You know what
you're doing. So let's go ahead and take it to
the next level and open your up yourself a business.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
And you're good.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Now, here's something I'd like for you to do though,
just just just so you know, Tom and Kennon just
kind of see where things were.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
If you don't mind listen, is.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
It any way you can email me them pictures when
you was in his bath too, and just let me
see what you were sending him.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You understand, you know, tim It just wanted to get there.
I just want to see the bubbles, boots.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
So if you could just just send send time in
little something something, let me see exactly what you were
sending because I want to understand what he was getting
and what you know. I can tell you why he
didn't call back, you know this and that, but it'll
help me, It'll help me help you. Okay, send me
your bubbles picture, That's all I want. And what kind
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of bubbles are these?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Are these?
Speaker 5 (06:09):
Are these real? Are these kind you put the nice
little pile in? Or is this you know, this washing detergent?
What kind of bubbles?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
Right?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
If this is tide you know? Is it washing powder?
I mean, what what was you really sitting in?
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I just want to know this is just this is
just Timing trying to inquire you.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
You are ready to be an A one.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
Detective, You ready for all that, but just just for timmy,
send me the bubbles picture please, That's it, That's.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
All coming up, we have part two.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
We're here from Junior, coming up at twenty three minutes
after the hour. Strawberry letter. Subject, I figured it out,
but he's still lying. We'll get back into it right
after this.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
This relationship is over us.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
You're listening Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
All right, We're going to recap today's strawberry letter. It
was written by a wife. The subject is I figured
it out, but he's still lying. A wife wrote in
because her husband's office is near the airport, and he
always parks his car at the office when he's getting
ready to go out of town. He travels at least
once a month, but he started ghosting her. Now he
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didn't leave his car at the office. This time, she
followed him and he didn't leave it. She checked the
odometer to see if the mileage was going to change.
That's why one of the reasons Tommy says she should
be a detective because of that. And you know, so
he lied and said that he went out of town.
But she thinks he drove to see some other woman
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because the odometer changed. The mileage on the odometer changed.
You know, she called him several times. She took a
picture of herself when she was in a bubble bath.
He didn't respond, He didn't answer. She said she heard
something in the attic and she was scared. He didn't respond.
Now what kind of husband wouldn't respond to that? Okay,
so he didn't answer. He didn't answer, He didn't answer.
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He just said that he was dog tired and he
missed her phone calls. Two days later, he came home
with two hundred and forty seven more miles in the car,
So that proves he drove the car somewhere. And she
thinks he's seeing someone that lives, you know, pretty close by,
and he drove to see her. He said, none of
that is true, and he tried to accuse her of
(08:21):
being crazy and losing it. And she's asking, why is
he lying, junior? Why?
Speaker 6 (08:28):
Why?
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Why?
Speaker 6 (08:28):
I tell you why right now?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Your husband.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
I'm I'm just gonna tell you this. She not a
good PI. She's not good you don't think so, now
come tell you why she ain't. She can never catch him.
She ain't catch him. Remember you went hit in the bushes?
You did? You told up? I went down man and
hitting the butches. I didn't catch him doing nothing that day?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Uh huh.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
See, she didn't catch him then, because he'll do nothing good.
First of all, you nagged too much. All the stuff
you be doing.
Speaker 7 (08:58):
I mean, you just be calling two thirty in the
morning somebody in an attic. Now you're just trying to
get a reaction. Ain't nobody been in that attic? The
man go out of town every month?
Speaker 6 (09:05):
Okay?
Speaker 7 (09:06):
So what you probably checked the old dominita. You probably
checked the trip and not the old domeiner. The trip
had two hundred and forty seven miles on it. That
was just the trip. It wasn't the old dometer.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
You just be doing stuff.
Speaker 7 (09:17):
You can't never catch him at all. You can't even
get credit card information. How you a good detective and
you can't pull no credit card information? How come you
don't even know what the hotel he at. You can't
call the hotel, call his room.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
You don't even know where he at? So how is
we a good detective?
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Here?
Speaker 7 (09:33):
Like you like the one like you got the trench
coat on with the sunglasses, sitting in the corner, but
he walked right behind you.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
You missed the whole thing.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
You can't never catch him. You the one went and
got in the bushes for what? You have no evidence
of nothing two hundred and forty seven miles.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
What we hang I had on here, She's all on
the card.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
She checked it before he left.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
So you don't know if she checked the right thing
on the A dominedor she probably take the trip ain't
trip B.
Speaker 6 (09:59):
We don't know what he checked. Oh no, we don't know,
because you went and hitting the bushes.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
And the car was the car wasn't at the office.
He always leaves his car at the office when he travels,
and he travels once a month.
Speaker 7 (10:10):
If he parked at the garage at the airport, he
couldn't he to get there?
Speaker 6 (10:16):
And you have to take it.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Into the phone. Why didn't he answer the phone when.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
She because he had a meaning son there means me
all day long and all evening.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
You know you got to You know that he take
the clients out to eat and everything else, and you
got to deal with them.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
You do see all this stuff he got to do.
But then why are you in SuDS sending pictures at
two two thirty in the morning. He went to TuS
He don't want you.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
That's her husband. She wanted to send him.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
He don't want to see that.
Speaker 7 (10:42):
When I'm starting to find out you were unattracted private eyes.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
When I find out I put.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
This together, that's what you got out of them.
Speaker 6 (10:48):
That's what I have got out of this. That's how
good I have. He don't even respond to you with.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Suggs Tommy disagree on this. When Tommy says she's a
great detective, you.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Said, I can't see how she can't never catch him.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
But though Jr.
Speaker 6 (11:03):
The owners heels, Yeah, but she ain't never there. That's
the problem. You need to be there. You turned you
like I caught you, and she turned around the wrong person. Oh,
I got you. She don't never know who is she after?
Speaker 5 (11:20):
She don't know, Junior. She did discover two hundred some
miles on your abdominat I asked.
Speaker 6 (11:25):
You, what does that prove?
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Somewhere he's supposed to be on a plane. He went somewhere.
Speaker 6 (11:32):
Can't somebody use your car? You got too many open
ends over here? Are you not a good detective? Yeah? Man,
go use my call for the weekend. I'm going out
of town. It that's fine. It's too many open ends.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Why didn't he answer any of his wife's phone calls?
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Junior and with his clients.
Speaker 7 (11:50):
He is on a business trip, but morning, going to
get some coffee junr. Then he then he called, though
I missed your call last night. Saw the picture with
the subs. Oh my god, why would you have to
tell what suns on?
Speaker 6 (12:01):
He even asked like that was sex? What you're doing this?
Why are you in SuDS? What did you do? Why
you got bubbles up to your neck? What's going on?
You left the walk run too long? What's happening? Because
he ain't even turned on by you? Because you're an
unattractive PI is what I get? I saw the case already,
case closed, solved. That wasn't hard. That wasn't hard at all?
(12:22):
Godly man? Hey, why the sugs up to your neck?
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Really terrible?
Speaker 7 (12:28):
And you can't even get credit card? Everybody, every woman
know how to get credit card information.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
You can't intend to call.
Speaker 7 (12:34):
The credit card company and act like you him. You
got all of you got a social security number, you
know who he is. You got card number. You just
don't know how to get the information. You called people
at the bank talking about is this James card This
James cark Man.
Speaker 6 (12:47):
Okay, listen, I need to sit where he was two
weeks ago. I need to see you can't get that
to me? Why two weeks behind yeah shee two weeks behind?
Shut Why you can't get why your comments?
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