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Now, good morning everybody.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
You are listening to the voice, Come on now dig
me one and only Steve Harvey Man oh Man got
a radio show. The only way to find your real purpose,
your real mission in life. You're real what for? The
thing that you got to go get it get after
is you got to connect with God. You have to
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connect with him because as your creator, no one knows
better what you were made for than your maker. I
mean not just I mean man, and you just make
a lot of common sense, don't it. I mean really,
you know, people kill me with the lack of belief.
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I think that science is very real. I think that
science is very applicable. I think that science helps us
learn so many things. But science ain't everything. Now, you
might as well under that there's some unexplainables that science
can't wrap their mind around. So here they go with
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something else, and then you got the nay sayers who
use that, the non believers who use that as the
proof that there is no high calling on how being.
And I listen to me, I don't really into explaining
all that a way. If that's how you feel, then
gone and get the feeling how you feeling with it.
But let me explain something to you. I just don't
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see how God is really almost unexplainable to me. So
really for me to sit here and try to explain,
I'm really not that good of a guy, you know
what I mean, I'm not that person. So let me
try to give you something real here. Okay, so this
we done. Just had that moment. I had to get
that off my chest. I want, I want. I want
to share something with you about when you strike out
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to find your mission, or how about when you strike
out on your mission once you discover what your purpose is,
or let's simplify, what happens when you set a goal
and you're ready to strike out on that goal. What
happens when you set an ambition in front of you,
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or put something in your sights that you want to
attain that you want to become successful at what's.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
The mind set that you have to develop. There are
three things.
Speaker 6 (04:36):
You must first ask, You must then believe, and you
must then receive. Now the received part, all these parts
iss got a thing to it. You gotta ask. You
just got to ask for it. You know you've heard
the scripture before, You have not because you ask not
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Why don't you ask? But then after you ask, here's
the kick. You got to believe that it can happen
for you. Stop looking at the success of other people
and not thinking that that same success can happen for you.
Then I'm not saying that Pacific waye specific weight. I'm
just saying that a success can happen for you, just
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like it can happen for somebody else. Why do you
think it keeps happening to other people over and over
because they ask and they believe. Now here's the cold part.
Receive it?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Oh what you mean?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Receive it? I ask for it. I believe in it.
Why would I not want to receive it?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Act like it, Act like it's already there.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
Behaviors though you have it in your hands, Smile about it,
Realize that man is just days away.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
And how many of days that is. If it's days away,
it's just days away.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
We don't know if it's gonna happen tomorrow, next week,
in thirty days. We don't know if it's gonna take
a few years. But you got to receive it though.
You gotta ask, You got to believe, and you got
to receive it. You gotta act as though as that.
Now there's another part now to this about work. You
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don't please. Faith with our works is dead. Don't think
you're gonna just ask for something believing and then go
sit down, start watching TV. Come on, now, let's get real.
Let's not leave out the other jewel. You got to work.
But now here hear what I want you to know
about when you strike out on that mission, that the
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journey that you strike out on to accomplish a goal
or to set out on the mission. The journey, if
you could understand this, or to help you so much,
the journey is a process. It's not an arrival date.
It's a process. All you're looking to do, folks, is
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start the process. Get it started. Don't worry about the
arrival date. Act like it's there. The arrival date is coming.
But here is the beauty of the journey being a process.
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But all along the way of your journey you will
find success the whole time you're on the on the journey,
the whole time you're in the process of finding your mission,
fulfilling your mission, uncovering your dreams, reaching your goals. The
beauty of it is all along the way you're going
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to find success on so many levels. And people fail
to look at the part. They keep thinking of themselves, Man,
I ain't there yet, I ain't you know. It's like
when you take a little kid on a long car
tripping there in the back seat. Are we there yet?
Are we there yet?
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Boy?
Speaker 6 (08:11):
If you just look out the window, see where we
done being? Look out the window, look at the mountains,
Look at these trees, look at the views we got. No,
we ain't there yet. But Lord have mercy. Look at
what he's showing us along the way. Smell the roses,
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have yourself a cup of coffee, chill every now and then,
and see what he's doing for you. Because the journey
is a process. But man, know that in the process
of arriving at your designated gold dream, ambition, or mission.
Understand this, that the journey is a process. But all
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along the way you'll find success. That are things that
are going to happen to you along the way, man,
that will be so gratifying and fulfilling. Where the journey
is joyful, there is joy in the journey. You don't
have to be there to appreciate the ride. Appreciate the
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journey and the process. Stop getting mad because you ain't
at the arrival dat or your dreams ain't come true yet.
Look up, Look up. You might discover, man, that you
living better. You might discover that you don't have a
million yet, but you'd have made a quarter of a million.
What you tripping for because you ain't got the million yet?
Remember when you didn't have nothing? Be grateful for the
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two hundred and fifty thousand dollar mark, the one hundred
thousand dollars mark, the three hundred and twenty two thousand
dollars mark. Don't you understand, man, you may not be
where you wanna be, But man, can't you thank God
that you ain't where you was? How about that? One?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Huh?
Speaker 6 (09:56):
All right?
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You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 6 (10:04):
Ladies and gentlemen, It has happened again, over and over
and over that God, the one we mentioned all the time.
He just keeps coming through. Another day, another chance, another opportunity,
another blessing, another gift from God. You are here, take
advantage of it. Start with gratitude. It affect your attitude,
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which is in direct correlation to your altitude. Get it together, y'all, Yeah,
give God some glory. Start there. Steve Harvey Morning Show,
Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica Junior and the
legend that he is. Nephew Tommy Junior. What's going on today? Plan?
Speaker 7 (10:42):
You know, you talk about this a lot about getting
into the circle that you need to be in, getting
into the right circle, and how fast do we need
to get there, and what's the benefit of us getting there?
Speaker 6 (10:52):
Well, let me say this to you. Somebody told me
once to take out a pen and paper and write
down on your five closest associates and friends, and then
beside their names, write down their qualities, write down their
qualities and any flaws they have. Just simple one word,
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you know, strong, caring, you know, a loof whatever it is. Now,
when you get through with those five people, you have
just described yourself. Because see, when it comes to your
people that you associate with in your circle, you actually
get to pick them. So what you end up doing
inadvertently and you don't even realize it, is you pick
people who you have similarities with. That's how you become friends.
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I heard John O'Brien say something, if you hang around
nine broke people, you will be number ten.
Speaker 5 (11:46):
Ah.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Command association brings on participation. Now, who you pick and
choose to associate with is up to you. The sad
part about this election process is most people, instead of
choosing alone, just gonna pick somebody so they can have somebody.
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But everybody ain't good for you. How many times have
you discovered somebody wasn't good for you? God, how many
times have you discovered somebody was around you that had
an agenda?
Speaker 5 (12:27):
You know what?
Speaker 6 (12:27):
The guy worked for me, he told me one time,
and I argue with him in the ground until he
proved it to me. He said, mister h loyalty has
an expiration date. And I thought that was the most
asinine thing you could say to me, because I'm a
loyal person to the end. But that's the problem. I'm
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a loyal person to the end and everybody, but usually
and oftentimes what you find out is the person that
you're loyal to has stopped being loyal to you a
long time ago, has an expiration date, and you need
to learn how to recognize it, because if you can
recognize the expiration dates, then you can end your loyalty too.
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But how many times have you stayed too long? I
stayed so long until it costs me money. Yeah, in
both cases. Even the guy that tart it to me
stole from me. That's amazing, man.
Speaker 8 (13:25):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (13:26):
And as my father used to always tell me, best
lesson is a bolt lesson. The one you paid for
is the one you learned the best. And I sure did.
Speaker 5 (13:36):
So.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
Change your association.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Check your friend groups, all right?
Speaker 9 (13:39):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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Speaker 1 (14:23):
All right, the nephew is here to run that prank back.
What you got first, nef, This is right.
Speaker 10 (14:28):
Here is no hair weaves, ladies, no hair weaves. Okay, No,
that's not okay.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Don't be saying it like it's cool.
Speaker 9 (14:38):
What your decision?
Speaker 6 (14:39):
Hey, hey, hey, he break right.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Here is no heavens.
Speaker 6 (14:44):
I set the tone and I set the rules.
Speaker 9 (14:47):
No hair week, all right, pretty tony, No, let's go
get no weeds.
Speaker 11 (14:56):
Hello.
Speaker 5 (14:57):
Hello, I'm trying to reach Resa. Please recent Hi Resa.
My name is Byron, Byron from the job. How are you.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I'm okay?
Speaker 5 (15:05):
How are you? I'm good? Listen, I hate to call
you after hours. That's your home. But there has been
some new issues that will be going into effect. That
was just tomorrow morning, and we're calling everyone letting them
know the new changes that have been issued that will
take effect first thing tomorrow morning. So we're giving everyone
a call. So don't be alarmed. It's just give me
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a call. Letting you know what the what the higher
ups have changed.
Speaker 12 (15:29):
Okay, okay, that's no problem to listen.
Speaker 5 (15:32):
Okay, As of tomorrow, what's gonna happen is when you
guys come in, you'll be issued a new key card,
and that particular card will actually registers when you come
in and go out. Okay, okay, all right. Second one
is there will no longer be any personal internet at
the job any longer. You won't be able. They're actually
putting a block on all computers. All the computers will
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no longer be able to go to a lot of
these sites that you guys go to that you've been
that's been available here in the past. Okay, okay, all right.
The last one is reesa do you do you wear
a hair weave? What do you wear a hair weave
or a wig?
Speaker 13 (16:11):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (16:12):
Okay, Well here's one thing, and hopefully you can get
this change about tomorrow. There's no weaves or hair are
wigs going to be allowed at the job site from
this point on, So as of tomorrow morning, everyone must
be wearing their natural hair. You're uh no. These are
the issues that are going to be that are instated,
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and these are going to take effect as of tomorrow
morning seven o'clock.
Speaker 12 (16:37):
What does hair weaves to have to do with any
of these changes? The first two I can understand punching
in and being on the internet. Yes, that's something that
that corporate. But hair weave and weeks are you get
any change?
Speaker 5 (16:51):
Are they're looking down upon it? Wigs and hair weaves
they have to go. So I'm assuming that if you,
like you said, you do have one, I suggest it
doesn't come out there. You start taking it down now
and prepare your hair to be natural as you come
in to work tomorrow.
Speaker 12 (17:08):
I'm not taking my hair down. I've been here seven
years and I've dealt with all the changes that y'all
have made. But there's no way that I'm taking my
hair weave down. I'm sorry. What's your name, Byron?
Speaker 5 (17:18):
Yes, my name is Byron, and I'm sorry. Let's get
back to your weave. This has You're gonna have to
do something. Is there someone that you can call tonight
to help you get your hair down and so you
can look presentable with your natural hair tomorrow.
Speaker 12 (17:32):
No, my weave colls over two three hundred dollars and
I'm not about to take that down. I mean it
takes a long time to take that down.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
Okay, I mean, is this something Maybe you can take
it down and just wear it on the weekends because
as of now, you're not going to be allowed to
actually wear it on the property.
Speaker 12 (17:50):
And how will you know if someone has weave or not?
Are you going to do hair checks or something?
Speaker 5 (17:55):
Okay, ma'am, I'm not quite sure what they're going to
do to check it. But by you telling me that
you have a weave, then I have to write it
down that you have confirmed that you do, and we
got to make sure that tomorrow morning you're not wearing one.
Speaker 12 (18:10):
But you don't know what my natural hair looks like
from my weave. You heard how much I pay for it,
So it's a good weave, ma'am.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
It's not about how good you know with the quality
of your weave or anything. They don't want it. They
want natural hair. I don't know what that means. But
they're going natural, they're going green, they're going natural. I
don't know what it is. They're going natural, and so
will you. Tomorrow morning you need to come in with
your hair completely down. Okay, I won't do it.
Speaker 12 (18:37):
I'm not taking my weave now.
Speaker 5 (18:38):
Okay, what is that y'all.
Speaker 12 (18:39):
Gonna write me up or something?
Speaker 5 (18:41):
Okay, ma'am, do you not want your job? Yeah?
Speaker 12 (18:43):
I want my job, but this don't make no sense.
You're talking about personal appearance. I can understand y'all have
a dress coach and enforcing a dress code, that's one thing.
But telling somebody to change they have you lost your mind?
Speaker 5 (18:56):
Man?
Speaker 12 (18:57):
You're crazy, ma'am.
Speaker 5 (18:58):
I'm not gonna I have other people that have to call.
Bottom line is get your hat out and get your
butt into work tomorrow, and let's not go back and
forth anymore.
Speaker 12 (19:06):
Okay, Well, listen, by ranch, you're a lost mine. If
you thinking I'm taking my weave out, I'm not taking
out at all. Resa is coming up in there with
her hair, and I'm gonna sit down at my desk
and do my jobs. Y'all won't have to drag me
out some weeds. You lost your mind? You and your
powers that be or whoever they may be. You tell
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them that I said that.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Wait a minute, Wait a minute, listen. Are you telling
me that you're coming in regardless with your hair on you?
Speaker 12 (19:36):
That's what I just said?
Speaker 5 (19:37):
O God? Are you? Then? Then we need to why
don't you go ahead and bring some boxes in because
you I'm not you bring this, ma'am. I don't want
to have to pack. You get your stuff and box
it up, and you're losing your job because you can't
take no what you can do that?
Speaker 12 (19:54):
Because I'm gonna call the news station and tell them
you're dragging me out of behind some weeds.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
Who you wrong?
Speaker 12 (20:00):
You wrong? You stupid behind you.
Speaker 5 (20:04):
You need to watch your language, young lady.
Speaker 12 (20:05):
Why I need to watch my language?
Speaker 6 (20:07):
I'm at home.
Speaker 12 (20:07):
You call me on my own home phone on my time.
Speaker 5 (20:11):
I'm at my house.
Speaker 12 (20:12):
I'm not on your block. I say what I want
to say on my phone.
Speaker 5 (20:15):
Okay? Can I say what I want on my phone?
And then I'll let you go and you can come
into the work anywhere you want to tomorrow. What is it, baba?
Speaker 12 (20:22):
What else you got to say?
Speaker 5 (20:23):
I want to tell you. I want to tell you
that your girlfriend Jennifer at your job got me the
prank phone. Call you. This is Nephew Tommy from the
Steve Harvey Morning Show. I know you, hey, reasons. This
is this is Nephew tilling me baby from the Steve
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Hobby Morning Your Jennifer, your coworker got me the prank
phone call.
Speaker 12 (20:49):
She got my blood pressure up. I'm gonna kill that
tomorrow and I'm gonna pull Homewie you out. You want
to come down there and watch me dragon out of
the wig blood pressure. You can't be doing that to
me behind my weave. I paid too much money.
Speaker 5 (21:03):
I definitely have spent on my kids. Ain't nothing like
a black woman in her half. I got one more
thing to ask you, girl, what is the baddest radio
show in the land. Well, after this.
Speaker 12 (21:16):
Prank, he has to be the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
God, nah, no, I'd be.
Speaker 9 (21:25):
Back all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next, it
is asked the COLO or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey
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Speaker 1 (22:30):
It's out now.
Speaker 9 (22:31):
That's at the top of the hour, But right now
it is time to ask the clo our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey.
Speaker 5 (22:38):
Here we go.
Speaker 9 (22:39):
Steve's CLO kenrick in Ackworth writes, I left my phone
in my girlfriend's car and she told me that she
didn't check my text. She said she checked my bank
balance instead. Why is she concerned when we're not that serious?
Am I dealing with a gold digger? Or should I
expect that.
Speaker 6 (23:00):
You just made some statements that you don't know the
answer to you? Why would she check that? And we
not that serious? I promise you she think y'all serious.
I'll give you my word on that. You know, and
I don't know how y'all do. How y'all think y'all
sleeping with these women?
Speaker 4 (23:16):
Now?
Speaker 6 (23:16):
Don't think that's serious? How y'all?
Speaker 5 (23:19):
What?
Speaker 6 (23:25):
But see, why have you when you first met her,
did you mention to her, Hey, look, I'm just into
casual sex. Did you ever mention that you or you
mentioned the standard. I'm looking for somebody that I could
build a life with one day, settle down, maybe have
a family, and then they plug theirself into that because
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you know how to say what they want to hear.
Is that's what you said? Or did you openly tell
her no, I just want to have casual sex. And
now she going through your phone. She ain't check your text,
but she check your bank account when it ain't that serious.
Stops leaping when women thinking it ain't serious, come.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
On that part? Come on, yeah, drop the mic.
Speaker 6 (24:06):
I love it. She saw that dog, can't.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
She's lying in here.
Speaker 9 (24:15):
They're both lying, all right. Moving on to Janets and
Brooklyn Jane's writes. My husband and I tried a new
restaurant that he had been dying to take me to.
It was one of those places with a lot of
sexy women working with sexy women working with their boob showing?
Was that disrespectful? Or am I reading too much into it?
Should I be mad?
Speaker 6 (24:37):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, Hooters ain't that good of restaurant. Yeah,
y'all need to change, y'all upgrade that just Hooters. Lady
Tommy say it's a place called Twin Peaks. Yeah, either one,
either one of them two. Yeah, they may't find that
he take her there? I don't know, is that true?
Speaker 9 (25:00):
Do you want to take someone to?
Speaker 6 (25:04):
Uh not the Hooters.
Speaker 8 (25:09):
Sports?
Speaker 9 (25:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (25:12):
I don't like them nursing stockings they well, so ain't
a big deal.
Speaker 5 (25:15):
For me with you?
Speaker 6 (25:19):
He's right about the ugly's them ugly nursing stockings that
they be wearing look like support holes fish. Well, you know,
if you're gonna take a long flight, I can understand
you wearing a compression.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Youth.
Speaker 6 (25:37):
Uh No, I didn't say nothing, but I just don't.
I don't like the little old lady stockings about. And
then Hooters went through a fall off period too. Do
you mean they just started letting anybody work there?
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Okay, we're moving on.
Speaker 6 (25:57):
You could work there without Hooters?
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Yeah, all right, moving on? To a treas in Tampa.
Speaker 9 (26:10):
The treat writes, I almost had sex with a guy
in my car, but the police rode through the parking
lot of a club. He called and said we should
try it again in the car if he can't spring
for a hotel room or come over to my house.
Should I be messing with this dude?
Speaker 6 (26:26):
Yeah? I mean, look, your first time was in a car.
You a conquered Wow, you a cargirl. Why would he
treat you better if you didn't require to be treated better.
If you wanted to climb in the backseat of a car,
then let's do it in the car. Let's try to
get in the car. I ain't got to get no
room your cargirl.
Speaker 9 (26:47):
Cargirl?
Speaker 6 (26:49):
Wow, that's so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
What what's uncomfortable? Having so Steve?
Speaker 9 (26:59):
I mean, obviously she needs some real health here. Coo,
she's saying. Should I be messing with this?
Speaker 6 (27:05):
Dude?
Speaker 9 (27:06):
I get what you're saying. You're starcasm, but you have
to tell her.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, stop, lady, stop requirement.
Speaker 6 (27:14):
Something happened. Say look this is what you do. Say. Hey,
look my mistake. I got a little tipsy. I wasn't
myself looking back on it. That's not even me. I
should have never been out there, but I found you attractive.
I got caught up in a moment, but that'll never
happen again. I apologize for misguiding you, but I don't
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I don't really expect to be treated that way. Thank you.
If you're interested in calling me and we want to
do it on a proper date, I'm willing to look
at it and start from scratch, but I'm not going
to start in a car. And I apologize for presenting
myself that way because that's not who I am and
it will never happen again. And you don't have yourself
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some dignity, You.
Speaker 9 (27:57):
Have value and self worth, that's right.
Speaker 6 (28:01):
Lead on top of the car. You ain't got to
be inside you do on top of y'all got some room.
That's why. That's why they don't have him in this segment.
Speaker 9 (28:15):
He obviously doesn't get that Scotti and Phoenix are last one.
Steve Scottie writes, my girlfriend dogs. My girlfriend's dog sleeps
with her when I stay with her, out of respect
for the dog, I sleep on the couch. The dog
comes to bother me on the couch, and she thinks
(28:36):
it's so cute. Can I be honest and tell her
that I hate her dog? Or is that too harsh?
Speaker 6 (28:44):
You know, so out of respect for the dog, But
you you you open up out of respect for the dog.
I don't have as you really wrote the wrong person.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
So you don't have what respect about.
Speaker 9 (29:02):
Not at all, especially if he's if he's got your
spot in the bedroom next.
Speaker 6 (29:09):
D o, g dog get to be in there, get
in the flow, get over that place. All dogs should
know the workplace, and then he gona get on his
spot place and they know all my dogs have ever
known place. They got a spot that they go to
(29:29):
call place. Find it, go sit down over there. Don't
ever get up on this furniture. You sure ain't getting
on this bed.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
In the bed this is her dog is in the
bed with.
Speaker 6 (29:41):
Her walking all on the ground outside. Ain't wiping feet
and come getting them in now? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (29:47):
No?
Speaker 1 (29:48):
So so so his question is can he be honest
with her and tell her that he hates her dog?
Speaker 6 (29:52):
Or is that you you know it's losing her. But
she already she already strong about that dog than you
because she gave me. Did you sleep on the couch
out of respect for the dog? I'd have been to said,
I'm not sleeping on the couch for this dog.
Speaker 5 (30:09):
She didn't do.
Speaker 9 (30:13):
Wow, All right, thank you Colo. Coming up at the
top of the hour, you have our special guest in
the building, Michel Welch, author of The Forever Home.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 9 (30:31):
All right, ladies and gentlemen, our special guest is a
new author, a TV designer on the Drew Barrymore Talk Show,
and a notable interior designer. He goes way back with
Steve Harvey as the set designer for your Steve Talk Show,
Steve in Chicago. He's a good friend of the show
and he's here now to tell us about his brand
(30:52):
new book, hot off the Presence. It's called The Forever Home.
Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the show. Michael Welch,
Hey you.
Speaker 5 (31:06):
Doing, I'm doing great.
Speaker 14 (31:08):
You know the book is out finally and uh yeah,
I just can't believe it.
Speaker 9 (31:15):
Well we can, and we're very happy for you. And
congratulations again Michael. Now, you and Steve. If our audience
doesn't know you guys have a history with your daytime
talk show, that was the first time you even you
ever did set design for a national TV show?
Speaker 5 (31:33):
Now, what was that like?
Speaker 9 (31:34):
We know what it's like, but what was it like
for you to work with Steve Harvey design that you.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
Know, well, you know he's very particular.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
I mean.
Speaker 5 (31:47):
You think you think very particular.
Speaker 14 (31:51):
You know, he wants everything masculine and smokey. And please
don't bring that man any small.
Speaker 13 (31:55):
Furniture because I learned the hard way.
Speaker 14 (32:00):
If he cannot, you know, he needs to be able
to sit next year and have a lot of space
because you're gonna hear about it. And I learned the
hard way not to bring them in any small furniture.
Speaker 6 (32:09):
So we ain't in no tiny house. We don't need
no tiny and I ain't no tiny man. So but
you did good though.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
Man.
Speaker 6 (32:21):
He decorated not only on the set, but he decorated
my private dressing rooms, which was really very really really dope.
Yeah yeah, so miel So, so tell us about the
new book, man.
Speaker 15 (32:36):
Yeah, So the book is called The four everr Home.
Of course, Drew Barrymore she wrote the fourth for the book.
But honestly, it's really about all of the design tips
that we learned in Chicago, and I'm basically teaching people
how they will get magazine worthy looks without spending a
lot of money, because let's face it, everybody doesn't have
millions of dollars like.
Speaker 5 (32:56):
You to you know, pull off the face. So I
have to tell them how to get to me.
Speaker 6 (33:07):
I detected a little hate and everybody ain't got a dollar.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
In the true statement, I'm trying to teach them how
to live like you, just.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
You know, on different foot.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
Have you have you ever decorated Mississippi Monica's house?
Speaker 5 (33:24):
Oh you know what I did?
Speaker 6 (33:27):
I did and how we had experienced.
Speaker 9 (33:31):
Well, you know, we had to work through.
Speaker 6 (33:34):
It because you know, she is very particular.
Speaker 5 (33:36):
She tried to do your job, so I don't know
that she.
Speaker 8 (33:39):
Is necessarily by Yeah, she likes to do your job.
She's gonna tell you how to do and then double
check the prices.
Speaker 5 (33:46):
It is a lot, but.
Speaker 10 (33:51):
You shouldn't have to buy now. She got a whole
closet full of stuff that's blown to us. She got
a old Yeah, I.
Speaker 14 (33:58):
Didn't know about this closet.
Speaker 8 (34:02):
You might have to talk online about this closet, Michel in.
Speaker 9 (34:06):
Your book Forever Home, which is out right now, give
us some tips, like what are the trends in homes.
Speaker 8 (34:13):
Yeah, now, I think one of the biggest trends right
now people love color watching the wall.
Speaker 5 (34:17):
That's basically where you're.
Speaker 14 (34:19):
Adding like a fan sentiment to the wall.
Speaker 9 (34:21):
It adds a lot of you know, texture to the wall.
Speaker 5 (34:23):
So those are really huge.
Speaker 14 (34:24):
And then the other thing that people are straying away
from it is that blue cley fabric.
Speaker 6 (34:29):
You all know that one white.
Speaker 8 (34:30):
Little fabric that yeah, everybody's.
Speaker 14 (34:33):
Been putting on furniture.
Speaker 9 (34:34):
Yeah, it's time to let that go.
Speaker 5 (34:36):
But the book has a lot of like.
Speaker 8 (34:38):
Design ships that have diagrams that have pictures so we
can like literally see what to do so you don't
mess it up.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Okay, what kind of advice can you give people?
Speaker 16 (34:47):
Because it takes a lot to decorate your home and
redesign or refresh it and then when you get your
coins together to do all of that, and then the
certain trends in certain styles are going away.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
How do you.
Speaker 6 (35:04):
A while, sir, And by the time you got money,
it was out of style.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
Yeah, but you know what, I come and.
Speaker 5 (35:14):
Go, you know, quickly, so I know what you're saying.
Speaker 14 (35:18):
So the thing with that is, don't try to do
trends on major like fixtures, like things that are permanent,
because those are gonna cost you a lot of money.
Speaker 5 (35:27):
Try to stick to.
Speaker 14 (35:28):
Like trendy things are like access free or something that
you know you can easily just.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
Pick up with one finger and change it.
Speaker 14 (35:35):
Because when you try to like change and go with
the trends on things that are like permanent fixtures, that's
where you mess up with Only stick to the trends
on things that you can easily replace by just running
down to your local store.
Speaker 6 (35:48):
Don't try to go create you gotcha, like like, for example,
this lamp that Monica got on her zoom that that
could easily be just taken away, so we purpose over there.
Speaker 9 (36:05):
You've been doing book signings all week. Tonight you will
be in Atlanta, Georgia with a book signing. Have you
gotten great turnouts at your book signings? How's that been
going for you?
Speaker 15 (36:15):
The book?
Speaker 6 (36:15):
Where's the book signing in Atlanta?
Speaker 8 (36:18):
This one is going to be at the Design House
in Atlanta from five to eight pm.
Speaker 15 (36:24):
That one's to be a lot of fun and the
turnout has been great.
Speaker 14 (36:27):
We've had over one hundred and eighty people last night,
So people have been showing out the support.
Speaker 8 (36:32):
But Atlanta, we invite you to come grab a cocktail,
buy a bookselves who.
Speaker 14 (36:37):
Don't just come here and drink.
Speaker 6 (36:38):
But you know, Shirley, where can everybody buy the book?
Speaker 9 (36:42):
App It's called The Forever Home. It's available now online
and in bookstores. Michael Welch, we are proud of you.
We're so happy for you. We congratulate you on your
brand new book, The Forever Home, and we'll see you
at the book signing tonight.
Speaker 6 (37:00):
Buy the books Forever Home and give it out as
a gift to people who need something done to their house.
Don't get a book to old people. They knock fin
the change.
Speaker 5 (37:10):
Thank you, mil Thank you guys, Thank you Harvey.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
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Speaker 9 (37:49):
The conditions of Diddy's release were revealed this week. When
he is released from federal prison, Diddy has to follow
these guidelines. He must submit to searches and cannot communicate
with any of the victims in the case. He must
also enroll in an outpatient treatment program for drug abuse
and mental health issues. He has to get involved in
(38:11):
a preapproved domestic violence program and did He cannot have
access to firearms or any objects or devices that could
be viewed as destructive. So here's the question, Steve, Do
you think that Diddy will come out of prison a
changed man?
Speaker 6 (38:27):
Yeah, but he gonna go back though. He gonna break
one of the rules. He gonna break one of the rules.
They gonna have him in their own probation violation because
he's not gonna fire. Hey, They're gonna get him on something.
And then people got it out for him. Now. So
I wish him the best. I mean, I hope he
does get it together. I hope he learns his lesson.
(38:47):
I really do, because I don't I don't. I don't
revel revel in people's demids. I just I just don't. Man. Yeah, yeah,
and no, good for him, I'm happy for him. No, Man,
It's sad what you became, how you took your power
and abused it. How you didn't show appreciation for where
(39:08):
you the level you had reached your life, and you
didn't extend that courtesy to other people. That's the problem.
Speaker 5 (39:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (39:16):
See, you took your grace and favor given by God
and extended none of it to nobody else. You just
took it all yourself. That ain't how this works.
Speaker 10 (39:25):
Man.
Speaker 6 (39:26):
When God gives you grace and favor, you have to
extend it. Amen. That's num but an abusive power. You're
sitting there now and you had to grapple with that,
and you got time to think about that.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
Nothing but that's right, say them again. What he can't do, sir, Okay, he.
Speaker 9 (39:48):
Has to submit to searches, he can't communicate with any
of the victims in the case. He has to enroll
in an outpatient drug treatment program, mental health issue program.
Speaker 6 (39:57):
See, that's what he ain't gonna show up for. That
gonna be violations. Go ahead. The domestic valve go ahead.
Speaker 9 (40:05):
Yeah, he has to get involved in a preapproved domestic
violence program.
Speaker 6 (40:10):
He's gonna not show up for that couple of times
telling you what he gonna do.
Speaker 9 (40:14):
He cannot have access to firearms, no firearms whatsoever, or
any objects or devices that could be viewed as destructive.
Speaker 6 (40:23):
I don't think he'll do that. I think he'll stay.
Speaker 9 (40:25):
Away from that from firearms.
Speaker 6 (40:28):
Yeah, I think I'm gonna give him the benefit of
the doubt that you won't do that. But he has
to make sure that the people have around him don't
have it. Yeah, see him, because when you're on probation,
you can't be around it, you dog. They gonna be
on him, man, Yeah, this cat is gonna be Yeah,
(40:49):
but you know, hopefully, man, he learned his lessons, you know,
and he has a better person.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
The same with a Kelly, you know, rehabilitation.
Speaker 6 (40:59):
Yeah, everybody deserves a chance to get it right. Everybody.
Speaker 9 (41:04):
All right, thank you guys. Coming up at thirty four
minutes after the hour, we will switch gears and Roscoe
Wallace will be in the building right after this.
Speaker 18 (41:13):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Carla, your
buddy Roscoe is in the building.
Speaker 6 (41:25):
Yeah, all day, baby, rock O Wallace in the building,
coming in everything. Everything, We're going.
Speaker 4 (41:34):
On, everybody, Junior Roscoe, he wrote, Tommy, Misszubi, Roscll, Shelley, Carly,
We're going on.
Speaker 6 (41:42):
Talk to me.
Speaker 17 (41:43):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (41:44):
Roscoe? Is Friday? Uh we do, yes, you that's what's
going on.
Speaker 6 (41:49):
So check this out.
Speaker 16 (41:50):
The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame has announced it
this initial list, I would say, presenters and performers for
this year's induction ceremony.
Speaker 2 (42:00):
It's going down November eighth in l A. All right,
so some of the LA Rock and Roll Hall of
Famer cleet.
Speaker 16 (42:08):
Yeah, but they're doing I think they're doing a special
in LA at the Peacock Theater. This is my information,
but I do hear you saying clee. All right, so
check this out. Maxwell may perform or be a presenter.
Speaker 2 (42:23):
Elton Sehn the moment, Okay, come hey, you will reveal.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
Yeah, go ahead, it happened. The moment a lie affair
to ce Real. You know you gave me good feeling,
babe inside Yeah, good get it. Roscal love gave me
(43:00):
he Pavent died, oh shoulting, I real, real lie. Your
the only reason why.
Speaker 5 (43:16):
I love it.
Speaker 16 (43:17):
I love it, I love it alright, Roscoe Elton John,
I don't.
Speaker 5 (43:22):
Know the Jet.
Speaker 6 (43:29):
DMD. That's all you need, hey, key, living room together
on the stone weather all that right there?
Speaker 1 (43:40):
What does that song mean? What was he talking about?
Speaker 6 (43:42):
Do you know? Don't nobody know some dude in electric
blue suit all that day.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
About all the songs?
Speaker 2 (43:50):
You don't know what Benny, but see Benny in the
Jets when I wrote the song me see, I knew it.
Speaker 6 (43:56):
I see he changing the Jets was a game. Bennie
was the leader of that.
Speaker 7 (44:02):
Uh huh.
Speaker 6 (44:03):
You know what Elton got hold to. So you know,
goodn't hell where he ain't in no game, right, So
he put him in a more hair suit of electric blues.
And you know ready in the magazine, I was going,
what hell was going like this? Because you know you
didn't you know, Ben ain't never been in no magazine before.
Speaker 16 (44:20):
Okay, alright, sor you're breaking it down, you're dropping the knowledge,
oh da baby, that.
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Teddy Swims might be there to lose control.
Speaker 6 (44:29):
So yeah, you know, you know, uh, dude, come trove
when you're nothing next to me? Uh down on my knees, baby,
can't you see begging me enomatic automatic, everybody full of
(44:56):
static going back, make it pack it come on now?
Speaker 9 (45:00):
Yeah, I wrote that.
Speaker 13 (45:05):
I wrote that song.
Speaker 7 (45:07):
It was.
Speaker 6 (45:07):
It was called Teddy Float.
Speaker 5 (45:10):
Is that a.
Speaker 6 (45:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (45:14):
You meet Teddy swims?
Speaker 6 (45:15):
How did you meet it? I met him? I met
him at the beach. I was out there on my
I was out there on my back floating and he
swam by. I said, Teddy can swim.
Speaker 1 (45:34):
You just happened to have a song and you gave
it to him.
Speaker 6 (45:37):
How did that work? Lose control? Well? I tried to
flip over and start swimming, but I can't really swim,
so then I started hollering, I lose hun stroll And
then he said, I'll be funny.
Speaker 9 (45:54):
How that worked out for you?
Speaker 5 (45:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (45:57):
Teddy Brote wrote the song on Google.
Speaker 6 (46:00):
Who the hell of Google?
Speaker 9 (46:03):
Thank you Roskie Google, wasn't he?
Speaker 5 (46:05):
Now?
Speaker 6 (46:05):
Y'all got weird from a favorite Google?
Speaker 9 (46:08):
Going up next and is the Nephew and Today's prank
phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show coming up at about four minutes after
the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today and the
subject is just burn the whole RV okay, into it. Yeah,
(46:31):
we'll get into that and find out what that's all
about in just a few because right now it is
time for the nephew and today's prank phone call.
Speaker 1 (46:38):
What you got for his neph I got.
Speaker 6 (46:40):
It for you, Shirley. You know this right here?
Speaker 10 (46:42):
This Friday, Man, this is Friday. You might want to
pull over, you might want to throw it in, Paul whatever.
You might want to turn your car off and then
turn it back on. Just live this so you can
still hear the radio. This right here is I left
my medicine in your house. I left my medicine in
your house.
Speaker 9 (47:03):
If you could Hello, Hello.
Speaker 5 (47:06):
I said to Clarence. Yeah, it was just claience. Uh hey,
my name is Sherman. Dog. Your house is the one
that uh got broke into last week? Right yeah, Man,
just waiting on the police to get back with me.
Tell them if they found these people or not.
Speaker 13 (47:22):
Man, So now hold on, what's your name again?
Speaker 5 (47:26):
There? Sirman? Themis Sheman? Them? How you here about it?
Speaker 6 (47:31):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (47:32):
No, you know, I stay a couple of streets.
Speaker 13 (47:34):
So everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard that y'all.
Speaker 5 (47:36):
Got broken off.
Speaker 13 (47:38):
Damn man, everybody being kind of kind of real good
around here.
Speaker 5 (47:40):
Man. It don't make no sense.
Speaker 8 (47:42):
Man.
Speaker 5 (47:42):
You go out here and work hard for stuff and
then you know people just do you like this? Man?
It just I'm just glad it wasn't nobody hurt. Man.
My wife and my son, they they alive and that's
you know, that's the best thing. Man.
Speaker 13 (47:54):
So you know, trying not to cousin something like this happened.
Speaker 5 (47:58):
You know, I understand.
Speaker 13 (48:00):
Man.
Speaker 5 (48:01):
You say a couple of streets over, you say, yeah, yeah, yeah, hey, hey,
let me let me let me say this to you.
Speaker 13 (48:08):
Man. I want to say, praybody, I hate what happened.
Speaker 5 (48:11):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 13 (48:12):
Yeah, and uh I do, man, you know, and I'm
glad you're your family and so yeah, I appreciate the lead. Well,
hey man, can I just can I just say this here?
Speaker 5 (48:24):
Man? Uh?
Speaker 13 (48:25):
And I don't really know how to say it, but.
Speaker 5 (48:29):
I was.
Speaker 13 (48:30):
I was with the two dudes that had broken there.
I was with them when they did that. Okay, you
did you just say you was with them that broken
my house?
Speaker 5 (48:41):
Oh so you broke in my house.
Speaker 13 (48:45):
Saying now saying see that's why I'm see the claims.
That's what I'm I'm calling you trying to tell you
I was trying to talk them out of it.
Speaker 5 (48:52):
You know what I'm saying, Well, what the cappin?
Speaker 13 (48:54):
Because they did this, I couldn't talk them out of it.
But you know I was what I wasn't there take
and nothing?
Speaker 5 (49:00):
That's what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay, Well who was
in the ittation then?
Speaker 13 (49:03):
But I can't I can't be doing I can't do that.
I can't see I ain't trying to get in the
middle of that.
Speaker 5 (49:09):
No, no, no, you can't do that. You just called
my phone. Oh you can tell me who broke in?
Is you was one of them?
Speaker 11 (49:16):
You?
Speaker 5 (49:16):
I was walking with you that That ain't that. That
ain't even the reason why I called.
Speaker 13 (49:20):
Man, I don't give it for the reason you called me.
Speaker 5 (49:23):
You called me the broken Who who was with you?
Who was with you? Man?
Speaker 13 (49:29):
I'm matter of fact, what street you stay on the
Let me say this to you, man, this mering why
I called and when we was in there and then
they started screaming and holling at each other and then
saying we got to hear him get out. You know,
like I say, I was in there trying to talk them.
Speaker 5 (49:45):
Out of that.
Speaker 6 (49:46):
I don't give it.
Speaker 5 (49:48):
If you tried to talk them into it. You broke
into my broke in my mind. You you got the
my dancing to call me. Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen,
listen to me, man. I'm that's something you for.
Speaker 13 (50:01):
While I was in there, man, and and you know
they was. We was getting out of there in a hurry.
I actually left my uh my pills fell out my pocket, my.
Speaker 5 (50:12):
Bottle of pills. Man, my medicine, and I don't I
don't got no more refills on it, man, and I
need my medicine. That's why I'm calling you to see
if you don't man me coming back over there to
get my pee. They don't give us about your medicine.
Who gives us? I tell you what I tell you.
I can ask me about some medicine. I was just
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caught up in a bad situation.
Speaker 13 (50:36):
Man. I swear to God, if I see you over,
I swear to God, I'm gonna beat yours. I'm gonna
beat you.
Speaker 5 (50:43):
You better be glad Sean wasn't at my house. Man. Listen, man,
I'm not trying to get in and have no problems
with nobody. I just need my medicine.
Speaker 13 (50:51):
Man, your medicine. You got problems with me, But I
don't have no more refills on that medicine. I need
my medicine. I'll get said, I tell you what, I
tell you what come, Come get your medicine. You know
exactly where I said. I'm gonna have to get the
front door open. You ain't got to break in this time.
Come get your some medicine. I said, what a god
is gonna need more than just that some medicine. I'm
(51:13):
gonna put some on your I said, why are you
down and out on me?
Speaker 5 (51:16):
Man? And I'm the one that was in there trying
to talk them out of it. She was with them
because that's the point. That's what bring them to tell
them to help you.
Speaker 13 (51:25):
Come get your medicine.
Speaker 5 (51:27):
So all I want to do is get my medicine
and be through with this. That's all I'm trying to
say to you. I ain't trying to start no trouble
with you. Start no trouble. You go catch the luck.
Come out. You know what I tell you what I
all this?
Speaker 13 (51:43):
You know I tell you what, Come get the medicine.
Come come, come get the medicine right now. I'm in
what street you stay on, I'll bring it to you.
Speaker 5 (51:53):
Man. I'm not finna go back and forth arguing with you. Man,
I'm finna come over there and get my medicine. And man,
you're gonna be through with each other. You ain't got
to go back and for a mon I tell you what.
Come on over here, get your some medicine right now.
This even if you're gonna need some more medicine, ain't
gonna come break in my some houses, you don't can't
tell my I take care of my wife and my
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kids in this house. I understand that, and I would
not be back in your arm after I get my mother.
I'm gonna cause you hollering at no. I tell you
what you know. No, no, no, you ain't gonna be
back in my house. After you get your medicine. You're
gonna have a permanent new residence.
Speaker 13 (52:33):
I swear to God, you're gonna be living in the cemetery.
Speaker 5 (52:35):
I got one, no fan, I'm saying. Before I get
over that listening the man, set us on your way
over here. I'm going here here. I'm on my way now.
I got one of my friend. I need to say it,
say to say it? This is that's w must you
tarently from the Stay Home In Morning Show? You just
got pray by your sister brain. Hello, who is this?
(53:04):
Hey man?
Speaker 13 (53:05):
Hey, class, This nephew telling me man from the Steve
Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 5 (53:09):
Your sister Bree got me to prank you. Man, boy
you you oh you say too so much. I don't
believe this, she said, Man, they broke in my brother house.
He needed spirits lips, he said, come on call him
and get it. You know what you now you're a
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well whoopen? Oh man? What are y'all wrong for? This is?
Oh man? Oh man? Man? Ask you something? What is
what is the baddest radio show in the land. It
is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Listen bro ay And
if then that that.
Speaker 13 (53:48):
Broke in my house is listening, Uh, you come back
over here.
Speaker 5 (53:52):
If you left your medicine, come on, come back and
get it. I'm at home right now. If they listen,
they can come on back over there now, yeah, right
right now. Bring that. Tell me.
Speaker 6 (54:08):
Now.
Speaker 10 (54:09):
See after something like that, all y'all ought to be
on the zoom just standing up a flaud right.
Speaker 6 (54:16):
Rob the house break in his house? Call him and
telling me he left his medicinea.
Speaker 16 (54:24):
Yeah you're talking about play too much? That's too right. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
clearly too much.
Speaker 10 (54:33):
I will be playing Halloween Night, okay Allison Improv Fridey
Saturday and Sunday and tickets our own sale.
Speaker 6 (54:41):
Right now to come see the nephew Owe the Halloween.
Speaker 10 (54:43):
Do not be scared to laugh. We're gonna have a
whole lot of fun. Gonna part a little bit, got
a whole lot of jokes. Got the after party, MiGs dough.
It's it's it's Timmy, it's time.
Speaker 6 (54:54):
It's what you want.
Speaker 1 (54:55):
It's time you want.
Speaker 6 (54:57):
What do you do with the afterpart?
Speaker 9 (55:01):
The thing?
Speaker 6 (55:02):
I'm gonna walk around take pictures.
Speaker 10 (55:04):
Just I just be so I turn it into Thomas.
Then you see what I'm saying. That's when I get sexy. Yeah,
that's when you see. That's when you see the ready
to love hard, you know, you know after the show,
that's when that's when I get.
Speaker 6 (55:19):
I go change, put my sexy on all that.
Speaker 9 (55:21):
Man, Then what would you say?
Speaker 6 (55:25):
Yeah, yeah, I take a picture for y'all. How many?
How many people.
Speaker 17 (55:32):
In that size?
Speaker 6 (55:33):
I be wanting to know where you got it from? Too?
Speaker 9 (55:36):
Just burn the whole r V is the subject. We'll
get into it right after this.
Speaker 7 (55:41):
If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, planning,
and hard work to get in the door.
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Then make that house a home.
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Speaker 9 (56:10):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now
for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steverefn dot
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Speaker 1 (56:29):
We could be reading your letter.
Speaker 9 (56:33):
Live on the air, just like we're gonna read this
one right here, and you never know it could be yours.
So write us.
Speaker 6 (56:40):
Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for
you here. It is a Strawberry letter.
Speaker 9 (56:45):
Hello, you put some extra sex fe on that I
know you did.
Speaker 1 (56:49):
I know you did just a little bit, A little.
Speaker 9 (56:51):
Bit, Thank you, nephew. Subject just burn the whole RV.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I am married to a diehard football
fan and we met in college. We went to an
HBCU and for years we have tailgated with friends and
family before home games. I had a minor surgery, so
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I had to miss the first home game. When we tailgate,
we take our RV to the stadium, hook up our
deep frier and our grill, and get to cooking early
in the morning.
Speaker 1 (57:21):
It's what we do.
Speaker 9 (57:23):
I found out recently that my husband did that and
a lot more. While I was at home recuperating. My
girlfriend and her husband stopped by our V in the
morning of the game and she facetimed me to rub
it in and show me what I was missing. I
was tickled at how messy she was being. A few
hours later, she texted me and said she was about
(57:44):
to FaceTime me again, but she told me to put
my phone on mute. I got the call and I
watched my phone as she showed me three women that
I had never seen before drinking and having a.
Speaker 1 (57:57):
Great time in our our V.
Speaker 9 (58:00):
Then my friend panned over to my husband and he
had a tiny redhead woman sitting on his lap, sitting
on his leg. It was so loud so I couldn't
hear what they were saying. My friend said she met
the woman. She advised me to talk to my husband
before jumping to any conclusions. My only response was that
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I was going to burn the whole RV up with
my husband in it. I saw this with my own eyes,
so there was nothing my husband could say to me
to make me believe he's not a cheater. He's accused
my friend of starting this mess, but I never told
him who told me. He claims he's not dumb enough
to have this woman in our RV in front of
(58:41):
our friends, if he was trying to have sex with her.
Does he think I'm dumb? Should I believe that this
was just innocent fun? Okay? You know what. I really
didn't know how to take this letter at first, because
it kind of made me love you. It kind of
made me laugh, Steve. When she said she saw a
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tiny red headed woman sitting on his lap, I just
pictured a little doll on his lap in my head
at first, But a tiny read a tiny anyway, then
your friend said, don't jump to conclusions, talk to your
husband first. And who were these other three women? I mean,
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where did they come from? It's like he was just
waiting for you to take a day off or something
so he could really really have some fun. But in
what world is another woman sitting on your husband's leg
innocent fun? I don't know any nowhere, And it's not okay.
Your so called friend was dead wrong and the only
reason she would be doing something like this is to
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be messy. As you said in your letter, she should
be mad, So you should be mad at her and
your husband, her for not minding her own business, and
your husband for allowing just some random chick, a tiny,
little redheaded woman to sit her butt on his leg.
And please don't believe your husband's lives when he says,
baby is not what you think when you clearly saw
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him and this little bitty woman with the red hair
in real time with your own eyes. This is something
you and your husband need to discuss. You need to
talk about this amongst yourselves and not with your girlfriend
and her husband and all that. I mean, you know,
as far as burning up the whole RV. I understand
you know how why you feel that way because you
(01:00:27):
saw this going on. I know you're not going to
do that. You were just in the moment, but you
and your husband need to talk, honey, and find out
what's going on. Steve.
Speaker 6 (01:00:36):
Are we about to disagree? Well, that's what the Strawbee
letter letter is for. See there's a letter right here. Really,
you know how, I say, oftentimes behind every moment of
adversity there is a lesson and a blessing. I want
you all to see behind this moment of adversity. I
(01:00:58):
want to show I'm going to point out that a
lesson in this, and I'm gonna point out the blessing
in this. You're married to a diehard football fan. Y'all
met in college, went to HBCU tailgated with friends and
family before the home games. So you had surgery and
you had to miss the first game. We tailgate. You
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take our ivy to the stadium, hook up the deep
fried grill, get the cooking early in the morning. And
she said, quite assuredly, this is what we do. And
I gotta tell you something sounds like fun to me, man, girl.
I often missed a lot of those regular things in
(01:01:41):
life that I wish I could do. My boys be
going to the homecoming game and be sending me pictures
all my frat boys sitting around. Man, I wish I
could go, but I can't because it ain't that way.
So I found out recently that my husband did that
and a lot more. While I was home recuperating. My
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girlfriend and her husband stopped by our RV in the
morning of the game. She facetimed me to rub it
in and show me what I was missing. That's the
key statement in this whole letter. She facetimed you to
rub it in and show you what you was missing. Oh,
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she facetimed you for wave mold than that, and she
knew it. She's always been jealous of the fact that
you and your husband have an RV and they got
to come visit because they little raggetts ain't got nothing
but tickets to the game. They got a little car
with a hatchback on it. They don't even open up
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and turn into nothing. Hang on, did you Pope tell
gate friends you got.
Speaker 9 (01:02:56):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter subject
just burn the whole RV. We'll get back into it
right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone,
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let's recap today's strawberry letter. Subject just burn the whole RV.
Speaker 6 (01:03:52):
The truth of this letter is behind every moment of adversity,
there has a lesson and a blessing. I've said this
many times and almost to you in this letter. Here,
this woman and her husband been tailgating for years to
go to HBCU's. They get there early in the morning,
family and friends. They set up the deep fry and
they get the grilling. And she said, it's what we do.
(01:04:12):
I said, I missed those days. I wish I could
go back and do that sometime, but I can't, so
I wish I could. And then you found out, and
then you had a little surgery, so you missed the
first game. Now, y'all been doing this for years. First
game your husband go Anyway, while I was home in cooperating,
your girlfriend and her husband stopped by RV the morning
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at a game, and she faced me to rub it
in and show me what I was missing. And this,
I said, is the key to this whole letter. She
face timed you to rub it in and show you
what you was missing. Now, she didn't call to show
you what you was missing in a good way. Girl,
you missing and we party now. None of that right there.
(01:04:54):
And because you said I was tickled at how messy
she was big it tickled you. Oh you laughing now,
because that ain't why she face timed you. She didn't
FaceTime you to tickle you. See, your reaction was not
what she wanted. But it's all having all that fun
without me because she jealous. She jealous of your relationship,
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she jealous of your happiness, She jealous of your RV
because they ain't got one. They got that little ragged hatchback,
and when they open it up, it don't turn into nothing.
It ain't big enough. They ain't got no deep Friday,
ain't got no grill. They got that little tiny grill
and sit on the three legs. You can't put but
(01:05:39):
two burgers on that thing. Y'all got that whole set up,
and her jealous. Yeah, she got that little webber. Well,
you can't put them but eight pieces of charcole in there,
and then it get real hot. You can't touch it
for two days. They got to leave it at the stadium.
So now here we go. A few hours later, she
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take me and saying she was about to FaceTime me again,
but she told me to put my phone on mute.
See you know why because see you handle her reaction
the first time too wrong. He was tickled at her
being messy, and she messy, and she jealous. She jealous
of your happiness. So now here she goes. I got
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the call, and I watched my phone, and she showed
me three women that I had never seen before, drinking
and having a great time in our RV. She showed
you three women that had never been in RV. She
ain't show you none of the other men that could
have been in that tulce. Then my friend paying over
to my husband and he had a tiny red headed
(01:06:45):
woman sitting on his leg. It was so loud. I
couldn't hear what they were saying. My friend said she
met the woman. She advised me to talk to my
husband for jumping to any conclusion. My only response was
that I was gonna burn that whole RV. Wait a minute,
so now you paying over a little tiny red head shitting'
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on his lap. That's not his fault.
Speaker 9 (01:07:11):
That's just funny to me.
Speaker 1 (01:07:13):
Sorry, they had the.
Speaker 6 (01:07:15):
RV open, tiny redhead, little white lady came in and
just sitting up that and other RV four ain't nowhere
for her to sit whatever. She just set out on
big dude's lap because he's big strong you know.
Speaker 4 (01:07:32):
Uh.
Speaker 6 (01:07:32):
Now they talking, but you can't hear what they said.
And the reason she put it on mute because they
were so loud. You can't what they said. Because they
wasn't talking about nothing. I couldn't share you if they
was just partying. It got a little bit out of hand.
She advised me to talk to my husband before jumping
(01:07:53):
to any conclusion. She wants you to jump to a
conclusion and talking about talk to your husband. Why would
you invite something like that in a person's marriage with
your low down stink behind.
Speaker 1 (01:08:06):
But the woman my own eyes.
Speaker 6 (01:08:09):
So that was nothing my husband can say to make
me believe he is not a cheating Why is he cheating?
How is he cheated? The cheating that's right because she
it's inappropriate. It doesn't look good, but that ain't cheat
(01:08:32):
at all. You know what cheating is, and you're trying
to make more out.
Speaker 5 (01:08:36):
Of it than it is.
Speaker 6 (01:08:38):
He's accused my friends of starting this mess. He's absolutely correct,
But I never told him who told me?
Speaker 4 (01:08:46):
He knows her?
Speaker 6 (01:08:47):
Because ain't nobody else in that would have did it?
Who else would have called you? Ain't nobody got your number?
But your mess friend who I must inform you is
not your friend. She ain't never been your friend. He's
jealous of your life, she's jealous of what you got.
She don't want you to have nothing because she ain't
got nothing. He claims he's not dumb enough to have
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this woman in our R and B in front of
our friends if he was trying to have sex with him. Bam,
Ditto who do that. It was dumb what he did,
but he ain't trying to have sex with the chick
and he was not in the trailer. You does he
think I'm done now? But your girlfriend know it? Should?
I believe this is innocent fun, that's all.
Speaker 9 (01:09:27):
It was some innocent fund Bun's your comments on Today's
Strawberry Letter and Steve Parker shift down.
Speaker 6 (01:09:34):
You got with that, lady, That's what you need to
get rid of.
Speaker 9 (01:09:38):
The little bit redhead on Instagram and Facebook. Check out
the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up next, it
is Junior and Sports Talk right after this.
Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
You have no idea what it is. This is Carlos Miller.
Speaker 9 (01:09:53):
Hey, what's up everybody?
Speaker 1 (01:09:54):
This is your girl Candy.
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Speaker 7 (01:10:09):
If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving,
planning and hard work to get in the doors.
Speaker 17 (01:10:14):
Didn't make that house a home. Now, all that effort
has built something hugely valuable equity. It's the portion of
your home you truly own that can be tapped to fun.
What's next?
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Speaker 9 (01:10:38):
It is time now for Junior and sports talk. What
you got Junior?
Speaker 1 (01:10:42):
Shirley's Friday?
Speaker 4 (01:10:43):
You know what this is with?
Speaker 10 (01:10:46):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (01:10:47):
Day right here? Baby? Right man? On the home time?
Speaker 8 (01:10:52):
What's up there?
Speaker 6 (01:10:52):
In body? With something?
Speaker 9 (01:10:54):
Some showing? Hey, hempin it's.
Speaker 6 (01:10:57):
Been thinking about it and you got on your mind?
Speaker 1 (01:11:01):
Everyone, Please come on now, there's time time, let it go.
Speaker 6 (01:11:06):
You know I couldn't move on you beforeward. You know
it's over. It's oh.
Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
Yeah, he was up Chocolate?
Speaker 6 (01:11:15):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
Hey, Pipping? What's happening?
Speaker 6 (01:11:18):
What's up? Mississippi? What's going on?
Speaker 5 (01:11:20):
Girl?
Speaker 4 (01:11:22):
All right?
Speaker 6 (01:11:22):
What's up? What's that?
Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
What's up?
Speaker 4 (01:11:23):
Tommy?
Speaker 6 (01:11:24):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (01:11:26):
Nothing?
Speaker 9 (01:11:26):
Every day?
Speaker 5 (01:11:27):
Every it?
Speaker 4 (01:11:27):
What's up?
Speaker 8 (01:11:27):
Junior?
Speaker 6 (01:11:28):
When we got to day?
Speaker 14 (01:11:29):
Man?
Speaker 13 (01:11:30):
What you got on?
Speaker 14 (01:11:30):
Now?
Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
Tell what you got on?
Speaker 11 (01:11:31):
Pippy?
Speaker 6 (01:11:32):
All this right here? The whole suit is made out
of tobacco leafs.
Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
Wow, I call this smoking hot.
Speaker 2 (01:11:45):
I guess so, come on, what you got, Junior, Here
we go, Man, Rams and Jaguars, Rams, raid Us Chiefs, Oh,
Chiefs his back, baby, Chiefs, his back, Dolphins, Browns, Brian,
come on, Cleveland, Patriots, Titans.
Speaker 1 (01:12:05):
Oh Patriots, Man, Patriots, they got they fired they coach.
Speaker 17 (01:12:09):
Okay, Panthers Jets, Oh.
Speaker 6 (01:12:14):
That's gonna be. Panthers had a big win last week.
I think they're gonna keep it going.
Speaker 2 (01:12:19):
Panthers, all right, Saints Bass godog oh man, I sure
hate it.
Speaker 6 (01:12:29):
Oh yeah, gonna have to give it to the Bear.
Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
Sorry, Tashs, Vikings, Egos.
Speaker 6 (01:12:40):
They're not gonna lose three in the row.
Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
I don't think coachs Chargers, coaches, balling, Chargers gonna win though.
What Okay, Giants, Broncos, all the Giants, Baby, they resurgence.
Oh okay, Packer's carton Packers, Commanders and the Cowboys, pimp.
Speaker 6 (01:13:06):
Here we go, Commanders, Falcons forty nine ers.
Speaker 1 (01:13:12):
Oh, the Falcons is bawling, baby, let's go all right.
Speaker 9 (01:13:17):
Buccaneers and the Detroit Lions.
Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
It's no way I goes against Detroit.
Speaker 9 (01:13:22):
It just can't happen.
Speaker 5 (01:13:24):
Just to play on in me.
Speaker 6 (01:13:26):
All right, Texans and the Seahawks.
Speaker 17 (01:13:29):
Come on, pimp, come on, pimping.
Speaker 6 (01:13:31):
Careful, careful man, I can see the pain in y'all's face.
Harry Texans.
Speaker 9 (01:13:44):
All right, thank you, thank you, Pimpin coming up at
the top of the hour, a wife needs some advice
because her husband is acting like a child. We'll get
into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 5 (01:14:01):
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
This is from Selena in Gulfport.
Speaker 9 (01:14:03):
Selena writes, I went to the Chris Brown concert in
DC with my sister, and my husband tried to sabotage
my trip by acting like he had COVID. I told
him that a coronavirus is like having a cold, and
he'd be all right, and I went on my trip.
My husband still has a nasty attitude and only talks
to me when it's absolutely necessary.
Speaker 1 (01:14:25):
Why is he acting like a man child?
Speaker 5 (01:14:27):
We have?
Speaker 9 (01:14:28):
Why is he acting like a man child?
Speaker 6 (01:14:30):
I mean why? Because he didn't want you to go
see Chris Brown. He wanted you to place him first.
Speaker 7 (01:14:35):
Mm.
Speaker 6 (01:14:36):
That's all it is, all it is. And went to
see Chris. Yeah, and he ain't have COVID, So what else.
Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
You don't care.
Speaker 6 (01:14:49):
I don't.
Speaker 9 (01:14:52):
Sounds like it. Yeah, all right, we do have time
for another one. This is from Gentry and fort Worth.
Gentry says, I'm in love with a woman with a
bad attitude. According to my friends, I was having drinks
with the fellas and one of them said that my
wife is rude to their wives and she tries to
put them down. I fell out with my guys over this,
(01:15:15):
knowing deep down that they're partially right.
Speaker 6 (01:15:18):
I am torn.
Speaker 9 (01:15:18):
Between my girl and the fellas I grew up with.
And should I talk to my wife about her attitude
or allow her to be her authentic self?
Speaker 6 (01:15:29):
Well, sometimes your authentic self requires some revising.
Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
Yeah, hindments, Yes, yes.
Speaker 5 (01:15:38):
You know.
Speaker 6 (01:15:38):
If your authentic self is you mean and nasty, you
ought to try to be nice. Yeah, yeah, you know
nothing to be kind. Yeah, so I'd go ahead and
tell her the deal. My partners and now said you're
pretty rude to their wives and not defending you. I'm
through with them, but baby, in all honesty, I'm not
(01:16:00):
gonna go against you in front of them. But they
have a valid point. You can be sharp and rude
with people.
Speaker 9 (01:16:06):
Oh I know, I felt that one too. Okay, finish
your thoughts, sir.
Speaker 6 (01:16:15):
I'm done shock.
Speaker 9 (01:16:20):
You know it sounded like you said something else, that's all.
Speaker 6 (01:16:23):
Yeah, but I said you can be a bit right.
We get sharp and rude at times, and I think
you should maybe make an adjustments for we don't have
no friends.
Speaker 1 (01:16:33):
Yeah, what if she gets mad at him for saying
that to her?
Speaker 6 (01:16:36):
She will and thus proving my point.
Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
Yes, she is going to if he says it like that.
Speaker 9 (01:16:43):
Yes, yeah, she could be nice. She could be nice, though,
she could. Yeah, yeah, it's no harm.
Speaker 1 (01:16:54):
Be nice?
Speaker 6 (01:16:55):
Have you ever?
Speaker 5 (01:16:56):
How do you know?
Speaker 6 (01:16:57):
Because she over forty.
Speaker 17 (01:17:00):
And she ain't changing, that's not that's her final form,
she's that's it.
Speaker 9 (01:17:06):
Oh, id, she's setting her ways yourself.
Speaker 6 (01:17:12):
I have a real recommendation that I did myself, but
I don't know if he'll want to do that. What
what did you do? I get a divorced?
Speaker 5 (01:17:19):
You know what?
Speaker 13 (01:17:21):
Why is that your go through?
Speaker 1 (01:17:23):
And he's only quick with it every time? Somebody right here?
Speaker 5 (01:17:32):
That's it.
Speaker 6 (01:17:32):
It ain't gonna work. This ain't gonna work.
Speaker 9 (01:17:36):
Get you some papers though, I mean, but no one
wants to be with anybody.
Speaker 1 (01:17:45):
That's mean.
Speaker 16 (01:17:47):
She didn't make an adjustment. If she wants to like Junior.
You're saying she's over forty, but I was setting her ways.
Speaker 2 (01:17:54):
She's wrong, But it's not about you.
Speaker 6 (01:18:00):
See Harvey, did you just said over forty and that's what.
Speaker 5 (01:18:04):
It was.
Speaker 9 (01:18:09):
Junia with me and wife.
Speaker 6 (01:18:12):
You know that if you mean and over forty, you
pretty much you locked in forty years of that. You
was a mean baby.
Speaker 9 (01:18:23):
What did the baby say to his parents?
Speaker 1 (01:18:27):
YEA, hey, hey, watch your tone? Wow wow wow wow.
Speaker 9 (01:18:35):
Coming up at about twenty minutes after the hour, we'll
have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 9 (01:18:49):
All right, So Tommy, you have some big news for us.
Ready to Love Detroit is about to air. We can't wait.
Speaker 10 (01:18:56):
Now listen if you want to talk about some style
and clin, some class and some all of that. Ready
to Love Detroit, y'all got to get ready because I
didn't know what to wear, because I knew I was
goin to see them every other day.
Speaker 6 (01:19:10):
They people wearing some clothes in Detroit.
Speaker 10 (01:19:13):
They bringing it, man, they bringing it out.
Speaker 6 (01:19:17):
There's a brother on there, y'all. It's a brother on there, y'all,
gonna be.
Speaker 10 (01:19:20):
Like that boy got some clothes really mean, mean fox,
every every animal you.
Speaker 6 (01:19:30):
Can think of that boy and Ward he got it.
He got.
Speaker 9 (01:19:37):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (01:19:39):
One day he came in. I was like, boy, this
is what this? Boys, the princess, the moon to the
day look at and he got all this stuff on.
Speaker 4 (01:19:45):
What is that?
Speaker 5 (01:19:47):
What is that?
Speaker 6 (01:19:47):
Feelings? But yeah, Detroit is hot.
Speaker 10 (01:19:49):
Y'all gonna love Detroit and then it's gonna it's gonna
be some twists and turns, and it's some triangles in
there for show. What makes matter of fact, it's some
love rectangles in there. Get ready, Detroit gotta fight you.
So they're just getting ready for too much love.
Speaker 9 (01:20:07):
This yes, good own.
Speaker 1 (01:20:14):
Friday, November seventh. We cannot wait.
Speaker 6 (01:20:17):
This is the new two point zero version. This is
ready to love everybody.
Speaker 9 (01:20:24):
Coming up, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show at thirty three minutes after the hour, we will
play around. Would you rather right after this you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's Carla Farroll.
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Speaker 9 (01:21:09):
It's time now for a round of would you rather?
Would you rather be cross eyed? Or would you rather
have a pointy bald head? Which one?
Speaker 6 (01:21:17):
I got to see straight? Y'all?
Speaker 9 (01:21:22):
Bald head, I'm head.
Speaker 6 (01:21:24):
Maybe give me a lot of hats man, I'm gonna
have to do it like that, he little pointy ball head.
I'm just gonna be cock eyed. Just keep your head.
Speaker 9 (01:21:31):
Moving, cross eyed.
Speaker 6 (01:21:34):
Cross eyed? Cock eye? Say thing? All right?
Speaker 9 (01:21:42):
Would you rather forget your jokes on stage or get
heckled the entire time?
Speaker 6 (01:21:48):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, get heckle, no get
he bring that hecker. If that's what you want, I
got something for you. Yeah, you want to be in
the show. You got no froublet okay? Well I can't
be up there for getting jokes though that a day,
you know.
Speaker 9 (01:22:01):
I think that is such a skill that you guys
have that you remember all that stuff that's outstanding.
Speaker 4 (01:22:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:22:07):
I just think it's it's well, the alternative is not remembering,
because now what is we out here for? Exactly? We
got a problem we got with the audience.
Speaker 17 (01:22:20):
Man, I'm about to tell you something.
Speaker 5 (01:22:22):
What was I.
Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
There three dudes walk in.
Speaker 6 (01:22:27):
The bar, right, these three dudes walking the ball, black dude,
Chinese dude, and the white dude and the white dude.
I say it was a black dude. I said that, right, Okay,
Chinese dudes in there and.
Speaker 9 (01:22:51):
Showed up.
Speaker 1 (01:22:52):
Yeah, hey, what's going What else going on.
Speaker 4 (01:22:56):
In there?
Speaker 6 (01:22:57):
Boy? They was in that bar. I don't know what
they were drinking.
Speaker 9 (01:23:00):
That's when you start picking on people in the audiences.
Speaker 1 (01:23:03):
Start saying how to win?
Speaker 6 (01:23:04):
You like the wing?
Speaker 9 (01:23:05):
The wings? Good?
Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
All right?
Speaker 5 (01:23:09):
Got it?
Speaker 9 (01:23:10):
Guys?
Speaker 5 (01:23:10):
All right?
Speaker 9 (01:23:11):
Would you rather be a contestant on Jeopardy or would
you rather do an episode of wild'n Out?
Speaker 6 (01:23:16):
I got the wild out. I can't answer question. No,
I'm gonna go. I'm gonna be on Jeopardy. Yeah, now him, man,
cause they're gonna tag you apart on wilding Out. They
have no mercy man, all business man. I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
And now they got old school versus new school. This wicked,
this wicked.
Speaker 5 (01:23:43):
Watched it the.
Speaker 9 (01:23:44):
Other night, wild and wild and wild, all right wild?
Would you rather have heartburn for three days? Heartburn for
three days? Or would you rather have coffee with your ex?
Speaker 6 (01:23:57):
You can burn my heart and set it on five
to Tom, Tom Tom. I don't like these some flower seas. Yeah,
there's no way. I can't.
Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
Hard for three days?
Speaker 9 (01:24:16):
All right, that's today's rounded. Would you rather come up next?
You know what, Let's break of the day, like I said.
Closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey.
Speaker 11 (01:24:29):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning
showrel kick.
Speaker 1 (01:24:39):
That old mopping bucket aside? Are you ready for a
mop and bucket clean? And half the time? Make the
swap to Swipper Power mop the only one.
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dirt and grind like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips
on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease. It'll
leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. Get
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Speaker 9 (01:25:08):
All right, guys, here we are on this Friday, our
last break of the day.
Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
Of the week.
Speaker 9 (01:25:13):
It's been a great week. It's been fun. We've had
fun today.
Speaker 1 (01:25:18):
Yes, great day today. Yeah, always fun on Friday.
Speaker 6 (01:25:23):
Yep.
Speaker 9 (01:25:24):
Thank you to our audience as usual. And Steve, I
know you have some words of wisdom for us.
Speaker 6 (01:25:28):
What you got Yeah, you know. Earlier today, Junior asked
me about association with different types of people, and I
was reminded of an exercise a guy had done one
time where he asked everybody to write on a piece
of paper the names of your five closest associates and
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friends and then describe them positive and negative, you know, smart, loving, caring, lazy,
whatever the character this is. And he said, when you
get through describing those five friends, you've just described yourself.
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Because your friends, you get to pick the people you
call friends, and you normally pick friends because you all
have things in common. So when you describe your five
closest associates, you've described yourself. And I found that to
be true back then, and so I went wow. I
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was listening to my buddy John Hope Bryant on a
podcast and he made the statement he said, if you
hang around nine broke people, you will become number ten.
And you know what, man, that makes so much sense.
Association brings on participation, and as you select your friends,
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you get to pick. Now, stop that old, that old
ignorant mess. You got to keep it real. Remember where
you come from. Yeah, it's cool to remember where you
come from, but you ain't got to stay where you're from.
You can keep parts of where you're from, but you
got to move on. In order to grow, you are
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going to have to go. I don't know anybody who
has grown but has stayed the same. It can't happen.
In order to grow, you have to go. I know
very few people who reach complete fame in their hometown.
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I very rarely hear this because somehow you got to
go where people see you differently. So what I'm saying
to you is this, If association brings on participation, pay
very close attention to who you associate with. Start picking
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better friends, start picking better people to hang out with.
And you know what, don't just have people to hang
out with just to have somebody to hang out with.
That's a dangerous play. Do you know that it's okay
to go somewhere and sit down and be by yourself.
At least you get to have your own thoughts, You
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get to be in your own mood.
Speaker 1 (01:28:27):
What I have learned to do is.
Speaker 6 (01:28:28):
I've disassociated myself with people that bring me no that
come into my life to destroy my peace. If you
are in my life to mess with my peace, you
out out and I don't have to entertain you at all.
By no, man, I don't have no plan. I had
a kid that, no matter what I did for him,
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he didn't listen to me. And I was mentoring him,
and every time he came around, I was trying to
minuture this kid and he always had some pushback, but
no matter what I say. And so one day I
was living in Chicago and he gave me a call
late at night, and he was one of the kids
that had come to my camp, and I could tell
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he was in a club somewhere. And he gave me
a call one night and he had somebody around him
because he said, I heard the guy say, man, you
got Steve Harvey's number. This is a young kid I
was mentoring, and so I was talking to him and
then he said, well, I don't agree with that Steve.
(01:29:33):
And it's the first time he had ever called me Steve.
He had always been calling mister Harvey the whole time,
so I knew he was around somebody flexing. So I
don't agree with that, Steve. I said, Oh, okay, that's different.
I said, well, what is it you don't agree with?
You don't tell me what to do like that? And
I went wow, cause it was he just all of
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a sudden he became antagonistic and all of a sudden, man,
he was just showing off, I said, little man, I said,
watch your mouth now, I say, because I could tell
you flexing in front of somebody. I said, but don't
let this flex cost you something. Now, Oh what's gonna
cost me? You ain't you ain't never. You ain't never
gave me no money or nothing. Okay, cool, I may
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not have. But this advice I've been passing out, that's
been trying to get you on the right track, we finish.
Stop that right now, because I see right now you
somewhere else. Take your little advice. I don't need your advice,
I said, bro, ain't no problem. You ain't got to
get it no more. He called me three years later.
He said, mister Harvey, I need you to help me.
(01:30:38):
I said, oh, you need some help now? I said,
what's somebody? Young man? He said, my bond. My bond
is a half a million dollars. I need fifty thousand dollars. Wow.
I said, what you're in for?
Speaker 9 (01:30:54):
Man?
Speaker 6 (01:30:55):
He said, Oh, I'm robbery? I said, brother, did I
tell you? Did I not tell you that if you
kept hanging with them dudes, what you was gonna do?
Association brings on participation. Yeah, I ain't got no fifty
thousand for you because I may never see this fifty again.
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I'm just saying that long story to just tell you
don't let people destroy your peace. You don't have to
be the one to go to person all the time,
especially if it destroys your peace. Get on with yourself.
Pick better friends, get in a better circle. Hang with
people is like mine to trying to go somewhere like
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you for y'all all might cost those of my closes remarks,
have himself a great day. Talk to God today. He
would absolutely love to hear from us.
Speaker 9 (01:31:48):
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