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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Y'all don't know y'all bat all at all?

Speaker 3 (00:10):
So given them back a million bush.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, listening to me, I don't joy Joy.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
You gotta do turn love you.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
Turn, you.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
Gotta turn. I got to turn the mouth.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out,
turn ald the money.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
Looking come come out?

Speaker 1 (01:59):
You think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. You
are listening to the voice one and only Steve Harvey
got a radio show. Come on, y'all. I said that
a little bit wrong this morning, but I'm tired. I
just came out to gim I'm a little out of
sorts right now, but it's okay. I'll pull it together.

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But let me tell you something, man, I got a
clear cut message for you today. I really do you know.
As I've gotten older, I've began to take some supplements.
And supplements are to help your body in things that

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it doesn't produce as much as it used to. Supplements
are designed to help you replenish what's been depleted in
your body as supplements. Now, now, people, I can tell

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you can speak a lot more aggressively and a lot
more knowledgeable on this subject. But just giving you just
a brief overview of my understanding of it. Now, if
you've been living your life for a while, supplements are
necessary for most of us now. Also, if you've been

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living your life for a while spiritually, you may need
some supplements because you've just been at it for a while.
You done got wolled down a little bit. You're tied.
Some people around you ain't changing. Some people around you draining.

(03:51):
It's just life just keeps on coming. Life don't ever
get no easier. It just you become more knowledgeable about
how to handle it. It does not get any either easier.
You continue to lose love ones, you continue to have
to confront the challenges. It's just that over course of
time you become experienced and you can handle them better.

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But life don't get no easier. But spiritually you get
a little bit worn down. Well, you need some spiritual
supplements too. And I'm just gonna flat out tell you,
the more God that you can replenish yourself with, the

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higher the dosage of God that you are willing to
put into your spiritual self, the possibilities then become limitless.
You actually have the ability to make a conscious decision
to supplement your body, and you have a conscious decision

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to supplement your spirit. You can do both. So what
I did was, I could just tell you what I did.
I was taking all these supplements. I started taking supplements
while I was about forty five. I think that's when
I began. I was thinking about it one day and
I just went, wow, Man. I started talking to some

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knowledgeable people. I found out I needed these things. But
then spiritually, man, I started supplementing myself too. I started
praying some more. I started trying to gain a little
bit more knowledge and wisdom and understanding from scriptures and
just try to make sense of all of it, you know,
just make a little bit more sense out of my life,

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make sure that I was on the right path. As
a matter of fact, get on the right path, find
out my real purpose and my mission in life. And
nobody can do that for you. That's something that you
have to want to do. But I started supplementing my
spiritual side of my life and supplementing my body. Now
I happen to be right now about in the best

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shape I've ever been in. Technically, I can assure you
though I am in the best shape spiritually, I have
ever been in. Now my body has looked better, it
really has. I mean, come on now, and where I
am in life, at the stage with the years I've
been walking this earth. Man, I'm cool, but spiritually I'm

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in the best shape I've ever been in. And what's
done for me, y'all is it's gave me a peace
and a calmness. You know it used to be, man,
I used to fight so hard against people who attack me. Now, Man,
it ain't that serious to me because now I have
a full understanding that if I come under attack, that
God is with me, because that's a promise he made.

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That's Isaiah fifty four seventeen. That's any weapon formed against you,
any weapon formed against you, you shall not prosper. You can't.
You can't come and get me. I'm not here for
you to take down because you didn't put me here.
So why would I feel a person bringing me down

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when they're not the reason that I'm here. So when
you attack me, you have to be careful because I
ain't ever by myself. I formed a relationship with the
most high that I can rely on for protection, for coverage,
and for peace. A lot of times when things used

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to stress me out how to run this, how to
handle this, how to deal with that. You know, fame
is rough man, and then you put that together with
some business, and you put that together with your family.
You got a lot of stuff you're trying to tend to.
I have a peace of mind about it now because
I have someone who provides me with a sense of

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understanding and calmness that lets me know that this too
shall pass. That it ain't just a saying that I
heard old people say that. It ain't just something my
mama used to tell me. It's something that can really
happen once you get in understanding, this too shall pass.
This is just another piece of life that you are
now better equipped to handle. I'm telling you what's done

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for me. Millions of people out there hear me, man
has done the same thing for them. I'm telling it
new to some people, but it's some people that show
enough understand what I'm saying. And then if you have
known this but kind of forgot it, it's time for
some supplements. So when you get like that, and now

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you find yourself in a situation with a disease or something,
you gotta do something. Nah, you gotta start juicing all
your greens. You gotta start detoxing your body. You gotta
start purifying the system. See, the human body has always
had a way to repair itself if you just give
it a chance. Your mind has always had a chance

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to repair itself if you give it a chance, and
your spirit always has a chance to repair itself, if
you give it a chance. It's the only way I
can maintain at this level, and it's the only way
I have any chance of going further. I have to
increase my dosage of spiritual supplements. I got to talk

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to God a little bit more. I got to pray
a little bit more. I got to understand his word
a little bit more. That's all I'm telling you. Man,
If you do that, if you just pray more, if
you just studied a little bit more, man, just try
to get and understanding, ask him to help you understand.
It will open up the possibilities of your life into

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a realm you never could have imagined. I'm telling you
that's real.

Speaker 5 (09:55):
Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, let me have your attention. Please,
it's here again. It has arrived more importantly you in it.
It's called today, It's called the present. I think they
call it the present because it's a gift from God.
It's a new opportunity we all been invited in. Man,

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you gotta take advantage of this. What a blessing it
is to be alive today. I didn't do it properly
this morning. I didn't stop and thank God this morning
like I was supposed to. Something happened really as soon
as I woke up, and I had to deal with it.
But right now I'm saying, thank you God. I show
appreciate this man. I appreciate this life. I appreciate the
measure of health that I have. Thank you for my family.

(10:46):
Thank you for your wings of protection. Thank you for
honoring me. Thank you for giving me grace and mercy.
Thank you for everything you do for me. I don't
have enough time on this show to tell y'all what
all he's done for me. We be over here all day.
It's Steve Harp, Marti Show, Shelley Strawberry, Calin Frail, Mississippi, Monica,
and the legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior still out.

(11:09):
So what's going on? Everybody?

Speaker 5 (11:12):
Hey, Steve.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, good. Yeah, I like hot out here lately. Huh.

Speaker 6 (11:23):
I like when you wake up like that grateful and
you forgot. It's okay if you forgot, you could do
it now.

Speaker 5 (11:30):
I like that.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Yeah, yeah I did. I did forget. Something happened, phone ring,
and I had to deal with some stuff and got
up and brush my teeth, was dealing with it, and
next thing you know, I'm on the ass saying, hey,
you gotta be grateful. Hey, you ain't. Yeah, you know.
I was sitting up been telling everybody about how good days,
and I went to her. I said, hey, man, you

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ain't get busy. Tell him in front of everybody. That's okay?
It hot lately?

Speaker 6 (11:57):
Who Lord, Thank you Lord for everything right food, it's
been hot.

Speaker 1 (12:03):
Yeah. Yes, And this has been the words of my
late great mother. Mm hmm. If you keep on, hell
gonna be hotter than this.

Speaker 5 (12:18):
So would you rather be hot or cold? Which one?
Too hot?

Speaker 1 (12:23):
Hot?

Speaker 7 (12:23):
Hot?

Speaker 8 (12:26):
No?

Speaker 1 (12:26):
I'd rather be hot. Yeah. That cold a whole different base.

Speaker 9 (12:31):
You know, we trop your bone. We tropical people pick
heat everything it.

Speaker 5 (12:37):
Gets all the way in your bone.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
Cold create a lot of other problems, you know, cold
you get frost bite, shivers, sick.

Speaker 10 (12:49):
Oh, sickness cold and yeah you got yeah a cold.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
Now you got your dig he could be ye.

Speaker 11 (13:07):
Man, Yeah, just turn on the fan in the air.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
You can't you can't freeze to them.

Speaker 5 (13:16):
Yeah, yeah you can.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
Just don't go outside. Yeah you can have a heat stroke,
but I'm probably gonna go in before that happen. Tight outside,
you go stand under, go inside something. We're gonna do something,
all right, guys.

Speaker 6 (13:37):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back
right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (13:52):
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Speaker 6 (14:22):
It is time now for the nephew to run that
brank back. What you got for his nest, We're running
it back.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
We're dealing with the ushers down at the church.

Speaker 7 (14:30):
Usher, down at the church, y'all remember the usher, the
old usher, All right, start from the back place.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
You know who I'm talking about, one.

Speaker 7 (14:37):
That look over their glasses through that little window and
won't let you in the dough until pass to get through.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
Yes, Usher, let's go church Usher.

Speaker 8 (14:46):
Hello.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Hello, I'm trying to reach your sister.

Speaker 12 (14:51):
How you doing.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
Good evening to you, ma'am.

Speaker 7 (14:54):
I don't mean to be giving you a call this
late in the evening, but I am the new youth
minister I have. But uh, my name is Sean Williams
over at Missionary Baptist Church which mine is.

Speaker 12 (15:04):
Going which youth Minnesota. What happened?

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Uh, he's no longer with the church anymore?

Speaker 3 (15:11):
Man?

Speaker 12 (15:11):
No, oh my, now, well.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
I'm not at liberty to speak upon that.

Speaker 7 (15:18):
But but what I was doing is getting around and
making sure I met everyone because I haven't met everyone yet,
and I wanted to reach out to.

Speaker 1 (15:28):
Everyone at the church.

Speaker 7 (15:29):
But listen, let me let me get down to some
more business, because I've I've spoken with the pastor.

Speaker 12 (15:35):
Uh we spoke bishop.

Speaker 7 (15:40):
Bishop, Okay, I spoke with him on yesterday, and we
have narrowed some things down of a few changes we're
going to be making at the church, and what we
want to do is one of the major subjects that
have come up, sister, is that we're wanting you, if
at all possible, and the deacons we're in on this

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meeting as well, but wanting you to change your attitude
when people are coming in and you're seating them. From
my understanding, it's gotten to the point where they think
you're wait wait.

Speaker 12 (16:10):
Wait, wait, wait, wait wait a minute wait, I had
a meeting on me.

Speaker 1 (16:14):
Well, it wasn't a meeting.

Speaker 12 (16:16):
Listen here, I've been ushering on that usher board for
forty seven years. I am the singor usher on that
uncher board, and I've been trying to be nuts about it.
But I don't understand how y'all don't have a meeting
without me. First of all, but now you won't call
here and tell me that you won't have you having
a meeting on me about me being nice, always nice.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
Well, ma'am, that doesn't seem.

Speaker 7 (16:42):
To be the problem with that son twenty seven.

Speaker 12 (16:46):
Manna some boy to call me, don't make no.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (16:53):
Well?

Speaker 7 (16:53):
What that's actually my call, ma'am, is that maybe we
figured if I would call and speak with you about
the matter, that maybe we can get to some type
of uh rectifying this situation the.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
Where we can.

Speaker 12 (17:05):
We're gonna rectify here. I'm gonna rectify you calling me
this time of night, tell my some meat. This don't
make no time. And I don't appressionate you calling me
any time of night, but away, Bishop, I need to
speak the bishop.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
Bishops.

Speaker 12 (17:22):
I've been at this church for forty seven years. I've
been saying, oh, my life, this don't make no type
of sense. You calling me here with this mess. Now,
this of gonna make me cuss. I'm trying to be
a question, but y'all not gonna lost me be a Christian.
She's just gonna just gonna agitate me with this mess
telling me about something.

Speaker 3 (17:39):
Be nice.

Speaker 7 (17:40):
Well man, that sir, that they're having problems when you're
seeding the people, and that's all that we're trying to
get rectified.

Speaker 12 (17:46):
People don't want to sit down they want to go
over here, they want to go over there, they want
to have the children run a to and throw It's
like a bunch of demons while he's just bucking around
in the truch like they ain't got no sense. And
I'm not gonna have it in my section. My section
is going be strife, and.

Speaker 1 (18:01):
I understand it.

Speaker 7 (18:02):
Let you know what, sister, I think if we did this,
if you would do me a favor and hold your phone,
and if you would just bow your head right now
for me, maybe we can come to to get to
get the man up.

Speaker 12 (18:14):
What am I my head? If if we can flows
as clean as hospital coffee, it don't make no trap
be about what I buy my head.

Speaker 7 (18:25):
If you could, maybe if you could close your eyes, sister, sister,
I want.

Speaker 12 (18:30):
I said, you called me and woke me up out
of my fleet with this mess. Come on, come meet.
I am very an it as this and I don't
appreciate it, and I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna
speak to this now.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
Father.

Speaker 7 (18:40):
We asked that you look down upon sust We asked
that you look down upon her right now, right now,
asking that you put a smile on her face. On
Sunday morning, asking that you put some joy in her
heart on Sunday morning, that you draw all the pain
that she in, the anguish that she might be going through,
what the demon there is inside.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
We asked that you draw that demon out. We asked
that you poured that demon away from sister. Right now.
Any of your name, We asked all of these.

Speaker 12 (19:11):
Blessings to come, because I don't appreciate this boy. I
don't even know who you is. All of my what
is you?

Speaker 4 (19:16):
Number?

Speaker 7 (19:17):
Pastor gave me the number one and asked me to
call I am like I said, I'm Sean Williams.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
We haven't met yet, and I am the.

Speaker 12 (19:23):
New You know he don't he don't act that way.
And if Bishop, for the third time, I have told
your boy, Bishop, be respectful of the folks.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
See that's what miss Let me let me let me
say this right.

Speaker 7 (19:35):
Here's sister, and maybe this will shed some light on things.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
A little bit.

Speaker 12 (19:40):
Clear up, I'm trying to listen to you.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
Boy.

Speaker 7 (19:43):
This is nephew Timmy from a Steve Harvey morning show.
You just got pranked by sister who is also an
usher at the church for Mission there a Bauptists.

Speaker 12 (19:57):
This is a messing, but we already yes, yees, this
don't make no sense lost him, but this is embarrassing.
Oh my god, this is this.

Speaker 7 (20:07):
Is by show, Yes, ma'am. That's that's that's that's my uncle.
This this is just a joke though.

Speaker 12 (20:11):
Manimming yes, oh lord, how you doing timing?

Speaker 1 (20:18):
Sister?

Speaker 12 (20:20):
I am so this is I am? I am in body?

Speaker 1 (20:25):
Do you listen to the show?

Speaker 12 (20:26):
Every I never would accept my lf be on that.
Oh lord, oh my god, got me on this radio?

Speaker 1 (20:36):
Sister?

Speaker 8 (20:37):
Did this here to you?

Speaker 12 (20:40):
Well? How about it? H y'all call me back and
we get sisters? How we do that? We do we
we would do a blank on her on her bill
and a couple of bills, you know, because you shove
a little. They gotta say all her business?

Speaker 7 (20:58):
What is the baddest show in the land.

Speaker 12 (21:02):
The Steve Harvey Morning Show? And look Thomas and Hall
the mother look cheerlem look dead. She is so cute.
I love uh lor This is so y'all. I'm so sorry.
Please forgive me, Gord, Jesus.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
You already know back in our same stupid, same time.
It don't nothing.

Speaker 5 (21:25):
Change, thank you, you silly up.

Speaker 6 (21:29):
It is as the CELO or Chief Love Officer Steve
Harvey in the building.

Speaker 5 (21:33):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (21:41):
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(22:04):
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Speaker 5 (22:12):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 6 (22:14):
In Entertainment news and training headline news, Texas Democrat Nicole
Collier is getting into good trouble. Tamar Braxton revealed she
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she dated Nellie. Okay, we'll talk about we'll talk well
the stories at the top of the hour, but right

(22:35):
now it is time, yeah to ask the CLO our
chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. All right, Colo, here we go.
Regina in Phoenix writes, I have hot flashes and mood swings,
and my husband thinks it's cool to make jokes about
me around his male friends. I'm twelve years older than
my husband, and the jokes often crossed the line. Why

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does he think it's so funny to talk about me?

Speaker 1 (23:01):
Well, you could make him stop some jokes about him.

Speaker 5 (23:07):
To in front of her girlfriends or his friends.

Speaker 1 (23:10):
In front of his friends, he's not gonna be able
to like what. Well, I might be hot, but it
ain't causing nothing you did.

Speaker 6 (23:20):
Oh you're going in for to kill clap Bagay?

Speaker 1 (23:24):
I like it.

Speaker 3 (23:25):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
You know what I'm saying. What you don't do is
back up off me.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (23:32):
His boys would be falling over.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
Right with that. Oh there'd be hollid.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
Yeah, I like it.

Speaker 5 (23:41):
Hut him back, all right, Regina.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (23:44):
Moving on to Alice in Wilmington, Alice writes, I'm almost
sixty years old and I'm still sexually active, but that's
all these old men think about. I would love to
go on a few dates before we jump in bed.
Would also love to get married again. Where do I
go to meet my future husband? Steve, you can't tell

(24:08):
you that. I can't tell you that a direct question.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
You're almost sixty, I'm still sexually active. That ain't no news.
There's a lot of people anybody, anybody gave up at
fifty eight and then all they and all these old
men won't is that they almost out of time.

Speaker 5 (24:34):
So get it in.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
They pushing. I don't know where you going to meet
date people, but I do know this. Uh, you still
have to have standards and.

Speaker 5 (24:50):
You know, requirements.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Yeah, you still have to have that regardless, you just
haven't met the right person. What circle of people are you?
What is your pool that you're selecting from? What does
that look like? Are you in the same place looking
for him? You know? And then maybe maybe hunting isn't
your thing? You know, maybe just maybe that's not it.

(25:13):
So listen a recommendation. Well, I can't find where do
I find you?

Speaker 5 (25:21):
Don't find you?

Speaker 1 (25:25):
Yeah, I've very rarely seen a woman go out time
man I.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
Go to meet Yeah, she just wants to go somewhere.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
I think what you need is to be set up
by one of your friends who has an older gentleman
who thinks you would be you would be best on
a set up date because you're not good at picking
block is ticking.

Speaker 6 (25:51):
Well, She says, she just wants to go on a
few dates before she jumps in bed with these guys.

Speaker 1 (25:56):
Yeah, well that's on you. You know that's on you. Yeah,
it isn't. I don't know why women don't think you
don't have control of.

Speaker 5 (26:08):
That, right exactly, That's what I wanted to do.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
Yeah, right, she's almost sixty weekly Golden Corral. We got
to get it in.

Speaker 6 (26:18):
I'm sorry, she just wants to go at least to
Golden Corral first.

Speaker 5 (26:25):
Before they do all of that. Yeah, all right.

Speaker 6 (26:30):
Moving on to Charlotte in Valdosta, Charlotte writes, I was
sitting in my car putting on makeup for a date
when I saw my preacher creeping with the young woman.
I've been trying to get my granddaughter into the church daycare,
but it's full.

Speaker 5 (26:46):
Is it wrong to.

Speaker 6 (26:47):
Use this as leverage to secure her spot?

Speaker 5 (26:52):
We're talking blackmail?

Speaker 1 (26:58):
Come on, clo, So let me ask you a question.
You think after spotting your past to creeping with and
your granddaughter can't get in there? Churches daycare, church, church daycare.

(27:18):
You think this would be a good way to use
as blackmail. I think you have a deeper issue.

Speaker 5 (27:25):
What's hers?

Speaker 1 (27:26):
Is this the type of shepherd you want to follow?
So now, how good is that daycare? How good is
that church under that leadership? If you done already busted him,
what you don't think is more behind the scenes than that.
That's the part you busted him off. Ain't not telling

(27:47):
what else is going on. So if I were you,
I wouldn't even be a consideration of mine. Don't worry
about your granddaughter getting into daycare? Why are you at
the church?

Speaker 5 (27:56):
Okay, all right at the top saying yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
I mean, I'm just so understand why you you just
skipped over all the other stuff just to get your
baby in the daycare. That don't make no sense. He
out here just running these tricks. Let me get this
baby in this daycare? You know, your trick running past her?

Speaker 5 (28:18):
Who is she gonna tell though?

Speaker 6 (28:20):
Yeah, who's she gonna tell him?

Speaker 5 (28:24):
And then he's gonna.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
Yeah, she's gonna go up to him and go, hay
past I saw you creeping. And I'm gonna keep this
to myself, but you need to put my grandbaby in
this daycare.

Speaker 5 (28:33):
Yeah, I know it's full, but playing.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
Wow, and then you know you need to let me
get the rest of this makeup on and tell me
what you think about me. How wha. There's a whole
lot of levels to this.

Speaker 5 (28:52):
You went there with it.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
Yeah, but you know, once again, we live in this
world where all these crazy things has happened that people
just normally. I saw my pastor creeping try to get
my grand baby in the daycare. Yeah, you think I
could use that to bribe him to get him a
baby in daycare?

Speaker 5 (29:09):
Wait?

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Wait, you skipped all of see.

Speaker 5 (29:12):
That she did?

Speaker 1 (29:15):
She did?

Speaker 6 (29:15):
Yeah, but she says that's wrong to use this as
leverage to secure.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
Is it wrong?

Speaker 3 (29:22):
What do you mean?

Speaker 1 (29:24):
Is it wrong? You even you considering it right? But
you're not looking at the rest of it. That's your
pastor you saw creeping.

Speaker 5 (29:34):
Okay, she knows what's wrong, So all.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
Right, No lady, I don't care.

Speaker 6 (29:39):
Last one, last one, Steve. This is from Jones and Syracuse.
Jones right to my wife's twenty four year old son
is about to catch these hands. He takes my tools
without asking, and he's always borrowing my wife's car. Yesterday,
I was working in the garage and I needed my fan.

Speaker 5 (29:57):
It's at his house. How do I get this to stop?

Speaker 1 (30:00):
I mean, it's real simple. You got to pull him
to the side and say, hey, listen, man, you can't
touch my stuff without asking me. Period. These ain't your
mama's tools, none of this hip. You got to anything
in this house. You got to come to me as
a man and ask me for it. Don't just walk
out of here with nothing else or else. All right,

(30:22):
that's a want. That's your warnings.

Speaker 5 (30:24):
Thank you, CLO.

Speaker 6 (30:25):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you right after this.

Speaker 5 (30:31):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (30:38):
According to AP News and the Black Information Network, President
Trump is pushing GOP state officials to tilt the map
for the twenty twenty six mith terms more in his
favor to preserve the GOP's House majority. Democratic House Representative
Nicole Collier was confined in the capitol overnight. We saw
it all over the news after she refused a police

(31:00):
escort that Republican leaders imposed on Democratic lawmakers who participated
in the two week walkout. Representative Collier said, in part quote,
I refuse to sign away my dignity as a duly
elected representative, just so Republicans can control my movement and
monitor me with police escorts. She went on to say,
when I press that button to vote, I know these

(31:23):
maps will harm my constituent. I won't just go along
quietly with their intimidation or their discrimination. We need to
shake things up and make some good trouble to have
good change.

Speaker 5 (31:35):
Okay. You know a lot of people were wondering why.

Speaker 6 (31:38):
She was in there, and that's why. That's how she felt.

Speaker 3 (31:41):
Now.

Speaker 6 (31:41):
According to the Texas Tribune, former Vice President Kamala Harris
called Representative Collier to express her support for her protest.

Speaker 5 (31:50):
So what do you guys think? What do you thinks
to you?

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Yeah, she's a hero quote. She's gonna get it done
by herself.

Speaker 3 (31:56):
Period.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
Sure, the problem we have if we have two parties.
The Republicans lawmakers have turned into a party of cowards,
and then the Democrat lawmakers they don't have a plan,
they don't know what to do. See the problem with
Democrats that they keep reacting to what the Republicans are doing.

(32:21):
They're not spearheading anything. You know, what if they want
to one more of them get on TV and say
we need to start talking about what people really want
to talk about, the cost of living, the price of food.
The Epstein files, man, they not finish. Show y'all nothing
in them Epstein files because he in it. So you

(32:42):
ain't gonna see nothing in that because he in Now
too many pictures with him with this dude and too
many so he can't have at it. You ain't finnah
see that. Y'all talking about the cost of food. But
y'all ain't doing nothing.

Speaker 9 (32:57):
At least out of Texas, she's doing something where the
rest of Democrats are staying with.

Speaker 1 (33:03):
Her, not all on want a card, there's no plan.
She's a hero to me.

Speaker 11 (33:09):
I stay with her because at least she's doing.

Speaker 6 (33:11):
Something something, and she's thinking about her constituents as well.
She is thinking about the people who put her in office.
She's representing those people as well.

Speaker 10 (33:22):
Always those of Parks, always those of Parks.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
Didn't get out of the seat on the bus that
sparked it. But guess what, everybody stopped riding the busy? Yes, sir, yes, sir, history, Yes, Okay.
Now that she's done this, what the hell is everybody
else gonna do?

Speaker 5 (33:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (33:46):
And that's my frustration with watching this. I appreciate Kama
has calling her, supporting her and all this. Hell, well
where everybody else?

Speaker 5 (33:53):
You know, where's the Democratic leadership? That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
Where and what y'all gonna do?

Speaker 3 (33:58):
Man?

Speaker 1 (33:58):
Stop complaining by the Republicans? What are you going to do?
They know what they're doing. Whatever Trump tells you, do
they about that.

Speaker 5 (34:09):
They have their leadership in place, Yes, what they do?

Speaker 1 (34:12):
Right? All right?

Speaker 5 (34:15):
Thanks guys.

Speaker 6 (34:16):
Switching gears and other entertainment news, Sixty seven year old
legendary actress Sharon Stone admitted on Watch What Happens with
Andy Cohen that she once dated Nelly, who happens to
be seventy seventeen years younger than her, but they only
went on one date, she says, just one date. Now,
we all know that Nelly is now married to Ashanti

(34:38):
and Sharon Stone is currently single. So here's the question, guys,
if you could go on one date with a celebrity,
all right, who would it be? Well back in the day,
of course, when you weren't married, So who would it be?

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Can you say I'll follow your kids back in the day?

Speaker 7 (34:56):
This is this is this is scared to say but
go ahead, Stey comes back back in the day.

Speaker 1 (35:02):
Well, why we're talking about it now? Long enough? Not
if you're still tripping on so and so back in
the day.

Speaker 6 (35:18):
All right, let's go with Bernadette's Bernadette standards back in
the day. Oh time, just one date?

Speaker 11 (35:28):
That was good enough, good enough for you.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
But that's how y'all gave me one day, So I'm
good with that.

Speaker 6 (35:34):
Well that's all Sharon Stone and Nelly had was one date?

Speaker 1 (35:38):
Did she throw that leg open like she did?

Speaker 9 (35:40):
And I don't think she looked like that no.

Speaker 13 (35:45):
More because Michael Douglas, he was all the way in.
You got to lose his job.

Speaker 6 (36:00):
All right, tell me you said Bernadette Stanis from Good Times,
Thelma from Good Times. Today, it would be we know,
it would be halle Berry today.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
Yeah, she's been upsetting me lately, but it's still heavy.

Speaker 5 (36:13):
Yeah, what upsetting you?

Speaker 1 (36:16):
We're just so shappy with this man. She just.

Speaker 9 (36:20):
Yeah, you don't want your crush happy. Don't understand she
should be happy?

Speaker 1 (36:27):
Right, I know I'm throwing shade.

Speaker 6 (36:29):
Yeah right, Steve, you still haven't answered. We've given you
enough time.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Oh no, no, no, no, nothing to answer that question. You
go back to the Pymbria days. Don't jump big.

Speaker 7 (36:41):
Dog coffee here, exactly what do you say, Marilyn McCoo.

Speaker 5 (36:54):
Dimention, Okay, she's beautiful.

Speaker 1 (36:58):
Dang Carollo, Beuty Folk Paine god Is left is aband?

Speaker 6 (37:10):
Guys, out of the dreams out Designer college dorm room trends.

Speaker 5 (37:18):
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (37:27):
in the most physical, fierce, and competitive basketball league in
take on Montes Harrold and Doctor J's Chicago Triplets. The
finale we'll see popular Miami three oh five would start.
MVP Michael Beasley and Land Stephenson take on Nancy Lieberman's

(37:50):
The action starts Sunday at three pm Eastern twelfth Pacific
only on CBS Designer Dorms.

Speaker 5 (38:00):
Designer Dorms, things have changed in college dorm life.

Speaker 8 (38:03):
Guys.

Speaker 6 (38:03):
Parents are spending a lot, a lot of money to
decorate their kids college dorm rooms now like they're on
an HGTV makeover show or something. In fact, it's become
such a trend now that a woman in Mississippi quit
her job as an elementary school teacher and now has
a business where she decorates dorm rooms and she charges

(38:24):
up to twenty thousand dollars to do it. Twenty thousand dollars,
so it could be a lucrative.

Speaker 5 (38:29):
It's a lucrative business for her.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
Right But to get down to Walmart, get you some
colored sheets in the throw room all day, and then
learn yourself.

Speaker 6 (38:39):
So that's kind of the leads into the question, Steve,
what were your dorm rooms like when you were in college?

Speaker 5 (38:49):
I had cold designer room.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
Yeah, I'm signed it oh Man. So first of all, yeah,
we had a super boy Rico. We had a super
double because we was in a quad, but we ran
our roommates out so it was just me and him.
So he had a bedroom. I had a bedroom with
bunk beds in it. He had a bedroom with bunk

(39:12):
beds in it, and we each had a door, and
then we had a little common area and then we
shared a bathroom with the sweet next door. It had
two sinks in it, one toilet in it, and one shower.
So what I did was each each each person had
a desk. I took the desk and stacked the desk

(39:33):
on top of each other to make an entertainment center.
I put money. Where was you studying at? Study?

Speaker 11 (39:45):
Desk was for for homework?

Speaker 1 (39:48):
Deep Oh no, no, no, no, no, you did that
right there. Then I had me a bean bag chair,
and then I went to the student center one night
they had a luminum framed cow. I put that on
my head and walked that to my room.

Speaker 11 (40:05):
From the student center at the university to put.

Speaker 1 (40:08):
I used the couch that I set on at the
student center to sit on it in my room.

Speaker 11 (40:13):
Did you have permission to take that?

Speaker 7 (40:17):
No?

Speaker 1 (40:18):
But the other other students was allowed to come in
my room and sit on it. Hit a cold part,
I took some oxyd dog bleaching soap powder, mixed a
little water in it, made a past because it had
the blue bleaching crystals. And I took a spoon and
threw it all over the ceiling, splashed it. And then

(40:39):
I took a fish net and pinned it on that
and inside the fish net I put Ohio player and
other album covers. And then at night I had a
lava lamp and a blue light. When I cut the
blue light on the oxy dog bleaching crystals sparkl like
stars in the sky.

Speaker 5 (40:58):
You go ahead and decorate, or.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
You couldn't tell me that. Everybody trying to figure out
how I put it. I wouldn't tell nobody that was
oxygo Nobody.

Speaker 11 (41:11):
College Days. Happy college Day.

Speaker 6 (41:13):
Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll
talk marital advice.

Speaker 5 (41:18):
Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (41:27):
We have to say happy anniversary to our very own
Carlo Farrell Tash. Yeah, the Pharaohs, the pharaoh Universary. Happy anniversary, Corloge.
So how many years now have you guys been married?

Speaker 3 (41:39):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (41:40):
Twenty one twenty one?

Speaker 5 (41:43):
All right, congratulation is we're.

Speaker 1 (41:46):
Going to have a parade for Toash. I don't have
special for Tash. Yeah for Tash because I don't know
how he did it twenty one years with you. We
need to see him. Make me ill, So Cigar carn

(42:07):
y'all good on podcast. My soul looks back at wonder,
make me sick. Thank you all right?

Speaker 11 (42:20):
So well.

Speaker 6 (42:22):
En route to their wedding, in Phoenix. Another couple not
Tash in Carla on this one. This is another couple.

Speaker 3 (42:28):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (42:29):
They received a touching surprise when Alaska Airline staff invited
passengers to share a marriage advice on napkins and notes.
Here's some of the heartfelt tips the couple received. Communicate,
never go to bed angry, cherish the little things. Always
acknowledge small gestures, maintain intimacy, give genuine compliments. Genuine compliments. So,

(42:53):
Steve Tommy, any advice you want to add to this?
You guys have been married long as well.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
If we start aging a little third of her to hell,
we ain't going to bed man And that's crazy, just
as mad as she was when she went to sleep.
That's what I never understood, because I'll go to bed
and wake up. I don't forgot, No, we won't. Baby,

(43:20):
What you mean?

Speaker 3 (43:20):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (43:20):
Baby? I still you say last night?

Speaker 6 (43:25):
Don't let the sun set on your anger? What about
the acknowledging the small gestures? Sometimes you just be tired.

Speaker 5 (43:33):
You don't want to.

Speaker 11 (43:37):
Must have been giving tips to mad people out there.

Speaker 1 (43:41):
I'm just telling you it was vir genuine. Ain't nobody
finna do all that? Because if you've been married long enough,
ask caller, has she ever went to bed mad? Oh? Yeah,
yeah the other day. Yes, yeah, you know, I mean
all that's great advice, but you're gonna do all of that.

Speaker 6 (44:04):
Yeah, tell me you asked about the genuine statement. It
was give genuine compliments, genuine compliment. You still can compliment
your wives, right, No?

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Sometimes sometimes no, sometimes that compliment can't be genuine exactly
you're supposed to do. You just have to give the
company you like what I got on Oh baby, that's nice.
Genuine lies, that's what you do. That's what you're lying
and lies genuine.

Speaker 5 (44:38):
No, what about communicating, You got to do that in
a marriage.

Speaker 4 (44:44):
You have to go.

Speaker 1 (44:46):
You got all you have to communicate, but a large
percentage that it's gonna have to be lies.

Speaker 14 (44:53):
See lying.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
Just if you want to stay married, you tell the
truth all the time, you're not gonna stay married. So
put that down, lion helps the relationship.

Speaker 5 (45:07):
I'm not putting that down.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Selective line. You must know when it's time.

Speaker 5 (45:13):
But that's for you, that's not for your wife.

Speaker 1 (45:16):
That's right. Everybody that wants to stay married, you have
got to learn how to selective lie. And I'm not
playing with your especially with your spouse, your best friend,
and sometimes you can't your best friend everything. And that's

(45:37):
why we're best friend till death do us part.

Speaker 3 (45:41):
There.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
I don't know who wrote that. I don't know who
wrote that. Problem and a problem. I can do that too,
however long you need this line to last to do you?
I got a problem with that. I can tell you.
If you want to stay married, you're gonna have to
have select the lying in the think game. You can't
tell the truth about everything.

Speaker 5 (46:04):
I'm sorry, Kyle, Happy anniversary.

Speaker 11 (46:07):
You're going to ask him right now you've been lying
to me.

Speaker 6 (46:12):
Coming up, nephew with a frank phone call right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.
It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is

(46:32):
patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We'll get
into it, find out what it's all about in just
a few because right now the nephew is here with
today's frank phone call.

Speaker 5 (46:43):
What you got for his nept for y'all?

Speaker 4 (46:45):
Tell me?

Speaker 1 (46:45):
You know, I mean, how stupid y'all wanted to be
this moment how stupid do you want? Just let me know.

Speaker 5 (46:50):
You know what I mean, there's the levels to your stupid.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
There's levels of you know, from one to ten. I'll
be trying to figure out. You know sometime I can't
get a right. So on this.

Speaker 5 (47:02):
You answer that, Steve, I want on this Thursday.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
I mean, I'm gonna give you what you won't. Just
tell me what it level? You want? How much? How many?

Speaker 5 (47:10):
He says one to ten you can go from.

Speaker 7 (47:13):
I can go from one to twenty. Really, I can
actually pass him. But I'm talking about that stupid.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Yes, yes, yes, oh oh he's unmatched.

Speaker 5 (47:22):
Yeah, I think it's off.

Speaker 1 (47:24):
He's he's unmatched. I don't know. I don't even know
why we're trying to put hes gonna go past whatever
number you got.

Speaker 5 (47:30):
Exactly, it's off the charts all the time.

Speaker 11 (47:35):
You're gonna break the rich.

Speaker 5 (47:36):
You blow our minds without stupid, you can.

Speaker 7 (47:39):
Be Let me see if I can blow your mind
this morning. This one right here is can your wife
help me with my thesis?

Speaker 1 (47:48):
See?

Speaker 7 (47:48):
Then your wife help me with my thesis. That's what
I'm talking about, cat dog, We're all on our way, too, stupid.

Speaker 1 (47:57):
Let's go.

Speaker 8 (47:59):
Hello, I'm trying to reach h yeah, who, well, who
is it?

Speaker 4 (48:04):
Hey, mone ain't ellis man? Is this is this Dallas
is a husband?

Speaker 8 (48:08):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah this me.

Speaker 4 (48:10):
Hey listen, my mother is mystery man. She goes to
church with with with your wife's moms, uh, with mother
and uh I'm actually in med school, man, And they
told me your your wife, she's a she's a nurse.
Is that right?

Speaker 8 (48:26):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's a nurse. But you say,
you say your mama go to.

Speaker 4 (48:31):
Church with my wife's mama, right right, my mother, she
goes to church with with with with mother.

Speaker 8 (48:38):
Okay, then I, uh what I was telling you off
for damn.

Speaker 4 (48:41):
Man, If you didn't mind, I wanted to I'm going
I'm getting ready to do my thesis. Man, I'm doing
my thesis for the end of the year, uh, end
of the semester, man for med school. And they told
me your wife, you know that might be able to
help me out. So I was hoping I could talk
to her for a second.

Speaker 8 (48:56):
If you're on mind, yeah, hold on real quick, hold on, Okay,
you want to talk to you mama, So you want
to talk to you?

Speaker 4 (49:07):
Hello?

Speaker 8 (49:08):
Hello, hey, yes, hey, how you doing?

Speaker 4 (49:11):
My name is Ellis my mother? Did you go to
church with your with your mother and they gave me
your number that you might be able to help me
out with some stuff. I'm in man's school right now,
I'm starting to be a gynocologist and uh that you
might be able to help me out with some things.
I wanted to reach out to you if it was cool.

Speaker 8 (49:27):
Okay, what's your name?

Speaker 4 (49:28):
Against Ellis?

Speaker 8 (49:30):
And your mom goes to church.

Speaker 4 (49:31):
With my mom's right?

Speaker 8 (49:32):
Okay, right, okay?

Speaker 4 (49:34):
What what?

Speaker 12 (49:35):
What?

Speaker 4 (49:35):
What I'm doing is, I'm doing my thesis and you know,
this is the this is my big end of the
year exam. And what I'm doing is I'm making my
thesis a video and opposed to a report, so everything
is gonna be on video. So what I'm trying to
do is actually get a time where I can hook
up with you and maybe examine you and get all
that on video.

Speaker 1 (49:55):
So you want to video tape.

Speaker 4 (49:59):
I will be giving you, uh you know, and I
put you, you know, your legs in the stirrups and
all that and just video me doing the actual examination
on you.

Speaker 8 (50:06):
You want a video name?

Speaker 12 (50:08):
You want to video ta him giving me all?

Speaker 8 (50:13):
Hey, like what you're talking about you want to do
what again?

Speaker 4 (50:16):
Do well? See, I'm working on my thesis, man, and
what I'm doing my thesis is gonna be a video.
So I'm actually video myself giving your wife.

Speaker 8 (50:24):
What can come away? You want a video? Came my
wife in.

Speaker 4 (50:28):
You. Hey, hey, hey, brother, this right here from my grade. Man.
You know this ain't nothing on a personal tip, man,
this is for the grade. You know, your wife being
in the medical field.

Speaker 8 (50:36):
I told my wife you talking about you? Okay, you
want a video came of my wife that we got
to look at it. Man, you want you can't say no.

Speaker 4 (50:47):
Man, listen, this from my grade and this ain't but
I mean only the professor is going to walk phone.

Speaker 8 (50:51):
I'm concerned. You better go find somebody else. My wife
this again, man, My name is Ellis.

Speaker 4 (50:58):
Man. I told you know my mama.

Speaker 8 (50:59):
Missed she go to church with Come on, I'm man. No,
we don't know who you was.

Speaker 1 (51:06):
Man.

Speaker 8 (51:06):
We ain't never seen your mama. Man, what you're trying
to do you ain't gonna do no, my wife.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
Man, All y'all, hey, okay with y'all, let me ask
you something. Don't you go in there and get anyway
at least once or twice a year.

Speaker 8 (51:18):
Yeah, yeah, nobody no hedo cage son video take my
wife like that? But man, this it brother, we gonna
find somebody else. Man that man, there's all that. Man,
I don't know you an'll know your mama dollar y'all.

Speaker 4 (51:31):
Man, okay, okay, can you put me on speaker PHONPS,
I can talk to both y'all.

Speaker 8 (51:35):
No, he now you ain't gonna talk back to my wife. Okay?

Speaker 4 (51:39):
Can I say one more thing?

Speaker 8 (51:40):
Come about video taking my wife?

Speaker 4 (51:42):
Now?

Speaker 8 (51:43):
D yeah, you ain't talking to my wife.

Speaker 4 (51:44):
Come up. I just want to say this. Man, this
is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
just got breaked by your homeboy Doug.

Speaker 8 (51:56):
Baby tell my talking about video taking my wife?

Speaker 4 (52:04):
Yet you got a boy named Doug.

Speaker 8 (52:07):
Don't you hold?

Speaker 4 (52:08):
Wait?

Speaker 8 (52:08):
Man, what you say?

Speaker 12 (52:09):
Who did that?

Speaker 1 (52:09):
Doug?

Speaker 8 (52:14):
Doug and Tony? I won't kick it man, that's man.
Don't con a by this og man. You had me
hot dude? Oh man, y'all all right, man, my heart
was being fair.

Speaker 4 (52:26):
Man, Hey, man, hey, put what on the mo? Y'all
at heils man?

Speaker 8 (52:31):
Okay, hold all right, I seek hold on uh go ahead, man.

Speaker 4 (52:36):
Okay, Now what I got one thing. I gotta ask y'all,
what is the baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 8 (52:47):
Man say?

Speaker 3 (52:48):
Man?

Speaker 8 (52:48):
Next time my wife goes back up in there, man,
get up, I'm going up in there. Man up in there.

Speaker 7 (53:00):
And there you have it, fairly, and Carl, I expect
some praise from y'all this morning.

Speaker 1 (53:05):
That's what I expect. Now.

Speaker 11 (53:07):
I expect some praise dranking people's husbands, but it does.
Why do you think that is cool? Why do you
think it's cool to do that?

Speaker 1 (53:17):
I think that's what pranking business is about. I'm sorry.

Speaker 7 (53:23):
It's drinking husbands, is dranking wives, it's dranking ministers, it's
dranking kids.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
I don't care.

Speaker 7 (53:30):
Ain't nobody, No, I don't draw the line. I don't
Why are we drawing it? Whoever thought about? Who did that?

Speaker 1 (53:40):
Anyway? Who got damn drew the line? What is that about?
I never understood that anyway?

Speaker 7 (53:47):
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Speaker 6 (56:49):
All right, nephew, thank you. Subject to patiently waiting for
my man to settle down. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm seeking advice,
but I know what you are going to tell me.
I have a man in my life that I've been
with for three years. I say that I've been with
him because he has not been with me, well, not
the whole time. I have seen him out with other

(57:09):
women a few times while we were supposed to be dating.
I also made sure he saw me, and then I
go home and wait for him to call or come
by and lie to me about what I saw it
bothered me.

Speaker 5 (57:22):
At first, but I'm used to it now.

Speaker 6 (57:24):
At first, I messed up and told my friends and
family how his actions hurt me.

Speaker 5 (57:30):
Big mistake.

Speaker 6 (57:31):
I'm a lot wiser now and I act like things
are going great in my relationship, so they don't judge me.
They can't stand my man because of me. My sister
in law works with a woman that he was seeing
around Christmas time. The lady bought him a TV for Christmas,
and he gave it to me for my bedroom. I
wanted to thank the lady for her contribution. I like

(57:52):
to take lemons and make lemonade. I have told my
friends and family that nothing they tell me will ever
make me hate my man. I don't condone his cheating,
but the way he makes it up to me makes
all of the agony worthwhile. I am sure this is
where you start judging me, but when I weigh the
pros and cons, I am winning. I have access to

(58:15):
one of his accounts and he spends all of his
money on me. My sister in law even confirmed that
he doesn't spend any money on the lady that boughts
us the TV. I don't want to start over with
a new man, only to find out that he cheats too.
Eventually my boyfriend will get tired of running around and
I'll be here waiting. Is it a full proof plan

(58:36):
or am I wasting my time?

Speaker 3 (58:39):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (58:41):
Full proof plan? No wasting your time yet. But I
got to ask you, why are you writing Steve? And
I You know you're not going to listen to anything
we tell you. Your folks have already tried that. Your
friends have tried that to tell you about him. You
didn't listen to them because you don't want our advice.
You just want us to tell you you're right and
that yes, he will eventually settle down with you and

(59:04):
only you one day. That seems to be how you've
worked it out in your head anyway. And this man
is trash because he has no respect for you or
your relationship.

Speaker 3 (59:14):
This is sad.

Speaker 6 (59:15):
And I know deep down you really don't want a
man who cheats, but you've convinced yourself that this is
the best you can do. In other words, it's better
to have a man that cheats than no man at all.
You cannot really believe that. I mean, so what, he
gave you a TV and has given you access to
his bank account. He still cheats on you, and he's

(59:37):
been doing it for years? How is this okay in
your mind? Because of the money. You said, this is agony,
and I know this has to be agony for you.
He's never going to stop cheating on you because he
knows you're never going to leave him. He has no
incentive to stop because he knows you'll always take him back.

(59:58):
And this has been going on for three years now. Well,
you say you're winning, You're not winning. You are losing
to a loser.

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
Steve Lady surely said something really smart. Shirley said, I
don't know why you wrote us, because you're not gonna
listen to anything we say, because you just told us
that your family can't tell you nothing about him that

(01:00:27):
would make you leave him. So I don't know what
you think we're gonna do, but I'm gonna tell you
something from the male perspective. I'm gonna give you this
letter from the male perspective. Let me see how you
feel after you hear this. You say I'm seeking advice,
but I know what you're going to tell me. That
means that you already know what's best, but you've somehow

(01:00:49):
ignored it. I have a man in my life that
I've been with for three years. I say that i've
been with him because he's not been with me. Okay, cool,
Then you don't have a man. You don't have a
man if you're going to allow me to do what
I want to do whenever I want to do it,
and I can get away with it, there are no consequences.

(01:01:11):
You're not my woman. You this peace I'm dealing with
that I can run over. You're a doormat to me,
and I'm come in here and wipe my feet off
on you and scoot up under the table whenever I
want to. I've seen him out with other women a
few times while we were supposed to be dating. You've
seen him out with women plural a few times while

(01:01:34):
y'all was dating. You saw it for yourself. Didn't nobody
come and tell you? So, you saw it for yourself.
Always made sure he saw me, And then I go
home and wait for him to call and come by
and lie to me about what I saw. Well, that's brilliant,
Oh man, What a great way to spend an evening.

(01:01:56):
What a great way to be in a relationship with
a per if I'm out as a man with another woman,
and we're supposed to be dating, and you make sure
I see you, and then you go home and wait
to see what I'm gonna say. I ain't got to
say nothing, Yeah you saw me?

Speaker 2 (01:02:17):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:02:17):
So at first I messed up and told my friends
and family how his actions hurt me. Big mistake. I'm
a lot wiser now and I act like things are
going great in my relationship so they can't judge me.
Did you what you're just saying? You did a total contradiction.
You used to tell your friends how he hurt you.
That was a big mistake because now they judge you.

(01:02:39):
So now you act like things are going great in
your relationship, just so they won't judge you, and you
won't have to hear how big a fool you are.
They can't stand my man because of me. You ought
not be able to stand you, the one. I don't
know how you can't stand in me the right.

Speaker 5 (01:03:01):
Hang on, Steve, hang on.

Speaker 6 (01:03:02):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject
patiently waiting for my man to settle down. We'll get
back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
Morning Show.

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All right, Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is patiently waiting for my man to settle down.

Speaker 1 (01:04:00):
A woman who has a plan that is so far
gone it's never going to happen, especially waiting on my
man to settle down. You've been with a man for
three years. You've caught him out cheating on you several
times with other women. You've seen it for yourself. You
made sure he saw you, and then your plan was
to go back home and wait home to call or
come over and lie to you about what you saw.

(01:04:21):
You said it bothered me at first, but I'm used
to it now. Wow, So how have you conditioned yourself
to be subpar. So what you've done is you've gotten
used to the fact and condition yourself that I'm not
number one, I'm not worthy of being respected and treated right,

(01:04:42):
and I'm okay with that. Lady, you need to feel
better about yourself because it's obvious you don't feel that
way about yourself, and so he ain't. He ain't gonna
treat you that way. Then you said, first, you messed up.
You told your friends and friends and family how his
actions hurt you. Big mistake. I'm a lot wiser now
and I act like things are going greater in my relationship.

(01:05:03):
That's not wiser. That doesn't make you wiser. You're more
conditioned to accept bad behavior. You're more conditioned to allow
this man to treat you any kind of way he
wants you. You allow him to use you as a doormats.
So they can't stand my man because of me. No, lady,

(01:05:26):
they can't stand your man because of how he treats you,
and you told them that, so they hate him for
you because you're too stupid to hate him yourself. Because
you have degraded yourself down to some second, third class
citizen that's not worthy to be treated like a woman

(01:05:50):
and a lady. My sister in law works with a
woman that he was seeing around Christmas time. The lady
brought them a TV Christmas and he gave it to
me from my bedroom. I wanted to thank the lady
for her contribution. Okay, so what else is wrong with you?
This woman gave your man a TV for Christmas? He

(01:06:11):
thought enough of you. Well wow, now I ain't got
to buy her nothing. I'm a Greek. Gift her a
TV that my other chick gave me, So that was
your Christmas gift. I wanted to call her and thank
the lady for her contribution. Wow, where are you and

(01:06:33):
all of this? Man? Where is the real you? Because
you just I mean, this is not even funny to me.
This is really sad. If you were my daughter, if
you were my daughter, girl, we're not doing this right here,
because I'm telling you right now, you don't have I
like to take lemons and make lemonade. But your lemonade

(01:06:55):
ain't good though. No, you don't even know how to
take lemonade. Your lemons is rotten. See you taking rotten
lemons and you making lemonade with rotten lemons that's what
you're doing. I've told my friends and family that nothing
they can tell me would ever make me hate my man.
So well, I don't know what you want me and
surely to do. Like she said, I don't condone his cheating,

(01:07:17):
but the way he makes it up to me makes
all the agony worthwhile. There is no making up for
agony to me. So y'all he's sleeping with you that good. Well,
you have this temporary moment of ecstasy and it justifies
him doing what he want to do. That's gonna get old, lady.

(01:07:41):
I am sure this is where you start judging me.
I'm not judging me. You's something wrong with you. I
have access, but when I weigh the pros and cons,
I'm winning.

Speaker 3 (01:07:54):
No you're not.

Speaker 1 (01:07:57):
You're losing. In every aspect. He's winning, but you're losing.
I have access to one of his accounts, and he
spends all of his money on me. You know, the
the account that you have access to that has very
little inn it. My sister in law even confirmed that
he didn't spend any money on the lady that bought

(01:08:17):
us the TV. I don't want to start over with
a new man. You don't have a man you ain't
starting over. You ain't got one in the beginning he's
not your man, only to find out that he cheats.
What difference do it make the one you got cheating?
Eventually my boyfriend will get tired of running around, and

(01:08:38):
I'll be here waiting. Is it a food poof playing
on my wasting my time? Let me explain something to you.
Eventually your boyfriend will get tired of running around. But
when he settled down, it's not gonna be with you.
Very seldom do the other chick win, and right now

(01:09:00):
you the other chick. He has no intentions of settling
down anytime soon because every first of all, everything he
does with you has no consequences. He can get busted
with other women. He can give you a TV that
another lady gave him. He ain't got to buy you

(01:09:21):
nothing for Christmas. He gets no consequences. You done decided
that's nothing anybody can tell you about him, And then
all the agony he sends you through, he makes it
up to you, and it's all worthwhile. You have got
to stop being ignorant and start thinking more of yourself

(01:09:46):
than him, because he thinks plenty of himself and very
little of you, you lady, to stop this.

Speaker 6 (01:09:54):
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Junior's out, Tommy's in. What you got for is Tommy?

Speaker 1 (01:10:56):
All right?

Speaker 7 (01:10:57):
We're gonna talk about one that's a little dear to
my heart. Now, Steve, check this out you've been, you've
been watching the Little League World Series, all right?

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
Love it a bit of a right. It's a controversy
going on this year, all right.

Speaker 7 (01:11:09):
Some fans are demanding a big change because they see
the game as unfair.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
All right.

Speaker 7 (01:11:15):
The pictures have gotten so big, They got so big
and so strong that they throwing pitches now eighty miles
per hour while the distance between the mound and home
plate is still forty six feet, and that is actually
equivalent to Major League battles facing one hundred and seven
miles per hour.

Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Fast. Yeah, So the.

Speaker 7 (01:11:36):
Solution would be to increase the size of the field,
which means that would probably you got a bag down,
move and move that mind back. But now if you
do that, it's got to change lily all over the world.
You got to change everything. And that's the big problem.
And I've been at games, dog, Well, I'm sitting there
in the stands looking like that mound too close, that

(01:11:59):
ball it's humming up in here, it's coming too fast.

Speaker 1 (01:12:02):
I watched the Little Boy last night. Little boy struck
out ten batters in the row. How fast was he
throwing the ball? He struck out ten people in the row?
I don't know how fast he was throwing it. What
ibody hitting that. I was sitting in the car. I
sitting in that show. Glad I ain't up there. That
hell A white boy was scared me. I said, I'm
in timberdating this little fat.

Speaker 14 (01:12:24):
Boy.

Speaker 1 (01:12:25):
He had a little high. It's on him too, you know.
Hard to see a little white boy with a hot
normally they flat. He had a high, That little boy
cocky leg. I wouldn't smoke on it, fright. I agree
with I agree with spread. I just want that mind

(01:12:46):
to be moved back a little bit because it's just
too close. It's too close. Forty seven. It's too close.
But I'm gonna tell you something else to us Like
the w n B A. If they would lower that
rim six inches six inches, that game would be so
much money. I'm gonna tell you something, man, The w
n B A is good basketball to watch. And I
would venture to say, you know, I heard this high

(01:13:07):
school team tell about man, we'll crush them. Girls know
you wouldn't know, you wouldn't, boy?

Speaker 5 (01:13:12):
Oh some boys.

Speaker 1 (01:13:13):
No, it's a high school team.

Speaker 11 (01:13:15):
Yeah, high school boy. The high school girls said that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:19):
No high school girls down stairs? Chance a high school
boys team. I'm gonna tell you right now, you would
have a tough time beating them, beating them women. Man,
And because you don't understand, Yeah, you're more athletic, you
can jump higher, and you're faster, but they gonna move
that ball around because they shoot three pointers better than men.

(01:13:43):
They're gonna outsmart you. If if the realm was six
inches smaller man, the w NBA would be hell of
basketball to watch.

Speaker 3 (01:13:53):
All right.

Speaker 6 (01:13:54):
Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you guys.
A man on social media needs some advice to He says,
word has it. My girl girlfriend wants me to propose.
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 5 (01:14:11):
All right, Steve, here we go.

Speaker 6 (01:14:12):
TJ on Steve BARBFM says, one of my girlfriend's friends
told me that my girlfriend is expecting me to propose soon.
I don't know where that came from because it's not
something I've ever said or that we've discussed. It really
got me thinking about the relationship and where it's going. Honestly,
I love her and we've had a great time, but
I've never wanted to get married. Now that I know

(01:14:35):
that she really wants to get married. I'm wondering if
it's fair to appear to be stringing her along, but
I don't want to break up. What's the right way
to handle this? I guess I should find out if
it's even true first, right.

Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
Oh, it's true. I can tell you that right now.
It's true. A lot of women want to be married
when they think they had the right guy. And you
do love this girl, and you really having a wonderful time,
and she's thinking, man, this could be it. I hope
he asked me to marry him. Now, the fact that
you don't want to get married is a conversation you

(01:15:11):
need to have. But see now, if you want to
snow her, then keep acting like it's a consideration of yours,
knowing full well you don't want to get married. I
think you should have a conversation with this young lady
in all fairness, and let me tell you something, young man.
I don't know how old you are, but don't you

(01:15:32):
mess up and let a good one get away? And
then two years later you decide you want to get married,
and now you got to go find another her and
it might not happen. Homie, what you get through because
a lot of them think that what about it? Why
she want to get married?

Speaker 7 (01:15:52):
Why why wouldn't she want to get married and have
it understands she wants to get married. Why is it
in your head that you think he's about to propose?
But and y'all ain't even be causing at all.

Speaker 1 (01:16:07):
Because Tommy, when a woman is sitting in the room
by herself, her mind free to go wherever she want,
this is what she won't And she.

Speaker 11 (01:16:14):
Told her girlfriend that. She told her girlfriend, Yeah, this,
this is what.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
She ain't said. This is what I think he want
to do. I think I think he's gonna propose to me.
So she'd have worked that up in her head and
she giddy about it. Tommy, the girlfriend that went to
hear and the girlfriend, what hell she get that from?

Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (01:16:34):
Exactly, that's exactly what he's saying.

Speaker 14 (01:16:37):
Steve, where does she get that from?

Speaker 8 (01:16:39):
Say that.

Speaker 5 (01:16:42):
And tell me you're married? So I don't even know
why you're mad about this. All right, let's move on.
We have time for another one.

Speaker 1 (01:16:51):
Steve.

Speaker 5 (01:16:51):
This is CEC on Steve Harvey FM.

Speaker 6 (01:16:54):
CEC says, I recently found out that my boyfriend has
a second phone while he was in the shower. His
phone was on the dresser. But then I heard ringing
coming from his pants on the floor. I pulled out
another Yeah, I pulled out another phone from his pants
with a missed call from an unknown number. At first
I convinced myself it was either someone else's phone or

(01:17:16):
maybe a work phone. So I didn't say anything. But
now my mind won't stop going to the worst place
that he's hiding a whole secret life.

Speaker 5 (01:17:25):
That was about three weeks ago. Should I say something
or is it too late?

Speaker 1 (01:17:30):
She said, this is her boyfriend.

Speaker 5 (01:17:32):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, her boyfriend has a second phone.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
Yeah, well he got two phones? What yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:17:39):
Yeah, so she wants to know what's.

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
Going on in LA and you work with me every morning.
How many phones did I have?

Speaker 5 (01:17:45):
Maybe three?

Speaker 1 (01:17:46):
It was a lot. I had three phones back, yeah,
three three phones. Yeah, three phones. One was for business.
Uh huh, one was for personal, and one was for
the wife.

Speaker 5 (01:17:59):
Wait wait wait, personal and the wife should be one.
That should be one that should be white. Personally, yeah,
personally and your wife should be the same.

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
Phone, right, I'm not. She wasn't personal.

Speaker 6 (01:18:17):
She was my wife, okay. And the difference is because
you're not making any sense right now?

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
That makes sense? Your nerves with this lot of sense.

Speaker 5 (01:18:36):
Sorry, we gotta leave.

Speaker 1 (01:18:37):
This about to ask me nothing about happiness.

Speaker 11 (01:18:43):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 14 (01:18:44):
This on the table.

Speaker 6 (01:18:46):
We'll get more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
up at twenty.

Speaker 5 (01:18:49):
We'll bring it back then right after this. You're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (01:19:00):
All right, Steve, So before we went to break, you
were talking about you had two phones, okay three three phones,
I mean three. You had a business phone, a personal phone,
and a phone for your wife. Okay, back in then,
so I'm thinking your personal phone and the phone for
your wife should just be one phone.

Speaker 5 (01:19:18):
Correct.

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
That wife, I just said, she had her own phone,
special white, special her phone.

Speaker 5 (01:19:26):
But personal though that I don't understand what makes this
make sense to me?

Speaker 3 (01:19:31):
Please?

Speaker 1 (01:19:33):
It is for friends, friends and bs. Your wife get
her own personal phone. Not that second off that was
you know, that was back in that second marriage was
a little rough and I had to find a way
to maintain and how to overcome what I was going through.

Speaker 5 (01:19:55):
But let me just say this, So when you were.

Speaker 1 (01:19:57):
On that business phone rarely ever wrong.

Speaker 6 (01:20:00):
Yeah, So your personal phone, when you're talking to your
friends and your.

Speaker 1 (01:20:04):
Wife called that thing was hot?

Speaker 5 (01:20:06):
Can you just hang up with your friends and talk
to your wife?

Speaker 1 (01:20:08):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, no no. That stayed
under the flow mat in the bounty, which the flow
mat with the personal phone stayed under the folk flow mat.

Speaker 5 (01:20:20):
Okay, so who's calling you on the personal phone?

Speaker 14 (01:20:24):
Friends, Shirley, you're yelling, Steve, no friends?

Speaker 5 (01:20:37):
All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey
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It's time now, guys, for a round of would you rather?
Would you rather detect every lie you hear? Or would
you rather get away with every lie you tell?

Speaker 1 (01:21:32):
To this? Yeah, we know with my all my line
Scott's free.

Speaker 5 (01:21:39):
But people lie to you. That's okay too.

Speaker 1 (01:21:43):
Now I'm lying right back to you. Well all right, yeah.
Plus plus I know when you line anywhere, I'm so
gone good at it was because because once you lie
to me, I in my mind, I go, oh we line.

Speaker 11 (01:21:55):
Now it's a two way street. You're happy.

Speaker 5 (01:22:00):
You want someone that's as good as you are at it.

Speaker 1 (01:22:02):
You can't out you can't. No, no, no, no, no, no,
surely I'm sixty eight. No that ain't gonnall. That ain't
gonna happen. That's not going to happen.

Speaker 5 (01:22:12):
I don't believe that, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:22:14):
Yeah, you don't believe what you don't believe. They can
outlie you.

Speaker 11 (01:22:17):
There is someone.

Speaker 1 (01:22:19):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, you can
out lie me. Okay, we're good. Yeah, I'm just gonna
know it. It's a whole lot of people can outlie
me because I don't lie all the time. Just enough.

Speaker 3 (01:22:34):
Just a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:22:38):
Don't get that the truth?

Speaker 1 (01:22:40):
All right?

Speaker 5 (01:22:41):
Would you rather?

Speaker 6 (01:22:42):
Would you rather have your first child when you're nineteen
or when you're fifty.

Speaker 1 (01:22:47):
Well, all of my kids was a surprise anyway. So
you always say that I felt the same way at
twenty five and again at forty. So I ain't really.

Speaker 11 (01:23:01):
Take health health class.

Speaker 1 (01:23:04):
Playing parenthood.

Speaker 11 (01:23:08):
Health science in school.

Speaker 1 (01:23:10):
That took all that you know. I ain't every supply
I had.

Speaker 3 (01:23:17):
Guess the honey.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
I ain't doing it at fifty though, I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (01:23:22):
Fifty okay, all right?

Speaker 1 (01:23:25):
Would you got money? All right?

Speaker 5 (01:23:29):
Would you rather be half your height or or double
your weight? Who wrote this?

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
I want to know?

Speaker 9 (01:23:36):
Who?

Speaker 5 (01:23:37):
Want me to keep going?

Speaker 3 (01:23:40):
Yes? I did.

Speaker 11 (01:23:41):
I'm very proud of it.

Speaker 1 (01:23:42):
One more time, Shirley, double my weight. I waited for farting.

Speaker 5 (01:23:47):
Would you God either half or double your weight?

Speaker 1 (01:23:51):
Yeah? Going down there? Did half my height? I'm god
dog three foot one? Then double this, wait and get
back to the gym.

Speaker 7 (01:24:04):
Though I know we get I can't be I'm not
gonna be that heavy. I can't i'ma be half my
hand can't be shut, you can show, can't be short.
I'm gonna just tell you that I'm gonna be already.
You already can't get nothing off top refrigerator.

Speaker 1 (01:24:19):
I don't know that's today. You ain't gonna be refrigerated
handled though you know that handle refrigerate. You don't love
your way, right, back, and you ain't gonna be a
get refrigerator today. And I can't get nothing but pot
because the food is up too hot. With the one
and only Steve Ford behalf.

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Speaker 5 (01:25:19):
All right, guys, here we go, last break of the
day on this Thursday. It's been a fun day.

Speaker 6 (01:25:23):
We got to say happy twenty first anniversary to Carla
and Tash again the Pharaohs, Gerald, thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:25:30):
Thank you.

Speaker 11 (01:25:32):
Yeah, twenty one years o shah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:25:36):
A lot of love, my heart work, yeah, a lot
of heart work, love my husband, love my man.

Speaker 11 (01:25:42):
Alright, those closing remarks.

Speaker 1 (01:25:44):
I had a question for you, Steve. Okay, okay, I'll
take it.

Speaker 11 (01:25:49):
What are the things that you think you should let
go of?

Speaker 1 (01:25:55):
Oh wow, what are the things I think I would
let well? First of all, and this is gonna sign
sound kind of wide spread, but you've got to release worry.
Worry is a dangerous thing because it occupies time and

(01:26:20):
it robs you of the gift of the present. Worry
is a dangerous component because it robs you of the
gift of the present. If God allows you to have
today as a gift, and he wakes you up, it
allows you exist in it and this is yours and

(01:26:43):
He still has something for you. But you spend that
day worry about one of two things tomorrow or yesterday.
And I got news for you. You can't do You
cannot do anything about either one of those. Worry is
time consuming. Worry destroys the act of faith, which is

(01:27:09):
a requirement to have a really, really great relationship with God.
God really just wants you to do simple things. Just
believe in him. God wants you to trust in him,
but you got to have a relationship with him. But
worry cancels out that relationship because it has you focused

(01:27:34):
on things you can't control. And it also puts you
in the position of you're not talking to God about this.
I can assure you, if you're worrying about something repeatedly,
over and over and over, you haven't turned it over
to God. I know people say yes, Steve, but you
still got to think about stuff. I said worry. I

(01:27:56):
didn't say think. Anybody told you not to think. I
said worry. I would let go of worry because worry.
Does you know how many times have you worried about
something tomorrow and when tomorrow got here it ain't or
nothing like that. I mean, zilch ah man oh man,

(01:28:18):
no man, I mean. And it can go both ways. Man.
I thought tomorrow when I woke up, I was gonna
get some great news, only to find out that celebration
need to be put on hold. Homie, you ain't got
no good news today. Or I was expecting some bad
news tomorrow and I was worrying about this bad news.

(01:28:41):
And then when I showed up, God and worked it
completely out another way and it was over with. So
guess what I did. I wasted my yesterday I ruined
my moment of present peace worrying about something I had
no control over. I would get rid of worry. The
other thing I would get rid of I would get
rid of people who bring me nothing but bad news.

(01:29:04):
Life is already difficult. The last thing you need is
somebody had every time you see them, something wrong, something
going on. Did you see what they said about you
on the internet? Man, did you read this? It's this true.
I don't know how you do it. I was at
the barber shop and they was just talking about you.
I be just sitting there, hey hey, hey man, hey,
hey hey stop stop stop stop bringing that to me,

(01:29:28):
because guess what I'm having another day of perfect peace,
and now here you come with that. Take people out
your life that are not praying for you, pulling for you,
cheering for you, and helping you. If you are the
one that's always has to do something for them, you

(01:29:49):
are being used and manipulated and you don't need that.
The other thing I would get rid of is the
fear of saying no. It's okay to say no. Man.
Stop wondering what people gonna think about you if you
say no. Let me tell you what say no? Yes,
they gonna feel what they want to feel about you

(01:30:09):
anyway you can give it to them, and they talk
about you.

Speaker 3 (01:30:12):
You know what.

Speaker 1 (01:30:13):
I many times you've helped somebody and then later on
they forgot you help them, and you hear them talking
about you somewhere. Man, lose your fear of saying no, no, man,
I can't do that. I just got a text this morning.
Hey man, I'm in town. Man, I got this going on,
that going on. I need about ten minutes of your time.

(01:30:33):
I say, I ain't got it, man, I'm busy. You
ain't got ten minutes. No, no, no, not for you.
I don't not for you, because I know the ten
minutes is gonna break my peace. You not my child.
If my child need ten minutes, I have an obligation
to them. I still feel obligated to my children, even
though the youngest one is twenty eight. If they say, Dad,

(01:30:55):
I need to talk to you, I'm finna give them
some time. But other than that, man, lose your fear
of saying no, no, it's good man. Protect your peace,
protect your happiness, protect your space, get away from those people.

(01:31:16):
So those are the things I would lose my fear, worry.
I would lose my fear of people. I would lose
people around me who bring me no good, and I
would lose my fear of saying no, no, no thank you.
As a matter of fact, put thank you with it,
Hey man, can you loan me five hundred dollars?

Speaker 4 (01:31:37):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:31:37):
Thank you? No, no, thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:31:41):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:31:42):
It affects them differently. Try it. Try it today. Somebody
gonna ask you for some money, Just say no, thank you.
Y'all have a great day today, and remember everybody talk
to God today. He would absolutely love to hear from you.
All right, y'all, have a good will see all. God's
will will see y'all.

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