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October 18, 2017 9 mins

Hello Steve and the morning crew I have a huge problem. I dated a married man for several months. We had a wonderful time together. We were able to date each other because we are in the military and he was stationed in the same place as I was and his wife lived in a different state.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Buckle up and hold on tight. Here it is Strawberry letter.
Subject of the letter should I get my man back?
Hello Steve in the morning crew. I have a huge problem.
I dated a married man for several months. We had
a wonderful time together. We were able to date each
other because we are in the military and he was

(00:21):
stationed in the same place as I was, and his
wife lived in a different state. She is this high
powered executive and refused to relocate for her man because
she wouldn't make the same kind of money in a
different location. Big mistake. That's where I came in. He
was lonely and I was there. We had a wonderful

(00:42):
time together and even professed our love for each other.
Everything was great until his wife came into town unexpectedly
and she decided that her man needed to be where
she was. I love her, put in a request to
be transferred to her area, and the military proved it.
I tried everything to break their marriage up. Before he

(01:03):
left me. I wrote his wife's and her pictures of us,
confronted her and try to fight her, and professed my
love for her husband. Still, she remained with my man.
He is mine. He told me he loved me, and
I believed him. I think his wife used voodoo to

(01:25):
get him to be with her. I am thinking of
doing the same to get my man back. I miss
him so much. He has been gone for several months
now and refuses to accept my calls or emails. He
told me to leave him alone, that what we did
was a mistake. He and his wife are going to
counseling to work on their marriage, and he is happier

(01:47):
than he's ever been. I don't believe this. He is
only saying this because his wife put him up to it.
He told me he was going to leave his wife
for me, and I just want to make that happened.
He is mine. How could he say he never loved
me and we were a mistake, not my man? He

(02:07):
would never say that. My question is should I use
voodoo to get my man back from that crazy woman
who took him away? I love him and I miss him.
He signed, angry Mistress. This is one of those crazy
ones told him this. After You're gonna respond to Yeah, okay,

(02:30):
all right, come on, stay with your response to part
two of today's Strawberry Letter. Let's go. Should I get
my man back? Here's this ignorant letter. Hello Steve in
the Morning crew. I have a huge problem. My dated
the married man for several months. We had a wonderful
time together. We were able to date each other because
we were in the We are in the military, and
he was stationed in the same place I was, and

(02:52):
his wife lived in a different state. She's a high
power executive. Refused to locate for her man because she
wouldn't make the same kind of money in a different location.
Big mistake. That's why I came in see he was
lonely and I was there. We had a wonderful time
together and even professed our love for each other. Everything

(03:13):
was great until his wife came into town all unexpectedly,
and she decided that her man needed to be where
she was. My lover put in a request to be
transferred to her area, and the military proved it. I
tried everything to break their marriage up. Before he left me,
I wrote his wife, sent her pictures of us, confronted

(03:34):
her and tried to fight her and profess my love
for her husband. Still she remained with my man. He
is mine. He told me he loved me, and I
believed her. I think his wife you voodoo. Get him
back with her. I'm thinking of doing the same thing
to get my man back. I missed him so much.
He has been going for several months now, in refusing

(03:56):
to accept my calls or emails. He told me leave
him alone, that what we did was a mistake. He
and his wife are going to counseling where God, they
imagine say he happier than he ever being. I don't
believe that he's only saying this because his wife put
him up to it. He told me he was gonna
leave his wife for me, and I just want to

(04:16):
make that happen. He is mine. How could he say
he never loved me and we were a mistake, not
my man, He would never say that. My question is
should I use voodoo to give my man back from
that crazy woman who took him away? I love him
and miss him. Angry mistress, Dear angry mistress, did you
really call his wife a crazy woman? You know what,

(04:38):
what the heck does that make you? You are a
fatal attraction sending his wife pictures, trying to fight her,
all of that crazy mess. What do you think was
supposed to happen? This is his wife. Okay, Everything that
you guys had everything that you guys talked about when
you were intimate. All that's over. Okay. He told you
out of his own mouth after he realized that you

(04:58):
were crazy to leave him alone, and you guys were
a mistake, So why don't you do that? Go away,
it's over. Leave this man alone before you end up
like Glenn Close in the movie for Real. And you
know she ended up. You know what happened to her
shotting the bathtub? You remember that killed. All I want

(05:20):
to say is let's just start anywhere in this letter,
y'all and read it and a crazy I tried everything
to break the marriage up before he left me. First
of all, before I do that. She's a high powered
executive refused to relocate with her man because she wouldn't
make same kind of money to big mistake. That's where
I came in. See refer to yourself from now on

(05:43):
as that's where I had. The home record came in that.
See I always know who you are. Please lift yourself
in the proper category. Know that you are a home record. Okay,
now let's go home record. You did everything to break
the marriage up. See that's what home wreckers do, you say,

(06:05):
I tried everything and break their marriage up, I wrote,
his wife sent her pictures of us, confronted her and
even tried to fight her. That's the point I need
to get to. How you try to fight somebody without
fighting what he What happened when you tried to fight her?

(06:26):
Let me let me tell you how that went on.
High powered exact that you didn't really know. Came to town.
Find out the girl a little bit thicker than your thought.
She was about five seven, had a thing together in
the gym. Nice. She thick, but she nice thought. She
had a little Anne Taylor suit on and it was fitting,
kind of snug, had them little creakles right up under

(06:47):
the butt crease. That's when you know the dress is
just one size a little bit too tight. But she
had them niice and them nice calf muscles. Owner that
made a leg stand up in them pumps and made
her look strong. Well, when you and up on thick
thing and you was thinking about fighting where you realize
you might get your ass whoop, that's when you said, oh,

(07:09):
I can't fight her. This could be the death of me.
I saw a woman like this climb over the wall
just last week and basic training look just like her.
You couldn't whoop her, So what made you think you
was gonna try to fight her? Now, let's get down
to it. You're thinking about using voodoo. Come on, lady,

(07:30):
let's go over some of the voodoo things you might
want to try to get your man back. You can
hang chickens all around the bedroom if you want to.
You can freshly cut their heads off and hear their
bodies running around and chatting. You can do whatever you
want to do. You can put a pit bull paul

(07:51):
in the chicken side. Try that. I heard that make
a man stay. Maybe you can hang your pennies on
an oystrich neck. Come why the ostrich is sitting on
the egg on the sara and get it. I heard
that can help get your man. Maybe you can suck
on the crawfish head while you sipping on pigeon pe

(08:15):
Maybe get your man back. I don't really know too
much voodoo myself. I'm just coming up with what I
think can get you. Maybe you can get on your
knees and pray facing the east with an alligator locked
on your butt. Try that? Is that voodo? I don't know.
I'm just trying to help you. Maybe you can fill

(08:37):
up on chit lit box with his teeth in it.
I don't know what you're gonna do. I'm just trying
to come up with some voodoos because gets what he
Thank you, Steve. You know we gotta go email or
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Girl Shirley and don't forget tomorrow. It's the after show,

(08:59):
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