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Speaker 1 (00:27):
Thank you, ne you subject my brother's ex wife on
the car. Got it all right, Dear Stephen Shirley. I've
been separated for three months and I'm getting divorced. My
husband and I had a very happy marriage until three
months ago. He was a family man and he's allowed
two of my younger siblings to live with us in
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the past. My youngest brother is twenty eight, and he
rushed into marriage after he got a woman pregnant. It
was obvious that his wife was not the marrying type.
She's twenty five and all she does smoke weed and drink.
One night, she went home drunk and tried to fight
my brother, so he put her out and divorced her
a few months later. She resurfaced three months ago asking
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if she could stay with my husband and I while
she looked for a job close to the baby's daycare.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
We agreed to one week.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
This girl ate our food and used my car and
never said thank you. My husband claimed he didn't like
her attitude, so he avoided her.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
That's a lie. Just five days.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
After she got to our house, she ruined my life.
She was out smoking weed on the patio and my
husband was gone. Around nine pm, I heard noises coming
from the carport, so I went to see if it
was my husband. It was him and my brother's wife.
He had her bent over his car, and when they
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heard me, they started pulling up their pants. I told
them both to leave. I was so shocked. I was
so shocked that she do that to me. My husband
moved out and served me with divorce papers. Recently, he
said it is all his fault and he could never
look me in the eyes after what he did. Now,
my only problem is that my brother wants his family
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back together and he wants to remarry his ex wife.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
How can he want her back?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I've lost my husband, and if my brother remarries this woman,
I won't ever speak to him again. Would I be
wrong to cut my little brother off? You know what
I got to tell you? You have every right to
handle this situation however you see fit.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I clearly understand why you're angry.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
I understand why you feel betrayed by your brother, by
his ex wife, by all of this situation, but him
getting ready to remarry this weed smoking trifle and Heffer.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Who broke up your marriage. Wow, that's a lot. That's
a lot.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
So handle it however you need to handle it. I mean,
you're thinking, how could he do this to you?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Either he's still in love with her, or has forgiven
her for having sex with his brother in law, your husband,
which I don't know how he could, or he's just
whipped and just stupid. I mean, I don't know, but
some of the blame for all this has to go
to you and your husband for letting her come back.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
You knew what kind of person she was. Letting her
come back to live with you.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Is crazy because you just knew how she caused the
breakup of her own marriage. Then you double back and
invite the devil in your house again after.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Your brother divorced her. I mean, why would you do that.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Her coming back to live with you should have never
happened at that point. I'm sure your brother felt some
kind of way about you think about it, but I
don't know. The damage is done now, so there's enough
hurt and pain to go around for everyone in this
entire family. So no, I definitely get it if you're
mad at your little brother for taking her back, but
at some point you're going to have to forgive him
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so you can move on.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
That's his life.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
You know. Your husband, on the other hand, cannot look
you in the eye because he knows what he did
to cause.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
All of this.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I'm glad that nowhere in this letter did you say
you were taking him back, because what he did was
just foul.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Steve, I see what's happening in the letter. Uh, my
brother's ex wife on the car. The problem, the real
problem in all of this is your husband.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
That's this is your real problem.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
You ain't married to your brother, you didn't marry his
skank ex wife. You're married to your husband. On the
person that owes you their loyalty in this letter, that
owes you and promised it to you was your husband.
It ain't enough in this letter about your husband. You
keep talking of bringing up this girl and this and
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how could she do this to me and your brother?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
And if he should I cut him off? If they remarried?
What what you need?
Speaker 4 (04:58):
You need to get your proud He's lined up here.
Your real problem is your husband. He the only one
took a vow to you, your brother, stupid, the girl trash?
What you expect from stupidity? And what do you expect
from trash? Stupid people are going to do stupid things.
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Trash type people are gonna do trash thing. The only
decency your husband got in him is he No, he
can't look you in that because of what he did.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
He know that.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
All right, let me try to walk you through this
ignas right here. It's really nothing in duty. I'm separated
for three months. I'm getting divorced. Your husband and I
we had a very happy marriage to three months ago.
He was a family member. He allowed two of my
younger siblings to live with us. In the past. My
youngest brother twenty eighty, rushed into Marria, got a woman pregnant.
Obvious his wife wasn't a marry type twenty five all
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she do is smoke wheat and drink. One night, she
went home drunk and tried to fight my brothers, so
he put her out and divorced her a few months later.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Now he is a part where Shirley.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
I understand she resurface three months ago asking if she
could stay with my husband, and I watched she looked
for a job close to the baby's daycare. We agreed
to one week. I understood that that's okay. That wasn't
inviting the devil back in. That was just your husband
has proven he's a family man. But he proved to
he's really really a family man. Ah See, the problem
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is your husband.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
All that thought, Steve.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Okay, we'll be back with part two of your response,
coming up at twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter
subject my brother's ex wife on the car.
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All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject my brother's ex wife on the car.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Listen to me this whole thing, lady, this letter, about
this woman, about your brother, whether you should accept your
brother back? How could she do this to me? All
of this Your focus should be purely on your hooks. Now,
some ramifications and some fallout behind it. But your husband
bought all this. See you said in your letter. You
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and your husband had a really happy marriage. He was
a family man. He allowed two of my younger siblings
to live with us. My youngest brother, twenty eight, rushed
into married. He got a girl pregnant. Obviously, she wasn't
a man type. She twenty five. All she do is
smoke weed and drink. One night, she went home drunk
and tried to fight my brother. So he put out
and divorced her a few months later. You're not divorcing
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a woman because she came home drunk and tried to
fight you.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
It's way more to this than that, way way more
to this than that.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yo.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
See, your brother stupid, so he ain't smart enough to
divorce you just because you came home drunk and wanted
to fight him.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
No no, no, no, no no no no.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Something happened while she was out that caused the fight
that made him put out, that made them want to divorce.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
All right.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
She resurfaced three months ago ask him if she could
stay with my husband and while I was and with
I while while she looked a job close to the
baby's jack, and we agreed to one week. That's being
nicer fault. You just said that your husband is a
family man, and he allowed to of your longer youngest
siblings live with y'all.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You said that.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
This girl ate our food, used my car, never said
thank you. You just said she smoked weed and drink
all day. She ain't got time to say thank you.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
It's hard to say thank you. Are you smoking weed?
Speaker 2 (09:28):
While yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Yeah, hell, you can't remember a manner snow over.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he
avoided her.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
That's a lie.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Five days after she got to our house, she ruined
my life. Oh dish she was out smoking weed on
the paddy or. My husband was gone. Around nine pm,
I heard noises from the car poor so I went
to see if it was my husband, and it was
and my brother's wife. He had her bent over his car,
and when they heard me, they started pulling up. They pass.
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I told them both to leave. That's a lot of
stuff missing in this letter right here. Oh lord, oh lord, girl,
See anyway, let's just leave along. I was so shocked
that she would do that to me. You were so
shocked that she would do that to you? But do
that to you? You shocked at her? Your sentence was
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he had her bent over his car. He had her
bent over his car. Your next line is, I was
so shocked she would do that to me.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
You didn't.
Speaker 4 (10:41):
You forgot about the last statement you made. Anyway, my
husband moved out and served me with divorce papers. Research
He said it was all his fault and he could
never look me in the eye after what he did. Okay, cool,
Now my only problem here we go, here we go.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Now.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
My only problem is that my brother wants his family
back together and he wants to remarry his ex wife.
How that's your problem. You got your priorities wrong. Your
marriage is gone. The problem? Ain't your your brother stupid?
We done talked about this. He's stupid. He wants to
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remarry his ex wife. How can he want her back
because he's stupid and I've lost my husband and if
my brother remarries this woman, I don't ever want to
speak to him again. That's the decision you make. It
would I be wrong to cut my brother? Cut your
brother off, you cut your husband off?
Speaker 3 (11:42):
He's stupid. My question is he.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
Want her back? What is she doing to these meanings?
Lord be kidding it? Dad?
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Is the question for me?
Speaker 4 (11:56):
What is this alcoholic weed won't be doing to these
men that make him in the cop hope and your
wife right there in the house. What is she doing
that make your brother want her back?
Speaker 3 (12:18):
After your brother no, he been with she been with your.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
Ex husband, and he want to remarry her. What is
she doing doing some things? And I'm just gonna have
to be honest with y'all. It is really undescribable for
this wow in this letter right here, magnificent feats of
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a wonderment.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
But that's all she can do. Though she can't think.
She can't save money, she can't raise kids.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
She don't know whow the baby. They can't act, she
have no thought to the future. But lord, lord, Lord lord,
I think there's some clapping involved.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
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