July 9, 2025 • 13 mins
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, July 9th, 2025. Subject: "Men Have Intuition Too"
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:19):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letta.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
All right, nephew, thank you. The subject is men have
intuition too. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for nine
years and I have known my wife since we were
in high school. We got married after I got her
pregnant while we were both drunk. That dysfunction is carried
on throughout our marriage, and now I think she has
a guy on the side. She and her sister are
(00:47):
very immature for their ages, and they follow all of
the social media influencers that are around her age, and
she gets her life advice from those influencer ladies. The
new thing that everyone's doing now is plate. I told
my wife that it's not new, it's only new to
her because she's never worked out. She and her sister
(01:07):
joined an expensive pilate studio and she bought new outfits
for class. She started going to classes twice a week,
but she would come home with her makeup intact and
not a hair out of place. I went online to
see where the pilate studio is located, and I noticed
on the website that the classes have been full since
March and they won't be able to take new clients
(01:29):
at that location until August. I called my wife and
asked her which studio she goes to, and she said
she joined the one that's been full since March, so
she lied. She got home and said that she was
hot and exhausted. She went to take a shower and
I followed her. I stood in the bathroom with her,
pretending like I had something to talk about. She wouldn't
(01:50):
take her clothes off in front of me, and after
a while she pushed me out of the bathroom. Men
have intuition, too, and I knew she isn't going to
work out twice a week. I don't care if she's cheating,
but I don't want to be looking crazy in the streets.
Should I talk to her about it or follow her
and catch her in the act? Okay, what yeah? What
(02:15):
what do you mean you don't care if she's cheating?
I mean, what husband says that about his wife? A
person could take that so many different ways, you know,
asking questions as a marriage over do they have an
open marriage? Are you really trying to catch her in
the act and a lie? Or are you cheating? Maybe
that's why you don't care, because you have your own
(02:37):
sight piece situation going on a lot of reasons. People
could take a lot of ways. But it really does
seem like you care because you took the time to
write Steve and I about it. You have so many
details about her pilates classes and what she's doing and
her new outfits and all of that. And I think
the information you dug up takes a lot of time
and energy and effort.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
So why do you do all of that if.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You don't care? But you said you have your pride right,
Like you said, you don't want to be looking crazy
in these streets. You asked should you talk to her
about it? And if you do talk to her, what
are you going to say? I mean, it seems the
only thing you should be saying to your wife at
this point is are we going to stay in this
(03:22):
marriage like this or get a divorce, get out and
get on with our lives.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Steve, Well, I don't really even understand the purpose of
the letter myself.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I'm confused.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Why did you write this letter? This ain't got nothing
to do with intuition nothing thees as facts. You know,
all you're doing is following facts. Dog, y'all been married
nine years, been knowing each other since high school. Y'all
(04:00):
got married after you got her pregnant while y'all was
both drunk.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Facts.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Now that dysfunction has carried on throughout our marriage, and
now I think she has a guy on the side. Okay,
So now what that means is you all are functioning alcoholics.
That same drinking drunk that got her pregnant and you
married her for that reason, has continued throughout the marriage.
(04:29):
So now y'all just up in here just drinking and
getting Highe making all y'all decisions is under the influence
of alcohol.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
If that's all. And now I think she got a
guy on.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
The side, Well, I can assure you he has a
chick on the side, because y'all been dysfunctional for day
one and you didn't marry because you loved it.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You married her because you got pregnant while.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Y'all were both drunk, And then both her and the
sisters immature for their age. You didn't tell us immature.
I'm just gonna go by a couple of things right here.
You've been married for nine years, you've known your wife
since high school. I don't know y'all, probably probably early thirties.
(05:20):
I'm guessing the new thing that everybody's doing now is pilates.
I told my wife it wasn't new, that it's new
to her. Pilates as old as hell, all right. So
now she enjoyed an expensive pilates studio, bought new outfits
for class, started going.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
To class twice a week.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
She would come home with a makeup attacking out, a
hair out of place. Okay, I noticed on the website
that the classes have been full since March, and they
won't be able to take new clients at that location
until August. I called my wife and ask her which
studio she goes to. She said, she joined the one
(06:00):
that's been full since March. So she lied, ooh, that's
good intuition. That's such good intuition.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Man, woo, How did you figure that out? Boy woo?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
You so fortunate what you got. You know, that's not intuition, sir,
That's just called reading. That's how that is. She got
home and said she was hot and exhausted. She went
to take a shower.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I followed her.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I'm stand in the bath with her, but till like
I had something to talk about, she wouldn't take a
clothes off in front of me.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of
your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
hour of today's Strawberry Letter subject Men have intuition too.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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Speaker 1 (07:29):
All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is men have intuition too.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
This letter has nothing to do with intuition. This is
just a fact finding mission he been on. He've been
married to his wife nine years. They'd known each other
since high school. The reason he married her because she
got pregnant while they had sex while they was drunk.
And he says that just ysfunctionality has carried over into
their marriage. Well, now, so what that means is that
either functioning alcoholics or everything. Decision making is based under
(08:01):
the influence of alcohol, which means he didn't marry because
he which means he didn't marry her because he was
in love with her.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
But he just made another Rasters sister. So now they
married her.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
And now you say she got a guy on the side.
You say her and the sisters very immature for their age.
They listened to take advice from influences. She thought that,
But Pilates is this new thing. That's how this is
new craze. Pilates has actually been around for a long
long time. She then joined this new Pilates organism club
(08:33):
that's been full all the way to August.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
But she says, she joined it.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
You went online, you said, because she comes home without
full makeup and half never out of place. After going
to pilates twice a week, you went online and found
out that their classes is full into August and they
won't be taking any new clients.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
You asked her about it. Which studios she go to?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
She said, she go to the one online. Once again,
that's not intuition, that's just called reading.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
You read the website, all right.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
And so now she went to take a shower, and
I followed her. I stood in the bathroom with her,
pretending like I had something.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
To talk about, okay.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
And she wouldn't take her clothes off in front of me.
After a while, she pushed me out the bathroom. Most
people like to go to the bathroom by theyself. I'm
not really mad at her about that. She didn't take
her clothes off in front of you because you might
have been drinking, and then she know what you gonna
want after you've been drinking, So that could be why
(09:42):
she didn't take her clothes off. And she said, then
you said, she pushed you out the bathroom. Now here's
a letter. Men have intuition too. I knew she wasn't
going to work out twice a week. I don't care
if she's cheating, but I don't want to.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Be looking crazy in the.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Streets because don't make brud in a marriage. That statement
does not make no sense. I don't care if she cheating. Okay,
what did you go and look on the website for?
Why are you looking at her hair and make up
when she come back from working out twice a week?
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Why is any of this important to you?
Speaker 3 (10:26):
If you don't care if she's cheating, but I don't
want to be looking crazy in the streets. Should I
talk to her about it? Or follow her and catch
her in the ass if you.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Don't care what you're doing either one of them?
Speaker 3 (10:42):
For bruh, you need to have an honest conversation with
yourself because it sounds to me like you do care.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Now listen to this.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Should I talk to her about it? I don't see
how the hell you ain't? But then do I follow
her and catch her in that?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Okay? Bro let me sometimes you not.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Just what is your hand on your forehead?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Though I been on vacation, I ain't want this when
I came back. Let me just say this, bro Okay,
let me just say this, I don't care what you do.
I don't, I don't. I don't care what you do, Bro,
I really don't. I don't care to drive down there
and catch them. I don't care if you talk to
(11:30):
about it. I don't care because you don't care, right,
So why would I care about this marriage more than
you do. I don't care if she's cheating. I just
don't want to look crazy in these streets. Well, I
don't care she cheating me that I got news for you.
(11:50):
I don't care how you look out in the streets.
How about that? So now we got four people in
this letter that don't care. You, your wife, her sister,
and me because I don't care. So thank you for
(12:11):
writing this strauble. I don't know what you want us
to side. You got a wife, or you.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Don't care if you cheat? Boy? By what said?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
No husband ever?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Ever?
Speaker 1 (12:25):
No husband has ever said that?
Speaker 2 (12:27):
And then his title of his letters.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
That's why I know he don't know me and have
intuition too, boy, that I ain't got nothing to do
with intuition. All these is facts. This ain't a feeling
you got.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
You read that the classes was full.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
You see her coming in with no sweat, hand out
of place, make up for.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
You know that?
Speaker 1 (12:57):
What if I want? He was in a shower with her.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
What you're standing there for? What are you doing? Wait
on her to take her clothes off?
Speaker 1 (13:10):
What is he looking for?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Well, she didn't want to take her clothes off. You
know why?
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Why because she didn't get all the jello off.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Thigh pie in there wild like that.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
She couldn't take the Lululemon off because all that lululemonade
is she got a lot of lemon on it.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
There was limon jello, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Listen, leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram
and Facebook and Steve Harvey FM and check us out
on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARBFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letta.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
All right, nephew, thank you. The subject is men have
intuition too. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for nine
years and I have known my wife since we were
in high school. We got married after I got her
pregnant while we were both drunk. That dysfunction is carried
on throughout our marriage, and now I think she has
a guy on the side. She and her sister are
(00:47):
very immature for their ages, and they follow all of
the social media influencers that are around her age, and
she gets her life advice from those influencer ladies. The
new thing that everyone's doing now is plate. I told
my wife that it's not new, it's only new to
her because she's never worked out. She and her sister
(01:07):
joined an expensive pilate studio and she bought new outfits
for class. She started going to classes twice a week,
but she would come home with her makeup intact and
not a hair out of place. I went online to
see where the pilate studio is located, and I noticed
on the website that the classes have been full since
March and they won't be able to take new clients
(01:29):
at that location until August. I called my wife and
asked her which studio she goes to, and she said
she joined the one that's been full since March, so
she lied. She got home and said that she was
hot and exhausted. She went to take a shower and
I followed her. I stood in the bathroom with her,
pretending like I had something to talk about. She wouldn't
(01:50):
take her clothes off in front of me, and after
a while she pushed me out of the bathroom. Men
have intuition, too, and I knew she isn't going to
work out twice a week. I don't care if she's cheating,
but I don't want to be looking crazy in the streets.
Should I talk to her about it or follow her
and catch her in the act? Okay, what yeah? What
(02:15):
what do you mean you don't care if she's cheating?
I mean, what husband says that about his wife? A
person could take that so many different ways, you know,
asking questions as a marriage over do they have an
open marriage? Are you really trying to catch her in
the act and a lie? Or are you cheating? Maybe
that's why you don't care, because you have your own
(02:37):
sight piece situation going on a lot of reasons. People
could take a lot of ways. But it really does
seem like you care because you took the time to
write Steve and I about it. You have so many
details about her pilates classes and what she's doing and
her new outfits and all of that. And I think
the information you dug up takes a lot of time
and energy and effort.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
So why do you do all of that if.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
You don't care? But you said you have your pride right,
Like you said, you don't want to be looking crazy
in these streets. You asked should you talk to her
about it? And if you do talk to her, what
are you going to say? I mean, it seems the
only thing you should be saying to your wife at
this point is are we going to stay in this
(03:22):
marriage like this or get a divorce, get out and
get on with our lives.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Steve, Well, I don't really even understand the purpose of
the letter myself.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I'm confused.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Why did you write this letter? This ain't got nothing
to do with intuition nothing thees as facts. You know,
all you're doing is following facts. Dog, y'all been married
nine years, been knowing each other since high school. Y'all
(04:00):
got married after you got her pregnant while y'all was
both drunk.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Facts.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Now that dysfunction has carried on throughout our marriage, and
now I think she has a guy on the side. Okay,
So now what that means is you all are functioning alcoholics.
That same drinking drunk that got her pregnant and you
married her for that reason, has continued throughout the marriage.
(04:29):
So now y'all just up in here just drinking and
getting Highe making all y'all decisions is under the influence
of alcohol.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
If that's all. And now I think she got a
guy on.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
The side, Well, I can assure you he has a
chick on the side, because y'all been dysfunctional for day
one and you didn't marry because you loved it.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You married her because you got pregnant while.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Y'all were both drunk, And then both her and the
sisters immature for their age. You didn't tell us immature.
I'm just gonna go by a couple of things right here.
You've been married for nine years, you've known your wife
since high school. I don't know y'all, probably probably early thirties.
(05:20):
I'm guessing the new thing that everybody's doing now is pilates.
I told my wife it wasn't new, that it's new
to her. Pilates as old as hell, all right. So
now she enjoyed an expensive pilates studio, bought new outfits
for class, started going.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
To class twice a week.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
She would come home with a makeup attacking out, a
hair out of place. Okay, I noticed on the website
that the classes have been full since March, and they
won't be able to take new clients at that location
until August. I called my wife and ask her which
studio she goes to. She said, she joined the one
(06:00):
that's been full since March. So she lied, ooh, that's
good intuition. That's such good intuition.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Man, woo, How did you figure that out? Boy woo?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
You so fortunate what you got. You know, that's not intuition, sir,
That's just called reading. That's how that is. She got
home and said she was hot and exhausted. She went
to take a shower.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I followed her.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I'm stand in the bath with her, but till like
I had something to talk about, she wouldn't take a
clothes off in front of me.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of
your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
hour of today's Strawberry Letter subject Men have intuition too.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. I got to put
you on to something I just learned about PayPal. PayPal
offers people more flexibility. You can choose to pay now,
pay in four, or monthly. I just purchased airline tickets.
My husband and daughter and I are so ready for vacation.
Don't just pay PayPal. PayPal pay later options are subject
(07:22):
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Speaker 2 (07:23):
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Speaker 1 (07:29):
All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is men have intuition too.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
This letter has nothing to do with intuition. This is
just a fact finding mission he been on. He've been
married to his wife nine years. They'd known each other
since high school. The reason he married her because she
got pregnant while they had sex while they was drunk.
And he says that just ysfunctionality has carried over into
their marriage. Well, now, so what that means is that
either functioning alcoholics or everything. Decision making is based under
(08:01):
the influence of alcohol, which means he didn't marry because
he which means he didn't marry her because he was
in love with her.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
But he just made another Rasters sister. So now they
married her.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
And now you say she got a guy on the side.
You say her and the sisters very immature for their age.
They listened to take advice from influences. She thought that,
But Pilates is this new thing. That's how this is
new craze. Pilates has actually been around for a long
long time. She then joined this new Pilates organism club
(08:33):
that's been full all the way to August.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
But she says, she joined it.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
You went online, you said, because she comes home without
full makeup and half never out of place. After going
to pilates twice a week, you went online and found
out that their classes is full into August and they
won't be taking any new clients.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
You asked her about it. Which studios she go to?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
She said, she go to the one online. Once again,
that's not intuition, that's just called reading.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
You read the website, all right.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
And so now she went to take a shower, and
I followed her. I stood in the bathroom with her,
pretending like I had something.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
To talk about, okay.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
And she wouldn't take her clothes off in front of me.
After a while, she pushed me out the bathroom. Most
people like to go to the bathroom by theyself. I'm
not really mad at her about that. She didn't take
her clothes off in front of you because you might
have been drinking, and then she know what you gonna
want after you've been drinking, So that could be why
(09:42):
she didn't take her clothes off. And she said, then
you said, she pushed you out the bathroom. Now here's
a letter. Men have intuition too. I knew she wasn't
going to work out twice a week. I don't care
if she's cheating, but I don't want to.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Be looking crazy in the.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Streets because don't make brud in a marriage. That statement
does not make no sense. I don't care if she cheating. Okay,
what did you go and look on the website for?
Why are you looking at her hair and make up
when she come back from working out twice a week?
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Why is any of this important to you?
Speaker 3 (10:26):
If you don't care if she's cheating, but I don't
want to be looking crazy in the streets. Should I
talk to her about it? Or follow her and catch
her in the ass if you.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Don't care what you're doing either one of them?
Speaker 3 (10:42):
For bruh, you need to have an honest conversation with
yourself because it sounds to me like you do care.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Now listen to this.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Should I talk to her about it? I don't see
how the hell you ain't? But then do I follow
her and catch her in that?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Okay? Bro let me sometimes you not.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Just what is your hand on your forehead?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Though I been on vacation, I ain't want this when
I came back. Let me just say this, bro Okay,
let me just say this, I don't care what you do.
I don't, I don't. I don't care what you do, Bro,
I really don't. I don't care to drive down there
and catch them. I don't care if you talk to
(11:30):
about it. I don't care because you don't care, right,
So why would I care about this marriage more than
you do. I don't care if she's cheating. I just
don't want to look crazy in these streets. Well, I
don't care she cheating me that I got news for you.
(11:50):
I don't care how you look out in the streets.
How about that? So now we got four people in
this letter that don't care. You, your wife, her sister,
and me because I don't care. So thank you for
(12:11):
writing this strauble. I don't know what you want us
to side. You got a wife, or you.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Don't care if you cheat? Boy? By what said?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
No husband ever?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Ever?
Speaker 1 (12:25):
No husband has ever said that?
Speaker 2 (12:27):
And then his title of his letters.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
That's why I know he don't know me and have
intuition too, boy, that I ain't got nothing to do
with intuition. All these is facts. This ain't a feeling
you got.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
You read that the classes was full.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
You see her coming in with no sweat, hand out
of place, make up for.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
You know that?
Speaker 1 (12:57):
What if I want? He was in a shower with her.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
What you're standing there for? What are you doing? Wait
on her to take her clothes off?
Speaker 1 (13:10):
What is he looking for?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Well, she didn't want to take her clothes off. You
know why?
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Why because she didn't get all the jello off.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Thigh pie in there wild like that.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
She couldn't take the Lululemon off because all that lululemonade
is she got a lot of lemon on it.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
There was limon jello, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Listen, leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram
and Facebook and Steve Harvey FM and check us out
on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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