June 5, 2017 • 15 mins
I am a 70 year old married man. My wife is 65 years old and we have been married for 10 years. Recently, I was planning a surprise birthday party for my wife and I realized that I needed some of her girlfriends’ phone numbers.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you,
Strawberry Lena on time for that? Okay? Subject my sixties
and five, you're all vixen. Younger subject my sixty five
(00:24):
year old vixen. Here Stephen Shirley. I am a seventy
year old married man. My wife is sixty five years
old and we have been married for ten years. Recently,
I was planning a surprise birthday party for my wife
and I realized that I needed some of her girlfriend's
phone numbers, so I went through my wife's phone to
(00:46):
get the numbers. After getting the numbers, my curiosity got
the best of me, and I looked through her text messages.
That's when my world fell apart. I saw several text
messages between my wife and another man, and and they
were discussing what was happening between her legs. She sent
a message to him saying that she was keeping her
(01:08):
legs closed to everyone except him. After further investigation, I
found out they have been communicating for two years. Most
players know that when men and women start talking about
activities between a woman's legs, sex is bound to happen.
After I confronted my wife and she said that it
(01:28):
was just a game. I told her that I did
not believe her and that I didn't trust her anymore.
By the way, she has become a sex dynamo in
the last thirty days. She has been doing and saying
things that I have never heard from her before. I
am devastated. What is going on? What should I do?
(01:51):
I'm really sorry that this happened. I really am, because
you sound like a man who truly loves his wife.
I mean, you're planning a party for a birthday that
takes a lot of effort. It takes a lot of time.
You're trying to get her friends involved, etcetera. You care
for your wife very dearly, I think. But you know, uh,
you know that old saying, the one you know, if
(02:12):
you go looking for something, you just might find it.
And that's what you did when you look through her
phone and then you look through her text messages. Uh,
sadly you found it. Your wife is sexting and maybe
it's a lot more with another man. And it's been
going on for two years. Uh with this other man.
So what should you do? You ask? Um? You need
(02:34):
to make a decision, you know, and whether you can
live with this or not. I mean, most men can't.
I don't know, you're seventy years old. Most men can't.
That's all I can tell you. You know, Um, you
need to make a decision. You need to talk to
your wife. You need to take her from there. It's
been going on for two years. It doesn't look like uh,
she's very much concerned about it. She said it was
(02:55):
a game, and uh, you know she's been doing things
and acting differently for the last thirty days. So you've
got a problem in your marriage and you need to
make a decision what you're gonna do about it? Steve,
we have a real situation here. Yeah, this is a
(03:15):
letter from a professed seventy year old player. It's hard
being a seven year old player? Oh hard? Are trying
to be a player? Sixty hard? It's hard being a player? Y, Yes,
(03:38):
but there are men who do it. This ain't about
a man that's a player. This is about a woman
who's a vixen. A vixen which is the name Lane,
that's been stricken only doing one to restiate, not in
(04:05):
that goal. This is supposed to be about I just
mad to spit coffee everywhere. Seven year old man white,
sixty five they've been married ten years. Tried to plan
(04:25):
playing this party needed the girlfriends went through a phone,
so seven test messages between my wife and another man.
They were discussing what was happening between her legs. Mhm.
She says she was keeping her legs close to everybody,
but for him. M Further investigating, you found out they
(04:48):
have been talking for two years. Most players now it's
just him. Most players know. When me and women started
talking about the activities between the woman, sex is bound
to heap. After I confronted my wife, she said it
was just a game. I said, I ain't trusting them more.
Damn player. I showed hate. Like Shirley said, if this
(05:10):
has happened to you, you're being a player a well.
Playoffs need to get back in the game. Uh do
you send me it has happened. I really don't know
what to do with shooting at seventy. I cridit off,
(05:33):
so I really don't have any experience of what's to
come at seven it but we got I got a
couple of suggestions for you because you gotta slow her down.
They're what you need to do. Call in and counsel
all her prescriptions. We've got to slow this woman down.
(06:01):
You've got to slow her down. Called the CVS, right
a walgreen and counsel all her prescriptions. She owns some
kind of medicine. That's the first thing you do. So
sleeping around ain't her first priority anymore? Is how where
the hell am I gonna get my medicine? Second thing
(06:24):
I need you to do is pull her pension plan
and look at it and see if there's a clause
in the pension. But this is all that I don't
know nothing about, So I'm just assuming pull her pension
plan and see if there's any clause in there for
(06:44):
DV behavior where you can hang that pension over her head,
Like if you sleep with moting two people and he
can be proven, you lose your pension. You gotta get something.
The next thing I need you to do is called medical.
Calling people down in medicare, let her know, let them
(07:05):
know you've canceled her prescription. Now to shoot her rate
something us rate that cuts down into sleep around money.
You can't chip in on hotels or nothing. Because you
gotta get this all. Go back to the damn proscriptions.
These these are the suggestions that I have for you.
After you've done that medicaid and all that. Yeah, then
(07:29):
I need you to do the one thing that could
probably devastate her the most before. Yeah, we gotta go
to break day when I come back. These are the
three things you could do to really hurt her. Yeah. Yeah,
keep us in suspense. We'll be back. Subject my sixty
(07:50):
five year old vixen with part two coming up. You're
listening to Steve Harvey morning. Come on, Steve, part two
of your response to today's Berry letter. My year old
see the only one he's he's got some things he's
working on. He found out as a woman cheating on him.
(08:13):
He sat me, she's sixty five. This is out of
my leave of advice because I ain't there yet and
I don't even know how you deal with the fact
that your girl, who really ain't a girl no more,
it's just old ass woman, then decided to pass it out.
No damn, where is she finding the energy and the
(08:38):
time to pass it out? M So, the best thing
I can tell you, old player, is you gotta create
a most stressful environment for her to operate in. And
whatever we said to do, call her pension plan. See
if you can create havoc in that just that medicaid
(09:01):
down and call all the local drug stores and counsel
her prescriptions or everybody's seventy on some damn medicine. That
that becomes the focus of your life. And so instead
of sleeping round, you got to get around town to
get this medicine back on that nice day. You got
(09:22):
to stop her with benefits and prescriptions. Now that's three
things you can do that could really really put a
stop to this. Number one. Number one, tell all of
her girlfriend just you need help heal because women still
(09:46):
do group counseling, because when women get in trouble, they
get with their girls and the group counsel. Secondly, tell
her pastor that's in heaven. You seven, you damn that's big.
(10:07):
What you cannot do a seventy is do a detour
at seven. You ain't got a lot of time to
fix this, right, because just tell the pals to And
the third one is become a whole yourself. That is
all I can tell you, sir. Now that's gonna require
(10:29):
that you got to go back down to them drug
store and open up them prescriptions because you got to
get your medicines now your damn self. Wow, how much.
They're very expensive, and you don't want to waste one.
Trust me, you want to know you're gonna have sex
before you take one. They under damn their fifty dollars. Okay,
(10:54):
so this got to be real. Hey, hey, we got
to be in the bed naked. You know what I'm saying,
under the bed, we're gonna stop and get that bad
Let me let me tell he just don't go down
(11:15):
what take I don't know, No, no, don't go down there.
You gotta see me, to see me, and you have
got to be naked already, have signed papers that this
is gonna go down. How long it take photop kicking
It got about twent twenty five minutes, so you could
take it while they're on the way over. But you've
(11:36):
been fooled like that before. Yeah, got a hundred dollars
kind of money. Und so these are things that we
can now use on that show. Or Jay Note Straight.
There's a new segment called Jay Note Straight to j Yeah,
(11:57):
I go speak to Jacob. I know he gotta answer,
but I'm so found out. They damn there fifty dollars
a piece. Now you can't do save some money. You
can split them, right, but you only get half of
the results. So now you just sit there half performing.
Now she back out in the street because you have
(12:18):
putting it down. You have to be in the bed.
And so this letter, this seven year old man, he
has a deliver. Yeah, he does girlfriends and pastors first.
Mm hmm. Now here's another section of letter, almost left
(12:39):
found by the way. She has become a sex dynamo.
In the last thirty days. She has been doing and
saying things that I've never heard from her before. I
am devastated. Let's stop right here, sir, you're too oldly
be devastated. You saved me. If she is not doing
(13:03):
the same thing that you never heard before, enjoy yourself.
Stop being devastated. Take advantage of this. I don't know
what she's saying that you seventy that you ain't heard before. Ever.
You need to tape it. You need to tap it
and play it back while you would work. Believe. Yeah,
(13:25):
I don't know what Steve. Can we can we go
to Mr j J knows? Can we ask him what
is a sex dynamo? What is what is that? No, Shirley,
you're interrupted the jokes now you've been I'm sorry. I'm
just saying, stop killing jokes. Sitting right here, I'm looking
at it. If I wanted some damn help out to
(13:47):
ask Jake, to go to Jake, can I ask him?
Are you kidding? Your polish dropping letter over? You're turning
on me now, man, la girl, He's not just timmy
(14:08):
this morning. He was late. Oh man, man, I just
wanted to know what a sex dynamo was U s
where's the harm in that? About it? Let's think about it.
She in here saying stuff. He ain't heard us seventy
so what could she be saying? She got to be
using mo hip turns. Ah, it's cracking. I like that
(14:40):
she using a modern terms. Oh, put the nail on it. Ah,
that crack. I wanted to know. Eight
Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you,
Strawberry Lena on time for that? Okay? Subject my sixties
and five, you're all vixen. Younger subject my sixty five
(00:24):
year old vixen. Here Stephen Shirley. I am a seventy
year old married man. My wife is sixty five years
old and we have been married for ten years. Recently,
I was planning a surprise birthday party for my wife
and I realized that I needed some of her girlfriend's
phone numbers, so I went through my wife's phone to
(00:46):
get the numbers. After getting the numbers, my curiosity got
the best of me, and I looked through her text messages.
That's when my world fell apart. I saw several text
messages between my wife and another man, and and they
were discussing what was happening between her legs. She sent
a message to him saying that she was keeping her
(01:08):
legs closed to everyone except him. After further investigation, I
found out they have been communicating for two years. Most
players know that when men and women start talking about
activities between a woman's legs, sex is bound to happen.
After I confronted my wife and she said that it
(01:28):
was just a game. I told her that I did
not believe her and that I didn't trust her anymore.
By the way, she has become a sex dynamo in
the last thirty days. She has been doing and saying
things that I have never heard from her before. I
am devastated. What is going on? What should I do?
(01:51):
I'm really sorry that this happened. I really am, because
you sound like a man who truly loves his wife.
I mean, you're planning a party for a birthday that
takes a lot of effort. It takes a lot of time.
You're trying to get her friends involved, etcetera. You care
for your wife very dearly, I think. But you know, uh,
you know that old saying, the one you know, if
(02:12):
you go looking for something, you just might find it.
And that's what you did when you look through her
phone and then you look through her text messages. Uh,
sadly you found it. Your wife is sexting and maybe
it's a lot more with another man. And it's been
going on for two years. Uh with this other man.
So what should you do? You ask? Um? You need
(02:34):
to make a decision, you know, and whether you can
live with this or not. I mean, most men can't.
I don't know, you're seventy years old. Most men can't.
That's all I can tell you. You know, Um, you
need to make a decision. You need to talk to
your wife. You need to take her from there. It's
been going on for two years. It doesn't look like uh,
she's very much concerned about it. She said it was
(02:55):
a game, and uh, you know she's been doing things
and acting differently for the last thirty days. So you've
got a problem in your marriage and you need to
make a decision what you're gonna do about it? Steve,
we have a real situation here. Yeah, this is a
(03:15):
letter from a professed seventy year old player. It's hard
being a seven year old player? Oh hard? Are trying
to be a player? Sixty hard? It's hard being a player? Y, Yes,
(03:38):
but there are men who do it. This ain't about
a man that's a player. This is about a woman
who's a vixen. A vixen which is the name Lane,
that's been stricken only doing one to restiate, not in
(04:05):
that goal. This is supposed to be about I just
mad to spit coffee everywhere. Seven year old man white,
sixty five they've been married ten years. Tried to plan
(04:25):
playing this party needed the girlfriends went through a phone,
so seven test messages between my wife and another man.
They were discussing what was happening between her legs. Mhm.
She says she was keeping her legs close to everybody,
but for him. M Further investigating, you found out they
(04:48):
have been talking for two years. Most players now it's
just him. Most players know. When me and women started
talking about the activities between the woman, sex is bound
to heap. After I confronted my wife, she said it
was just a game. I said, I ain't trusting them more.
Damn player. I showed hate. Like Shirley said, if this
(05:10):
has happened to you, you're being a player a well.
Playoffs need to get back in the game. Uh do
you send me it has happened. I really don't know
what to do with shooting at seventy. I cridit off,
(05:33):
so I really don't have any experience of what's to
come at seven it but we got I got a
couple of suggestions for you because you gotta slow her down.
They're what you need to do. Call in and counsel
all her prescriptions. We've got to slow this woman down.
(06:01):
You've got to slow her down. Called the CVS, right
a walgreen and counsel all her prescriptions. She owns some
kind of medicine. That's the first thing you do. So
sleeping around ain't her first priority anymore? Is how where
the hell am I gonna get my medicine? Second thing
(06:24):
I need you to do is pull her pension plan
and look at it and see if there's a clause
in the pension. But this is all that I don't
know nothing about, So I'm just assuming pull her pension
plan and see if there's any clause in there for
(06:44):
DV behavior where you can hang that pension over her head,
Like if you sleep with moting two people and he
can be proven, you lose your pension. You gotta get something.
The next thing I need you to do is called medical.
Calling people down in medicare, let her know, let them
(07:05):
know you've canceled her prescription. Now to shoot her rate
something us rate that cuts down into sleep around money.
You can't chip in on hotels or nothing. Because you
gotta get this all. Go back to the damn proscriptions.
These these are the suggestions that I have for you.
After you've done that medicaid and all that. Yeah, then
(07:29):
I need you to do the one thing that could
probably devastate her the most before. Yeah, we gotta go
to break day when I come back. These are the
three things you could do to really hurt her. Yeah. Yeah,
keep us in suspense. We'll be back. Subject my sixty
(07:50):
five year old vixen with part two coming up. You're
listening to Steve Harvey morning. Come on, Steve, part two
of your response to today's Berry letter. My year old
see the only one he's he's got some things he's
working on. He found out as a woman cheating on him.
(08:13):
He sat me, she's sixty five. This is out of
my leave of advice because I ain't there yet and
I don't even know how you deal with the fact
that your girl, who really ain't a girl no more,
it's just old ass woman, then decided to pass it out.
No damn, where is she finding the energy and the
(08:38):
time to pass it out? M So, the best thing
I can tell you, old player, is you gotta create
a most stressful environment for her to operate in. And
whatever we said to do, call her pension plan. See
if you can create havoc in that just that medicaid
(09:01):
down and call all the local drug stores and counsel
her prescriptions or everybody's seventy on some damn medicine. That
that becomes the focus of your life. And so instead
of sleeping round, you got to get around town to
get this medicine back on that nice day. You got
(09:22):
to stop her with benefits and prescriptions. Now that's three
things you can do that could really really put a
stop to this. Number one. Number one, tell all of
her girlfriend just you need help heal because women still
(09:46):
do group counseling, because when women get in trouble, they
get with their girls and the group counsel. Secondly, tell
her pastor that's in heaven. You seven, you damn that's big.
(10:07):
What you cannot do a seventy is do a detour
at seven. You ain't got a lot of time to
fix this, right, because just tell the pals to And
the third one is become a whole yourself. That is
all I can tell you, sir. Now that's gonna require
(10:29):
that you got to go back down to them drug
store and open up them prescriptions because you got to
get your medicines now your damn self. Wow, how much.
They're very expensive, and you don't want to waste one.
Trust me, you want to know you're gonna have sex
before you take one. They under damn their fifty dollars. Okay,
(10:54):
so this got to be real. Hey, hey, we got
to be in the bed naked. You know what I'm saying,
under the bed, we're gonna stop and get that bad
Let me let me tell he just don't go down
(11:15):
what take I don't know, No, no, don't go down there.
You gotta see me, to see me, and you have
got to be naked already, have signed papers that this
is gonna go down. How long it take photop kicking
It got about twent twenty five minutes, so you could
take it while they're on the way over. But you've
(11:36):
been fooled like that before. Yeah, got a hundred dollars
kind of money. Und so these are things that we
can now use on that show. Or Jay Note Straight.
There's a new segment called Jay Note Straight to j Yeah,
(11:57):
I go speak to Jacob. I know he gotta answer,
but I'm so found out. They damn there fifty dollars
a piece. Now you can't do save some money. You
can split them, right, but you only get half of
the results. So now you just sit there half performing.
Now she back out in the street because you have
(12:18):
putting it down. You have to be in the bed.
And so this letter, this seven year old man, he
has a deliver. Yeah, he does girlfriends and pastors first.
Mm hmm. Now here's another section of letter, almost left
(12:39):
found by the way. She has become a sex dynamo.
In the last thirty days. She has been doing and
saying things that I've never heard from her before. I
am devastated. Let's stop right here, sir, you're too oldly
be devastated. You saved me. If she is not doing
(13:03):
the same thing that you never heard before, enjoy yourself.
Stop being devastated. Take advantage of this. I don't know
what she's saying that you seventy that you ain't heard before. Ever.
You need to tape it. You need to tap it
and play it back while you would work. Believe. Yeah,
(13:25):
I don't know what Steve. Can we can we go
to Mr j J knows? Can we ask him what
is a sex dynamo? What is what is that? No, Shirley,
you're interrupted the jokes now you've been I'm sorry. I'm
just saying, stop killing jokes. Sitting right here, I'm looking
at it. If I wanted some damn help out to
(13:47):
ask Jake, to go to Jake, can I ask him?
Are you kidding? Your polish dropping letter over? You're turning
on me now, man, la girl, He's not just timmy
(14:08):
this morning. He was late. Oh man, man, I just
wanted to know what a sex dynamo was U s
where's the harm in that? About it? Let's think about it.
She in here saying stuff. He ain't heard us seventy
so what could she be saying? She got to be
using mo hip turns. Ah, it's cracking. I like that
(14:40):
she using a modern terms. Oh, put the nail on it. Ah,
that crack. I wanted to know. Eight
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