Broken Heart Syndrome, Tommy's Business Ideas, Strawberry Letter - Here Physically But Not Mentally - 5.21.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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I got to turn the mouth.

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You probably got to turn the mouth to turn out
the water.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
The money up? Looking me, come me, come out?

Speaker 8 (01:59):
You think that? Uh huh, I sure will A good
morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Oh come
on now, digny if you will. One and only Steve
Harvey got a radio show, you know, one of the
things about being successful. And I was sharing this just

(02:20):
the other day with a young man and he asked me.
He said, hey, man, I just don't see how you.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Get up that early in the morning.

Speaker 8 (02:31):
I just don't see how, man, it would kill me
to get up this early in the morning. Well, I
sat down and I'm listening to it because it's just
a thousand times I've heard it, you know, And my
life is, you know, not too different from a lot.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Of people's lives.

Speaker 8 (02:44):
There's a lot of people out there that rise early.
And I just sit there, man, because I mean, first
of all, I'm grateful to be able to have a job,
and I'm so grateful to be able to do one
and several that I happened to enjoy doing. I mean,
you know it's work and it's difficult at times, but
I mean, you know I wanted this.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
You know you got it.

Speaker 8 (03:04):
You know you can't ask God for nothing any give
it to you then be mad that you got it.
Don't make no sense.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
You know.

Speaker 8 (03:10):
The problem with asking God for stuff is a lot
of times we ask it for stuff we don't really
know what all it encompasses, what all it really is.
And I ask for this, now along the way, I've
gotten far more than I asked for. I want you
to do. Understand that, and you know that's His grace
at work in my life. But I get up early
and I go to work because I do understand something

(03:33):
that it is not walking up to you. Nobody walks
up to people normally and just hand them checks all
the time, and enough checks to sustain your life, and
not only sustain it, but to have a life that
where you could enjoy and do some of the things
you want to do. I don't know the person that
walks out hands out that money just to be doing

(03:53):
it and then with a lifestyle though, where you can
you know, give your kids a Christmas, you know, take
your family. I'm on vacation, you know, a year, once
a year. I don't know nobody passing out to kind
of money. So I get up early in the morning
and I get at it. I was taught to get
up early in the morning by my father because my
father says, aint, nothing gonna come to you while you

(04:15):
lay in now. And you know what, It's just true, man,
It's just a little common sense. Look, old people smart, man,
they've been around a long time. You don't get old.
You know, some old foods out there, but you know
you don't have to deal with them. But old people
are pretty smart, man. They've learned a lot along the way.
And waking up early and getting out it is one
of them things. And I ask everybody man to think
about this scenario of your life. If a day has

(04:38):
twenty four hours in it, and let's just say you
choose to sleep eight of those hours because they tell
you need eight hours sleep, so you sleep eight hours.
That's a third of your life asleep already, just a
third of your life is spent asleep. If you gonna
do eight hours a day. Now, so let's say you

(05:00):
have a job that you work eight hours and it
is not the job of your dreams. It's not your
dream career, your dream profession. It's just the one you took,
like all of us, to get it started. And then,
like all of us, some of us end up having
to stay there because we've created these bills because we
checked and checked. So we can't leave it because we'll
lose what we've worked for. So let's just say you

(05:21):
got a job that you go to work to for
eight hours. That's another third of your life. That's two
thirds of your life. Feel how you want to feel
about your two thirds? Well, I like sleep? Okay, cool,
there's a scripture about that too. But now you spent
two thirds of your life one on a job you
don't care for if you're not happy that, or one
that just pays the bills, and it's not your dream

(05:41):
job or career. Another third of your life is sleep.
Oh now, let's hold on. Let's talk about the one
hour of preparation that it may take to get to
the job. That's seventeen hours. Let's say your drive time.
Let's say getting to your job for the average person
is anywhere between thirty to an hour. That it's an
average of what it takes to average person. Now some

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people out there hustling way harder than that. But let's
just say your average is an hour getting to work.
You add another hour to that going to work. You've
now spent eighteen hours out of the twenty four doing
something that's either non productive, you're not happy with, you're
not pleased about. It is not your dream job, it's

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not your dream profession. And rest of the time you sleep.
Eighteen hours. Now you got to come from the job,
so let's just say it's another hour to get back home.
That's nineteen hours. Nineteen hours out of a twenty four
hour day. You now have five hours left in your day. Oh,
you watch TV two hours a day. Okay, excuse me.
Let's put now you put two hours of TV on
that you've just spent twenty one. You now have three

(06:46):
hours in the day to do something super productive for
the development of yourself and the future of your family
and your future as a person and what you can
provide for your family. Uh Oh, I need to chill,
I need to smoke one. Uh Oh, I needed some

(07:06):
time at Happy seem like all I do is dry
to work and go to work. I'm gonna go out
with the fellas drink one. Okay, Let's say you spend
two hours at Happy Ill nobody go to a Happy
Hours just for a hour. Let's say you spend two
hours at Happy I'll all smoke in all some video
games and let'st dow. That isn't it two hours of smoking,
chilling video games. That's twenty three hours of your day gone.

(07:31):
Don't you see how your day slips away from you?
So why would you get up early? You get up
early to get a jump. You get up early to produce,
to plan, to become productive. You get up early in
the morning to care about every single minute of your day.
You wake up early in the morning because you have

(07:51):
a plan, a mission, You have something you want to accomplish.
The earlier you get up, the more time you have
just for you to devote to your plan. You map
it out, you make them, send some emails, whatever it
is you need to do to get your dream under way.
Then you go get ready. Then you get in your
car and go to work. Then you go to your job,

(08:12):
but on your job instead of sitting at your lunch break,
messing around with a bunch of people, laughing and talking
about nothing, playing dominoes. Why don't you take that hour
to do some more research, to send out some more emails,
to put some feelings out there, to see what can
get you in the place that you want to be.
Then when you get off, instead of driving straight home,
why don't you go somewhere in a meeting, you take

(08:35):
in a session with some people in a positive mental state,
group of people that get together. Network for business, not
drink at happy hour. I said, network for business. So
after you've done that eight that you don't really care
for on a job, you spend some more time pursuing,
looking into researching, working towards, sending out some more applications,

(08:55):
putting in some more time to build your new app
discussing some more net working ideas. Okay, that's your happy hour.
Then when you go home, instead of chilling drinking one,
having a cold one, smoking one, playing a video game,
why don't you take that two hours and devote that
to that business idea? You got to that family that

(09:16):
you talk about, you really won't spend some time with
your children, put something into them, do something. Man with
all these precious hours that God gives all of us
in the course of a day. Take advantage of every
minute of that. No human being has more than twenty
four hours a day, including myself. But if you care

(09:36):
about every single minute of that day, you'll be amazed
at how much you could get accomplished in a twenty
four hour day. But you can't get none of that
happening because you sleep, and you chilling and you smoking. Okay,
what has that done for you, your family or your future?
Care about every minute of your day.

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Speaker 8 (10:00):
Y'all, ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention.
You know what is just a really really good day today?
It really is. Man, if you could just focus on
the fact that you are here, that you are willing

(10:22):
and able, if you could get if you could get
your mind wrapped around the fact that how fortunate you
are to be amongst the chosen ones to still be here,
realizing that when God wakes you up in the morning,
that's aside from him that he ain't through with you yet. Man,
I'm glad about that. I don't want him to be

(10:42):
through with me. Keep on using me until you use
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(11:05):
And the legend that is Nephew Thomas Jr.

Speaker 7 (11:09):
You know what, well, you.

Speaker 9 (11:10):
Said something about music. Have you thought about this. I'm
gonna make this statement. I'm gonna stand by it too,
but uh, I just thought about this. People, Bryson and
Keith Sweat on the same level. I just thought about
this promise, just thought about it on je People, Brison
and Keith Sweat on the same level.

Speaker 8 (11:28):
As fars You what do you mean when you say
same level, Judy, the same level.

Speaker 10 (11:33):
They both had songs vocals. I didn't say who was better.
I said they're on the same level.

Speaker 8 (11:39):
They both had songs about similarities.

Speaker 10 (11:42):
Yes, they both had songs that was on soundtracks.

Speaker 9 (11:47):
Got about the same amount of movies, I mean albums,
same amount album there on the same level.

Speaker 10 (11:51):
Because you gotta think about it.

Speaker 9 (11:52):
People, Bryson A Whole New World and Keith Sweat telling
me no in New Jack City and Aladdin, same level,
same level, I'm telling you.

Speaker 8 (12:04):
This ain't a question you want to wake up this
morning and Everson, I'm.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
Just telling you. Would you agree?

Speaker 10 (12:09):
Is what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (12:10):
When you agree, I see, Well, I'm gonna be honest
with you.

Speaker 8 (12:14):
You kind of threw me off when you said same level,
because I was trying to figure out what you meant
by that. But you're just saying their similarities.

Speaker 9 (12:22):
Well, yeah, I think they they got similar insane but
you know, Keith sweat better than people, but they on
the same Leough.

Speaker 8 (12:29):
I just think that. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (12:30):
Would you agree?

Speaker 8 (12:31):
Sat see see see right there. That's why I thought
you was going with this. But now what you're saying
is offensive. Didn't know what you was talking about when
you started this conversation. Now you don't.

Speaker 11 (12:43):
A whole new world there you go telling me no again, saying, God,
you don't see this.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
Uh that was a fire jam, don't hear that.

Speaker 8 (12:58):
I think Keith Sweat it is one of the coolest
dudes out there, and his longevity is sustaining, his preormans
is out there. He's a cold dude and that is
my cat keyth Sweat. But do you not think for
one minute that he can out saying people, bryceon, You're
going to shut your mouth and going going back and

(13:21):
think something to talking about tomorrow, because that ain't what
you're fitn say on this show and get away with it.
Tell you Joe seeing their winning five.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
Right here, you're.

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Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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Speaker 12 (14:23):
All right, the nephew is here to run that pring back. Nephew,
what you got for us?

Speaker 15 (14:28):
This right here is corporal punishment shirt. You understand. Yeah,
it's time, It's time to bring it back.

Speaker 16 (14:34):
Let's go cat dom Oh Hello, hello, Hi, I'm I'm
trying to reach it.

Speaker 17 (14:40):
Mister Cotton, mismss Cotton.

Speaker 15 (14:43):
Okay, can you turn your radio or TV down? I
can't really hear you.

Speaker 17 (14:47):
Oh yes, sir, my.

Speaker 15 (14:49):
Name is mister Lanson. I'm actually the new principal here
at middle school.

Speaker 16 (14:53):
And well, what's the name again, mister Lanson.

Speaker 17 (14:56):
Mister Lanson? Okay, your your.

Speaker 16 (14:58):
Son he attends school here? Am I correct?

Speaker 17 (15:01):
Yes, sir?

Speaker 16 (15:01):
Okay, good listen. I'm the new principal here.

Speaker 15 (15:05):
We've just replaced the last principle and I'm actually calling around.
What I've done is when I before I got here,
I asked for a list of students that were you know,
I'm not going to say problem kids, but you know
that kind of get themselves in a little trouble here
and there.

Speaker 16 (15:20):
And your son's name happens to be on the list.

Speaker 17 (15:23):
Name is on that list.

Speaker 15 (15:24):
Yes, I got about I got about thirty five kids
that are actually on this list, and your son is
actually on the list.

Speaker 16 (15:32):
And you are, mister Cotton.

Speaker 17 (15:34):
Correct, I am, mister Cotten. I mean, are you sure
you speaking about my son?

Speaker 8 (15:39):
Though?

Speaker 15 (15:39):
Yeah, I mean there's only there's only one on the list, sir.
I'm I'm it's it's it's what's been given to me.
And what what I'm doing is calling around to all
of the parents of the kids that are on this
list and letting you guys know that I'm going to
be keeping a closed eye on them as well as
letting you know that I'm going to be reinstating corporal
punishment here in the school.

Speaker 17 (16:00):
So so what's that.

Speaker 15 (16:03):
That's actually where if your son gets sent to the office,
which is my office, then there will be paddling going on.
And opposed to I don't believe in I don't believe
in I don't believe in suspension. I believe in, you know,
if we spank these kids, we can get them back
in order.

Speaker 16 (16:18):
So, sir, here's my thing.

Speaker 15 (16:22):
I really truly believe that we get back to to
you know, and I don't mean what I'm about to
say to be harsh, but if we get back to beaten,
we'll get these kids back in order.

Speaker 17 (16:31):
I mean, but I know he had troubled in English,
but I don't think that's calls for beaten.

Speaker 15 (16:37):
No, no, no, this has nothing to do with great sir.
This has to do with punishment. And what I'm understanding
is if your son is on my list, and if
your son comes down to my office, I'm going to
take care of it right then and there.

Speaker 17 (16:49):
If my son come to your office, you're gonna be
on my list.

Speaker 8 (16:53):
Sir.

Speaker 15 (16:53):
I'm trying to get these kids back in order, and
that's the reason why I've been brought in and I've
replaced the last principle you understand. So what I need
from you is to get to get a great understanding
that if your child comes to my office, corporal punishment
will be what he's going to deal with.

Speaker 17 (17:08):
Okay, I'll tell you what. Let my son come home
and tell me he got some corporal punishment, and the
next morning me and You're gonna do some corporal punishment.

Speaker 15 (17:15):
Sir. Do you want your child in order or do
you want to be bailing his butt out of jail
at the age of eighteen.

Speaker 17 (17:20):
They gonna be bailing me out of jail if you
put your hands on my son.

Speaker 16 (17:24):
Okay, are you taking care of your son? Punishment wise?

Speaker 8 (17:27):
At home?

Speaker 17 (17:28):
You need to my son don't give you no trouble. Okay.

Speaker 15 (17:32):
Here's the problem, parents not believing that their children get
in any trouble.

Speaker 16 (17:38):
That's the first part.

Speaker 17 (17:40):
I got email. I got a phone call. So the
first phone call I get is going straight whipping it.
Ain't no letter sent home, ain't no email sit home
saying day it's a problem.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
I don't, I don't.

Speaker 16 (17:50):
I don't, sir.

Speaker 8 (17:51):
I'll you know, I'm gonna come down here.

Speaker 15 (17:54):
I'm gonna tell you once again, I am not going
to send your son to detention. I'm not going to
call you. I'm gonna take care of my job. My
job is to make it.

Speaker 17 (18:04):
I'm gonna take care of mine when you take care
of your. I'm gonna take care of mine. And that's
protect my son and you put your hands on him,
and we got a problem.

Speaker 15 (18:11):
We're gonna have a problem because nine time, I'm telling you,
right now, I'm calling you and giving you the warning.

Speaker 16 (18:17):
Your son will be dealt with.

Speaker 17 (18:18):
And you're gonna be dealt with.

Speaker 16 (18:20):
Will be dealt with on a regular basis if needs
to be.

Speaker 17 (18:23):
You're gonna get dealt with on a regular But you're
gonna get tired of seeing me.

Speaker 16 (18:26):
Okay, sir, Do I need to actually have corporal punishment
with you?

Speaker 17 (18:30):
I tell you what, when you when you bring that
corporal punishment to me, you better have the police there
because they gonna need corporal punishment. They gonna need whatever.
Hell they're gonna need to twat team. When I get
down and you put your hands on my son, I
know that all them.

Speaker 15 (18:43):
You know what, sir, Maybe maybe maybe the swipper needs
to start with you it.

Speaker 17 (18:49):
Matter of fact, what time do you go to lunch?
We can do this in front of the cafeteria and
let all the kids see the principal get his corporal punishment.

Speaker 16 (18:57):
Sir, sir, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm not.

Speaker 16 (18:59):
I don't I don't fear you, Chrisonal.

Speaker 17 (19:01):
Don't you to feel me because I want you to
stand there and take your whip like a man. I
don't want to chase you're wearing on like no little
ground in school, sir.

Speaker 15 (19:07):
Sir, sir, The bottom line is corporal punishment is being instated.
Your son is gonna abide by it. You're gonna have
to accept it. Or maybe maybe you need to.

Speaker 18 (19:16):
Tell you what you say.

Speaker 17 (19:16):
You got thirty five names on your list, it better
be thirty focus God name better not be on no
corporal punishment list. I know that, sir, Sir.

Speaker 15 (19:24):
Listen, He's not on a corporal punishment list. He's on
a list of kid of kids that act up from.

Speaker 16 (19:29):
Time to time.

Speaker 17 (19:30):
Don't act up. My son is a model student. He
got a little trouble with English, you know, because his
mama a little slow. But that's my dad. I did that.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 16 (19:39):
You know what, Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to
the child right now.

Speaker 17 (19:43):
You're talking to a grown man. And if you put
your hands on my son, you're gonna see that I'm
a grown may line them up, sistant, principal, Principal, I
kick the cabeci lator, so I come down. Then if
she got something to.

Speaker 15 (19:55):
Say, you're gonna watch your tone. You understand me, and
you're gonna you're gonna take what I'm telling you. Yeah, man,
I don't care what you're saying.

Speaker 16 (20:03):
Everybody's gonna bide. I put chains on the door.

Speaker 17 (20:06):
I make sure Joe Klopp putting change on your name
with Lance you Joe Klopp.

Speaker 15 (20:12):
I'm mister Lanson, and these kids are gonna abide by
what I want, and so are the parents. And you,
mister Cotton, you're gonna have to toughen up and let
me do my job.

Speaker 17 (20:21):
I tell you what. Then you're gonna do what you
got to do today. But when I get down there,
you better have a police when I get.

Speaker 16 (20:27):
There, I tell you who else I'm gonna have here.

Speaker 15 (20:29):
You tell me who you gonna have down there is
I'm gonna have Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mornings Show,
because that's who I am.

Speaker 16 (20:37):
Your coworker. Silver, You've got me the prey phone. Call
you what.

Speaker 17 (20:46):
I'm gonna tell you what. I'm gonna break down at
the job kids. Man, go.

Speaker 16 (21:09):
Hey, listen, I got one more thing.

Speaker 15 (21:11):
As mister can what's the baddest radio show in the lane?

Speaker 17 (21:15):
Many? I love y'all?

Speaker 1 (21:21):
Man, all right, nephew, thank you?

Speaker 12 (21:25):
Coming up next as the CLO chief Love Officer Steve
Harvey in the building right after this.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 12 (22:10):
In entertainment news, the last standing plantation in the South
is reduced to ashes after burning three hours.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
Okay, had about enough of that.

Speaker 12 (22:22):
The attorney for the four women that accused Smokey Robinson
of sexual assault have issued a statement, and a lot
of Chris Brown fans are upset because he's in jail
in London. And that's all coming up at the top
of the hour. But right now it's time to ask
the clo. This is from Avery and Longview. Avery writes,

(22:44):
I'm having second thoughts about taking my girlfriend to my
family reunion.

Speaker 1 (22:48):
She was raised to speak.

Speaker 12 (22:49):
Her mind and that her opinion matters. My parents, aunts
and uncles don't play that. How do I uninvite her
and tell her it's for her own good?

Speaker 8 (23:00):
No, no, no, See, sometimes you got to take people.
Sometimes you just got to take people. Sometimes it's better
to show them than to tell them that you how
you was raised to speak your own mind and your
and your opinion matters and all that beautiful. But listen,
and the words of my father in law. Just because
you can do something don't mean you should do something.

(23:24):
And you got to learn that lesson. And I think
now it's a good time for her to learn that.
Take her to your family reunion, because all black people
got a way of making you feel real.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
Stink right quickly with his family, just arguing please take
her and us back.

Speaker 12 (23:50):
Yeah, all right? Coming up next, it is Nia in
Southfield and Nea Rights. My husband has developed a stench. Lately,
he showers before bedtime and by early morning when we're
having sex, the sweaty smell is back is strong, and
he acts like he can't smell it should I would

(24:10):
hold sex until he stops stinking up the place.

Speaker 8 (24:13):
Wow, well you gotta find out what the cause is.
You and your wife's a wives know he has developed
a stitch. Now that's different from stink al it's the
three smell. It's the three esses. You have a smell,
you have a stink, and you have a stitch he

(24:38):
is he is. Stitch is like a third degree burn.
You know you can put your hand on said water hot,
then you put over there.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
Oh you burn me?

Speaker 8 (24:49):
Oh now, third degree burn ain't no third degree burn.
You gotta go somewhere emergency care thirty to be burned.
You gotta go, you gotta go somewhere. You got to
go find out what has caused a stitch.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
But he's showering. That's not it.

Speaker 8 (25:11):
Huh, well he's but we lay down. It's something he eating. Now,
it's something he eating.

Speaker 19 (25:20):
What what could cause a stench?

Speaker 8 (25:23):
Well, I in my life, I know several foods that
can cause a stitch. Okay, what Chittling's is the number
one predator stitch call what you can do that because
they got them already clean and you can freeze them
or so it's people out there still doing that. Here's

(25:43):
another food that can cause a stitch, and people are
very unawareinness spam. Spam can cause a stitch. If you
eat enough of it late at night, wrong time, you
can wake up in the morning and smell like you
ain't something that died.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Those are the two that come to mind right away.

Speaker 8 (26:01):
All right, Well, that it causes a stitch if you
are Muslim. If you're Muslim and you wasn't and accidentally
ate some pork, they not gonna do well on that.
I'm just gonna tell you that right now. They're not
gonna do well on that. I avoid that at all costs,
you know, and because I have so many Muslim friends now,

(26:23):
it's actually made me rethink the whole thing with pork.
So I've eraised that from my diet, except for barbecue,
because barbecue, once you put reebs on an open flame
over charcoal, it removes all pork properties.

Speaker 12 (26:40):
Okay, I'm moving on to Cheyenne in Santa Monica. Cheyenne writes,
I was sitting in the parking lot at the mall
and I watched a couple get in the backseat of
a car and have sex. I FaceTime my husband while
I watched them have sex. He said that we should
try it. We're both fifty three? Are we too old

(27:01):
to do it?

Speaker 8 (27:02):
No, get on back there. But now let me tell
you something. You probably didn't feel. You didn't probably didn't
feel getting back out that back seat. Now you should
have completed the process, and then you need to need
to take into consideration how old are now.

Speaker 1 (27:16):
Y'all can go back there, You can get in the
back See, you could do it.

Speaker 8 (27:19):
But I'm telling you right now, somebody, I'm just gonna
tell you, somebody gonna get hurt.

Speaker 20 (27:25):
You.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
It's gonna be an injury.

Speaker 12 (27:33):
Some sort of injury. All right, so you are you're
saying they are too old to do it, then no,
you ain't too old to do it.

Speaker 8 (27:44):
You just gotta understand it's gonna come with a cost. Listen, y'all. Look,
you can do anything at any age, but there's a
cost factor that has to be factored in. You cannot
assume that you could just do anything and you want
to do because you used to do it.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (28:03):
Me and my wife was in the backyard last year
shooting baskets. It had rained, so the net shrunk a
little bit. So she shot the ball and it went
through the net, but it didn't come down. She said, Steve,
get the ball the first attempt, because I hadn't done
that in a long time. I didn't even get to
the net. And then she said, oh you can't get

(28:25):
it down. We'll get one of the work somebody, uh
any down. My egos involved, Oh, of course, So I
go back, gathered myself, went over there and jumped and
hit the ball, knocked it out the net. She said, wow,
you can still get up there now. When I came down,
you all seen that old black man on it. Old
man I turned him down.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
That was me.

Speaker 8 (28:48):
When I came down, that was me, and I went
in the house after one basket and I paid.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
They've been back out there since.

Speaker 16 (28:59):
You don't even go out there.

Speaker 8 (29:00):
I went, don't get my golf clubs, Gonna do what
I could do.

Speaker 12 (29:03):
A great story, Steve, Yeah, all right. Moving on toes
in the Bronx is the last one. Steve Jess writes,
My boyfriend had a bag of gummies by his bed.
I ate two and didn't know they were edibles. My
boyfriend was not concerned that I mistakenly took drugs. He

(29:27):
was only mad that I ate them without asking him.
Is this a sign that he's not for me? Is
this a sign?

Speaker 8 (29:35):
But see, had you asked him first, he would have
had the ability to tell you, Hey, the main just gummies.

Speaker 12 (29:42):
Now.

Speaker 8 (29:43):
So now he's right for being mad at you because
this could have gone sideways. I think you taking it
wrong in that he mad in me for not asking.
But I think you got to look how men think.
Damn baby, why an't you ask me first? It could
have saved you the problem had you asked him so
quick thinking that is he not right for me? Because

(30:04):
he left a gummy. Why are you eating stuff you
don't know where it come from?

Speaker 19 (30:08):
Right?

Speaker 1 (30:08):
Does? Don't you know snack food at night? Gummies?

Speaker 7 (30:12):
Really?

Speaker 1 (30:12):
To her?

Speaker 8 (30:14):
You have let me ask you, ques you ever had
a gummy at night before you went to be?

Speaker 1 (30:18):
No? Hello? And I want the sugar in my teeth?
All right?

Speaker 12 (30:22):
Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you, clo.
We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. The raging fire that
totally destroyed the former fifty three thousand square foot not
Away Plantation in Whitecastle, Louisiana burned for nearly forty hours

(30:45):
last week as onlookers took videos and celebrated as it
burned to the ground. The massive Antebellum mistate was the
site of atrocious crins against enslaved black people from many
generations to work the land and were tortured, raped, and
mutilated there, and an effort to erase the history of

(31:06):
the Nottaway plantation. In recent years, it was rebranded as
a museum, then a wedding venue and a tourist attraction.
Louisiana Fire marshals are still investigating the source of the fire.
But it is safe to say that many many.

Speaker 1 (31:21):
People do not care. They're just glad it's finally gone
so much.

Speaker 8 (31:27):
You know, man, what I used to drive when in
the South, when I was performing. I remember driving one
time and I saw billboard I don't remember where said
come visit the Whitley Plantation. And I'm soaking. I was
so mad, man, because I'm going you know, the audacity

(31:49):
of these people to turn these places that caused so
much pain and deprivation and turn it into it. It's
a money more world. We used to make money on
it when they were slaves. Let's make money on it now.
Come visit the Whitney Plantation. We visit your plantation, man, right?

Speaker 14 (32:07):
And did you give money to the descendants of the
slaves that worked at the plantation?

Speaker 1 (32:11):
Oh? Please? What you know? They did not know.

Speaker 8 (32:15):
Do African Americans deserve represent reparations one thousand percent?

Speaker 12 (32:21):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (32:22):
Will we ever get a dollar? One thousand percent? We
will get not a coin, not a that's a fight
three period.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (32:31):
Well they don't even want to do that, they they ye, man,
let Longe pay you.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
Well, I don't see.

Speaker 8 (32:37):
Hard We're gonna find out. That's the old what was
that that old senator. I don't see how we're going
to have tractor track. I rack just get it to us.
We're trying, but you know.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
Not everything else. But you can't see that that part.

Speaker 8 (33:01):
I would support it, but I just I think it's
a dead I think it's a dead fight.

Speaker 1 (33:07):
I really do.

Speaker 8 (33:08):
I can't imagine this country doing that, writing a check
for their wrongs when they don't.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
They won't.

Speaker 8 (33:14):
First of all, you gotta admit to the room.

Speaker 12 (33:16):
I was going to say them that would make them guilty.
They would have to admit. That would mean they really
did this.

Speaker 1 (33:22):
All right?

Speaker 12 (33:23):
Moving on, Well, in case you forgot about the sexual
assault lawsuit against Smokey Robinson, here's what we know so far.
The four women that have accused Smoking of years of
abuse while working at his residence are seeking fifty million
dollars in damages now. According to the lady's attorney, all
four women are Hispanic, all were undocumented at the time,

(33:44):
and all were allegedly paid under minimum wage while they
were being sexually assaulted, and they were threatened with deportation.
These factors reportedly kept the ladies from coming forward sooner.
Smokey Robinson's attorney meanwhile, call the lawsuit a spread attempt
to prejudice public opinion and manufactured attempt on Smokey's reputation.

(34:06):
He expressed confidence that a full review of the facts
will clear the Smokey Robinson's name. So there you go,
clear Smokey Robinson's name.

Speaker 16 (34:15):
That's what.

Speaker 8 (34:17):
You know in stories like this. Because you're a public figure,
you cannot say what you think. But I have a question. Okay,
if you ask me, knowing Smoking Robinson the way I
do and as long as I've known him, does this

(34:40):
sound believable to you? And I will say no, it
doesn't sound believable to me as the person that I've
sat down and talked with many times and just the
spirit of him as a person. But let's hypothetically say
he gets cleared, and let me see that comes out
proof that there is a like a extortion or blackmail

(35:01):
or whatever you won't call it. What happens then? Do
the people who bought the charges they did they go home?
Did they just oh, well, I tried, That's that's what happened,
you know.

Speaker 1 (35:14):
The answers to that, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 8 (35:17):
So I've learned how now to form what I'm thinking
in the form of hypothetical questions. That way, Steve ain't
on the hook.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
All right, all right, we're gonna move on now.

Speaker 12 (35:29):
Finally, Chris Brown's fans are in an uproar because his
tour is stalled. Right now, Chris is behind bars in London.
Chris has arrested him from an altercation back in twenty
twenty three with a promoter in London. Chris was accused
of assaulting the promoter and there was an arrest of
warrant for his arrest. When Chris stepped stepped foot back

(35:51):
in the UK for his tour, he was arrested. A
London judge ordered that Chris remain in custody until June thirteenth,
when his next court.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
Hearing is scheduled. Yeah, his tour.

Speaker 12 (36:04):
Chris's tour is scheduled to kick off June eighth in
the Netherlands, So it looks like he will not make
that opening Yeah, June thirteenth.

Speaker 19 (36:12):
Yeah, June thirteenth.

Speaker 16 (36:14):
That's to Marlboro pretty much.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
That's crazy.

Speaker 8 (36:18):
Yeah, But hey man, first of all, it's hard to
be in jail over out of town.

Speaker 1 (36:23):
That's really hard. But let me say this to money.

Speaker 8 (36:27):
Yeah, Chris has Chris gonna have to make some changes
in his team cause his lawyers and his people don't
know that there's a warrant out for your rest in
another country. And then let this young cat get on
this plane and step off the place, because he would
have never went right. Yeah, So that's just somebody man

(36:48):
just signing, signing for money, and one of his lawyers
men should have known this. It's no way that they
didn't get a notice about this somewhere.

Speaker 1 (36:58):
Yeah, all right, we got jail in New Orleans.

Speaker 8 (37:01):
He could have broke up with their other dasses.

Speaker 12 (37:03):
Uh, coming up twenty minutes after the hour, something called.

Speaker 13 (37:15):
I'm back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning.

Speaker 8 (37:20):
Show, folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai.
Hyundai's done a lot to support American consulers. I mean,
they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in
the United States over the next three years that will
expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans.

Speaker 15 (37:42):
And they just announced that they will not be raising
MSRP through June second, no matter what. Called five six
two three one four four six zero three for more details.

Speaker 12 (37:54):
All right, So have you guys heard of broken heart
syndrome the American Heart Association.

Speaker 19 (38:00):
Anybody, No, you.

Speaker 1 (38:02):
Guys haven't heard broken are syndrome.

Speaker 12 (38:04):
Yes, called broken heart syndrome, the American Heart broke syndrome.
I've heard of the song brokey all right. The American
Heart Association confirmed that it is a real thing and
that men men are more than twice as likely to
die from broken heart syndrome than women. It's a condition

(38:26):
that mimics a heart attack and is triggered by deep
emotional and or physical stress. According to the experts, broken
heart syndrome is more common in women, but when men
do experience it, their chances of survival drop significantly.

Speaker 1 (38:41):
The American Heart.

Speaker 12 (38:42):
Association's research analyzed hospital data from two one hundred thousand
adults in the US between twenty sixteen and twenty twenty
and found a significantly higher rate of deaths among men.
As research continues, one thing is clear. Heartbreak is serious
and for men, men, it can be deadly. Who knew this,

(39:03):
I've never heard of this before.

Speaker 1 (39:06):
My father died from that.

Speaker 19 (39:08):
From broken heart syndrome.

Speaker 8 (39:10):
Yeah, because there was nothing wrong with my father, and
the doctor was saying he constantly just talks about missing
your mother, my father said. One time, he said, well,
I guess I'll just go on and see your mama.
It ain't nothing down here without her. He said that
all the time I watched my father die from broken

(39:31):
hard Man, that's real.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
That is really real.

Speaker 8 (39:34):
Sixty four years and he just said. And I used
to take my little boy winting over there all the time,
just to cheer him up.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
He didn't.

Speaker 8 (39:42):
He'll say, well, I guess I'll hang around in Here'll
see what little bullet gonna be.

Speaker 19 (39:47):
He's called bullet bullet.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
I see what little bullet gonna be.

Speaker 8 (39:52):
And then every now and then I said, Pap, how
you doing, Oh boy, I will go on and see
your mama.

Speaker 1 (39:59):
Man, they say nothing down here. Wow.

Speaker 8 (40:03):
I saw it firsthand.

Speaker 12 (40:07):
Broken heart syndrome. It's the real thing, according to the
American Heart Association.

Speaker 7 (40:14):
Wow.

Speaker 12 (40:15):
I remember my aunt saying that when my uncle passed away,
she said, he died of a broken heart.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
But you know what we had.

Speaker 12 (40:22):
I have heard that women are stronger mentally, and women
and men are stronger physically. So things that you know
hurt men don't hurt us us as much.

Speaker 16 (40:34):
I have heard.

Speaker 9 (40:35):
There are any stats on the n SS syndrome. Any
stats on that?

Speaker 1 (40:40):
We're talking about broken heart syndrome.

Speaker 9 (40:42):
No, No, I'm talking about what's no sex syndrome? Is there
any stats on that? Because you're about to die, because
I'm about to I'm about to go.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
Really, I just need to.

Speaker 10 (40:54):
Know what's the stats on that?

Speaker 1 (40:57):
Is it's science?

Speaker 10 (40:58):
Blood pressure one fifty over one?

Speaker 7 (41:00):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (41:00):
What's the status?

Speaker 8 (41:02):
I'm guaranteeing you right now.

Speaker 12 (41:04):
I'm there going out my way, coming up at thirty
four minutes after the nephew has something on his mind?
Oh lord, right after this you're listening hard morning show.
All right, as promised the nephew, or as Warren I

(41:28):
should say, the nephew has something on his mind.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
What do you have, nephew.

Speaker 16 (41:33):
That's a little sum sum Shirley. You know, I'm.

Speaker 15 (41:37):
Just I'm trying to open up another business. I'm trying
to figure out what kind of business can I open
you know that'll be successful, have some longevity to it,
you know, I really I want to open up something
I know people are gonna love, people gonna come out
and uh and it's just you know, I can open
up a chain all across you know, the US. If
it's possible. So I'm I got a few things I

(41:57):
want to bounce off of y'all. Yeah, and I just
want y'all to tell me what y'all think. You know,
what do y'all think?

Speaker 8 (42:02):
I got it?

Speaker 1 (42:03):
I got a good idea right here.

Speaker 15 (42:04):
Now, this was gonna be a little part fitched this
first one now, but you know it could it could.
It could save people at the same time. Uh, magic
City Gospel shirt. What y'all think about that? Is that
something that you know.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
When you you're going straight to hell?

Speaker 18 (42:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 16 (42:21):
You played too much, y'all don't see that?

Speaker 17 (42:26):
Like?

Speaker 8 (42:31):
All right, I got an idea. Why don't you pray
about it? To see what he said?

Speaker 16 (42:38):
All right?

Speaker 15 (42:38):
All right, how about it? How about this here? See
see solutions. See solutions. That's a condom and coughing coughing company.
Condom and coughing company. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
Condom?

Speaker 16 (42:53):
Either way, we got you covered. You feel what I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (42:56):
Either way?

Speaker 15 (43:00):
That's your slogan. Wow, that's my slogan. Either way, we
got your coming got Okay?

Speaker 1 (43:06):
Now, that's might work. It won't be quiet.

Speaker 16 (43:10):
It could. It could tell me.

Speaker 17 (43:14):
It's real.

Speaker 15 (43:15):
No, okay, how about this, How about this? How about this?
Tuxedo and funeral rental? M m okay, tucked and funeral rental.
You know what I mean, because you never know, it
could be the same day. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
Yeah, Wow, you.

Speaker 15 (43:36):
Got you got you see what I'm saying. You got
your suit, you already got suit on. I mean, okay,
it's just a thought.

Speaker 1 (43:43):
I'm not with everything, but I did like that one.
The one.

Speaker 16 (43:49):
I think you're gonna like this.

Speaker 15 (43:50):
I think you're gonna like chitterling, chitterling and body clean?

Speaker 7 (43:56):
What is.

Speaker 16 (43:58):
Chitlings? Chitlings?

Speaker 1 (43:59):
And you said for me, thank you?

Speaker 16 (44:02):
We we we clean guts.

Speaker 15 (44:04):
You know what I'm saying. Ten pounds of chittens and
a ten day cleans. You see what I'm saying, We.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
Clean your guts.

Speaker 8 (44:11):
You need a yeah?

Speaker 1 (44:15):
Too much?

Speaker 8 (44:15):
All right?

Speaker 16 (44:16):
Now it's summer time. It's summer time.

Speaker 15 (44:19):
And I really think this, this, this, this is probably
one I really liked the most. Come on, hands and popsicles. Okay,
come on now, pantis and popsacks.

Speaker 16 (44:28):
We sell.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
There there there.

Speaker 12 (44:32):
I knew he get you got about playing that one though.

Speaker 15 (44:38):
What I mean, that's just it's just something about a
woman just in pantis and popsicle.

Speaker 8 (44:45):
That's just so nice. It's just that's all you know.

Speaker 15 (44:49):
Y'all know him, no clothes, y'all know him, no clothes
kind of person. I mean, y'all know that, hands and popsicles.
I mean, it don't get no better than that.

Speaker 16 (44:55):
Every man work.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
You just order some panties as a popsicles.

Speaker 16 (45:00):
Well, I'm gonna give you popeic as soon as you
walk in the door.

Speaker 1 (45:02):

Speaker 16 (45:04):
You brows better. You brows better.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
When you like that.

Speaker 15 (45:08):
See how you feel I was doing after the first
one I have.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
Yeah, I decided we not. I'm not don this magic.

Speaker 15 (45:21):
Like this because you you've been eating healthy. You're gonna
like this one. You been, I promise you. Tomrick and
time seasoned chicken. You see what I'm saying. Eat all
the fried chicken you want with none of the swelling.
You see what I'm saying, no swelling nowhere, ain't no swealling.
You got turmeric and time seasoned chicken.

Speaker 1 (45:43):
That's a lot.

Speaker 8 (45:48):
Hard to swell up with just one bite to the
time on some chicken.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
You had something for everyone in that one, Tommy.

Speaker 16 (45:59):
Yeah, I'll get it. Some poles and let's go baby.

Speaker 12 (46:06):
All right, it's crazy, all right, we got more of
the nephew.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
That's the good news. More of the.

Speaker 12 (46:13):
Nephew coming up with today's prank phone call right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
at about four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry
letter for today. And the subject is he's here physically
but not mentally. We'll get into that find out what

(46:34):
that's all about. That one's kind of self explanatory, though,
we'll find out, because right now it's time for the
nephew and today's prank phone call.

Speaker 19 (46:42):
Nephew, what you got all right?

Speaker 16 (46:44):
Sureley, we're going down to the church. We got an
issue down there.

Speaker 15 (46:49):
Well, you know, these people they get in these ministries
and oh they just some of them just take it
too fast.

Speaker 8 (46:55):
Now, this one right he is the people that work
in the park and light in the church.

Speaker 15 (47:00):
You know, they even call themself the parking lot and ministry.

Speaker 19 (47:03):
You know.

Speaker 1 (47:03):
But yeah, yeah, they serving in their ministry what all that.

Speaker 15 (47:08):
But they're doing a little too much sometime they are.
So this right here is called church parking lot. Church
parking lot. Let's go catch off. Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey,
I'm trying to reach you. How you doing, uh, Brindon.
I want to make sure I got the right person.
You the person that uh you work at the at

(47:28):
the first of all, I go to uh my name,
my name is Calvin, brother Calvin, but I go to
uh sat Missionary Baptist Church where you Yeah?

Speaker 18 (47:38):
So yeah, so everything all right.

Speaker 16 (47:41):
Everything's fine out.

Speaker 15 (47:43):
Well, I got a little issue and I'm trying to
get to the bottom of it.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
Now.

Speaker 15 (47:46):
You work in the before service start. You work in
the parking lot on, yeah, and you tell people where
the park and stuff right right right?

Speaker 18 (47:58):
What you looking for some you want to join us?

Speaker 1 (48:02):
Nah?

Speaker 8 (48:03):
Nah?

Speaker 17 (48:03):
Nah?

Speaker 15 (48:04):
To see the issue I got, man, I've been dealing
with this probably about the last two months, now, Okay,
hold on, I'm trying to tell you. So the problem
is when I come to the church last couple of months, man,
I've been I've been coming like my my my regular
card and broke down on me. So I had I
got an old van that I've been there to hear
about that. Yeah, yeah, you know, I got a old

(48:25):
van and I've been using to get around in. So
now for the last two months. I've been riding in
it when I come to the church, you know you
and I find out who you were. But you keep
sending me to the back of the parking lot. And
then but you know I noticed, now, nah, bro, no,
I the real So you sending me to the back,
and I'm noticing when I see cars that's like two ten,

(48:48):
twenty fifteen cars.

Speaker 18 (48:50):
Well, brother, well listen, we don't have no set place
where we put model car. You know, I just direct
the traffic.

Speaker 15 (48:57):
Brother, Okay, So so you're trying to tell me for
the last two months you just direct traffic. Well you
got but you directed me to the back every time.
But a car behind me or a car in front
of me, it'll be going to the front.

Speaker 18 (49:10):
No where you're getting this information from me.

Speaker 16 (49:14):
I didn't seen you man send people to the front
to park. I haven't seen you do no.

Speaker 18 (49:19):
No, I just I just put you know, the bigger
vehicles in the in the back, and uh certain you
know that we it's really no schedule. If you come in,
I just I just direct you to the right of
the left. It's really nothing to it.

Speaker 16 (49:32):
Really, so you're not trying to say so my my
van being raggedy ain't the reason why I'm be No, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 18 (49:41):
No, that's not what we're about. Now, Okay, Well, I'm
sorry you feel that way. I mean, so I guess
this Sunday.

Speaker 15 (49:49):
Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this
Sunday to make sure. No, no, let me tell you
right now when my van pull up there Sunday. I'm
gonna tell you right now, if I get said to
the back, I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna no,
it's gonna be on the problem if I get sent
to the back.

Speaker 18 (50:04):
Now, you don't have to cuts up it. Just just
calm down. It's not it's not that serious.

Speaker 16 (50:09):
No, it is serious. See what now, already know I
know I got a ragged man.

Speaker 15 (50:13):
I know that. I know that, but I see that's
the reason why I'm getting sent to the back. And
I know it because the car I had before y'all
was sending me up front.

Speaker 16 (50:20):
So I already know. I'm just saying.

Speaker 15 (50:21):
I'm telling you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now,
it's gonna be a problem if I get.

Speaker 8 (50:27):
Sent to the back.

Speaker 17 (50:28):
Brother.

Speaker 18 (50:29):
You just singled me out, and no.

Speaker 15 (50:31):
No, did you know I didn't single you out. You
you are the person that has been sending me to
the back.

Speaker 18 (50:37):
Dude, No, No, I haven't.

Speaker 15 (50:39):
Hey man, why you keep Why are you sending it?
Why you accusing me of I'm because I didn't seen it.

Speaker 17 (50:45):
No, you are. You're calling me.

Speaker 18 (50:47):
You're calling me out of the blue, and you accuse
me of something that I'm not doing.

Speaker 16 (50:52):
You just sent my ragged band to the back. You
didn't done it.

Speaker 15 (50:55):
You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan, you have
done it having yes, you know I have you. You
send all the predat hours up front.

Speaker 16 (51:03):
That's what you're doing. But I tell you what comes Sunday,
gonna build a problem.

Speaker 18 (51:06):
So now you're threatened me. I mean now, now listen,
we we we can meet up at it. We can
meet up there to be for any cars get there?

Speaker 17 (51:12):
How about that.

Speaker 16 (51:13):
I don't care how you want to do it, Brenda.

Speaker 18 (51:15):
But you actually do know how you want to do it,
So bring it then.

Speaker 16 (51:17):
Okay, I'm letting you know my car. Yeah, my van
gonna build comes.

Speaker 18 (51:22):
Give bent get band.

Speaker 17 (51:24):
It's me and you. How about that?

Speaker 18 (51:25):
You want you and you want to talk tough tony stuff.

Speaker 16 (51:27):
Oh okay, so you are you sweating all up?

Speaker 1 (51:30):
Now?

Speaker 18 (51:30):
All right, so so go now like you already did,
so I guess I'm matching.

Speaker 16 (51:33):
Okay, well, no problem.

Speaker 18 (51:34):
I'm going to listen, brother, brother, listen, You're not gonna
call my phone and threaten me and tell me what
you what you think I did when I didn't do it.

Speaker 16 (51:43):
It's what I know, Brendy, it's what I know. Okay,
you didn't.

Speaker 17 (51:46):
You didn't see where you at right now?

Speaker 16 (51:48):
Okay, you know you know we ain't got work.

Speaker 17 (51:49):
You know what.

Speaker 16 (51:50):
I'll tell you what you are right now? Come sunny.
That's it's Dan brend.

Speaker 18 (51:53):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no about what you're
doing right now?

Speaker 16 (51:56):
What you mean when I'm doing right now? I'm at
work right now?

Speaker 18 (51:59):
Oh so you at work calling me about some bull
parking spot?

Speaker 15 (52:03):
Oh okay, oh look at the cussing Christian, Now look
at you. No, look at the cuss No, no.

Speaker 18 (52:10):
No, no, matter of fact you Okay, if you want
to do something, let's do it now, parking lot. I don't,
I don't care. We'll be at okay. Okay, Now, that's
one thing you're not gonna do.

Speaker 17 (52:21):
Is disrespect me.

Speaker 18 (52:22):
I'm telling you that right now, brother Calvin, you bring
I'm gonna.

Speaker 17 (52:26):
Fold you like a wet piece of paper.

Speaker 18 (52:27):
You don't know who you're with. Okay, I didn't been
locked up six seven years. I'm just in the church
trying to get my life together. And you said you're
just gonna talk to me. You got another thing coming, brother,
I'm gonna tell you that right now. So if you
want to get it all, meet me in the parking
lot right now. I give you an hour to get
there your piece of tonight.

Speaker 15 (52:46):
Now you're trying to scare me with your with your background.
Tell what it is you're trying to scare me with
your background or something like EVI then you I ain't know.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
You had been in jail with the wrong one.

Speaker 16 (52:58):
I'm just gonna say this, Do you Lester that that
also he also had a car's parking.

Speaker 18 (53:04):
Would you d by yourself out of this.

Speaker 17 (53:08):
You're talking about? I know a Lester?

Speaker 15 (53:10):
Okay, Okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to
call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning. Brenda,
your boy Lester in the parking lot got me the
front from the car.

Speaker 16 (53:30):
I brought the lockdown out of there. You man, did
I bring the lockdown out there?

Speaker 18 (53:38):
Strangle lester? Y'all got me out here talking recklessly? Cast
go ahead, this.

Speaker 16 (53:45):
For hanging in there, bro, and then do this for me. Man,
tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean
the baddest radio show in the land.

Speaker 18 (53:51):
Man, Steve Harvey Radios.

Speaker 15 (53:54):
Man, Hey man, if you see somebody's Sunday pull up
in a van, show them some love, off some love.

Speaker 18 (54:00):
I might have to call out this week, but my
heart can't tea you.

Speaker 15 (54:08):
I go out to the parking lot Ministry. What up
to all of y'all at the churches? The parking Lot Ministry? Yeah,
y'all doing good work, Tommy, just playing with you. I
the Nephew would be Louis Bulle, Kentucky. This weekend Friday,
Saturday Sunday. One show Friday to Saturday, two Sunday. The
Nephew is coming to town. Stupid is on the way,
Ignorance is here Memorial Day weekend, and you do not

(54:30):
want to miss it. Higgas a hown Hell that now
I'm about to be as stupid as.

Speaker 16 (54:37):
Oh my god, You're not gonna believe it.

Speaker 15 (54:41):
You're not gonna do way most stupid than panties and popsicles,
way more stupid than that.

Speaker 16 (54:51):
I create a business, you know, I will.

Speaker 1 (54:53):
Ducks and draw.

Speaker 15 (54:54):
We say ducks and drawn each other.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
What you gonna tell me?

Speaker 15 (55:01):
Come on, oh man, hula hoops and perfect and whigs,
Hula hoops and whigs. You're gonna shake it no matter what.

Speaker 16 (55:13):

Speaker 1 (55:17):
You're crazy.

Speaker 15 (55:20):
I'm about the house before man. Come on out, Littleville, Kentucky,
comes to your boy. The nephew will be there all
weekend long, all week and long. I'm having fun. I'm
being stupid. You're gonna get your party on. You get
your lab phone, and we are going to enjoy.

Speaker 8 (55:31):
I was selled.

Speaker 16 (55:32):
I said it, and I ain't taking none of it back.

Speaker 19 (55:35):
All right, all right, nephew, thank you.

Speaker 12 (55:38):
Coming up next Strawberry letters subject. He's here physically but
not mentally. We'll get into it right after this.

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Speaker 12 (56:14):
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and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVFM dot
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(56:37):
to read this one right here, right now, and you
never know, it could be yours.

Speaker 16 (56:41):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letter.

Speaker 12 (56:46):
All right, nephew, thank you. Subject. He's here physically but
not mentally. Just Steven Shirley. My husband and I were
legally separated for about five months. Things were bad between
us last year and he decided it was best to
move out for a while. I agreed with him, and
he went to stay with his dad. Our son is
seventeen and he's been living with my husband's dad for

(57:09):
his senior year to be closer to school and to
drive its granddad's old Camaro to school. It was an
ideal situation for the three of them. I thought for
sure my husband was going to serve me with divorce papers. Instead,
he called me after Christmas and asked if i'd go
to counseling with him. I agreed, and we went to
see a therapist for two months. He got frustrated and

(57:32):
said the male therapist was taking my side, so we
stopped going. During therapy, I found out that my husband
cheated on me, and it was because he wasn't attracted
to me anymore. I was unfazed by it all. I
just wanted to get a divorce and get it over
with quickly. Then he hit me with a double whammy
and said he was ready to come home. I couldn't

(57:54):
say no because it's his house too. So he has
been back since the first of His body is here,
but not his mind. When I talk to him, and
he smiles and nods his head. When I talk to him,
he smiles and nods his head, I know he's not
paying attention to me. I had decided that if he
ever came back home, I was going to give him

(58:17):
a night he wouldn't forget. But he hasn't touched me
since he got home Saturday night. I tried to shower
with him, but he locked the bathroom door. Why would
he come back home without changing his behavior? I cannot
live like this. Should I be the one that calls
it quits this time? Please help, Please help. This is

(58:37):
really terrible, and clearly he's not ready. I mean, listen,
smiling and nodding his head when you're talking to him.
That's not communication, that's not intimacy. It's hard to tell
where his head is, but you do see his actions,
and they are very clear.

Speaker 1 (58:55):
He's showing you how he feels.

Speaker 12 (58:57):
He got frustrated, you said when and stop going to therapy,
to the male therapist. That's where he confessed to cheating
on you. He said he no longer found you attractive,
and he locked the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (59:10):
Door on you, on you.

Speaker 12 (59:12):
What other conclusion are you supposed to draw from all
of this but that he is over it and not
into you anymore, or he's not into the marriage anymore.
Same thing right there. He can't come back home and
not talk to you or not be affectionate all that.
I think he just maybe wanted to get back in
the house and see if you changed and he's not

(59:32):
necessarily into the marriage.

Speaker 1 (59:34):
He wanted to get back in the house, but not
the marriage.

Speaker 8 (59:37):
Steve, Yeah, this is an easy letter for me. Let's
just go in and get to this. This over, that's
just good.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
This over.

Speaker 8 (59:46):
Let's say nothing. You're with the therapy, you the mood out,
you to move back in. We wouldn't done at all.
We've separated, we've gotten back together, and with the therapy,
he's moved away and he's moved back in, and none
of them situations was good. Now y'all been legally separated

(01:00:08):
for five months. Things were bad between us and y'all all.
Both of y'all decided it was best. So he went
to live with his daddy. Y'all son, who was a
senior in high school, also went to live with him
because it gets him close to the school.

Speaker 16 (01:00:21):
It was ideal for the three of them.

Speaker 8 (01:00:24):
So you think you and he got to drive his
granddaddy's old Camaro to school. So the boy got a caught.
Only one got a good out. This deal with the boy.
Granddaddy did good because he got him some company. You
and your husband thought it was gonna be good because
he got away from you, and you thought it was

(01:00:45):
good because you wanted them to get away from you too,
and you thought for shure he served you with divorce papers. Instead,
he called you after Christmas and asked you to go
to counsel Where you went to counselor? How that work out?

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
When you go to counseling and counseling don't work?

Speaker 8 (01:01:00):
Do you want me to ten what the councilor tell
y'all your husband said he didn't like the mail counselor
because he was signed with you.

Speaker 1 (01:01:09):
Well, the husband was saying some crazy stuff in this.

Speaker 8 (01:01:12):
Session because in this session you found out he cheated
on you. In this session you found out he was
no longer attracted to you. And then when he came
home he locking doors. Now, let me defend him. Hire,
I got to lock that bathroom door. What I locked

(01:01:35):
bathroom doors at my house when I go with him today?
I locked the door because my wife would just start
talking and I don't want to talk with him.

Speaker 1 (01:01:46):
In him.

Speaker 8 (01:01:48):
I got telephone, got games on it, got a TV
in now, got everything. I ain't come in here talking.
So I must defend him on the not talking in
the bathroom. But the rest of his letter, it's just
Nothing's working. The separation didn't work, the therapy didn't work,
and the coming back home didn't work. What we're talking about.

(01:02:13):
So what I think the best way for me to
do is I'm gonna have the ladies. We're gonna do
a slight reenacting. Now here's let me get to this
part from me. He comes back home and since May,
his body is here, but not his mind. This is
what I want you all to focus on. His body's here,
but not his mind. When I talk to him, he

(01:02:34):
smiles and nads his head. I know he ain't paying
attention to me, and I decided when he came back home,
I was gonna Givehi a night for him to remember,
but he ain't touched me. Since he's back home and
his behavior. I cannot live like this. Should I be
the one that calls it quits this time? Please help?
When we come back, Shirley and call him junior. Anybody

(01:02:54):
can ask me the question as the lady, and I
will show you the response of a nun on concerned.

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
Thank you.

Speaker 16 (01:03:03):
Steve.

Speaker 12 (01:03:04):
Coming up, we'll have part two of your response subject
he's here physically but not mentally. We'll get back into
it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
And then you said you wanted to reenactment. This subject
of the Strawberry Letter today is he's here physical, but
not mentally exactly.

Speaker 8 (01:04:02):
This is what this letter's hold all about. The lady
nailed this letter perfectly and has given us enough facts
for us to come to a conclusion. They've been legally
separated for five months. Facts. Okay, ladies, this is what
I'm gonna do when I say something that's true. Y'all
say facts. Wow, my husband and I have been legally

(01:04:23):
separated for about five months. Fat things was bad between
us last year and he decided it was the best
to move out for a while. I agreed with him,
so he went.

Speaker 1 (01:04:34):
To stay with his dad. Facts.

Speaker 8 (01:04:36):
His son, our son seventeen, been living with my husband's
dad for his senior year to be close to the
school and to drive his granddaddy's old Camaro. It was
an ideal situation for the three of them.

Speaker 16 (01:04:49):
Fac.

Speaker 8 (01:04:50):
I thought my husband gonna serve you with divorce papers.
Did on Christmas? But did he After Christmas? He asked
if we could go counseling to get with him.

Speaker 16 (01:05:00):
I agreed.

Speaker 8 (01:05:01):
They went to see a therapist for two months. He
got mad at the therapist because the male therapist was
taking his side, so they stopped going to a therapy.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
Facts.

Speaker 8 (01:05:14):
Well, then they found out why they was in therapy,
that he cheated on the woman, and then he told
her it was because I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
Not attracted to you. Ooh, Facts, So what are we
talking about now?

Speaker 15 (01:05:27):
You know?

Speaker 8 (01:05:27):
Then he hit you with a double whaman told you
he wanted to move back home, and I couldn't say
no because it's his house too.

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
So he been back since.

Speaker 8 (01:05:36):
Mate, his body's here, but not his mind back Facts
all right, now that's over with. So now ladies, listen
to this When I talked to him, he smiles and nods.
I know he's not paying attention to me, And I
thought that when he came back home, I gave a
knight to remember, but he ain't touched me since. And

(01:05:56):
so now I tried to shower with him, he locked
the bathroom. Why would he come back home without changing
his behavior? I cannot live like this? Should I be
the one that calls it quits this time? Help?

Speaker 1 (01:06:07):
Please?

Speaker 8 (01:06:08):
I think you should call it quits because I see
nothing in there. There's no redeeming qualities in here. Y'all
separated because it was going bad. All of y'all agreed.
He went over that. Now why did he come back?
It's what you don't know. Because see, your son got
somebody of it because he driving the carter stool. Yeah,

(01:06:31):
your daddy, his daddy got somebody of it because he
finally had some company. But it ain't good when all
when three men live in the house, an old man,
ranged man, and a young boy.

Speaker 1 (01:06:45):
Ain't nothing clean in that house.

Speaker 8 (01:06:50):
Your husband got out of there because at least he
can come back home. And he came home for convenience,
not for you. Just now, that's all it was. So now,
ladies ask me anything. You are are creators to that,
And I will tell you how an unconcerned her husband

(01:07:10):
reacts because she said, his body's here, but not his mind.
When I talked to him, he nods and smiles, but
I know he had this. I ain't going ahead?

Speaker 1 (01:07:18):
Go ahead, Carla asked, go ahead.

Speaker 14 (01:07:20):
Babe, babe, You're gonna season the ribs and the wings.

Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
For this weekend, for Memorial Days, for the barbecue. Everybody.

Speaker 8 (01:07:29):
Oh, yeah, cause you know what? Yeah, I guess I
love what good? You want some salt and pep on there?

Speaker 11 (01:07:38):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (01:07:38):
You do your things, baby, you're rubbed, do it.

Speaker 8 (01:07:45):
There's some people, there's some people coming over the weekend.

Speaker 17 (01:07:48):
Yes, are you with me?

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
Do you want to see what I'm saying? Get to
meet ready barbecue? Mary, ain't just a little early for
foth juve. It's Memorial Day, Babe, listen three days if
I can count on you for that.

Speaker 19 (01:08:07):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 6 (01:08:10):
I kept saying oday, baby.

Speaker 1 (01:08:15):
I bought this outfit.

Speaker 12 (01:08:16):
I'm gonna go try it on, and I want you
to let me know how it looks something, because I
was thinking about wearing this to the cookout.

Speaker 15 (01:08:25):
You like it?

Speaker 8 (01:08:26):
I look at it?

Speaker 7 (01:08:27):
Just you like it.

Speaker 19 (01:08:28):
Just some shorts in a little top, or I can
put the sun dress on. Which one you like the best?

Speaker 8 (01:08:36):
You're gonna wear the dress?

Speaker 6 (01:08:37):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (01:08:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 17 (01:08:40):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
Are you paying attention? You like the sun dress on me?

Speaker 20 (01:08:46):
If?

Speaker 8 (01:08:46):
Well, where's you going Sunday to the.

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
Cookout?

Speaker 8 (01:08:57):
To the cookout? The cookout ain't until Labor Day? Hey, baby,
stay right there. I gotta I gotta go to the store.
I gotta go get some salt chok. I got seasoned to.

Speaker 16 (01:09:12):
These shorts.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
So how does it make my butt look? These shorts look?
That's cute.

Speaker 15 (01:09:16):
Nine.

Speaker 8 (01:09:18):
I do need some most shouts? Hello, dolls, got elastic?
I got elastic popped in the last pair of shots
I had. Have you seen them?

Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
Are you listening to me at all? Are you listening
to me at all? Nothing?

Speaker 5 (01:09:35):
My mind is here with you, but my mind is
on the side of time, all right.

Speaker 7 (01:09:49):
You see.

Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
I was going, uh yeah, this marriage all right?

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Speaker 8 (01:09:58):
Call out son, I tell him pick me up in
that camaro because I gotta get out to the stove
for close.

Speaker 12 (01:10:03):
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Speaker 1 (01:10:52):
It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What
you got Junior?

Speaker 10 (01:10:56):
All right, Shirley.

Speaker 9 (01:10:57):
Game one between Minnesota Timberwolves and the Overland, Oklahoma City Thunder.

Speaker 10 (01:11:01):
The Thunder took Game one one, fourteen.

Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
To eighty eight.

Speaker 9 (01:11:05):
It's a twenty sixth point blowout. Listen shot Gilgers. Alexander
gonna be the MVP, no doubt, and he showed up
last night. Anthony Edwards was eighteen, and he said he
wanted all the smoke. Well they brought it to him,
and uh yeah, an l was gonna have to stop
talking and start playing basketball. You're gonna have to squit
trying to prove to us that you're the best. Okay,

(01:11:27):
just play like you the best, because he did last night.
They came out in the beginning, they you know, Minnesota
looked like they looked like they had it under control
on the road, but as soon as the third quarter
got here, it was a different team. At halftime. They
did not show up in that second half. So if
you got something else to do, if the league get
more than ten points, go ahead and start cooking, get
your dinner ready early, go to bed. We ain't gonna

(01:11:49):
sit up here and watch these blowouts. This is all
I'm saying. Just go ahead and find something else to do.

Speaker 8 (01:11:55):
Yeah, I'm not disappointed either way. I'm gonna have to
train you Junion. You know, being from Cleveland, you've got
to learn how to suffer. You've got to learn how
to suffer. I have told y'all one of my strips,
one of my great qualities, is my ability to suffer.

(01:12:15):
You're gonna have to well you know, but you're going
through it. That's whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
His pain is not our pain.

Speaker 15 (01:12:23):
Just drag his pain like that's supposed to be. Everybody
learn to do it, you know, skill yourself and stuff
to do.

Speaker 8 (01:12:36):
Hey, hey, listen to me. You took the Houston lost
the wrong way.

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
Now you're gonna.

Speaker 8 (01:12:45):
Right. But see this is all from this stems collar
from the Houston Rocket is losing ever since they lost
their attitude been like this. They ain't these dodgers. This
goes back to you all.

Speaker 15 (01:12:58):
We hear back you growing up up and were in Cleveland,
and it's always just been just a bunch of sending
up and this is just over the years and you
and all we here is Cleveland did this too. We
don't never put Oh, they and broke our heart again.
This is all on you, and you want us to
feel that, and I'll don't feeling that with you. Just

(01:13:19):
just stop being sad, all right. I'm tired of sense
you right here, see right here, see here is the
misread in you. This is a complete mystery.

Speaker 8 (01:13:35):
Ah Unlike you and him are have stopped being sad
a long time ago. Y'all don't know how to suffer
what you're fitting to learn though, because Houston at the
House and Oklahoma Blue ouptember Wood next.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
See you tomorrow, guys, Thank you, Thank you. Junior.

Speaker 12 (01:13:57):
Coming up at the top of the hour, a lady
found that her sister had sex with her man and
she needs some advice.

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
Steve.

Speaker 12 (01:14:03):
We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this is
from Vita and Raleigh. Vita says, over twenty years ago,
my sister had sex with my boyfriend. I ran into
the guy at our class reunion recently and he told
me what happened. He said that my sister came on

(01:14:26):
to him because I had told her that he was
good in dead. He said she teased him about being
scared to have sex with someone older than him, so
he did it to prove her wrong. I believe him.

Speaker 19 (01:14:38):
How could my sister do that?

Speaker 1 (01:14:40):
She has kept this secret for years. I want to
confront her. But is it worth it? This Vita, twenty
years ago, I don't know if it was worth I
don't know.

Speaker 7 (01:14:53):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:14:53):
Let me answer this question, Shirley, because I think all
thet huh, how did she find out about it? To
do just volunteered the information.

Speaker 16 (01:15:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
Yeah, she ran into him at their class reunion and
he told her what happened. Oh, they not seeing each other,
she just ran into him.

Speaker 12 (01:15:11):
Yeah at the class reunion. This happened over twenty years ago, Steve,
and he brought that up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:15:19):
That's a real nothing dude, man. Exactly, that's a real
nothing dude. And if I were you, I would not
allow him to ruin you in your sister's relationship like
that because you had a where did this devil come from?
From under this rock?

Speaker 19 (01:15:34):
Exactly?

Speaker 8 (01:15:35):
We had twenty year reunion and that he been he
the whole time. He been thinking of telling you this.

Speaker 1 (01:15:42):
Dude, man, Yeah, what is he looking like after twenty years? Anyway?

Speaker 8 (01:15:46):
He say he had to say, which is really what's
throwing up?

Speaker 7 (01:15:51):
Exactly?

Speaker 1 (01:15:53):
That's what come on, That's what I want to get through.

Speaker 8 (01:15:56):
Yeah, because I've seen some people from my past. I've
heard woman say you remember me, uh huh, and and
you said all I remembered wasn't the voice. Have you
noticed that when you get older, your face and head

(01:16:19):
gets bigger?

Speaker 6 (01:16:21):
Is that true?

Speaker 1 (01:16:22):
Boy?

Speaker 8 (01:16:22):
Look at your old pictures? Yeah, your face and head
is bigger than it was in college.

Speaker 19 (01:16:30):
Yeah, the face gets a little wider, yeah face.

Speaker 8 (01:16:34):
Yeah, and some of them get wider than normal. I
was talking to that girl. It looked like her whole
face was shut.

Speaker 1 (01:16:45):
Was shut everything that comes to your mind.

Speaker 6 (01:16:51):
Back?

Speaker 1 (01:16:52):
Can you open your face?

Speaker 15 (01:16:54):
One?

Speaker 16 (01:16:56):
We can talk.

Speaker 1 (01:16:59):
All right, we'll face in the box.

Speaker 12 (01:17:03):
We're moving on. We have time for another one, Steve.
This one is from Dwayne in Monroe. Dwayne says, I
walked in on my girlfriend talking to another guy. She
was asking if he was okay and if he needed anything.
She said she was going to bring some food by
because he needed to eat something. I asked her if
the guy had a death in the family, and she

(01:17:24):
said he was sad over a breakup. I think it's
inappropriate for my girl to be counseling her grown coworker
after a breakup. I told her that he's setting her
up to see how nice she can be. Am I
wrong for how I feel about this?

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 15 (01:17:41):
No?

Speaker 8 (01:17:41):
You ain't wrong, You ain't got wrong. But your problem
is how your.

Speaker 1 (01:17:46):
Girl don't see no wrong in what she doing.

Speaker 13 (01:17:49):
Huh.

Speaker 8 (01:17:50):
See, you can't disrespect your man. I'm just telling you
that right now, and you can't have your man thinking
for one moment the man in front of him, No
more than a woman can feel like there's another woman
in front of her. That ain't gonna make that. That
ain't gonna make no sense to nobody in a Relationshipry.

Speaker 1 (01:18:12):
All of those and their food on over here over here,
you know, Yeah, you ain't taking nobody nothing.

Speaker 8 (01:18:20):
He ain't got nobody can take him some soup and
how you just concerned about his happiness exactly?

Speaker 1 (01:18:27):
And he doesn't have a cold.

Speaker 19 (01:18:28):
What is she taking food.

Speaker 8 (01:18:29):
Over there for?

Speaker 7 (01:18:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
I don't know what he's saying to get that. Yeah,
soup and stuff. That's a cure for a breakup, all right,
all right, thanks Steve.

Speaker 12 (01:18:44):
Coming up in twenty minutes after we'll have more of
the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:18:48):
Right after this.

Speaker 16 (01:18:50):
Soup and pennies. Now, that's another one I could get into.

Speaker 1 (01:18:53):
Oh you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (01:19:01):
Well, guys, summer is one month away, and it's that
time of year when arguments over the thermostat in.

Speaker 1 (01:19:07):
The house heat up, so to speak.

Speaker 12 (01:19:09):
Couples notoriously argue over it being too hot or too
cold in the house, so the US Department of Energy
weighed in on what the ideal household temperature should be
this summer. According to the report, the ideal temperature to
set your AC is seventy eight degrees seven eight threes.

Speaker 1 (01:19:29):
They're saying, agrees, what what what?

Speaker 20 (01:19:34):
What?

Speaker 8 (01:19:34):
What department? Is this your?

Speaker 1 (01:19:36):
The US Department of Energy. Steve, Yeah, a.

Speaker 8 (01:19:40):
Lot married to Mardie, cold Tommy. It wouldn't bother me.
We live and most I think, all three to me,
and I think we all live in a meat lockerm
got a cold now I do, and all all of

(01:20:00):
us is ball hitted. Wait a minute, wait, wait, if
you look at the zoom right now, and I asked
you all this right here, ladies, ladies, look at Joe
zoom right now, look up at Joso. Can you tell
which one ain't ball hitting? And he also is?

Speaker 1 (01:20:18):
No you call it me? Can you tell who is
not ball hitting?

Speaker 7 (01:20:29):
Julia?

Speaker 21 (01:20:30):
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all right? Coming up next we'll play around this. You're
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It's time now, guys, for a round of would you rather?
And this is the Memorial Day edition, okay, the holiday edition?
Would you rather?

Speaker 1 (01:21:26):
A cooler full of sodas or a cooler full of
beer and wine? Both going bof a.

Speaker 8 (01:21:36):
I don't drink. I don't drink beers. My boy's a beer.

Speaker 1 (01:21:43):
They drinks plenty of it. Drink anything. The look or
bial for my dudes when they come.

Speaker 8 (01:21:50):
It's astronomical, well goodness, extranomical.

Speaker 1 (01:21:56):
Wow.

Speaker 12 (01:21:57):
Would you rather have a water balloon fight or would
you rather have a water gun fight? We're doing water
balloons or water gun.

Speaker 8 (01:22:05):
Yeah, water gun fight, balloom boom, Junior. You have to
have your water gun fighter ballue fight here with warm.

Speaker 1 (01:22:14):
Water, no ice, cold water for Junior.

Speaker 8 (01:22:22):
It ain't gonna be refreshing.

Speaker 12 (01:22:26):
All right at the cookout for Memorial Day? Would you
rather some classic classic R and B music? Or would
you rather some current.

Speaker 19 (01:22:36):
R and B music?

Speaker 1 (01:22:38):
Ain't got nothing.

Speaker 8 (01:22:41):
Like what current R and B music? The Beau some Walker.

Speaker 10 (01:22:49):
Money long Money, Yeah, yeah, October London.

Speaker 1 (01:22:54):
Oh yeah, she really does his whole album.

Speaker 8 (01:23:00):
He's class, Yes, he's classic boy.

Speaker 1 (01:23:04):
Yes, all right?

Speaker 12 (01:23:06):
Would you rather have jury duty for two months? Or
would you rather go to five Broadway musicals?

Speaker 16 (01:23:13):
Is it puffet?

Speaker 1 (01:23:14):
That don't? Is it puffets?

Speaker 20 (01:23:19):
Your duty?

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
Jury duty for two months? It might be puffy and
Mike whoever? I couldn't serve on.

Speaker 8 (01:23:26):
That, I can't and all that crazy? My face up,
that so crazy hard drawing me right, defendant, Look at
Steve Hey, yeah, Steve mouth fell open for the ninth

(01:23:50):
time this morning. All right, we have to fantom at
the opera. Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:23:57):
Five Broadway musicals?

Speaker 8 (01:23:58):
All right?

Speaker 18 (01:24:00):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:24:01):
Last one for Memorial Day?

Speaker 12 (01:24:02):
Would you rather have a seafood boil or would you
rather have a barbecue?

Speaker 1 (01:24:07):
Which one? Well, b barbecue food ball.

Speaker 16 (01:24:14):
Barbecue?

Speaker 8 (01:24:14):
Dennis breading that paper TenneT bag or eat?

Speaker 1 (01:24:19):
You're talking about? That's good people?

Speaker 8 (01:24:21):
Hey, who is y'all moved back? That's my signe.

Speaker 7 (01:24:25):
Who is.

Speaker 8 (01:24:27):
I'm looking over there at the crab. Then you grab it.

Speaker 20 (01:24:30):
What come into some fis last break of the day
and we'll close out the show with the one and
only the Man, the Myth, the Legend, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (01:24:49):
Folks.

Speaker 8 (01:24:50):
There are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai. Hyundai
has done a lot to support American consumers. I mean,
they announced their investments of twenty one billion dollars in
expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americas.

Speaker 15 (01:25:07):
M s r P through June second, no matter what.

Speaker 16 (01:25:13):
Called five six two three one.

Speaker 8 (01:25:14):
Four four six zero three for more details.

Speaker 12 (01:25:18):
All right, guys, here we are last break of the day,
and it's been a great day.

Speaker 1 (01:25:23):
Wow, what a day it has been. Steve, you got
some for us? What a question, Carlin? Question for Steve. Yeah,
So here's my question.

Speaker 8 (01:25:36):
Listening it's.

Speaker 1 (01:25:40):
It is mean trying to Steve was looking at me like, uh,
did Carlin?

Speaker 15 (01:25:49):
She had a question?

Speaker 1 (01:25:50):
Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm like that that blacked out. Here's
my question. Steve, how do you show up for yourself
every day? How do you do that?

Speaker 8 (01:26:00):
Is a.

Speaker 1 (01:26:02):
I know it's a struggle sometimes, you know, I guess
I would have to say a person has.

Speaker 8 (01:26:09):
To make a commitment to your vision, to your dreams,
to your aspirations, and you got to get committed to that.
And you have to really understand that this is based
solely on you making the decision every day that I'm
gonna be about it. And if you're not gonna be

(01:26:31):
about it, you can stop looking around because it's really
on you.

Speaker 1 (01:26:36):
It's really not about anybody else.

Speaker 8 (01:26:39):
It's really not what they saying about you online, it's
not about how they feel about you on your job,
and nothing to do with your coworkers. Your boss might
have a certain amount of control in certain situations, but
your boss is not in control of your destiny and
your life unless you give it to him. And not

(01:27:01):
to give permission to anybody to have control over my
life or my destiny except my God. That's it, and
I have made a conscious commitment. It's what you gotta do, y'all.
You gotta decide I'm gonna be about it today. I'm
gonna be about it. In spite of I'm gonna be

(01:27:24):
about it, in spite of the fact that I don't
really feel myself today, I'm gonna be about it. I'm
gonna be about it no matter what they say. I'm
gonna be about it, no matter what the naysayers have
come up with. I don't care what the vote is.
I really don't care. I can't tell you how many
times I have had to ignore what's being said about me,

(01:27:49):
and you have to do that. I can't tell you
how many times you're gonna have to ignore their opinion
of you. You have got to make a commitment in
you your mind that you're gonna be about it. And
you know, you hear the saying that the race isn't
given to the swift, but to him that endure it
to the end. You got to endure, man. This is

(01:28:14):
not going to be simple or easy. You have got
to be persistent because guess what life gonna keep coming,
and what you have to factor into it every day
is that haters is coming to.

Speaker 1 (01:28:31):
They coming.

Speaker 8 (01:28:34):
And the crazy thing like now in the world we
live in today is because of social media and technology,
hater's got a voice, hater's got a platform. Who used
to never be able to even have access to you.
So you gotta be careful with trolling and social media
and all of these stuff. Man, you can't let that

(01:28:56):
in be in your life, because man, you'll get there.
I forgot what I was watching the other day, and
the person was so hung up on the social media
and what they were saying. Oh, I know what I
was watching. I was watching a documentary on Meg the Stallion.

(01:29:16):
I was on a plane and I was watching, which
is a really good thing. You know, these young people
they document so much of their life because they got
phone cameras and they got somebody following them for social
media content. But if you keep it on long enough,
you start hearing the real. And Meg the Stallion was
really going through it with that trial, with that with
that guy that shot her and all like this, and

(01:29:37):
then so many people sided against her and it started
affecting her mentally where she was having anxiety and depression
and all of this here. And she said at one moment,
she said, every time something would happen, she would see
what the post was saying, and they was eating her
up and it was throwing her into something. And she said,

(01:29:59):
I got stop reading this stuff. Well, you got to
stop reading it, because now you're allowing someone else to
have an opinion about you that don't even know you,
and and what's more importantly, do not even care about you.
So I developed a couple of I developed a couple

(01:30:19):
of coping mechanisms. Number one, if you don't have my
cell number, I don't care what you think. I don't.
And that has really helped, because if you're important to me,
you probably have my number. And if my number ain't
lit up with texts from people who actually have access

(01:30:42):
to me, what do I care about you online? And
then you have to understand about trollers and haters. They
are not decision makers, power brokers, shakers and movers. They're
none of that.

Speaker 1 (01:30:56):
They just hate us.

Speaker 8 (01:30:58):
So I have decide it that I'm going to show
up every day, even when I don't feel like it.
Just showing up makes you win.

Speaker 20 (01:31:07):
Man.

Speaker 8 (01:31:09):
Just showing up put you ahead of the game. Do
you know how many people are not gonna show up?
You know how many people gonna quit?

Speaker 17 (01:31:17):
Not me.

Speaker 8 (01:31:18):
I've made a commitment to show up. I'm showing up.
Just show up, man, Just keep putting one foot in
front of the next, keep showing up. There's a victory
on the other side of that, and I don't care
how uncomfortable it is. But I've discovered one last thing.
Everything I've ever wanted in life was on the other

(01:31:41):
side of uncomfortable. I just keep putting my foot in
front of the other. I don't care how uncomfortable it is.
I'm committed. Ton't show up. Thank you for asking, because
those are my closing lids. Why sho That's why they
talk to God today. He'd absolutely love to hear.

Speaker 16 (01:31:58):
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