FULL SHOW: High Heel Challenge, Strawberry Letter - I've Never Been Under This Much Pressure - 08.08.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
At all at all, So.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
Don't given him all black a million bus.

Speaker 4 (00:17):
Buss boozy ar yea listening to me, I don't joy, yeah, Joy,

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you don't use.

Speaker 5 (01:05):
You love, you.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
Gotta turn I got to turn the mouth turn You
probably got to turn the mouth.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
Turn out the water of the money up looking.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come on, you'll think that. Uh huh, I sure
will come on to everybody y'all listening to the voice,
Come on dig me now one and old Steve Harvey,
Uh huh got a radio show? Yeah, man, what a
blessing it is. I can't even explain my whole life.
My whole life is a blessing. It really is, in

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spite of all the things that's happened, contraa to having
the appearances of a blessing. As I look back on
my life today, it all happened for a reason. It
all came together, it tied together, and you know it's important.

Speaker 6 (02:31):
Man.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
I think a lot of people that asked me about
my success and how I got here and how do
I attribute in what was the steps? I want to
tell you what it is now listen to me before
I get started. Please understand that everything that I tell
you is faith based. Everything that I tell you is
faith based. You can double check it. You can go
behind me. Whatever your faith is, if you go back
into the writings and your faith, it's in there. It's

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in there. Now. I'm not telling you anything new. I'm
not giving you a new angle. I may give you
a different way of his safe you know, maybe hearing
it back to yourself. But in essence, man, I really
do know that I'm not going to say anything that
you may not have heard, but I phrased it in
a different kind of way. And so this series this week,
I want to talk to you about how to make
it kind of a motivational series. And the first part,

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the most important component of it in accomplishing what you
want in your life is you have to identify the dream.
This is the critical step. A lot of people spend
their life squandering and wandering around because they never identify
the dream. You have to identify the dream. You have
to identify what it is that you want, what it

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is that you hope for. You have to have a
goal in mind. You have to have a destination, you know,
and when you go outside and put the key in
your car. You never go and put your key in
the car and just get in in and just drive,
you know, unless you're trying to clear your head or something.
But if you talk about going somewhere, you got to
have a destination. You gotta have somewhere you want to go,

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or else you're just running around you burning gas. Where
you're going now? I don't know? Left here? Right here?

Speaker 5 (04:07):
Go here?

Speaker 2 (04:08):
Go there? You know, you must identify the dream. The
dream is the single most important part of the component
to making the success out yourself. God can't bless what
you don't have. You can't get what you never give.
Identify the dream. What is it that burns inside you
so it keeps you awake at night? What is it, man,
that makes you smile when you think about it? What

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is it, man that you can't seem to quite shape? Okay,
so you go to college, right, you make a decision,
which I disagree with you asking eighteen to a twenty
one year old to make a decision or what he
wants to do and what he wants to be with
the rest of his life. That's tough because guess what
this young person doesn't really know himself or herself yet,
so you're asking them to identify what it is at

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an early age. What consequentially happens is that people get
older and they wind up doing something else, and you
get a degree and you find out what you're passion
is with something else. See, identifying that dream as early
as you can is important. Now, whether you're younger, whether
you're or whatever, your whatever, your identity of the dream is.
That's first. Now. What you have to do then is

(05:14):
if I were you. Here is the part that people
never seem to weld together with that dream that I
want to be an astronaut, I want to be a doctor,
I want to be a club on, I want to
be a a DJ, I want to be a ball player,
I want to be a writer, I want to be
a whatever it is, it doesn't matter. Somebody is that already,
and somebody had it as a dream, So it's no

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dream too big. Okay, Once you identify the dream, here's
the thing. The best way for that to happen is
that dream should be tied directly to your god given
gift or talent. See that's the part that people miss,
you see halle Berry on TV and you want you
want to have on one of the dresses on the
red carpet, and you want to stand there and get

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the award, and you want to have the same people.
Do do your head to do Halle and who do Beyonce?
He all that's good, All that's good, man, But do
you have the talent or the gift to accomplish that? See,
don't get outside your scope. I wanted to play in
the NBA when I was eight years old, but something
happened along the way. I didn't have skill set. I

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discovered that when I ran as fast as I could,
the basketball was never with me.

Speaker 4 (06:22):
Man.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
That's an important part of all.

Speaker 7 (06:24):
You know.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
I could jump, but I normally didn't have a basketball.
So now see that that passion and that dream of
being in the NBA was not tied to my gift.
My gift was when I was sitting there watching them
play basketball. I was the little dude leaning against the
fence that had a comment about everything everybody did.

Speaker 5 (06:48):
That was it.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
I was the commentator, the color commentator, and lord I
was funny. It was one of the few times I
didn't stutter when I was leaning against the fish talking trash.
But took me to school, you took me to church,
you took me in front of somebody, you sent me
to the store.

Speaker 7 (07:04):
Man.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
That stuttering just came over the top of me. I
couldn't do it. Remember the first time I told somebody
my dream is to be on TV man, they laughed
at me so hard that they laughed me out the
gym because I had a stuttering problem. So that caused
me never to tell it again. The best way to
accomplish your dream is you got to tie it to
your gift, to the talent that God has given you.
You can't overlook that. See God never created a person

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without giving them a talent or a gift. You have
something that you do, and the way to identify that
is very simple. It is the thing that you do
the absolute best with the least amount of effort. What
is that that you do that's better than you do
anything else with the least amount of effort. You do this,
it's almost You can draw without you can write, you
can sing. You know how to pull stuff apart and

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put it back together. You know how to connect the
dots and cross t's, and you know how to organize
things and put people together. You know how to network.
You know how to shoot videos better than anybody. You
know how to calm people down when they when it's
a conflict, that your school is something. They come to you,
all your friends come to you. They problem. There's a
gift and the talent. You have to identify what that is. Now,

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if you take that gift and talent that you are
born with and you marry it into your dream, you
put those two in the dream. That's the number one thing.
And here's a deal. You can never give up on
the dream. I don't care how old you are. There's

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a scripture that says a man without a dream or
a vision shall perish. Think about this. If you've given
up on your dream, don't it feel like you're going nowhere?
You have a wake up in the morning and just go, man,
this can't be all to it. It's got to be
more to it than this. That's that's that seed, that dream,
that talent, that gift that's in you that needs watering

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and nurturing and fertilize it to come out and grow.
But you got to identify.

Speaker 3 (08:58):
Man.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
Come on, and you can't give up on your dream
because now you got just the job. That's helping you
pay these bills. And now you locked into the system
where paying the bills is so critical and living expenses
on top of you that you got to keep going
to this job. So now you give up on your dreams.
That ain't how this thing work.

Speaker 5 (09:14):
Man.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
You can't ever give up on the dream. It's gonna
be a sacrifice to do that. To follow your dream,
You're gonna have to let something go. That's the scary part.
That's the part where people don't want to let go
of the peanut to get the fruit. So you hang
on to your peanut. Now, the fruit out there, it's melons, grapes, bananas, pineapples,
it's out fruit is out there, But you're so busy

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hanging on to this peanut, that job that has got
you locked in, and you can't go out there and
enjoy the fruits of your life. You have to make
a decision. A decision is based on your dream and
your gift. If you tie those two together, why not
take a shot at it. I mean, what you're waiting on.
Everything I tell you is faith based, so remember that too.
Now you got to take your faith along. But it
starts with the dream.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Here, listen, means to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Ladies and gentlemen, again, God Almighty has done it again
another day. Only he could do that. You realize that
only he can create another day. He raises that sun
up in the morning, that's him, creates cloud cover, breezes

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all that. That's him. Man, He did it again. And
what's really crazy he let you stay here for it. Bingo, jackpot, powerball.
That's all that wrapped in one simply because you here,
you didn't hit the lottery. Play your hand today, Steve

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Arbret Martins Show, Sherley Strawberry calling Farel Mississippi Monica, and
the legend that is Nephew Tommy. Good morning everyone. Yeah,
oh I'm good. I'm good.

Speaker 4 (11:00):
I'm good.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
You know, just you know, dealing his life, just be
doing what he do. Yeah, it's an interesting thing, man, life,
It really is interesting. He be just going along and
then he just stepped out around the corner whe a
with a billy club. And then you got to cope

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with it coping skills. Yeah, but you see the billy club.
But he let you walk by, did bust you in
the back of the head. What he was going? What
was happening?

Speaker 1 (11:32):
I need to get your attention, son, I.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
Got a question.

Speaker 8 (11:38):
So you mentioned powerball and lottery, so you know nobody
won Wednesday, So the next drawing is Saturday, four hundred
and eighty two million. God, okay, we know Tommy would disappear.
Gonna ask in front of y'all cash value cash vague?

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Two hundred and eighteen point nine.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
Okay, cloud? Okayud?

Speaker 9 (12:06):
Like what what?

Speaker 2 (12:07):
What's what's the question?

Speaker 1 (12:08):
What's the plan?

Speaker 2 (12:09):
What would you do?

Speaker 5 (12:10):
What is first?

Speaker 2 (12:12):
First of all? Is first? First of all, we're talking, uh,
we're talking the GG theory.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
What's that?

Speaker 2 (12:21):
If I got two hundred and eighteen g G, what's that?
What's that? But that's that's stands for good and gone.
Oh I think they're good.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
Okay, good and gone.

Speaker 8 (12:35):
Okay, But now my leaving gonna come with some announcements.
What kind of announcements?

Speaker 2 (12:43):
Some announcements?

Speaker 1 (12:44):
What are you announcing?

Speaker 4 (12:45):
What are you?

Speaker 2 (12:47):
Well? Some people gonna get the information different than others,
you know.

Speaker 1 (12:53):
Like what give us an example?

Speaker 4 (12:56):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (12:57):
Some people gonna get a note thanking them for all
they've done to help me get to where I am.
And some people will get a check in the note
thanking them what all they've done, you know, and things
like that. You know, some people will get a little
unexpected help and bonus for people that I've cared about

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over the.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Years, you know, right, what a blessing.

Speaker 2 (13:21):
And then now some people who just gonna get a
photograph of my crack, of my entire crack, I'm gonna
spray I'm gonna spray boy with water so it has
some moisture on it.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
That we're gonna run that prank back with them right
after this. You're listening. Steve Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (13:53):
And the Big Three are back this Saturday, four pm
on CBS. Physical and fiercely competitive three on three basketball basketball.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Played the way it's supposed to be.

Speaker 9 (14:03):
With only one week to go to the playoffs, players
will be fighting for playoff slots and a share of
the one million dollar final bonus. Watch Lane Stevenson, Dwight Howard,
Glenn Rice, Junior, Montanz Harrold, Michael Beasley and Moore fight.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
For the Doctor J Championship Trophy.

Speaker 9 (14:18):
FIG Three on CBS and VICE this Saturday, four pm Eastern,
one VM Pacific.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
It is time now to run that Brenk back with
the Nephew. What you got for his neph Suirley.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
I got I got fight night. Yeah, fight night.

Speaker 9 (14:33):
You understand. So we're gonna have to fight. We're gonna
have drinks, We're gonna have food. Good fight night.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
You get good fight night. Let's go get dog fight knight. Yeah.

Speaker 10 (14:44):
Hey, I'm trying to speak to Troy.

Speaker 5 (14:46):
Yeah, hey, Troy.

Speaker 10 (14:47):
You're doing man, it's curvy, man. I live a couple
of streets over from you. What's happening with your brother?

Speaker 11 (14:52):
Uh?

Speaker 10 (14:53):
Kby Kenny? Kenny gave me you got you know, Kenny
on your street?

Speaker 7 (14:58):
Right?

Speaker 10 (14:59):
Oh yeah, you have no Yeah, yeah, Kenny gave me
your number.

Speaker 5 (15:02):
Man.

Speaker 10 (15:02):
I wanted to reach out. I'm inviting a lot of
people in the neighborhood, man to you know, so I'm
inviting a lot of people over to the fight party
over here in my house.

Speaker 5 (15:10):
Oh yeah, yeah, that was what it was. Gonna want
it on fight too, man.

Speaker 12 (15:14):
Man.

Speaker 10 (15:14):
Okay, okay, well listen, man, come on through. Uh everybody
gonna be getting here like around seven seven thirty and
uh man, we got food, we got liquor, margerita machine.
My boy, he gonna be on the grill with the
burgers and the and the hot dogs. Man, and one
of my other partner's gonna be smoking some wings. Man,
So we we good man. So I'm just inviting a
bunch of people in the neighborhood to come through.

Speaker 7 (15:34):
Cool.

Speaker 5 (15:34):
You let me bring something through, Man's one anything?

Speaker 10 (15:37):
What uh look at now that you uh? Now that
you mentioned it? Man, we we we missing a list something. Hey,
let me let me ask you this here, Troy. You
you got cable at your house? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (15:48):
Yeah, I got cable.

Speaker 10 (15:49):
Okay, listen what we need man, I got about four
thousand feet a cable cord. And what I want to
do is come over there and hook up this cable
card to your house and run it two streets over
to my house so we can watch the fight in
the backyard.

Speaker 5 (16:09):
Wait wait, wait, wait, hold on, man, I know you
got hold up, Man, I know, hold on, I know
you didn't just say I say that again? You want?
You got folk?

Speaker 10 (16:17):
See like I say, we got the food, the liquor,
all of that. Man. You know a lot of people
coming over. But see the parliament. I ain't got cable
here at the house.

Speaker 5 (16:26):
But how is you gonna have a fight party? And
you ain't got no cable?

Speaker 10 (16:29):
And that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying you.
You asked me what could you help out with? So
that's what I'm asking you. I used to wait for
the cable company. I know how to hook it up
at your house. I know how to bypass pay per view.
We're gonna run it two streets. So I got a
real doable cable card. I got a big TV. I'm
gonna put out in the backyard.

Speaker 5 (16:47):
You come me and invite me to a fight party, y'all.
Ain't got no no cable. Now you want me to
do something illegal in one four thousand, see the cable
wires two streets over to my backyard, over the city.
I'm hear d white folks. Dog, I'm not jo man,
Get me put out. I'm already having along with my
market jore rerigy. Now you want me to do something illegal,

(17:08):
get me put out?

Speaker 10 (17:09):
Okay, I understand that.

Speaker 5 (17:10):
Dog.

Speaker 10 (17:10):
Well, listen, what I'm saying is no, we just talking
about for a few hours. We ain't gonna been. We
ain't like we gonna do it for a couple of
days or nothing.

Speaker 5 (17:17):
I don't know how he can leave it to college.
Call up a catch man and in writing my to
a fight party. You ain't got no cable, okay, but
I invited you to do. You finna get looking food
and stuff. Man, you finna have a good time, do
your hard.

Speaker 10 (17:30):
Let me let me get a little bit of okay
before a couple of hours so everybody canna watch the fight.

Speaker 5 (17:34):
So you want to have the fight part that at
my high man, I don't know you like that.

Speaker 10 (17:37):
I'm not saying we have any house.

Speaker 12 (17:40):
Man.

Speaker 10 (17:40):
I'm out like I'm gonna we have it at my house.
We just using your cable.

Speaker 5 (17:45):
Man, I can't have no cable. I don't do nothing
in legal man. I'm not having no police in front
of my house. And I got I got a family. Now,
I'm a family man. I got to get up every morning,
go to work.

Speaker 12 (17:54):
I work hard.

Speaker 5 (17:55):
I'm not and I got man.

Speaker 10 (17:57):
I'm just killing you for a few hours, man, So
we everybody see the main Weather fight.

Speaker 5 (18:01):
Man. Now you said curb men Kennedy, Man, I don't know.
I don't really know y'all people like that. Man, I
don't know Kenned well, I didn't know I could have
keep a nice yard.

Speaker 10 (18:08):
Man.

Speaker 5 (18:08):
I don't know y'all. I can't be having no laws
and all this in my children running around this cable
coming from my high I can't have that, man, y'all
m out here with these white folks, these white folks.
That's not having it.

Speaker 10 (18:17):
Man. I understand all that, man, but I didn't invite
in all these people. I can't disappoint these people. I
got to have a fight on at the house.

Speaker 5 (18:23):
I understand your situation. Man, brother, I want to be
at the house washing the fight too. But I ain't
no where in the world. I'm finla have no four
thousands for the cable running from my house. I can't
see that one happened. I'm out here in the suburb
now with a family. Now, I can't do the type
of thing, man.

Speaker 7 (18:35):
I can't.

Speaker 5 (18:35):
I don't want no police, I don't want the cable.

Speaker 10 (18:37):
Man, you're the only one in the suburb. I'm out
here too. What I'm trying to tell you is I'm
not going to disappoint these people.

Speaker 5 (18:43):
Now.

Speaker 10 (18:44):
I want to have your approval, but I'm coming to
hook this table up.

Speaker 5 (18:47):
You coming, well, hook up from cable.

Speaker 10 (18:49):
I'm coming to your house to hook this table and
run it two streets over.

Speaker 5 (18:52):
Oh.

Speaker 7 (18:53):
So, if I say you can't hook it up.

Speaker 5 (18:54):
You're gonna come and hook up anywhere. That what you're
telling me.

Speaker 10 (18:56):
I'm telling you, I can't disappoint these people. I'm coming
hook this cable up, man, whether.

Speaker 7 (19:01):
You like it or not.

Speaker 5 (19:03):
Now, if you put up in front of my hour
four thousands for the cable, it's on me.

Speaker 10 (19:07):
I got it right, Hey man, I can't disappoint these
people now. I'm just trying to get you to show
some law for four hours.

Speaker 5 (19:13):
You know, just before we don't have a show for them.
If you come up to my house, you bring them
people you got over that with you so they can
see a fight.

Speaker 10 (19:19):
Hey man, what are you? What are you saying? You're
trying to tell me you ain't gonna let me hook
the cable up.

Speaker 5 (19:23):
When I get over that, I standing up on it.
I'll be waiting out there with no shirt and the shot. Literally,
you ain't gonna lay that fifteen round with me, hay not.

Speaker 10 (19:31):
I'm nothing to City and Kenny mean you was.

Speaker 5 (19:33):
I go hold to an extent, But now you're not
gonna give me to break no law in front of
my children out here. Man, I'm thirty nine years ago.
I'n'na play them games, man, when I was younger. You
lay with the kind of cours me with a lot money.
But hey, I'm not going for I'm not going for.

Speaker 10 (19:43):
That rock to sign.

Speaker 5 (19:44):
Brother, I'm not having all that activity going on in
my house.

Speaker 10 (19:47):
I'm coming over that and I'm looking up this cable.

Speaker 5 (19:49):
Where you come on here. You're too bad. I got
something fun of you. Test it. You come on with,
I'm gonna sit it in front of my house right now.
Say I'm kidding it be comes one or two, mister Carrick.
I got something on y'all telling you with.

Speaker 10 (20:00):
I'm coming over there to hook my cable off so
these people can watch fight.

Speaker 5 (20:04):
Hey, we'll line it up there, and you're gonna come
take some care from my house.

Speaker 10 (20:07):
Line it up.

Speaker 5 (20:08):
I'm gonna have my wife take my hands up right now.
It's gonna be a fight.

Speaker 10 (20:11):
I got one more thing I need to say to you, though,
if you listening.

Speaker 5 (20:14):
I don't care what you say. You come in front
of my house, you gotta raise your help with you
because you're gonna leave here. You come front of my
house a cable car. I don't go who you is,
and I'm gonna whoop killing whenever I see him I'm
whooping him on side. I don't getting my children in
the car and his children to come, and I'm gonna
whoop you if you come round here. Then knows this
time about you? Who came? I'm put some on your
hire man. He come out in my eyes right now.

Speaker 10 (20:35):
With that, I said, I got one more thing to say.

Speaker 5 (20:38):
That you aren't what you got to say?

Speaker 10 (20:40):
And you listening to me, I'm listening that his nephew
till me from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just
got pranked by your boy.

Speaker 5 (20:48):
Who is who to say?

Speaker 11 (20:50):
This is?

Speaker 10 (20:51):
This is nephew tire me from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.

Speaker 5 (20:54):
Matter. I know you had my soul, man, and my
blood pressure high. There you got me ready to I
got wrong, And Michael, it's wrong.

Speaker 7 (21:03):
The liver thing man?

Speaker 5 (21:04):
You read to somebody out of here?

Speaker 10 (21:07):
All right, man, I got to ask you this right here, Troy,
what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
baddest radio show in the land, man, the Steve Robby
Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (21:16):
Man.

Speaker 5 (21:16):
Y'all crazy?

Speaker 9 (21:19):
And there you have it, Sherley. I'll be back in
a the hour and I'll be more stupid than ever.

Speaker 1 (21:25):
Thanks for the warning, all right, thanking if you coming
up next, It is asked the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (21:42):
Hi's Cuban.

Speaker 9 (21:43):
The Big Three are back this Saturday, four pm on CBS.
Physical and fiercely competitive three on three basketball basketball played
the way it's supposed to be. With only one week
to go to the playoffs, players will be fighting for
playoff slots and a share of the one million dollar final.
Watch Lan Stevenson, Dwight Howard, Glenn Rice, Junior, Montanes, Harold,

(22:04):
Michael Beasley, and Moore fight for the Doctor J Championship Trophy.
Big Three on CBS and VICE this Saturday, four pm Eastern,
one BM Pacific, coming.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news,
a thirty year old influencer fractured her spine doing the
Nicki Minaj High Heeled Challenge. E t Yeah, Yeah, that
was pretty serious right there. B Et has suspended as
Sole Train Awards and Hip Hop Awards shows indefinitely, and
Tanna Taylor revealed that she needs surgery to remove a

(22:37):
growth on her vocal cords. That's all coming up at
the top of the hour, But right now it is
time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
This is from Brenda and Gainesville Colo. Brenda writes, I'm
fifty one and dating, but I don't like what I'm
seeing with the man. With the men that are available.

(22:57):
The men my age prefer to text instead of calling,
and they'd rather come to my house instead of going out.
Am I supposed to lower my standards to get a man.

Speaker 2 (23:07):
No, that's not lowering your standards. You just have to
set them. I don't do a lot of texting, and
I prefer to be courted. I want to go out
on dates. That's what I'd like to do. Now you
don't have to, sir, but that's what I like to do.
And so when they continue to text it texting requires

(23:29):
a response, and somebody coming over your house require you
to open the door. Let's see. So well, once you
stop doing those two things, then that part ends. And
I understand what you're saying. Ladies out there, men have changed.
I will give you that they have changed, but you

(23:52):
don't have to because there are good men out there,
and good men can be trained because all you have
to do is not accept bad behavior, and they have
to change it if they want to see you. But
if you accept bad behavior, that's what you're gonna get.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
Okay, all right, all right. Moving on to Raymond in
Virginia Beach, Raymond writes, I don't hang out much anymore
because my wife is insecure and thinks I'm trying to
meet women when I go out. I'm going to a
cookout this weekend and it's just the guys. Is it
best to risk telling my wife where I'm going? Or
should I lie to her?

Speaker 11 (24:29):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (24:29):
Oh oh, come on smelling like barbecue? Yeah, or hopefully
you come back smelling like barbecue. Listen, listen, she's insecure.
This one right here. You can tell the truth if

(24:50):
it is well, listen to me. If it is all
the fellas and y'all having an all male cookout, just
say that. Just say that. Yeah. Period. Now, if it's
not an all male cookout, you have got to lie.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
Those are options.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
This is an easy one.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
What's the lie? What's the lie?

Speaker 2 (25:19):
Baby? It's all male cookout? And then one of them
food's gonna post something on Facebook and one of them
gonna tag a friend that know you, and next thing
you know, she gonna see everybody else with that mm hm.
And then you have to have the recovery lie.

Speaker 5 (25:36):
What is that?

Speaker 2 (25:37):
What is that?

Speaker 1 (25:41):
Yeah, Ernie.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
Told me it was gonna be all the fellas mm hmm.
Then three of them at girls with them. I could
have took you. I ain't going over any house.

Speaker 4 (25:55):
No movie. That's it.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
You threw where Ernie.

Speaker 13 (26:05):
It's not your friend. All right, Okay, if you think
that'll work, right, all right, I tell you.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
What, I'll tell you what. I tell you. What go
on in there with the truth. Let me know how
that goes for you. Go ahead. True don't never work?

Speaker 11 (26:26):
Is so not?

Speaker 1 (26:27):
That is just a lie. The truth never works. The
truth word. You haven't tried it.

Speaker 5 (26:32):
How would you know.

Speaker 2 (26:33):
I'm not trying the truth exactly.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
Exactly, the truth exactly, So you don't know. You don't know.
Kenzy and Starkville huh. Kensy and Starkville writes, I'm having
a fling with a man that is the best lover
I've ever had. But get this, he's not attractive. He

(26:58):
also just lost to two on the side, so I'm
ashamed of how he looks. He's really sweet, but really unattractive?
Am I being shallow for being ashamed of him?

Speaker 7 (27:12):
You know?

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Listen, ugly man, I'm gonna just tell you this right now.
Have got to be great levels. They ain't got no choice.
See what you're not finna do is be ugly and
ain't in here doing nothing.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
But he can fix that tooth.

Speaker 2 (27:27):
Come on, and and you ain't a hard worker. Now
you got that tooth out there missing his side of
your here. Now we talk, you drive and I'm over
here on the passenger side, and it's that K nine
on the right side, the right side you're over here talking. Yeah, yeah,
oh it ain't side I got he just lost on

(27:50):
the side. Yeah yeah, yeah, No, when you're on the side,
it's right there that that K nine too lost And
look and look and look you're talking about He not FLOSSI.
You could have got it knocked out at a bar fight. Anything.
He could have happened you your tooth frame fell out

(28:11):
because you wasn't FLOSSI. That ain't if you weigh you
way up the road if that happened. So you know,
and then he's unattracted, but he in there bringing it.
Two things you could do. What Number one you could
fix the tooth at that and go and enjoy yourself. Now,

(28:37):
there's some things you could do the ugly men. There
are some things you could do. What what do you mean, uh, grooming,
really really tight grooming and tighten up his appearance.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
Yeah, yeah, you know, start with the tooth.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
Yeah, I've been unattracted, but I dressed so nice. I
cover it.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
Yeah, and you're rich, I mean.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
Yeah, special, you just rig the ugly dude.

Speaker 1 (29:12):
You know, nobody want broken ugly dude. I mean the bank.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
I beg to differult what I beg don't nobody who
want to know? Broke ugly dude? Women sign up for
that all the time. What you're talking all the people?

Speaker 1 (29:31):
What they settled, because they settled, that's right.

Speaker 6 (29:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
Yeah, if that's the case, if you had an option,
if you had.

Speaker 2 (29:41):
Go down through the n b A and tell me
it be. But they're not broke NFL no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
I know they not broke. Okay, but what but what
Oh oh, oh, I thought you said, don't nobody wan't
no rich ugly man.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
No said.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
Oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, oh no nobody want that.
I thought you said, nobody want no rich rich ugly man,
I'm gonna say good, I'm going I'll go down this
right man.

Speaker 1 (30:18):
I wish we could continue this conversation, Okay, but we
gotta go. Coming up at the top of the hour,
we have some entertainment news for you right after this.
You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Well, guys, the Nicki Minaj

(30:40):
high school stiletto challenge that's been taking over social media
and TikTok and Instagram everywhere. Some of the ladies are
risking at all and balancing on dumbbells, bottles, cans of food,
and other unstable items to nail their poses. Well, doctors
started joining into the comments to warn participants about how
risky and how dangerous these stunts are, but the trends

(31:04):
just keep on going. A thirty two year old Russian
influencer is now wishing that she had not attempted this
challenge after she fell to the floor and fractured her spine. Okay,
she yeah, this is craziness right here. She had stacked
a bottle of baby formula on top of a metal
pan and tried to balance on the baby formula in

(31:26):
high heels. The pan then shifted and she fell really,
really hard. To the kitchen floor, fracturing her T nine vertebrae.
She will be wearing a back brace for a while
and is currently under strict medical supervision while she healed this.

Speaker 8 (31:43):
Wo that's crazy. So you could get on Instagram, Yeah
to jock, Yeah all that. Yeah, you and your kitchen
just standing on disc It's a trend. It's a fun
treand and she thought she could do it, but she underestimate.

Speaker 2 (32:02):
All I'm waiting on the risk is to see is
Spice Adams version of this.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
Oh you said he's got twenty.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
I'm waiting to see him he do his because that
boy right there is a fool. He is gonna be
good man.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
You know I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 9 (32:25):
You can do it.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
Go ahead, call him, call him, go.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
To lips Carlo right now, everybody follow.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
Your daughter and her last year of high school. Don't
do that. Don't do that.

Speaker 3 (32:36):
Don't do what I can do that.

Speaker 2 (32:38):
They must want to push you to no graduation. We
gotta address you and all this. Somebody go in there
and get mama so she gonna be late. What I'm

(33:01):
not feelna let you do that. No, No, you're not
doing that. You're too much to lose. You a mother,
you a wife.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
The bell started it on the dumb bell. She started
bringing it back, Sierra. She's a wife and a mother.

Speaker 2 (33:17):
She didn't know some things on high heels that y'all ate.
Let's let's cut this hand, all right? Moving on, b
E T has I'm calling TSH. I'm telling you I've BETSH.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
You want to snitch, don't do it? All right, guys,
Moving on, b E T has made a major announcement
that will move forward with only one awards show every
year now, the b E T Awards.

Speaker 5 (33:48):
That is it. That is it.

Speaker 1 (33:50):
According to the Black Information Network executs that BT have
suspended the B E T Hip Hop Awards and Soul
Train Awards indefinitely. The Hip Hop Awards started back in
two thousand and six and it celebrated the culture by
highlighting rap and hip hop artists. And it's the end
of an era for the Soul Train Awards that started
back in nineteen eighty seven to highlight R and B

(34:12):
legends as well as showcase new artists. So there you go,
just to be et. Can you imagine how long it's
going to be now? The b ET Awards they better
started this going to be as long as the Grammy. Yeah,
they better start that in the morning. Yeah it's calm. Yeah,
no more soul training.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
Yeah. I don't know, man, I don't know. They're showing
on Baby Do It Live. That's for show.

Speaker 1 (34:40):
It's gonna be wrong. Yeah, Yeah, it's gonna be I mean,
I'm gonna watch it. I'm saying, but this can be
really long now.

Speaker 2 (34:47):
Yeah. I mean their tributes are great. I love ET
Awards tribute I.

Speaker 8 (34:54):
Did great, and I love that they're given legends and icons.
They give them their flowers and it's.

Speaker 2 (35:00):
Like, that's so deep, Man's that's the most important thing
for me, you know.

Speaker 8 (35:05):
Yeah, you know, I don't know if people watch watch
the shows, those award shows like they used to.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
I think they probably watched b ET Awards the most.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
I can assure you. It's the cost cost in viewership
because you know, regular television is not the same anymore.
It just doesn't corner the views anymore because people are
not gonna watch it when it asks, because they're gonna
catch it tomorrow. Especially BT. You can watch BT Award
show on your images right now.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
It's gonna run.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
So many times. You know, of course we watch it
in real time because we got to talk about it
on the radio, right. But other than that, you know
what I mean, it's just not a well it's a
great show man to B two work. I'm really proud
of the fact. I'm surprised that they look me and
said started to be to award. Yeah, we did the

(36:04):
first two, man, it would be nice if they said
something about that.

Speaker 1 (36:09):
Oh, and it was funny when you guys hosted to
I remember you own something this, sir, I like we
did the first ones. Man, Yes, you know.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
We did that.

Speaker 3 (36:21):
We was kings.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
I mean, come on, man, we was.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
Man legends, legends.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
But you know whatever, your king. I can't have everything.
It's just going over down somewhere.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
You got yours, You got your bet.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
I don't bet I don't climb up home now one
of them dumb bells, though, I bet you I don't
do that. I am call what I'm gonna tell you
right now.

Speaker 1 (36:49):
I'm afraid for you on this one. Why aren't you
mescause you.

Speaker 8 (36:54):
Ain't got no business up there. First of all, it's
an age limit to that. No, it's not this a
woman of all ages doing high school.

Speaker 2 (37:03):
I just told you it was an age.

Speaker 1 (37:06):
At twenty minutes after the hour.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Tell you what you better do it between two part
calls and get your hands up.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
So comedian Lunelle calls Shannon Sharp ugly on a recent
podcast interview. Yeah, we'll talk about that right after this.
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Speaker 1 (37:58):
Comedian Lunelle took shots at Shannon Sharp on Additionation podcast
interview last week. In light of Shannon Sharp recently settling
a sexual assault lawsuit and getting fired from ESPN. Lunelle
revealed that she's been beefing with Sharp for a while.
Apparently a few years ago, Lennelle tried to be a
guest on Shannon Sharp's show. Quote back when he was popular,

(38:22):
but he didn't want her as a guest. She didn't
say which show it was, but she added that when
Sharp fell from Grace recently, he reached out to her
to be a guest on his show, and she refused.
Linnelle said, quote, Shannon Sharp suffers from the same thing
Dennis Rodman suffered from. I'm ugly, but I made it anyway.

Speaker 6 (38:42):
Uh oh.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Maae, She clapped back, didn't she? Comedians? Come on, do
you think Lennelle is really upset? Or are these just jokes?
What do you think, Steve?

Speaker 2 (38:57):
No, I could be a little bit of moves on
a tractor.

Speaker 5 (39:02):
Show.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
Yeah, y'all tell us saying shayting the tracking. I agree
with lady. No, he's not a tractor. I ain't never
heard nobody say that.

Speaker 1 (39:10):
He's fine. He has the body. We got bot.

Speaker 2 (39:13):
Oh yeah, we got body.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
Okay's not all right? Yeah he's not he's not. Yeah,
but he got he's fine.

Speaker 5 (39:22):
I will.

Speaker 2 (39:25):
I thought he was a great guy, great guy like
he he He and I had had the potential to
have been friends. We could have been friends. What shut
that done?

Speaker 5 (39:35):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (39:36):
His guest, his guess, that's like the guests on the
podcast situation.

Speaker 2 (39:43):
You start putting people on, letting them say what they
want to say about me, and you know, defeeing me. Dog, Now, man,
we ain't probably I see that.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
We're done.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
It be like this, Okay, I got a radio show, right,
somebody come on this show and they going to high
Read and they start talking about Bishop James Kirk Franklin,
they start talking about Tyler Perry and they say something
about said the entertainer or Now that's what not only

(40:13):
not running it, you're not finishing this interview because I'm
not gonna let you do that.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
Yeah, to his friends, yeah, those are his friends.

Speaker 8 (40:21):
Being loyal to your friends ranks higher than oh my friends.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
Hey, my friends, No, are not for clicks. My platform
is not for you to come on here and destroy
another human being. And you are not gonna come over
here and bring down the black culture because because something
going on with you, and you're not coming on this
show and do that.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
And you're saying, Shannon Sharp, let someone on the show
his show talking about you, and that's why you and
Shannon Sharp could never be friends. That's what you're saying.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
I mean, bro, what friendship is loyalty? I get a
lot of stuff wrong, but manhood, I don't but y'all
are court do not get me?

Speaker 4 (41:03):
Right?

Speaker 2 (41:05):
Oh yeah, we called you because I forgive anybody for anything.
I forget. I forgave his guest.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Yeah, okay, all right. Coming up at thirty four minutes
after the hour, Roscoe Wallace will be in the building
right after this.

Speaker 11 (41:19):
You're listening Hardy Morning Show. All right, Carlo, your buddy
Roscoe is in the building.

Speaker 2 (41:30):
What you got.

Speaker 7 (41:34):
Here? Going on?

Speaker 2 (41:35):
Everybody? He shar call it money. We're going on, Tommy,
what's up?

Speaker 7 (41:43):
Baby? You're the man.

Speaker 2 (41:44):
Man, you're the man. You know I knew that going on?

Speaker 4 (41:47):
Going, go on, go on?

Speaker 2 (41:49):
What's happening out there in the in the in the
in the pop culture world? What you got called it?

Speaker 1 (41:55):
All right? Roscoe checked us out.

Speaker 5 (41:56):
So V e.

Speaker 8 (41:57):
T announced that they are doing away with the Soul
Train Music Awards, and.

Speaker 14 (42:02):
It's oh lord, okay, wow o baby, come on, it's
oh oh.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
Whoa for the last time. It ain't doing anything more.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
No, they're not.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
But take us back. Think back to Soul Train, the
actual show.

Speaker 8 (42:28):
Don Cornelius nineteen seventies. I go, do you know the
first yes was the shylights.

Speaker 2 (42:38):
Have you seen?

Speaker 1 (42:40):
Come on hit it?

Speaker 2 (42:42):
Tell me have you seen?

Speaker 7 (42:45):
Wow?

Speaker 4 (42:47):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Why did you ever leave me and go away?

Speaker 11 (42:54):
Like?

Speaker 1 (42:55):
Oh yeah, whoa?

Speaker 2 (43:00):
I've been used to having some wood and me, you know,
and I'm low baby, I'm long.

Speaker 1 (43:12):
Cans who.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
I ain't right?

Speaker 1 (43:17):
So go high for Roscoe the shell lights. That's it's
like falsetto it was. It was you're hard.

Speaker 8 (43:24):
It was softer.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
See that was See they had to change it. I
told him, you told you gotta have more. If you
looking for somebody, you gotta have more sense of urgency.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
Okay, yeah that's how it was.

Speaker 2 (43:42):
How that sounds. I'd rather go there?

Speaker 9 (43:44):
Have you seen?

Speaker 5 (43:45):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (43:47):
Tell me how you see? Then you got more people
looking for you.

Speaker 4 (43:50):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
That's just man y.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
Yeah, it ain't just a song. It's a moment. People
I already got signed. They got as out here now,
they got at poles and stuff you know there. Now
they're out here looking for people. They want whisper, they
got signs over wars, everything like that got on the news,
you know, all right?

Speaker 1 (44:16):
What about the emotions?

Speaker 7 (44:22):
Tu?

Speaker 2 (44:24):
Whoa the best of my love?

Speaker 11 (44:28):
Whoa?

Speaker 5 (44:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (44:32):
Whoa?

Speaker 2 (44:33):
Whoa the best of my love? Whoa the best of
milor it it kind of wall to change ass Come on, Roscoe,
turn on and ain't no learn, ain't ain't know what
happened that right there there loved emotion right there there.

Speaker 8 (44:56):
Yeah, so that that legend legends Soul Train Awards Night,
I mean Soul Trained. The actual TV show Don Corneia
is nineteen seventy. I think it ended up late two thousand.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
But anyway, have you who was your favorite artist to
perform on the Soul Train?

Speaker 2 (45:14):
Average White band on.

Speaker 1 (45:18):
Soul Train, not American band.

Speaker 7 (45:21):
No good?

Speaker 2 (45:22):
What are you talking about? Bend staid Soul Training because
the drummer the only black person in the group. They
was out of scott The only black person in the
group was your drummer, and black people didn't believe that
that was a white group. So the drummer told them
that they had to play live. They was the first
group to perform live on Soul Train.

Speaker 5 (45:43):
Ever.

Speaker 4 (45:43):
Go and look it up.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
Look it up.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
Go on YouTube. You can see the performers. Go look
up average White band on on Soul Training. They got
the good tars connected to the cords and everything. They
did it live, cold cold Wait, Love of you.

Speaker 15 (46:08):
Sooner you get to prank phone call with the nephew
coming up next with Russell sings us out.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
at about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry
letter for today, and get this one. The subject is
I have never been under this much pressure.

Speaker 2 (46:37):
Crash.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
Yeah, pressure pressure. All right, we'll get into it in
just if you find out what that's all about. Yeah,
but right now it is time for the nephew to
bring on the ignorance and the stupid and the funny
with today's prank phone call.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
What you got for us now, Charlie.

Speaker 9 (46:57):
I need some help. I need some child support help
this morning. Okay, child support help. It takes a village, y'all.
It takes a child support help.

Speaker 2 (47:07):
Okay. You see what I'm saying, child support help.

Speaker 4 (47:10):
What does he have to do with it?

Speaker 2 (47:11):
Yeah, I just need his help. I just need him
to claim the bank.

Speaker 4 (47:17):
Dude.

Speaker 2 (47:17):
Dude, dude, I mean give.

Speaker 9 (47:20):
Him his money back. I just need it, you know,
just where it ain't on my on my paperwork. You
see what I'm saying. It takes a village, y'all.

Speaker 2 (47:27):
It takes no it doesn't you make the baby you
paid for.

Speaker 1 (47:32):
It takes a daddy, child support help.

Speaker 9 (47:35):
Okay, all right, every now and then you get yourself
in something, you need somebody to help you out.

Speaker 2 (47:39):
Let's go catch up.

Speaker 7 (47:41):
Hello, Hello, Darius, this me? Who is it?

Speaker 2 (47:45):
Hey?

Speaker 5 (47:45):
There's my name is Lewis Man.

Speaker 7 (47:47):
Lewis.

Speaker 5 (47:47):
I work at check up there with you. We met
when you first your first week at the job. We met, Man,
my name is Lewis. I work on the third floor.
You'll know me when you're seeing you saying Lewis, Lewis.

Speaker 7 (48:00):
I don't remember, no, Lewis Man. You know, I met
a lot of people on that.

Speaker 6 (48:04):
You know, that first day, the first week. So I'm
just really getting acclimatized because it's to the whole situation.

Speaker 5 (48:08):
But I don't I remember. It's all good, it's all good.
I don't even worry about it. Man. Let me answer
you this, Hito. I won't even been with us now.

Speaker 7 (48:16):
Man, Man about a strong musk.

Speaker 5 (48:18):
Man.

Speaker 6 (48:18):
I'm really enjoying it, man, just really getting the swig
and getting to hang everything. So man, I'm just really enjoyed.
It's a great company.

Speaker 11 (48:25):
Man.

Speaker 6 (48:25):
Just happy to be a part of something. Bigger than myself, you.

Speaker 7 (48:27):
Know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (48:28):
So yeah, man, you know what, Man, we can get
you out, man, because you know all the brothers, Man,
we get together hang out on certain nights. You know,
we like once a month, we might we might get
out on the thirty minutes. You got to come hang
out with it and we got to get you out.

Speaker 7 (48:40):
Yeah, man, Okay, yeah, yeah, I rather man. I'm they're
trying to make new friends.

Speaker 5 (48:44):
You know. Show Man. I call you though. I called
you because I'm in a little bit of a jam though, man,
and I was trying to get somebody to help me out. Man.
And by you being a you know, just came into
the company man, you know it might be something you
can actually help me out with. Man. I just you know,
I hate to come in and lean on the friendship
before we even even get started to hang out yet.

(49:05):
But I just I just need a little bit of help. Man.
I'm just hoping maybe you be opening maybe helping me
out on something.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
I'm always willing to help a brother out, bros.

Speaker 7 (49:12):
Just to fit and what's talk about? You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (49:14):
But okay, check this out, man. I ain't really really
want to tell nobody at the job. You know, I
ain't really try to let nobody know my business or whatever.
But but here's the deal, man, Dude, I didn't got
myself in a serious jail.

Speaker 7 (49:26):
Man.

Speaker 5 (49:26):
I got I got a baby on the way, man,
and I got that.

Speaker 7 (49:35):
That's great, man, that's a great no.

Speaker 5 (49:36):
No, no, no, no, no. Now listen, man, listen, listen.
Hit me out though there, I got, I got a
baby on the way. But this ain't this. Ain't this,
ain't this, ain't this ain't from my wife. Man. You say, oh, yeah,
so I'm in a now and the baby dude, like
in the next you know, six weeks, the baby probably

(49:58):
gonna be here. But take but check us out here.
Here's what I'm trying to get.

Speaker 7 (50:04):
Chip. You can do for me, man, is it because any.

Speaker 5 (50:06):
Way, because I know you just now you probably you
probably you probably even got your second check yet, you
know what I'm saying. So wait, but but is there
any way man that you might maybe like claim this
baby from me on your on your uh uh uh
you know where they take the child support out of
your out of your check if they take the child

(50:29):
support out of your check out. But no, listen to me,
they take the child support out of your check, but
I'm gonna give it back to you. I'm gonna give
it back to you. I just don't want my wife
to find out. You see what I'm saying?

Speaker 10 (50:41):
Man, what wait?

Speaker 7 (50:43):
Wait you mean? I mean you're asking me about money
out my out my check.

Speaker 5 (50:50):
But I'm gonna give it back to you every two
weeks when you get your check.

Speaker 7 (50:54):
I'm man, Man, you gotta be out your mind.

Speaker 1 (50:59):
I don't mother.

Speaker 5 (51:00):
You know you?

Speaker 7 (51:01):
Man? What's the man? Man? I got? I got a wife,
the kids of my own. You're not your man. Take God,
but listen to the man.

Speaker 5 (51:13):
Oo man, human reader, who you got that human reach?

Speaker 6 (51:15):
So go take some money out of my mother?

Speaker 7 (51:17):
Say somebody wants my mother.

Speaker 5 (51:20):
God, I got a friend in human resource.

Speaker 7 (51:24):
Man, man, some money out of my check. But then
I got my all those kids to take care of.
This money coming down all chick from all kids. You're talking?
What's wrong with you?

Speaker 5 (51:33):
And how you putting my mother anyway? Man? No, No,
I got your number from one of the one of
the guys at the job.

Speaker 9 (51:39):
Man.

Speaker 7 (51:39):
We're one of the one guys. Man.

Speaker 12 (51:41):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (51:41):
No, no, man, what guys?

Speaker 10 (51:42):
Man?

Speaker 7 (51:42):
I want the phone, talk to this man, talk about
we got a guy and then we got a ha
guy that ain't nothing support you can hit me with
this boy?

Speaker 10 (51:49):
You talk about that?

Speaker 5 (51:50):
Man?

Speaker 7 (51:51):
Hey, so I think this. I thought you right now
the red mus stick start of coming out of my
check man, or we're gonna have some pot.

Speaker 5 (51:59):
What's what's your name?

Speaker 11 (52:00):
The kids?

Speaker 7 (52:00):
Who is my name?

Speaker 2 (52:02):
Lewis Lewis?

Speaker 7 (52:03):
Who Lewis? Who my name?

Speaker 5 (52:06):
Lewis Lewis?

Speaker 7 (52:08):
Don't know? No Lewis Lewis's where I worked at?

Speaker 11 (52:12):
Man?

Speaker 12 (52:13):
Who we met?

Speaker 5 (52:15):
We met the first couple of days you got there, Man.

Speaker 7 (52:19):
Lewis, Man, who is you know? Playing around?

Speaker 5 (52:22):
I say, with money on my check man, And no
all I'm saying, I'm gonna give you the money back.
I'm just saying this.

Speaker 7 (52:30):
All I'm saying is, dog, I touch my What I'm
telling you that right now, and we're gonna have problem. Hey,
Lewis Louis, how you felling? Lewis?

Speaker 5 (52:41):
Man?

Speaker 7 (52:42):
L o U l o U, I s dog, I
was I'm gonna hey, Hey, let's take something I bet
not seeing on Lewis in the morning. I bet you
that I that's what I bet. That's Lewis in the
morning and who is crting human resources player? Played with
my money? You crazy man, trying to hurt my wife,
kill me.

Speaker 5 (53:00):
I might go round down, but I'm trying to get
I'm just trying to get you to look out for me.
I don't want my wife to find this stuff out there,
That's all I'm trying to look out.

Speaker 7 (53:08):
Look out for me? What can look out for me?
And my kids say, take your money out of my shirt?

Speaker 5 (53:13):
No, just just just can you at least baby, take
twenty four hours. Just think about it.

Speaker 7 (53:18):
Man, it ain't nothing enough took out. Man. When it
comes to my money, man tout n I'm gonna tell
you what.

Speaker 2 (53:27):
I tell you what.

Speaker 7 (53:27):
Look you're gonna be that tomorrow morning.

Speaker 5 (53:30):
Yeah, I'm got him. I'm not a marble.

Speaker 7 (53:32):
I mean, what game you about to have? These white
folks see me before you gonna have those seasons? I
garmitee you these white flks.

Speaker 5 (53:38):
I'm gonna be on the news.

Speaker 7 (53:40):
I start praying with my money.

Speaker 6 (53:42):
Hey, you're gonna have to show me.

Speaker 7 (53:44):
And I ain't been on the job. Take low. But
I tell you what, I tell you what, I'm gonna
lose that my somebody play with my money. I guarantee
you that. I glarorityee you.

Speaker 5 (53:54):
Hey, let me ask you this, man, do you think
Dwaynet would have done this for me? Did you think
your cousin Dwayne, you think he would have he would
have cut for me.

Speaker 7 (54:02):
But cousins, what what?

Speaker 5 (54:04):
What?

Speaker 7 (54:04):
What my cousin got to do with this?

Speaker 5 (54:06):
Don Mary, let me tell you what your cousin. Let
me tell you what Dwayne got to do with this?
Is the one that put me up to call you.
This is Nephew Thomas from the Steve Hall the Morning Show.
You just got pranked by your cousin, Dwayne.

Speaker 3 (54:22):
Man.

Speaker 5 (54:29):
This is nephew tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Your cousin Dwayne got me to prank call you brother?

Speaker 7 (54:38):
What I mean?

Speaker 5 (54:39):
Man?

Speaker 12 (54:39):
Hey, man, you know I ain't got my second check yet.
They ain't even trying to get money out of the chair.

Speaker 7 (54:53):
I mean, boy, you keep playing a man. Somebody goes,
whoop yo you for this?

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We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry LETTA.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
Thank you nephew. Subject. I've never been under this much pressure.
Just Stephen Shirley. I had a living girlfriend for three
years and I came home one day and she had
moved out. She told me that she needed and she
felt like she was wasting her time with me. I
went and talked to her parents and they said that
I need to marry her or let her go. I've

(57:08):
never in my life been under pressure like this. She's
almost thirty and she still tells her parents everything. I
started telling my sister and her husband what was going
on with my girlfriend. My sister said I need to
let my girlfriend go because she is childish and should
have talked to me before she left. But her husband

(57:28):
said that my girlfriend loves me and she's trying to
get my attention. She was staying at her friend's house
and said she needed to clear her head. Two weeks ago,
she had a vase full of roses in her car
when we went to talk. When we met to talk,
she said she bought the flowers for herself. She also
has dyed her hair and started back wearing her extension

(57:50):
her hair extensions. She stopped doing her hair for me
over a year ago. Last week, she came by my
house to get her TV from the living room. She
was driving a Burgundy as with a Sigma tag on
the front. I saw her in the camera and I
called her to ask whose car she was driving. She
told me it's her friend's car who's helping her to
get settled at her new place. I didn't even know

(58:11):
she'd moved into her own place. In my mind, we
were still a couple and working on our relationship. My
sister said, my girlfriend is playing me for a fool,
and I need to turn the tables and start acting
like I don't care. I'm scared to do that. My
sister's husband said, I'm the one playing games and I
lost my girl because I won't commit. Is she waiting

(58:35):
for me to marry her or has she left me?

Speaker 8 (58:38):
What do I do well?

Speaker 1 (58:42):
She's living her best life right now, that's for sure,
and after three years of nothing, what do you expect.
I mean, if she'll listen, you can try to catch
up with her and try to talk to her. You
certainly have nothing to lose now. But please understand, no
woman wants to No woman, I should say, wants to
be in a going absolutely nowhere relationship. That was your

(59:05):
mistake doing nothing to move the relationship forward. I mean,
like she said, she needed to clear her head. She's
got to start thinking of herself now. She's got her
biological clock to consider. She's probably wanting a family and
children by now. And she's given you three years and
no ring, no nothing. Your brother in law, I think Nail,

(59:26):
did she left because you won't commit. Excuse me. It's
too bad you didn't appreciate her in the three years
that you had her. You had her right there, because
sooner or later, women do realize that they're giving way
more than they're getting and they stop allowing men to
use them and take them for granted. I mean, they
rediscover who they were before you and focus in on

(59:48):
what they really want. You had a great run with
her for those three years. Now she's had it with you,
and your time is up. What do you do, you
ask if this is not about ego for you, and
this is truly the woman you want to be with
and you want to spend the rest of your rest
of your life with. Now, I suggest you go to her,
try to get her back. Like I said earlier, ask

(01:00:10):
her out for dinner or something so you guys can talk.
If she says no, this ship has sailed. If she
says yes, then maybe you have a chance. But if
you're not serious about committing this time, let her go
and don't waste another second of her time.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
Steve, this letter is so, so, so simple to me.
You're torn between trying to figure out the advice you're
receiving from your sister and her husband. That's the advice
you're torn bed behind. But see, you can stop all that.

(01:00:49):
I'm so shocked with me me, and always be surprised.
I've never been under this much pressure. Bruh. What it
ain't even about you being underpressure. There's nothing in this
letter that has you underpressure. You've never been this confused,

(01:01:10):
But you ain't under no pressure. You got living in
girlfriend for three years, you came home one day, she
moved out. Just one day she moved out. You came
home and all of a sudden, she gone, well, you
ain't see none of this coming, no, no, you everything
was peachy keen. And you came home and one day
she had moved out. I doubt that, brother. She told

(01:01:33):
me she needed space and she felt like she was
wasting her time with me. Well, she need her space.
That means y'all not growing and you waste She will
feel like she wasting her time with me, which means
you're not only growing, you ain't going nowhere. So now
this is all for nothing, according to her. Then you
went and talked to her parents, and they said you

(01:01:56):
need to marry her or let her go. Dog, you've
been living with this woman in three years. Sin, that's
what the ladies and ladies and young people just whoever,
if you've lived with a person three years, what is
the decision you're trying to make?

Speaker 7 (01:02:08):
Now?

Speaker 2 (01:02:10):
You done live with somebody three years? Ladies, let me
tell you something right now about men. If we move
you in, we already know if we want to marry
you or not. If we move you in, we already
know if we want to marry you or not. Now,
if he ain't asked you to marry him when he
asks you to move in, then he just wants you

(01:02:31):
to move in. Sometimes you want the cow without buying
the milk, or you want the milk without buying the cow.
However you want to look at it. It happens all
the time. I don't know why y'all seem to think
that moving in with somebody is a prelude to marriage.
How does that work out for y'all? Because now you're
sitting there because you're doing all your wifely duties and

(01:02:55):
he getting all the benefits of a wife. But he
ain't got to pay the cost. He ain't got to
buy you no ring. He gotta make no commitment.

Speaker 7 (01:03:03):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:03:04):
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Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
I've never been under this much pressure. Boy.

Speaker 2 (01:03:59):
You ain't even under press. You're just confused right now.
You're playing dumb. But I can't let you slide. You've
been a living girlfriend for three years. You came home
one day, she moved out, just like that, and then
she told you she needed some space and felt like
she was wasting her time with me. Now you ain't

(01:04:19):
talk to her. You went over her parents' house. They
said you need to marry her or let her go,
because they sit over there looking at Joe. What y'all
playing house for? It's been three years? What are you
waiting on? She's almost thirty and she still tells her
parents everything. Didn't you go over there to hear what
the parents had to say? She telling her parents everything

(01:04:44):
because you ain't talking to her. Had you been talking
to her, you would have known any day now she
about to move out. See, but you're too busy playing.
I'm dumb and I'm under pressure. Now I guess you
think it's pressure because, as the parents say, you need
to marry her or let her go, because if you're

(01:05:04):
in love with the woman, what you're waiting on? What
you're trying to get together? Because, like I said, ladies,
stopped thinking that moving in with a man is a
prelude to marriage, because it's not. It doesn't promise you
anything because he's getting what he well, he gets the
chick of his dreams, and but you don't get the
day of your dreams. Your day of your dreams is
a wedding. His dream is a chick. He get the

(01:05:27):
chick without the wedding. Bingo. How many times have men
came in here and got the milk without buying the cow,
But you're passing our milk every day. She done got
tired of you went over that. Then after you talk
to your parents, you went and told your sister. Now
your sister says you need to let the girlfriend go
because she's childish and she should have talked to you
before she left. Your sister is one hundred percent correct.

(01:05:50):
She is one hundred percent correct. But then guess what,
But her husband said that my girlfriend loves me and
she's trying to get my attention. She was staying at
her friend's house and said she needed to clear her head.
Two weeks ago, she had a vase full of roses
in her car when we met to talk. She said
she bought the flowers for herself, really in a vase,

(01:06:14):
in a vase, then in the back seat. You know
why they was in the back seat because they was
on her desk at work. You know what, she taking
them flowers to home. Women don't do flowers like that.
They do it different. They come to their house. They don't.
They don't go up to the store and buy roses
and vases. They get it delivered to the house. They

(01:06:36):
got over each now and then here we go. She's
also dyed her hair and started back to wearing hair extensions.
She stopped doing her hair for me over a year ago. Well,
this ain't about you no more, Okay. Last week she
came by the house to get her TV from the

(01:06:57):
living room. She was driving the burgundy sue V with
a Sigma tag on the front. You didn't let a
Sigma take your girl, boy, I'm not fitting left. You
already know everybody know what I'm talking about. That's that's
a little D nine shade. You let a Sigma come
up in and take your girl.

Speaker 5 (01:07:16):
Boy, What.

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
That's all I got to get. Shout out the blue fire,
Shout out the blue fire. I've been with this fresh
since seventy six. I ain't never heard nobody say you
better watch some sigmas. Man who that get your girl
never had a diamond on the front of his car.
We'd all understood that he just shimmy this way on
up into your little girl's life, had little can toil

(01:07:39):
and and everything, and got your attendance. She gone anyway,
Shout out the blue fire. Some great signals out there,
Jedthnny Brown, Emmy Smith, all four of you, so anyway.

Speaker 1 (01:07:54):
Lots of shade, lots of She was driving.

Speaker 2 (01:07:57):
The Burgundy SUV with a Sigma til he ain't even
get a I'll be what countients of this right here,
she'd have got a blue as viva. No, he gonna
get burgled with that, That's what I'm anyway, she told
me and her friends. She told me it was her
friend's card. That's true. Who's helping her get settled in
in her new place? That's true too. He's a sigma
and he's helping her get to settled into his new place.

(01:08:19):
She didn't lie. I didn't even know she moved into
her own place. In my mind, we steal a couple
that's in your mind, and we've been working on our relationship.
My sister said, my girlfriend is playing me for a fool,
and I need to turn the tables and start acting
like I don't care. I'm scared to do that, and
you should be scared. You got sigmas taking your woman's

(01:08:40):
You need to be scared of a lot of things.
My sister, her husband said, I'm the one playing games
and I lost my girl because I won't come in.
Is she waiting for me to marry her? Or has
she left me? What did I do? And she gone? Dog?
She came onto the house, got TV off the wall.
When women come over and take TV's off walls, they

(01:09:03):
gone over.

Speaker 10 (01:09:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:09:04):
When women settling in to the new place, they gone.
When the woman who stopped wearing extensions for you a
year ago is back to extensions and to dye her hair,
she gone. When a woman get her own place, she gone.
When a friend help her move, she gone. Now let
me tell you something right quick. It's too late. You
are too late, and both your sister and her husband

(01:09:26):
is right. Your sister moved out. She should have talked
to you, but bounced all of a sudden. She's right,
but that's from a reaction because you ain't doing nothing,
wasting her time. One is the result of the other.
She gone because you didn't do your job. Jody got
your gallon gone, and Jody is a sigma.

Speaker 12 (01:09:46):
God.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
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and Facebook.

Speaker 2 (01:09:53):
Everything in that letter, that sigma with the lights of
plate on that burgery cart.

Speaker 3 (01:09:58):
God.

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Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
Shout out Man.

Speaker 1 (01:10:04):
Coming up next, it is Tommy after all that shade.
Coming up next. Tommy is in for Junior. But will
we do sports? We'll find out today what Tommy has
for us. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show.

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All Right, ladies and gentlemen, Tommy is in for Junior
because Junior's out. Tommy, You've been doing great all week
substituting for Junior and you're filling in for him. What
do you have for us today, sir?

Speaker 2 (01:11:02):
All Right, Shirley is getting out of hand. It is
getting out of hand, right.

Speaker 9 (01:11:07):
This was the first this this is the third time
at a w NBA game a sex toy has been
thrown onto the court during the game.

Speaker 2 (01:11:15):
Y'all know that now.

Speaker 9 (01:11:16):
The first time, yep, yep, check it out now. The
first time they threw a deal on the court was
a July twenty ninth during the Vakties and the Dream.
They had a game in College Park, Georgia, second time
with last Friday doing Golden State versus Chicago game, and
it happened a third time on Tuesday as a Sparks
played the Fever in Los Angeles, now doing the second
court Anon check it out. A Neon green deal though,

(01:11:40):
flew out onto the court and hit Indiana Sophie cutting hands.

Speaker 2 (01:11:44):
Yes it did. She was kicked off the court on
the game.

Speaker 9 (01:11:46):
They started the game back up and there was an
arrest made recently and the sex toy thrower got it,
got arrested, and they cracking down on what's being brought
into the games.

Speaker 2 (01:11:58):
Yeah, she kicked it on the court, and I don't
know if it was owned. That's what I really didn't
want to know if it was on or not on.
You know what one they got. But it's green, and
it's shaky, and it's and it's and you got hit with.

Speaker 5 (01:12:16):
You guys.

Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
It kind of looked like a fishy lure.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
Here's the thing, though, it was, where is there?

Speaker 8 (01:12:24):
I thought you had metal detectives when you go into
these games and you know they.

Speaker 2 (01:12:29):
Ain't metal, that ain't hell about well by you know,
good and well all them things ain't metal. But I'm saying,
like a lot of the videos, you need a hard
plastic detector if you're gonna start doing this. Help Wow,
metal metal, get all them met look metal, get all

(01:12:49):
them right up out of there. I come on, come on,
let's go dump them ladies, dump them, dump them. If
the toy can get in, if your phone can get
into toy.

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
What your tickets is on the phone.

Speaker 8 (01:13:01):
So they usually have clear bag policies at these venues
where you go in, Like if you're a woman and
you have a purse, your bag has to be a
certain clear.

Speaker 1 (01:13:12):
It wants to be clear.

Speaker 2 (01:13:13):
They don't do that at the game. Yes, they do
that when you leave in your departments, though, job they ain't.
You can't make these women, these women got.

Speaker 1 (01:13:28):
That's the rule in that fail games, high school games.
Clear bag. So I don't know, but clear what's the
point the point of this?

Speaker 7 (01:13:40):
What do they do?

Speaker 2 (01:13:41):
What is the point of why deal on the car?

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (01:13:45):
Yes, a terrible vicious prank, I guess yeah, no prank?

Speaker 3 (01:13:52):
Well what is it?

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
Silly?

Speaker 2 (01:13:55):
I bet you written the ground we want them, I bet.

Speaker 1 (01:13:59):
Coming up at the top of the hour, a matron
of honor was invited to her sister's wedding and she
needs some advice. Right after this, you're listening to the
Steve Harvey Morning Show. See this is from Daisy and
John's Creek. Daisy says, I have my third child in January,
and I haven't lost the weight that I wanted to lose.

(01:14:21):
Before my sister's wedding, she asked me to be her
matron of honor, and as the wedding gets closer, I
have my dress alter to hide the parts of my
body that I'm not comfortable with. I didn't see it
as a big deal, but when I showed it to
my sister, she flipped out because my dress is slightly
different than the other bridesmaid's dresses. She said, she doesn't
want me to mess with her wedding, so I shouldn't come.

(01:14:44):
I love her and I want to see her get married.
Should I go as a regular guest or skip it
like she requested?

Speaker 2 (01:14:50):
Wow, now you go ahead. But if she was a bridemaid,
wasn't she going to be in the way.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
Yeah, well she was a matron of honor. Yeah she's gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:14:59):
Oh oh oh oh. The matron honor is like the
best man.

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
Yeah, exactly, Yeah, the matron I'm honored, Yeah, is man.

Speaker 2 (01:15:07):
She don't want to in there cause.

Speaker 1 (01:15:08):
She's fat, well because she altered to the dreams be dressed. Yeah,
because she wanted to hide some of the.

Speaker 2 (01:15:15):
No no no no no no no no no no
no no no. Baby wait, okay, baby wait, I look,
she just had the baby in January. Yeah, it take time. Months.

Speaker 8 (01:15:28):
Can't take that off of you in six months. Yeah,
it took me seventeen years. Yeah, it takes time.

Speaker 2 (01:15:37):
You gotta be paid because I'm telling you right now
because after winter, I didn't get this stomach off meat
to him.

Speaker 1 (01:15:45):
See how old is he?

Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
He twenty eight?

Speaker 5 (01:15:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:15:52):
So is her sister? The bride kind of being means
her rides up.

Speaker 2 (01:15:56):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, she don't want to fastist than
with That's what it ain't cause she that altered the dress.
She sat. Well, y'all, what what what you think this about?

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
Yeah, just about the way is different than the other.

Speaker 8 (01:16:12):
I was just getting ready to say that the maid
of honor and the matron of honor dresses can be
different from the bridle parts.

Speaker 2 (01:16:18):
Yeah, but it depends on the change she made to
the dress. If you didn't have to take let me
tell you what's wrong here. Yeah, but if you didn't
have to take the dress apart from the breast down,
and you didn't have to use the bed sheet now
we got a different look.

Speaker 1 (01:16:39):
Now I had my dress altered to hide the parts
of my body that I'm not comfortable with. Altered with
what other material?

Speaker 4 (01:16:49):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (01:16:49):
That not?

Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
What like tent fabric?

Speaker 2 (01:16:52):
What did you using all this?

Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
My dress is slightly different than the other brides maid's dresses. Slightly,
that's what she said.

Speaker 2 (01:17:01):
Man, who altered this dress?

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
I see them dress.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
Some lady down at the church. That's so, you know.
And now the bride and looked at this little raggedy dress.
Now you're up in here looking you're in here looking amish.
Now you we're not to have this. I'm just telling
you right now. You're not coming to my wedding looking
like you're finna make some butter. That's not what you're

(01:17:28):
gonna do. Sitting up in here looking like you ought
to be on the cracker barrel sign. We're not having
this in the wedding. Is her big sister? It is, yeah,
key worried big sister right there, older older, but the
older sister is big sister. That's what it's all about.

(01:17:54):
Now we can't write no Joe right here. That's like,
oh that's what it is. Oh, now we can't write
no joke for we had no baby. This ain't about pregnancy.
This is about this. She don't want the girl in
the wedging with the altared gown that now looks like she'
Amish and we' in here fitting to make a new bond.

(01:18:17):
You're not hill like you tend to make some new
wheels to go on this carriage.

Speaker 4 (01:18:23):
I hate you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:24):
You now even got a why don't we just put
a bonnet on her and all the rest of the
brides maid and just call it an homige wedding, And
don't feel me cause they don't like cameras.

Speaker 1 (01:18:33):
Nowhere dupid and I hate you right now. I hate
both of them.

Speaker 2 (01:18:39):
And you're not coming in here on no white carriage
and white horse. You're gonna get the black horse and
the black mother like the rest of the Amish people
got with that triangle on the back.

Speaker 1 (01:18:48):
That's what you're coming twenty minutes. We'll have this ignorant
show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show all right now, if you're ready to love?
Is all new tonight on Own at eight pm, seven Central.
Now last week, now, last week, the guy's met the

(01:19:11):
girl's exes and those meetings went well for the most part.
That was for TV, though, But in real life, is
it smart and put this question out there? Is it
smart to let your new love interest meet your ex?

Speaker 9 (01:19:25):
I told y'all this, I tried to do a prank
on this. This is how you get you know, this
is how you get some referrals on what happened in
the past.

Speaker 2 (01:19:34):
This is that resume. You get to look back and
see how things went. You get to you know, no, no, no,
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:19:43):
And so y'all, prior to being now call it, you
wouldn't have wanted to meet your husband's ex.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
I don't need to meet her, and he don't need
to meet my ex.

Speaker 9 (01:19:54):
Well we know, well it's never that boy still getting
his car fixed. I mean we know about that.

Speaker 1 (01:20:02):
We'll still get in their car fixed. Mom oh oh,
that's not what you're gonna do. Not not Today's climbing allegedly.

Speaker 9 (01:20:12):
Mad tonight, babyta you gotta watch the show ready love
They got a sexy, sexy host.

Speaker 2 (01:20:18):
Oh my god, and it is tonight.

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
Yeah, they gotta guess what happened is.

Speaker 2 (01:20:28):
Serious? Right now?

Speaker 3 (01:20:29):
Philly?

Speaker 5 (01:20:30):
Is it?

Speaker 7 (01:20:30):
Philly?

Speaker 2 (01:20:31):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:20:32):
We got we're almost out of time. I gotta say this,
Ready to love Philly. It's all new tonight at eight
seven Central on own Now coming up with thirty three
minutes after the hour, we will play a game of
would you rather? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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And it's time now for a rounded Would you rather?
What's most important to you? Your skincare regimen or your
Manny's and your petty? Which one both?

Speaker 2 (01:21:32):
All that?

Speaker 7 (01:21:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:21:35):
No, I gotta get this my hands done. I had
them cards in my hand on the game shooting. We
got a hold on a microphone, he got a little record.
I ain't got no skincare regiment nowhere. I usually just
got on my face What are you putting on your face?
I say lotion? See that's body lotion? Is my face

(01:21:55):
on my you?

Speaker 9 (01:21:59):
What does too?

Speaker 2 (01:22:00):
Confusion? You know she got all them different stuff she
put on at night. My wife looks a lot younger
than she really is. Yeah, yeah, me, I ain't got mine.
I know it's over.

Speaker 1 (01:22:16):
If you're rich, so don't worry about it. Would you
rather have one front tooth that's longer than the other,
or would you rather have a unibrow?

Speaker 2 (01:22:23):
Which?

Speaker 11 (01:22:23):
Why?

Speaker 7 (01:22:24):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:22:24):
Give me the unibrow. What I'm not fit to do
is open my mouth even too. Yeah, and with big lips.
You know how many times I'm biting my lip for
both my bottom lip? There gonna be toe.

Speaker 7 (01:22:41):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (01:22:41):
In tonight's game? Would you rather the Cleveland Browns or
the Carolina Panthers.

Speaker 2 (01:22:48):
I'm gonna go with the Panthers. I gotta go.

Speaker 1 (01:22:53):
Wow a good punch.

Speaker 2 (01:22:56):
I don't even understand the hatefulness in that question. You
must have put until the hateful can I be to
him on the right? Got quarterback?

Speaker 4 (01:23:14):
What do you want?

Speaker 1 (01:23:15):
The Browns are the Panthers? That's the question I've.

Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
Been wanting to brown and how that's worked out?

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
What you got Bryce Young. Is he playing tonight? The
young quarterback for the Panthers.

Speaker 4 (01:23:28):
I like him?

Speaker 2 (01:23:30):
Yeah, he on Straight Struggles Street.

Speaker 1 (01:23:32):
Yeah, get this year.

Speaker 2 (01:23:35):
Rice Young is in the wrong system. They're not small, So.

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
Tell me why did you pick the Panthers? I think
that kind of hurts you because they got.

Speaker 9 (01:23:43):
One quarterback and they can make a decision over there
on the other one. They got fired six some of them.
They don't know what they're doing.

Speaker 1 (01:23:51):
We're rooting for your door, of course, everybody. What'd you say, Steve?

Speaker 2 (01:23:57):
Why would I care about what tom thinks? Tommy, let's stop, stop,
stop off what I care about what he thinks?

Speaker 1 (01:24:13):
We're moving on before we start a family feud?

Speaker 5 (01:24:16):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:24:17):
Would you rather buy all the groceries for the family
or cook all the meals by or neither the opposite
of both.

Speaker 2 (01:24:27):
I'm not hooking for my family.

Speaker 1 (01:24:29):
Hell no, all right, that's today's round. Would you rather
think we upseessed?

Speaker 5 (01:24:35):
Here?

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
Uncle Tommy coming up next. It is our last break
of the day, and we'll close out the show with
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to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
All right, guys, here we are on this Friday, our
last break of the day. It's been a fun day.
Thank you guys. Appreciate you for listen this week every day. Yeah,
have a great weekend.

Speaker 2 (01:25:37):
Let me see what I could do for closing remarks today.
Any subject y'all need cover? Question? Anybody else?

Speaker 8 (01:25:46):
I think we kind of talked about it from soft
Air on the air about prioritizing any regrets about your life.

Speaker 1 (01:25:54):
You know, we talked about your dreams. You know that,
any regrets you.

Speaker 2 (01:25:59):
Know, listen, you know, listen. I was having a conversation
last night with my sons and they pretty much asked
me the same thing. They said, Dad, if you could
do anything in your life over, what would you do? Look.
Of course, knowing what I know now, I would have

(01:26:22):
made so many different decisions. But at the time I
made the decision based on the information I had, and
the experience I had, and my maturity level. And a
lot of times when you make mistakes, it's because you
are making a decision without all the information, without thinking

(01:26:45):
it through, without the experience. But that's how you gain experience.
There's a saying that says experience is priceless. It's a
shame you have to pay for it with your youth. Man,
oh man, oh man, how true is that? But I
you know, as I was telling them the mistakes I made.
Behind every mistake I made, God still worked out his

(01:27:08):
plan and purpose for me, even in the decisions I make.
Because listen to me, y'all. We are all human beings,
but God has given us. We are the one creature
that He created that He gave the power of choice
to birds, lions, snakes, spiders. They don't have choices. This
is what they are, this is what they do. A

(01:27:30):
bird don't get to decide I'm gonna be a camel, No,
a bird is going to be a bird.

Speaker 4 (01:27:36):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (01:27:37):
You get to decide. I'm gonna be a doctor, I'm
gonna be a radio host, I'm gonna play football, I'm
gonna be a lawyer. You get to choose, You get
to choose who you marry. You get to do all
of this by choice. So in the power of choice,
I was talking to them, and they said, Dad, would

(01:27:58):
you have done anything differently? What do you wish you
had then that you had now? I said, a better
relationship with God. I would have ran everything by him first,
But because he gave me the power of choice. Do
you know how many times we make choices because it's
what we want and now it ain't got nothing to
do with the will of God. But God gives us
the power of choice, so he let us do it.

(01:28:19):
Do you know how many times you've thrown yourself off
course with your power of choice? Do you have any
idea how many times you have delayed your blessing simply
because of your power of choice? And then God has
to now take the time to work out his plan
and purpose for you anyway in spite of your decisions.

(01:28:43):
And now you're sitting up here wondering why the blessing
is delayed, and then some of us give up on
it because we think it's been denied. No, oftentimes it's
not denied. It has just been delayed. But it had
to be delayed because of the decision you made. God
can't give you everything you want if you with the
wrong person. He can't do that because guess what, they

(01:29:07):
will benefit too, and they won't appreciate what He gave you,
and they'll ruin it and bring it down. So before
God give it to you and let somebody else be
the cause of your demise, maybe that's why you haven't
gotten it. I can't tell you how many times that
then worked out that way for me. Whoo whoo. I
could not understand why God was not giving me what

(01:29:29):
I asked for at that particular moment. And then later
on I realized, Oh, I see he didn't want this person,
or he had to remove this person, or he had
to introduce me to this person. It's a process. When
you ask God for something, quit being selfish and thinking
it's just about you. You are connected to hundreds of

(01:29:50):
people in your life, so when God do something for
you or to you, it has a domino effect. You really,
you really think it's about you. I don't know why
God won't go on and bless me with that, because
who you win? But then guess what the who you
win is your decision. I don't know why I'm not

(01:30:14):
married yet. You don't think about the decisions you've made.
I can assure you if you sit back and you
take an inventory, you will discover. Because God has given
us the power of choice is the very reason that
we are where we are today. We are a sum
total of our thoughts. I who I am, You who

(01:30:35):
you are because of how we thought. Now, if you
don't like where you are, you got changed where you think.
But you know when that can happen immediately? Well what
you mean immediately? See, soon as you get through thinking
like that, you can start changing. But everything starts with
a thought. You can't get rich if you keep doing

(01:30:57):
post of You can't meet mister Wright, if you steady
involved with mister Wrong and that don't make no sense, y'all.
You can't climb the corporate letter. If you keep laying
in bed. You can't get hired if you don't go

(01:31:18):
out looking for work. Look, y'all, we all make decisions.
I wish I had done some things differently, but God
worked his plan for me anyway, and that's why it
took so long, because He had to undo some of
my decisions. So now what I told my sons was

(01:31:40):
I wish I had read everything by God in the
first place. I could have saved myself a lot of pains.
Those are my clothesing remarks today. Run it by God. First,
talk to God today. You'd absolutely love you from your peace.

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