FULL SHOW: Denzel Calls Out Jerry Jones, Strawberry Letter - I'm In The Middle Of Some Mess - 08.14.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded, y'all know what's time.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Y'all don't know y'all at all, So don't give them
back a million busy Yeah, listening to me, I don't, Joy, Yeah, Joy.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
You know you love?

Speaker 4 (01:06):
You gotta turn.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
I got to turn the mouth turn.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
You probably got to turn the mouth turn the word
of the money.

Speaker 6 (01:49):
Looking me come come out?

Speaker 5 (01:59):
You think that?

Speaker 6 (02:01):
Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody, y'all listening
to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and
only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, okay, here's
what I want to share with you. Stop complaining. So

(02:29):
I had to legend. You see how I let that
one sit for a second. Stop complaining? Do you realize
without us even thinking about it, oftentimes we just complain
about stuff and it comes up in such subtle forms. Man,

(02:54):
I don't know why they're still letting that lady work there. Man,
If they don't fire this woman, man, I don't know
what I'm gonna do. She drive me crazy. She always
got something to say. I bet today though, the way
I'm feeling right now, I bet she better not say
nothing to me today.

Speaker 7 (03:14):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 6 (03:15):
Yeah, yeah, because day it today it I'm sick of
her running in her mouth. Last time she said something
to me, I should have said something to it. You
know what I'm saying. I'm just giving you a small
example of how it starts to snowball. Once you start
to complains, it just carries over into so many things. Man,

(03:40):
Stop complaining about your car, Stop complaining about your bus pass,
Stop complaining about your kids can't seem to get it together.
Stop complaining about your man can't seem to get it together.
Stop complaining. Stop Have you noticed? I'm just asking have
you know that in all of your complaining, it has

(04:04):
provided not one solution. The reason I'm telling you to
stop complaining because God is able, Because God is capable.
He is capable and able of fixing anything, capable and

(04:25):
able of curing anything, capable and able of allowing you
to get to adjusting to things, and capable and able
to strengthen you to get through and change anything. But

(04:46):
the key here is God is capable, and God is able.
A lot of times I find myself complaining because I
have not used my greatest asset, and that's my relationship
with God.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
You all have.

Speaker 6 (05:02):
One now, you may not have nurtured it. But you
have one because God created you as his child. He's
available to you now. The fact that you ain't went
to him. Okay, once again, who fought as that? Stop
complaining until you strengthen your relationship with God and formulate

(05:23):
this relationship. You don't have enough weapons. You ain't got
a big enough shield to fight this thing called life.
He just keeps coming. Man, And unless you develop a
relationship with God, you need a partner in all of this.
Maybe you got another route you're gonna take. But every

(05:46):
successful person I know personally has a relationship with God.
I have some really really some people that's kind of
up there in the success term in terms of business
and money and statute. I'm just talking about that portion

(06:08):
of success. And then I have a lot of people
who are very successful in their spiritual life, who have
become great men of God and women of God. But
look at all of them, and all of them have
substantial amounts of you know, possessions and.

Speaker 5 (06:27):
Things like that.

Speaker 6 (06:28):
Also, most successful people I know have that even if
you saw them never with a big lot of house
and a lot of money or stuff like that, they
had so much respect, so much love, so much power
was given them from people that their life was rich

(06:51):
in that area, you know, like Ahma and Luther King
or something like that, or Gandhi or somebody who lived
their life in service, or Nelson Mandela who came out
and just man, people put stuff at their feet.

Speaker 5 (07:04):
Because of their service.

Speaker 6 (07:06):
So all successful people I know have that, Every last
one of these people that I know, they have relationship
with God. They use the tool that was available to
them to give them the strength, the bullets, the arrows,
the slings, the shield to fight this thing called life
and have the most valuable partner right there.

Speaker 5 (07:27):
By the side.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
They heavily Father God, because he will help you get
through this thing called life. Man, stop complaining all the time.
It's not fixing anything. Why don't you do yourself a
favor and strengthen your relationship with God? Man, why can
I never get over? Well you have not because you
asked not. Man, how come I always got problems? Well,
you keep trying to solve them yourself and taking them

(07:49):
to your friends. You keep trying to do them with
your own thought process.

Speaker 5 (07:53):
Who are you? I keep telling you?

Speaker 8 (07:55):
Man?

Speaker 6 (07:56):
You going through stuff you ain't got no business going through.
And if it's you going through something over and over
and over and over, and the same problem keep coming
back to bite you again. All that's saying is you
still ain't strengthen your relationship with God. He's your relationship.
He's not gonna make you have one with him. He

(08:16):
is a perfect gentleman. He only comes into your life
when you invite a men. But for those who do
invite men, they have a distinct advantage on their road
to success, a distinct advantage. You can do it without him,
Trust me, you can. How far you get. I can't

(08:37):
promise you nothing, how well you handle it when you
arrived there, I can't promise you nothing, how long you
gonna stay there. I can't promise you nothing. How difficult
it is going to be without him. I can't give
you that. It's going to be far more difficult.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
But you can.

Speaker 6 (08:55):
Something can happen, and you, you know, receive a measure
of success. And you think as you and this move
you made, and you can describe it as I got lucky.
I happened to be in the right place at the
right time. I got lucky. Lucky is usually how other
people describe other people's success. Boy, he was lucky. He
was right there. Well, let me tell you what lucky is.

(09:17):
Lucky is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. If
you've been working hard as something, the opportunity presents itself,
that comes a match. That's not luck. But now, if
you haven't done that on a repetitive enough basis, that
opportunity could present itself one time. You got to reconnect.

(09:38):
Stop complaining, man, come on, listen to me. Stop complaining.
It hasn't fixed a single thing in your life. And
if you're a chronic complainer, it's because you really, really
have not fixed your relationship with God. He'll move it
out for you. That I can tell you for a fact.
I know that for a fact He's moved mine out.
All right, let's go.

Speaker 7 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen. Another day, another blessing, another gift, another honor,
another treasured moment, another whole new deck of cards with
reasons to be grateful printing on each one, every last
one of them. Man, what a great thing it is

(10:24):
to still be alive. Man, Thank you God Almighty. We
here on the Steve Harvey Morning Show, we show appreciate it.
Everybody listening on behalf of all of our listeners, we
want to say thank you. Yeah, I'm doing it on
their behalf too, even if they just waking up.

Speaker 5 (10:42):
It don't matter.

Speaker 6 (10:43):
They good people, they know, they know sometimes we all
don't care who we are, myself included, just have to
be reminded that if it was not for God, where
would you be.

Speaker 5 (10:57):
Man. Thank you for you.

Speaker 6 (10:58):
Hearing me answer my prayers. Thank you for ordering my steps.
I appreciate everything. Steve Harvey, Morny Show, got stuck right there,
Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica and the legend
that is Nephew Tommy. Good morning, everybody, Good morning, sir,
good morning.

Speaker 8 (11:17):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
Woo yeah, yeah, you're in a good mood, yes, and.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
You woo woo woo Born.

Speaker 7 (11:37):
You know, he's one of the most underrated singers. I
think I don't talk about Jeffrey Osbourne like they do
other singers because he's got a great voice.

Speaker 9 (11:47):
Underrated to me, well, you know, every day long you're
gonna close his eyes.

Speaker 5 (12:00):
Just makes it all with the go through.

Speaker 6 (12:08):
People wanting the how I do it, but it ain't
nothing to it. Jeffrey boy, concentrate on you.

Speaker 1 (12:19):
That was the Chael Valley. What about love? Balan a
come on.

Speaker 6 (12:30):
Hamp neil.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
Be boy boy.

Speaker 6 (12:39):
Man, you know what. I'm so glad I grew up
when I grew up because I saw the greatest music
era ever.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
Yes, yes, I saw it.

Speaker 6 (12:48):
I saw It's gone, but I saw it no more.
There is no more tending to lyrics.

Speaker 5 (12:56):
That ain't that? Ain't that?

Speaker 6 (12:56):
Ain't what they do now? They they write songs in
like four minutes.

Speaker 5 (13:06):
What are they talking about?

Speaker 6 (13:09):
Give me a subject right quit thirty second, I'm gonna
write a new song love love what they used to sing?

Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (13:19):
This how this?

Speaker 5 (13:20):
How I write about love? Right now?

Speaker 6 (13:21):
It ain't nothing, nothing but a fool out of word,
That's all it is. That's the last I heard. Who
in love? Nothing but a fool? I like fine rain
and everything got nothing to do with love.

Speaker 5 (13:34):
Boy, We gotta go.

Speaker 7 (13:36):
That's a hit coming up, you lyricists coming up at
thirty two minutes after the hour. We will hear from
the nephew if he runs that prank back right after this.

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Speaker 7 (14:25):
It is time now for the Nephew to run that
brank back. What you got for is, neph.

Speaker 5 (14:30):
We got to recognize people's birthday, Shirley. This is for
you know, everybody that has a birthday today. Happy birthday
to you. Okay, Happy birthday to you. All right. It's
a beautiful thing to live another three hundred and sixty
five days, you know. And uh, sometimes you gotta call
people and and well, you know, it's your wife's birthday,
and I just I wanted to call you, and yeah,

(14:51):
it's your wife's birthday. I just want to call you
and see what you getting your wife. Make sure I
don't get that. You understand the uh.

Speaker 6 (14:59):
And who aren't you on the prank?

Speaker 5 (15:01):
You just man that the main that. Yeah, I'm the
man that be seeing the wife, So.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
You're you're the wife's side piece.

Speaker 5 (15:11):
I don't like to call it that.

Speaker 7 (15:12):
I don't know, but that's what your eye blanche.

Speaker 5 (15:18):
I don't like to call it that, but you know,
that's what it is. I don't like that side thing.
I'm just uh uh, this the extra, Okay, put it
that way. I'm an extra. But anyway, it's her birthday, man,
and let's let's let's let's uplift your wife, man, and
let's let's figure out what we gonna get her.

Speaker 6 (15:34):
Let's let's figure out what we're gonna get her. You
get her, what you're gonna get her.

Speaker 5 (15:37):
I just wanna make sure we don't get the same thing,
you know, But I like getting her Victoria's secret. I
think you'll really like that. But anyway, just need to
hear out that. Let's go catch dog if you would.

Speaker 10 (15:47):
Hello, Hello, I'm trying to there.

Speaker 11 (15:50):
Yeah, what's up?

Speaker 10 (15:52):
Hey there, what's Bro's Uh? My name is Chris Man.
I work with I work with your.

Speaker 5 (15:57):
Wife, Sharon.

Speaker 10 (15:58):
I think I think I'm gonna see one of the
one of the gatherings before, man, like a happy hour
we had after work or something. I don't know if
you remember me or not.

Speaker 11 (16:07):
No, I don't remember you.

Speaker 10 (16:08):
Okay, okay, okay, cool, Hey listen, man, I know sharing
birthday is coming up, so I wanted to if you
didn't mind, I hope you don't mind me called. I
wanted to reach out and see if you were, you know,
what you were getting her for a birthday. I wanted
to make sure you know we're gonna pitch in and
get us something at the job. We wanna make sure
you know we didn't get you know, you know what

(16:29):
you may have be gonna get it.

Speaker 11 (16:30):
You know what I'm saying kind of like something like
a grab bag or something like that.

Speaker 10 (16:35):
Uh No, I wasn't gonna hit it with no grab man.
I was just you know, like I said, we was
gonna get something. You know, we haven't really put our
put our all the thoughts to it or what we
was gonna get yet. Want if I personally want to
see what you was getting that way? We don't you know,
do Okay?

Speaker 11 (16:51):
Well? She likes money, man, you can you know, uh
give us some give us some cash or you know
Starbucks card or uh, something from McDonald something. You know,
it don't have to be too big. She she don't Uh,
you don't have to, you know, she she's not that materialistic.

Speaker 10 (17:09):
Okay, okay, let me let me let me ask you
this so deep? Uh do you uh you know what
a size is?

Speaker 11 (17:17):
Do I know what her size is?

Speaker 10 (17:19):
Still like clothing?

Speaker 6 (17:20):
You know?

Speaker 10 (17:20):
Do you know what size she will?

Speaker 11 (17:22):
Uh? Yeah, I know what size she's like, she's my wife. Man,
What I think this is kind of like I'm getting
a little bit uncomfortable with this. Man.

Speaker 10 (17:32):
What do you do you think? You know? I don't
mean to make you uncomfortable. Let me ask you this.
Do you think she she would like? Uh? Does she
like stuff from Victoria's Secret?

Speaker 11 (17:42):
WHOA hold up?

Speaker 3 (17:44):
Man?

Speaker 11 (17:44):
Stop right there? You talking about what?

Speaker 8 (17:48):
No?

Speaker 10 (17:48):
I like I said, I want what you Hey?

Speaker 11 (17:51):
What's your name again?

Speaker 1 (17:52):
Man?

Speaker 10 (17:53):
My name Chris? Like like I said earlier, my name Chris.

Speaker 11 (17:56):
How long you been with the company?

Speaker 10 (17:58):
I have only been there six months, you know? But
like I said, I think I saw you at one
of the happy y'alls. I saw maybe you just don't
remember who I am though.

Speaker 11 (18:06):
No, no, no, man, but you way out of line
talking about her size, and I'm not comfortable with this
at all. Man. You know okay, okay, you way out
your way out of line.

Speaker 10 (18:19):
Right, but what what? What's what? You didn't answer? My
question was, what do you think she liked Victorious Secret?

Speaker 11 (18:26):
Got to answer your questions? What you talking about?

Speaker 5 (18:30):
Okay?

Speaker 10 (18:31):
Okay, what's what's what?

Speaker 7 (18:32):
What?

Speaker 10 (18:32):
What's the language? Brother? What's what's her? We brothers?

Speaker 11 (18:35):
You know we ain't we ain't we ain't no brothers?
You fool? What do you get on asking me about
my white's clothes?

Speaker 10 (18:45):
Okay? Okay, all right, okay, talk about Okay, What all
I'm saying is is do you think she gonna like
the Victorious Secret?

Speaker 5 (18:56):
I give up?

Speaker 11 (18:57):
Hey, man, just the st up with that?

Speaker 10 (19:00):
Do you know how long we've been together?

Speaker 11 (19:03):
I know this woman since high school.

Speaker 10 (19:05):
Don't come to me with that, okay. So so I
was just trying to get up what what what?

Speaker 11 (19:13):
What time do you guys get off?

Speaker 10 (19:15):
I'm coming off. I lead off with at five thirty,
but I was gonna leave early.

Speaker 11 (19:19):
I mean, right, hey, we can talk about this faith
to faith.

Speaker 10 (19:24):
Hey, listen, I'm trying to.

Speaker 11 (19:25):
Get listen, what I ain't gotta listen to.

Speaker 10 (19:28):
I'm trying to get shared a pandem Broth said, man, okay, hey.

Speaker 11 (19:33):
You ain't buying my wife and she wouldn't even accept
it anyway. Okay, hey man, how you get this number?
How you get this number?

Speaker 10 (19:44):
I know she didn't give you this. Let me tell you,
hot there, I got it from your wife, Sharon, because
guess who I am. I am nephew Toppy from the
Steve Harvey Marty Show. Sharon got me to prank phone
call you?

Speaker 11 (20:01):
What there?

Speaker 1 (20:05):
This happened?

Speaker 10 (20:06):
Man, This nephew Tommy brother.

Speaker 11 (20:08):
Man, this is some boys. This is some real books.
This is some straight up bulls. Hey man, you ain't
right man. You know you need to stop with people,
you know, because you might get you might somebody might
be waiting for you have to work one day. Man,
that's totally wrong. You have heard of karma. Somebody gonna

(20:31):
play a prank on your one day. Your uncle is right,
somebody's gonna what your It's just a matter of times.

Speaker 10 (20:45):
Oh man. All right, all right, darn. Before I get well,
will you please tell the people what is the baddest
radio show in the land, Steve Harvey Show.

Speaker 5 (20:59):
And I'll be back in an hour, sharely with another one. Yes,
we will stop. Don't stop the Christ.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
All right, thank you nephew.

Speaker 7 (21:08):
Coming up next to his ask the clo our chief
Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right after this, It's.

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Is Steve Robin Martin shaw Man. I love the fact
that God is who he is. God is everything. He's
all powerful, all knowing, all seeing, all prevailing, all doing,
all knowing. Whatever you need, God got it.

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Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Beyonce and all.

Speaker 7 (22:23):
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(22:43):
she passed away. We'll talk about that and all of
these stories at the top of the hour. Right now,
it is time to ask the clo our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Gabe in Chesterfield, Colo, Gabe Wrights.
My wife made our home office her second closet and
it's too cluttered for me to work in there, so

(23:04):
I moved my desk to the sitting area in our bedroom.
She told me that my desk can't stay there. Should
I put her stuff out and get my office back?

Speaker 6 (23:15):
Well, bro, let me ask you a question. When you
take her stuff out, what how you think that's gonna work? Now,
she didn't already decided that her clothes she needs more
closet space, So she then took your office and turned

(23:35):
that into a closet, which was a bit rude. Yeah,
especially without especially without conferring with you, talking to you
about it and then when you said, well, I'm gonna
move my desk in the bedroom, she said, okay, stay that. Well,
then ask her where does she propose that you take
care of the business from.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
Okay, I like it, I like it.

Speaker 6 (24:00):
Where do you propose that I take care of this
business from? Because you done took my office and turned
it into a closet. And you know, look, an office
should have a certain aura to it to put you
in the mind frame to work, not like you jammed
up in somebody's closet, sleeves all on the back of
your neck.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
Yeah, what is all of that? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (24:25):
I don't know the size of y'all's house, but you
all do. All have a space problem because if you
turning offices into closets, and you turn in bedroom into offices,
you know, y'all's only solution is or you can go
in there to her and say, hey, look, we need
a bigger place, and see how that fly. Oh, but
you're gonna have to get this man a space, because

(24:48):
every man should have at his house, especially if it's
a homeowner or apartment. Everybody, every man should have his
version of a man cave. Yeah, a little space in
the corner, that's his computer. Kids can't use it. That's
his monitor, that's his game control center, whatever it.

Speaker 5 (25:09):
Is, that's what he is.

Speaker 6 (25:10):
Okay, maybe he got a little sofa in the TV
in the basement somewhere, whatever size house y'all got. Every
man should have that.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
All right, All right, Well, we're gonna get your.

Speaker 5 (25:19):
Bra off the front of though off this. We're gonna
get your braw off for them.

Speaker 7 (25:25):
Moving on to Calendra and making Glenda writes, after sex,
my husband is all almost always gets out of bed
and sleeps on the sofa. It's a big disconnect for me,
and I've told him that I don't like it. I
even asked him if the sex is that bad. He
won't give me a reason. Why does he get out

(25:47):
of bed and sleep on the sofa?

Speaker 6 (25:50):
Probably because he hot?

Speaker 5 (25:51):
Get right hot in hell here?

Speaker 6 (25:57):
You know, I keep you from cutting and he don't
want to push you all all this here. But it's
not because it's bad, that, ain't it.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
Yeah, Well he won't give her a.

Speaker 6 (26:10):
Well, if it's bad, they're gonna go somewhere. So that
ain't what it is. It ain't bad because he married.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
Well, why won't he got all of that? Why won't
he tell you.

Speaker 6 (26:18):
He just he don't want to hurt the feelings. I
don't want you own me, touching me, asking me nothing, talking.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
You don't want her touching talking.

Speaker 6 (26:28):
To you on the couch.

Speaker 11 (26:35):
Up.

Speaker 5 (26:37):
Wow, I got to recover.

Speaker 1 (26:41):
All right.

Speaker 7 (26:42):
Moving on to Ricky and Little Rock, Ricky writes, my
girlfriend compares me to her exes a lot. So I
decided to give her a taste of her own medicine.
And I told her that no one makes spaghetti like
my ex wife. She told me that she will remember that.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
Is it cool?

Speaker 7 (27:00):
Will to be playing these types of games?

Speaker 6 (27:06):
She said, I'm gonna remember that. Okay, they don't forget anyway. No,
now she remember that. I don't know why she does that. Ladies,
you can't bruise a man's ego like that. You're always
comparing you to your actions and all like that. That's

(27:27):
what's wrong with you, lady. You're wrong. Now, my man, Now,
how you get back at her? It's not that way?

Speaker 1 (27:36):
Who my ex wife can make some spaghetti. I love
her spaghetti. Can you make it like my ex wife?

Speaker 7 (27:43):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (27:44):
Okay, Well, you know the thing about the spaghetti. It
wasn't good enough to keep you all together. So how
good that spaghetti was? You left it?

Speaker 1 (27:53):
And her was her name? Though his name is Ricky Edith?

Speaker 7 (28:01):
Eat it?

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Yeah, you're going so.

Speaker 6 (28:04):
Deep on the old.

Speaker 5 (28:07):
Ricky and Edith.

Speaker 6 (28:10):
Edith Edith eat it?

Speaker 7 (28:12):
Eat itth Wow, she said, I'll remember that all right.
Last one, Steve, Last one Charita in Memphis. Sharita writes,
I've been married for almost fifteen years, and I stopped
having sex with my husband because he does not know
how to talk to me. He stopped asking for sex
after month two? Why has he lost interest in having sex?

(28:36):
Does he have someone else?

Speaker 6 (28:39):
Well? He stopped asking for sex after month too, y'all
been married almost fifteen years. Fifteen years, you're just not
right near.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
It hasn't been bothering you.

Speaker 5 (28:57):
I don't even want to stand.

Speaker 6 (29:00):
I don't even understand the concern anymore.

Speaker 1 (29:03):
She's once in a whyse he lost interest in sex?
And does you.

Speaker 6 (29:07):
Lost interest in sex in me? Thirteen years ago? I know,
I don't think it's time for a letter. Yeah, yeah,
I don't know. What's you know?

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (29:25):
Who deaf? A long way?

Speaker 7 (29:27):
So he was he was talking to her crazy, so,
she says, So she stopped having sex with him.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
That was the problem, and initially.

Speaker 6 (29:36):
Well talking to him crazy, talking to her in general
or why they was in the act in general?

Speaker 1 (29:43):
Yeah, just period, yeah, in general.

Speaker 7 (29:48):
Yeah, that's why she stopped having sex in the first place,
because he does not know how to talk to her.

Speaker 6 (29:53):
Oh okay, so something wrong with him. He he ain't
even wrap right. I can't help you. It's just too
much in here and as missing thirty years fifteen, Ye,
talk to you crazy. I don't know.

Speaker 5 (30:09):
I can't help you.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
He stopped having sex after a month.

Speaker 5 (30:12):
Two.

Speaker 6 (30:12):
Yes, the luck, the alo just don't know.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
Thank you. Colo.

Speaker 7 (30:20):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you. Can't fix everything right after this,
you're listening.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (30:35):
During a recent interview on Matt Barnes podcast That's Baseball Great,
David Justice, halle Berry's first ex husband, received backlash after saying, Tommy,
I know you're sitting up and listening to this. After
saying he divorced Halle because she didn't seem quote motherly,
and he claimed she doesn't cook and doesn't clean. That's

(30:56):
why he said they got a divorce and to be fair,
David also said that was how he thought back in
the day, and that therapy probably could have helped them.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
He said, I was.

Speaker 7 (31:06):
Young, I'd only been in one real relationship before her,
and my knowledge and my understanding and wisdom around relationships
just wasn't vast. The couple married, if you recall, back
in nineteen ninety three, and divorced in nineteen ninety seven.
Hallie went on to two more marriages and now date
singer Van Hunt. So, yeah, we remember, yeah, when they

(31:27):
got married and when they got divorced.

Speaker 6 (31:29):
There was I remember it ever been the day it happened.
I remember that. Well, he was a baseball star, she's
a movie star. She don't cook her clean. I think
you can hire somebody for that.

Speaker 7 (31:41):
Made a h yeah, And he said she didn't seem motherly. Yeah,
but he said that's how he thought back then.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
You know, he had only been in one serious relationship.

Speaker 5 (31:54):
He need to be motherly, right, And he.

Speaker 1 (31:57):
Also said therapy would have helped.

Speaker 5 (32:03):
And picking up all her clothes, everything she messed up
around the house. Every time I'm cleaning everything. Baby, I
got your two birds. I didn't clean it off. Don't
you worry about that. I got you. You do what
you need to do to be HALLI you just keep
in hogly I got you know, baby, I met.

Speaker 6 (32:20):
David a few times. He don't strike me as that
type of guy. I don't know why. You know what
it is, man. Podcasts are dangerous things these days because
it takes you from the constraints of terrestrial radio, right,
because you could be free to say more on a podcast,

(32:41):
say anything, right. So yeah, but I think people get
on these podcasts and they forget that they also have
an existing life and a brand. And you get on
these podcasts and you like Steved man, it's too much
like Steven A. Smith was explaining the whole lebron thing

(33:04):
on these guys podcasts and he was just like overly
cussing to appear tougher. And you know, man, you know
when you heard it, it wasn't.

Speaker 12 (33:18):
Him because he doesn't know it was very hard, yeah,
to be cool or hot or tough. And you know,
real dudes see through that stuff.

Speaker 5 (33:31):
Man. We come on man.

Speaker 6 (33:34):
And so but I just find that a lot of
people get on these podcasts and they overshare, not realizing
that they still have a life and a brand. I
think that that podcast gives them a sense of freedom
but they don't understand you. You have to pay for
everything you say. You have to pay for everything you say.

(33:56):
Just said that.

Speaker 7 (33:57):
But then he also sounds like he would take it
back if he could. He would, you know, he would like, well.

Speaker 6 (34:03):
I think I think maybe a little bit out of context,
you know, maybe that's how I thought back then, or yeah,
you know, I wish I had not did that, because
I was really young back then, and that really shouldn't
have been the determining fact that you don't clean or cook,
because y'all both y'all rich. I don't know what you're
in here cleaning for anyway.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
But that was his mentality.

Speaker 6 (34:26):
I'm not I'm not doing none of that.

Speaker 5 (34:32):
Made.

Speaker 6 (34:32):
I made some scrambled edge and I don't wash it load.
I don't even know you watch the loo. I looked
at the washing machines one day and was just standing there,
fascinated with all the sentence that's on.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
You just better go ahead and be rich.

Speaker 6 (34:53):
They had a setting on that and said hand iron.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
Uh huh, you gotta washing machine.

Speaker 5 (35:01):
I don't know what washing you got? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (35:04):
Steam like yeah, hands, I mean yeah, all that.

Speaker 6 (35:08):
They got that on there too, hand iron, so you
could throw it in here and put it on the setting,
and it'll make it look like your clothes was iron
the dryer.

Speaker 1 (35:18):
I need that drop.

Speaker 5 (35:22):
He got a person, he got a person inside.

Speaker 10 (35:24):
He d.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
Going around.

Speaker 5 (35:28):
See that. That's why you don't like to.

Speaker 6 (35:31):
Do because I don't see I in there. Looked at
my washing machine, fascinator. I turned around. I ain't using it.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
You talking up regularly?

Speaker 5 (35:45):
Man?

Speaker 4 (35:47):
No?

Speaker 6 (35:48):
Why what not washing clothes? I don't understand what. But
why am I washing clothes with you?

Speaker 1 (35:58):
I understand. I'm not mad, I promise you.

Speaker 6 (36:01):
I don't understand why I'm in here washing clothes. Yeah,
and you know why they're dirty because I was fishing
in them. So now if I'm washing the clothes, what
is these people in here for staff?

Speaker 1 (36:18):
Exactly? I'm with you when your right.

Speaker 7 (36:25):
So let me just ask you this one thing, Steve.
When you, like you said, you were fishing, Okay, when
you come back from fishing, you take your clothes off,
what do you do? Do you put them in the
laundry basket?

Speaker 5 (36:37):
What do you do?

Speaker 1 (36:38):
Exactly?

Speaker 6 (36:39):
I put them in the laundry room. Laundry laundry room
is right by the door at my ranch. I take
my bootsoft socks, pants and shirt off and put it
right there. And that's all happened in a basket.

Speaker 7 (36:51):
You mean, yeah, more, I don't be looking for no basket,
So put them right there where is right there on
the floe.

Speaker 3 (37:00):
Let's see, all right?

Speaker 7 (37:03):
Listen coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, Murial Bowser.
She is the mayor of Washington, d C. She's called
President Trump's move to federalize the nation's capital unsettling and unprecedented.
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listenings the
Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
The Moment of Truth has arrived, Ice Cube and the
Big Three Playoffs alive from Dallas this Sunday, three pm
fiercely competitive three on three basketball basketball played the way
it's supposed to be.

Speaker 6 (37:40):
Watch Land Stevens and Dwight Howard.

Speaker 5 (37:42):
Glenn Rice Junior, Montane Harrold, Michael Beasley, and Moore fight
to win the Doctor J Championship Trophy and their share
of the one million dollar finals perse Big Three on
CBS this Sunday, three pm Eastern, twelve pm Pacific.

Speaker 7 (37:54):
According to CNN, the National Guard is on the streets
of Washington, DC.

Speaker 1 (37:59):
Now.

Speaker 7 (38:00):
President Trump is justifying his temporary federal takeover of policing
in Washington, d C. And said, in part the crime
situation in Washington, DC quote is getting worse, not getting better.
DC Mayor Muriel Bowser said, in part quote, I'm also
really ticked off about the intrusion on the district's autonomy

(38:21):
and the characterization of a good work that we do
in this city to make it beautiful and to have
excellent services, to attract millions of tourists, to have a
growing school system, to have a growing city with new
residents showing up every day.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
So that's the real Washington.

Speaker 7 (38:37):
And guess this guy's Overall violent crime numbers have fallen
in Washington, d C.

Speaker 1 (38:42):
After twenty three spike.

Speaker 7 (38:45):
Violent crime declined in twenty twenty four and has declined
again so far in twenty twenty five.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
So what is the president really trying to do here?

Speaker 6 (38:54):
Well, what is it? The president? Let's stop this right here.
This administration is not tough on crime. Let's stop that
right now. That's not what they're tough on. If they
were tough on crime, they would not have pardoned all
of those January sixth rioters who beat and were in

(39:15):
the presidence of officers who lost their lives and was
breaking and entering in the capitol. So if they were
tough on crime, they wouldn't have did it. He's pardoned
more people than any other president, criminals than any other president,
so they're not He's not tough on crime. He's tough
on his enemies. Well, anybody that goes up against him, black,

(39:39):
female mayor white governor. Man, it don't matter if you
were his enemy. He told you in the beginning he's
gonna come after you for one month. He's extended that
to his entire presidency because he's just that petty. So
that's what he's tough on. I was listening to some
residents of Washingington, d C on CNN last night who

(40:02):
were glad to see a couple of old black residents
who were glad to see because she felt like she
couldn't even go outside no more, and now she felt
comfortable seeing more of a police presence there. I understand
also what the mayor is saying, but there is a
medium in here that could be reached, especially in high

(40:24):
crime cities. If you look at the top four high
crime cities Cleveland, Memphis, Detroit, and I think the other
one was DC, Chicago and well in the top but
on the top four, I know Cleveland made top four.

Speaker 5 (40:42):
I was just sitting there going.

Speaker 8 (40:43):
Damn yeah.

Speaker 6 (40:45):
Do you think this is part of a distraction too
for him? Of course, everything the economy, the jobs and
the Epstein five.

Speaker 7 (40:56):
Jeffreystee all, wow, all right up every day, right, Yeah,
he's not boring. Coming up in thirty four minutes after
the hour, Denzel Washington's message to the Dallas Cowboys owner
Jerry Jones, saying, all money ain't good money.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (41:24):
Well in trending, Sports, entertainment, news, actor Denzel Washington, and
we love him and Spike Lee. We're special guests on
First Take with Stephen A.

Speaker 1 (41:32):
Smith.

Speaker 7 (41:33):
They wanted to promote their new movie Highest to Lowest
in theaters tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (41:39):
Denzel is a yeah, I can't wait.

Speaker 7 (41:41):
Denzel is a long time Dallas Cowboys fan, and he
called out owner Jerry Jones.

Speaker 1 (41:46):
Take a listen.

Speaker 13 (41:47):
I know they're making a lot of money, and I'm
happy for the owner, but the fans ain't happy.

Speaker 5 (41:53):
I've been a fan.

Speaker 6 (41:54):
I grew up in Malvern, Uptown.

Speaker 14 (41:56):
Money or in the Red Raiders. We were the Red
Raiders in the sixties. I was a run back and
we used to shift.

Speaker 15 (42:03):
Like the Cowboys and Dray so I said, Oh, the
Cowboys played like us.

Speaker 14 (42:08):
I've been a Cowboy fan since the sixties. He's making
it hard for me not to be a fan because
I'm still a Cowboy fan. I'm still going to have
to star on the side of the hat. But he
ain't thinking about us. He's thinking about his pocket, his
box office and Oscars.

Speaker 16 (42:25):
Jerry's been a while. Ain't been to the show. You
wouldn't know. Wouldn't been to the show, you wouldn't know. Oh, oh,
I haven't been to the show, so you wouldn't know
what it is to win.

Speaker 5 (42:40):
I don't care what he said.

Speaker 6 (42:41):
I would just like to say that I have hated
the Cowboys since the sixties because the Cowboys were in
the same division as the Cleveland Browns, the North Division
here we so I've hated the Cowboys since I was
a child. That's a weird reaction, uh diconomy the dynamic

(43:05):
that I had with the Cowboys. I love the Cowboy players.
Michael Irvin, Emmit, Dion Parsons, Nate Newton, don't catch you
should come to my club, man.

Speaker 5 (43:23):
I love the Cowboy players. I just can't stand that team.

Speaker 6 (43:31):
Man, How does that work? Is it the I don't know, America,
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (43:38):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (43:39):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (43:43):
Man.

Speaker 6 (43:43):
The players are some of the coolest dudes.

Speaker 10 (43:45):
Man.

Speaker 6 (43:45):
This you call to my comedy club in Dallas. Band
of dudes. Man is a great dudes. Man. I can't
stand the team though.

Speaker 7 (43:55):
Well, okay, so so Denzel said he didn't like the
owner basically, so, well, here's.

Speaker 6 (44:06):
The deal with Jerry Joe. He's an old rich billionaire
that bought a team because that's what he always wanted
to do. He had enough oil money and all this
to buy the team. So he owns the team and
now that's his toy. He's not only the owner, he's

(44:26):
the general manager. They made all the decisions. Yeah, because
the best coach he ever had was Jimmy Johnson. That's
the best coach they ever had. They butted heads because
Jimmy Johnson was getting too much credit. Jimmy Johnson was
winning Super Bowls, so he got rid of him. The

(44:48):
Anyboughty and his boy from Oklahoma got rid of him,
then anybody that Coyle was down and does what he wants.
He keeps them and he keeps them too long. The
last three coaches they've had have been garbage, garbage cowboys.
That little red headed boy they had, the little fat when.

Speaker 5 (45:08):
They got now Garrett garbage dudes.

Speaker 6 (45:12):
Man, I'm talking about man. Why y'all why they still
the coach over there for y'all? That's y'all problem. Y'all
ain't got no coaching man. Y'all got the players, you
got the talent, you got everything. That's that dope boy,
C J. Lamb Parsings, all the boys. Y'all just ain't
got no coach.

Speaker 4 (45:30):
Man.

Speaker 5 (45:31):
But here's one observation though, Stephen Ain was not screaming
during that interview. Dog, you know who the king is?

Speaker 6 (45:45):
Stephen a bag down? He know the goat baby when
he's we listen.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
I now like the Cowboys. I love the Cowboys all right.
Coming up next, and.

Speaker 6 (46:02):
I feel sorry for the fans in Dallas cause they
they hoped be up every year.

Speaker 7 (46:07):
That's all right, coming up next. It is a nephew
and today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the
top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's
my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is I'm

(46:29):
in the middle of some mess.

Speaker 1 (46:30):
Okay, we'll get into that and find out what that's
all about in just a few aren't we all?

Speaker 7 (46:37):
That's what makes life fun. Right right now, the nephew
is here with today's prank phone call. What you got
for his neph.

Speaker 5 (46:46):
Well, let me let me let me show y'alllf.

Speaker 6 (46:48):
You know pranking.

Speaker 5 (46:50):
You know, when you want to get the understanding of
prank and fast such insensitive subjects, you just listen.

Speaker 6 (46:59):
You know, we're just oh, but just do the prank.
Were gonna say it up playing close to getting your.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
You're nervous today.

Speaker 6 (47:11):
I don't know what I'm worrying him, the revel and
stupidity that goes into Yes, you gotta put intellect, Wait, an.

Speaker 5 (47:21):
Intellect with you.

Speaker 6 (47:22):
Hain't had intellect since you've been on the show.

Speaker 5 (47:28):
Anyway, anyway, you know, sometimes you gotta make a man
just break down and cry. You know what I mean?
You gotta really get Yeah, you gotta I gotta touch
those cards. You gotta do this right. Here is relationship departure.
Relationship departure. We have the airport, me and his girl

(47:49):
and we about to leave. Yeah, me and his wife. Yeah,
i'd have found you after this one. Yeah, I have
found you after Yeah. Nice prank. I'm looking at you
right now, cat dog, if you would, let's get to
the tears.

Speaker 8 (48:06):
Hello, Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I was I was calling
to tell you baby. Look, I just I just can't
I got h what.

Speaker 5 (48:25):
Oh hello Brian, Brian, Hey, this is Greg. I know
I know you was just talking to but this is
this is Greg talking to you.

Speaker 10 (48:34):
Brian, Greg. Yeah, this is Briant.

Speaker 6 (48:37):
Greg.

Speaker 17 (48:38):
I was just talking to my wife. Did you put
it back on the phone.

Speaker 5 (48:41):
Uh No, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna be able
to do that. Why can't you do that?

Speaker 11 (48:46):
Man?

Speaker 5 (48:46):
Hey, let me explain something to you. Uh all right,
there's some things, you know, long conversations about this.

Speaker 10 (48:54):
Well, how you know my wife on.

Speaker 17 (48:55):
The first man basis like that?

Speaker 6 (48:56):
Man?

Speaker 5 (48:56):
How you who are you? Like I said, man, my
name is Greg h Are at the airport?

Speaker 10 (49:04):
Okay airport? What's the airport?

Speaker 17 (49:07):
And why we got the airport with my wife's ford.

Speaker 5 (49:10):
Hey let me, Hey, doc, all of this is complicated, Okay,
it's really it is.

Speaker 10 (49:16):
Make it simple for me.

Speaker 5 (49:18):
Okay, So what I want to explain to you? Let
me explain to you Mann. We've had a lot of
long conversations about this. It's something that you want.

Speaker 11 (49:28):
When when was this?

Speaker 17 (49:30):
Why are you about the airport with my wife's with me?

Speaker 5 (49:36):
And why is leaving with me? Okay?

Speaker 10 (49:42):
Leaving?

Speaker 17 (49:43):
And do you mean leaving?

Speaker 10 (49:45):
Leaving me?

Speaker 7 (49:46):
Oh?

Speaker 10 (49:46):
Hell no? Put on the phone, and I don't even
want to talk to you, man.

Speaker 11 (49:49):
Put her on the phone.

Speaker 10 (49:52):
Put her on the phone, man, and look, you need
to put her on the phone right now, leaving. I
don't believe that.

Speaker 5 (49:56):
Now.

Speaker 17 (49:56):
I want to hear her say that.

Speaker 5 (50:00):
Do you want to talk to Oh here you're saying here,
let me talk to my wife? Man?

Speaker 17 (50:03):
Because you you seed the boy made.

Speaker 10 (50:07):
Yeah?

Speaker 17 (50:07):
Yeah, yeah?

Speaker 11 (50:08):
What's up?

Speaker 10 (50:09):
What's this dude talking.

Speaker 8 (50:10):
Down sweetie to tell you this for a while? See
you think everything is okay, but he hasn't been. Okay.

Speaker 10 (50:18):
Why are you telling me this the phone? Why can't
you just come home and tell me? Why can't you
just tell me this?

Speaker 8 (50:24):
To my face.

Speaker 5 (50:24):
Hey, hey, hey bro, come on man, my wife. Hey
hey bro, I know this is painful.

Speaker 7 (50:35):
Man.

Speaker 10 (50:36):
You don't know, you don't know nothing.

Speaker 17 (50:40):
Okay, ladies, I just put my wife on the phone.
But did you if you got any ounce of a
man and you just put my wife back on the phone.

Speaker 5 (50:53):
All right, bro? Let me, let me, let me say,
let me let me. Can I say something to you?

Speaker 7 (50:57):
Man?

Speaker 11 (50:58):
Just say, man, what do you left?

Speaker 5 (51:00):
Is my wife?

Speaker 10 (51:01):
But you ain't got nothing.

Speaker 5 (51:02):
I'm gonna put it on in the second. But then
you say this to you man.

Speaker 10 (51:05):
I say, man, and wrap it up because I need
to talk to my wife.

Speaker 5 (51:09):
I just want you to know this, Brian, this is
this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
You got me the prank phone call? Yea?

Speaker 10 (51:20):
What hold on? So?

Speaker 17 (51:24):
So okay, if you planted me what's up with the
airport and stuff in the back, then y'all let the airport?

Speaker 5 (51:29):
No, Bro, your wife is here at the studio. Man,
ain't nothing happening man, You're wife? Hold on, I gonna
let you talk you.

Speaker 6 (51:36):
All right? First of all, are you alright?

Speaker 5 (51:39):
Man?

Speaker 3 (51:40):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (51:42):
Oh man?

Speaker 10 (51:43):
It was about to be a murdering.

Speaker 8 (51:44):
Man, look at now, who's the bigger I got you?

Speaker 6 (51:51):
Finally you could have been a little bit more.

Speaker 5 (51:56):
You and y'all your brother.

Speaker 6 (51:57):
You think y'all the only ones can prank people is
that you and your brother to be breaking.

Speaker 5 (52:00):
All the time.

Speaker 10 (52:01):
Man, it's light stuff though, I girl, Oh.

Speaker 5 (52:09):
You got a birthday coming up? Happy birthday?

Speaker 11 (52:12):
Bright this yeah, man, look great gifts, great gifts, man.

Speaker 10 (52:18):
Let me talk to my wife.

Speaker 6 (52:19):
Man, I got I ain't got no dudefe.

Speaker 10 (52:21):
Hold on, please.

Speaker 18 (52:24):
What you.

Speaker 10 (52:27):
Got me? All right? Don't don't You ain't got to
go this far?

Speaker 8 (52:30):
All right, it's supposed to be funny. I did a
little bad, but you kind of start cheering up. But
I'm glad to know you fight for me.

Speaker 17 (52:37):
Like that.

Speaker 10 (52:39):
Fight.

Speaker 5 (52:40):
It was gonna be some fight.

Speaker 10 (52:41):
It wasn't gonna be oh girl, just a bring your black.

Speaker 17 (52:49):
Don't even stop at red light.

Speaker 1 (52:52):
Red all right?

Speaker 6 (52:54):
Come on, he cried, he broke.

Speaker 5 (52:58):
I did what I needed to do. I needed to breaking, okay,
and I broke it, all right? I did, I did,
and I do.

Speaker 6 (53:04):
I feel bad about it. I'm not gonna I'm not
gonna be I do.

Speaker 10 (53:07):
I do.

Speaker 5 (53:07):
I feel bad. But it would not have been a
great prank if I didn't cross the line and break
the man down.

Speaker 6 (53:14):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (53:15):
Now you love his wife so much more. You see
what I'm saying. He loves her so much more. That's
what you got out of the prank.

Speaker 6 (53:21):
What did you get out of it? You gotta laugh
out of it? Then you what did you get out
of it?

Speaker 5 (53:25):
You went too far?

Speaker 6 (53:27):
Yes, and it feels so good. You don't get your
drum out of that?

Speaker 5 (53:30):
Yeah, okay, what do you think all you'd have got
out of that one?

Speaker 10 (53:40):
Now?

Speaker 6 (53:40):
For real time, i'd had something for you prank, Yeah,
I'd do with Tommy. Yeah, yeah, I'd been looking for you.
Uh for all you people are fellas that are in Birmingham.

Speaker 5 (53:54):
Grab your wife and your girlfriend and come on out
and hang out with the nephew and Bill Bellamy. Okay,
this is week zero. How many damn? It is a
football classic. You don't want to miss it. That's Valdosta
State against Clark Atlanta, University of West Alabama against Fort Valley.

Speaker 6 (54:09):
It's going down. That's on Saturday.

Speaker 5 (54:10):
But on Friday, you got the comedy show, all right,
you got Bill Bellamy hosted by Nephew Tommy August to
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(54:31):
the phone number so I can prank your husband. You
know what, I'm gonna have a prank table when you
stop by, give me all your information and then we
get the pranking. You see what I'm saying, Your husband
and your boss whoever it is that you want to
time me to prank. You understand, because I'm in the
pranking bnsness.

Speaker 6 (54:44):
That's what I do.

Speaker 5 (54:45):
Okay. He don't like that intellectualness to go along with
the pranking.

Speaker 6 (54:50):
I understand.

Speaker 19 (54:51):
You gotta mix that. You gotta marriage. Listen to merge
right there right there. You don't like that, Dawn, No,
I like it.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
Never heard it's because it's not a word he makes.

Speaker 6 (55:05):
It's a Tommy word.

Speaker 5 (55:07):
People.

Speaker 6 (55:12):
Its us right back to the lack of intellect that
we were talking about in the beginning.

Speaker 5 (55:19):
Breaking down sounds.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
So disgusting right now, Steve.

Speaker 6 (55:23):
Man, I'm just man going somewhere.

Speaker 5 (55:30):
All right.

Speaker 7 (55:33):
Coming up next, it is today's Strubberry Letter. The subject
I'm in the middle of some mess like this show.
We'll get into it right after this.

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Speaker 7 (56:45):
All right, nephew, thank you subject. I'm in the middle
of some mess. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've always hated technology,
and here's why. The darn camera at the front of
our at the front door of our house caused a
huge misunderstanding. My husband's daughter had her first child and
the baby came early, so my husband rushed out to
Colorado to help her assemble the baby's crib and do

(57:08):
other little things to get the house ready for the baby.
I stayed behind because our fifteen year old was getting
ready to go back to school, and the process of
running around with my son for back to school shopping,
I fell at the mall and I sprained my ankle.
My husband told his friend and his friend's wife to
check on me. My friend met me at home on

(57:29):
the day it happened. So his friend met me at
home on the day it happened so he could help
me get into the house. He also brought my son
and I a couple of pizzas. My husband saw him
on the cameras and called to thank him. At least
that's what he told me he did, but when my
husband called me, he was going off on me. He
said I never should have let his friend come into

(57:50):
the house if he didn't have his wife with him.
Our son was in the house and I was wearing
a brace on my leg, so I'm not sure why
my husband was so upset. The next after his friend
dropped by to pick up to pick my son up
to take him to meet his girlfriend at the movies,
I got a call from my husband and again he
yelled at me, but he didn't say a word to

(58:12):
his friend. I don't understand why he doesn't trust his friend,
but he asked him to check on me after my injury.
What does it matter if the man's wife didn't come
with him. I don't want his friend the front door
camera has put me in the middle of some mess.
It was completely innocent. Why is my husband taking it
out on me, all out on me? Well, simply because

(58:35):
men don't like other men in the house alone with
their wives when they are not there.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
It's just that simple.

Speaker 7 (58:42):
Although your case is quite different because you were incapacitated
at the time, it didn't matter to your husband. Even
though he called the friend. It still didn't matter. And
let me say this is not that your husband doesn't
trust you. He probably doesn't trust his friend or any
other man up around his wife when he's away. That's
just how it is. Because if anything happens, he's all

(59:03):
the way in Colorado. He can't do anything about it.
We all know accidents can happen, of course in life,
and he shouldn't have yelled at you, But he was
just being a man. Yes, it was overprotective and jealous
behavior on his part, so thank god he knows now
that you and his friend didn't do anything with each other.
But the yelling at you, I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
He was wrong for that.

Speaker 7 (59:25):
He could have let you know that he didn't want
another man in the house while he was away, and
he could have asked you to please make sure that
his wife came with him.

Speaker 1 (59:33):
But again, you were incapacitated at the time.

Speaker 7 (59:36):
He was mad about it, your husband and thought she
should have known better, and what he said came out unfiltered.

Speaker 6 (59:42):
Steve, this letter is really kind of crazy because this
is all because of the husband. Everything in this letter
is because of the request that the husband made. Now,
Shell absolutely corrected. Men don't like other men in their

(01:00:02):
house when they're not there. You know, I ain't got
no friends can come visit my house and hang home,
sit around. I don't go on in here and talk
to Margie. No father?

Speaker 5 (01:00:11):
What what?

Speaker 10 (01:00:12):
What? What?

Speaker 6 (01:00:12):
What you're talking about? But that's but he invited this.
You got hurt, your sprange, your ankle, you got a
knee breast. Y'all's daughter had her first child, and the
baby came early, so my husband rushed out to Colorado
to help her assemble the baby's crib and do other
things to get the house.

Speaker 5 (01:00:33):
Ready for the baby.

Speaker 6 (01:00:35):
Where did dad as?

Speaker 5 (01:00:37):
Where the baby? Where the baby dad as? In this letter?

Speaker 6 (01:00:41):
I don't know, so I guess she's single. I guess
her and the guy fell out. I don't know that
ain't really what the letter's about. But I was curious
where the baby dad is while you got to fly
all the ready to Colorado to put together a baby
bad I don't understand that anyway. So he knew he
had to leave, and you stayed behind because y'all's fifteen

(01:01:04):
year old was getting ready to go back school. Now,
you didn't hurt yourself. Then your husband told his friend
and his friend's wife to check on me. His friend
met me at home on the day it happened, so
he can help me get into the house. He also
bought my son and I a couple of pizzas. My

(01:01:27):
husband saw him on the cameras and called to thank him.
At least that's what he told me. But when he
called you, he was going off on me. He said,
you should have never let his friend come in the
house if he didn't have his wife with him. Well,
I understand what he's saying, but didn't he Ain't you

(01:01:49):
the one that asked your friend to do this? You
the one, and the man's wife was okay with him
going over there without her because he was taking a
couple of pizzas over there for her and the sun,
and it was helping you get in the house. Now,

(01:02:11):
why he mad at you for this for not knowing
the man law rule, which don't really apply here, because
your man asked the man to do this. See that's different.
If I look on the camera and all of a sudden,
I see this dude just being Captain helpful. Well, hey,

(01:02:33):
hold up, partner, you over here, she can get in
the house. She heard a leg, She didn't lose a leg.
It's still on there, so you know, I would I
could have understood where he was coming from. But this
is a bit much of an overreaction, and I'll tell
you what it's from when we come back. But it's

(01:02:54):
a bit of an overreaction, and it's all because of
a phone call he made.

Speaker 7 (01:03:00):
All right, all right, Steve, we'll have part two of
your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
Today's Strawberry Letter subject I'm in the middle of some mess.
We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 7 (01:03:50):
All right, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject
is I'm in the middle of some mess.

Speaker 6 (01:03:57):
Yeah, you're in the middle of some mess that was
created by your husband. You all have a daughter that
lives in Colorado who had a baby that came early,
so your husband rushed out there to help her put
together the crib and all this stuff and get to
the house ready for when the baby come home.

Speaker 5 (01:04:16):
Okay, so he left you at the home.

Speaker 6 (01:04:18):
When y'all was fifteen year old who had to go
back to school, you went out shopping for some school
clothes and you fail and hurt yourself at the mall.
Your husband called his friend who stays like in the
neighborhood or somewhere like that, I don't know, and asked
him to go and check on y'all and look out
for you because you would hurt your leg. So, in

(01:04:41):
coming from the hospital, the friend anticipates you may need
help getting out the car, So who's over there to
meet you when you get out the car to help
you up the steps of However, your house is set up.
Any bought a pizza, some pizza for you and your
son to eat. Her husband sees this on the doorbell camera,

(01:05:02):
calls the man and thanks him, but then he calls
you and goes off because you let a man in
the house. Why he wasn't there. Your husband called this
man and asked him and his wife to check on you. Now,
he mad at you because you let the man in
the house. You don't understand the rule. Men don't like

(01:05:25):
men in the house when they're not there. But he
asked God to help out, so at least he was aware. Now,
if he was unaware of the man coming over to
the house, that's another thing.

Speaker 5 (01:05:41):
But he was aware.

Speaker 6 (01:05:44):
So now, but you in that tripping because you're trying
to figure out your son was in the house with y'all.
You wearing a brace on your legs. So I'm not
sure why your husband will sack the next day his
friend and drop by to pick up my son, y'allso
to take him to meet his girlfriend at the movies.

(01:06:07):
I got a call from my husband again. He yelled
at me, but didn't say a word to his friend.
I don't understand why he doesn't trust his friend, but
he asked him to check on me after my injury.
What doesn't matter if the man's wife didn't come with him.
I don't want his friend. The front door camera has
put me in the middle of semess, and it's completely innocent.
Why is my husband taking.

Speaker 5 (01:06:28):
It all out of it?

Speaker 6 (01:06:30):
Which leads me to my favorite quote that I've heard
from a minister this year, Bishop Brana from Atlanta. Be
careful of people who are the victims of circumstances they created.
Be careful of people who are victims of circumstances that

(01:06:50):
they created. Your husband created this whole thing. Now he
upset because you let a man in the house. He
told the man to go over there. And if you
told the man to go over there, you should have said, hey,
man go in there, but stay on the porch. But

(01:07:11):
you ain't say that. The wife.

Speaker 5 (01:07:14):
No, you told the man to come over here.

Speaker 6 (01:07:16):
Now, had you not said that, she may have said, oh, no,
we're good. So we okay, we don't need a Now, No,
you don't have to help me in the house. No,
I'm okay, I'm okay. But you set him over there.
The only thing I can tell you is there's a
form of insecurity going over here. Now there's a man

(01:07:38):
cold that we don't like men in our house. But
you invited the guy over there. You told him to
go over there.

Speaker 5 (01:07:44):
And look again on.

Speaker 6 (01:07:47):
The man's wife ain't having him no problem with him
going over there, but you do. I think it's backwards.
I think this is an easy one for you.

Speaker 5 (01:08:01):
To say.

Speaker 6 (01:08:01):
Hey, look, I'm so confused. You told him to come over.
You didn't tell you told me you told him to
come over. You didn't tell me not to let him
in the house, and you didn't tell me that he
had to have his wife with him. So now how
you mad at me? And you're not really in the

(01:08:22):
middle of no mess?

Speaker 5 (01:08:23):
Lady.

Speaker 6 (01:08:23):
If you do, like a woman does, turn it, turn
it over. Had it happened to me so many times?

Speaker 1 (01:08:39):
Turn it?

Speaker 6 (01:08:40):
Do what women do.

Speaker 10 (01:08:43):
Turn it.

Speaker 6 (01:08:47):
And stop using logic, use emotion. See the women you
have a trump card. Don't use logic you're talking logic,
use emotion.

Speaker 20 (01:09:06):
I hurt my leg and I'm falling this malling there.
You sending this man over here out help me, and
then he helped me, and now you know now that
was being worse now and look at you and you
ain't even here. So now you care about that baby motor,
You care about me? You the flip You're just stayed
over here and help me with my leg? And where

(01:09:27):
has the baby daddy at? Anyway, you should have been
putting that grib together.

Speaker 6 (01:09:30):
What's your flower there? Spend all that money you got
that crib to cosse. That's twelve hundred dollars.

Speaker 1 (01:09:37):
All right, how is your comments on today's struggle?

Speaker 6 (01:09:40):
I told you that boy wasn't that good when they
was dating each other. But you're gonna come my out.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
And check out the Strawberry Letter podcast.

Speaker 6 (01:09:49):
You have raised this fifteen year old like a man.
He would have helped me get in the house anyway.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
iHeart radio app a lot on a pizza.

Speaker 6 (01:09:57):
You raised his little bunk fifteen year old boy.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
You can download it today now.

Speaker 7 (01:10:01):
Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, We've
got Sports Talk Junior Sir Jersey.

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Right after this, you're listening to the Steve.

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Speaker 7 (01:10:47):
All right, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for sports
Talk with time Nephew Junior.

Speaker 5 (01:10:55):
Come on all right tomorrow night, Tomorrow night, Shirley. NFL
preseason continues. We got the ten to see Titans versus Atlanta.
We got the Kansas City Chiefs. They're going up against
Seattle Seahawks. And just in case you missed it, we
talked about it last hour. Longtime Dallas cowboy fan, the
one and only the Goat, mister Denzel Washington himself was
on first tape along with another legend, mister Spike Lee,

(01:11:17):
and he called out and criticized Cowboys on the Jerry Jones,
but his management of the team. Take a listen.

Speaker 13 (01:11:24):
I know they're making a lot of money, and I'm
happy for the owner, but the fans ain't happy.

Speaker 5 (01:11:30):
I've been a fan.

Speaker 16 (01:11:31):
I grew up in my running uptown.

Speaker 14 (01:11:33):
Money earning the Red Raiders. We were the Red Raiders
in the sixties. I was the running back and we
used to shift.

Speaker 15 (01:11:40):
Like the cowboy Landry so I said, ooh, the Cowboys
played like us. I've been a Cowboy fan since the sixties.
He's making it hard for me not to be a
fan because I'm still a Cowboy fan. I'm still gonna
have to start on the side of the hat. But
he ain't thinking about us. He's thinking about his pocket,
his box office, his oscars.

Speaker 16 (01:12:01):
Jerry's been a while. Ain't been to the show.

Speaker 5 (01:12:04):
You wouldn't know.

Speaker 16 (01:12:06):
Wouldn't been to the show. You wouldn't know. Uh oh,
haven't been to the show, so you wouldn't know.

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
What it is to win.

Speaker 5 (01:12:14):
I love it. Hey, you said earlier, you said that
that Jimmy Jimmy Johnson was the best coach. Was Tom
Landry a good coach for the Cowboys?

Speaker 6 (01:12:22):
Tom Landry was a great coach, right?

Speaker 10 (01:12:26):
You know?

Speaker 5 (01:12:26):
So that's one two Basically for the Cowboys, Jimmy and Dantel, they.

Speaker 6 (01:12:30):
Ain't had a good coach since. They haven't had a
good coach since since Jimmy Johnson. Yeah, no, they haven't. Okay, okay,
because once Jimmy Johnson got all that credit, Jerry Jones
didn't like it. He got rid of him and he
bought in all his boys. After that, he bought in
the boy from Oklahoma, and then he was a good coach,

(01:12:53):
but he couldn't get his weight with Jerry in the way.
And Jerry bought in everybody after that he could control.
And that's what, like I said, man, I have a
weird diconomy. I love the Cowboy players. I love the
city of Dallas. I just don't once they put them
their uniform on, I don't. I just don't like them

(01:13:15):
no more. I just don't. What you think what you
think gonna happen with parcels?

Speaker 11 (01:13:19):
Man?

Speaker 5 (01:13:20):
Well I think what what you think gonna happen to parcels?

Speaker 8 (01:13:24):
Parcels?

Speaker 6 (01:13:25):
Yeah, I don't know. That's crazy the way they treat
people over there in Dallas, man, You know, I don't know.
Only time Jerry Jones is a good owner is when
the players get in trouble. Then he there for them.
But negotiating. Yeah, all the players will tell you to negotiation. Yeah,
done that. He does it all wrong, man. This guy's

(01:13:47):
too good of a player to be treated this way.

Speaker 7 (01:13:49):
All right, guys, thank you. Coming up at the top
of the hour, a man on social media needs some advice.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
Steve.

Speaker 7 (01:13:55):
He says, everyone is happy but me we'll talk about
it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. All right, this is from MJ and Steve HARVFM.
MJ says, my wife and I have been married for
eleven years. We have a nine year old daughter together,
and my wife's teenage son from her first marriage lives

(01:14:17):
with us full time. Everyone in our house seems happy
and well adjusted except me. For the last few years,
I've felt increasingly dissatisfied.

Speaker 1 (01:14:27):
With my life.

Speaker 7 (01:14:28):
I've told my wife how I feel, and she's verbally supportive,
but she won't actually do anything to change things. I've
suggested trying new things together, moving to a new house,
anything to break up the monotony, but since she's happy,
she has no motivation. I love her and our kids,
but I'm starting to wonder if I should leave because

(01:14:50):
no one else wants change. Am I out of line
for feeling this way? Should I get therapy? Try a
trial separation?

Speaker 6 (01:14:58):
Well? Bro, what's wrong?

Speaker 19 (01:15:00):
You know?

Speaker 6 (01:15:00):
I mean, I appreciate you writing it, but what's wrong?
You seem like you're bored, You're not happy with where
you are in life, or you just don't like the house,
or you don't think you're getting anything in return. Look, man,
being a husband and a father is a hard job

(01:15:22):
because you're not gonna get it one hundred. If you're
expecting that, you're not. Marriage is not fifty to fifty.
Stop all that. It's not fifty to fifty. Never what's
set up to be that way. It's eighty five fifteen.
They get eighty five, you get to fifteen. You have
to learn how to take that fifteen, maximize it, adjust

(01:15:44):
and enjoy it. And that's not anything that's crazy to
say to a man, because are you not taking pride
or showing gratitude for what you've accomplished? Are you losing
sight of what you've accomplished as a man because you're
overly concerned of what you haven't accomplished. Now, if you've

(01:16:04):
made a life where everybody in your family's happy, brother,
you've done a hell of a job as a father
and a husband, you've done a hell of a job.
Your wife is trying to be supportive, but she don't
really know what's wrong, and based on your letter, I
don't either, So, brother, I think you should focus on
the things that you have gotten right. You have been

(01:16:25):
an excellent provider, an excellent protector. You've taken in this
boy that was from another marriage. You provided a father
figure for him. Y'all got a nine year old daughter.
Your wife is happy you want to move to a bigger,
different house. They don't want to move.

Speaker 5 (01:16:46):
Bruh.

Speaker 6 (01:16:47):
You probably need to go get some therapy because you
need to talk to somebody about your feelings, because I
don't know what you're feeling.

Speaker 5 (01:16:54):
So that's my suggestion to.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
He mentioned therapy. Should he go get therapy?

Speaker 6 (01:16:59):
Yeah, you probably should, man, since that's on your list
of things to do. I pray my way out of stuff.

Speaker 7 (01:17:06):
Okay, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.
This is from JJ and Steve HARVEFM. JJ said, it's
weird that I'm writing this on social media since social
media has become a problem. My girlfriend and I have
been together for a year and a half, but things
have changed over the last couple of months. She took
a new job, and I guess her coworkers are absurdly

(01:17:28):
active on social media.

Speaker 1 (01:17:30):
Since she started.

Speaker 7 (01:17:30):
Working there, her screen time is more than tripled and
we can't go anywhere without taking a few dozen selfies.
As if that wasn't enough, she has to double check
and approve all the photos and fix the lighting when
it's not perfect. We don't get to enjoy the places
we go because they've all become background noise to her

(01:17:51):
emerging brand. I need to talk with her about it,
but I'm not sure how to approach it because I
fear becoming content. I really don't want that kind of life.
How do I handle this?

Speaker 6 (01:18:02):
Yeah, I can't help you, though, I don't know. I
can't help you. There are a lot of people like that,
you know. I know some people. I got people in
my family like that.

Speaker 5 (01:18:17):
Oh yeah, you got to take pictures of food before
you eat. I don't get it.

Speaker 6 (01:18:22):
I don't know. I work with a lot of young people. Man,
they keep their phone in their hand. Everything is content.
Everything you can't go nowhere. Every time you put some
clothes on, every time you walk in, they got stories.
Ms Hobby, put that on your story? What story?

Speaker 7 (01:18:44):
We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. Well, if you're planning to book a flight
on Spirit Airlines, you might want to listen up. Spirit
says it's still struggling to turn a profit after coming
out of bankruptcy earlier this year. To stay afloat, Spirit

(01:19:05):
has been reshaping their root network, adding more premium seats
and even furloughing two hundred and seventy pilots. They're also
considering selling off some planes and airport gate slots. However,
even with all that, the company says there's a substantial
doubt it can keep going.

Speaker 1 (01:19:22):
So, Steve, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (01:19:24):
You gotta wow.

Speaker 6 (01:19:26):
Are y'all still on speed? Are you listening? Well?

Speaker 5 (01:19:30):
Think we're gonna be able to keep going.

Speaker 6 (01:19:32):
We're gonna sell some gates and we're gonna lay off
some piletsy. We all know what we're gonna do to
be able to keep going. You don't know, Dame Dan
mentioned nothing about mechanics and all this here. So if
I quit flying Spirit, I don't. You're not gonna keep
telling me there's no way we could keep and I'm
getting on your plane. Yeah no, man, I can't help spear.

(01:19:56):
I know I wouldn't be getting on it.

Speaker 5 (01:19:58):
Why we get on the plane that's got a fight
every other flight? You're a fight.

Speaker 1 (01:20:02):
They're always in the news. To Spirit is always in
the news.

Speaker 6 (01:20:06):
About to get up on here fight.

Speaker 1 (01:20:09):
I'm about to take another flight?

Speaker 6 (01:20:13):
How much I think it's too much? It's too much
going wrong for me to take the chance of flying
with them.

Speaker 1 (01:20:20):
What about buying them? Not flying them? What is it?
How much money you think there were? Are they going
to go for?

Speaker 6 (01:20:27):
Spirit?

Speaker 5 (01:20:28):
Yeah? Spirit about.

Speaker 7 (01:20:33):
Coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
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Speaker 7 (01:21:15):
It is time now for a round of would you
rather here we go? Would you rather wear a bib
every time you eat out? Or would you rather drink
from a sippy cuff?

Speaker 1 (01:21:25):
Baby?

Speaker 5 (01:21:27):
Ooh, they both babies? Give me that sippy cup. I
don't want that bill. That bib looks real childish.

Speaker 6 (01:21:34):
See, yeah, sitting hill with my big lips with some
ducks on the bill.

Speaker 8 (01:21:40):
That ain't gonna.

Speaker 5 (01:21:43):
We put that cup under the table, cup pick up?
It is all right?

Speaker 7 (01:21:50):
Would you rather have to work the most miserable job ever?
Or would you rather die a year early? What?

Speaker 8 (01:21:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:21:59):
Would you rather work the most miserable job there is
in life? Or would you rather just die one year
earlier than if you're supposed to?

Speaker 6 (01:22:08):
Oh, I'm gonna be dead anyway. Yeah, the job I'm
gonna kill us because I'm not. I'm gonna tell you
right now, I'm not gonna be empty and in port parties,
I'm not.

Speaker 5 (01:22:21):
Okay, all right.

Speaker 6 (01:22:23):
I had a partner that had that job. He emptied
porter parties. Uh huh, I don't even know how that works. Yeah,
he didn't either, one day, taking hot tea everywhere.

Speaker 5 (01:22:39):
On him.

Speaker 1 (01:22:40):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (01:22:44):
Would you rather only be able to have sex in
one position forever forever or give up sex for one year?

Speaker 5 (01:22:51):
Oh no, we're gonna take that one position. Oh yeah,
we're gonna take it. We're gonna take all right, but
that one year, I'll no, we're not doing that.

Speaker 7 (01:23:05):
What you know about here in one position forever, or
just give up sex for an entire year and then.

Speaker 6 (01:23:14):
Fast I find to give it up for a year. Yeah,
because when I come back, you got to show.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
The show, show, show your love.

Speaker 8 (01:23:27):
I will be.

Speaker 6 (01:23:29):
What y'all'll know about it?

Speaker 10 (01:23:35):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:23:35):
Would you rather give up bread or meat? Which one?

Speaker 6 (01:23:40):
Bread?

Speaker 5 (01:23:41):
Bread? All right?

Speaker 6 (01:23:44):
Give up meat?

Speaker 10 (01:23:45):
What? What?

Speaker 17 (01:23:46):
What?

Speaker 10 (01:23:46):
What?

Speaker 6 (01:23:46):
What you're gonna put on the bread? Tell us you
got the bread from?

Speaker 4 (01:23:52):
What?

Speaker 8 (01:23:56):
All right?

Speaker 7 (01:23:58):
Would you rather give up all techtive devices like phones,
like laptops? Or would you rather give up the arts, music, books, movies,
tech devices or arts?

Speaker 1 (01:24:08):
Which one? And hurry, Harry, Harry.

Speaker 5 (01:24:11):
I'm giving up arts. I can't believe I said that.
I cannot.

Speaker 6 (01:24:16):
You ain't got no more life, Steve, Hurry. I don't
care bout no arts.

Speaker 1 (01:24:23):
I ain't going Okay, okay, coming up, that's today's round.
Would you rather coming up?

Speaker 7 (01:24:30):
At forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll close out
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Speaker 1 (01:24:34):
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Speaker 7 (01:25:14):
All right, guys, here we are our last break of
the day on this Thursday. And it's been a good day.

Speaker 5 (01:25:19):
Steve.

Speaker 6 (01:25:21):
I got some close remarks, my close remarks today. I
don't know how long they're gonna last because I just
had this thought that came into my head. So I
don't know how well I'm gonna be able to expound
on it because I don't really write these down. I
just really go straight from the cuff because I find
it better when I speak from my heart. And here's

(01:25:44):
the thought that came to me. If you really really
want to get to where you're going, you need to
take God with you. If you really really want to
get to where you going, you ought to take God
with you. I don't know how to fix that into

(01:26:06):
a catchy phrase or anything. It's just a thought that
popped into my head because I can tell you for
a fact, as I look back on my life and
all the things I had accomplished, everything I've ever gotten through,
over gotten, passed, or somehow survived, if it had not

(01:26:31):
been for God, I don't know how I would have
made it.

Speaker 5 (01:26:36):
I just really don't.

Speaker 6 (01:26:39):
If you're trying to accomplish your dreams and everything on
your own, buckle up, homie. Gonna be a rough ride.
But see, here's the deal. It's hard trying to get
to where you're going. It's hard amplishing your goals, it's

(01:27:02):
hard to live your dreams.

Speaker 5 (01:27:05):
It's hard.

Speaker 6 (01:27:07):
But if you got God on your side, it's doable.
You can manage it. Because He didn't tell you that
it wouldn't be hard. He just said he'd always be
with you. But you have a choice. As a human being.
He promised he'd be with you, but he can only

(01:27:29):
be with you if you invite him. God is very polite.
He don't push yourself on you if you don't want him.
That's the choice you make. Good luck, man, I wish
you well. See, I don't have to say I know

(01:27:50):
people who've tried to make it without it. I did it.
There was a period in my life where I was
trying to do it and I wasn't consulting it on
god bout nothing. I was just doing it my way.
And boy, let me tell you something. Who who woo woooo.

(01:28:13):
At least had I asked him for strength, I could
have dealt with it better. At Least have I asked
him to order my steps, I probably would have made
different decisions. But since he gives us the power choice,
I was just making decisions I wanted to make at
that particular time, without no consultation at all. Oh my goodness,

(01:28:35):
Oh my goodness. And then you know, you get to
a point in your life and everybody always ask everybody
this same question. If you could do anything over in
your life, what would you do? Well? When I look
back on it, man, I made a million mistakes. But
those mistakes they helped reshape me. They didn't define me.

(01:28:59):
They re shaped me. Every mistake I've ever made has
made me a better person, every single one of them.
Now I'm gonna tell you something about sining that I learned.
Sining costs you more than you want to pay, and
it makes you stay longer than you want to stay.

(01:29:19):
That's a fact. And man on, man o, man o,
man o, man have I had to stay in some
stuff way longer than I wanted to?

Speaker 5 (01:29:32):
I just I just did. Man, But that's everybody. Ain't
just me, it's you.

Speaker 6 (01:29:40):
But because God gives us the power choice, He allows
us to decide what we're gonna do. We're the only
creature he created that gets to decide. You get to
decide what you want to be for the rest of
your life. Bird don't have no choice. Bird go id
gotta be a bird, Dog gotta be a dog, Bear
gotta be a bear. The lion has to be a lion.

(01:30:02):
The hyena has to be a hyaena. We get to
pick lawyer, doctor, radio host, comedian, factory worker, truck driver,
cab driver, restaurant owner. We get to decide well in
our decisions, which we have full power. Please make the

(01:30:24):
conscious decision to take God with you in everything you do,
in everything you do. Listen, man, it ain't as bad
as it sounds. You know why I used to fight
it so bad because I was afraid I was gonna
miss out on some of God was gonna not let
me do something I wanted to do. And that's about
the stupidest thing I ever made. That's the dumbest that

(01:30:45):
said time.

Speaker 5 (01:30:46):
I'm just yere.

Speaker 6 (01:30:46):
If I go to God right now, he ain't gonna
let me do this right here, man, you know, half
the stuff that he didn't let me do I shouldn't
have did anyway. Man, Man, I could have skipped the
foolishness I got myself into. I mean, straight out ignorance.
I could have skipped it all. So when people ask
you that question, do you have any request, any regrets?

(01:31:09):
Is anything you would have did different? Yeah, I'll tell
you what I'd have did different. I'd have confided in
God with everything. That's what I wish I had done different.
And then guess what. I probably would have got here
a lot faster. As a matter of fact, I know
because the detours I took well were so stupid. Listen

(01:31:30):
to me, if you're trying to get to where you're going,
do yourself a favor and take God with you, because
if you don't, you're gonna wish your hand. Those are
my closing remarks today. I hope you got something from it.
If not, we'll try again tomorrow. God whether y'all have
a good win today, y'all, Hey, listen, talk to God today.
He would absolutely love to hear from you. Don't matter

(01:31:51):
if it's been.

Speaker 5 (01:31:51):
A while for all.

Speaker 7 (01:31:54):
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