March 11, 2024 • 16 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, married for 5. My husband just found out that my male best friend is my ex-boyfriend. I also have a female best friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are all close and they loved my husband and he loved them. I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other night and he mentioned a tattoo on my lower back and said he remembered when I got it.................
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
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Speaker 3 (00:19):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
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Speaker 1 (00:25):
Subject My best friends are my exes. Dear Stephen Shirley.
I'm a thirty three year old married woman and I've
been with my husband for eight years, married for five.
My husband just found out that my male best friend
is my ex boyfriend. I also have a female best
friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are
all close and they loved my husband and he loved them.
(00:48):
I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other
night and he mentioned a tattoo on my lower back
and said he remembered when I got it. My husband
looked at me so crazy and then told my best
friend he was out of line. My best friend laughed
and told my husband to chill out and loosen up,
or he would screw his wife again.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I almost sign it. What what Yeah, wait a minute, Okay,
you want me to go back over that line.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Right here?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Well, I exactly see, exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
My best friend tried to say it was a joke,
but my husband cursed him out and said he'd better
not see him anytime soon. My best friend said he
was on his way over. Less than an hour later,
my best friend showed up at our apartment ready to fight.
My husband went outside and made me stay inside. My
crazy ex was yelling so loud. I heard him tell
(01:41):
my husband that he slept with me for years and
we had threesomes with my female best friend. He bragged
about our sexual past. My ex boyfriend slash best friend
and I had vowed to keep our past in the past,
and we haven't had sex in over fifteen years. They
were so loud that our neighbors came out and threatened
to call the police. My ex left and my husband
(02:04):
told me I could go with him, but of course
I stayed and tried to talk some sense into my
husband best My husband said I'm a sneaky, lying woman,
and he gave me an ultimatum either my friends or
my marriage.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I don't think that's fair. Why is it such a.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Big deal that I'm still friends with two people i've
had sex with?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Please help? Are you kidding me right now?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
It's a big deal because this happened, Okay, because your
stupid ex boyfriend did this, and your husband should have
whooped his behind.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Seriously, he came over there asking for it.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Anyway, that comment he made to your husband about screwing
you and all of that was so completely.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Out of line and disrespectful.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
He obviously has a problem with you, your marriage, and
especially your husband. He's jealous, he's a hater. He's trying
to sabotage everything. He knew exactly what he was doing
with all that loud yelling outside and around the neighbors
and stuff. But you're the problem because you don't see
what your husband is talking about. You don't see that
(03:08):
it is such a big deal, and you don't think
it's fair that you can't see your friends again. Come on,
you need to cancel him, You need to cancel her.
Stick with your husband. Those aren't your friends. He broke
the code, he broke the trust. All of that, You guys,
agreed not to tell, and your husband doesn't care if
it was fifteen years ago of fifteen minutes ago.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
All right, this dude was out of line.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
He probably suspected something your husband all along. Anyway, some things,
you know, these secrets people should take to their grave
and you should be glad his sorry, but is out
of your life.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
All right, Steve, Thank you, thanks, welcome, Thank you, Chirley.
Beautiful letter to come back to. Ladies and gentlemen. Call
everybody you know, and watch what I do with this
letter right here. I've been waiting on something like this.
Oh God, I misster trobe letter, he would go. Now,
I'm gonna read this letter, and I'm gonna show you
this sheer ignorance of this whole damn letter.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
My best friends are my exes, did Steve.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
I'm thirty three year old woman and I've been with
my husband eight years, married for five. My husband just
found out that my male best friend is my ex boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Right there.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I done told y'all you can't be friends with somebody
you attracted to. I done told y'all that. Now here
come a letter. I also have a female best friend
that I used to have threesomes.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
With woo.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
It's a lot of information in this hill letter right here.
And I'm telling you right now, you got an ex boyfriend.
Your ex boyfriend is your best friend, and your best
girlfriend you used to have three someomes with. That's already
too many damn people in this letter.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Already. We ain't even got out the first paragraph.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
And I'm thinking about eight people in here, all already,
this room crowded. Now we are all close, and and
they loved my husband and he loved them.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
That's the problem right there.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
How you still close and you married with all these
people that's supposed to be your exes. It don't ever
work out. I was on FaceTime with my best friend.
Here's another problem. I want you to stop calling him
your best friend because this finnick turned ugly. I was
on the phone FaceTime with my best friend the other
(05:25):
night and he mentioned the tattoo on my little back
and he said he remembered when I got it.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Wait a minute, we see right right there, all of
us on this show that's married.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Can you be on a FaceTime with a person of
the opposite sex talking about a damn tattoo that's on
your lower back or talking just on FaceTime. I wish
her hef of wood FaceTime in I'm sitting up in
here with Marche.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
What this already? Okay? He mentioned the tattoo, and he
remember when I got it.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
My husband looked at me so crazy and then told
my best friend he was out of line, quick calling
this man your best friend. See this is the problem
with this whole letter. Your best friends ain't your friends.
Then she said, my best friend laughed and told my
husband to chill out and loosen up or he would
(06:20):
screw his wife again.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
We need to stop this damn letter right here.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Before I started cussing, we finnsh go to commercial break
because all I want to do right now is cuss
And on the commercial break, I'm gonna get all the
cussing out and then I'll be back.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Okay, all right, loosen.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Up, and I'm gonna screw your wife again.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Mother, see whoh All right.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Look, we'll have part two of Steve's response if we
still have jobs when we come back at twenty three
minutes after the hour.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Right after this, you're listening hard Morning show.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject my best friend are my exes.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Listen, That's all I got to say about it right here. Okay,
so I've been cussing the whole break right, yes, So
now let me get back into this ignorant ass nothing.
It's thirty through year old woman who's her best friend
is her ex boyfriend, and her best female friend is
a woman that she used.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
To have threesomes with a lot of people.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
In this letter, we've discovered that she was facetiming with
her best friend, who was another man.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
The other night.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
He mentioned the tattoo on my lower back and said
he remember when I got it. My husband looked at
me so crazy, and then told my best friend he
was out of line. Quit calling him your best friend.
He just mentioned a tattoo on your lower back and
he remember when you got it. He ain't he sposed
(07:45):
to know nothing about this. Okay, here we go. My
best friend laughed, laughed, he laughed, and told my husband
to chill out and loosen up, or he would screw
his wife again.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
See I'm confused, he laughed. He was talking to me.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
See, most men listening to this letter cannot imagine a
man laughing telling him to chill out or we almost
screw your wife again.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
What you laughed?
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Oh dog? Oh you done got comfortable. Then the lady said,
I almost feinted. My best friend tried to say it
was a joke. O don told Joe asked, lady, quit
calling him your best friend. This is the problem already.
You keep referring to this man as your damn best friend.
And he tried to say it was a joke, but
(08:43):
my husband cussed him out and said he better not
see him anytime soon. My best friend, here she go again,
this helper right here. She ain't learning why she keep
calling this fool her. My best friend said he was
on his way over. That ain't a man, and living
gonna tell me to shut up and chill out, or
(09:04):
you gonna screw my wife again. And then I promise
you a ass whooping. And then you say you on
your way over. You're not gonna believe what's gonna happen
when you get him. You're not even gonna believe this,
the level of ass whooping, the intensity of it. You brother,
let me explain something to you. You're not only driving
(09:25):
over here for this ass whooping. You are about to
be in a near death situation, very close okay, He
on his way over. Less than an hour later, my
male best friend showed up at our apartment ready to fight.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
Wait a minute, excuse me? Ready to fight for? What?
What does he have to fight for?
Speaker 4 (09:47):
See, lady, you leaving something out in this letter because
if your ex boyfriend your husband tells him I bet
and not see you soon. He says, I'm coming over there,
and in thirty later he drive over to you and
your husband's house ready to fight. My question becomes ready
to fight for what? Ain't nobody fighting over? No fifteen
(10:10):
year old booty call? This is something currently happening? Or
drive over here to whoop you over something that happened
fifteen years ago?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Are you crazy? Well?
Speaker 4 (10:23):
And anyway, when he got over there, this letter is
the rest of this letter. If I was in this
letter is totally different. I don't even know why we're
still writing all. The rest of this is just a
police report, So I don't even know what how you
still typing? You got up in here and drove over
my house. My husband went outside and made me stay inside.
My crazy X was yelling so loud. I heard him
(10:43):
tell my husband he slept with me for years and
we had threesomes with my female best friend. He bragged
about our sexual past. Wait, wait a minute, how he
had time to say all this, yeah sayings all what
you mean? I heard him yelling and he said, no,
when you drove over here right that ass whipping I
(11:05):
promised you it commences soon as you get out to cars.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Matter of fact, that.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Asks what I'm starting for you get out to car, dog,
I'm busting you, wonder I don't even understand this here man,
this lady right here, and then for years and we
had three sooms with my female best friend. He bragged
about our sexual past, my ex boyfriend and our vow.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Again again, here you go.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
You keep calling this man your ex boyfriend. You stupid,
You so damn stupid. That's why you ain't fitna have
no husband, because you keep putting value on this dude
right here, my ex best friend, and our vow to
keep our past in the past. And we haven't had
sex in over fifteen years. I'm finding that hard to believe,
(11:51):
because ain't nobody drove over your house over some sex
that's fifteen years old. Not no black dude, I don't know,
No white dude do that.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
I don't know. No you do that.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
They were so loud that our neighbors came out and
threatened to call the police.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Loud.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
Most ass women's I've been involved in have been very quiet,
you know it. Some occasional grunting and stuff, but all
this loud talking. They're out there arguing.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I don't even know what.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
They're out there arguing about my ex. Now here we go.
My ex left left?
Speaker 2 (12:20):
How alive.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Your ex left? That's just part of this letter. I'm
not understanding. Let me read this to you again. My
ex left left. I need part two for this letter.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
When we came. Oh, I have more for this right.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Here, I'm stuck part They arguing my husband, my ex
left left.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
You're talking about in a car?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Coming up, we'll have part three of today's struggle.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Were able to drive away?
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Steve Harvey is back friend.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
On his own accord.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
We'll be back right after this. You're listening hard morning show?
All right, Come on, Steve. Part three of today's Strawberry letter.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
The subject is my best friends are my exes.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
I showed hope y'all been with me on this letter.
Right here, this thirty three year old woman got this
ex boyfriend that's her best friend and her husband didn't
know it until they was talking on the phone on
the FaceTime, which should have never happened. And then he
mentioned the tattoo on her back and he remember when
he got it. The husband said, hey, man, you're out
of line. Best friend laugh told the husband chill out,
loosen up, I'm gonna screw your wife again. The lady
(13:34):
almost fainted, and then she said, my best friend tried
to say it was a joke on My husband cussed
him out, said he better not see him no time soon.
Then the best friend said he was on his way over.
Less than a half hour later, the male best friend
showed up at our apartment ready to fight. Because see,
once you drive over to the house, Betty, to fight,
then the fight gonna happen. But now your husband went outside,
made you stay inside. My crazy exers yelling so loud.
(13:57):
I heard him tell my husband he slept with me
for years. You might have heard him say, and I
slept that's but that's all you said. See all this
the high long and all that old, and we had
a threesome with your girlfriends, and I saw the tattoo.
Ain't none of that coming out, because see it's just
it's too much arguing right now. And then my ex
best friend and I vowed to keep our past in
(14:19):
the past, and we haven't had sex in over fifteen years.
I find that hard to believe, because ain't no dude
driving over your house to face a husband that threatened
to do something to you about his wife. Boy, you're
gonna get in your car come over to my house. Brother,
this is your last time. Now they're out there arguing.
The neighbors want to call the police. And then my
ex left left.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
How how I'm confused?
Speaker 4 (14:41):
He left on his own car, He left on a gurney.
He left in the corner, the back of the corner's car.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
He leaves.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
This not be meaning that he got back in his car,
and my husband told me I could go with him.
Of course I stayed and tried to talk some sister
to my husband. I can't even believe that. I'm fins cry.
But of course I stayed talked him since my husband.
My husband said I'm a sneaky line woman, and he
gave me an ultimate ultimatum, either my friends or my marriage.
(15:08):
I don't think that's fair. You don't think that's fair.
I'm disappointed in your husband, because once I tell you
when I see you, and then you telling me how
you heard.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Us outside talking, what is we talking for.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
I'm disappointed in the hubs. I'm disappointed that the police
didn't have to come. I'm disappointed that your husband ain't
locked up. I'm I'm supported. I'm disappointed your husband ain't
facing charges at least second degree. I don't understand how
your ex was able to leave in the same damn
car he came in.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
You're gonna leave in the vehicle, but it won't be
in the car you came up with.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
And if don't have lights on it, the wine you
leave here gonna have lights on it and it's gonna
make no.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Why is his aunt still living? I didn't want to
come back off vacation to dude. No damn not a
light that I can't standing the strop bred metal.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show at the top of the hour. Right after the
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show
Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please
submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
You never know, this could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
We got it for you here.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
It is a Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Thank you, nephew.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Subject My best friends are my exes. Dear Stephen Shirley.
I'm a thirty three year old married woman and I've
been with my husband for eight years, married for five.
My husband just found out that my male best friend
is my ex boyfriend. I also have a female best
friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are
all close and they loved my husband and he loved them.
(00:48):
I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other
night and he mentioned a tattoo on my lower back
and said he remembered when I got it. My husband
looked at me so crazy and then told my best
friend he was out of line. My best friend laughed
and told my husband to chill out and loosen up,
or he would screw his wife again.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I almost sign it. What what Yeah, wait a minute, Okay,
you want me to go back over that line.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Right here?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Well, I exactly see, exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
My best friend tried to say it was a joke,
but my husband cursed him out and said he'd better
not see him anytime soon. My best friend said he
was on his way over. Less than an hour later,
my best friend showed up at our apartment ready to fight.
My husband went outside and made me stay inside. My
crazy ex was yelling so loud. I heard him tell
(01:41):
my husband that he slept with me for years and
we had threesomes with my female best friend. He bragged
about our sexual past. My ex boyfriend slash best friend
and I had vowed to keep our past in the past,
and we haven't had sex in over fifteen years. They
were so loud that our neighbors came out and threatened
to call the police. My ex left and my husband
(02:04):
told me I could go with him, but of course
I stayed and tried to talk some sense into my
husband best My husband said I'm a sneaky, lying woman,
and he gave me an ultimatum either my friends or
my marriage.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I don't think that's fair. Why is it such a.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Big deal that I'm still friends with two people i've
had sex with?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Please help? Are you kidding me right now?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
It's a big deal because this happened, Okay, because your
stupid ex boyfriend did this, and your husband should have
whooped his behind.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Seriously, he came over there asking for it.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Anyway, that comment he made to your husband about screwing
you and all of that was so completely.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Out of line and disrespectful.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
He obviously has a problem with you, your marriage, and
especially your husband. He's jealous, he's a hater. He's trying
to sabotage everything. He knew exactly what he was doing
with all that loud yelling outside and around the neighbors
and stuff. But you're the problem because you don't see
what your husband is talking about. You don't see that
(03:08):
it is such a big deal, and you don't think
it's fair that you can't see your friends again. Come on,
you need to cancel him, You need to cancel her.
Stick with your husband. Those aren't your friends. He broke
the code, he broke the trust. All of that, You guys,
agreed not to tell, and your husband doesn't care if
it was fifteen years ago of fifteen minutes ago.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
All right, this dude was out of line.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
He probably suspected something your husband all along. Anyway, some things,
you know, these secrets people should take to their grave
and you should be glad his sorry, but is out
of your life.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
All right, Steve, Thank you, thanks, welcome, Thank you, Chirley.
Beautiful letter to come back to. Ladies and gentlemen. Call
everybody you know, and watch what I do with this
letter right here. I've been waiting on something like this.
Oh God, I misster trobe letter, he would go. Now,
I'm gonna read this letter, and I'm gonna show you
this sheer ignorance of this whole damn letter.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
My best friends are my exes, did Steve.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
I'm thirty three year old woman and I've been with
my husband eight years, married for five. My husband just
found out that my male best friend is my ex boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Right there.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I done told y'all you can't be friends with somebody
you attracted to. I done told y'all that. Now here
come a letter. I also have a female best friend
that I used to have threesomes.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
With woo.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
It's a lot of information in this hill letter right here.
And I'm telling you right now, you got an ex boyfriend.
Your ex boyfriend is your best friend, and your best
girlfriend you used to have three someomes with. That's already
too many damn people in this letter.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Already. We ain't even got out the first paragraph.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
And I'm thinking about eight people in here, all already,
this room crowded. Now we are all close, and and
they loved my husband and he loved them.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
That's the problem right there.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
How you still close and you married with all these
people that's supposed to be your exes. It don't ever
work out. I was on FaceTime with my best friend.
Here's another problem. I want you to stop calling him
your best friend because this finnick turned ugly. I was
on the phone FaceTime with my best friend the other
(05:25):
night and he mentioned the tattoo on my little back
and he said he remembered when I got it.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Wait a minute, we see right right there, all of
us on this show that's married.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Can you be on a FaceTime with a person of
the opposite sex talking about a damn tattoo that's on
your lower back or talking just on FaceTime. I wish
her hef of wood FaceTime in I'm sitting up in
here with Marche.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
What this already? Okay? He mentioned the tattoo, and he
remember when I got it.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
My husband looked at me so crazy and then told
my best friend he was out of line, quick calling
this man your best friend. See this is the problem
with this whole letter. Your best friends ain't your friends.
Then she said, my best friend laughed and told my
husband to chill out and loosen up or he would
(06:20):
screw his wife again.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
We need to stop this damn letter right here.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Before I started cussing, we finnsh go to commercial break
because all I want to do right now is cuss
And on the commercial break, I'm gonna get all the
cussing out and then I'll be back.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Okay, all right, loosen.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Up, and I'm gonna screw your wife again.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Mother, see whoh All right.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Look, we'll have part two of Steve's response if we
still have jobs when we come back at twenty three
minutes after the hour.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Right after this, you're listening hard Morning show.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject my best friend are my exes.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Listen, That's all I got to say about it right here. Okay,
so I've been cussing the whole break right, yes, So
now let me get back into this ignorant ass nothing.
It's thirty through year old woman who's her best friend
is her ex boyfriend, and her best female friend is
a woman that she used.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
To have threesomes with a lot of people.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
In this letter, we've discovered that she was facetiming with
her best friend, who was another man.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
The other night.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
He mentioned the tattoo on my lower back and said
he remember when I got it. My husband looked at
me so crazy, and then told my best friend he
was out of line. Quit calling him your best friend.
He just mentioned a tattoo on your lower back and
he remember when you got it. He ain't he sposed
(07:45):
to know nothing about this. Okay, here we go. My
best friend laughed, laughed, he laughed, and told my husband
to chill out and loosen up, or he would screw
his wife again.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
See I'm confused, he laughed. He was talking to me.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
See, most men listening to this letter cannot imagine a
man laughing telling him to chill out or we almost
screw your wife again.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
What you laughed?
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Oh dog? Oh you done got comfortable. Then the lady said,
I almost feinted. My best friend tried to say it
was a joke. O don told Joe asked, lady, quit
calling him your best friend. This is the problem already.
You keep referring to this man as your damn best friend.
And he tried to say it was a joke, but
(08:43):
my husband cussed him out and said he better not
see him anytime soon. My best friend, here she go again,
this helper right here. She ain't learning why she keep
calling this fool her. My best friend said he was
on his way over. That ain't a man, and living
gonna tell me to shut up and chill out, or
(09:04):
you gonna screw my wife again. And then I promise
you a ass whooping. And then you say you on
your way over. You're not gonna believe what's gonna happen
when you get him. You're not even gonna believe this,
the level of ass whooping, the intensity of it. You brother,
let me explain something to you. You're not only driving
(09:25):
over here for this ass whooping. You are about to
be in a near death situation, very close okay, He
on his way over. Less than an hour later, my
male best friend showed up at our apartment ready to fight.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
Wait a minute, excuse me? Ready to fight for? What?
What does he have to fight for?
Speaker 4 (09:47):
See, lady, you leaving something out in this letter because
if your ex boyfriend your husband tells him I bet
and not see you soon. He says, I'm coming over there,
and in thirty later he drive over to you and
your husband's house ready to fight. My question becomes ready
to fight for what? Ain't nobody fighting over? No fifteen
(10:10):
year old booty call? This is something currently happening? Or
drive over here to whoop you over something that happened
fifteen years ago?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Are you crazy? Well?
Speaker 4 (10:23):
And anyway, when he got over there, this letter is
the rest of this letter. If I was in this
letter is totally different. I don't even know why we're
still writing all. The rest of this is just a
police report, So I don't even know what how you
still typing? You got up in here and drove over
my house. My husband went outside and made me stay inside.
My crazy X was yelling so loud. I heard him
(10:43):
tell my husband he slept with me for years and
we had threesomes with my female best friend. He bragged
about our sexual past. Wait, wait a minute, how he
had time to say all this, yeah sayings all what
you mean? I heard him yelling and he said, no,
when you drove over here right that ass whipping I
(11:05):
promised you it commences soon as you get out to cars.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Matter of fact, that.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Asks what I'm starting for you get out to car, dog,
I'm busting you, wonder I don't even understand this here man,
this lady right here, and then for years and we
had three sooms with my female best friend. He bragged
about our sexual past, my ex boyfriend and our vow.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Again again, here you go.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
You keep calling this man your ex boyfriend. You stupid,
You so damn stupid. That's why you ain't fitna have
no husband, because you keep putting value on this dude
right here, my ex best friend, and our vow to
keep our past in the past. And we haven't had
sex in over fifteen years. I'm finding that hard to believe,
(11:51):
because ain't nobody drove over your house over some sex
that's fifteen years old. Not no black dude, I don't know,
No white dude do that.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
I don't know. No you do that.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
They were so loud that our neighbors came out and
threatened to call the police.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Loud.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
Most ass women's I've been involved in have been very quiet,
you know it. Some occasional grunting and stuff, but all
this loud talking. They're out there arguing.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
I don't even know what.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
They're out there arguing about my ex. Now here we go.
My ex left left?
Speaker 2 (12:20):
How alive.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Your ex left? That's just part of this letter. I'm
not understanding. Let me read this to you again. My
ex left left. I need part two for this letter.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
When we came. Oh, I have more for this right.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Here, I'm stuck part They arguing my husband, my ex
left left.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
You're talking about in a car?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Coming up, we'll have part three of today's struggle.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Were able to drive away?
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Steve Harvey is back friend.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
On his own accord.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
We'll be back right after this. You're listening hard morning show?
All right, Come on, Steve. Part three of today's Strawberry letter.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
The subject is my best friends are my exes.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
I showed hope y'all been with me on this letter.
Right here, this thirty three year old woman got this
ex boyfriend that's her best friend and her husband didn't
know it until they was talking on the phone on
the FaceTime, which should have never happened. And then he
mentioned the tattoo on her back and he remember when
he got it. The husband said, hey, man, you're out
of line. Best friend laugh told the husband chill out,
loosen up, I'm gonna screw your wife again. The lady
(13:34):
almost fainted, and then she said, my best friend tried
to say it was a joke on My husband cussed
him out, said he better not see him no time soon.
Then the best friend said he was on his way over.
Less than a half hour later, the male best friend
showed up at our apartment ready to fight. Because see,
once you drive over to the house, Betty, to fight,
then the fight gonna happen. But now your husband went outside,
made you stay inside. My crazy exers yelling so loud.
(13:57):
I heard him tell my husband he slept with me
for years. You might have heard him say, and I
slept that's but that's all you said. See all this
the high long and all that old, and we had
a threesome with your girlfriends, and I saw the tattoo.
Ain't none of that coming out, because see it's just
it's too much arguing right now. And then my ex
best friend and I vowed to keep our past in
(14:19):
the past, and we haven't had sex in over fifteen years.
I find that hard to believe, because ain't no dude
driving over your house to face a husband that threatened
to do something to you about his wife. Boy, you're
gonna get in your car come over to my house. Brother,
this is your last time. Now they're out there arguing.
The neighbors want to call the police. And then my
ex left left.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
How how I'm confused?
Speaker 4 (14:41):
He left on his own car, He left on a gurney.
He left in the corner, the back of the corner's car.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
He leaves.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
This not be meaning that he got back in his car,
and my husband told me I could go with him.
Of course I stayed and tried to talk some sister
to my husband. I can't even believe that. I'm fins cry.
But of course I stayed talked him since my husband.
My husband said I'm a sneaky line woman, and he
gave me an ultimate ultimatum, either my friends or my marriage.
(15:08):
I don't think that's fair. You don't think that's fair.
I'm disappointed in your husband, because once I tell you
when I see you, and then you telling me how
you heard.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Us outside talking, what is we talking for.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
I'm disappointed in the hubs. I'm disappointed that the police
didn't have to come. I'm disappointed that your husband ain't
locked up. I'm I'm supported. I'm disappointed your husband ain't
facing charges at least second degree. I don't understand how
your ex was able to leave in the same damn
car he came in.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
You're gonna leave in the vehicle, but it won't be
in the car you came up with.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
And if don't have lights on it, the wine you
leave here gonna have lights on it and it's gonna
make no.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Why is his aunt still living? I didn't want to
come back off vacation to dude. No damn not a
light that I can't standing the strop bred metal.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show at the top of the hour. Right after the
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