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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:18):
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It could.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Yeah, lady jentlemen, it's time for the Strawberry Litter. My
good friend Shirley Strawberry.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
My good friend Junior's subject. She was supposed to be
just for me. Here's Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years
old with a set of twins that are two years old.
My husband works hard and he's allowed me to stay
home with the twins and work part time in the evenings.
We had to hire a babysitter because he's not able
to handle the kids by himself like I can. The
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babysitter keeps the children during the day if I have
a doctor's appointment or need to run some errand my
husband doesn't like me to use a babysitter during the
day because we have to pay her, but he didn't
know is that I would call this girl over whenever
I wanted to see her or for us to mess around.
It wasn't always about the twins. I met this young
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lady at the gym and we hit it off instantly.
She sells waist trainers on the side, and she fitted
me for one and pressed herself all up against me.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
When she was stuffing me into the waist trainer.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
She said, I felt really good, and I told her
she felt even better. We got closer and closer, and
she came over to my house. She came over to
meet my twins. That was when it all went down
and things changed between us. I hired her instantly to
be the babysitter. When she came over during the day,
it was for me and the twins. What I overlooked
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was the fact that she's so hot that my husband
might want her too. We experimented with the threesome before
we got married, so I figured he would tell me
if I wanted another woman. So I figured he would
tell me if he wanted another woman. She had because
I walked in on him and this woman on the couch.
Nothing was going on yet, but it was about to be.
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It was about to be on and popping if I
hadn't walked in when I did. He and I had
to talk about this beautiful woman, and he said we
should fire her. But I think he said that so
he can have her all to himself. Would it be
best to ask her for a threesome or fire her?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
So, you brought this girl into your.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Home and started sleeping with her, and now you're mad
because you think your husband wants your girlfriend all to himself.
This sounds crazy. And if she's that hot, what did
you think was gonna happen? I mean, really, you didn't
think long and hard about this when you brought her
into your marriage and your home and everything. And you
might think a threesome will solve the problem. No, it's
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not going to solve the problem. A threesome is not
going to make this go away. It will only make
things worse for you. I mean, your husband will agree
to a threesome, I'm sure, after all, you guys did
it before before you got married. But he's already trying
to do her without you. That's the problem. In other words,
the threesome is not going to solve your issue. He'll
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still want to go he'll still want to do her.
You're just giving him more of what he wants by
suggesting a threesome. So in this case, I just think
it's best for you to go ahead and fire him.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Yeah, go ahead and fire her.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I mean so you won't have to worry about coming
home and seeing her on the couch making out with
your husband by by themselves, Steve.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
That ain't the problem.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
What's the problem?
Speaker 4 (03:36):
How the problem?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
If she's sitting on the couch, you need to fire
her so he don't mess with her. The problem is
she messing with the woman. That's the whole problem.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Yeah, the woman don't even.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Get to the house if it wasn't for her chubby
ass and here getting stuffed into the waist trainer. That's
what happened. I'm just reading what the letter said. Was
she said, I'm just going about the letter neither y'all. Hey, y'all,
y'all stop talking about me when I been doing this letter.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
I'm just reading.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
The lady said she made me going at the gym
because she was selling waist trains.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
She fitted her.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
With one, and that she was stuffing me down into
the waist train.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Well, it it, It does require a bit of would.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
I would imagine that it was.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
But she said when she stuffed me down, I ain't
not been stuffed in none of my clothes.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Well, you don't wear a waist trainer either, that's for
women to way.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
I have needed one. I've looked into you go on,
needed a waist training? I really have, all right, that's.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Not all she said.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
I got some, I got some partners. Doesn't ask me
about waist training before. You know, at that age, you
know what, we're starting to look like. You know, we're carrying,
you know we you know?
Speaker 2 (05:00):
So was that a good business waist trainers for men?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
No?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I bought one of them T shirts one time, and
I had to get a butcher knife and cut it off.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
I couldn't eat. I couldn't even swallow. I couldn't even
I couldn't even eat food. I didn't even here.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Well, I'm gonna use weight because I had to quit
eating because I couldn't swallow.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
That's how tight this T shirt was on. And so.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I don't really like this letter because it's nothing. It's
nothing in this letter I can help you with. You've
made a decision. You hide this girl that you She said,
Oh you feel good?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
You told her she feel even better.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
You invited over the house to check out the twins,
and that's when it all jumped off.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I mean it jumped off.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
And now when you call over, it ain't for the twins, now,
your husband man, because y'all got to pay them. That's
what you've paid people for services. People that come your
house free. A conditioning man don't come to your house.
Electrician don't come free. Hookahs ain't freeing. Okay, Yeah, why
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y'all what y'all thought they y'all thought they was free.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That's no, No, that's not what it is.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Hookers come to houses, yeah, house called house, hotels, hookers
climbing cars. Depend on whatever you are. They they got
a high lever, they got escort services. You can go
out with them, show up places, all right?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
This, hold on, wait this.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
We'll have part two of your response coming up in
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject
she was supposed to be just for me.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
We'll get back into that right after this.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
You're listening morning show, all right, Steve, come on, let's
recap today's Strawberry letter.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
The subject is she was supposed to be just for me?
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Well, she was supposed to be. But she ain't just
for you. She for everybody.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
First of all, she sell waist trainers at the gym,
so she sell it to anybody. She stuffs a lot
of people into these waiste trainers, not just you. She
be up on a lot of people and she like
it any kind of way you want to do it. Now,
she sells a service. It starts as a product, but
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she sells a service.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
The product is.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
The waist training. The service is baby City. Once you
are no longer a teenager and out of high school,
you are not a babysitter no more. That title changes
because you change. You ain't the little girl down the
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street no more.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Once you get older, you grow up, things start happening
to your body. See, you ain't the babysitter no more.
They have titles for you now. They call them nannies.
Uh huh, governesses, governesses. Yeah, that's a title, junior. You
could be hired as a governess to watch to educate
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the children. That's when those women knew, may have college
degrees and stuff, they call governesses.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Yeah, but she called her a babysitter and a letter.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Well see, but she ain't the baby no more.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Let's see, I told you once you're not in high
school watching kids. No more, Ladies, change these titles on
these women, because that ain't what they are no more,
Arnest Schwartzen.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
They can tell you that.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Okay, Okay, I can understand when they come over to
the house and if they look like they can have
a baby, then they not babysitters no more. But she
does baby makers.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
She does have twins.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Yeah she got twins.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
But the lady that sell the uh waist trainers ain't
got no twigs.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
So you done brought this hooker to the house.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
And see, I don't know how y'all on ceeah.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Yeah, she paid the babysitter, but she ain't over there
sitting the baby stuff. Now she rocking everybody to sleep
now right cabab baby.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Baby in the tree?
Speaker 2 (09:28):
What if he home?
Speaker 4 (09:29):
You come on over here too, right now? You walked
in on him. They were sitting on the couch.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Ain't nothing happened yet, but you you knew you had
walked in on it, because you know she saw him
from behind. You bought her in the house. You committed
the first room. Now when it looks like it's about
to go all wrong.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
You mad at her, and he talking about well we
all to fire her. Saw the baby come in soon
as you're talking about babysitess Yeah, that little girl came
on that zoom focus you bring.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
See see Carler's daughter is a babysitter.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
She's a babysitter.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
You three grown help us on this zoom right here,
y'all need babysitters, y'all home wreckords.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
The age of the child that you watch the babysitter,
not the babysitter.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Can you can you please focus on the letter?
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I am focused y'all zooming them. You're not babysitters. And
y'all come in here, y'all home records. Y'all know goodn't here? Well,
you don't need to be in here watching your damn back.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
Okay, I got a question, yes, because this letter ain't
worth for damn.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
I ain't trying. She's mad that.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Her go ahead, carl Her.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
I just wanted to know if Monica was watching my daughter.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
She's not babysitting. That's not what it's called.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Well, I wouldn't trust.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Her, you know.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Oh back to you your.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Daughter, and I know your daughter know somebody down at
that school that can come over and keep an eye
if you.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Don't have her in your house anyway.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
The point is she's mad that her husband wants the
babysitter too, or the whatever you want to call her.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Her husband, Shirley wants to fire the girl. She don't
want to fire the girl because the girl take care
of her and the twins.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
When she she just.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Said she thinks that they might end up in a threesome.
The husband don't want to do that. He say, fire
her because he don't want to pay her. See that's
what this is. Any more questions about.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
This, She doesn't He doesn't want to pay her for babysitting,
but he wants the benefits of her being there as well.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
You don't know that an, assuming her guilty conscious, assumed
when they were sitting on the couch that they was
about to get busy. I don't know what the babysitter
sitting on the couch with ther husband for any day
you would have been right, Well, you know, I got
my hand on your thigh. I'm sitting to be talking
about working out and.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
We discussing the post your comments on today, sir.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
This woman brought this woman into the house. She can't
make it the man's fault.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
She don't want to man, She don't want to fire,
but they need to know. They need to taking care
of the babies and the wife. She was supposed to
be just for.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Me, but right and now she's mad that her husband's involved.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
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Speaker 2 (13:01):
Never Sounded So good.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
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