March 22, 2018 • 12 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I just started dating this guy and he is great. I'm 28 and he is 31. Here's where it gets tricky. Last week he invited me to his family's barbecue. I was excited because this would be the first time I would meet his family. We go to his parents house and he introduced me to his siblings and his step mom.....
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Buckle up, hold on tight. Here it is a strawberry letter.
I don't know why I like saying this subject. Wait,
that's your daddy, Dear Stephen, Shirley. That subject, I don't
know it intrigues me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I just started
dating this guy and he is great. I'm twenty eight
and he is thirty one. Here's where it gets tricky.
(00:22):
Last week, he invited me to his family's barbecue. I
was excited because this would be the first time I
would meet his family. We go to his parents house
and he introduced me to his siblings and his step mom.
Then we headed to the backyard to meet his dad,
who was busy on the grill. His daddy turned around
and I was shook. Turns out that his daddy is
(00:46):
my ex sugar daddy. His father and I messed around
for six months, and I broke it off because I
started to have real feelings for him. And let me
tell you why, Shirley. He was the best at it.
He was the best at what he did, the best
I've ever had. I couldn't believe that I was at
(01:07):
his house with his son. After a very awkward pause,
his dad shook my hand and said it was nice
to meet me. I quickly turned to go back into
the house and my boyfriend followed me. I don't think
my boyfriend noticed how awkward we were the rest of
the night. Now, I feel like my boyfriend should know everything,
(01:27):
but I don't want to cause any family problems. Should
I just keep my mouth shut. Even though my boyfriend
does not measure up to his dad, I don't want
to lose him. Please help. Wow, I just gotta ask you,
you know what, what are your plans are? Are you
(01:48):
and his son planning a future together? I mean, you
just said you just started dating this guy, so I
can't imagine you know, you really in your mind knowing
where this is going to go in the future. But
having said all that, I I just don't think this
is a good look for you. I really don't, because
you know it's going to come out at some point.
You couldn't even hold it together that night, you were
(02:09):
being awkward. I'm sure his dad is going to be
this is going to come out. It's not gonna be
a good look for you being in this relationship with
the son of your ex lover. So you know you
did the dad You broke it off because it was
good and the best. You're you're always going to compare
them from here on out. Now, I don't think you're
gonna be able to hold it together. I don't think
(02:30):
it's gonna be a good relationship. That's always going to
be looming in the back of your mind. If it
comes out, it's gonna be on his son's mind. Uh,
you know, if you guys are planning some kind of
future together. I just I think you need to break
this off and just move on to a different situation
with different people, period. Steve. Yeah, yeah, this is a
(02:54):
full blown situation. This is a problem girl, girl girl.
First of all, you meet this boy eight years old,
he younged, he ain't at maximum capacity yet, he's yet
learned all that he's going to know. I think we
(03:15):
would agree. Let your church say, man, at twenty eight,
you are underdeveloped when it comes to life experience, know how,
and especially when it comes to the ability to pleasure.
Now we want to take this off from a different angle.
(03:43):
Appreciate Sister Shirley for wonderful rendition of and her a
selection of this Strawberry letter. But let me drive this
hill car because I've driven it before you go and
you meet the mama, the step mama, the siblings, and
(04:04):
all that is going good. But back on that grill
was the g M. That's the grieal master. I happened
to be one of these people. Yeah, I spend much
time in my backyard, and I am also it. I
(04:26):
can relate to the here we go. He turns around,
and I'll be down if his daddy ain't cho farmer
sugar daddy. Now this is when the relationship has too
much in common. Yeah, because right now, what makes this
(04:47):
relationship wrong is y'all got the same daddy m that
church man. Amen. Amen, y'all got the saying daddy. Oh
he his daddy, but he your sugar daddy. Yeah. So
(05:11):
now you meet, he shakes your hand, but oh lord
her mercy. The greatest player move I've ever seen. He
turns to you, what he says, nice to meet you. Ye. Now,
this is the player move because he can't hurt his son,
(05:34):
and he can't let the step mama know that he
didn't had you, so he willing to let bygones be bygones.
Nice to meet you. You broke it off because you
were starting to develop feelings and Why were you developing
these feelings because this man in hill, Lord help Mercy
(05:58):
was bringing it. The walls of Gibraltar have come down.
Your bacon was getting fried, extra Christie. Your cookie was
dumped all the way down in the middle and left
(06:21):
in there soaking. Your oven been up on five honeed,
your ass has been broil This mann has been up
(06:44):
on five hundred. This man was brawling your way. This
the best ship. When they come back, I'm gonna tell
you how good it was and what's going to happen
after all right, we'll have part two of Oh he's
both of y'all's daddy. You need to know that, Yeah,
(07:09):
his daddy, your sugar daddy, and the sugar steal in
your take. All right, we'll have more part two if
Steve's response, come on, let's go with part two of
Today's strawberry Litter. What wait, that's your daddy. She didn't
(07:30):
win the backyard with a new boyfriend introduced to his father.
He turned around and I'll be damned it is her
sugar daddy. Nah, it's some awkward paulse, she says in
the letter. Then she broke it off because the real fact,
she said turns out to his daddy is my ex
(07:51):
sugar daddy. His father and I messed around for six months,
and I broke it off because I started to have
a real feeling film. But he shook your hand and
he said, nice to meet me. I quickly turned to
go back into my house and your boyfriend and father.
Now here's where she talks to talk to Shirley, like,
(08:11):
Sureley know about this. We'll see I'm being turned on
your little girl. And let I started to have a
real feel with him. And let me tell you why, Shirley.
He was the best at what he did. See I
noticed right here. First of all, was I not out
(08:32):
on that grill? You're the girl master? But here I
come back in this letter again, this is he. He
was the best at what he did. She said it
right there. Oh this about me the master, I'm about
(08:55):
that grill. I just relate to this letter. Yeah, turn
it over. Now. He the best of what he did,
the best I've ever had. I know, because once again,
why because he didn't had hu up on five honey,
he'd been brawling this this girl that got bold. And
(09:19):
see what made it so special was the inticity of it,
the knowledge that his daddy had that. As you say
in the letter. Now I feel like my boyfriends, you
know everything, But I don't want to cause any problems.
I got came. Even though my boyfriend does not measure
(09:41):
up to his dad. He can't. He can't measure up
to sugar. He cannot measure up to sugar. He ain't
been here long enough to do the things, know the
things that sugar. No, I don't want to brag sugar.
Put it on, Oh sugar, that boy got your oven
(10:03):
at three fifty. You just regular bacon. You weren't that
doing muffins and cake layers and pastry. You you're doing fish, daddy,
Come on, had it on fire, honey, You in that
Syrian meat, putting the brown on top of the crim
(10:28):
brew leg Here you in hill, you're here putting that
crunchy on the top layer or the yams. That's what
he did with that. He got it in there. When
the door open, everybody gotta step back four feet because
it's just damn honey. There, big daddy, the grill master,
(10:49):
be in that putting that shut in your tank. You
got to break up with this ball because you can't
go over there and look at sugar and then look
over here at junior not junior man. You got junior
mint standing over here and sugar daddy over there. Now
you want the junior min or, You want the sugar
daddy who in here? We'll take a junior mint over
(11:11):
sugar daddy. You could have sugar daddy or sugar babies?
Which one you want? You got diabetes if you being
all that damn expert. And I'm just gonna say this,
you gotta break up. Yeah, well he's doing it's too much.
(11:34):
Let me. Old player killed it. Old player is what
we call old PEP. Can can't sugar old you. I
just said, the old player is straight old p p.
She got broke off some of that old pimp passion.
(11:56):
Oh that's what, and that's what figure it out. The
what the passion. It's a cologne, that's what. That's what
old p Alright, Steve, we gotta move on. You're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Buckle up, hold on tight. Here it is a strawberry letter.
I don't know why I like saying this subject. Wait,
that's your daddy, Dear Stephen, Shirley. That subject, I don't
know it intrigues me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I just started
dating this guy and he is great. I'm twenty eight
and he is thirty one. Here's where it gets tricky.
(00:22):
Last week, he invited me to his family's barbecue. I
was excited because this would be the first time I
would meet his family. We go to his parents house
and he introduced me to his siblings and his step mom.
Then we headed to the backyard to meet his dad,
who was busy on the grill. His daddy turned around
and I was shook. Turns out that his daddy is
(00:46):
my ex sugar daddy. His father and I messed around
for six months, and I broke it off because I
started to have real feelings for him. And let me
tell you why, Shirley. He was the best at it.
He was the best at what he did, the best
I've ever had. I couldn't believe that I was at
(01:07):
his house with his son. After a very awkward pause,
his dad shook my hand and said it was nice
to meet me. I quickly turned to go back into
the house and my boyfriend followed me. I don't think
my boyfriend noticed how awkward we were the rest of
the night. Now, I feel like my boyfriend should know everything,
(01:27):
but I don't want to cause any family problems. Should
I just keep my mouth shut. Even though my boyfriend
does not measure up to his dad, I don't want
to lose him. Please help. Wow, I just gotta ask you,
you know what, what are your plans are? Are you
(01:48):
and his son planning a future together? I mean, you
just said you just started dating this guy, so I
can't imagine you know, you really in your mind knowing
where this is going to go in the future. But
having said all that, I I just don't think this
is a good look for you. I really don't, because
you know it's going to come out at some point.
You couldn't even hold it together that night, you were
(02:09):
being awkward. I'm sure his dad is going to be
this is going to come out. It's not gonna be
a good look for you being in this relationship with
the son of your ex lover. So you know you
did the dad You broke it off because it was
good and the best. You're you're always going to compare
them from here on out. Now, I don't think you're
gonna be able to hold it together. I don't think
(02:30):
it's gonna be a good relationship. That's always going to
be looming in the back of your mind. If it
comes out, it's gonna be on his son's mind. Uh,
you know, if you guys are planning some kind of
future together. I just I think you need to break
this off and just move on to a different situation
with different people, period. Steve. Yeah, yeah, this is a
(02:54):
full blown situation. This is a problem girl, girl girl.
First of all, you meet this boy eight years old,
he younged, he ain't at maximum capacity yet, he's yet
learned all that he's going to know. I think we
(03:15):
would agree. Let your church say, man, at twenty eight,
you are underdeveloped when it comes to life experience, know how,
and especially when it comes to the ability to pleasure.
Now we want to take this off from a different angle.
(03:43):
Appreciate Sister Shirley for wonderful rendition of and her a
selection of this Strawberry letter. But let me drive this
hill car because I've driven it before you go and
you meet the mama, the step mama, the siblings, and
(04:04):
all that is going good. But back on that grill
was the g M. That's the grieal master. I happened
to be one of these people. Yeah, I spend much
time in my backyard, and I am also it. I
(04:26):
can relate to the here we go. He turns around,
and I'll be down if his daddy ain't cho farmer
sugar daddy. Now this is when the relationship has too
much in common. Yeah, because right now, what makes this
(04:47):
relationship wrong is y'all got the same daddy m that
church man. Amen. Amen, y'all got the saying daddy. Oh
he his daddy, but he your sugar daddy. Yeah. So
(05:11):
now you meet, he shakes your hand, but oh lord
her mercy. The greatest player move I've ever seen. He
turns to you, what he says, nice to meet you. Ye. Now,
this is the player move because he can't hurt his son,
(05:34):
and he can't let the step mama know that he
didn't had you, so he willing to let bygones be bygones.
Nice to meet you. You broke it off because you
were starting to develop feelings and Why were you developing
these feelings because this man in hill, Lord help Mercy
(05:58):
was bringing it. The walls of Gibraltar have come down.
Your bacon was getting fried, extra Christie. Your cookie was
dumped all the way down in the middle and left
(06:21):
in there soaking. Your oven been up on five honeed,
your ass has been broil This mann has been up
(06:44):
on five hundred. This man was brawling your way. This
the best ship. When they come back, I'm gonna tell
you how good it was and what's going to happen
after all right, we'll have part two of Oh he's
both of y'all's daddy. You need to know that, Yeah,
(07:09):
his daddy, your sugar daddy, and the sugar steal in
your take. All right, we'll have more part two if
Steve's response, come on, let's go with part two of
Today's strawberry Litter. What wait, that's your daddy. She didn't
(07:30):
win the backyard with a new boyfriend introduced to his father.
He turned around and I'll be damned it is her
sugar daddy. Nah, it's some awkward paulse, she says in
the letter. Then she broke it off because the real fact,
she said turns out to his daddy is my ex
(07:51):
sugar daddy. His father and I messed around for six months,
and I broke it off because I started to have
a real feeling film. But he shook your hand and
he said, nice to meet me. I quickly turned to
go back into my house and your boyfriend and father.
Now here's where she talks to talk to Shirley, like,
(08:11):
Sureley know about this. We'll see I'm being turned on
your little girl. And let I started to have a
real feel with him. And let me tell you why, Shirley.
He was the best at what he did. See I
noticed right here. First of all, was I not out
(08:32):
on that grill? You're the girl master? But here I
come back in this letter again, this is he. He
was the best at what he did. She said it
right there. Oh this about me the master, I'm about
(08:55):
that grill. I just relate to this letter. Yeah, turn
it over. Now. He the best of what he did,
the best I've ever had. I know, because once again,
why because he didn't had hu up on five honey,
he'd been brawling this this girl that got bold. And
(09:19):
see what made it so special was the inticity of it,
the knowledge that his daddy had that. As you say
in the letter. Now I feel like my boyfriends, you
know everything, But I don't want to cause any problems.
I got came. Even though my boyfriend does not measure
(09:41):
up to his dad. He can't. He can't measure up
to sugar. He cannot measure up to sugar. He ain't
been here long enough to do the things, know the
things that sugar. No, I don't want to brag sugar.
Put it on, Oh sugar, that boy got your oven
(10:03):
at three fifty. You just regular bacon. You weren't that
doing muffins and cake layers and pastry. You you're doing fish, daddy,
Come on, had it on fire, honey, You in that
Syrian meat, putting the brown on top of the crim
(10:28):
brew leg Here you in hill, you're here putting that
crunchy on the top layer or the yams. That's what
he did with that. He got it in there. When
the door open, everybody gotta step back four feet because
it's just damn honey. There, big daddy, the grill master,
(10:49):
be in that putting that shut in your tank. You
got to break up with this ball because you can't
go over there and look at sugar and then look
over here at junior not junior man. You got junior
mint standing over here and sugar daddy over there. Now
you want the junior min or, You want the sugar
daddy who in here? We'll take a junior mint over
(11:11):
sugar daddy. You could have sugar daddy or sugar babies?
Which one you want? You got diabetes if you being
all that damn expert. And I'm just gonna say this,
you gotta break up. Yeah, well he's doing it's too much.
(11:34):
Let me. Old player killed it. Old player is what
we call old PEP. Can can't sugar old you. I
just said, the old player is straight old p p.
She got broke off some of that old pimp passion.
(11:56):
Oh that's what, and that's what figure it out. The
what the passion. It's a cologne, that's what. That's what
old p Alright, Steve, we gotta move on. You're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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