October 17, 2025 • 13 mins
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Friday, October 17th, 2025. Subject: "Just Burn The Whole RV"
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Refm dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, and you never know it
(00:20):
could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Oh buckle up and hold on tight. We got it
for you here. It is a Strawberry letter.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hello. You put some extra sexy on that. I know
you did. I know you did it just a little
bit bit.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Thank you, nephew. Subject just burn the whole RV. Dear
Stephen Shirley. I am married to a die hard football
fan and we met in college. We went to an
HBCU and for years we have tailgated with friends and
family before home games. I had a minor surgery, so
I had to miss the first home game. When we tailgate,
(00:57):
we take our RV to the stadium, hook up our
deep frier and our grill, and get to cooking early
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
It's what we do.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I found out recently that my husband did that and
a lot more while I was at home recuperating my
girlfriend and her husband stopped by our vat in the
morning of the game, and she facetimed me to rub
it in and show me what I was missing. I
was tickled at how messy she was being. A few
hours later, she texted me and said she was about
(01:27):
to FaceTime me again, but she told me to put
my phone on mute. I got the call and I
watched my phone as she showed me three women that
I had never seen before, drinking and having a great
time in our RV. Then my friend panned over to
my husband and he had a tiny redhead woman sitting
(01:49):
on his lap, sitting on his leg. It was so
loud so I couldn't hear what they were saying. My
friend said she met the woman. She advised me to
talk to my husband for jumping to any conclusions. My
only response was that I was going to burn the
whole RV up.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
With my husband in it.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I saw this with my own eyes, so there was
nothing my husband could say to me to make me
believe he's not a cheater. He's accused my friend of
starting this mess, but I never told him who told me.
He claims he's not dumb enough to have this woman
in our RV in front of our friends. If he
was trying to have sex with her, does he think
I'm dumb?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Should I believe that this was just innocent fun? Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You know what, I really didn't know how to take
this letter at first, because.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
It kind of made me love you. It kind of
made me laugh, Steve.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
When she said she saw a tiny, redheaded woman sitting
on his lap, I just pictured a little doll on
his lap in my head at first.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
But you did a tiny read a tiny anyway.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Then your friend said, don't jump to conclusions, talk to
your husband first. And who were these other three women?
I mean, where did they come from? It's like he
was just waiting for you to take a day off
or something so he could really really have some fun.
But in what world is another woman sitting on your
husband's leg innocent fun? I don't know any nowhere, And
(03:20):
it's not okay. Your so called friend was dead wrong
and the only reason she would be doing something like
this is to be messy. As you said in your letter,
she should be mad, so you should be mad.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
At her and your husband.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Her for not minding her own business and your husband
for allowing just some random chick, a tiny little redheaded
woman to sit her butt on his leg.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
And please don't believe your husband's lives when he says.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Baby is not what you think when you clearly saw
him and this little bitty woman with the red hair
in real time with your own eyes.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
This is something you and your husband need to discuss.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You need to talk about this amongst yourselves and not
with your girlfriend and her husband and all that. I mean,
you know, as far as burning up the whole RV,
I understand you know how.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
You why you feel that way because you saw this
going on. I know you're not going to do that.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
You were just in the moment, But you and your
husband need to talk, honey and find out what's going on.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Steve.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Are we about to disagree? Well, that's what the Strawbee
letter letter is for. See there's letter right here. Really,
you know how I say, oftentimes behind every moment of
adversity there is a lesson and a blessing. I want
you all to see behind this moment of adversity. I
(04:41):
want to show I'm gonna point out the lesson in this,
and I'm gonna point out the blessing in this. You're
married to a diehard football fan. Y'all met in college,
went to HBCU tailgated with friends and family before the
home games. So you had surgery and you had to
miss the first game. We tail gate. You take our
(05:02):
ivy to the stadium, hook up the deep fried grill,
get the cooking early in the morning. And she said,
quite assuredly, this is what we do. And I gotta
tell you something sounds like fun to me. Man, girl,
I often miss a lot of those regular things in
(05:24):
life that I wish I could do. My boys be
going to the homecoming game and be sending me pictures
all my frat boys sitting around. Man, I wish I
could go, but I can't because it ain't that way.
So I found out recently that my husband did that
and a lot more. While I was home recuperating, My
(05:46):
girlfriend and her husband stopped by our RV in the
morning of the game. She face tied me to rub
it in and show me what I was missing. That's
the key statement in this whole letter. She facetimed you
to rub it in and show you what you was missing. Oh,
(06:11):
she facetimed you for wavene mold than that. And she
knew it. She's always been jealous of the fact that
you and your husband have an r V and they
got to come visit because they little raggetts ain't got
nothing but tickets to the game. They got a little
car with a hatchback on it. They don't even open
(06:32):
up and turn into nothing. Hang on, sticky pole tail
gate friends, you got.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
We'll have part.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes
after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject. Just burn the
whole RV. We'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone, quick health questions.
(07:00):
Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting. Did
you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where
vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune
response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, newmacacle, pneumonia, RSV,
and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines
you need and visit vaxicist dot com that's vaexsist dot
(07:23):
com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer.
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter
subject just burn the whole RV.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
The truth of this letter is behind every moment of adversity,
there is a lesson and a blessing. I've said this
many times, and I'm gonna show it to you in
this letter. Here, this woman and a husband been tailgating
for years to go to HBCUs. They get there early
in the morning, family and friends. They set up the
deep fry and they get the grilling. And she said,
it is what we do. I said, I missed those days.
(07:57):
I wish I could go back and do that sometime,
but I can't, so I wish I could. And then
you found out and then you had a little surgery,
so you missed the first game. And y'all been doing
this for years. First game, your husband go Anyway, while
I was home recoperating, your girlfriend and her husband stopped
by RV the morning of the game, and she faced
(08:17):
me to rub it in and show me what I
was missing. And this, I said, is the key to
this whole letter. She face timed you to rub it
in and show you what you was missing. Now, she
didn't call to show you what you was missing in
a good way. Girl, you missing, and we party. None
of that right there. And because you said I was
(08:39):
tickled at how messy she was being, it tickled you.
Oh you laughing now, because that ain't why she face
timed you. She didn't FaceTime you to tickle you. See,
your reaction was not what she wanted. But it's all
having all that fun without me because she jealous. She
(08:59):
jealous of you relationship, She jealous of your happiness, She
jealous of your RV. Because they ain't got one. They
got that little raggeds hatchback and when they open it up,
it don't turn into nothing. It ain't big enough. They
ain't got no deep Friday, ain't got no grill. They
got that little tiny grill and sit on the three legs.
(09:21):
You can't put but two burgers on that thing. Y'all
got that whole set up. And her jealous. Yeah, she
got that little weather well. You can't putting them but
eight pieces of charcole in there, and then it gets
real hot. You can't touch it for two days. They
got to leave it at the stadium. So now here
we go. A few hours later, she texts me and
(09:43):
saying she was about to FaceTime me again, but she
told me to put my phone on mute. See you
know why because see you handle her reaction the first time,
too wrong. He was tickled at her being messy, and
she messy, and she jealous, jellous of your happiness. So
now here she goes. I got the call and I
(10:06):
watched my phone, and she showed me three women that
I had never seen before, drinking and having a great
time in our RV. She showed you three women that
had never been in RV. She ain't show you none
of the other men that could have been in that
twoc Then my friend paying over to my husband and
he had a tiny red headed woman sitting on his leg.
(10:30):
It was so loud I couldn't hear what they were saying.
My friend said she met the woman. She advised me
to talk to my husband before jumping to any conclusion.
My only response was that I was gonna burn that
whole RV up. Wait a minute, so now you paying
over a little tiny red head shitting on his lap.
(10:52):
That's not his.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Fault, that's just funny to me.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Sorry, they had the RV open, tiny red head, little
white lady came in and just sitting up that and
other r V four ain't nowhere for her to stick
what She just sat down on big dude's lap because
he's big strong you know. Uh nah, they talking, but
(11:17):
you can't hear what they said. And the reason she
put it on mute because they were so loud. You
can't what they said because they weren't talking about nothing.
I couldn't share you if they was just partying. It
got a little bit out of hand. She advised me
to talk to my husband before jumping to any conclusion.
(11:37):
She wants you to jump to a conclusion and talking
about talk to your husband. Why would you invite something
like that in a person's marriage with your low down
stink behind. But the woman with my own eyes, So
that was nothing my husband could say to make me
believe he is not a Cheatah, why's how's he cheating?
(12:00):
How is he cheated? Not cheating?
Speaker 3 (12:05):
That's right, because she.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Because it's inappropriate, it doesn't look good. But that ain't
cheat at all. You know what cheating is, and you're
trying to make more out of it than it is.
He's accused my friends of starting this mess. He's absolutely correct,
But I never told him.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Who told me? He knows her?
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Because ain't nobody else in that would have did it?
Who else would have called you? Ain't nobody got your number?
But your mess friend who I must inform you is
not your friend. She ain't never been your friend. She's
jealous of your life. She's jealous of what you got.
She don't want you to have nothing because she ain't
got nothing. He claims he's not dumb enough to have
(12:51):
this woman in our R and V in front of
our friends. If he was trying to have sex with
m Bam diddo, who do that? It was dumb what
he did, but he ain't trying to have sex with
the chick and he was not in the trailer cheap?
Does he think? I'm done now? But your girlfriend know it? Should?
I believe this is innocent fun, That's all. It was
some innocent.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Fund boast your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
And Steve Harvey sift down you got with that lady,
that's what you need.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
To get rid of the little tiny Redhead on Instagram
and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Refm dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, and you never know it
(00:20):
could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Oh buckle up and hold on tight. We got it
for you here. It is a Strawberry letter.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hello. You put some extra sexy on that. I know
you did. I know you did it just a little
bit bit.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Thank you, nephew. Subject just burn the whole RV. Dear
Stephen Shirley. I am married to a die hard football
fan and we met in college. We went to an
HBCU and for years we have tailgated with friends and
family before home games. I had a minor surgery, so
I had to miss the first home game. When we tailgate,
(00:57):
we take our RV to the stadium, hook up our
deep frier and our grill, and get to cooking early
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
It's what we do.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I found out recently that my husband did that and
a lot more while I was at home recuperating my
girlfriend and her husband stopped by our vat in the
morning of the game, and she facetimed me to rub
it in and show me what I was missing. I
was tickled at how messy she was being. A few
hours later, she texted me and said she was about
(01:27):
to FaceTime me again, but she told me to put
my phone on mute. I got the call and I
watched my phone as she showed me three women that
I had never seen before, drinking and having a great
time in our RV. Then my friend panned over to
my husband and he had a tiny redhead woman sitting
(01:49):
on his lap, sitting on his leg. It was so
loud so I couldn't hear what they were saying. My
friend said she met the woman. She advised me to
talk to my husband for jumping to any conclusions. My
only response was that I was going to burn the
whole RV up.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
With my husband in it.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I saw this with my own eyes, so there was
nothing my husband could say to me to make me
believe he's not a cheater. He's accused my friend of
starting this mess, but I never told him who told me.
He claims he's not dumb enough to have this woman
in our RV in front of our friends. If he
was trying to have sex with her, does he think
I'm dumb?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Should I believe that this was just innocent fun? Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You know what, I really didn't know how to take
this letter at first, because.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
It kind of made me love you. It kind of
made me laugh, Steve.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
When she said she saw a tiny, redheaded woman sitting
on his lap, I just pictured a little doll on
his lap in my head at first.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
But you did a tiny read a tiny anyway.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Then your friend said, don't jump to conclusions, talk to
your husband first. And who were these other three women?
I mean, where did they come from? It's like he
was just waiting for you to take a day off
or something so he could really really have some fun.
But in what world is another woman sitting on your
husband's leg innocent fun? I don't know any nowhere, And
(03:20):
it's not okay. Your so called friend was dead wrong
and the only reason she would be doing something like
this is to be messy. As you said in your letter,
she should be mad, so you should be mad.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
At her and your husband.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Her for not minding her own business and your husband
for allowing just some random chick, a tiny little redheaded
woman to sit her butt on his leg.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
And please don't believe your husband's lives when he says.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Baby is not what you think when you clearly saw
him and this little bitty woman with the red hair
in real time with your own eyes.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
This is something you and your husband need to discuss.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You need to talk about this amongst yourselves and not
with your girlfriend and her husband and all that. I mean,
you know, as far as burning up the whole RV,
I understand you know how.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
You why you feel that way because you saw this
going on. I know you're not going to do that.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
You were just in the moment, But you and your
husband need to talk, honey and find out what's going on.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Steve.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Are we about to disagree? Well, that's what the Strawbee
letter letter is for. See there's letter right here. Really,
you know how I say, oftentimes behind every moment of
adversity there is a lesson and a blessing. I want
you all to see behind this moment of adversity. I
(04:41):
want to show I'm gonna point out the lesson in this,
and I'm gonna point out the blessing in this. You're
married to a diehard football fan. Y'all met in college,
went to HBCU tailgated with friends and family before the
home games. So you had surgery and you had to
miss the first game. We tail gate. You take our
(05:02):
ivy to the stadium, hook up the deep fried grill,
get the cooking early in the morning. And she said,
quite assuredly, this is what we do. And I gotta
tell you something sounds like fun to me. Man, girl,
I often miss a lot of those regular things in
(05:24):
life that I wish I could do. My boys be
going to the homecoming game and be sending me pictures
all my frat boys sitting around. Man, I wish I
could go, but I can't because it ain't that way.
So I found out recently that my husband did that
and a lot more. While I was home recuperating, My
(05:46):
girlfriend and her husband stopped by our RV in the
morning of the game. She face tied me to rub
it in and show me what I was missing. That's
the key statement in this whole letter. She facetimed you
to rub it in and show you what you was missing. Oh,
(06:11):
she facetimed you for wavene mold than that. And she
knew it. She's always been jealous of the fact that
you and your husband have an r V and they
got to come visit because they little raggetts ain't got
nothing but tickets to the game. They got a little
car with a hatchback on it. They don't even open
(06:32):
up and turn into nothing. Hang on, sticky pole tail
gate friends, you got.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
We'll have part.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes
after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject. Just burn the
whole RV. We'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone, quick health questions.
(07:00):
Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting. Did
you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where
vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune
response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, newmacacle, pneumonia, RSV,
and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines
you need and visit vaxicist dot com that's vaexsist dot
(07:23):
com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer.
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter
subject just burn the whole RV.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
The truth of this letter is behind every moment of adversity,
there is a lesson and a blessing. I've said this
many times, and I'm gonna show it to you in
this letter. Here, this woman and a husband been tailgating
for years to go to HBCUs. They get there early
in the morning, family and friends. They set up the
deep fry and they get the grilling. And she said,
it is what we do. I said, I missed those days.
(07:57):
I wish I could go back and do that sometime,
but I can't, so I wish I could. And then
you found out and then you had a little surgery,
so you missed the first game. And y'all been doing
this for years. First game, your husband go Anyway, while
I was home recoperating, your girlfriend and her husband stopped
by RV the morning of the game, and she faced
(08:17):
me to rub it in and show me what I
was missing. And this, I said, is the key to
this whole letter. She face timed you to rub it
in and show you what you was missing. Now, she
didn't call to show you what you was missing in
a good way. Girl, you missing, and we party. None
of that right there. And because you said I was
(08:39):
tickled at how messy she was being, it tickled you.
Oh you laughing now, because that ain't why she face
timed you. She didn't FaceTime you to tickle you. See,
your reaction was not what she wanted. But it's all
having all that fun without me because she jealous. She
(08:59):
jealous of you relationship, She jealous of your happiness, She
jealous of your RV. Because they ain't got one. They
got that little raggeds hatchback and when they open it up,
it don't turn into nothing. It ain't big enough. They
ain't got no deep Friday, ain't got no grill. They
got that little tiny grill and sit on the three legs.
(09:21):
You can't put but two burgers on that thing. Y'all
got that whole set up. And her jealous. Yeah, she
got that little weather well. You can't putting them but
eight pieces of charcole in there, and then it gets
real hot. You can't touch it for two days. They
got to leave it at the stadium. So now here
we go. A few hours later, she texts me and
(09:43):
saying she was about to FaceTime me again, but she
told me to put my phone on mute. See you
know why because see you handle her reaction the first time,
too wrong. He was tickled at her being messy, and
she messy, and she jealous, jellous of your happiness. So
now here she goes. I got the call and I
(10:06):
watched my phone, and she showed me three women that
I had never seen before, drinking and having a great
time in our RV. She showed you three women that
had never been in RV. She ain't show you none
of the other men that could have been in that
twoc Then my friend paying over to my husband and
he had a tiny red headed woman sitting on his leg.
(10:30):
It was so loud I couldn't hear what they were saying.
My friend said she met the woman. She advised me
to talk to my husband before jumping to any conclusion.
My only response was that I was gonna burn that
whole RV up. Wait a minute, so now you paying
over a little tiny red head shitting on his lap.
(10:52):
That's not his.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Fault, that's just funny to me.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Sorry, they had the RV open, tiny red head, little
white lady came in and just sitting up that and
other r V four ain't nowhere for her to stick
what She just sat down on big dude's lap because
he's big strong you know. Uh nah, they talking, but
(11:17):
you can't hear what they said. And the reason she
put it on mute because they were so loud. You
can't what they said because they weren't talking about nothing.
I couldn't share you if they was just partying. It
got a little bit out of hand. She advised me
to talk to my husband before jumping to any conclusion.
(11:37):
She wants you to jump to a conclusion and talking
about talk to your husband. Why would you invite something
like that in a person's marriage with your low down
stink behind. But the woman with my own eyes, So
that was nothing my husband could say to make me
believe he is not a Cheatah, why's how's he cheating?
(12:00):
How is he cheated? Not cheating?
Speaker 3 (12:05):
That's right, because she.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Because it's inappropriate, it doesn't look good. But that ain't
cheat at all. You know what cheating is, and you're
trying to make more out of it than it is.
He's accused my friends of starting this mess. He's absolutely correct,
But I never told him.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Who told me? He knows her?
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Because ain't nobody else in that would have did it?
Who else would have called you? Ain't nobody got your number?
But your mess friend who I must inform you is
not your friend. She ain't never been your friend. She's
jealous of your life. She's jealous of what you got.
She don't want you to have nothing because she ain't
got nothing. He claims he's not dumb enough to have
(12:51):
this woman in our R and V in front of
our friends. If he was trying to have sex with
m Bam diddo, who do that? It was dumb what
he did, but he ain't trying to have sex with
the chick and he was not in the trailer cheap?
Does he think? I'm done now? But your girlfriend know it? Should?
I believe this is innocent fun, That's all. It was
some innocent.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Fund boast your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
And Steve Harvey sift down you got with that lady,
that's what you need.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
To get rid of the little tiny Redhead on Instagram
and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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