August 4, 2025 • 13 mins
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show, Monday, August 4th, 2025. Subject: "Over 60 & Full Of Stamina"
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please
submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're gonna read this
one right here, right now. Yeah, let's go buckle up
(00:20):
and hold on tight. We got it for you here.
It is Bobbery Letter. Thank you for you. Subject over
sixty and full of stamina. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a
thirty one year old married woman and I've been married
for eight years and we have four kids. In the beginning,
our sex life was amazing and our intimate sessions would
(00:43):
last four hours. But after four kids, it's basically nonexistent,
and when we do have sex, it's terrible and boring.
There is no spice in our love life because my
husband is tired, is just and then he goes to sleep,
leaving me wanting more. We have sex once a week
(01:05):
so I can fulfill my duties as a wife, but
I get my satisfaction elsewhere. On two separate occasions, I
met two gentlemen that are at least thirty years older
than me. I was opened and honest with them about
my sad sex life, and they told me how bad
I need it, and I told them how bad I
(01:25):
needed some good sex. So now I'm having an affair
with both of them, and they both are beyond amazing
in bed. One guy is in his early sixties and
he is so passionate that I can't get enough of him.
The other one is in his late sixties and he
has more stamina than any man I've ever been with.
I was shocked to find out that the men in
(01:48):
their sixties still have it going on like this. The
more intimacy I have with these older men, the less
I want to be with my husband. It's like the
best experience ever, and I could see myself falling for them.
I'm sure these older men don't want anything but sex
for me, but I find it hard to go back
to boring sex with my husband after being with these
(02:10):
old pros. I do love my husband and I don't
want to lose him. He has no idea what I've
been doing on the side, and I almost feel bad
for cheating. My husband and I are both still young.
So do you think there is a way for us
to spice up our sex life again, or should I
realize that I need more than my husband can give me?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Wow? Okay, well but before you start.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Yes, yes, I'm going to be beyond interested in he
and your response go here?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
All right?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Well, thank you, thank you for that. You should be
feel badly for cheating. You really should, you know what,
I don't think you've given it your your marriage, I
mean much of a chance. It sounds like you've given up.
I mean, you know, did you leave that part out
or something? I think you just said that it was
(03:02):
boring and basically non existent. But I mean you want
it to last for hours? I mean for how long?
You want it to last for? Like hours and hours?
No wonder he's tired. I'm sure both of you can
step up your game in the bedroom. Do you have
(03:23):
date nights? Do you plan anything to do together as
a married couple? I mean, I know you have four kids.
Do you get a babysitter from time to time so
you guys can go out and have time together? I
mean those are the kinds of things you do you
have to do to keep your marriage, you know, the
spice in your marriage and things like that. I mean
where is the romance? Where is it? Do you, you know,
(03:45):
talk to him about being romantic and stuff like that.
I mean, it doesn't sound like either of you guys
are trying just stepping you know, outside of your marriage
or stepping out on your husband to get what you need.
That's not the answer. And you have two men. Wow.
I know women are smarter than men when it comes
(04:06):
to dating and everything, but two and by the way,
you have two men. I really hope you're using protection
so far. I guess you have been, because that really
could turn into a mess. And I hope you don't
really fall for either one of these guys, because it's
going to cause a problem, you know, in your marriage,
more than already is there with this sex situation. So
(04:29):
I think you need to reevaluate your marriage with your husband.
You and your husband need to sit down and talk
about this situation seriously and try to come to some
sort of agreement. You need romance, you need love, you
need all of that for play. All of that back
in your marriage, and you can put it back in.
You're only thirty one. You guys are young.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Steve thirty one, Oval thirty one girl who lod have
mercy it's called a repeat offender, someone who returns back
to the scene of the crime over and over and
over and yet no repercussions.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Just this is my answer.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Okay, okay, I'm interested in yours, just like you were
interested in mine.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
No you're not, and anyway, thirty one.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Years old and is over.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
But it used to be amazing because they had intimate
sections that lasted for hours. Here's some people that obviously
is not working. That is very hard hours. All your
intimate section sessions was ours. That's a lot welldom hours
turned into folk kids. It's basically nonexistent. When we have
(05:45):
sex now is terrible, it's boring. Ain't no spice in it.
As soon as he has sex, he go to sleep.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Leaving you want more. Y'all doing it once a week
so you can fulfill your duties.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
But then, on two different occasions, you met two gentlemen
that are.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
At least thirty years older than me. So let's stop
right here.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
You're attracted to older men because you have sat down
and explained to two older men how unhappy you are sexually.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Now.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
The first one you might have just fell into it,
but after you saw how good he was, you explained
it to another sixty year old dude, if you'd have found.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Out that the old pros is just that old pro
bringing it all right, Hang on, Steve, find the baker.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
We don't have part two of yours and there rejoined
the kitchen twenty three minutes after the hour, subject of
Today's Strawberry Letter, over sixty and full.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Of sod roof and the garage.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
To Steve's response coming up right after this. You're listening
to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 6 (07:00):
On August sixth, Get ready to laugh all the way
to the bank with The Pickup, the hottest action movie
of the summer coming to Prime Video. Eddie Murphy stars
as an armored truck driver with his rookie partner Pete
Davidson as they are forced into a multi million dollar
heights led by none other than your girl, Key Key
Palmer from Tim Story, director of Barbier Shop. The Pickup
features an all star cast including Eva Longoria, Marshawn Lynch,
(07:23):
and Andrew dice Clay. The Pickup come in to Prime
Video August to sixth.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters,
subject over sixty and full of stamina.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
This thirty one year old lady had a wonderful relationship
with her man. They used to have our long love
making session that has resulted in folk kids. Now there's
no spark at all. They just he have sex and
go to sleep. She do it once a week and
she said that she's had to find land and he
falls asleep, leaving her wanting more so to cure the more.
(07:59):
She had started seeing two older men early sixties and
late sixties. She's explained to both of them how boring
her sex life is, and they say, hold on, you
ain't got to do that. So now these old pros
is in there working. They old too, they know old ways.
(08:22):
They and that.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Churning your butter. Come on, churning the buddy.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
You getting your cotton picked checks like you like it? Yeah,
they in there, Uh huh they waxing you with bird
lap sacks.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, y'all have a civil rights sex Just just why
are you going so far? You don't? Just let me
get on back to what I was doing. Then this
old time sex.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
Y'all in the healthyway said yeah, y'all up in the
money to vote the show the three to get there
and for y'all having Elvis president, who.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Little Richard said, so I know how you feel.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Because you've had something, because you're young, them them sixty
old men in there, just coming in there and bringing it.
And that this man is so passionate because he got moves,
he doing things, he know what to do. He'd have
done it before thirty more years experienced pouring it all
on you air now and then you can't take it.
(09:48):
And the other one got stamina. The reason all men
have standard stamin stanama. And I'm explaining to you this way.
The reason we have stamina is because we you've had
this before, we can control it better.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Oh, we know how to pace.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
We know when it's getting close to the end. We
know how to you know, pull back a little bit
and take our time. We focus our mind and sometimes
it's called displacement. Sometimes being an old pro, you know
how to take your mind and put it somewhere else
(10:30):
so you can keep handling your business without the focus
being there. Thus bring it about in eroticism in yourself.
So you take your mind and displace it, Yeah, somewhere else.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Come on here now, stay with me.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
D you you gentified.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
You you you you you take it in another direction.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
You rebuke of the power was of lesstifvity, lestivity.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Uh And now dude, it is you won't one mm.
But I think you've come to the realization that that
all they want from you is your sex.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Yeah, but it's hard for you to go back to
that bar in sex, that young boy thing, that that
hip hop love, that.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
One pant leg up, one pass down love. You don't
want that many Yeah, that can't go hat love. That
that that that that that I got a extra jewelry love. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you need to get back to that dark, shaky love.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, come on back.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah that that that love.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
In the water before there was gold changing and and
and and all that we just wo was on some beads.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
You need mood ring sex mm hmmmmm.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Yeah, red hot, cold all that.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
You go right there. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
You need girl, You need Jared Carroll sick. You need
rocking trotten in sex. It's so rough, so tough out here. Yeah, yeah,
you need a computer live sex. Come on more, bounce
to the ounce. You need some headed through the grape vine. See,
(12:38):
you have been spoiled. Now you have been treated.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
To a ticket to the past. You have some feel
love and put on you. Yeah album love Past. You
know some some out in the field. Look, you had
some behind the garage love put over you. I actually
did that one, but I know you did.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Hush, actually had.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
Some black seat love.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Yeah, I've been back where your foot all up gainst
the window, tatted, tent off the window and hard.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Right now I looked up. All my tent was writing.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey
FM on Instagram and Facebook and check out it's that
wonder Foggy Love the Strawberry Letter on podcast on demand.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Okay, put that on de Frost.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Put that on that and we'll be back with more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
What I thought your boy the big Snoop Dog, and
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You did
Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please
submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're gonna read this
one right here, right now. Yeah, let's go buckle up
(00:20):
and hold on tight. We got it for you here.
It is Bobbery Letter. Thank you for you. Subject over
sixty and full of stamina. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a
thirty one year old married woman and I've been married
for eight years and we have four kids. In the beginning,
our sex life was amazing and our intimate sessions would
(00:43):
last four hours. But after four kids, it's basically nonexistent,
and when we do have sex, it's terrible and boring.
There is no spice in our love life because my
husband is tired, is just and then he goes to sleep,
leaving me wanting more. We have sex once a week
(01:05):
so I can fulfill my duties as a wife, but
I get my satisfaction elsewhere. On two separate occasions, I
met two gentlemen that are at least thirty years older
than me. I was opened and honest with them about
my sad sex life, and they told me how bad
I need it, and I told them how bad I
(01:25):
needed some good sex. So now I'm having an affair
with both of them, and they both are beyond amazing
in bed. One guy is in his early sixties and
he is so passionate that I can't get enough of him.
The other one is in his late sixties and he
has more stamina than any man I've ever been with.
I was shocked to find out that the men in
(01:48):
their sixties still have it going on like this. The
more intimacy I have with these older men, the less
I want to be with my husband. It's like the
best experience ever, and I could see myself falling for them.
I'm sure these older men don't want anything but sex
for me, but I find it hard to go back
to boring sex with my husband after being with these
(02:10):
old pros. I do love my husband and I don't
want to lose him. He has no idea what I've
been doing on the side, and I almost feel bad
for cheating. My husband and I are both still young.
So do you think there is a way for us
to spice up our sex life again, or should I
realize that I need more than my husband can give me?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Wow? Okay, well but before you start.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Yes, yes, I'm going to be beyond interested in he
and your response go here?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
All right?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Well, thank you, thank you for that. You should be
feel badly for cheating. You really should, you know what,
I don't think you've given it your your marriage, I
mean much of a chance. It sounds like you've given up.
I mean, you know, did you leave that part out
or something? I think you just said that it was
(03:02):
boring and basically non existent. But I mean you want
it to last for hours? I mean for how long?
You want it to last for? Like hours and hours?
No wonder he's tired. I'm sure both of you can
step up your game in the bedroom. Do you have
(03:23):
date nights? Do you plan anything to do together as
a married couple? I mean, I know you have four kids.
Do you get a babysitter from time to time so
you guys can go out and have time together? I
mean those are the kinds of things you do you
have to do to keep your marriage, you know, the
spice in your marriage and things like that. I mean
where is the romance? Where is it? Do you, you know,
(03:45):
talk to him about being romantic and stuff like that.
I mean, it doesn't sound like either of you guys
are trying just stepping you know, outside of your marriage
or stepping out on your husband to get what you need.
That's not the answer. And you have two men. Wow.
I know women are smarter than men when it comes
(04:06):
to dating and everything, but two and by the way,
you have two men. I really hope you're using protection
so far. I guess you have been, because that really
could turn into a mess. And I hope you don't
really fall for either one of these guys, because it's
going to cause a problem, you know, in your marriage,
more than already is there with this sex situation. So
(04:29):
I think you need to reevaluate your marriage with your husband.
You and your husband need to sit down and talk
about this situation seriously and try to come to some
sort of agreement. You need romance, you need love, you
need all of that for play. All of that back
in your marriage, and you can put it back in.
You're only thirty one. You guys are young.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Steve thirty one, Oval thirty one girl who lod have
mercy it's called a repeat offender, someone who returns back
to the scene of the crime over and over and
over and yet no repercussions.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Just this is my answer.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Okay, okay, I'm interested in yours, just like you were
interested in mine.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
No you're not, and anyway, thirty one.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Years old and is over.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
But it used to be amazing because they had intimate
sections that lasted for hours. Here's some people that obviously
is not working. That is very hard hours. All your
intimate section sessions was ours. That's a lot welldom hours
turned into folk kids. It's basically nonexistent. When we have
(05:45):
sex now is terrible, it's boring. Ain't no spice in it.
As soon as he has sex, he go to sleep.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Leaving you want more. Y'all doing it once a week
so you can fulfill your duties.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
But then, on two different occasions, you met two gentlemen
that are.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
At least thirty years older than me. So let's stop
right here.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
You're attracted to older men because you have sat down
and explained to two older men how unhappy you are sexually.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Now.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
The first one you might have just fell into it,
but after you saw how good he was, you explained
it to another sixty year old dude, if you'd have found.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Out that the old pros is just that old pro
bringing it all right, Hang on, Steve, find the baker.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
We don't have part two of yours and there rejoined
the kitchen twenty three minutes after the hour, subject of
Today's Strawberry Letter, over sixty and full.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Of sod roof and the garage.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
To Steve's response coming up right after this. You're listening
to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 6 (07:00):
On August sixth, Get ready to laugh all the way
to the bank with The Pickup, the hottest action movie
of the summer coming to Prime Video. Eddie Murphy stars
as an armored truck driver with his rookie partner Pete
Davidson as they are forced into a multi million dollar
heights led by none other than your girl, Key Key
Palmer from Tim Story, director of Barbier Shop. The Pickup
features an all star cast including Eva Longoria, Marshawn Lynch,
(07:23):
and Andrew dice Clay. The Pickup come in to Prime
Video August to sixth.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters,
subject over sixty and full of stamina.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
This thirty one year old lady had a wonderful relationship
with her man. They used to have our long love
making session that has resulted in folk kids. Now there's
no spark at all. They just he have sex and
go to sleep. She do it once a week and
she said that she's had to find land and he
falls asleep, leaving her wanting more so to cure the more.
(07:59):
She had started seeing two older men early sixties and
late sixties. She's explained to both of them how boring
her sex life is, and they say, hold on, you
ain't got to do that. So now these old pros
is in there working. They old too, they know old ways.
(08:22):
They and that.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Churning your butter. Come on, churning the buddy.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
You getting your cotton picked checks like you like it? Yeah,
they in there, Uh huh they waxing you with bird
lap sacks.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, y'all have a civil rights sex Just just why
are you going so far? You don't? Just let me
get on back to what I was doing. Then this
old time sex.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
Y'all in the healthyway said yeah, y'all up in the
money to vote the show the three to get there
and for y'all having Elvis president, who.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Little Richard said, so I know how you feel.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Because you've had something, because you're young, them them sixty
old men in there, just coming in there and bringing it.
And that this man is so passionate because he got moves,
he doing things, he know what to do. He'd have
done it before thirty more years experienced pouring it all
on you air now and then you can't take it.
(09:48):
And the other one got stamina. The reason all men
have standard stamin stanama. And I'm explaining to you this way.
The reason we have stamina is because we you've had
this before, we can control it better.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Oh, we know how to pace.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
We know when it's getting close to the end. We
know how to you know, pull back a little bit
and take our time. We focus our mind and sometimes
it's called displacement. Sometimes being an old pro, you know
how to take your mind and put it somewhere else
(10:30):
so you can keep handling your business without the focus
being there. Thus bring it about in eroticism in yourself.
So you take your mind and displace it, Yeah, somewhere else.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Come on here now, stay with me.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
D you you gentified.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
You you you you you take it in another direction.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
You rebuke of the power was of lesstifvity, lestivity.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Uh And now dude, it is you won't one mm.
But I think you've come to the realization that that
all they want from you is your sex.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Yeah, but it's hard for you to go back to
that bar in sex, that young boy thing, that that
hip hop love, that.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
One pant leg up, one pass down love. You don't
want that many Yeah, that can't go hat love. That
that that that that that I got a extra jewelry love. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you need to get back to that dark, shaky love.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, come on back.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Yeah that that that love.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
In the water before there was gold changing and and
and and all that we just wo was on some beads.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
You need mood ring sex mm hmmmmm.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Yeah, red hot, cold all that.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
You go right there. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
You need girl, You need Jared Carroll sick. You need
rocking trotten in sex. It's so rough, so tough out here. Yeah, yeah,
you need a computer live sex. Come on more, bounce
to the ounce. You need some headed through the grape vine. See,
(12:38):
you have been spoiled. Now you have been treated.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
To a ticket to the past. You have some feel
love and put on you. Yeah album love Past. You
know some some out in the field. Look, you had
some behind the garage love put over you. I actually
did that one, but I know you did.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Hush, actually had.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
Some black seat love.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Yeah, I've been back where your foot all up gainst
the window, tatted, tent off the window and hard.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Right now I looked up. All my tent was writing.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey
FM on Instagram and Facebook and check out it's that
wonder Foggy Love the Strawberry Letter on podcast on demand.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Okay, put that on de Frost.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Put that on that and we'll be back with more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
What I thought your boy the big Snoop Dog, and
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You did
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