July 23, 2025 • 13 mins
The Strawberry Letter for Wednesday, July 23rd, 2025. Subject: "Is His Girlfriend Still Mad He Left?"
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVIFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
We could be reading.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Your letter live on the air, just like we're going
to read this one right here, right now, and you
never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.
We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
All right, nephew, thank you. Subject is his girlfriend still
mad because he left Dear Stephen Shirley. When my fiance
and I met, he was living with a woman, so
we decided to be friends until he worked out that situation.
She had some health problems so he couldn't leave her.
That didn't bother me since he was being transparent. I
(00:46):
still went out with him as his friend and nothing else,
no kissing, hugging or anything. Four months later, he told
me he was moving out and I was falling for him,
so I offered him my guest room. He moved in
with me, and he gave me cash every month for
my expenses, and he did all of the manly things
around the house. Then we crossed the line and started
(01:10):
having sex. On July twelfth, he got on one knee
in the kitchen and said he knew that I was
his wife when he met me. When we met, and
he asked me to marry him. It was a one
year anniversary of when we met. The next day, I
joined his church and he introduced me to the pastor.
That's when the pooh pooh hit the fan. The pastor
(01:34):
was cool, but his wife wasn't. She grabbed my arm
really hard and pulled me away to talk. She told
me that my man was engaged to her younger sister
and moved out after she got sick. I told her
that he told me all about that, and she said
he didn't tell me everything. She claims that my man
stole money from his ex and cheated on her the
(01:56):
entire time they were together. I told her that people
can share and I would pray for her sister. Days later,
my fiance told me that his ex came to my
house while I was at work. Then she contacted me
on social media and said that my man is a whore.
I didn't know why my fiance would take me to
that church if he was beefing with the pastor's family.
(02:19):
At any rate, I'm standing by him. Is his ex
girlfriend mad because he left? Should I go talk to her? No?
Do not do that. And I really think you're confusing
what you think is transparency with this man's lives. I mean,
he told you what he needed to tell you to
get you. He moved out of the house with one
(02:41):
woman and moved straight in with you. Why didn't he
get his own house? These are red flags to me,
not transparency. All the stuff the first lady of the
church told you about your man, those were red flags.
She said he was engaged to her younger sister, he
left her while she was six, to old money from her,
and cheated on her throughout the relationship. Please know that
(03:04):
this is a choice you're making to be with him
after all this, and you should at least make the
effort to see if the pastor's wife is telling the
truth about your man. Don't just stand by him blindly.
His ex came to your house. How did she know
where you lived? Did your man tell her? That would
mean they're keeping in touch? Is his ex mad? You asked, Yeah,
(03:29):
she's mad because he walked out on her. Should you
go talk to her. No, I thought she was sick.
What is really going on here, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Well, prepare you to help because I have a whole
other letter because the subject is is his girl feel
still mad because he left? I think the subject could
has let all to be. I think I'm at the
wrong church. That's what I think this letter ought to be. Then,
(04:03):
Stephen Shirley, when me and my fiance met, Now this
is a letter.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
This is a woman writing this letter.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
He was living with a woman, so we decided to
be friends until he worked out that situation. Wow, that
was mighty generous of you. She has some health problems
so he couldn't leave her. I'm curious to know what
these health problems are because it's a resurface later on
(04:32):
in the letter.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
That didn't bother me since he was being transparent.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
You know, I live with a woman and I can't
leave her because she's sick as hell.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
That's what he said.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I said, I'm with a woman, but I can't leave
her because she's sick as hell. Oh, thank you for
being honest. But you lived there, Uh huh stay with him? Yeah, Yeah,
that's what she did. That didn't bother me since he
(05:04):
was being transparent. I still without him and is his friend,
nothing else, no kiss his hug and anything. Four months later,
he told me he was moving out, and I was
falling for him. Now this happens rather quick, so I
offered him my guess room. I don't understand when he
(05:27):
told you he was moving out. He didn't say to where,
he didn't say he was getting his own place.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
He said he was just moving out.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
So you offered him his guest room because you was
falling for him.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Okay, you stupid.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
He moved in with me, and he gave me cash
every month from my expensive and he did all the
manly things around the house.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Then we crossed the line and started having six.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Duh, Wait a minute, he's staying with the sick lady.
He moved out, moved straight into your guest room, start
giving you money for expenses, and did all the manly
things around the house. Okay, and then y'all crossed the
line and started having six. I don't even understand why
(06:26):
you say y'all crossed the line. You moved him in
to half sex. Yeah, that's what that spare room was for.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
All right, Hang on, Steve, I'm confused. We'll have part
two of your response coming up to today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is, is his girlfriend's still mad because he left?
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Hardy Morning Show. Hey, it's your girl, Shirley Strawberry. You know,
(07:00):
mornings just aren't complete without a McDonald's breakfast. Have you
heard about the new spicy sausage McMuffin with egg It's
got a creamy red pepper heat.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Hmm.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I've got to try that. I'm thinking it would hit
just right with my morning coffee. And there's nothing like
that rush of making it to McDonald's in time for breakfast.
Swing by and make your mourning at McDonald's morning Bada
Da Da da at participating restaurants for a limited time only.
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is is his girlfriend still mad because he left?
(07:35):
But you changed the subject?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
What did you change? Had another?
Speaker 3 (07:38):
The subject of this letter ought to be I think
I'm at the wrong church.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
All right, we don't get into that.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Here's this lady wrote this letter, got this fiance who
was living with a woman, so they decided to be
friends until he worked out that situation. That was mighty
generous offer. She has some health problem. He couldn't leave her.
That's really interesting. I live with a woman, but I
can't leave her because she's sick as hell. Right now, Okay,
(08:09):
that didn't bother me since he was being transparent. How
what did he say that was so transparent? I went
out with him as friends, nothing else, no kissing, hugging.
Four months later he told me he was moving out
and I was falling for him, so I offered him
my guest room.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Whoo, you stupid. He had to put a woo with that.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah, you didn't want to find out, Like when he
said he was moving out of the woman that he
was living with who was sick. You didn't like bother
to say, well where you moving out to? You know,
what's your plans? You just offered him your guest room.
He moved in, gave you cash every month for your expenses,
did all the manly things.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Around the house. She said.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Then we crossed the line and started having sick duh,
there you're talking about months later, lady, bye, yeah, lady,
come on now. On July twelfth, he got on one
knee in the kitchen, said he knew I was his
wife when he first met me asked me to marry him.
It was a one year anniversary of when we met.
(09:15):
The next day, I joined his church. He introduced me
to the pastor. Now we're getting into why I say
the name of this letter should not be what's the
name of the letter? It's his girlfriend still mad because
he left the tyler. This letter should be I think
I'm at the wrong church. He joined the church, introduced
(09:39):
you to the pastor, and then that's when the pool
pool hit the fan. The pastor was cool, but his
wife wasn't. She grabbed my arm really hard. She got snatched.
That's when No, that's when the pastor wife, first lady
grabbed y arm and snatched you. She grabbed my arm
really hard and pulled me up away to talk. She
(09:59):
told told me that my man was engaged to her
younger sister and moved out after she got sick. I
told her he told me all about that, he was
being transparent, and then said that she didn't tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
She claims that my man stole.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Money from his ex and cheated on her the entire
time they were together. Wow, all this at the church.
Now this is the first lady, little sister. Now now
remember now she's sick. You gotta remember that she's sick.
(10:36):
The lady is sick. Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
I told her that people can change, and I would pray.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
For her sister. This is a good church. Listen to me.
Let's go over this church right here. Soon as she proposed,
you took you in there the next day to meet
the pastor. As soon as you met the pastor, the
first lady snatched you come here and told you that
the member you had just agreed to marry was living
(11:10):
with her younger sister, cheated on her, stole money from her,
and then moved.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Out after she got sick. What a church? What a church?
What a church?
Speaker 3 (11:23):
I told her people could change, and then here she
got real churchy too.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
I would pray for her, sister.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Wow, that the Lord heals her body and gives her
peace of mind. Days later, my fiance told me that
his ex came to my house while I was at work.
Look how prayer change his thing. You, Look at how
prayer changes thing. She was sick, invalid, laying at the back.
(11:54):
Can't leave a house. He can't leave her.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
She's sick. You told the first lady, you would pray
for herself. Stuff. Days later that she was healed through prayer.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Came to your fiance's house while you was at work.
Then she contacted you on social media. I know it
was to thank you for them prayers. Contacted you on
social media and said that my man is a whore.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Wow, now she really healed. Now.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
See once you start calling people whoes, you have completely
healed now, because the minutego you sick as hell.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Now you out here knowing who hoes and all this hell.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Why my fiance would take me to that church if
he's beefing with the pastor his family, because it's that
kind of church.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
At any rate, I'm standing by him. There you go,
here you go, Wow.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
His ex girlfriend. It's his ex girlfrey man because he left.
Should I go talk to her?
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (13:07):
I wouldn't go talk to her cause see, you done
already prayed for her. She done got healed. She'd n
drove to your house. Now you're gonna go talk to her.
She calling people whose Now you're gonna go talk to her.
You fit to find out how good a prayer you prayed,
cause she might be he enough, Just enough of whoop
(13:30):
your behind.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Strawberry Letter on Instagram and day Steve b FM, and
check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVIFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
We could be reading.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Your letter live on the air, just like we're going
to read this one right here, right now, and you
never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.
We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
All right, nephew, thank you. Subject is his girlfriend still
mad because he left Dear Stephen Shirley. When my fiance
and I met, he was living with a woman, so
we decided to be friends until he worked out that situation.
She had some health problems so he couldn't leave her.
That didn't bother me since he was being transparent. I
(00:46):
still went out with him as his friend and nothing else,
no kissing, hugging or anything. Four months later, he told
me he was moving out and I was falling for him,
so I offered him my guest room. He moved in
with me, and he gave me cash every month for
my expenses, and he did all of the manly things
around the house. Then we crossed the line and started
(01:10):
having sex. On July twelfth, he got on one knee
in the kitchen and said he knew that I was
his wife when he met me. When we met, and
he asked me to marry him. It was a one
year anniversary of when we met. The next day, I
joined his church and he introduced me to the pastor.
That's when the pooh pooh hit the fan. The pastor
(01:34):
was cool, but his wife wasn't. She grabbed my arm
really hard and pulled me away to talk. She told
me that my man was engaged to her younger sister
and moved out after she got sick. I told her
that he told me all about that, and she said
he didn't tell me everything. She claims that my man
stole money from his ex and cheated on her the
(01:56):
entire time they were together. I told her that people
can share and I would pray for her sister. Days later,
my fiance told me that his ex came to my
house while I was at work. Then she contacted me
on social media and said that my man is a whore.
I didn't know why my fiance would take me to
that church if he was beefing with the pastor's family.
(02:19):
At any rate, I'm standing by him. Is his ex
girlfriend mad because he left? Should I go talk to her? No?
Do not do that. And I really think you're confusing
what you think is transparency with this man's lives. I mean,
he told you what he needed to tell you to
get you. He moved out of the house with one
(02:41):
woman and moved straight in with you. Why didn't he
get his own house? These are red flags to me,
not transparency. All the stuff the first lady of the
church told you about your man, those were red flags.
She said he was engaged to her younger sister, he
left her while she was six, to old money from her,
and cheated on her throughout the relationship. Please know that
(03:04):
this is a choice you're making to be with him
after all this, and you should at least make the
effort to see if the pastor's wife is telling the
truth about your man. Don't just stand by him blindly.
His ex came to your house. How did she know
where you lived? Did your man tell her? That would
mean they're keeping in touch? Is his ex mad? You asked, Yeah,
(03:29):
she's mad because he walked out on her. Should you
go talk to her. No, I thought she was sick.
What is really going on here, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Well, prepare you to help because I have a whole
other letter because the subject is is his girl feel
still mad because he left? I think the subject could
has let all to be. I think I'm at the
wrong church. That's what I think this letter ought to be. Then,
(04:03):
Stephen Shirley, when me and my fiance met, Now this
is a letter.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
This is a woman writing this letter.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
He was living with a woman, so we decided to
be friends until he worked out that situation. Wow, that
was mighty generous of you. She has some health problems
so he couldn't leave her. I'm curious to know what
these health problems are because it's a resurface later on
(04:32):
in the letter.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
That didn't bother me since he was being transparent.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
You know, I live with a woman and I can't
leave her because she's sick as hell.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
That's what he said.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I said, I'm with a woman, but I can't leave
her because she's sick as hell. Oh, thank you for
being honest. But you lived there, Uh huh stay with him? Yeah, Yeah,
that's what she did. That didn't bother me since he
(05:04):
was being transparent. I still without him and is his friend,
nothing else, no kiss his hug and anything. Four months later,
he told me he was moving out, and I was
falling for him. Now this happens rather quick, so I
offered him my guess room. I don't understand when he
(05:27):
told you he was moving out. He didn't say to where,
he didn't say he was getting his own place.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
He said he was just moving out.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
So you offered him his guest room because you was
falling for him.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Okay, you stupid.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
He moved in with me, and he gave me cash
every month from my expensive and he did all the
manly things around the house.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Then we crossed the line and started having six.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Duh, Wait a minute, he's staying with the sick lady.
He moved out, moved straight into your guest room, start
giving you money for expenses, and did all the manly
things around the house. Okay, and then y'all crossed the
line and started having six. I don't even understand why
(06:26):
you say y'all crossed the line. You moved him in
to half sex. Yeah, that's what that spare room was for.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
All right, Hang on, Steve, I'm confused. We'll have part
two of your response coming up to today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is, is his girlfriend's still mad because he left?
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Hardy Morning Show. Hey, it's your girl, Shirley Strawberry. You know,
(07:00):
mornings just aren't complete without a McDonald's breakfast. Have you
heard about the new spicy sausage McMuffin with egg It's
got a creamy red pepper heat.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Hmm.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I've got to try that. I'm thinking it would hit
just right with my morning coffee. And there's nothing like
that rush of making it to McDonald's in time for breakfast.
Swing by and make your mourning at McDonald's morning Bada
Da Da da at participating restaurants for a limited time only.
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is is his girlfriend still mad because he left?
(07:35):
But you changed the subject?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
What did you change? Had another?
Speaker 3 (07:38):
The subject of this letter ought to be I think
I'm at the wrong church.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
All right, we don't get into that.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Here's this lady wrote this letter, got this fiance who
was living with a woman, so they decided to be
friends until he worked out that situation. That was mighty
generous offer. She has some health problem. He couldn't leave her.
That's really interesting. I live with a woman, but I
can't leave her because she's sick as hell. Right now, Okay,
(08:09):
that didn't bother me since he was being transparent. How
what did he say that was so transparent? I went
out with him as friends, nothing else, no kissing, hugging.
Four months later he told me he was moving out
and I was falling for him, so I offered him
my guest room.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Whoo, you stupid. He had to put a woo with that.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah, you didn't want to find out, Like when he
said he was moving out of the woman that he
was living with who was sick. You didn't like bother
to say, well where you moving out to? You know,
what's your plans? You just offered him your guest room.
He moved in, gave you cash every month for your expenses,
did all the manly things.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Around the house. She said.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Then we crossed the line and started having sick duh,
there you're talking about months later, lady, bye, yeah, lady,
come on now. On July twelfth, he got on one
knee in the kitchen, said he knew I was his
wife when he first met me asked me to marry him.
It was a one year anniversary of when we met.
(09:15):
The next day, I joined his church. He introduced me
to the pastor. Now we're getting into why I say
the name of this letter should not be what's the
name of the letter? It's his girlfriend still mad because
he left the tyler. This letter should be I think
I'm at the wrong church. He joined the church, introduced
(09:39):
you to the pastor, and then that's when the pool
pool hit the fan. The pastor was cool, but his
wife wasn't. She grabbed my arm really hard. She got snatched.
That's when No, that's when the pastor wife, first lady
grabbed y arm and snatched you. She grabbed my arm
really hard and pulled me up away to talk. She
(09:59):
told told me that my man was engaged to her
younger sister and moved out after she got sick. I
told her he told me all about that, he was
being transparent, and then said that she didn't tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
She claims that my man stole.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Money from his ex and cheated on her the entire
time they were together. Wow, all this at the church.
Now this is the first lady, little sister. Now now
remember now she's sick. You gotta remember that she's sick.
(10:36):
The lady is sick. Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
I told her that people can change, and I would pray.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
For her sister. This is a good church. Listen to me.
Let's go over this church right here. Soon as she proposed,
you took you in there the next day to meet
the pastor. As soon as you met the pastor, the
first lady snatched you come here and told you that
the member you had just agreed to marry was living
(11:10):
with her younger sister, cheated on her, stole money from her,
and then moved.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Out after she got sick. What a church? What a church?
What a church?
Speaker 3 (11:23):
I told her people could change, and then here she
got real churchy too.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
I would pray for her, sister.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Wow, that the Lord heals her body and gives her
peace of mind. Days later, my fiance told me that
his ex came to my house while I was at work.
Look how prayer change his thing. You, Look at how
prayer changes thing. She was sick, invalid, laying at the back.
(11:54):
Can't leave a house. He can't leave her.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
She's sick. You told the first lady, you would pray
for herself. Stuff. Days later that she was healed through prayer.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Came to your fiance's house while you was at work.
Then she contacted you on social media. I know it
was to thank you for them prayers. Contacted you on
social media and said that my man is a whore.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Wow, now she really healed. Now.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
See once you start calling people whoes, you have completely
healed now, because the minutego you sick as hell.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Now you out here knowing who hoes and all this hell.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Why my fiance would take me to that church if
he's beefing with the pastor his family, because it's that
kind of church.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
At any rate, I'm standing by him. There you go,
here you go, Wow.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
His ex girlfriend. It's his ex girlfrey man because he left.
Should I go talk to her?
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (13:07):
I wouldn't go talk to her cause see, you done
already prayed for her. She done got healed. She'd n
drove to your house. Now you're gonna go talk to her.
She calling people whose Now you're gonna go talk to her.
You fit to find out how good a prayer you prayed,
cause she might be he enough, Just enough of whoop
(13:30):
your behind.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Strawberry Letter on Instagram and day Steve b FM, and
check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the
free iHeartRadio app. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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