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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:19):
All right, ladies and gentlemen, the time for the Strawberry
Letter with my good friend, Shirley straup Berry Junior.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Thank you. Subject.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I'm stuck between a sister and a brother, Dear Stephen, Shirley.
For the past year, I have been sleeping with my
best friend's little sister. When I went to college, I
lost all contact with her until we reconnected last year
at her brother's Fourth of July party. I hadn't seen
this woman since she was a young girl. And my,
oh my god, aged my own mind. God, oh my,
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oh my god, Oh I get it, my oh my God.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Like fine one, yes, Steve.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Sorry, because I don't know who you If you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
The Lord, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Now, just figure that one out.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
God, oh God, it was God, and my.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Oh my God, that's what he's trying to say. But
I'll start over all right, Dear Stephen Shirley. For the
past year, I've been sleeping with my best friend's little sister.
When I went to college, I lost all contact with
her until we reconnected last year at her brother's Fourth
of July party. I hadn't seen this woman since she
was a young girl, and my, oh my god, she's
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aged like fine wine. Okay, I'm fourteen years older than her,
but we're all grown now. The Lord took his time
with that body.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
That evening.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
We caught up, had a few drinks, shared some laughs,
and as the night progressed, we ended up in her
brother's coat closet. This woman did things to me that
I'd never had done to me. Since then, we have
become increasingly close, and we've talked about taking it to
the next day.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
She has said.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
It's of utmost importance that we go about this the
right way and tell her brother about us. The problem
is her brother is a six to sixth bodybuilder that
is very protective of his sister, and he's a hot head.
Because of his size, he's always ready for a confrontation.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Over the smallest stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I have personally never had a disagreement with him in
all of the years we've been friends, so I'm skeptical
on telling him face to face. I don't want to
clash with him, but I really love his sister, and
it's been almost a year. The sneaking around is getting old,
and I hope he can process the information in a
mature manner to put things in perspective. Her brother and
(02:46):
I are in our mid forties and we have been
friends since the eighth grade. I never had these kinds
of feelings for his sister when we were young, so
I need to be clear about that up front.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
How should this go?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Should we do it together or should I talk to
her brother alone first?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Please? All right?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
So my answer is going to be sure because I
don't really see a major problem here.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Are you really afraid of her brother?
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I mean, someone you've been friends with since the eighth grade?
That should be all the more reason for you to
tell him straight up you love his sister. I know
it's his sister, but you guys are no longer in
elementary in high.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
School, and his sister's a grown woman now.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
She's free to come and go and date and love whoever.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
She pleases, even if it's you.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Do you have a reputation of being like a bad
boy or a player or something, or does he have
a rep for putting his hands on all the guys
that his sister dates, Because if not, you know, put
your big boy pants on.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Go tell him what's up. Just go tell him.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I think she will respect and love you more if
you man up and just go by yourself and don't
bring her one question though. I get that he's six',
six he's a big. Guy he likes to fight and all.
That you said, that but what is your? Size you
did not bring that out in the. Letter you said
he likes to confront, thing confront people over the smallest.
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Stuff so what is your? Size you failed to mention.
That is that why you're so scared to tell? HIM
i just, say look at it this. Way the sooner
you tell, him the happier shield be because you did
what you wanted her to.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Do, okay you're a little.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Guy Steve shirley read this letter as a.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Woman i'm gonna read this letter as a, man and
so you can understand why this man wrote this. Letter
for the past, Year i've been sleeping with my best
friend's little sister right, there right, there, y'all already know
you out of, Line you already know you all already
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know how we are because we know each. Other if
these dudes have been, friends then they know each. Other so,
now what you doing with my little sister AFTER i
know all this about?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
You that's the first problem we're dealing. With, then he,
said WHEN.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I went to, COLLEGE i lost all contact with her
because we reconnected last year her Brother's fourth Of july.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
PARTY i ain't seen this woman since she was a young.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Girl oh my, god she then age like fine, Wine
i'm fourteen years older than, her but we all grown.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Now The lord took his time with that. Body that.
Evening we caught. Up here we go here where the
rest of it got.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Real jankie got caught, up had a few, drinks shared some.
Laughs night. Progress we ended up in her brother's coat. Closet,
okay all, right, Now i'm gonna strongly suggest that when
you do talk to, him you definitely.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Got to lead that. Out.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah see see the reason he wrote this, Letter, shirley
because as a, man he, Know i'm dealing with my
best friend who who AND i been running dirt and
running women. Together now the way behind his back and
got his little, sister AND i got him at The
fourth Of july party and had him in his coat.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Closet he, see he can't tell none of. This his, Shold, yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
The woman did things to me THAT i never had
done to me. Before gonna probably need to leave that
part out, too See, sherley that's why he, nervous because
he got all this. Information and then we come, Back
i'll tell you the rest of.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
It, okay all, right thank, You.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Steve we'll have part two Of steve's response. Too i'm
stuck between a sister and a. Brother that is the
subject of Today's strawberry. Letter right after, this you're Listening
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With Threecap Today's Strawberry, letter the Subject i'm.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Stuck between a sister and a. Brother, yeah this dude.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Getting got itself in the. Jam he is stuck between
his sister and. Brother they been best. Friends he ain't
seen him since. College he go back to his Friends
fourth Of july party and his young sister is, there
and now she got a banging body and all that
they didn't have some drinks and some. Laughs they wind
up in the closet. Together now two. Things it's your best,
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friend his little, sister you, know and you had her
in the, clauset his closet at his, house and then
she did some things you you ain't never had done.
Before you got to leave all this information. OUT i
don't know why you wrote it in the. LETTER i
hope you hear this.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
LETTER i.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Don't now we've become increasingly, close and we talked about
taking it to the next. Step she, said it's utmost
important that we go about this the right way and
tell her brother about.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Us.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Now the problem is her brother six six bodybuilder that
is very protective of as his, sister and he's a hot.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Head, okay so now right here you. Scared, yeah, yeah
And charlie and, surelie ain't, no are you? Scared he's.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Scared, yes he's, scared And i'm gonna tell you why a.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Minute because of its.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Size he's always ready for him confrontation over the smallest.
Stuff well this ain't, small. Though see you done got
behind his. Back he gonna, say you snuck behind his
back and you got his little.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Sister that's what you fitting to deal.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
With.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Now hold. UP i personally never had to disagree with
him in all these, years and we've been. Friends So
i'm skeptical of telling him face to face BECAUSE i
don't want to clash with. Him or it ain't the clash
you wear it. About it's that swipping.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
YOU i ain't the.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Clash it ain't got nothing to do with the, clash,
Homie what does it have to do With?
Speaker 4 (09:47):
Steve it's that swipper you're scared to take?
Speaker 1 (09:50):
It key word, Clash that's all it.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Is BUT i really love his. Sister and it's been
almost a year and the sneaking around is getting, old
AND i hope he can process the information in a mature.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Manner he. Ain't he. Can't he's six six.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Here?
Speaker 4 (10:12):
Bodybuilding what? Bodybuilding you?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Know other Than Lee hainey know how to process information
in a sensible. Fashion he the only nice BODYBUILDER i ever.
Met all the rest of them jack that wants, steroids
which affects their mental capacity at all. Times and hell
yeah they hot heads because they got steroids in.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
That oh, okay he fil to kick your.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Behind, dog he had moved. Swag he feel to beat your.
Behind you already know. This to put things in. Perspective
her brother AND i are in our mid forties and
we have been friends since the eighth. Grade you already
know you're getting your wool now.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Seen already too? Long, yeah you done seen him jump
on a lot of. People that's why you're. Scared.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Yeah, NOW i never had these kinds the feelings for
his sister when we were. Young SO i need to
be clear about that up. Front how should this? Go,
WELL i know how it should, go but now you
know how it's gonna, go and that's what you're scared.
About so now should we do it? Together that's another scary. Statement,
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see you need. Protection that ain't how you do. It
you got a man up dog and going over there
and handle this. Yourself you gonna to take this with
him like a. Man, now the's a chance he gonna
suck a.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Punchy.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Yeah should we do it together or SHOULD i talk
to her brother?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Alone? First?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Please you gotta go to her brother a, loan he, Said, hey,
MAN i don't want to talk to you with nobody
in this room but, us because we. Men see if
you take the girl in there and he's looking at
his little, sister he gonna knock your out for.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Sure is he a little guy though you?
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Think, no he ain't no little. Guy he just ain't
six six and nobody.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Building, yeah you know he might be you, know five,
ten you, know something like, that little little man Like
tommy or.
Speaker 4 (12:07):
Something he probably Lott he probably tom Side tommy. Dude,
Yeah thomas H jay's.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Size whatever you want to, do you can get to
throw ja owns in. There tom bigger Than? Tommy, now
oh now you want to be bigger Than?
Speaker 4 (12:21):
Tommy what happened to Team? Tommy?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Yeah now you know your friend little? Well well you know,
Okay so What i'm telling you is you gotta go
in there and you got to, say hey, man this
is what let me talk to you about. Something, Now, look,
MAN i don't want you to handle this the wrong.
Way but me and, you we got to talk about, this,
okay all, right his, Deal hey, MAN i Been i've
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been talking to your sister and we've been talking for
a while. Now the first thing he gonna say is
the hell you mean?
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Talking been talking about? What talking about? What talking about which? Other,
well we've been talking, about you, know being, together being?
Together like how in what? Way being? Together what do
you mean like being? Together like going to the store
and coming back to? That, no, man, no, man like
we got feelings for each, other we got.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Together, yeah right, there that's where you're probably gonna get put.
Out but you don't come, back come, go gon't come,
too and you will be. Fine i've been knocked out.
Before you don't even know it for a, while all.
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