All Episodes

February 5, 2024 13 mins

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her live in boyfriend of seven years. I've been having sex with her boyfriend and it started after I was here only a week. For years, the sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend, but I was married at the time. A few years ago. She mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. I wondered if it was on her mind when I moved in with him, but it's like she doesn't care at all....................................................

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mark as Played
Transcript

Episode Transcript

Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is time now for today's Strawberry.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Letter, and if you need advice on relationship, sex, parenting,
work and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVIFM
dot com by.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Clicking submit Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
We could be reading your letter live on the air,
just like we're going to read this one right here,
right now, and you never know, it could be yours.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
It could be yours. Buckle up, a hold on tight.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry and.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Let us thanking nephew. Subject.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
I need to move out, but he won't let me.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my
sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her
living boyfriend of seven years. I've been having sex with
her boyfriend and it started after I was here only
a week. For years, the sexual tension has been strong
between me and her boyfriend, but I was married at

(00:51):
the time. A few years ago. She mentioned it, but
she wasn't mad. I wondered if it was on her
mind when I moved in with him, but it's like
she doesn't care at all. She confided in me that
she has a new man, and she's trying to figure
out if he's a sure thing or not before she
breaks up with her boyfriend. She said that I need
to help keep her boyfriend's mind off her when she

(01:13):
sneaks away. I have been doing exactly what she asked
me to do. I don't think she cares, but I
know she would flip out if she knew all of
the things he's done to me in her guest bedroom.
Her boyfriend is gentle and he guides me through the
experience with soft whispers and hisses. I am about to
lose my mind because it's that good. But what we're

(01:35):
doing is so bad. Before I get into deep, I
told my sister's boyfriend that is time for me to
move out.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
He almost cried and said I can't go.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
I waited two weeks and told him again that I
was moving out, and I gave him a date. He
told my sister and she begged me to stay. Either
my sister is aware of what's going on and she
doesn't care, or she's planning to attack me in my
sleep and want me to move out.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
So should I keep this arrangement for a little while longer?
That is her question?

Speaker 2 (02:08):
Girl, Please get out of your sister's house today. I
don't care if she has another man or not. It's
still not right what you're doing. This is your sister.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
I mean, come on, she opened up her home to you.
This is how you show your gratitude to your sister.
You didn't even wait a week before you started sleeping
with her man.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
I mean, you're sleeping with her man in her house.
By the very definition, this is just wrong. He almost
started crying. Did you say when you told him you
were going to move out? Of course he did. You're easy,
You're convenient. Why would he want to let someone so
accessible to him go. He doesn't have to do anything
because you're right there at his beck and call. I mean,

(02:49):
he's living a dream and he wants to keep it
that way. You moving out will mess up his good thing.
I hope you see that. I really hope you see that.
You gotta go, Sis, Stop doing this to your sister,
who's been nothing but kind to you. Get out, get
your own place, and you know what, I'm glad you're
not my sister.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
Steve.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
You know when you write us this letter, and I
think the question is should I keep this arrangement for
a little while longer. That's really the question. Should I
keep this arrangement for a little while longer? That's the
There is no should I get out now?

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Should I?

Speaker 4 (03:33):
How should I break this to my sister? Do you
think we should all talk it through?

Speaker 3 (03:38):
There? You don't want none of that. All you want
to know is at the end of the letter.

Speaker 4 (03:42):
So should I keep this arrangement for a little while longer?
This letter right here has so much that nobody in
this letter is okay. Nobody in this letter is right,
Nobody in this letter is I mean, what are y'all doing?
I got sensual. I know what the term consensual means,

(04:03):
but everybody's consenting to a bunch of bulls. So you
thirty seven, your sister forty five? You staying with her
and her living boyfriend for seven oh of seven years,
I've been having sex with her boyfriend, and it started
after I was only there for one week. For years

(04:23):
as sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend,
but I was married at the time. Few years ago,
she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. So I'm saying you,
I guess you said a few years ago your sister,
would you know what I see how you and Ray
Ray look at each other. I see that y'all need
to y'all watch y'allself now. But she wasn't mad. A

(04:46):
few years ago she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad.
So I wondered if it was on her mind when
I moved in with them. Hell yeah, how you think
it wasn't She mentioned it twice to you, and then
you moved in. She knew that when you moved in,

(05:07):
but it's like she don't care at all. She confided
in me that she got a new man and she
trying to figure out if he's a sure thing or
not before she breaks up with her boyfriend. Okay, so
that then gave everybody the green light to do what
they want to do. I'm assuming she said that I
need to help keep her boyfriend's mind off her when

(05:29):
she sneaks away.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
Now hold on, let me say this.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
The dude that's in the middle of this hill, aw,
didn't my fortune smile on him?

Speaker 2 (05:48):
This?

Speaker 4 (05:49):
How in the world this happened, This gift, this incredible
moment of ecstasy, was just provided for me a girl
that I had been looking at over a seven year
period that I had some strong sexual tension in happens

(06:10):
to be the sister of my girlfriend.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
She's having trouble in her massage.

Speaker 4 (06:15):
She moves in with us, and in one week we
ain't fantasizing no more, We're actually doing it. And then
my wife, who's seeing somebody else, my girlfriend, who seeing
somebody else, tells the girl to keep me occupied while
she all sneaking with her boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Hang on, hang on, Steve, living right there with part
two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes
after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter, subject I need
to move out but he won't let me. We'll get
back into it right after this.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
You're listening hard Morning show.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter
that subject I need to move out but he will
let me.

Speaker 4 (07:01):
I've never read a letter with so much pain and
pleasure in it.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
I'm just concusing.

Speaker 4 (07:08):
I don't know. I want to be happy for the dude.
Y'all right for advice, but you don't really want advice.
I thirty seven year old lady, and she got a
sister that's forty five that's been staying with her and
her living boyfriend. She got a living boyfriend of seven years.
The lady that's writing a letter says she's been having

(07:28):
sex with that living boyfriend and it started.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
I was there after only a week. For years, the.

Speaker 4 (07:35):
Sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend.
But I was married at the time. And then a
few years ago she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad.
I know it's some sexual trench between you and layby,
but she wasn't mad at the time. I wondered if
it was on her mind when I moved in with them.
It was on all y'all, man, It was on everybody's mind.

(07:56):
It was on her mind when she offered the place,
and along with it like, well, if your sister really
need a place, I just I'm okay with it, And
then you.

Speaker 3 (08:05):
Will who is such a tensteen men?

Speaker 4 (08:08):
Him?

Speaker 3 (08:08):
Oh, I hope they'll let me stay there.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
It took y'all one week to figure it out, and
then y'all start doing each other. But you say, it's
like she don't care at all, because she confided in
me that she got a new man and she trying
to figure out if it's a sure thing or not.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Before she break up with a boyfriend. She said, I
need your help to.

Speaker 4 (08:24):
Keep my boyfriend's mind off of her when she sneaks away.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
What what? Who gave me the gree?

Speaker 4 (08:33):
You gotta live in hall pass, You got a green light,
you got consent, you got the okay, And I have
been doing exactly what she asked me to do. You
was doing it before she asked you, And I don't
think she cared. But I know she would flip out

(08:53):
if she knew all the things he's done to me
in their guest room. She would flip out. She knows
something happening, and what you think he ain't done it
to her? That's how you get to be alive in
for seven years. You think what's happening in that guess
room is crazy. You ought to see what's happening in
that master girl seven years? How you think he got

(09:17):
good at it? Keep it in that practicing in the
master So when he come to the guest room.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
You just say, have it at your house.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
Her boyfriend is jumped to He guides me through the
experience with soft whispers and kissing. I'm about to lose
my mind because it's that good. But what we're doing
is so bad. Now before I get in too deep,
she said, Now let me stop right here. She said,
before I get in too deep?

Speaker 3 (09:43):
How much deeper? How much? What? Before I get in
too deep? Girl? How much deeper do this water?

Speaker 4 (09:57):
Get? All right? I told my sister his boyfriend that
it's time for me to move out. He almost cried. Now,
I ain't giving consent to this letter. But if I
was the boyfriend and he told me that, Hell, I cried.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
To you, you'll be crying to.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
You.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
Don't even understand. He ain't got to go nowhere to cheat. No,
he ain't got to sneak to cheat.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
It's right there.

Speaker 4 (10:22):
The wife, the girlfriend want you to keep him occupied
while she await, and you okay with it, and he
ain't got to go to work.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
But I cry too perfect. He cried and said I
can't go.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
I waited two weeks and told him again I was
moving out, and I gave him the date. He told
my sister, and she begged.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
Me to say, either.

Speaker 4 (10:45):
My sister's aware of what's going on, or she don't care,
or she's planning to attack me in my sleep. First
of all, your sister ain't gonna attack you to sleep.
If that was gonna happen, that would have been happened.
It ain't no way no woman gonna wait this long.
She would have been done. You. You are the convenient arrangement.
She has your sister know you, She know what y'all doing.
Ain't nothing happening in no woman house. But that's spending

(11:08):
period of time, and she don't know. She had an inkling.
Y'all was up to something before y'all got into it.
She just brought you in here because now that's gonna
help her figure out her mood with her boyfriend. So
she is aware of it. And she done begged you
to stay or she gonna plan on attacking you in
your sleep. That would have been done happen. But you
ain't got to worry about that because he gonna save
your life. I can promise you that he's the one

(11:30):
person that Hall dived in front of that night because
he can't that nothing happening.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
You.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
You the goose that laid the golden eggs, lady just
nowhere in their heads. I'm telling you right now, you
the prize and you the catch me out. Hey, ain't
nobody got this going this me and listening to this letter, going, Oh, mercy, how.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
Can we speak?

Speaker 4 (11:49):
Because the fool I live with, are gonna lie none
of this to happen adver, I can't even make a
phone call it a bathroom with the lights out without
this flower the gas. He doesn't want me to move out,
So should I keep this arrangement for a little longer? Lady, Look,
it seems to me like what you're really hoping for
in the back of your mind is that your sister

(12:11):
goes on gets with this new boyfriend so you can
have hug her boyfriend all to yourself. But I'm gonna
tell you right now, he not gonna keep you because
it's hard to go from second to first. Very few
people get to move up from a side chick to
wife side chicks. They rarely make the cut at wife.

(12:31):
They make it sometimes, but for the most part, they don't.
He gonna be off somewhere looking for this situation again.
I don't know what to tell you. I don't care
what y'all do. I really don't. I really don't. But
if the dude could write in and tell me how
he pulled this off, Yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
You lad your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram
at Steve irm and check us out on the Strawberry
Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app where free never
sounded so good.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Coming up next, Juniors in the Building with Sports Talk.
Right after this, you're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show
Advertise With Us

Host

Shirley Strawberry

Shirley Strawberry

Popular Podcasts

1. On Purpose with Jay Shetty

1. On Purpose with Jay Shetty

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

2. 24/7 News: The Latest

2. 24/7 News: The Latest

Today’s Latest News In 4 Minutes. Updated Hourly.

3. The Joe Rogan Experience

3. The Joe Rogan Experience

The official podcast of comedian Joe Rogan.

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2024 iHeartMedia, Inc.