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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
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Speaker 3 (00:15):
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Speaker 4 (00:38):
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Speaker 5 (00:39):
Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you know you love you.

Speaker 6 (01:10):
You.

Speaker 4 (01:24):
You gotta turn.

Speaker 7 (01:41):
To turn the mouth the turn you probably got to
turn mouth to turn out, turn the way up.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come on, you think.

Speaker 8 (02:02):
I sure will come on to everybody you are listening
to the voice, Come on, dig me now, one and only.
Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man, got a radio show. Do
you understand that? I'm telling you? God been big in
my life. God, God is a gentleman.

Speaker 5 (02:19):
You know.

Speaker 8 (02:20):
I want to I want to point that out to you.
God is an absolute gentleman. He will not come in
unless he's invited. He don't just barge into your life.
He gives us the power of choice.

Speaker 6 (02:37):
You know.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
If you say you got it, I don't need you.
He lets you have it. If you say I need you,
come see about me. He right there. It's just a
real simple thing, man.

Speaker 8 (02:49):
So always say to people this, if you've gotten yourself
into something, and please know I have I.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Man see that.

Speaker 8 (03:01):
That's why I'm so adamant about it. Because I've gotten
myself in some circumstances and positions in my life.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
But I've been, I've been.

Speaker 8 (03:09):
I've had some low moments, man, I've had some moments
where I did not know what to do. I didn't
know what was next, I didn't know how to go
about it. I didn't have no more ideas. I was stuck.
I thought a couple of times, well might not make

(03:31):
it past this one. But then if I don't make
it past it, what's gonna happen? And then I held
on to this little thing that my mother kept talking
to me about. She said, sometimes some when you ain't
got nothing else in you, just hope, she said, just
hope it'll be all right, you know. And what I've
learned in my life is that hope is the beginning

(03:54):
of faith. Hope is just is there a possibility out
there for me? I show hope something happened. See hope
is okay, man, Because like I say, for me, the
way I've lived my life, hope was the beginning of faith.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
It was just the idea.

Speaker 8 (04:15):
It's just the thought that something could change for me,
that something could be a little bit different from me,
that maybe, man, just maybe for some reason. I could
be saved, I could be rescued, things could turn around,
it could hit any other direction. Maybe I could quit

(04:37):
messing up. Maybe somebody will forgive me, Maybe somebody will
just say all right. I don't know, but I can't
count the times I've been in that position. But then
once I hope a little bit, and then I remember.
Also my mother, because she was a Sunday school teacher,
she taught me the most valuable lesson I've ever learned

(04:59):
in my life. Nothing has been greater in my life
than my faith. She taught me to pray. Mama used
to say, when it get real, dog for your son,
prayer changes things. She said, When you seem like you
lost and you can't find your way, stop and pray,

(05:19):
she said, because prayer change is things. You know, when
you get a point in your life when you've done
all you can do and you can't do no more
and you just don't know what to do next, she said, stop, son,
pray and combine that prayer with that hope that you got.
She said, because that hope is the beginning of faith.

Speaker 2 (05:42):
She said.

Speaker 8 (05:43):
If you pray just hoping, she said, to God, come
through for you. That'll give you confidence that he can
do it again. And then after a while, you quit hoping,
she saying, you start believing, she said, And that's when
you're on to something. If you can turn that hope
into belief, that hope into Faith's that's the ability to

(06:13):
believe in something that you can't see.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
But the key though, the faith is you're believing in
something that you can't see. See. Hoping a little bit
different from me now, I'm pretty sure.

Speaker 8 (06:25):
Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot of people
who can explain this thing a lot better than I
can to you, hope is just kind of I don't
know how to I don't know how to say it,
but I'm just telling you, hope is you're just hoping
it work.

Speaker 6 (06:37):
Right.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
You just have a thought in your mind that you know, man.

Speaker 8 (06:42):
Whoever you are, or whoever you are, whatever you are,
to me, God, I show hope something change.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
Hope helps. Man. If you ain't strong enough to have faith,
have hope.

Speaker 8 (06:56):
Hope, and then if you pray with some hope and
God answers your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence,
and after a while that confidence becomes faith. Now the
ain't just hoping, but I'm believing. I'm believing in something

(07:17):
that I cannot see. Faith has been the key to
my entire existence, even when I didn't have any It
was faith, as I look back on it, that has
gotten me here. And not just faith, but my faith. See,

(07:43):
you will only get to where you're going in your
life based on your faith.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
See. A lot of people get the word faith confused,
like what's your faith?

Speaker 8 (07:55):
And then they start going down this whole list of
all these different religions out here.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
But really an essence, man, when.

Speaker 8 (08:03):
I talk to people about faith, I'm talking to you
about your your belief.

Speaker 2 (08:10):
How much do you believe in the unseen? See? Faith
is the core of all that is happening to me today.

Speaker 8 (08:21):
It is the faith that I have in my relationship
with God that enables me to just oftentimes if I
stay on the right course and believe a certain way
and act a certain way, his blessings just poor.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
They just come.

Speaker 8 (08:41):
And it comes in a lot of little ways too.
I've started to notice. See, it ain't just a lot
of people think blessings is money, Nah, man, that ain't it.
It's coverage. It's every time my plane lands safe, It's
every time they predict bad weather and I get up
in the sky and it don't be no bad weather.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
You know this is this is favor. These are blessings
that get poured out to me.

Speaker 8 (09:07):
Somebody call me and offer me something, not money, but
an opportunity.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
See, blessings come a lot of ways.

Speaker 8 (09:17):
But once you tie in to God, Once you tie
in and you start doing the best you can do,
and you start asking for Him to make you a
better person, to help shape and mold you into the
kind of man or person that he wants you to be.
You be amazed what God can do with you. Man,

(09:37):
if you just invite me in and allow him to
be a part of your life. I mean, what you
got to lose out there? Come on, why would you
not change? Why would you not allow God to be
a part of your life? God got some big plans
for you. If he didn't, you wouldn't keep waking up

(09:59):
show Ladies and gentlemen, The time is here, another day,
another opportunity. I can't tell you how glad I am
about it. Man, set up this morning, told God how
grateful I was? You not really want to thank God
for this peace of mind that I have?

Speaker 2 (10:14):
Of late?

Speaker 8 (10:15):
I've just gotten into a just a real realm of peace.
You know, I don't I don't worry about tomorrow. I
stopped doing that I could. Y'all really don't know how
I feel about my past. I really have left it go.
And uh, why the thing like you were about to say,
I give lixt B because I.

Speaker 9 (10:36):
Be wanting to.

Speaker 8 (10:39):
Don't fit into praise and worship, you know that don't
tie in together. I had to catch myself sometimes because
I'll be combined the holy in the hood and it's
always right there next to each other because oh, both
of them start.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
With h O, and so I get on you know,
you know, and so that's all it is. Beyone.

Speaker 8 (10:59):
I'm grateful man, Ladies, gentlemen, Steve A Morning Show, Shelly Strawberry,
Colin Frail, Junior, Mississippi Monica, No Monica, and then Mississippi
Junior ladies first and the legendary is nephew.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
Tell me junior. You're looking a little squinty eyed this.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
You must did you read my text?

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Did you see that?

Speaker 6 (11:17):
No?

Speaker 2 (11:17):
That's okay. You want to you you want to do
that on that? No, no, do it on that. I
just want to let you know, just just I will
respond on the A if you won't.

Speaker 4 (11:26):
The air.

Speaker 8 (11:27):
No, No, I mean it wasn't nothing, he said in
a text. I but I knew that was gonna lead
into the destruction.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
No, I just got a question. What stow did you
buy your peace of mind?

Speaker 6 (11:40):
That?

Speaker 2 (11:40):
Because I need to go visit that one today? Is
it at a store? Junior? You're not gonna have peace
of mind? Let's just come to I thought.

Speaker 8 (11:49):
Because you're not willing to listen to the rules of marriage.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
I don't know why you keep trying to change them. Yeah,
I just got married. You're not finna change this. You
you in two years? What I just asked you? No, No,
quit asking about peace of mind. You ain't finna get none. Well, Tommy,
do you have I got?

Speaker 6 (12:11):
Wait? Tell me?

Speaker 10 (12:13):
You need to finding else to stay. Are already see this?
I don't have time to play with this kind of stuff.
You need to find somewhere to stay though. Start looking,
Start looking for some apartment or something.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
Start looking.

Speaker 11 (12:31):
This.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
You have seen this movie before time. I haven't seen this.
I've seen the outcome. I know how it go this one.

Speaker 10 (12:37):
You start looking for a nice little place that's gonna
hand you together for another year. Man, get you start
looking at your little couch or something, little futon or something.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
Get you get yourself together, man.

Speaker 12 (12:47):
Listen to them.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
I just don't gonna be alright.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
What can't be wrong? I told you, I told you,
I asked you yesterday. Can it go right?

Speaker 5 (12:58):
This good?

Speaker 2 (12:59):
For this loan? Y'all said, yeah, just keep even kill
I did, I'll even kill. That's going for hours. I mean, yeah,
it's going on twenty four hours. I asked him. In
twenty four hours.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
Yeah, in the world. No, no, And it's just minimal stuff.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
It's minimal. Ain't nothing made minimal.

Speaker 10 (13:17):
I just know it's just you know, well, lead him,
lead them minimal stuff alone while we were concerned.

Speaker 12 (13:23):
Go hard with the major stuff.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
Come he Kate, tell which one is? What y'all? Y'all instead, Yeah,
another kind of problem.

Speaker 7 (13:35):
We gotta go at thirty two minutes after the hour,
we'll hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back.
Right after this you're listening morning show, It is time
now for the nephew to run that prank back. Nephew,
what you got for us?

Speaker 4 (13:51):
Huh? What you heard?

Speaker 6 (13:53):
What? What? What? What?

Speaker 2 (13:55):
Come on on this great getting up on and we
running that prank back, Shirley. That's right.

Speaker 10 (13:59):
Here is doctor Petrick. I need some help, Doctor Patrick.
I need some help, cat Dog.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
If you would.

Speaker 5 (14:10):
Hello, I'm trying to reach doctor Petrie. Please.

Speaker 13 (14:14):
This is doctor Petrie, Doctor Petrick.

Speaker 5 (14:17):
My name is Jared Jared, and I was hoping you
could help me out. Would have would with a problem
that I have?

Speaker 13 (14:23):
Okay, hello Jared, I would love to help you out
with a problem. Unfortunately, the doctor Petri right, I am,
but this is my personal number? How did you get
this number?

Speaker 5 (14:33):
If somebody gave me this number so I could call
you and and and and try to get some counseling
from you, because I gotta I mean, I'm I'm, I'm
I'm I'm really in a bad situation right now.

Speaker 13 (14:43):
Okay, I can I can recognize that that you're in
a bad situation. But how did you get my number?
This is my personal line? Who gave you my number?

Speaker 5 (14:52):
Are you?

Speaker 6 (14:52):
You?

Speaker 5 (14:52):
You the doctor? You the counselor to help people with
with with with with situations and problems and stuff, right, yes,
I am?

Speaker 13 (15:00):
What can I do for you? Jared?

Speaker 6 (15:01):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (15:02):
I got a problem that just seemed like I'm just
you know, I've been married to my wife for six years.

Speaker 13 (15:08):
Okay, wait, wait, wait, Jared, Now this what you're what
you're about to get into. You're about to you want
to go into a counseling session, and so in order
to do that, I do that through making an appointment.

Speaker 5 (15:19):
I understand all of that, but you you you don't
understand I'm trying to. What I'm trying to tell you
is that I got to situate and I know it's
gonna happen again the night because it's been having it
all the time. I'm just I just need some if
you could just give me a little bit of help,
and then I'll come in next week. But I mean,
I just need you to tell me how to handle
my problem and then I'll come in next week. I

(15:40):
just I just I need this bad.

Speaker 13 (15:42):
Right now, Jarrett, Jared, Jared, I need you to focus. Okay.
I don't do this over the phone, however, it sounds
to me like I need you.

Speaker 5 (15:50):
Can you can you be that for me? Just for
who I'm here right now, for calling you and disrupting
your weekend, But can you help me out?

Speaker 13 (15:59):
I don't calling that. I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 5 (16:01):
Hello him back Hello, I'm here, Jared here, doctor Patrick.

Speaker 13 (16:07):
I'm here. Tell me, tell me what's going on. Jared.
I'm here to listen to you.

Speaker 5 (16:11):
Okay, listen. I've been I've been married to my wife
for like six years now, and and I don't know
what it is. But whenever, whenever we intimate, you know,
I get scared. And I'm going to the closet and
I got a TV in there and I watched old
TV shows because I'm scared. I'm scared of the intimacy

(16:31):
between me and her.

Speaker 13 (16:33):
Okay, Jared, this this sounds like a particular case, and
it's different from anything that I've experienced thus far. And
I want to make sure that I address your.

Speaker 5 (16:43):
Mind up in the big league. Get not turn it
back lonely. We live you at need baby. There ain't
nothing wrong with that because we're moving on now.

Speaker 13 (16:54):
Okay, Jared. Focus, You called me and you need.

Speaker 5 (16:58):
I I'll be going. I'll be going through it to
be part of me.

Speaker 13 (17:01):
Okay, Jared. What I need to do is I need
to make sure.

Speaker 5 (17:05):
Three o'clock, four o'clock Rock, five, six, seven o'clock, eight
o'clock Rock, eleven o'clock Rock. We're going to rock, rock
the clock tonight when the cock right through wind, the
bands all download, cut.

Speaker 13 (17:25):
Breeze, breathe. Oh how did you get my number? How
did you get my personal number?

Speaker 5 (17:31):
They gave me your number and said you you would
be the one that would that would that would that
would that would take care of me.

Speaker 13 (17:39):
I'm here, okay, let's take a differ.

Speaker 5 (17:41):
And you knew where you were then girls were girls
and men women wishing we could use a man like
everybody Hugh. But right again, we're just up together.

Speaker 13 (17:52):
I want to help you. I want to help you,
and I want to help your situation. I want to
help you with your wife. But you you called me,
and if you look, you for a lifeline for an anchor.
I'm trying to be that.

Speaker 5 (18:03):
I mean to help me. I knew he did help
me with my life, because see, I know my wife
is gonna leave me if I know quit doing this.

Speaker 13 (18:12):
There's this story of a lovely lady Jaredirl. Jared, My
technique is a little bit different and maybe a little unorthodox.

Speaker 5 (18:23):
If not I gotta feel less crul, the mintal would
be lost, the mood would be lost, the minery.

Speaker 13 (18:32):
Look here, look here, I.

Speaker 5 (18:35):
Jared, I need you to help me.

Speaker 13 (18:37):
I need to get you into my office. I need
to schedule an appointment with you. You need to erase
my personal number from yourself.

Speaker 5 (18:42):
Because everybody knows your name.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
Jared.

Speaker 13 (18:46):
Ocus. Focus, Focus, Jared Focus. There's a lot more going
on here for one making I got of fun now with.

Speaker 5 (18:54):
Me and all the game learning from each other while
we do our.

Speaker 13 (18:59):
Say a good time, Jared, My patience is said up.
I have no more patience with you now. I need
you to fakefuckers and get it together. Why did you
call me? Why did you? How did you get my number?

Speaker 5 (19:17):
You hollering at me? Why you supposed to be a doctor.
You're supposed to be a doctor.

Speaker 14 (19:21):
I am a doctor.

Speaker 13 (19:23):
Don't question my credentials. Young man, you called me. I
want to help you, but this has gone on too far.

Speaker 5 (19:29):
This is Tommy gave me your number to Steve. You know,
don't you? Now?

Speaker 13 (19:36):
Look, I want to help you, but you are not
allowing me to do so. So who is Tommy? Who
is Stephen? And how did you get my number?

Speaker 5 (19:45):
On the radio?

Speaker 6 (19:48):
On the.

Speaker 13 (19:49):
Steven on the radio.

Speaker 5 (19:52):
As in.

Speaker 13 (19:55):
The radio, as in Tommy, Matthew, Tommy, you know you
didn't go Oh, my.

Speaker 5 (20:08):
God, do you have a colleague named Charles?

Speaker 13 (20:13):
You know what I'm gonna ki ooh, look that I
can't believe Charlie did this to me?

Speaker 5 (20:19):
My god, do you know what time of war US?

Speaker 13 (20:22):
You got a warn You got me flustered.

Speaker 5 (20:24):
I was recording you. You know that. I gotta ask
you something though. What is the baddest and I mean
the baddest radio show in the land.

Speaker 13 (20:35):
That's Steve have been learning?

Speaker 5 (20:38):
Baby?

Speaker 13 (20:39):
My goodness, Wow, huh what what?

Speaker 2 (20:44):
I don't know. Nobody else got stupid old lock like this.
I don't know nobody got it locked down me.

Speaker 12 (20:50):
You're the king there you go, all right, nephew, thank you.

Speaker 7 (20:55):
Coming up next to this, ask the CLO our chief
Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 9 (21:00):
You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (21:03):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 7 (21:04):
In entertainment News, Carla has Today's music News plus R
and B. Singer Omarian opens up about his celibacy journey,
and Beyonce launches a whiskey line with Moay Hennessy. And
we'll talk about all of these stories at the top
of the hour, but right now it is time to
ask the CLO. This is from Shannon and Athens. Shannon says,

(21:26):
I'm so torn about breaking up with my man. I
know I shouldn't leave him when he's down, but he's
broke and I don't do broke. He made a bad
investment and lost his savings after he said himself that
it looked shady. Now he's depressed and leaning heavily on me.
I don't think we should get married. Do you agree?

Speaker 6 (21:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (21:47):
I agree one hundred percent.

Speaker 8 (21:49):
You already fitting to leave and you ain't married, so
why would you get married and you trying to leave
before you married?

Speaker 2 (21:59):
You don't even understand the wedding vows.

Speaker 8 (22:03):
You've already you y'all in violation, you know, for richer
off of poor. You are just said you don't do broke.
So now your man can't ever fall on hard time,
which is why there are some women like you, sister,
who wrote this letter, who gonna be by yourself forever.

(22:23):
You don't want to stand by a man that's on
the come up and the hustle.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Everybody wants a rich.

Speaker 8 (22:31):
Man, Well get in line, because that line is long,
Or should you find a good man that has come
up potential? Get in there and support and build something together.
But naw, you don't want to do that because you
don't do broke. Well, I'm sorry, most men, we don't
do shady, we don't do disloyalty. We don't do one

(22:56):
fit in, one foot out. So go on about your business.
Leave this man alone, for you wreck his life because
that you don't have the qualities. I'm just being real.
You don't have the quality. Just be nobody wife. You
don't because if you ain't gonna stand by your man
through thick or thin, because when you get married, it's

(23:16):
gonna be thick and thin. This ain't just finna be thick.
You don't get married and it just be thick. Dog,
you don't get married and it all go good?

Speaker 2 (23:29):
What true?

Speaker 4 (23:32):
Man?

Speaker 2 (23:32):
Every marriage hit them financial pockets and stuff. You don't.

Speaker 4 (23:36):
You don't do that.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
So just go on bout your business.

Speaker 8 (23:40):
Need that man alone because you don't have qualities to
be in a committed relationship with no man.

Speaker 2 (23:49):
You really don't. You really really don't.

Speaker 12 (23:52):
Okay, Moving on to Carlos in Houston.

Speaker 7 (23:55):
Carlos says, I have an old school car and I
let my son take it on campus to stunt. He
brought it back with a stain on the front seat
and the floor mat I made him give me two
hundred dollars to get it cleaned, and my wife got
mad when I took his money.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
Did I do the right thing?

Speaker 8 (24:10):
Yeah, because it's called responsibility. Things happened, you know, when
you damage stuff, somebody got to get it fixed. See
that you went up there to stunt. Now you're stunting.
You nestain the man's car. It's two hundred dollars. You
took his money.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
He took your car. See, and you don't get to
drive it no more. You don't get to drive it
no more. That's it. But ladies, But ladies. I'm not
coming down on ladies today. But let me say so.

Speaker 8 (24:40):
If you got a man that you married, you obviously
married him because you like some qualities about him. If
he's trying to impart these qualities on y'all's boy, please
allow him to do so. Because I have news for you.
You have no idea how to turn this boy into
a man. Calls you ain't a man. I have no

(25:04):
idea how to turn a little girl into a woman
because I have no idea. So now that there is
a difference between the two, let the man do his
job in raising a responsible, accountable young man.

Speaker 2 (25:22):
It get out the way. He shouldn't have took his money.
He took his daddy car.

Speaker 12 (25:27):
And it teaches him a lesson.

Speaker 7 (25:29):
Yeah, responsibility, all right, Okay, Moving on to and New Rochelle,
Delenda writes, I married a man. I met a married
man on social media and he DMed me to see
if my husband and I were into swinging my husband's down.

(25:50):
But I'm skeptical because I don't really know them. Should
we meet them out first to see if they're a
cool couple?

Speaker 2 (25:57):
Over that? Should it start over some starting?

Speaker 5 (26:00):
You miss that?

Speaker 7 (26:01):
Okay, one more time? DeLanda and New Rochelle says, I
met him. I met a married man on social media
and he DMed me to see if my husband and
I were into swinging my husband's down.

Speaker 12 (26:15):
But I'm skeptical because I don't really know them. Should
we meet them out first to see if they're a
cool couple?

Speaker 8 (26:23):
Oh no, no, no, don't go out and meet them first.
Just go to the swinging spot immediately. It's just go
on in cold Turkey. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, he ain't
no need of meeting them, ain't no need of meeting them.
Go down there, cold Turkey, go to Don't Sight Unseen.
They got TV shows on nothing. Now love at first sight?

(26:44):
You know blind, love is blind? You know they got
all that. Now gone down there, go down there with
them other two fat ass ugly people just.

Speaker 2 (26:55):
Sitting up in that room. Do you walk here and
they already nicked? What's that?

Speaker 9 (27:01):
Hey?

Speaker 2 (27:02):
You walk in the room, they already nigga? You don't
know who?

Speaker 12 (27:11):
Oh right, Wow, that's something.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
All right?

Speaker 12 (27:18):
Moving on, last one, last one. This is from Faith
and Gary.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
Faith Rights.

Speaker 12 (27:24):
I modeled some cheap clothes.

Speaker 7 (27:26):
For a boutique and the owner did not pay me,
but she posted my pictures. I wore one of the
outfits Saturday because, as far as I'm concerned, these are
my clothes.

Speaker 12 (27:35):
Now, she said, it doesn't work like that.

Speaker 9 (27:38):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 8 (27:42):
You took some pictures. She didn't pay you for taking
the pictures. I don't know what the agreement was, but
you obviously had one. She didn't pay you.

Speaker 2 (27:53):
So now you decided to wear outfit Saturday night because
as far as you concerned, they yours. She said, don't
work like that. Well, in her mind, it don't work
like that.

Speaker 8 (28:08):
In your mind, it do work like then, did you
also tell her that when you took the pictures and
you were supposed to get your check and she didn't
give it to you, that that don't work like that either, Right,
So we got two women in here that don't do.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Nothing at work like that.

Speaker 12 (28:26):
Miscommunication.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
So I really don't know what to tell you, just
I really do. You ain't got your money, but you
got them dresses. Now what she gonna do?

Speaker 14 (28:38):
Ye?

Speaker 6 (28:42):
Sorry?

Speaker 12 (28:43):
All right, that's it. That's the last one, Steve.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
Yeah, I do want to go.

Speaker 7 (28:49):
Back to Linda and new Rochelle when she yes, should
we meet them out first to see if they're you.

Speaker 8 (28:56):
Ain't gotta go going down now, I told you no,
you don't need no premid go in that call Turkey.

Speaker 2 (29:02):
Just walk into the spot and see.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
What you got.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
Yeah, since your husband down.

Speaker 8 (29:09):
Matter of fact, y'all walk in and stripping everybody off
for y'all meet each other.

Speaker 2 (29:13):
Neckd I'm Davy, you are on your take your shirt off,
all right?

Speaker 12 (29:20):
See, thank you.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
Celo.

Speaker 12 (29:22):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
Right after this.

Speaker 9 (29:27):
You're listening hard morning show.

Speaker 12 (29:32):
Well, guys, Carla is here with today's music News.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
What you got for us, Carla, Well, we were talking
about this off air. Let's talk about it on the air.
The d n C is like a party for Kendrick Lamar.
They played They Not Like Us for California's Role Call
along with California Love Little John.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
He popped out and surprised. Georgia turned down for but.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
I Come on DNC plus. Shout out to Georgia.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
Georgia was fired.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
Yep, yep, yep.

Speaker 3 (30:06):
Shout out to Patty LaBelle. She performed Chicago's on Common.
Anthony Hamilton was there, so again, shout out to the
DNZ making the convention like a party. It's a celebration. Also,
ladies get ready. Maxwell is set to perform at NPR's
Tiny Desk Concert Oh Love Tiny Desk Concert Series. Maxwell's

(30:32):
gonna perform Yeah, this Saturday, August twenty third, So check
it out. Maxwell also did a remake of Simply Beautiful
Steve by Al Green.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
You know how much you love that song? Who did
a remake?

Speaker 1 (30:45):
Maxwell?

Speaker 3 (30:45):
He did a remake of and we are currently playing
it right here on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
Maxwell, you did that, So that's music news real quick.
You all up to date, There.

Speaker 7 (30:55):
You go, Shirley Girl, all right, Carolin, thank you, and
other entertainment news is R and B singer Omarion recently
discussed his celibacy journey on a podcast, Take a Listen
This World.

Speaker 15 (31:07):
Being a sex symbol. In hindsight, it was preparing me
for my contribution to music. I just found myself in
that position of wanting to understand my energy, give myself
time to grow. I knew that if I could control
two areas of my life, which is food and the
urge of sex, then nothing can stop me.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
And they had come to.

Speaker 15 (31:27):
Find out that Lenny Kravitz has been celibated for however long.

Speaker 8 (31:31):
I'm like, wow, yeah, y'all don't know none of this
here and just Mario, you know, being a sex symbol
and everything. I figured, if I could control my urge
for food and for sex, I'd be wild. I'm sixty
seven and it can't control it.

Speaker 2 (31:47):
So now I don't know. But I ain't even never
been not to No, I can't either.

Speaker 6 (31:51):
One.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
I have to eat. Yeah, I tried that, even her
time went hung trying to be in a vegetarian. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (32:03):
Now, of course I'm myry aunt. I ain't never been
no sex symbol or nothing like that. So you know,
I ain't never had to control my sex. I just
wasn't getting none, that's all she said. No, I had
to shut my ass over there and sit down, you know, yeah,
you know, and.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Can't get some neat.

Speaker 8 (32:20):
I don't you know when people having all these deep
ass moments on these podcasts. These podcasts, man, they need
to stop this here because people just on there making
all types of I found out Lenny Kravitz was celebrated.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
I went, wow, how long you think we all? Long time?
Lenny Kravits y'all y'all gone somewhere?

Speaker 1 (32:40):
What y'all talking about?

Speaker 7 (32:42):
What are you saying?

Speaker 2 (32:43):
What do you say?

Speaker 12 (32:43):
You don't believe it? It's not possible. What are you saying?

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Ain't no man doing he, ain't no priests, ain't no
man doing that.

Speaker 8 (32:53):
What are y'all talking about? What are y'all talking about?
I got a lot of friends I know people that
all y'all.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
Do you know Lenny Kravitz?

Speaker 2 (33:04):
I know Lenny Kravitz took a picture? What have been passed?
Last year? I love a brother. He ain't said nothing
to me boud it and he don't say nothing to
you about that. Well, let me tell you something. The
reaction that I saw we was in.

Speaker 8 (33:18):
The YSL store together, we was in YL. The reaction
of the women I saw And he's celibate. They don't
know it. He's very I'm just telling you right now now.
And you know he ain't been listen to y'all talking
about can have been celibate for years?

Speaker 6 (33:35):
For what?

Speaker 8 (33:35):
Ye Listen, everybody can do that for a short period
of time. Ain't been no years, ain't nobody. Ain't no
man did that for years? Y'all stopped. He said, ain't
no man did that for years. Y'all need to stop
this hill. I'm not gonna sit on missionship and allowed this. No,
I ain't got his number. Oh, we ain't finish when

(33:58):
we finished do all that. I'm just telling you right,
ain't no man fin to do all that for what?

Speaker 4 (34:04):
Why?

Speaker 6 (34:05):
What he do? What do it?

Speaker 11 (34:07):
Do?

Speaker 3 (34:08):
It clears your head like if you're going to wait, wait, yeah,
mental clarity, self disciplined.

Speaker 2 (34:17):
Okay, So let me ask you so after you get
that mental clarity, now what mind clear?

Speaker 7 (34:26):
No?

Speaker 15 (34:27):
What now?

Speaker 2 (34:27):
Your mind clear?

Speaker 4 (34:29):
Now?

Speaker 2 (34:29):
What help me?

Speaker 8 (34:32):
Y'all sitting up in here telling me about all these
men that's been celibate for years, and I'm telling you ain't.

Speaker 2 (34:37):
No, man, I know it's find to be celibate for
years lest he's sick.

Speaker 12 (34:45):
And when you when you hung out with Lenny Kravitz,
he didn't mention any of this to you.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
He said a damn thing to me. Shirt was unbuttoned
down to his navel. I'm talking. What is y'all talking about?
If you celibate, button your shirt.

Speaker 12 (35:01):
Up, you're just to tease at that point, nipple.

Speaker 8 (35:06):
Showing and everything. I'm sitting If you're gonna Lenny looks
sexy to me, I'm sitting it. Old woman hollering this stuff.
I'm going, Oh the boy sexy him tight ass pasts
home belt buckles showing he can look down see his
belt buckle.

Speaker 12 (35:21):
Did you see did you see him working out in
his leather pants at the gym?

Speaker 5 (35:25):
Huh?

Speaker 2 (35:26):
He always wears his leather pants. Lenny, if you celebrate,
what is you working out for? What do you say?
Some crazy fool you getting fit? Fall see y'all not young? No, No,
I'm not seeing I'm nothing. Marie Ann talking about I

(35:48):
heard Lenny crowd. I went, wow, you.

Speaker 8 (35:50):
Ain't Lenny, you ain't Lenny. Y'all don't even know where
Lenny live. Lenny cried, Lenny got all kind of stuff
going on right here.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
I'm all right years wow.

Speaker 7 (36:03):
Coming up in twenty minutes after be our Vice President
Kamala Harris will formally accept the Democratic Party's nomination for
president tonight.

Speaker 12 (36:10):
We'll talk about it right after this.

Speaker 9 (36:13):
You're listening, Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (36:16):
Vice President Kamala Harris will formally accept the Democratic Party's
nomination for president tonight in Chicago.

Speaker 12 (36:23):
At the DNC.

Speaker 7 (36:24):
This past Tuesday night, we all saw former President Obama's
speech as he returned to the convention stage twenty years
after making his first appearance at the DNC in Boston
back in twenty four and that propelled him into the
national spotlight ahead of his successful two thousand and eight
presidential run. Both President Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama

(36:46):
told us why VP Harris and Governor Waltz are ready
and what the Democrats need to do for the next
two months before election day. Vice President Harris will speak tonight,
and she's hoping to win over young people, voters of color,
working class whites, suburban voters, and anti Trump Republicans.

Speaker 12 (37:05):
That's her mission. That's because.

Speaker 10 (37:12):
If you was on the fence, you should have made
up your mind the other night. It should have been
to be real clear.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
Yeah, I miss I missed those speeches. I didn't get
to see.

Speaker 12 (37:21):
And her husband of VP.

Speaker 7 (37:23):
Harris's husband gave an impassioned speech too about how they met,
how they fell in love. It was very enlightening because
I've never heard him speak like that. He gave up
his career, all of that, you know, he's teaching now.
He gave up his law career, very successful lawyer to
be with her and support her.

Speaker 12 (37:42):
I mean, just a real cool love story.

Speaker 7 (37:45):
And then Michelle Obama hit the stagebe Lord Mercy talking about.

Speaker 3 (37:51):
The presidency being a black job. Go first lady, Yes,
forever first Lady.

Speaker 12 (37:58):
It was awesome, It was so good.

Speaker 3 (38:01):
Former President Obama talked about Trump's weird obsession crowd outside, crowdsize,
and she said, what's up with that?

Speaker 2 (38:10):
He was really really good. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
The DNC is just full of energy. It reflects America.

Speaker 3 (38:16):
It's a party theirs, it's the verse exactly.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
They're celebrating freedom.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
I'm ready to hear her speech tonight.

Speaker 9 (38:24):
Love and enjoy yeah, yeah, it was really really good.

Speaker 12 (38:28):
Excellent, excellent, excellence. Yeah, staying away for her speech tonight.

Speaker 8 (38:33):
Say, I was you'd wait on me to fill in,
but Shirley was talking. Oh okay, you know, cut off.
You don't know, it's a Steve Harvey Morning show. But
I try to let somebody else talk, especially Shirley when
Shirley want to talk, because you know, when you're talking
about this election, you're talking about black votes and everything.

Speaker 2 (38:53):
You gotta let the bullgy people population talk.

Speaker 6 (38:57):
You know.

Speaker 2 (38:57):
It can't just leave me and Tommy, you know, yeah.

Speaker 6 (39:02):
You know me me.

Speaker 8 (39:03):
You you gotta hear from busy black because some dud
ones out there now ye are called I'm gonna take you.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Up, man.

Speaker 8 (39:09):
I like I like bougee ass black people because it
just reminds me how not to act.

Speaker 2 (39:14):
I'll get around. Come on, wonderful. I love this caveats.
The only thing I eat this caveat.

Speaker 8 (39:22):
You remember when of that little podunk food that worked
for us come talking about I can't I can't live
without caviare whole black ass up? You said the same
thing about that spam saying, which we do outside from the.

Speaker 7 (39:34):
Porch, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
we'll check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine.

Speaker 3 (39:40):
Steve.

Speaker 7 (39:41):
Right after this, you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It
is time now to check your voicemail Steve eight seven
seven twenty nine.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
Steve.

Speaker 7 (39:50):
Call us if you'd like to leave a message for
Steve in the morning crew, and you might just hear
your call on the air. This one is from Erica
in Detroit time.

Speaker 14 (39:58):
My name is I can call it from Detroit and
I was just listening to the Project twenty five and
I just want to let everyone know every black person
have a minority. If you let him get in an office,
we are.

Speaker 8 (40:11):
Doing okay, spoke yet, hey, and I appreciate you Erica
for putting your name out there. Thank you very much.
That's very brave. Most people call it make a statement.
Don't want to lead?

Speaker 2 (40:24):
Ain't there?

Speaker 8 (40:25):
Erica say, if you black, a person coloring, you let
Trump in, We do them. They don't understand the seriousness
of this Project twenty twenty five.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
And Trump?

Speaker 8 (40:33):
Has Trump been on the private jet with the boy
that wrote that thing? You trying to act like he
don't know him. He know exactly what they did. Trump
is for anybody that's for him, red boot skinheads, clan,
malicious white supremacy, anybody, anybody that's for him.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
He with them. Know that that's a narcissist. If you
like me, I like you. That's all it is.

Speaker 8 (41:01):
And it don't matter what they stand for. That that's
his base, and his basis full of that. It's just
a sad.

Speaker 2 (41:08):
Statement, man, that we're anywhere. Go ahead, if you got
an shure, yeah I do.

Speaker 12 (41:11):
This is from Marlin who left a message about voting.

Speaker 6 (41:15):
Yes, good morning. It's to Steve Harvey. My name is
Marlin or Brother. I love you, man, I love what
you're doing, so I want to keep your grief as
you stated. So my point of conversation is based on election,
the DNC and us moving forward and use the strategy. Brother.
I love you for the way you're utilizing your platform

(41:39):
and I mind that. But since this is brief, one point,
we need to have a point of dogs at colleges
recruiting young people to get those first time voters redynacy.
We need to have a Tennessee poles for allow this

(42:01):
system to still the next thing by systematically setting down poles.
So we need to have places set up whereas they
can vote, and we need to have buses to bust
those who are unable to make those polders. And lastly,
in not least that keep doing what you're doing, doing

(42:23):
a very job, great job. I love you man, because
you liking the platform your God's sends. God has blessed
you to be able to do what you do, and
I know it is God's said because of the fact
that you always for to seek God in things that
you do. And then I'm so proud of you, my flom,

(42:44):
keep going doing the great work. Because again my name
is Martel Cod and thank you so much, my brother,
love your man.

Speaker 8 (42:51):
All right, thank you, moll enough, let me get all
this out firston thank you brother. I appreciate everything you
said well taking well received message God love and respect
for you to Thank you so much.

Speaker 2 (43:03):
We will adhere to that. And I'm a part of
the Divine Nine.

Speaker 8 (43:08):
So there's a huge movement in the fraternity sorority thing
to get that young vote out. They are working feverishly
to register voters. All of them are working, not just Aks,
all of them, Zata, Sigma, Game Rolls, Deltas, all of them,
Q sigmas, kappas, alphas, eyotas, everybody working to get the

(43:31):
vote out.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
And so I won't say thank you for that now.

Speaker 8 (43:34):
On a personal note, Melvin, I don't know what you
do for a living, but if you ever come up
short of cash, I'm gonna put you on a one
nine hundred number because I was just looking at the
faces of these three women on their zooms. If you
had their undivided attention. I want to thank you, dog,
because you was a day have got they fans out.
It's all kinds of stuff going up. Mailvin was in

(43:56):
here talking to you to just like hot buter run
down the side. Okay, I got his name, you better
get his name. Hello, wanted this is a morning I
just want you to know. They don't want you to
lay back, close your eyes.

Speaker 2 (44:17):
And moan.

Speaker 8 (44:20):
And listen to this voice right here now. I want
you to take your hand right now, place it. We
will need another three dollars to continue.

Speaker 6 (44:31):
This car.

Speaker 7 (44:33):
Coming up next, and the nephew and today's Frank phone
call right after this.

Speaker 9 (44:39):
You're listening.

Speaker 7 (44:41):
Morning show coming up at the top of the hour,
right about four minutes after It's my strawberry letter for today,
and the subject is everything is a minor inconvenience. We'll
talk about that, get into that, find out what that's
all about in just a few because right now the
nephew is here with today prank phone call.

Speaker 12 (45:01):
Nephew, Well we're going work.

Speaker 10 (45:04):
Oh sure, I got it for you. You know, you know,
everybody gonna have one and if somebody has to plan it.
But this right here is your funeral arrangements. Your funeral arrangements.

Speaker 2 (45:19):
Uh huh. Yeah, a lot of people don't know that.

Speaker 10 (45:22):
You know, these things need to take place, but you
know some people might want to get it taken pare
before they leave here. You know what I'm saying before
they leave, like like I want my I want my
stuff in alle you understand, Like I'm gonna have I
told y'all before I'm gonna have a funeral rehearsal. That's
what I'm gonna have rehearsal because you're not gonna show

(45:43):
up at my funeral.

Speaker 2 (45:44):
And I know we wouldn't that you're not gonna do that.
You're not gonna do that. You be dead. That's why
you have to have a funeral so we know how
it's supposed to go.

Speaker 1 (45:53):
The rehearsal.

Speaker 2 (45:54):
The rehearsal, yes for Carlo.

Speaker 10 (45:56):
While we have rehearsal, I'll be laying there and when
I see somebody come pop up and say, you.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
Know, Dann will we ain't like that?

Speaker 6 (46:02):
Dog?

Speaker 2 (46:03):
Come on dog dog?

Speaker 6 (46:04):
You know?

Speaker 1 (46:04):
Pp up, We're gonna pop out.

Speaker 12 (46:08):
Exactly.

Speaker 10 (46:11):
Put all these calls crying, call that you ain't little
me like that. That's the come on, all right, this
is your funeral arrangement. Let's go care doc.

Speaker 4 (46:24):
Hello, Hello, I'm trying to retall you miss Diana. Please,
she's not in at the moment. I take a message flee.
My name is John John. I'm actually the funeral director
here a funeral home, because Diane came in earlier today
and tried to get the arrangements. First of all, I
want to say my condolences to you all and your

(46:45):
entire family for what you're going through. She filled out
some paperwork here and I wanted to make sure I
got everything actually correct. I'm a little not sure on
what she wants on the actual toombstone. I don't know
what she wants. Rob job or Robert are you are
you one of the members that may be able to
tell me exactly what she would want on? I am

(47:08):
I'm Roberts. What's all about it? She gave me this morning?
What you're talking about?

Speaker 5 (47:13):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (47:14):
Hold on?

Speaker 6 (47:14):
Certain?

Speaker 5 (47:14):
Sorry?

Speaker 4 (47:15):
You you who I am?

Speaker 5 (47:16):
Robert? Rob Robert?

Speaker 14 (47:19):
That's me?

Speaker 5 (47:20):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (47:21):
And is there senior or well Junior.

Speaker 5 (47:26):
Is just a child.

Speaker 4 (47:27):
I'm Robino. That's who I am. Junior is a child
either one of us? Did we're health? Okay? Okay, okay,
okay hang on? Oh my god, all right, I don't okay,
hang on second, sir? Yeah yeah, miss Diane? Ms sir,
Miss Diane is your wife?

Speaker 5 (47:45):
Yeah? That is my wife.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
You sure you got the right dance?

Speaker 2 (47:47):
You sure?

Speaker 6 (47:49):
She came in?

Speaker 4 (47:51):
Uh this morning? Uh maybe five five h what saltn pepper, hair,
shoulder ling, uhb a medium brown complex?

Speaker 13 (48:02):
Mmm?

Speaker 4 (48:04):
What kind of costUS?

Speaker 8 (48:04):
What is having?

Speaker 6 (48:05):
You?

Speaker 4 (48:06):
See the posits and seeing the car something? Uh it
seemed like it was a some type of was it
a camry?

Speaker 5 (48:12):
I think?

Speaker 4 (48:13):
Yeah, that's what I mean.

Speaker 5 (48:16):
What happened?

Speaker 4 (48:16):
Tell me, actually, tell me what happened this moment she
came in and said what to you? She came in
and mister, why why why?

Speaker 5 (48:24):
Why? Why do I call back?

Speaker 4 (48:25):
When Miss Diane is there and we can go call down.
You know, tell me that right now. I need to
know what is going on. You my wife want to
tell me she would have a fuel for me, and
you tell me you would call me. Let me know,
tell me that, sir. All I know is is Miss
Diane came in. The paperwork was a little I was
just coming to reevaluate you know what.

Speaker 6 (48:45):
I what?

Speaker 5 (48:46):
I what?

Speaker 4 (48:46):
I what was written here?

Speaker 5 (48:47):
It wasn't right.

Speaker 4 (48:48):
I mean, she came in, she she picked out the casket,
she did everything that she was supposed to casket casket,
bro bro right. But I don't understand. I don't really
understand what's going on. But I'm gonna find out later on.
I'm gonna fine. I don't understand. I've never been in
a I've never been in a situation like this. Okay,
so we're about to get in the situation. Maybe I

(49:09):
need to call back when this Diane gets there. I said,
I need to talk to you now. She had six o'clock.
Don't worry about that. Where you at anyway? What's your
name again?

Speaker 5 (49:18):
Where you at?

Speaker 4 (49:19):
I'm I'm I'm John, sir, I'm I'm the funeral homes
by Round I'm sorry, y'all. You might be you might
be making some souler raby for her too. I might
need to switch things for her team on there. Okay, sir,
I'm guess what sixt o'clock is. Six o'clock, sir, six o'clock.

Speaker 6 (49:36):
You be there, sir.

Speaker 4 (49:38):
A funeral is a very serious thing, sir. So you're
you're so serious. Bro, Look, my wife is becoming she's
trying to marry me.

Speaker 6 (49:47):
Me.

Speaker 4 (49:47):
I'm Rob wouldn't even be get other people. Robert, it's
it's Rob or Robert, whichever one.

Speaker 5 (49:53):
I mean.

Speaker 4 (49:53):
I don't, I don't. I mean I won't.

Speaker 5 (49:57):
I don't want to.

Speaker 4 (49:57):
I don't, I don't. I don't know even the peas
it you know what I'm saying. We didn't even argue.
We had a little last argument last week by little
light Buil something a little black man. But you canna
having funerals of me? Okay, man, I tell you, let
this up. They got the right now, you got the
right one. I tell you, man, I'm not watch I

(50:18):
have hurt mister. I mean, since I have you on
the phone, is can I ask you?

Speaker 5 (50:25):
What is it all right? If I asked you something?

Speaker 4 (50:27):
Sir, maybe you want to ask me, brother, I mean,
since since it is your funeral, would you would you
like the light blue lining or the white lining in
the inside on the inside. Imbut that you cleaned on
me right now? You now you're trying me. Now, if
I come down there and swing, you won't like it.
They's gonna be two funerals. You ah keep on last.
You're gonna put your own plannet. Man, I'm not here

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brushing my like here twelve hour shift. All I said,
come a little bit lights up around here. It's gonna
keep the bill out. But she wouna say, huh around
here all o dirt, sir, be light so light, so
light a funeral? Come on, man, boy, I swear to God,
just i'na tell you.

Speaker 5 (51:07):
I'm telling Can I can? I? Can? I tell you?
What else?

Speaker 4 (51:09):
Your wife told me when she was here?

Speaker 5 (51:11):
What what else to do? Actually?

Speaker 4 (51:13):
I need to know anywhere I need to know tell
me him. Well, she told me to tell you exactly
who I was. What?

Speaker 6 (51:21):
Who are you?

Speaker 4 (51:22):
I'm sorry? Who are you?

Speaker 6 (51:26):
Who?

Speaker 5 (51:26):
Rape?

Speaker 4 (51:27):
I'm not John? I'm not John from the funeral home.
You bet let me? You better tell me you no
better else not no, no, no, nothing, none of.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
This is it?

Speaker 6 (51:39):
This right here?

Speaker 4 (51:40):
His nephew tim me from the Steve Arby Martin Shelley.
Your wife Diane got me to pray phone call you.
Hello boy, I swear y'all some boy, y'all lit man,

(52:00):
y'all just stop telling people saying, man, man, I.

Speaker 5 (52:03):
Just see you.

Speaker 4 (52:06):
I said, hey man, look, hell bro big better need
a suit man, need eat on that shoes, sock head?

Speaker 5 (52:14):
All right? Man?

Speaker 4 (52:17):
That hey, Let me ask you, mist what is the
baddest radio show in the land. See Harvey Morning Show
and now n.

Speaker 10 (52:32):
Come on, y'all give it to me and tell me
give the drum month son.

Speaker 12 (52:39):
Much play too much, play.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
Way too much.

Speaker 10 (52:42):
I'm gonna I'm gonna play hard though Buffalo, New York.
The nephew come to town. You already know the tickets
on sale. I Am going to play as stupid as
I can. If you tell me your friends it's my
house party comedy jam, you don't want to miss it
at the Shade Performing Arts Center.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
Did you hear me?

Speaker 10 (52:58):
I said the Shade before I'm an on center laying
in the cut.

Speaker 2 (53:01):
Is uh, nephew, tell me Augusta, Georgia.

Speaker 10 (53:05):
It is Friday, September the sixth at the Miller Theater
the Miller Theater, and tickets are on seal red. Now,
what's laying in the cut October twenty sixth. That is Saturday,
October twenty sixth, Lafayette, Louisiana at the Hyman Center. Nephew,
Timy and friends coming your way. Tickets on seal right now,
that's a b MT production them my boys, then my

(53:27):
Texas Boys out of Boumart b MT production. Tickets are
on seal right now, what y'all think about that?

Speaker 2 (53:35):
All right? Okay, all right, if all minds clear.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
I'm not mad at Beaumont and Golden Triangles.

Speaker 12 (53:41):
Good pet now now come all right, right over my
favorite I just like saying Whinnie Whinnie.

Speaker 7 (53:49):
All right, thank you, nep you coming up next. It
is my Strawberry Letter for today, and the subject is
everything is a minor inconvenience everything. We'll get into it
what it's all about. Right after this you're listening to
Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

(54:12):
and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
going to read this one right here, right now.

Speaker 12 (54:23):
And you never know, it could be yours.

Speaker 10 (54:25):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type
We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry letter.

Speaker 7 (54:30):
All right, thank you, nephew. The subject is everything is
a minor inconvenience, Dear Stephen Shirley, Everything is a minor
inconvenience for my husband, and I need to see if
something is going on with him outside of our household.
He used to love doing everything with me. He used
to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up

(54:52):
and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or
night it was. That was our little fun time. He
wanted to have a lot of kids before we got married,
but now he's saying that he doesn't know if we
can afford to start a family. He said that babies
take up a lot of time and are inconvenient most
of the time. That broke my heart, because how can

(55:12):
a child be inconvenient. He's been saying crazy stuff like this,
and I've been taking mental notes. I've asked him to
go look at TV's with me at his favorite electronics store.

Speaker 12 (55:22):
He said he'd already put on this lounge on his
lounging clothes, so my timing was inconvenient for him.

Speaker 7 (55:28):
Same thing with sex. The other night, I mentioned that
we haven't had sex in a week. He said that
I come to bed too late, and it's a minor
inconvenience to get himself in the mood that late. We
never had this problem before. We finally did have sex
two nights ago, and he went to sleep. I woke
him up and asked why he didn't go cook for us,
and he said that we need to get new ways

(55:50):
of doing things because cooking all hours of the night
is inconvenient.

Speaker 12 (55:54):
This is his new thing.

Speaker 7 (55:56):
Everything is a minor inconvenience. Does this include me and
our marriage? I want to ask him, but I'm afraid
of the answer. Seems to me like he's focused on
something outside of our marriage that's more convenient for him.
What's going on, Well, you left the timeline out of
this letter, but it does sound like you might have

(56:17):
something here. You might be onto something. He's no longer
into you. It sounds like he's checked out of this marriage.
He's done everything to show you that he doesn't want
to be with you, he doesn't want to have children
with you, he doesn't want to talk to you, or
he doesn't even he's not even thinking about you. I mean,
everything is an inconvenience, Like he's saying, I hate this

(56:37):
for you, because this sudden change in his behavior, it
has to hurt. But you can't just sit back and
allow him to treat you this way, for you to
become a minor inconvenience to him. You say you don't
want to talk to him because you don't want to
hear the answer, but you've got to face the truth.
You've got to hear it. You've got to face this
fear that you have. You've got to prepare yourself if

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he's cheating or if he wants out. It does sound
like something is going on outside of your marriage. It
might be cheating, that's what it sounds like. He will
probably lie if you confront him about that, but you
need to know what's going on so you can take
care of yourself. And you should be doing that of
course anyway, because no matter what, you don't deserve this
being a minor inconvenience to your husband in this marriage, Steve.

Speaker 8 (57:22):
Whenever something is wrong in a marriage, why is the
go to answer? It sounds like he's cheating, because I don't.
I don't hear cheating in this letter anywhere. She didn't
find no number. He ain't hanging up, He ain't she

(57:42):
ain't changed, He ain't changed his cold, He ain't having
no quiet conversations on the side nowhere. He ain't missing
at night. He don't stay away for hours and come
come home. I don't hear in this letter anywhere. Sounds
like he cheating to me, So ladies help me? Or

(58:03):
I don't want to say Shirley because she's had her
turn with the letter and I don't want her to
interrupt me.

Speaker 2 (58:08):
So just ladies help me slash Shirley. Why is it dad?

Speaker 8 (58:15):
As soon as something is wrong in a marriage, it
sounds like cheating to me. I'll give you an example.
I was watching this young guy on Instagram. I love
this dude. I don't even know his name. He's got
a beard, wireframed glasses, he wear a knit skull cap
all the time. He was had this dude on stage,

(58:36):
and the dude said, women, how many of you all
believe in women's intuition. They all raised their hand. They said, well,
then if y'all's intuition, if y'all can tell when a
man is cheating, yep, yep, they all raise their hand.
He said, Okay, then why can't you tell if he's
not happy? Because this letter could be just a man

(59:00):
that has grown discontent and unhappy with something. And that's
where I think the focus should be, because it don't
sound to me like he's cheating. But let's go through
the letter and see if I feel the same way.
After I analyze the letter. Everything is a minor inconvenience

(59:20):
for my husband. I need to see if there's something
going on with him outside our household.

Speaker 2 (59:27):
He used to love doing everything with me.

Speaker 8 (59:29):
He used to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always
get up and cook breakfast, no matter what time of
day or that way.

Speaker 2 (59:35):
It was our little fun time.

Speaker 8 (59:37):
He wanted to have a lot of kids before we
got married, but now he's saying he don't know if
we can afford to start a family. Okay, now, on
a serious note, you know what that sounds like to me?
Sounds like the reality of what life really is. Is
starting to sit in. See, I've seen a lot of

(59:57):
men lose their dreams lie along the way. You gotta
be careful, ladies, because maybe your man is losing his
dream along the way from disappointments or something. So he
used to look up though everything with me, used to
initiate into me seeing all like this. She wasn't saying,
And surely's right. There's some timeline missing in here. She

(01:00:18):
wasn't saying if this was before they got married, after
they got married, and he wanted to have a lot
of kids before we got married. Now he's saying he
don't know if he can afford to start of him.
He said, the babies take up a lot of time
and on inconvenient most of the time.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
That broke my heart. How can a child be inconvenient? Now,
wait a minute, I'm just gonna tell you something that
is a true statement.

Speaker 12 (01:00:38):
Hang on, see, well, let me.

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
Just put that out there. The ass is very inconvenient.

Speaker 7 (01:00:47):
At twenty three minutes after the hour, today's Strawberry letter
subject is everything.

Speaker 12 (01:00:52):
Is a minor inconvenience. We'll get back into it right
after this.

Speaker 9 (01:00:56):
You're listening Morning show, all right, Come on, Steve.

Speaker 7 (01:01:00):
Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is everything is
a minor inconvenience.

Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
Well, like I said at the top of the show,
you know what I mean. At the top of this letter.
You know, Shirley was saying, it sounds like he's cheating me.

Speaker 8 (01:01:12):
But I want to warn ladies, every time a man
changes or and is unhappy, it doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating.
It could be this man has become despondent, broken a bit.

Speaker 4 (01:01:28):
You know.

Speaker 8 (01:01:28):
He could be, you know, going through some mental stuff.
You know, he got nowhere to channel his stuff. So
I'm just trying to read the letter and see if
that's what I see cheating or do I see something else.
He used to love doing everything with me. He used
to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up
and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or

(01:01:48):
night it was. That was our little fun time.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (01:01:52):
He wanted to have a lot of kids before we
got married. But now he's saying he don't know if
we can afford to start a family. Something could be
going on with this guy in his mindset that's making
him think he ain't got his money and order yet
he ain't accomplishing his dreams yet, he ain't where he
want to be yet. That could be I just want

(01:02:13):
to throw that out there. He said, babies take up
a lot of time on inconvenience most of the time.
That broke my heart, because how can the child be inconvenient.
I'm just gonna say something for him on this one.
Right here, They ass is very inconvenient. I'm just gonna
tell you that right now. They ass is always blocking,
They in the way. I'm just gonna keep it one

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hundred with you. Them babies is an inconvenience. You believe
that he just said it out loud. You just didn't
like the use of the terminology. He's been saying crazy
stuff like this, and I've been taking mental notes. I
asked him to go to look at TV's with me
at his favorite electronics store. He said he'd already put
on his lounge and clothes, so my timing was inconvenient.

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
Okay, that could be true.

Speaker 8 (01:03:00):
But if my wife tell me she gonna cat me
down somewhere to buy me a new car or something
like that, I'm gonna put my damn clothes on. I'm
going ahead and put something on I'm going down to
the damn stoke were going shopping for me. I'm going
down there, person, So I'll put some damn clothes on. Anyway,
same thing with sex. The other night, I mentioned that
we haven't had sex in a week.

Speaker 6 (01:03:22):
A week.

Speaker 8 (01:03:24):
You ain't had sex in a week. Here, y'all doing
up in there, y'all, y'all gotta go. There's on and crackit.
Y'all must be in your twenties, right, Yeah, I can
type this damn letter. Damn there once a month, you know,
and sex in a week, And.

Speaker 2 (01:03:44):
And I had this let out every damn month. That's
what you want. We ain't have sex in a week.

Speaker 8 (01:03:51):
He said that I come to bed too late, and
it's a minor inconvenience to get himself in the mood
that late. Yeah, and now hear it, Nah, this is
the part of the letter that well got love. Yeah,
I can't save you on this one.

Speaker 6 (01:04:08):
Dog.

Speaker 2 (01:04:09):
You know, I was with you with everything else.

Speaker 8 (01:04:12):
But he said it's a minor inconvenience to get himself
in the mood that late. It's an inconvenience to get
in the mood. Now, let me say if I can
put this so I'm not being graphic for morning radio.

Speaker 2 (01:04:26):
You're trying to tell me that.

Speaker 8 (01:04:28):
To get in the mood, I must get excited. You're
telling me that's an inconvenience. Boy, Bye, excite me, do
something to me.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
Watch this.

Speaker 8 (01:04:43):
Matter of fact, I got a surprise for you. You
ain't gonna be how excited. You ain't gonna be how
excited I am. So that was the only one that
threw me. We never had this problem before. We finally
did have sex two nights ago, and he went to sleep.
I woke come up and ask him why he ain't
gonna cook?

Speaker 2 (01:05:01):
For Hell, it's hard to cook when you sleep.

Speaker 8 (01:05:06):
You walk the damn man up and saying, why are
you gonna get cooked? Why don't you cook for because
he sleep? That's what most men do when they get through.
I ain't never got up wood and cooked. I go
to sleep, but he does.

Speaker 2 (01:05:21):
Not no more.

Speaker 8 (01:05:29):
And now he said that he needed to get new
ways of doing things because cooking all hours of night
is inconvenient. This is his new thing. See I think
what didn't happen here? You know how some women change
after they get married. Sometimes dudes change after they get married.
This dude could be going through some male menopause, or

(01:05:51):
he could be going through some male hormonal disorders.

Speaker 2 (01:05:55):
I don't know. I don't have none of that. You know,
he could if he's sick well, but if he's six though,
he But if he's sick though, the cure all for
sickness is sex. So every time I got some bad
news from the doctor.

Speaker 8 (01:06:17):
If you tap me and straighten me out, I'll be fine.
Everything is a mind inconvenience. Does this include me and
our marriage? I want to ask him, but I'm afraid
of the answer. It seems to me like he's focused
on something outside.

Speaker 2 (01:06:32):
Of our marriage. It's more convenient for him. What's going on?

Speaker 8 (01:06:35):
All I think you need to do is ask that
question that you are afraid of, because ain't no need
of you living behind that curtain and the veil of secrecy.

Speaker 2 (01:06:48):
So go on and ask him. It can't get no worse.

Speaker 8 (01:06:52):
If he tell you he got something down the street,
then let him cares ass down the street. But set
his Car'll find all the clumbes.

Speaker 2 (01:07:01):
You ain't got the window, all right.

Speaker 7 (01:07:02):
Poster comings on Today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you Steve and
Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. And check out
the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app for
it never sounded so good. Coming up at forty six
minutes after the our Junior Sports Talk.

Speaker 12 (01:07:17):
Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is
time now for junior and sports talk. What you got junior?

Speaker 11 (01:07:25):
Okay, sure you know yesterday I told you all the
rules for my wife and you know how I wanted
to watch football.

Speaker 1 (01:07:32):
Well, today is pre season, was pre practicing.

Speaker 11 (01:07:35):
So now if you single and you're coming over here,
let me just talk to the single people because you're
gonna have to have some rules as well. First of all,
the price of entry into this house to watch football
is food and beverage. You got to bring one of
the two. You're gonna have to have some to drink,
or you're gonna have to have some food, like pick
up some wings or something, bring some water whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
That's the first way you're getting in here.

Speaker 9 (01:07:56):
Okay, I'm not mad.

Speaker 2 (01:07:57):
R Number two, Well not for ease. Now you're talking
to this to other people. This ain't to your wife, right, No, No,
I'm talking to other people. That's coming.

Speaker 1 (01:08:07):
That's a single pick's clarity.

Speaker 2 (01:08:09):
Yeah, because that's just won't be clear. Bro, you're talking
about get in there and cook some damn chicken wing.

Speaker 1 (01:08:13):
No, no, no, pick up something, bring some food and better.

Speaker 11 (01:08:16):
First thing a true Now number two, there's only one
dedicated restaurant. One yeah, one bathroom. I mean, hey, if
it's five people gotta go stand in line.

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
You do it at the club.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
Hey, you do it anyway.

Speaker 1 (01:08:32):
Just wait your turn.

Speaker 2 (01:08:34):
You you jumping the gun on this junior.

Speaker 1 (01:08:36):
Just all this for preseason, preseason rules. We practicing for
the season.

Speaker 2 (01:08:40):
We gotta pee before we go to his house.

Speaker 1 (01:08:43):
Just yeah, I saw how.

Speaker 2 (01:08:44):
I'm telling you.

Speaker 1 (01:08:45):
It's one dedicated restaurant.

Speaker 2 (01:08:46):
That's all you need to know.

Speaker 11 (01:08:47):
Okay, too, now here, now here we go. Whoever you
start the season with is who you stay with. In
other words, whoever you bring over here, that's your girl
for the rest of the season.

Speaker 1 (01:08:57):
Don't bring no new wind over here. My woman, my
wife gonna have time to learn names.

Speaker 2 (01:09:01):
We're not doing that in here now.

Speaker 11 (01:09:03):
If you with Bronco Betty, stay with Bronco Betty, Bronco. Man,
you with Tennessee Trina, stay with Trines. I'm telling we're
not finna do all these new people over there. My
house is not the hook up house. My wife's single
friends them not for you. You're not You're nothing to
mess my house up. It's already got probably.

Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
We've have no new one.

Speaker 11 (01:09:22):
Now you got you got Cincinnati sending stay with Cincinnati, Cindy.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
For the whole season.

Speaker 2 (01:09:29):
I like to I'd like to see Bronco Betty Anna.

Speaker 11 (01:09:32):
Well, well that's what I'm about to tell you, Tommy,
because we're not gonna talk about it now, make sure
she find an attractive Come tell you right now.

Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
We're not gonna talk about it. We respectful.

Speaker 11 (01:09:41):
We're not gonna talk about it while she's here. We're
gonna wait to y'all leave. Then we're gonna tell you.
Bronco Betty like she could play for the Broncos.

Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
You can see that.

Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
Did you see them back on her?

Speaker 2 (01:09:52):
The back on her.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
Wow, I'm talking about.

Speaker 11 (01:09:57):
Three points stays. She played left tackle, right tackle. Clip
when she sat down.

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
Her knees was in a chance. We saw that. Okay,
just tell me, ain't gonna talk about you in your face.
Just didn't let you know. Now you ain't got the light.
People don't don't come over here with don't do chick.
We don't let you in. You guys stayed with that one.

Speaker 1 (01:10:17):
That's did you see Cincinnati?

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
Sindy's edges Oh my God, missus oh my.

Speaker 12 (01:10:25):
Coming over the top of the hour.

Speaker 9 (01:10:27):
Thank you for her.

Speaker 7 (01:10:28):
A woman on social media needs your advice, Steve. She says,
should we even bother getting married? We'll talk about it
right after this you're listening.

Speaker 9 (01:10:37):
Morning show.

Speaker 1 (01:10:40):
Stee.

Speaker 7 (01:10:40):
This is from Ashley on Facebook. Ashley says, my boyfriend
and I have been together for over ten years and
have two children together. We're totally committed to one another
and have talked about getting married one day, But now
that we're so far along.

Speaker 12 (01:10:54):
In our relationship, I wonder if it's even worth it.

Speaker 7 (01:10:57):
Neither of us are very religious or very conventional, and
we both feel like we don't necessarily need a piece
of paper or title to legitimize legitimize our relationship.

Speaker 12 (01:11:07):
Are we missing anything? Is there any benefit to us
getting married?

Speaker 8 (01:11:12):
Well, the last name of the children is one of
the things I would think of, and I don't want
you to be so selfish that you don't think about
the children, because children, really it's really nice if you
can provide them with the family structure, with the family dynamics.

(01:11:32):
This is your mommy, I'm married to mom. Mom is
married to dad, because that kind of sets an example
of what your children will see. And so, but what
a lot of women do is you all go along
with these We don't need a piece of paper because
you ain't getting no ring anyway, you know. So they
all sit up here and settle for this. We don't

(01:11:55):
seem to need it. Where'd you get that from him?

Speaker 4 (01:11:59):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:11:59):
See? You know, stop stop letting people put in your space.

Speaker 8 (01:12:04):
They little shortcomings and beliefs, and then and then you
gotta adapt to it if you want to be with them. No,
you always wanted to be married since you were a
little girl. Now you have met this man and set
up here and convinced you that you don't need a
piece of paper. It ain't gonna make a difference. Well,
if it ain't gonna make a difference, then let's get.

Speaker 1 (01:12:22):
One right, let's see yeah you know you know?

Speaker 8 (01:12:26):
Or or is it really that he don't want to
do that? See, don't don't get this thing twisted?

Speaker 2 (01:12:33):
Man?

Speaker 8 (01:12:34):
So is there an advantage to being Well, most people
get married get divorced. That's because you're married for the
wrong reasons. You know what I've been trying to explain
to people. Stop looking for a man that's dying to
get you. Find you a man that's willing to die
to keep you. That's what your ass is looking for.
Everybody one, Quit looking for a man that's dying to

(01:12:57):
get you, and find a man that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:59):
Had died you.

Speaker 8 (01:13:00):
Y'all in be looking, y'all ain't going deep enough in
these relationship hunts. You know everybody won't you you fine,
you're cute, you're single. Oh okay, yeah, we dying to
get you. But will he die to keep you?

Speaker 15 (01:13:17):
Man?

Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
You know what my mother in law told told me
one time.

Speaker 8 (01:13:19):
She said, me and Bubba decided that divorce just was
never an option, and it caused us to sit there
and work through some stuff, and you to stay married.

Speaker 2 (01:13:29):
You got to work through some stuff. This ain't easy, man.

Speaker 8 (01:13:34):
I don't care what you see on Instagram. Ain't nobody
got no perfect levee w relationship with just all of it. No,
they at the house going through some things. Believe that
I don't care who they are. You have bishop in
front of your name, a CEO, you can have a billionaire,

(01:13:55):
you all that doctor? You have all I don't care
what you got in your name. You can have a
star your as a stall the sidewalk out there. Trust me,
it's something in that marriage that's the challenge and you
gotta work through it.

Speaker 12 (01:14:09):
Yeah, here's another one.

Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
Steve B.

Speaker 7 (01:14:11):
Says, I've been seeing this woman for about six months,
and I think she's amazing. Because of our work schedules,
we don't get to spend as much time as i'd
like together, but we see each other once or twice
every couple of weeks. She's quite impressive and I really
think I'm falling for her. So when we get together,
I find myself being overly nervous, and when we have sex,
I'm sometimes so nervous that I worry I'm not going

(01:14:33):
to be able to perform my best.

Speaker 12 (01:14:35):
So here's a question.

Speaker 7 (01:14:37):
How can I learn to relax a bit so I
can enjoy bedroom time with my girlfriend more.

Speaker 8 (01:14:42):
I ain't got no answer for you gonna be nervous
just going there till you get used to it, you' bi,
but you need some supplements you need well.

Speaker 2 (01:14:52):
The first two times in I'll give Dann what you take.

Speaker 8 (01:14:56):
The first few times it's snap, crackle, pop baby Rice
Christmas and you don't even need milk on rice Christmas
to hear the noise. You can put tap water on
the same thing. We just you know, it's just like that.
You know, sometimes they'd be so fine. Dog, ain't that
you could do? It just happened for it supposed to happen.

Speaker 7 (01:15:14):
That's all Allo, all right, we'll have more Steve Harvey
Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after.

Speaker 12 (01:15:19):
Right after now, I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:15:20):
Gonna tell you off what he needed to do.

Speaker 9 (01:15:22):
You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (01:15:27):
All right, let's talk about fatherhood at fifty. According to
a new study, more men are waiting until their fifties
to start families. Researchers at Stanford University found that the
guys getting a later start as fathers aren't all rich
or famous. Instead, they're diverse group with different racial backgrounds
and education levels, ranging from college professors to blue collar workers.

Speaker 12 (01:15:50):
And so here's the question, how old is too old?

Speaker 7 (01:15:53):
I mean, what sounds more challenging being a father and
chasing a baby around at the age of fifty something
or attend your kids high school graduation while you're in
your seventies.

Speaker 6 (01:16:03):
Mo for me?

Speaker 2 (01:16:04):
Tall, Because when you're taking the graduation picture. Everybody going
to want to meet your granddaddy. That's live. When they
find out that's your damn daddy, that's a whole enough conversation.

Speaker 8 (01:16:16):
Oh sorry, then y'all got to stop all this Me
and me and y'all gotta stop all this waiting to
have these kids late in life.

Speaker 2 (01:16:22):
Now, they ain't got.

Speaker 8 (01:16:23):
Nobody walk them down the hill, ain't got nobody take
them to the football game. Cause your answers that sitting
up in here talking about you will never hear him
say one day I want to meet your children.

Speaker 2 (01:16:36):
Boy, you better hope you see his ass get out
of kindergard.

Speaker 8 (01:16:44):
Robert Mayrow and all the people that put but Michael
Doug listen, Robert, they ain't finish see nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:16:51):
They may not even teach this boy how to drive.
They so fifteen sixteen. They're not gonna make it to
that age. Not if you had to make. When you
ate a hell number one, you've probably forgot how to try.

Speaker 7 (01:17:03):
Come up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
play another round.

Speaker 12 (01:17:07):
And would you rather right after this.

Speaker 9 (01:17:11):
You're listening Morning show, it is time now.

Speaker 12 (01:17:14):
For a rounded? Would you rather guys? Would you rather
pay or get paid every time you have sex?

Speaker 2 (01:17:21):
Play that again?

Speaker 7 (01:17:22):
What would you rather pay or would you rather get
paid every time you had sex?

Speaker 6 (01:17:29):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:17:29):
No, I better pay.

Speaker 11 (01:17:30):
I better pay the stake because if I'm getting paid,
you're gonna have some refunds in here.

Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
I don't want any money back.

Speaker 11 (01:17:41):
Dissatisfied customer after dissatisfied customer.

Speaker 12 (01:17:44):
Up, Lord, don't sit up, Tommy, pay or get paid.

Speaker 2 (01:17:53):
I think I'll better pay. I ain't gonna get paid.

Speaker 12 (01:17:57):
I ain't, no hope, not one nothing, All right, Steve?

Speaker 2 (01:18:05):
Pay well? Hell, I've been paying, So.

Speaker 12 (01:18:12):
We're moving on.

Speaker 2 (01:18:13):
We're moving on. Would you falls out and.

Speaker 8 (01:18:15):
Bought moves, all this and helping your children out and
all through college all.

Speaker 2 (01:18:22):
This you don't know, but pay for it and watched out?
Now here? Can't teach your old dog new tricks.

Speaker 14 (01:18:29):
You heard that?

Speaker 12 (01:18:30):
Would you rather be friends with?

Speaker 2 (01:18:32):
Pay one for what?

Speaker 6 (01:18:33):
Hell?

Speaker 2 (01:18:33):
I'm the happiest one to be in here anyway, I
just continue to pay.

Speaker 12 (01:18:38):
I'm trying to move on.

Speaker 7 (01:18:41):
I am Would you rather be friends with someone you
love or would you rather be friends with someone you hate?

Speaker 2 (01:18:47):
That makes no sense? That don't make no sense. If
I hate you, how we friends.

Speaker 7 (01:18:54):
You still have to be their friend. Would you rather
would you rather be friends someone you hate friends with?

Speaker 10 (01:19:01):
Before you asked these, I don't make this and you
don't want it just didn't make sense.

Speaker 12 (01:19:10):
But okay, okay, so you'd rather be friends with someone
you love? It sounds like all right.

Speaker 7 (01:19:16):
Would you rather get rich in a way that disappoints
your family or would you rather just make enough money
to get by?

Speaker 6 (01:19:24):
Now?

Speaker 2 (01:19:24):
What could I be doing that's gonna disappoint them? I
started that twenty five years ago.

Speaker 12 (01:19:32):
Disappointed all your family?

Speaker 2 (01:19:36):
They't They don't want me to do stand up.

Speaker 1 (01:19:39):
They want to be something else.

Speaker 2 (01:19:40):
Oh okay, if I'm rich, to hell with everybody?

Speaker 1 (01:19:45):
You don't care what you're doing. You don't care.

Speaker 8 (01:19:49):
I'm gonna tell you right now. We can have disappointment
dinners every Sunday.

Speaker 9 (01:19:53):
That's what you want.

Speaker 8 (01:19:54):
We rich, y'all can all come by the house and
we can have disappointed dinners own sunday. I don't give
a damn how you feel about me, man, Please, you
think I ain't already experienced that.

Speaker 2 (01:20:12):
When you get through hating me, what do you want?

Speaker 9 (01:20:16):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:20:18):
I can't stand you. I guess we can't get no
money to you that he's sitting over there, no big
old house. He always going on vacation. Don't never take us. Okay,
what you want? Can I hold four hundred dollars?

Speaker 12 (01:20:30):
That's today's rounded, would you rather?

Speaker 1 (01:20:33):
Thanks?

Speaker 12 (01:20:33):
Guys?

Speaker 7 (01:20:33):
Coming up at forty nine minutes after it's our last
break of the day, and we'll close out the show
with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

Speaker 9 (01:20:41):
You're listening Hary Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (01:20:44):
All right, guys, here we are our last break of
the day on this Thursday, and Steve, I know you
have some.

Speaker 12 (01:20:51):
Words of wisdom to take us out.

Speaker 2 (01:20:54):
Well, you know, oh.

Speaker 8 (01:20:57):
Just said you know, we've been talking about the voting,
and that's him important. That's one of the most important
things we could do in twenty twenty four. And in
terms of vote politics, it's not more important than your family,
It's not more important than your relationships.

Speaker 2 (01:21:12):
I got that.

Speaker 8 (01:21:13):
I'm just talking about for politically, it's the most important
thing we could do. But I want to remind people
about something. You know so many times, you know, I
learned that the what am I trying to say? Just
saying that I learn Oh, the biggest thief of joy

(01:21:39):
is comparison. The biggest thief of joy is comparison. If
you want to steal your joy, compare yourself to other people.
If you want to really mess your day up, look
at somebody doing better than you and start one and

(01:22:00):
why you ain't doing that well. Comparison is the number
one thief of joy because you know what, people don't
understand what you really have to do. Look, your competition
ain't other people. Your competition is you. You know what
your competition is. Your competition is your procrastination. It's it's

(01:22:24):
got you got to overcome delaying stuff all the time.
That's your competition. Your competition is your negative thoughts. You've
got to eradicate negative thoughts from your mind. You've got
to replace that constantly with positive thoughts. All of us
have to work on that. That's what your competition is.
Your competition is your comfort zone. You got to stop

(01:22:48):
getting comfortable in the comfort zone. You've got to challenge
yourself to get out of the comfort zone. Now, you
want to compete against something, competed competing against that, Compete
against your procrastination, Compete against your negative thoughts, compete against
your being and your comfort zone. If you compete against that,

(01:23:11):
you can win. The obstacles that you are facing are
not external, y'all. They are the doubts and fears that
hold you back from achieving your full potential.

Speaker 2 (01:23:23):
That's what it is.

Speaker 8 (01:23:24):
Man. You got to deal with that stuff. You got
to grapple with that quick worrying about other people. You
gotta enough.

Speaker 2 (01:23:32):
Look listen to me. You got twenty four to seven job.
Take care of you.

Speaker 8 (01:23:37):
It take everything you got to get you where you're
trying to be. And if you're stopping to take time
to address other people, all you doing is delaying your gratification.
You are delaying it because you don't have time. God
didn't design you for all them other people's opinions. You
need to worry about one thing, you and your relationship

(01:23:58):
with God, and that will help you with your relationship
with your wife, your spouse, your partner, your children, your job,
your coworkers, your dreams, your visions, your aspirations. The obstacles
that you're facing, y'all, is not external. Quit letting other
people trip you up because they not there to trip

(01:24:18):
you up. Your competition again, is your procrastination. Your competition
is fighting against your negative thoughts. Your competition is keeping
yourself out your comfort zone, because convenience is built through
a life of inconvenience. The only person you need to
beat is the person you was yesterday. Uh oh, did

(01:24:43):
I say something right there? I think I did. The
only person you need to beat is the person that
you were yesterday. If you do that, if you beat
who you were yesterday, success is undeniable.

Speaker 2 (01:25:00):
Yours.

Speaker 8 (01:25:02):
Compete against yourself. Stop worrying about what everybody else got.
Comparison is the biggest thief of joy, comparing yourself. Do
you know, man, if you quit looking on the other
side of the fence, you might discover that you got
plenty on your side of the fence. Or if you
quit looking on the other side of the fence, you

(01:25:22):
could tend better to your side of the fence. While
my neighbor yard got all them pretty flowers over there,
put the flowers in your yard. You driving down the
block at the homeowners association looking at everybody house look.

Speaker 2 (01:25:36):
Better than yours. Now you go back home, you unhappy.

Speaker 8 (01:25:40):
But oh okay, but you forgot the joy you had
the day you signed for the house. You forgot the
celebration you had when you bought your first house. Now
you done, drove down the street and somebody bought a
bigger house. Now you down there looking at they big house.
Now you're going home? Now you mad pulling up in
your faux bedroom. What women, excuse me? You mad pulling

(01:26:04):
up in your What you mad pulling up in your
three bedroom home that you own?

Speaker 2 (01:26:12):
Women? You mad pulling up in front of your full
bedroom home that you own? Whoa wha, whoa?

Speaker 8 (01:26:17):
You mad pulling up in your condo that you owned,
the two bedroom condo that you own. Do you not
remember when you didn't have that? Do you not remember
when there was no rooms, when you didn't own nothing,
Remember when you had that apartment and you was renting?

Speaker 7 (01:26:34):
Man?

Speaker 8 (01:26:35):
Y'all, sometimes we trip our own self out. Quit competing
against other people. Compete against yourself. The only person you
need to beat is the person that you was yesterday.
That's what keeps me focused. I know a lot of
people got way more money than me, But you know what,
I am so content with where I am because let

(01:26:56):
me tell you something. You can know somebody with more
money than you, and they be missing. I know that
for a fact too. The only person you need to
compete against is the person you was yesterday. Y'all have
a nice day, all right. Be grateful for where you
at because it's better than where you was. That's a fact.
Steve Hargmore in the show, Hey y'all talk to God today.

(01:27:17):
Absolutely love to hear from you.

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