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I'm married a groupie. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty
nine year old married makeup artist and my husband is
a handsome businessman. We got married a month ago and
I was hesitant because I saw signs of him being
a groupie. Groupie may not be the right word, but
he is intrigued by celebrities.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
When we watch TV, he talks.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Like a woman would, saying stuff about the actress's hair
and outfit.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Here's why I can't understand my husband.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
We are planning a trip to LA and he's been
call his cousin, who's a publicist in LA, to find
out what clubs are poppin' and which restaurant will have
the celebrities in it. I think it is okay to
want to get the LA experience, but that's not for
him to set up.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
That's my job.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
He jokes that if he runs into one of his
Hollywood girlfriends like Caruci Tran or Sierra, he will leave
me standing on the street. I have the best sense
of humor, but this isn't funny to me. If I
said that about Michael B. Jordan, he would be very upset.
The other night, we were having dinner and lots of drinks.
He opened up and admitted that he fantasizes about various
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black actresses while we're intimate. I went as low as
I could, and I admit it that I slept with
the famous comedian three years before we got married. Shocked,
he asked if I was joking and I said no.
He got up from the table and left me sitting there.
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I drove so he had to call an uber. It's
been an ongoing argument since that night because he can't
believe I slept with a celebrity and never told him.
I told him it was sex with a normal man,
but he just happened to be famous that made it worse?
Did it hurt his ego more because I had sex
with a celebrity? Please help? Okay, really, really, this is crazy.
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Your problem may have started about celebrities, but you all
are just trying to hurt each other now, it seems.
And if you keep that up, your marriage is going
to be in trouble. It's too soon for all of that.
It's only been a month. This is really petty stuff.
You're fighting over celebrities, okay. And rule number one in
case you don't know, is don't try to get back
at your man by telling him you slept with someone
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famous or not.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
But I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Seems like since he's so into celebrities, it may have
been okay if you had told him he was famous.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
But they're not able to get passed when you tell
them you slept with someone, okay, especially if you slept
with a lot of people and all of that. So
just you know, word to the wise, don't do that anymore.
It doesn't matter if it was three years or thirty
years ago. That's just not what you say. And yes,
since you asked, you did hurt his ego, but I
know you were hurt too about his fan boying out
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over all of his celebrity crushes Caruci, Tran and Sierra.
He said he would leave you standing on the street
if he saw them.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Ouch.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
That does hurt. So you hit him back hard with
your sleeping with the celebrity thing. The problem is is
that you guys, again, are just fighting over petty stuff.
These things are not worth losing your marriage over. He's
into celebrities. You're not that into celebrities. That's the whole
problem in your marriage. Celebrities. I mean, you know, you
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guys can still go to LA have a great time.
There's plenty of stuff to see there besides celebrities, but
that is the LA experience. If you've never been before,
you do want to go where the celebrities go.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
And hang out where they go.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
You know, I don't see this as a major problem,
but I see it growing into a bigger problem if
you guys don't nip it in the bud right now, Steve.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
Ugh, this letter is so stupid. Yeah, the letter really
is her husband though. The problem is him, this twenty
nine year old married makeup artist, And you say your
husband's a handsome businessman. They've been married a month ago,
and she said she was hesitant because she saw signs
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that he was a groupie, because he's intrigued by celebrities.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Now, this is a tail tale.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
When we watch TV, he talks like a woman would,
saying stuff about the actress hand outfit.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Uh oh, that is called a glitch. That's what's called
a glitch in a man.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
When you, as a woman, say he talks like a
woman would, saying stuff about actress hanging outfit, then that's
a glitch.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
And then she.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Goes on to say, here's why I can't understand my husband,
y'all playing a trip to LA. He been calling his cousin,
who's a publicist in LA, to find out the clubs
just popping, which restaurant will have celebrities in it. I
think it's okay to want to go to LA, but
that's not for him to set up.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
That's my job.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
He jokes that if he runs into one of his
Hollywood girlfriends, like whoever that lady is treying in Sierra,
he gonna leave me standing in the street. I can't
believe he said this to his wife, and it don't
stop that. This is how dumb this dude is. I
have the best sense of humor. But this isn't funny
to me. And if I said that about Michael B. Jordan,
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he'd be upset. Other night, they having dinner and they
had a lot of drinks. He opened up admitted that
he fantasizes about various black actresses. Why we're intimate? What
minute he said that to you? To his wife, lady,
I don't even know why you married this guy. The
signs of that you saw early on, they must have
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been glaring, because for him to sit up here and
say this, and now I went as low as I could,
and I admit that I slept with a famous comedian
three years ago. Now that's what I couldn't listening to
the letter in the blackout, I said, what where we're
going with this here? But then you said three years ago,
and I said, okay, cool, it can't be me. But
they scared me though when you said a famous comedian.
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And I'm pretty sure Tommy locked up in a couple
of what.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Was going on?
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Hang on, see we'll have bird two of your response
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's
Strawberry Letters subject I married a groupie. We'll get back
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The subject is I married a group bee.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Yeah you did, Lady. You got a man that has
a glitch When you're watching TV. He talks like a
woman who is saying stuff about the actors hand outfit
and then y'all playing on a trip to La. He
got a cousin that's a publishers. He been calling him
to ask what clubs is popping and where do the
celebrities hang out? Dan, he told you if he ran
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up into one of his celebrity crutches. He'll leave crushes.
He just leave you.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Standing in the middle of the street. I don't know
who says this to the wife, but this fool did.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
Now you said that y'all was having drinks one time,
and he opened up and admitted that he fantasizes about
various black actresses while we're intimate. I can't believe this
guy right here, man, this boy is stupid. I went
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as low as I could, and I admitted that I
slept with a famous comedian three years before we got married.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Now, immediately the letter, I went into shock.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Because I'm thinking she'dne wrote to Steve Harvey Morning Show,
what could this be about? But then she said three
years before we got married and they only been married
a month. So the cool that released me. I'm pretty
sure Tommy locked up and Tommy that releases you too.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
So shock.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
He asked if I was joking. I said, hell no,
I ain't playing. I slept with him. He got up
from the table and left me sitting there. What he
did say, now, he did say if he saw his
favorite female crush, he would leave you in the middle
of the street. So his coping skills is leaving he
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got up from the table. He left you sitting there.
I drove so he had to call Uber. Been inn
on argument, ongoing argument since that night. He can't believe
I slept with a celebrity and never told him. I
told him it was sex with a normal man. But
he just happened to be famous.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
That's all.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
It was just sex with a normal man. He just
happened to be famous. That made it worse. Did it
hurt his ego more because I had sex with a celebrity?
Please help it hurt his ego because he's stupid. See,
he wants to tell you about his fantasize and what
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the women.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
While y'all intimate.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
He tells you if he see a certain woman in
the street, he'll run to her, leave you standing there.
But the moment you open up and you honest about
something you did, you crushed it. And the reason you
crushed him is because he knows he will never.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Be a celebrity.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
So now in his mind, he's stupid because that's what
he wants. He now know that's what you want. His
was a fantasy, yours was reality. Oh that's a cold
slap in the face. Oh, when you thinking about who
you can sleep with me, and your wife turned around
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and tell you who she done slept with WHOA thinking
and doing is two different things. The letter actually turned
out to be good. I have no answer for you
in this letter because I really don't care. I don't
because he has everything that's coming his way, all this
getting up walking from the table, threatened to leave you
in the middle of the street if he meets here,
and all this here. Hey man, dog, you now now
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you got to deal with everything you did. And the
reason you wrote this letter is because you've been annoyed
and upset with him so many times. Now he upset.
He got what he got coming. He deserved right to
be where he is because he started this. Sometimes you
have to leave a man laying in the bed that he.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Made one more time.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Sometimes you have to leave a man laying in the
bed that he made. Stop trying to make the bed up.
Let he in it. You can't make a bed of
why he in it. This is an enjoyable letter. Thank
you for writing me. It's a teaching moment. It gives
us a chance to look at it and think to ourself,
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you know what, I bet.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Not ever do that.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Yes, famous comedian do.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
You know what I'm saying? This is a glorious moment.
I'm so grateful it ain't me Lord, thank you Lord. Yeah,
now she'd said this letter. I slept with a famous
comedian one time, who I would refuse to mention because
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we on this show.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Then, Oh, we weren't even have read this letter.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
We would have picked another immediately.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
Well, no, I'd have sent this right over to Ricky
Smile and d L.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
Hughley and let y'all have it.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Man, somebody sent this letter about y'all.
Speaker 5 (12:41):
We took y'all name out, which white out.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
So that's really it.
Speaker 5 (12:47):
I don't really have nothing else to say about this
letter except this dude is a complete fool and idiot.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
And you know, I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
It's only been married a month.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Yeah, and already this then came.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Yeah, that's that's the Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
So now he's stupid.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
All he gonna try to do is top you now,
m but he can't because don't know the celebrities want him.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
And again Sierra is with her husband Russell Wilson.
Speaker 5 (13:14):
Yeah, he gonna be out in La y'all ain't gonna
be able to join y'all say, he gonna be your
nose up against the window, driving down the car like
a dog, got his head hanging out the window.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah, doing all of that.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Yeah, Well, I hope they make it. It's only been
a month.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
They're not.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
It's disastrous right now, it's over. It's too petty. Yeah
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